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Women who get C-sections are willing to be cut open and permanently scarred to ensure their baby makes it through the procedure. Some women also don't have a choice and have to do it to make sure they and the baby survive. I honestly think that's pretty hardcore mum.
Metal af 🤘🏻
To be fair, modern C-sections (the planned, non-emergency ones) are very safe.
With our children, we had one vaginal birth and one C-section, and as a mom, I 100% recommend C-section.
48 hour labor followed by a difficult birth which caused the child to require a week in the NICU and 3 months of recovery for the birth mother
vs
30 minutes C-section, happy healthy baby, 6 week recovery... and a scar.
Fuck that Dude-bro mom who claims that suffering and potentially harming a child is somehow more 'motherly' than taking the safer route. If I had it to do over, I'd do C-sections for both.
Right? And some ftm men have to have them because their anatomy may have changed through surgery or something… I know that most men seem to remove their uterus when they get bottom surgery, but some keep it in case they ever need to carry the baby in their relationship. So yeah, lots of situations where it’s necessary.
@@_Kuma_ I think you got a bit confused and mean ftm. Because as far as I'm aware we don't have uterus transplants that would give mtf people the ability to become pregnant - YET.
I was birthed through C-section. My Mom is in fact a real mom. Birches can suck my nonexistent parts
"Your not a real mom if you had a C-section" My sister in law wouldn't be a real mom if she didn't have a C-section either, because she would have been dead. Easy way out my ass.
The people who are so anti c section are probably the same antiabortion ones, and don't have a clue about real medical issues.
My mom too. She was losing too much blood to birth naturally
Not to mention that C sections are considered major surgery
Exactly. My aunt got induced on a Monday. On FRIDAY there was still no sign of my baby cousin making it through, and they had a c section done that weekend. The trouble still wasn’t over since my aunt and cousin both caught a bacterial infection and my cousin was in the NICU for the next week and a half to recover and bc she wasn’t eating like she should. Luckily both aunt and baby are healthy and home now, although aunt still needs to be careful to avoid reopening the c section scar.
My mom had a C section for my older sister bc my sister literally couldn't get out of the body. My mom wouldn't be a mom at all without that surgery so
Reminderfrom a goth: The real posers are those that shames another goth. All baby bats start somewhere and that should be embraced! Goth is about the beauty in the macabre and the music; not where it's bought from.
As a Metal Head, I agree. We all start somewhere!
This. That whole post reminded me of all the gatekeeping when I was young and of course they would say the ones calling out the "gatekeeping" are "fake" to try and make themselves feel better. I remember when I was a teenager if you didn't fit in a box with a certain group of goths you weren't "goth" and it has made my blood boil since. I have always loved goth fashion since I was 12 and never got out of it. It wasn't a phase for me and I am sad that the youth of today are STILL doing it to each other today. Sadly I don't think gatekeeping alternative fashions will ever end.
@RavenMenel It's exactly how I feel! I grew up in the early 2000s, and always had to deal with goths arguing over home made clothes or store bought from the new goth shops. Or they would argue about the "traits" of a mall goth when mall goths are just goths in a mall. It's ridiculous to argue over the things we all love.
The original Gothic definition was actually architecture design. It sort evolved and branched off that to mean all manner of things. I don't think there is one specific definition of Goth and tbh the majority of people who would be defined as Goth in my experience hate being defined by the term rather than who they are in the first place.
“Listens to goth music” then doesn’t define it.
Death rock?
Horror punk?
Brit goth?
Goth industrial?
Darkwave?
Goth metal?
I am a goth and whenever I see that image I laugh my ass off, like goths haven't been challenging gender norms for years with boys wearing tights, fishnets and makeup plus girls wearing combat boots and such. The subculture always had some gender ambiguity and that "real goth" would've been kicked out of my local goth scene ages ago since we hold the monthly goth rave at a queer bar just to weed those kind of reactionaries out.
I unironically love the monthly rave at the queer bar tactic 🎉
I swear, I can count on one hand the number of 100% straight goths I’ve met 😂
I’d love to go & see that shit for myself.
36:10 I'm reminded of the "let's go back to the wholesome 1950's" people, who _conveniently_ forget all the thirst-trap/pin-up ads that were _literally everywhere._
Dude, 1950s were fuckin metal if you know how to source your historical records
@@Feimicha h3ll, they had "Demon Girl Pin-ups" painted on Planes before the end of ww2! Metal as h3ll! 😈🤘
Lol
I'll bet you money the reason they think this is because the only exposure they have to the 1950s is solely through the _highly-sanitized_ media that was produced during the time, and not from _anything else_ .
Damn this man gave birth to twenty kids and ran a marathon for us. Now THAT’S dedication
Making kids is easy when you have osmosis.
Twentyuplets
Twenty kids at *ONCE*
Amazingly they all look like Emotional Support Demons in various flavours
Parthenogenesis for the win!
@@kiddykat DO NOT eat the ESDs 😡
@@SamForgorAgain LET the ESDs eat each other and become Emotional Support Matryoshkas.
When you give birth, you are literally left with what is essentially an open wound inside your body the size of a dinner plate from where your placenta was attached to your uterus. You HAVE to rest and let your body heal. It's not being lazy, you are recovering! Don't let anyone tell you it's lazy to take it easy after birth. It's actually detrimental to the healing process to do too much too soon after birth and can cause you to literally hemorrhage!
Well after the babies out the uterus shrinks fast to where the open wound is about the size of a quarter(?) (I dont remember exactly which coin size, think it was a quarter) but thats still a pretty big wound
Yeah, apparently after my mum had me she kept bleeding for weeks and had to go to the toilet like every 15 minutes to change pads, resting is absolutely not lazy and is essential after child birth because of the strain and trauma of it all. 😅
Also, if anyone who boasts about how they went right back to work after giving birth, and is a Christian or religious Jew, they’re breaking a commandment.
It says right in the bible that women are supposed to take a week (two?) to lie and sit around… then bring a goat to be sacrificed, but there isn’t even a place to do that.
boosting this comment so people see it-
And on top of that, that whole c-section thing irks me to irrational levels.
My mum gave natural birth twice, and had two abdominal surgeries. She told me she'll always pick natural over a c-section, because the pain goes away once you're done, and the wounds are bearable. With a c-section, you get a large incision that hurts for months on the skin, and a second one on the organ. It's much more painful in the long run.
Imagine saying you listen to goth music and is simultaneously a TERF... That means you reject a huge chunk of goth artists.
The lack of awareness…. 🤦🏼♀️
It’s gotta be a sheddy psy-op to try to court new new TERFs.
Just pathetic.
Imagine trying to sell transphobia to a community that’s heavily involved men wearing makeup and spending tons of time on their hair since the 1970s (at the latest).
Also dresses and so on.
I always was proud of how inclusive goths are. All the goths I know are very good people. She's just confused
It's funny how she says "fake goth girls are gatekeeping" while gatekeeping..
What does terf mean?
