She Found Hope After Being Hurt By Those Who Raised Her

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2024
  • In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, Shaniqua Robinson bravely shares her personal journey of resilience and healing. Throughout her childhood, Shaniqua faced unimaginable challenges as she endured profound breaches of trust and safety at the hands of those entrusted with her care. The trauma she experienced had a significant impact on her life, leading her down a difficult path.
    Despite the immense adversities Shaniqua faced, her story is one of incredible strength and courage. By seeking therapy and confronting the wounds of her past, Shaniqua embarked on a transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. Her story serves as an important reminder that even in the darkest of times, there is hope for healing and growth. Shaniqua's openness in sharing her experiences sheds light on the importance of mental health support and the transformative power of addressing one's traumas. Join us as we listen to Shaniqua's inspiring story of resilience, healing, and the remarkable capacity of the human spirit to overcome adversity.
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  • @lydiasykes824
    @lydiasykes824 4 месяца назад +99

    Never would understand how your mother felt that it was a grand idea to allow her precious innocent little girl to go spend the weekend with a grown man!! WHAT?! Just you and him in his apartment?!

    • @Yaadgyal09
      @Yaadgyal09 4 месяца назад +14

      Insanity!!!!

    • @jhaerolls2058
      @jhaerolls2058 4 месяца назад +8

      My mom let me go with my sisters dad to Chicago for a weekend for my birthday and let’s just say I don’t barely remember anything

    • @jhaerolls2058
      @jhaerolls2058 4 месяца назад +5

      I was 8

    • @lydiasykes824
      @lydiasykes824 4 месяца назад +7

      @@jhaerolls2058 😢WOW.. I'm so sorry.

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад

      ​@@jhaerolls2058pray that u remember then heal from it

  • @rickymckinnon5393
    @rickymckinnon5393 4 месяца назад +83

    The mother is totally to blame. Her being thirsty bringing multiple men around her kids. Leaving her kids with men, she just met. Horrible. There's millions of mother's who do this just so they can have a man.

    • @Ms.Royalty7743
      @Ms.Royalty7743 4 месяца назад +18

      True and the fact that she knows this happened to her kid and then she leave them with another man. She seems to always leave this one and take the other one with her.

    • @myamya4505
      @myamya4505 4 месяца назад +9

      They weren’t men she just met she knew them for a while and trusted them. Yes my mom is at fault. They left out the part where my sister has Asperger’s and aids. My mother didn’t have normal basic functioning. We forgave her tho

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 4 месяца назад +2

      @@myamya4505wait your sister has AIDS?

    • @deniseganey6890
      @deniseganey6890 4 месяца назад +4

      This seems to be a very common practice . The harming and grooming of children . Mom's, do not leave your children with strange Men .

    • @ajwriter5699
      @ajwriter5699 4 месяца назад +4

      @@myamya4505I’m so sorry your mom’s selfishness orchestrated your years of abuse, you and your siblings. I’m glad that you’re able to tell your truths and release yourself. I think you’re beautiful. May you heal fully.

  • @spiritualvibrations2825
    @spiritualvibrations2825 4 месяца назад +62

    These predators are disgusting and her mom is suspect because she had men around her alone knowing that she was violated in the past.

  • @TylR3gor
    @TylR3gor 4 месяца назад +69

    Looks like her mom was very irresponsible.
    That's a shame 🤦‍♂️

  • @beingcarter6310
    @beingcarter6310 4 месяца назад +47

    Mom is suspect af. I think she was trafficking her daughter. It seems to be a horrible pattern in all these situations.

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 месяца назад

      I agree. Her mother was trafficking them.

    • @themothershyp7788
      @themothershyp7788 2 месяца назад +2

      I wondered the same.

  • @ruafzah
    @ruafzah 4 месяца назад +35

    Sexual abuse causes inability to discriminate between healthy versus unhealthy boundaries. There’s a very high probability that her mother was also a victim of childhood sexual abuse hence her poor ability to have boundaries with men. One in three females will experience sexual assault at some point in their life. Horrific statistic! Wishing this young woman and all other survivors much healing. ✨💙💫

  • @PrincessPowerranger
    @PrincessPowerranger 4 месяца назад +28

    Just because the body responds to stimulation does not mean consent was given. I'm so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart

  • @thebutterflyfamily8097
    @thebutterflyfamily8097 4 месяца назад +21

    He taught us how to look out for things!!! But he left out the part..he was the person you had to watch out for!!!😢

  • @lovelyday3979
    @lovelyday3979 4 месяца назад +18

    He knew that you didn't mean anything sexual when you made those statements about missing him. You were a CHILD and he was an adult, so even if you did mean it romantically it was his responsibility to do the right thing.

