Things They Don't Tell You About Marriage - Men's Perspective | FT Kibunjah, Ben Cyco & Shiv Simani

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
  • Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to the season THREE of Best Kept Secrets.
    On this episode, our host Sharon K speaks to Ben Cyco, Shiv Simani and Kibunjah on things they don't tell you about marriage: Men's perspective.
    Please let us know your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to share, like and subscribe!

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  • @moraaogaro8590
    @moraaogaro8590 10 месяцев назад +108

    Shiv has a very calm Aura....really balanced out the energy in the room .. loved it

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 10 месяцев назад +156

    Ben stays hilarious 😅😅😅 such a wholesome episode.. we're giving Sharon her flowers cause this season she really ATE with all the guests and topics

  • @lubimo9810
    @lubimo9810 10 месяцев назад +90

    When i see Ben, I'm guaranteed to laugh😂😂😂

  • @wanjikunjuguna8650
    @wanjikunjuguna8650 10 месяцев назад +43

    Is it me or Shiv sounds like he could be Dr. Love 🤔😅

  • @wangarinyambura9797
    @wangarinyambura9797 10 месяцев назад +40

    Sooo refreshing to hear men speaking highly of their wives ❤❤
    kibunja ni G 🤣, Ben is just a comedian 🤣🤣, and then something about Shiv's voice that makes you just want to listen to him more and more 🤩🤩

  • @estelschannelec8790
    @estelschannelec8790 10 месяцев назад +42

    Loved this episode,men glorifying marriage and giving their wives credit to them being wholesome humans contrary to the negative marriage narrative out here...this was great Sharon

  • @Sintamei_
    @Sintamei_ 10 месяцев назад +52

    "Sometimes i threaten her with kwashiakor!" Ben 2023😂😂

    • @pinto5297
      @pinto5297 10 месяцев назад +2

      Nmecheka yangu yote.. atleast someone else understand that 😂

  • @Sintamei_
    @Sintamei_ 10 месяцев назад +37

    Ben is so funny 😂 his sense of humor is it!
    Looking good girl❤ loved the face beat

  • @ednamakori2967
    @ednamakori2967 10 месяцев назад +27

    Great episode! My POV is I don't think that women are homemakers. I think we are trained to be homemakers from childhood . If boys were trained in the same way as girls, they would also be homemakers. Being a homemaker is not an intrinsic trait, it is taught.

    • @gracemumbi6219
      @gracemumbi6219 9 месяцев назад +2

      Totally agree. We're damned by the "culture" & "society".

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 10 месяцев назад +33

    The way sharon is preparing herself vicariously through this and previous segments with her guests❤❤❤I am here to see you grow in your marriage and motherhood on God and Love.
    I am learning as well before I get there....thank you Sharon ❤.

  • @imungukalevera8671
    @imungukalevera8671 10 месяцев назад +38

    We have had an episode with men only. When you had Mantalk on what gives men the ick. So refreshing to see more content where men are speaking highly of women and in genuine self reflection too. Love it.

    • @marywairimu8060
      @marywairimu8060 10 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly in season one.we had Eli and Oscar let's help our girl keep track. ❤

    • @bestkeptsecretspod
      @bestkeptsecretspod  10 месяцев назад +6

      Haha it completely slipped my mind. Thanks for the reminder ❤

  • @carennangila
    @carennangila 10 месяцев назад +16

    Loving this .This really makes singles appreciate marriage. Positivity and learning. This guys are hilarious 😂 😂

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 10 месяцев назад +30

    Kibunja really loves Esther.and He is right you keep pursuing your wife❤❤

    • @naxiz_kenya2805
      @naxiz_kenya2805 10 месяцев назад +1

      That's so true but how do you deal with a wife who's decided to give u hell morning to morning most of the time for reasons you have zero idea of.

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 10 месяцев назад

      @@naxiz_kenya2805 communication talk to her and know what is wrong most people project what they are feeling inside and therapy also helps alot

    • @nellyonserio896
      @nellyonserio896 6 месяцев назад

      They are literally soulamtes❤❤❤

  • @moraaogaro8590
    @moraaogaro8590 10 месяцев назад +11

    Esther....you were truly chosen for such a time as this 😂😂😂

  • @marywairimu8060
    @marywairimu8060 10 месяцев назад +6

    I could watch this over and over again. Wise men to be emulated right here 👏

  • @PearlAjuna-od7qe
    @PearlAjuna-od7qe 10 месяцев назад +10

    This has been such a lovely episode. Generally actually, this podcast gives such calm vibes that I absolutely love❤. You can really tell that Sharon is really living in her purpose with this. I LOVE IT!