That feeling when when your "I'm not like other girls" phase turns into "I'm not like other people" phase, which becomes "what do you mean I'm autistic?"
Or it’s ’I’m not like other girls’ and then you realize you aren’t even a girl (I’m an Autistic trans dude. Both, lmao)
Lol yea pretty much
"I'm not like other girls"
"I'm not like other people"
"I'm autistic"
"I'm gay"
"I'm a minory"
"Fuck"
The fact I made this EXACT process from "I'm not like other girls" to "YIPPE AUTISM" before getting my diagnostic is wild-
@@Jaded_Jester-mr6ld Literally me, lmao.
When you become so much of a pick-me that you LITERALLY become one of the guys (im ftm)
The "I'm a teen that doesn't believe in climate change" rubs me the wrong way cause i'm old enough to remember winters where it snowed. I have memories of going sledding and seeing the beauty of snow draped over trees; nowadays it doesn't even snow til January, and when it does, it turns to rain or melts in a day. Winter used to me my favorite month but now it's just dead, cold, and sad.
Also capris (kah-prees) are like pants but they stop like mid calf
Same-I’m from a place that had beautiful, wonderfully crisp autumn periods that seemed to last for days on end, and I remember my winters as a kid were like visiting Narnia-my ideal fantasy setting, a winter wonderland. Our planet can’t give us the magic we saw in our childhoods because it’s getting weaker and dying-the magic can’t be worked anymore.
You don't even need to be that old to remember those winters. I'm 21 and had plenty of snowy winters. We still get them sometimes though. This December, my parents got snowed in.
I’m gen X and I’ve never seen 40C in my lifetime before a couple years ago. Now there’s a good chance to get that more than once in a summer.
I despise climate change deniers. I’m from Florida, and I’ve literally watched my mom’s office get flooded from higher and higher flooding. My house is going to be underwater in my lifetime. And somehow people don’t think this exists or matters? This is literally destroying my life as I know it!
The "feminists are upset if men hold the door" crowd are the ones who insist on making a great show about how they _as men_ must either hold the door for women (but never men, and they get offended and feel emasculated if anyone holds the door for them) or deliberately slam the door in women's faces. The non-gender-specific common courtesy approach of "I hold the door if I get there first or might step ahead and grab it if the person in front of me has their hands full" seems to be impossible for that crowd to imagine.
Decency is a foreign concept to them, sadly.
I mean... I don't get upset at that. I do get upset when a guy insists on opening it even when it was easier for me to do it myself, and then patronizingly explains to me why I should have waited to let him do it instead...
I mostly open doors for the elderly , disabled or people who have their hands full. I feel like that’s what most people do now, or at least the people in my family.
@@zumazuma568 I genuinely have never seen this happen to anyone, with the one exception being completely unrelated to gender and being very related to the guy in question being a narcissist with a god complex
aah yes, when kindness is understood as currency in the heteronormative meat market... You give it solely for gain and if you don't get what you expected (even if it' unreasonable af), you unleash the inner karen. What fun.
"Me taking a step back when he says feminism has been good for women"
Lady, you wouldn't even be allowed to post, or say no to him without feminism. You would be property...
My fav is the women arguing for religion that wouldnt let them speak if they got their way. Just wild.
@@skywise001 Yeah, its always fun to see women try to defend religions that are 'totally down with women being their own person!', despite the, often times multiple, commandments that make it very clear that women are, at best, second class citizens and, at worst, barely considered more valuable than cattle.
Have people forgotten the whole women's suffrage movement??? And all the fighting it took for women's rights???
@@skywise001 Internalized misogyny.
Some women truly do hate themselves, deep down.
Exactly! Feminism: The radical idea that women are _people_ not property.
The girl who wanted to wear dresses when milking cows has never in her LIFE been within spitting distance of a farm, and never ever smelled a cow.
I so want to see her getting up at 5am every morning, getting around in gum boots while sloshing through cow shit and not being able to leave the farm for even a day, ‘cause that crap needs doing twice a day, every day.
I’m married to a farmer (cropping). There’s no way I could cut it on a dairy farm.
My mom grew up in the countryside of China. I’ve visited a few times, and I agree, BAD IDEA-No one looks that glamorous while doing farm work, unless it’s clothes from decades before my existence.
My farm friend (beef) and I did farm work in medieval clothes (tunics, hose, swords, cloaks) and shoes. Actually was perfect for -15 degrees C outside and offered enough protection inside. Dress/skirt only if I had wool socks and over ankle boots. Skirt would be purely there to keep me warm over trousers (riding skirt)
I grew up on and around farms. I guarantee all the ones who were on about how idyllic country life is have never been within 100 km of an actual farm, never mind doing even one day's work in the country. Would love to see them try, though, just to shoot their fantasies full of holes.
@@elizabethpink Me too, I'd love to see a reality show where they put Tiktok tradwives on a farm in the northern English countryside.
TERFs thinking that theyre real goths is hilarious to me, like being trans is literally the most DIY thing in the universe and they think supporting trans people doesnt make you goth?
33:04 I am ashamed of admitting it, but when I was 16 years old I literally was like this person. I thought I was so unique for not wearing makeup, not being interested in boys etc. Turns out I was asexual and transgender all along and was just super insecure about it lmao
Yeah I relate, being a former aroace egg, I always though I was a bit superior because I wasnt interested in dating people or having crushes, and I didnt really care how other people saw me and my appearance. Turns out having a crush on someone isnt just something the popular girls decide to do, and not brushing/washing my hair regularly wasnt a means of breaking gender norms, it was just unhygenic.
I love that the "I just wanna live on a homestead" girl clearly has no clue what homesteading is like. She seems to think it's super easy and chill when in reality it's hard work, lots of physical labour too. She probably wouldn't survive a week (neither would I, don't get me wrong)
I feel like they just have an aesthetic in their head and don't realise you'd need to be rich to live in the way they have pictured because to afford the mortgage repayments, bills and groceries either the husband needs to have a high paying job or both would have to work.
@@Zoe.m. I mean, it can be possible without being rich (you do still need some degree of starting capital, but not on a rich person level), but that means living in everything but luxury and working hard. I actually watch someone on here, Nate (Narroway Homestead) who got a property in West Virginia, lived in an old camper for a few years, slowly built things like an outhouse, an outdoor kitchen and rainwater collection system, as well as a solar setup to have electricity and now finally has built living quarters. He had some starting capital obviously to buy the land (apparently it's relatively cheap there though) and stuff like that and by now he has an online shop with beard care stuff and coffee that he sells alongside some other things to help finance stuff a bit better. And obviously he's also active on social media and earns some degree of money there. But even with that it took year until his living quarters were comparable to what most people are used to. All this to say: I think he's a good example of how that lifestyle is possible without being rich, but it won't be comfortable for a good while and requires you to be able to do handywork and stuff to diy things you need to survive
I fully agree on the aesthetic thing btw, like yeah, that's 100% it. They only see the top most, aesthetic layer of what they think homesteading is, but don't grasp the reality that lays behind it ("oh, I'd be milking cows and [doing several other things] all day" completely ignores that cows need to be fed, their stable needs regular cleaning, they need to be moved between grazing spots as to not overgraze the land and so on, that part they conveniently forgot about - or don't even realise is part of it)
I wanna do a reality show (proper, not the scripted shit) where I take 5 people like that, have them live on a farm with a real farmer, and whoever lasts the longest without quitting or getting kicked out by the farmer wins.