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 4 месяца назад +24

    Shaniqua i am so sorry that you were abused and mistreated what happened to you wasn't your fault I hope you will find a way to heal and find peace in your life by telling your story you are taking back your power

  • @brittbritt4661
    @brittbritt4661 4 месяца назад +36

    Smh her mother had such poor judgment.

    • @Ms.Royalty7743
      @Ms.Royalty7743 4 месяца назад +17

      My question is why did she always leave this one at home by herself with these men? I have so many questions because the math ain't matching I hope she wasn't selling her off and the guys were saying that to throw her off so she won't feel like her mother was just let that happen. Because that happens too. I don't heard a few stories where that was going on.

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 месяца назад +3

      I’m sensing the same. Her mom was trafficking them. Sad

  • @Lylelou233
    @Lylelou233 4 месяца назад +36

    I hope in time you can heal! You seem like a beautiful person!!

  • @mmcdonald1000
    @mmcdonald1000 4 месяца назад +20

    I'm so sorry you been thru this. Parents be careful what kind of person you're exposing to your kids

  • @christyjohnson5618
    @christyjohnson5618 4 месяца назад +15

    You are so beautiful and articulate. Im sorry you had to go thru these things.

  • @bubblybubbles4023
    @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад +5

    This story is making me cry. I have a son, and I'm afraid to date because i don't want something like this to happen to my son. I get lonely, but i dont want to risk ruining my son's life.

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 месяца назад +1

      Me too sis! It is not worth it!! I don’t want any man coming in between my son and I’s relationship. Unless he is is GOD sent. I don’t want to ruin what we have. JESUS knows I fear that, so, I trust HE is keeping me single for now. 🙏🤗 🌹

  • @NHJDT
    @NHJDT 4 месяца назад +11

    Mother had bad luck picking the wrong men. I hope you can heal

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 4 месяца назад +22

    I really feel sorry for what this woman went through her mother truly knew how to pick bad men this why parents need to be careful who you trust around your kids

  • @obliteratemypssy
    @obliteratemypssy 4 месяца назад +16

    I was groomed & assaulted at the same age & quite similar to this lady, in a 1 time incident. I didn't know to tell, & what to say. My mother saw evidence later that night & start firing questions at me & i described it the best i could at 5 years old. I'm sorry what happened. Continue in your journey to heal.💚🥀🌹

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад +2

      Sorry that happened to u. May God continue to bless and heal you

  • @TheAuthenticAppeal
    @TheAuthenticAppeal 4 месяца назад +8

    As a victim of sexual abuse how the hell did she allow her child to go away with ANOTHER MAN. There are mom’s that struggle & sell THEMSELVES, not their kids! I’m so angry & sorry this happened & the mother could have protected her! You can tell she blames herself a little when saying you didn’t mean anything sexually when saying you missed him. You were 12. Smh so sad.

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 4 месяца назад +7

    Shaniqua, so sorry you didn’t have the protection and support to keep you safe from those predators. It was not your fault, and I hope and pray that you are able to heal and build good relationships. You are worth it. Stay encouraged.♥️

  • @billie44
    @billie44 4 месяца назад +7

    How could the mother not know

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад

      Even if she didn't know her instincts told her, she was probably in denial.

  • @Elliebutapancake
    @Elliebutapancake 4 месяца назад +18

    I love your hair

  • @alexzandria6803
    @alexzandria6803 4 месяца назад +11

    I wish your mother’s friend would’ve adopted you and your sister. It seems clear that your mother was more concerned with having a man than with raising her children. She failed you. Your mother is to blame.

  • @thebutterflyfamily8097
    @thebutterflyfamily8097 4 месяца назад +8

    I got to stop bringing strangers to her house with her young daughters 😢

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад +1

      Boys too, there's people who mess boys with too. I have a good friend who told me his mother's boyfriend violated him. He told he his mom was working and needed a babysitter. She let her boyfriend babysit him while she worked, and he violated him during those times.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад

      Don't ever think k that it's OK to leave a boy alone with someone either. Many women are dealing with men who are secretly bisexuality and gay and they don't realize it.

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад

      Don't think because you have a son it's safe to leave him wirh other men. Some women are dealing with men who are bi or gay and don't realize it.

  • @stellabellafontay9366
    @stellabellafontay9366 4 месяца назад +26

    When I hear these stories of abuse survivors being victimized multiple times by their parent's partners or spouses, I'm beginning to think it's a grooming process. The parent has to be in on it somehow. Leaving to go to the store. Sending children to lay in bed with adults. What in the world is really going on here?😢

    • @Ms.Royalty7743
      @Ms.Royalty7743 4 месяца назад +14

      I agree because what's the odds? She keep leaving her with these men and taking the other one with her. And when she described her mother felt the first time she was told she felt guilt. I believe because she knows what she was doing. Remember she was struggling so I wouldn't be surprised if she was trafficking out her child and be announced to her child.