  • @mercykeli
    @mercykeli 10 месяцев назад +12

    I enjoyed this episode more than the Ladies one. I like listening to men who are in touch with themselves and value women without the weird school of thought that makes some men think that that makes them weak. If you know how to love your woman, she will make you the most happiest man ever.

  • @Eunice-lefty
    @Eunice-lefty 10 месяцев назад +2

    Couldn't miss this for anything with Ben cyco in it I knew it was going to be lit

  • @dorineojodo5927
    @dorineojodo5927 10 месяцев назад +3

    Know thyself.....know thy spouse

  • @JustJerry-x8n
    @JustJerry-x8n 10 месяцев назад +5

    This is the first time i am watching anything from this channel and all i can say is, What a way to end the season!👏👏👏

  • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
    @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 9 месяцев назад +2

    Such a beautiful conversations . Your wives are beautiful crowns on your heads. Endeleeni kuwapenda vizuri

  • @natiesown
    @natiesown 10 месяцев назад +2

    Just catching up on this episode this morning!❤️❤️ Thank you so much for this, this was such a heartwarming episode! I love how the men were speaking so positively and lovingly about their wives❤️✨

  • @gracemumbi6219
    @gracemumbi6219 10 месяцев назад +1

    Why do men have a problem introducing their wives by their names? Kudos to the two guests who did it unprompted - I'm impressed!🎉🎉🎉

  • @happeningske
    @happeningske 2 месяца назад

    Great conversation. Great stuff. Keep it up!!!

  • @olivekabisa2914
    @olivekabisa2914 9 месяцев назад +4

    Get you someone who looks at you the way Ben looks at Shiv.

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 10 месяцев назад +9

    26:37 love when shiv said it is A HEALTHY THING....❤❤❤let that sink in 💯💯
    😂😂😂🔥nmekumbuka Kuna ex nlikuwa naye alikuwa anaishi kama wild animal....nliturn up na pillows ju zake alikuwa ametupa kwa wardrobe zimechapa khae mem can survive
    ...iyo ya windows na curtains wololo tusianze I had to drag him to kamukunji we shopped for curtains and towels nachukuwa za white anapiga nduru😂😂adi pegs eiiii men...he comes home anapata nmepika na nmeenda wueeeh wuehh thanks to the roaming chef alikuwa anaona vitu ziko out of this world 😂😂😂💯🔥💯men love a good meal na usidanganywe usipikie your man

  • @nyamburaroseanne7286
    @nyamburaroseanne7286 10 месяцев назад +6

    Lakini Ben and banter same Whatsapp...I loved the conversation

  • @nellygatwiri6481
    @nellygatwiri6481 9 месяцев назад +2

    Hello i have been listening to your podcasts,and most are on how people heal from cycles, friendships and many things which i learn alot,my request is would you kindly help us have guests who can as well discuss about how they grew up in a good environment maybe with good role models,friendships, parents,maybe work and how it shaped who they are today and how they are doing life positively,like kuwe na a difference of what we listen 😮😮

  • @twentytwo3840
    @twentytwo3840 10 месяцев назад +25

    Uuuiii shiv is so fynn❤

    • @rosechepkorir7709
      @rosechepkorir7709 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂true but was the uuui necessary

    • @andrewkifee381
      @andrewkifee381 6 месяцев назад

      Women always want what they can't have

  • @mercywakithinji
    @mercywakithinji 10 месяцев назад +1

    Mmm... Great conversation... Its nice to hear that guys appreciate our orderness..
    Let's keep the game up gals❤

  • @nkathapamela5703
    @nkathapamela5703 10 месяцев назад +6

    It's a beautiful day 😍😊,,this is an amazing piece

  • @throughallthings1148
    @throughallthings1148 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hii episode ni fire,we have learnt alot and can we just talk of how this guys are appreciative to their partners,may GOD HELP US GET SUCH PARTNERS🙏🙏🙏

  • @joangathoni1783
    @joangathoni1783 10 месяцев назад +10

    Love how they are starting sentences...
    My wife....my wife...🥹🥹

  • @stephniek
    @stephniek 10 месяцев назад +3

    Best episode so far, the panel was amazing 🎉

  • @caramel9244
    @caramel9244 10 месяцев назад +2

    Great topic, ideas & content! 👌🏾

  • @emmamutash
    @emmamutash 10 месяцев назад +17

    This is one of the episodes I've enjoyed watching..... I'd love to see more of Ben, he's so real and his sense of humor is top notch....does he have a channel?

  • @brayomwangi8826
    @brayomwangi8826 10 месяцев назад +4

    How did Ben not speak in Kikuyu today😂😂😂 good vibes 🎉🎉

  • @lucyrose1782
    @lucyrose1782 10 месяцев назад +21

    Ben akiwa,lazima ucheke 😅.