@@Kartoffelkamm amazing
@@Zoe.m. I could swear I replied to you, wth
Basically, what I said is you don't have to be rich necessarily, but you do need some money to start with to buy cheap land somewhere. Theres a guy on here, Nate/Narroway Homestead, who is a perfect example of that imo. He got a big ass property in West Virginia several years ago with almost nothing on it, put an old camper that he added a wood stove to on a big clearing to live in and then started building everything himself. An outhouse (technically even two), an outdoor kitchen, everything he needs for solar power, a duck coop, rainwater collection and after several years he built living quarters. Obviously none of this is free though, in his case there's still an income through his shop selling beard care products and coffee mainly and he does social media, but being off the grid and in a spot with very low taxes he does pay much less for everyday life than the average person. So it is possible without being rich, but that very much comes at the cost of living comfort (especially in the first years) and you need to work incredibly hard
Also, regarding the aesthetic thing, yeah, absolutely. They just see the top most layer of things where they look pretty in their imagination, but they overlook (or ignore) everything beneath that. Taking the "milking cows" example: who does all the other care that needs doing for the cows? Who feeds them, cleans their stable, makes sure they don't graze on the same land the whole time as to not overgraze it? Also, milking by hand isn't easy either, the milk needs taken care of after and cows are not cheap (there's a reason Nate has small animals like ducks), they need a lot of food and if they gotta see the vet, oh boy, have fun with that (and I'm saying that as a German, where vet costs are A LOT more affordable than in the US for example)
The "real goth" being a terf is so ironic because someone look me in the eyes and tell me a subculture drenched in maximalism and and defying norms isn't a major part of queer and trans culture and history
the most goth people I know are trans!
@@apollo298 I should know I am one
Like dude, the point of goth, punk, and metal styles are for going against the system. You can't say you're against the system if you claim to be all for it when it suits you.
@@crypt8355this is giving “well of course I know him, he’s me!” Lol
I'm 5'8" and I always said I don't like short men. Then I met the sweetest, smartest and loveliest 5'4" short king and now we're engaged. Height means nothing.
My dad was slightly shorter than my mom (without her wearing heels, more when she wore them) and they were happily married for 54 years until she died. They had such a good relationship and loved each other so much - height means nothing when you find love.
I know it’s a lil different because we’re both trans, but I (the ‘boyfriend’) am 5 foot 0 and my girlfriend is 6 foot 1. They don’t give two shits - she calls me their lil goblin lmao - and I think she’s fucking wonderful. I understand we can’t choose our attraction, but to narrow it down to the number and use it as a tick box criteria has always seemed kind of absurd to me
I once dated a guy the same height as me and he never had problems in relation to his height. Literally nobody cared.
Personally I think who makes height a deal breaker comes off extremely shallow and judgemental.
Height only matters when you're deciding which shelf the dishes go on. It's an ongoing struggle to get my spouse to remember that *my* mugs have to go on the bottom shelf...
28:30 reminds me of my favorite gag from Monty Python's Life of Brian.
Brian: You are all different!
Large crowd, in unison: Yes! We are all different!
One guy: I'm not.
Those girls on the quad bikes; how come the bikes are muddy and dirty but the girls aren't? Le gasp, don't tell me the picture was STAGED and those girls are afraid of getting dirty after all?!
2:46 "What does that even mean? ...Am I just too non-American to understand what half of this means?" Yes, but we can easily take care of that. Pilates = A kind of exercise routine that's popular with some well-to-do women. Porsche = German sports car. Heatless curls and blowouts = types of hairstyling for women with long hair. Oura ring = a brand of smart ring that monitors your sleep habits and certain health metrics. Cartier = an expensive jewelry company. All together, it describes some rich lady.
I'm non-American and understood all of those 😂🤔
A blowout is an anal malfunction
very helpful, thanks !
I'm not American enough, apparently, because I was confused by a decent chunk of that.
@blackonyx9842 you probably meant "not rich enough"
The "feed the chicks and milk cows" lady has CLEARLY never interacted with a farm animal in her life.
Especially the whole barefoot and wearing a pretty sundress look that they used. It sounds like a good way to ruin a dress and injury yourself.
@@wahlflower3517 Yup. If you go around picking up chickens in a nice dress, don’t be shocked when it gets pooped on LOL
My thought as well, i actually grew up partly on a farm and i always laugh when i see people romanticising it
Yeah, in my country, farmers are like, one of the jobs with the most suicide, cancer and infertility rates of the country, and they frequently protest against the sell price of their products being too low, it's not a dream life ^^'
@@wahlflower3517manure is a smell that just lingers onto your clothes, like skunk spray or alcohol.
Source, Im a farm assistant.
The Click ruined his haircut for entertainment. He truly is a professional.
Professionals have standards.
-Sniper from TF2.
Isn't he?!😂❤
He has the dedication
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34:51 dancing is absolutely a sport and I'm not a person that dances as a sport or anything but dancing is absolutely a sport and I hate that we're gatekeeping sports now too ugh
She's not even dancing! She's a figure skater! Yeah, it looks pretty and all, but what they're doing is HARD. They are just so good at it that they make it look easy. AND figure skaters literally coach hockey players.
Sorry. I don't disagree with what you said about dancing, I'm just really annoyed.
7:01 there’s a Monty Python sketch called “The Four Yorkshiremen” where four grown men boast how bad their childhoods were and they keep one-upping on top of each other 😂
Those pickmes that think they'll get a man by openly rejecting feminism are gonna be sorely disappointed with the caliber of men they attract. Seen it time and time again
"are there any normal girls who wear a cardigan and jeans?" You can go to a large gathering of any kind and see probably 10 women dressed like that
You can go to any store at see 10 women dressed like that.
You can drive down a busy street…
Jeans. Wow. What a rare piece of clothing. Has that person ever stepped outside? Everyone wears jeans.
What's a cardigan
I did have someone upset at me for holding a door for them once. It was a lil old lady who told me off for holding the door for her because she "is capable of getting a door herself" and I'm treating her as if shes 'feeble'.
I hold the door for ANYONE who is two steps behind me to save them from walking nose first into a closed door, I'm just being polite.
Same
same. don't be deterred by that little old lady. keep doing that.
In Canada it's a unspoken thing, if you get to the door first you hold it for the next person. Even seen people with mobility issues do it
My first girlfriend was always rushing to open at least half the doors. (I’m a woman, but that wasn’t exactly clear at the time…)
She was nearly a foot shorter, so it was less convenient for both of us.