    • @stellabellafontay9366
      @stellabellafontay9366 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Ms.Royalty7743 Riiight. Sad stuff.

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад +1

      Not all the parents. Some just naive and stupid

  • @Yaadgyal09
    @Yaadgyal09 4 месяца назад +2

    So sorry this happened to you. parents need to do more to protect their children. Her mother was very careless! 😢

  • @PrincessPowerranger
    @PrincessPowerranger 4 месяца назад +6

    I'm so sorry, sweetheart, you never deserved any of this. First of all, you did nothing wrong. You were a child. He was an adult he should have never done that to you

  • @beejay4397
    @beejay4397 4 месяца назад +7

    *Mom was a co-conspirator*

  • @tiadekattu9096
    @tiadekattu9096 4 месяца назад +4

    God Bless You🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 4 месяца назад +8

    Go to the Heavenly Father so you can heal as well as therapy.

  • @jhevynwright6174
    @jhevynwright6174 4 месяца назад +9

    The teal buss down 8

  • @candygirl9923
    @candygirl9923 4 месяца назад +3

    Ladies never trust leaving your child with a man …. All this abuse and women still let their kids fall prey

  • @couleuredgirl6314
    @couleuredgirl6314 2 месяца назад

    Therapy helps a lot. No more kids it’s a lot on you when you’ve gone through this kind of trauma (break the cycle). Like you said heal your inner child! I’m so very proud of you! Do not let anyone from your family keep your children. Wait until they are older to date and teach them about molestation. Empower them. Go to school, therapy, pour into your babies. And life will change drastically for you! You deserve the world. Now give it to yourself!

  • @diamond28269
    @diamond28269 3 месяца назад +3

    What’s up with these mothers not protecting these girls… 😡

  • @elvinajames8791
    @elvinajames8791 Месяц назад

    God bless you 🙏 and all the best in life 💕

  • @sabr219
    @sabr219 3 месяца назад +3

    It seems a lot of women overlook men that drink a lot or do drugs; it should be a sign

  • @gabbymiles5655
    @gabbymiles5655 22 дня назад

    🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @AdmiringChameleon-wo6ki
    @AdmiringChameleon-wo6ki 4 месяца назад +4

    Lean on the Lord and pray every day Michelle otero

  • @rockinmama007
    @rockinmama007 4 месяца назад +2

    BRAVE SO❤L

  • @aishachandler4570
    @aishachandler4570 4 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. You should have been extremely protected, especially after the first time.....make me wonder about the mom.

  • @kkw-pal1178
    @kkw-pal1178 4 месяца назад +4

    🥺😢🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @sevdademi1291
    @sevdademi1291 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Sharon0530
    @Sharon0530 4 месяца назад +4

    Im sorry nobody protected the little you

  • @sandrapalmer4354
    @sandrapalmer4354 4 месяца назад

    🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

  • @godschild163
    @godschild163 3 месяца назад +2

    Her Mother failed her!

  • @AdmiringChameleon-wo6ki
    @AdmiringChameleon-wo6ki 4 месяца назад +1

    Iam mesed up even at age 65. I have two sons ages 31 and40. Two failed marriages. Pos men leave kids alone. I see a va head doctor monthly. Pray for me. Michele otero

    • @genesekkross9128
      @genesekkross9128 4 месяца назад +2

      You need to be delivered and set free. @ AdmiringChameleon-wo6ki ,Michelle still going through her process in life she can’t pray for you….Only you can go to Jesus for your self ,find the right church and be delivered by a true man or woman of God .

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад

      ​@@genesekkross9128right

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад

      Pray to God

  • @billie44
    @billie44 4 месяца назад +2

    I am so sorry you mom should have projected you . Maybe she knew what was going on.
    What is with these men wanting to have sex with kids

  • @kianidavis2042
    @kianidavis2042 4 месяца назад

    Those men were awful! Your mom picker was waaay off! Smh

  • @QueenCapricorn-kk1zc
    @QueenCapricorn-kk1zc 3 месяца назад

    I feel so bad for her I blame her mother how do your child gets rape by a man you were with and than you allow them to be left alone with other men smh she needs to be jailed as well for child sex trafficking sick sad woman you never protected your children

  • @GlowingInTheDark377
    @GlowingInTheDark377 4 месяца назад +12

    Why these things happen to 🖤people
    I know this female, from the same shelter. In shelters most of these 🖤people are still using drugs and prostitution…
    As a survivor of human trafficking, these people offend me 😢
    I was living in that shelter with dangerous criminals…

    • @spiritualvibrations2825
      @spiritualvibrations2825 4 месяца назад +6

      This happens to all groups of people. Get off your high horse lady.