  • @rosemarychege4992
    @rosemarychege4992 10 месяцев назад +3

    Season 3 has been so wholesome and amazing. Loved it so much. Big up Sharon ❤

    • @mmbonestacy3189
      @mmbonestacy3189 9 месяцев назад +1

      This was so informative Sharon thanks for the good content.You just earned other subscriber❤🥂

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 10 месяцев назад +1

    What a powerful way ..💗💗💗 the openness in this episode thanks 🙏🏾

  • @bedandbreakfastpodcast
    @bedandbreakfastpodcast 10 месяцев назад +2

    Such a lovely conversation

  • @anjelinethiongo423
    @anjelinethiongo423 10 месяцев назад +5

    Aaaawwwww such a beautiful combooo ... Heeey Sharon your podcast is just it 🎉❤

  • @JoMburu
    @JoMburu 10 месяцев назад +9

    Hii episode imenionyesha naishingi kama mwanaume. 😁 Great episode.

    • @Wandia_bobo
      @Wandia_bobo 10 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂broooo

  • @oliveshioko
    @oliveshioko 10 месяцев назад +2

    Such a wholesome episode 👌...loved it❤❤

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing conversation. thank you.

  • @ThrivingMentally
    @ThrivingMentally 10 месяцев назад +8

    Watching Tom Cruise alafu unajiangalia...quite hilarious

  • @k3ygvrv
    @k3ygvrv 10 месяцев назад +10

    i always go thru the comments of most of these podcasts and its 99 percent women commenting, I always want to comment but I feel some typa way. Let me say sth today, I'm a 27 yr old man but I've never been in a long term relationship all my life. I tend to think and believe that I was not made for monogamy, my question to men is, how do yall manage to stay with one woman? yall never get bored of them?

    • @Prosperity23846
      @Prosperity23846 10 месяцев назад +4

      You're yet to find the one you love. Once you get her loyalty will be automatic

    • @k3ygvrv
      @k3ygvrv 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Prosperity23846 question, does 'the one' exist? what if she dies, or goes to live in a far way land? will I forever remain single?

    • @tafadhalijiheshimu6229
      @tafadhalijiheshimu6229 10 месяцев назад +6

      Hii akili chemsha supu.

    • @jamesmwangi7710
      @jamesmwangi7710 10 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

    • @elsieabilaabilamusic980
      @elsieabilaabilamusic980 10 месяцев назад +4

      This is just a collective thinking.give yourself some little more time n try some new values like honesty n trust n self respect ul see that you are not built to be a certain way but this are habits one picks up and lives by them N yours maybe a thirst /lust problem that you can try to address buy asking yourself why go fr a woman, give her fake promises only to break them. I believe what you should do in polygamy,let your plans be known beforehand when you start dating. If you find it uncomfortable to do this trust me you are still a boy, afraid to be rejected but yet deceitful at heart. Not sure who would like a co-wife or concubines though 🙄 but try. Maybe a few . All the best otherwise endelea kugrow kidogo uwe na independent thinking then make a decision 🙏🏾. All the best .

  • @hibogetikali7996
    @hibogetikali7996 10 месяцев назад +1

    😍😍😍😍😍😍 and we are here ☺️☺️☺️ #1 viewer

  • @marymuiru2907
    @marymuiru2907 10 месяцев назад +2

    This episode was amazing❤ lakini Ben😂😂 he is always funny

  • @Gistlover_254
    @Gistlover_254 10 месяцев назад +14

    38:42 ben anaangalia shivs aje😂❤

  • @furahathestar
    @furahathestar 10 месяцев назад +3

    Ben😅😅😅authenticity🔥🔥🔥

  • @maryalicewamaitha4525
    @maryalicewamaitha4525 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ben is so funny..right from introduction

  • @PhoebyChimponda
    @PhoebyChimponda 9 месяцев назад +1

    Good episode but difficult to follow with the mix of local language.

  • @CYNTHIACHEPTOO-cn2hc
    @CYNTHIACHEPTOO-cn2hc 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤ i love this

  • @zeitgeist254
    @zeitgeist254 10 месяцев назад +10

    I wonder if Shiv should be here considering the rest of them men are literally newly weds.

  • @nadetteskitchen
    @nadetteskitchen 10 месяцев назад +5

    Sharon, this has got to be one of your best episodes yet.
    Ive learnt that marriage is indeed a good thing and a big shout out to these wonderful men. How you spoke of your wives, yhooo mad respect for all of you. 🫡

  • @SaintMohair
    @SaintMohair 9 месяцев назад

    hey thanks for the episode can we know the names of the name or their social media handles. Thank you

  • @mwanjeri737
    @mwanjeri737 10 месяцев назад +3

    hii nayo nilikuwa nimengoja

  • @gamwani
    @gamwani 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sharon K got married????