She could walk under my arm, but preferred to like… hide behind the door in a crowded foyer.
But she was also always pushing me into the “man’s” role in the relationship.
It was constant whiplash. That’s not why we broke up.
ultimately it was “this girl is straight, and that doesn’t feel like a good thing and I’m not sure how to deal with that and I’m also just plan crazy so I shouldn’t be in a relationship.” I don’t mean “mentally ill” with “crazy” (though that’s the case) I was just out-of-control and didn’t want to get under control, because it was comfortable.
I live in Canada. We hold doors for anyone. Age and gender are not even considered. Someone is closeish behind you. You hold the door. Period. 😂
18:04 "my name is Ebony dark'ness dementia raven way" type shit. like that has to be from my immortal. like the 'real' goth calls herself goffik. c'mon now
A lot of people don't realize THEY aren't ready to be in a relationship and complain about being single. You're too messed up to be dating. Fix yourself first. As RuPaul always says, "If you don't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen"? 😅😅❤
Goth is trans inclusive. Period. 15 years before the trans rights movement was in the public eye, trans people were welcomed at my local goth club.
Same applies to Punk. Terfs trying to wedge themselves into spaces literally opposing them is weird.
Literally most alt communitys are at heart have liberal values to the core. To say otherwise is ignorant and your taking a community's aesthetic without knowing anything about it
@@cassideeznutz7 I'm spontaniously wondering if that is actually cultural apropreation. ... subcultural apropreation.
@@karowolkenschaufler7659 you're kinda right. It's, obviously not to the same level, but similar to people dressing in native American customs. It's honestly offensive and I don't like when my culture is used to spread hate
Absolutely! One of my favorite memories of the early 00s SeaGoth scene was introducing some newly out trans women to the joy that was the Nordstrom shoe department. 😂
I deliver food to senior citizens. Same route, so I get to know my clients.
Out of maybe a dozen women, I've got three with skin cancer... and those are the ones who have told me about it. Most wouldn't ever say anything unless I saw a bandage or something and asked.
It's on their faces and scalps. I can't tell you how many times someone has said "wear a hat, dear!"
One also told me not to sunbathe naked on the roof of your workplace on your lunch break. Like her and the other young women nurses in the 1960s. ("Could anyone see you?" "Not in the buildings but every once in a while a low flying plane would waggle its wings." Never underestimate how wild an old person's life might have been.)
Even if I'm very pale skinned, I don't use sunscreen because I absolutely hate the feeling. But I cover my skin with lon sleeve, long throusers/pants and stay as much as possible in the shadow.
Not a single sunburn in 15+ years!
“Never underestimate how wild” so true, reminds me of the Iliza Schlesinger joke about how we make up cutesy names for our grandparents and talk about how adorable they are, when most of our grandfathers were actually war veterans “Pop-pop has 53 confirmed k!lls!!!”
@@grenade8572 You can still get enough UV to cause cancer that way, fyi. But good job on avoiding the burns.
Sounds pretty insane
4:49 Honestly you need an Oedipus Complex square. There are alot of these moms who are creepily obsessed with their sons.
That's actually Jocasta complex. Which is the mom wants to commit the incest, rather than son, who usually is creeped out by it.
Edit: It usually comes about when the mother has unfulfilling adult relationships, and become overly attached to their son to fill the void. Women without sons can also pull off the complex by going after their daughter's boyfriends. It's a very unhealthy mental state and need therapy to address.
@@13thMaiden Funnily enough in Greek mythology, neither Oedipus nor Jocasta wanted an incestual relationship, but rather wanted to avoid it. But it was prophesied that he would kill his own father and marry his own mother, so it was bound to happen. When they found out Jocasta offed herself and Oedipus stuck his eyes out and ran into the forest never to be seen again. Fun times
@@ilikeswords5877 I wonder if Odeipus went to Midas. If so, then that'd be pure motherf*cking gold.
Very true. The whole unhinged boy mom crowd is wild. Not in a good way.
@@LloydTheZephyrianthis comment deserves more likes
“Feminism is bad for women” - Tell me you don’t know history without telling me you don’t know history.
29:24 ah... just looking at how clean their "outfits" are, the way the dirty bikes are parked in that shed and their lack of safety gear, padding, helmets etc leads me to believe that they weren't actually riding those quads, just posing for the photo. 😂 Yikes
I missed the key word "wanna" they want to drive (not ride) 4wheelers.
Sure girls, there's a lot of things I wanna do as well, I don't usually post it on the internet for attention.
CRINGE
The Asian racism is also made stronger by so-called passport bros. Men searching for a “trad-wife”, which is difficult in modern US/Western society.
This really disgusts me as an East Asian person. There are usually two stereotypes that Asian women seem to fall in between, submissive and traditional or loud and aggressive, which is usually with older women. There are already issues with Asian women fighting to be more recognized in workplaces, marriages, and most Asian women I know are strong and smart and not at all bothered with being a submissive, traditional wife, but it's sad that this is what we've been reduced to.
Cliccy is not like the other clicks, like notTheClick
I am not like The Click.
@@AIHumanEquality i am neither the click nor LGBTQLegend
My 69-year-old mother will be so disappointed that her two emergency c-sections disqualify her from being a real woman. The shame.
I had a stroke trying to read this for some reason 😭
@tuffaznailz13 I'm disappointed too 😂😂😂😂
“If you wanna be a real goth you have to be a TERF!”
Me, a trans goth girl:
Me, a trans goth boy:
Happy Pride!
@@DrachenGothik666 Welcome to the team bro, you're really fucking strong.
The email gives me "oh yeah? And another thing" vibes when you're in the shower or bed and you come up with that sweet retort to the conversation earlier in the day but like a year later. I'll bet she wrote it dripping wet and wrapped in a towel.
Or drunk af when trying to show him what he missed
It would be great if you could come up with those when you actually needed them
Boy mom square. A boy mom is a mother that kinda wants to date their son and is angry/jealous of any girl anywhere near their son. Would also work in insane parents bingo.
I'm writing a story where that's the protagonist's mother and just let me say it _hurts_ even to write aaaa 😭
I think they count under pick me tbh lol
I know the mom date ones in this video irl (I go to school w the boy) and she literally sits in his lap during games and has him piggy back ride her
Exactly!!
@@WalksAndWags-lh1xw I wish that such behavior ("Boy Moms") was taken seriously by Child Protection Services, but they are overworked and underfunded.
My I'm not like other girls phase was mostly "I've never had a crush on a boy". And yet somehow it took me almost a decade afterwards to realise I'm queer.