    • @shaniquarobinson8351
      @shaniquarobinson8351 4 месяца назад +7

      You don’t know me personally, you know nothing of my background at all and never once in my life I’ve done drugs and I’ve sold my body for money when I was 19 it’s been 7yrs since I’ve done that. I’ve been nothing but kind to you and your daughter and I’m quiet and keep to myself. You’re putting black people all in one box and that’s racist and not ok to do so.

    • @myamya4505
      @myamya4505 4 месяца назад +1

      Girl what are you talking about. Criminals?? My sister isn’t dangerous. You never had any of this energy in her face ever tho. Keep your uneducated comments to yourself the whole shelter called you delusional lol

    • @spiritualvibrations2825
      @spiritualvibrations2825 4 месяца назад +1

      @@shaniquarobinson8351 The person that left that comment as though she didn't take a wrong turn in life to end up living in a shelter. She is no better than anyone else.

    • @GlowingInTheDark377
      @GlowingInTheDark377 4 месяца назад

      There is no such thing as racism against 🖤people anymore. We live in 21 country. But there was racism, discrimination against me at that shelter. Because I’m not American born. Those females over there were harassing me and my daughter. They were being used by my traffickers to harass us. Our traffickers are cops and people in the church, across USA

  • @kianidavis2042
    @kianidavis2042 4 месяца назад +2

    Do you suffer any mental health crisis as a result?

    • @shaniquarobinson8351
      @shaniquarobinson8351 4 месяца назад +1

      anxiety, ptsd and depression

    • @EmilyMack-bt8pb
      @EmilyMack-bt8pb 2 месяца назад

      @@shaniquarobinson8351 I’m so sorry that this happened to you and your sister, did the 3 boyfriend get arrested? I hope you guys got you justice.

  • @thebutterflyfamily8097
    @thebutterflyfamily8097 4 месяца назад +1

    Mom have to stop bringing strangers home.having young daughters is not a great ideal..it's not their father

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 месяца назад +2

      Their own father could too

    • @thebutterflyfamily8097
      @thebutterflyfamily8097 4 месяца назад

      Stop bringing strangers home mothers!!!! Now you get it°

    • @bubblybubbles4023
      @bubblybubbles4023 3 месяца назад

      People do things to boys too. Don't bring strangers around any child girl or boy.

    • @thebutterflyfamily8097
      @thebutterflyfamily8097 3 месяца назад

      Yes they do things to boys also.but this topic was about a young girl..let's stay on the gender of the topic here!

    • @alysiamitchell9543
      @alysiamitchell9543 10 дней назад

      Well you can't say that... fathers can get scandalous too... just set up cameras and be aware of ppl is all too it

  • @drosecake
    @drosecake 3 месяца назад

    It tough for me to 100% believe. I have a great intuition and this is definitely not the whole truth. I wish you the best young lady however I don't buy this happened how you've told 😐

    • @couleuredgirl6314
      @couleuredgirl6314 2 месяца назад +3

      Girl bye! Her sister has the same story and children usually don’t lie about molestation. You could have kept your comment to yourself. Especially not being sure.

    • @alysiamitchell9543
      @alysiamitchell9543 10 дней назад

      Stop it.. this is not something someone makes up for sympathy, popularity or attention... you could've kept that to yourself.. why would you think she's making up something like this.. you sound like a police officer who don't and won't believe a victims story smh

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 4 месяца назад +11

    Thanks for sharing your story with us. ❤❤❤❤ You attract attention to yourself wearing unnatural colored hair. It screams attention! You are a beautiful young lady. Choose better hairstyles.

    • @youtubeconsumer8474
      @youtubeconsumer8474 4 месяца назад +9

      That’s not the point of the video Mor0N

    • @skyeamore5719
      @skyeamore5719 4 месяца назад +14

      No need for that she is beautiful and she is comfortable in her style this is not about hair

    • @punchanella_0
      @punchanella_0 4 месяца назад +11

      I like her hair. Stop being a meany.

  • @TheUnknownNextToU
    @TheUnknownNextToU 4 месяца назад +7

    So sad that u keep last abuse going go for that long 🥺🥺🥺

  • @TheUnknownNextToU
    @TheUnknownNextToU 4 месяца назад +7

    Very said to hear and I’m sooo sorry u went thru that.
    So hard to hear but u had to live it and go thru it 💔💔💔💔💔🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️🧎🏻‍♀️