  • @SimoneMuthoni
    @SimoneMuthoni 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sharon you look so good ❤❤

  • @user-qf9qd8pl8b
    @user-qf9qd8pl8b 10 месяцев назад +2

    Ben is so unserious 😂😂😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @buyletugandalimited2118
    @buyletugandalimited2118 10 месяцев назад +2

    Mambo ya character development 😂

  • @Muciistudio
    @Muciistudio 10 месяцев назад +7

    Great episode but Shiv shouldn't have been here. It kinda feels like he's not on the same page

  • @wambuiwanjiru9392
    @wambuiwanjiru9392 9 месяцев назад

    Is shiv and doc love the same person,?

  • @jacintakamula2524
    @jacintakamula2524 10 месяцев назад +1

    Aki Ben 😂 This guy is so hilarious 😅

  • @wanjiku.ngotho
    @wanjiku.ngotho 10 месяцев назад +8

    Ben get chapstick jameni 😭😂😂

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 10 месяцев назад +15

    You guys forget to eat?😭

    • @TopChoiceTilesDecor
      @TopChoiceTilesDecor 10 месяцев назад +1

      Lies haki 😂😂😂

    • @Its_Arsenath
      @Its_Arsenath 10 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @carolkageni1168
      @carolkageni1168 10 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @carolmutua5266
      @carolmutua5266 9 месяцев назад +2

      Definitely not me😂 I live to eat. I'm always thinking about what i'll have for my next meal.

  • @naxiz_kenya2805
    @naxiz_kenya2805 10 месяцев назад +6

    But i have a question, why is it very difficult for women generally to just see white as white, instead of arguing and arguing, argue about the argument then come around n agree that its white. When a brother keeps quiet, y'all start another argument of its the way you were saying white that i didn't like. Ok babe, then so thats all you have say.
    Jesus christ most of us men have no clue what we meant to do or say. Sometimes a hug or good sex would work but sometimes brother is confused n they just saythis piece of nag aint worth it. So maybe you guys can handle such a topic for us folks to understand

  • @moraaogaro8590
    @moraaogaro8590 10 месяцев назад +1

    Aki Ben 😂😂😂😂

  • @Wandia_bobo
    @Wandia_bobo 10 месяцев назад +1

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @SuhailaKoki254
    @SuhailaKoki254 10 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @kali4nia816
    @kali4nia816 10 месяцев назад +7

    They don't tell ya marriage is a scam😢live ya life unapologetically .

    • @carolinenjoroge1195
      @carolinenjoroge1195 10 месяцев назад +21

      God didn't create Scams and marriage is His

    • @elsieabilaabilamusic980
      @elsieabilaabilamusic980 10 месяцев назад +2

      ​10 nil 💪🏾💪🏾

    • @evamwende3416
      @evamwende3416 10 месяцев назад +3

      Heal

    • @kali4nia816
      @kali4nia816 9 месяцев назад

      It's 2024 Africans...wake the fk up...jesus is a joke,find yoyr own black GOD.

  • @arnoldmudavadi1195
    @arnoldmudavadi1195 10 месяцев назад +1

    Is it me ama hawa wanadanganyw😂😂

  • @ranzakinyanjui8946
    @ranzakinyanjui8946 10 месяцев назад +1

    😂😂

  • @dianaatieno1564
    @dianaatieno1564 10 месяцев назад +10

    Dem umeekaaa aje surely 😢na camera man anafocus tu😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @lubimo9810
      @lubimo9810 10 месяцев назад +18

      Wewe toa negativity hapa🙄🙄

    • @Prosperity23846
      @Prosperity23846 10 месяцев назад +8

      That's the only thing you've picked from this conversation?!?!?! That's crazy!! I hadn't even noticed it. Kwani amekaa aje???

    • @throughallthings1148
      @throughallthings1148 10 месяцев назад +2

      there is a better way to place your statement ,yes her sitting position is abit off maybe next time she should look at her posture

    • @larafungaming3374
      @larafungaming3374 10 месяцев назад +1

      It's the dress that's not long enough unfortunately

    • @janegicheru973
      @janegicheru973 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hahahhaha mapaja wazi....nakuelewa kabisaa

  • @Offthetrack_ke
    @Offthetrack_ke 10 месяцев назад +2

    This are slayking men, bring real men

    • @hellenamedia3470
      @hellenamedia3470 10 месяцев назад +7

      ?????

    • @Prosperity23846
      @Prosperity23846 10 месяцев назад +2

      Remove your toxic masculinity here and continue being with men who have mentality ya 19th Century

    • @larafungaming3374
      @larafungaming3374 10 месяцев назад +11

      Tutakusupport ukiwaleta kwa podcast yako