Same... but with the "I don't see why everyone talks about se# 🙄" BOOM ACE
Tha's actually kinda funny
The “show my child how to be treated so they are not impressed by someone’s mediocrity” can be genuinely sweet and fun for kids. My dad took me on daddy daughter dates where we would dress night and go out to dinner. He taught me and showed me how I should be treated both as a lady and by people in general. Opening doors, pulling out seats, hanging up my coat for me, all that. If you are treated badly in your childhood you are a bit more likely to accept mediocre treatment because it’s better than what you had. However, this only works if you teach your kids that they have to be deserving of this treatment and polite, not entitled, and the parent can’t be trying to keep their child to themselves forever.
what matters here is also an intention. Those mom don't do that things because they don't want their child to be treaten badly. It's pure hatred for yet non-existing partner and what they mean by "mediocre treatmeant" is something like "I will learn my son how to cook so he won't be satisfied with your microwaved pizza"
Yeah, there's a difference between modelling good behaviour and being all "no one will EVER be good enough for my angel"
There’s a Boy Mom culture that edges into weirdness in some of the posts. Usually expressing jealousy over an imagined future partner when the kid is only a few years old.
Normally, it would be a case of 'my parents' relationship helped inform me of reasonable expectations for my own relationship'. What these 'boy mums' want is a 'my mommy was my first love so I expect my future partner to be my mom rather than my partner'. Which is gross and immature and incestuous.
Genuinely. My dad treats me the same way so I don't get a boy offering to buy me a soda and think I've found true love. I appreciate him deeply.
13:23 can confirm it's still like this on FB. It's just accompanied by bad AI art from a bot account, followedby short messages that all use the birthday avatar background.
"slutty pizza". Well, that's my Halloween costume sorted!
And the prize for best costume goes tooooo:
@@hoopa6477 what about my horny deer-demon from last year 😢
Slutty pumpkin vibes
@@mariannapapikyan4123himym!!
All I see in my head is a pizza in fishnets
Anyone who thinks that c-sections are „the easy way out“
Please look up how many layers they have to cut through.
The healing process is rough, you are fully awake while knowing your belly is literally being cut open. You have a permanent scar and can have problems with your stomach muscles.
There are reasons why so many people used to die who got c-sections
Speaking as someone who has had 3 vaginal births and 1 emergency c-section, I agree with you 💯 %!!!
My firstborn, regular hospital birth ... took about a week to heal.
My next was an induction with an episiotomy ... took around 3 weeks to heal.
My third was a home water birth ... there was nothing to heal from.
My fourth was the emergency c-section (cord prolapse), which took about 6 weeks to heal completely on the outside layers, but have permanent damage to my abs, so that wearing pants with a button hurts. It was also about two years until I stopped having pain when I poked my tummy.
So many pants I don't wear now because they press against the scar. My child was 9+ lbs. High waisted pants and underwear have become my best friend.
My mom had a c section and felt like her stomach was tearing apart for weeks as it heals.
Been part of c-sections and everytime they say pull/tear I cringe so hard. Seeing someone's stomach being pulled open is horrifying. Glad I wasn't one who had to do it, our job was to attend to the baby once out.
12:08
"Im not feminist i just want to he able to own a small business-"
To whoever wrote this, feminism is about womrn having that CHOICE. Being able to have a restaurant would be a feminist ideal lmao.
An old colleague once told me, “I’m not a feminist, I like it when men hold the door open for me” and I looked her dead in the face and asked, “do you believe men and women deserve equal rights?” and she was like, “yeah, obviously” and I said, “congratulations, that makes you a feminist” and turned back around to my desk 😂
36:20 you're telling me an entire country fried this steak?
''The female community'' sounds like we're some sort of fandom
ooh...I remember being part of the female community way back as a kid. really embarrassing middle school times, honestly. I'm a man now
@@apollo298 Character development fr
Who is your favorite female, fellow humans?
@@apollo298 Also Gravity Falls pfp goes hard, that show is awesome
Does the Female Community -fandom include people, who aren't women themselves, but a huge fan of them?
Cliccy has fed us.
WE SHALL FEAST!!
RAHHHH
a breakfast feast 🙏
Delichous
IT IS ONCE AGAIN TIME FOR THE FEAST!
24:46 if women in that time didn't fight for more rights for other women, we would still not be allowed to vote, to work outside the house. We would still need the consent of our spouce/father to get a passport, open a bankaccount at our own name or even visit a doctor without his consent.
That's pretty crazy to thikn about
We couldn't get a mortgage without a husband or dad signing.
The "real mom" about birth and C-section 26:14 I ctually had that in person in 1985. A woman on the labor floor caw the C/S on my baby's bassinet while I was in hall walking her back to the unit and actually said to my face: "Oh, you had a C-section and took the easy way out" the nurse scrambled from the nurses station to separate us because I was going to deck her. I had 24 hrs labor, and hour of transition labor (abnormally long) the largest episiotomy known to medical science the trans lateral to try forceps, 24 hours of dry labor, internal monitoring, resulting in infection: uterine infection, sepsis, peritonitis resulting from baby crashing with heart rate in the low 60s forcing an emergency C-section where the doctor only changed his gloves to do it and didn't have time to wash his hands. We both nearly died.
17:43 Ebony Darkness is that you 🤣🤣🤣
I grew up on a farm and it frustrates me so much when these faux homesteaders and cottagecore people romanticize farm living because it sure as hell ain't that easy. We had angus cattle and chickens and we also mowed hay/prepped that and grew corn (maize) and soy beans. I recall us growing wheat once when I was a kid but most of the time it was corn or soy beans. My parents have struggled to feed us and themselves for a couple of decades now, though it's just them now (all us kids are grown and moved on). It's not a sweet little romantic thing. I'd like to see them last one day as a farmer. I guarantee you they won't make it.
I came down here just to say the same. Even something as simple as feeding chicks isn't simple. There's predators, and checking your heating, grinding to food, etc. Thank you for saying this.
That post was obviously from a city girl who never got near a chicken, let alone a cow. She wants to drift around in a pretty, rustic-looking dress and be "natural". No idea what the reality is.
Even a hobby farm looks like it would be a lot of work! I think the faux homesteaders want the cattle and chickens (in this example) more as pets, where they can interact with them but not have to do any of the work. Even if they were "just" growing and preserving food for the coming year, that's a HECK of a lot of work!
@@celticlass8573 Even a couple of years JUST preserving the bounty from our weekly summer CSA, while keeping a small patio garden, was exhausting. Since we both had day jobs, we had to spend weekends doing the preserving, making sourdough bread by hand, converting veggie leftovers to stock, and so on. We stopped when we moved because until one of us has the energy to work halftime and then do all of the preserving and homestead-style cooking,… we need our weekends to relax and play d&d! 😂
@@khills It's amazing isn't it? And you have to do it when the stuff is ready, too dang bad if you have a Quest scheduled at the same time lol. The first time I canned tomatoes I really liked the end result, but the processing was madness. Now I wash, blend and freeze. They don't stay good for as long of course, but I really only want them to cover the cold months.
Ballerinas are actually hella buffed out in the legs and feet and such. Professionals need to stand and dance for hours without shaking on her tip toes. Never try to get one to kick you folks.
Yup. Ballet is by far the most difficult sport on this earth
Cliccy: "You smell absolutely astounding today!"
Me, cleaning the litter boxes while listening: "..."
(He never did specify whether the smell was good astounding or bad astounding, so I'm still in the club, hell yeah!)
TBF he said you, not your surroundings. I bet you smelled just fine.
Smelling astounding like cat poop
33:29 if you mean Aromatic then as one I think I speak for the community when I say WE DONT WANT HER
Aromatic is smell. It's aromantic.
The woman in the very first post.... Tell me you have orthorexia without telling me. Health can be an unhealthy obsession too.
As a goth, the "real goth" one made me so sad :') more of us need to just stick to vibing to Siouxsie and the Banshees in a cemetery somewhere, and not worry so much about what we perceive to be "posers"
And goth is in fact a music subgenre, that's the music they're referring to!
And you are right about the inclusivity, "bigoted goth" would be incredibly oxymoronic 🤦
Reminds me of My Immortal lol
Interesting
As a young adult living on my own for the first time, I used to be annoyed when men held the door open for me, because I didn't want to be treated like I needed to be handled with care. I didn't show it, but inside I was embarrassed and a bit panicked whenever it happened. Then I started carefully holding doors for men (and women), and I got over feeling singled out or being given preferential treatment. I was treating everyone the same, so maybe the men who rushed to open doors for me were doing that too.
yay we’re ✨not like other bingos✨ here
17:16 gotta love the "cheap clothes/band merch" as if band merch is cheap! Sure, some stuff you can buy in regular shops but that's for the really well known bands like Queen or Nirvana
Although, you should avoid Dollskill because they are shady af and awful quality for what you get. Killstar is also dropping massively in quality so I would recommend buying second hand where you can to save yourself some cash :)
4:18 Dyslaxative 😂
37:16 fun fact, the artist who originally made this comic was a fetish artist who specialized In bimboification art, and someone asked him to do one in reverse and that's where the image came from
Tl;dr this is technically fetish art people turned into "not like other girls" stuff
Lol damn
As someone who has had a c-section, I can confirm the gatekeeping and offhand comments IRL. Had I attempted natural birth, she would’ve died as the cord had wrapped around her tiny neck 3 times. To this day my dad still says, “you didn’t give birth to her, she was hatched” to both myself and my mom…my daughter is 5 now and my younger sister is 35.
You definitely did give birth. And you and baby survived. Congratulations 🎊 people are idiots
Hatched!?
@@Null-value well in mammal (monotreme) eggs, the hatchling cuts an opening into the eggshell with its egg tooth. Maybe a surgeon with a scalpel would replace the egg tooth in the monotreme metaphor. I have no idea where I was going with this.
I am still concerned about the ex situation with the not-mother saying "let mommy help you" to a child who was right next to their biological mom
I am still extremely concerned about what she was thinking 😭
I heard that story on another channel. Essentially the ex and his new wife lost their child so he was using OP’s kid as a stand in.
@@Boundwithflame23 if you're talking about the story I think you are, it was recently revealed that the they lost their baby because the ex kept shaking it and it died.
@@kodomoshawn6729 where the ex’s new wife called OP’s kid “Gabrielle” (or Gabriella I don’t remember exactly)
@@Boundwithflame23 yeah, that one.
@@Boundwithflame23didn’t click cover this story?
" short guys can't get girls" excuse me, Danny DeVito?
"Omg, if only your man knew how good I fry my tator tots." 😂 I'm dying.
41:10 Broadcasting to the entire world that your husband is completely useless is not the flex you think it is, lady. Also, I love how she says "don't judge a relationship because it's different than yours" all the while she is absolutely judging other women's relationships for being different from hers.
As a skirt girl: I love leggings girls.... because I'm gay af
Lol
lol same
Glad I'm not alone
Click: “I had a good hair day, and then I destroyed it.”
Me: you have good hair days? My hair is always messy and kinda sticking out in some places.
My hair looks good messy. I'm lucky like that.
@@AIHumanEquality I wish I had that.
@@runningthemeta5570It actually looks less good non messy idk why.
@@AIHumanEqualityyou’re making me envious.
Own up to it. Be the crazy menace! 😂
1:50 Click’s dyslexia is too strong
26:19 I've seen so many videos from Drs at least supporting women who have C-sections, showing that it's about 7 layers down just to get there (I could be wrong).
But I do remember our skin alone is about 3 layers, that's why they have levels for degrees of burns.
Imagine being butchered so that you and your baby are healthy and safe, just for some entitled person to tell you that you did it "wrong" 🙃
34:42 I cannot properly express how much I hate this. People like this are the reason that certain activities that should be considered sports, aren't. Cheerleading, for instance, generally takes a high level of athleticisim and is competitive, but isn't properly regulated like other sports [because it's not considered one], and that lack of regulations and standards can lead to really awful accidents and injuries. So, yes, figure skating is a sport and I'm glad it has that designation so that people who practice it can do so more safely than they would without those regulations.
As a dyslexic myself, I almost spit out my drink laughing at dyslaxative...Thank you for brightening my day! And as someone that has worked in call centers for over 20 years I highly approve the Cat Call Center and Cat headphones
I always wonder why he said it that way
My poor sons, now adults, have been mistaken for my boyfriend, husband, older brother, starting at around 15. I feel so bad for them. It’s awkward as fuck. When I tell people, “no, he’s my son” the number of times someone has said, “are you sure” is seriously ridiculous. Of Course I’m Sure!!! At this rate, they will be mistaken for my father soon.
This made me picture your boys aging through life while you're quietly completely unchanged like some sort of immortal vampire. Just occasionally sticking your hand in your pocket to make sure your magic ring is still there kinda vibe.
Yep. My sperm donor started to get mistaken for my husband when I was 11. That would've made him THREE TIMES MY AGE!!!! The first time it happened I froze. The second time I replied "I'm in elementary school and he's my father" and they replied "Are you sure about that? You can't be, because then you'd be too young to have gotten married". Like the sheer audacity. Not only did they completely ignore the "he's my father" bit, they basically informed me I was wrong about my own age and marital status. Ugh. It only stopped happening when I came out as trans because apparently no one assumes a son and father are in a relationship.
@@eyesofthecervino3366 HA!!! I mean, you’re not too far off. I have a condition called Elhers Danlos Syndrome which keeps me from aging. Plus, I’m allergic to the sun, so I’ve stayed out of it my entire life. I look decades younger than I should.
@@ArtByJUSTSAM that would seem to imply you are *literally* a vampire, yes. LOL!
🧛♀️🤣😂😂😂
Thanks for another amazing video!! Always love these bingos ones!
As someone who helps my family run a small farm, I had a good chuckle at the post that said they wanted the farm life because it was easier than girlbossing. Farming is only easy if you a) have lots of family who are also working the farm or b) you're rich and can hire help so you don't have to do everything yourself.
Most days it actually just feels like trying to patch a ship that continually keeps springing leaks. One morning you'll find an entire stretch of fence that got torn down by your neighbor's cattle and you have to spend several hours in 100+ degree Fahrenheit heat fixing it. Or one of your horses steps on a rock and goes lame so you have to pay $480 for a farm call and construct an entire smaller pen for him to keep him from moving around too much. Or a storm tears down your chicken wire so you have to repair it quickly so your chickens don't escape. Or you have a family of packrats move into your feedroom and start tearing through your feed bags so you have to keep setting humane traps and escorting them to a field several miles away. (These are all real issues I've had in the past lol)
Don't get me wrong, I love it, but it's certainly not the easy life. Frankly there is no such thing as the easy life unless you have enough money to live comfortably without worry.
As a trans goth I didn't think I would have to state that you do not have to be a terf to be goth, like what the hell?!
Us trans goths should start a club! Trans-masc, here! 😜
@@DrachenGothik666 You should come to my university's rock music society events, it's full of trans goths 😂
@@DrachenGothik666what does trans-masc mean? Is it the same as a trans man?😭
Terfs are weird and stupid. They're contradictory too
The fact he’ll ruin his hair just to wear the wig will always be entertaining and funny
great entertainment comes with great sacrifices
R.I.P. click’s hair.
17:50 Okay girl, but like being a terf is something that actually makes you a poser. Alt subcultures aren't about exclusion and in-groups to feel superior over others.
Pushing back terfs is the only kind of gatekeeping I can get behind.
yeah, its always been the gatekeep-y, holier than thou because they dont listen to pop and country cliques that feel like they dawned the aesthetic to be edgy without understanding the history or the premise and just paint roller'd their values over anything they didnt like, deciding that their way was the only 'right' way when there shouldnt really be a 'wrong' way to begin with, except specifically that exact thing theyre doing lol
@@sketchiscribblr8285 Exactly!
The dog one I thought might have ended up being the "Actually Wholesome" one, with the guy complimenting the dog and then being kind about not actually being interested in dating because of the distance. But then, instead of either saying "no worries, have a good life!" or just keeping on chatting about good doggos with no expectation of more, she went and ruined it! One of these days you'll find another "Actually Wholesome", Click. One day...
Edit: Eyyyyy we _did_ get an "Actually Wholesome" this time, woohoo!
31:44 nice to know everything is Click approved 🤣🤣
The pasta measurment thingy was actually an image stolen from someone else. The original image was from someone saying "men always say they're this thick. Hate to break it to you but you're not, and if you were, nobodys going to survive sex with you."
There should be an variation of "not like other girls" in the bingo as "not like other moms" bc is insane how many of these exist
"I'm not like other moms. I have sex with my son so he knows how to please a woman. And no, i'm not from Alabama".
I came back to finish the video AND I CALLED IT 30:26
The "not a really mom" one was so unpleasant. My wife is a type 1 diabetic which is treated as a really high risk pregnancy by the NHS. They induce early in almost all circumstances. If the induction doesn't take however they perform a c-section. Luckily it didn't come to that. Our kid was not waiting and was out within about 12 hours of my wife reaching the first induction. But we could have been out the door that day after a night of labour, a c-section on the other hand is a SUPER invasive operation. My wife would have been in the hospital in recovery for a week after that. Not to lessen the trauma of quote/unquote "natural" birth but saying either is an easy option is dumb.
True
You can also be a mother by adoption or just have that role among children or a group. Being motherly is a trait. Being a mother is a bond. It's not about the birthing process.
I think some people forget that not all inductions and c sections are planned, and most c sections are medically necessary. Just because someone had a c section absolutely doesn’t mean they didn’t experience labor. Personally, I labored for 47 hours and pushed for 2 hours and still had to have my abdomen cut open and my organs removed- that’s the easy way out in some kind of fantasy world lmao
43:22 "i am the dragonborn" 🤣 please make that a category. please
42:00 Unfortunately, I have. I have literally had women ask me if I think they're invalid because I held the door for them. The funniest thing about that? Like probably 99% of the world's population that is physically capable of doing so, I hold the door for _everyone._ If I come up to a door and someone is approaching it from the other side, or is behind me, I'll hold it open for them, regardless of who it is. But, yes, it does happen, and no, it doesn't make sense. It's also not going to stop me from holding the door open for strangers.
I do wonder if it's a fear-based response. I remember when I was younger sometimes guys after holding the door open for you will basically stalk you and harass you expecting you to reciprocate with a date or something. The worst part is you can ever tell from the get-go what type of person they are. I'm like quick though I open the door for others and I let them open the door for me. I have learned to tell the weirdos to bugger off.
That "At least I'm not a liberal" shit is TOTALLY REAL! People get way too serious about that in our country. it is hilarious though, probably way more from the outside.
It's hilarious and bizarre from the outside, and often when called out by non-Americans, automatically followed up by calling the commenter liberal. Like DUDE, less than 20% of people on RUclips are from the US. So you're accusing me of 1) being from or living in your country, and 2) being the opposite of you in the (very strange) 2-party system. Like wot.
It may just be me, but when someone is so aggressive about their political leanings, especially when those leanings, perhaps only just in recent memory (? benefit of the doubt) are fraught with so many *really* bad qualities, it makes me instantly dislike them, and write them off as someone I'd never want to be friendly with in any way.
It's strange because there are so very few liberals in the US. Democrats are middle- or moderate-right conservatives, but because of American politics they think they're far left.
Personally, I dont think most people even in America are that serious. Its mostly just the dipshits at the far end because both sides can be as bad as each other. Shockingly, being at the extreme of a community, regardless of what that is, tends to be quite destructive.
Tempted to parody it, "At least I'm not a neoliberal, " and see how many people even know what that means :P
Me (outsider) and my friends (mostly US citizens) make fun of that kinda stuff all the time, didn't know it was really that serious.
(Shout-out to our best "insult" we got, "Sissy liberal[TM"])
Doc here, the “pasta measurement” thing is actually not that. It’s a device used for medical students, young doctors and any other providers in a labour room to practice before caring for a real patient in labour, to detect sizes of a cervical opening, which tells how progressed the labour is. Since the best way to tell that is to know this dilatation. Hope I don’t get censored by RUclips since I’m just trying to be educational here 😊
Edit: always love theClick content! Thank you for all the levity!
You unlocked a memory I buried. I had a lady full on screeching at me for holding the door open. It was at work coming back in from break. She was in the middle of the line and held people up. Some people went around her, but no one stood up for me or tried to talk her down. All I could do was walk away. I left that job not long after and I didn't hold doors open for people for a long time. I still have an anxiety response when I do. It is a real thing. Karens do actually exist in the wild. I wouldn't say it's common, but it only has to happen once to have a permanent psychological effect. I guess the good news of watching this video is I know what to talk about in my next therapy appointment.
Even if it was intended to be disrespectful in some way (which it wasn't) how much extra time must one have to consider it worthwhile to go on a full screaming tirade over something like that? Whatever happened to just thinking, "wow, what an a**hole", and moving on?
I am really sorry that happened to you! In my experience, it is women of a certain age (born in the 40's) who had to deal with a lot of misogyny who are more prone to get offended. Sending a big hug, you didn't deserve that
My first gf complained about it.
I’m a foot taller. One big step and I’m there first, and she could walk under my arm. She had to rush ahead and stand behind the door.
Then she would push “male” responsibilities on me at random times and it made me really uncomfortable to a degree I didn’t understand until I fully accepted that I’m a woman, too.
Whiplash.
@@GretchZ OMG I know what you mean. It always felt a little like a punch in the gut when people would be like you're a man go do man stuff man, and I am just like, but I just did my nails. It's honestly a little stupid how long it took me to realize what the issue was.
C-sections are actually so hardcore, like genuinely whats cooler then having ur stomach CUT OPEN for someone ELSES safety.
"So, what are you dressing as for Halloween this year?"
"Slutty pizza"
🤣🤣🤣
Where are my trans masc/enby siblings who realized they aren't like other girls because they aren't girls?! I'm pretty sure we've all gone through that phase lmao
Yep. I thankfully avoided the "All girls are a monolith" phase, but I just couldn't figure out how to relate to girls the way I could relate to boys. Like I could be friends with girls no problem, but I was so confused about so many things.
YOOOO HI GENDERFLUID TRANSMASC HERE
Hi. Enby here
Lol. The ultimate way to not be like other girls is to not be a girl at all
meeee
One thing, I swore to myself, after the experience of having my first two babies and my ex husband immediately expecting me to take on everything as before, plus taking care of a newborn and later a newborn and a toddler and having no other support is: I won't let this happen to friends or my kids or their partners.
It's not a flex to immediately take on work, household chores, older kids and what not after giving birth. Giving birth is always a trauma from which the body has to recover from and comes with a lot of side effects, like hormones bouncing all over the place, irregular sleep, a while little human to take care of and much more.
A family (not only the mother) should get support from others, to peacefully settle into this new way of living, to give everyone the chance to be happy about it.
🙌🙌🙌
I wonder why giving birth messes you up so badly
@@bigjalapeno7061 that's a good question! If you compare it to other mammals, who have to take on surviving again immediately after giving birth, we humans need much more rest.
Girlboss used to mean something good. It was about empowering women in a positive way. Now it's been ruined by misogynists and misandrists the same way the word feminism was.
It's been 'ruined' by the type of person it now describes. Basically mouthy bitchy pushy Karens.
@@diarmuidkuhle8181those people aren’t who the word girl boss describes, they’re just people who stole the word for themselves even though it doesn’t fit them
@@unusualsheepwas gonna comment the same thing. Awful people often tend to take positive things and twist them to their own meaning. It happens frequently unfortunately.
the term was silly and infantilizing in the first place. you wouldn't call a male boss a "boyboss".
It never ment anything good, it was always gonna end up being used in a toxic way no matter what
16:02 I would have just written back and said “I’m sorry, who is this? The name doesn’t ring a bell….” 😅
So I have a dumb and unhinged idea. If so many people are needing something to compete with just to feel good about their clothing/workouts/lifestyle in general, then what if we just deliberately invented an explicitly fake fictional person to compete with? Like Santa Claus, but for being mad at.
"I'm not like the Gerbelsnatcher -- I wear jeans and cardigans!"
"I'm not like the Pooky-too -- I go dirt-biking and I'm not afraid to get dirty!"
"I'm not like the æëöõôőœ -- I . . . don't believe in bacteria and self-medicate with earthworms."
Super dumb idea. Big "hate week" vibes. Why do we keep doing this to each other?
This is a marketable idea.
So a boy mom is an unhinged mom who is low key tryna date their son. It’s so creepy and unhinged, but there’s so many of them. Why? But yeah, that’s what that one mom is who said she’s dating her son. Gross
I know the mom date ones in this video irl (I go to school w the boy) and she literally sits in his lap during games and has him piggy back ride her
I've heard of another kind of Oidipus complex (a son that loves his mom a bit too much), it's called Thebe complex (a mom that loves her son a "bit" too much). Thebe was Oidipus' mom, that he married.
It's called a "jocasta complex" not a thebe. Jocasta was Oedipus' mother 😊
@@Achilleid Thx, was unsure. Though the sorce I read said that his mother's name was Thebe.
But the point still standing. 🙂🙂
42:17 “if someone is running up behind you” I just imagined a horror movie where they’re being chased and they just… stop to hold the door open LMAO
Haha! And the zombie/vampire/serial killer/whatever is completely thrown off by this and says, "...Oh, um, thank you!" and goes through the door... whereupon the intended victim then lets go of the door and runs the other way- leaving the bad guy now confused. "Hey, where'd they go?"
34:35 girl, you have no idea what goes into those practices. Ballet and dance of all forms is more than just flaunting your curves, it is an extreme practice that requires proper dieting, strenuous workout routines to maintain a flexible form and not break an ankle every time, and if you have not tried to stand on one leg for longer than a minute with the other leg in some strange position your body is not originally capable of, you have no right to judge. Dancing and ballet ESPECIALLY is an art and a sport and should not be disrespected.
Don't forget the bleeding feet and toes from practicing too much, and when a blister pops and goes all over your point shoes, so gross. Having to then soak your raw feet in disinfectant and salt. I loved Ballet but definitely don't miss that aspect. As both a Martial Artist and a former Ballerina I can honestly say Ballet was just as brutal.
@@masoncampbell8140 Honestly my closest experience I can say with this is roller skating. I got big blisters on my toes afterward, and that was just from having fun. I dance as a passing time and like to do some of those more performance-like dances and after a while... it gets very exhausting and can hurt if you don't stretch before hand. I have high respect for ballet performers simply out of trying to do what they do. My ankles were not prepared.
The girl in the first pic was a figure skater, so you can add insane jumps and spinning until you want to puke (they have a harness that spins them around so fast that blood pools into their arms) to the list. Oh, and more falls, a lot more. They need to train dance, gymnastics, and ballet, plus on top of that train to _somehow_ do all of them at once while zooming around on skates without breaking their ankles - or their necks. It's an extreme sport if anything, hockey players at least get pads.
@@midnighttheartist708 I left Ballet a long time ago now, so I doubt I could even get up on point anymore, but even years later that training comes in handy. When I first started Karate, I was able to pick it up quickly because of the balance, co-ordination, stamina and endurance I had learned from years of dance. Standing on one leg to kick repeatedly, seemed like a piece of cake compared to spinning on the toes of one foot, and learning Kata (set routines) was easy when you were used to learning 6--7 routines for a single show. I remember cutting the top of my foot in a competition once, just bandaging it up and going right back in, saying 'It's fine, I used to do Ballet, my feet have been through worse than this'. 😂
Fr, I've practiced taekwondo for about eight years now, and when I see a figure skater like that I see someone doing jumps and kicks I can only dream of while wearing knives on their feet. Seeing someone as less serious because they're dressed femininely is . . . hmmm, it seems like some kindofa bias there, some internalized something she might need to work through.