Accidents happen, but the second the kid got hurt and the dad chose not to get the kid medical attention, it became abuse. And the fact this kid thought he had to call 9-1-1 to get help proves that he didnt think his dad would take him.
hmmm i feel context mattters there seems to be a thing in first world countries were everything is abuse, broken finger before n didnt event realise for days n its wasnt like oh no take the kid away..it was n accident n we r tought to toughen up cause sometimes u cry just to get attention..i was guilty of tht at times... the whole police thing shows disrespcet and no man would want that in their own home period
@@BiggerDreamer I'm sorry but if the kid has to call 911 on his own at that age when his father is there, something is wrong. The kid should be able to go to his dad and request medical care. If the dad fails to do that it is child abuse.
It broke my heart when the boy responded "it's all my fault" regarding his father not coming home.😢 He's terrified but needs to know that he didn't do anything wrong.
What makes my skin crawl is the dad saying “So it is broken?” That tells me he suspected it but still didn’t take him to have medical attention. Withholding medical care is abuse. The fact that he was so quick to being angry and threatening shows he knew exactly what he was doing.
I mean there's nothing wrong with rough housing with your kid, but this is way,way,way,way too far. If your kid gets hurt when rough housing, might mean you need to tone it down a bit, for this dad. A lot.
When the parent doesn't let a fully decisional child - one that takes the time to call 911 after a very reasonable injury - talk about the injury/situation, this is concerning. Either it is very ignorant parenting or intentional violence; this is all a form of abuse.
He's just a kid ! If he really wants to play football put him in football ! But noooo Having a middle aged man slam his body against a 10 year olds body is a great idea .
…. You obviously don’t understand the cost it is to put a child into sports, the time missed from work to take them to games all of that costs money not everyone is privileged miss out on. You’re really going to bash on a father playing sports with their children?? Really?
@@madisonharkes226 No, I'm not saying that . I understand that not everyone can afford everything but im still saying that its not okay for a 30 year old man to slam his body agasint the poor kids body
It might have helped if the doctors explained to the boy that a 9-yo is not as tough as a 19-yo, and that Dad's tackle was wrongly calibrated. The son is not guilty of wrongdoing for being 9 years old, the dad is guilty of expecting his son to be an older teenager.
You wanna toughen the spirit, not the body. And life will naturally assist in the process as he continues living. Dad just has a lot of anger and you can tell.
Yeah it’s one thing playing some catch but if your breaking bones repeatedly then theres a toxic atmosphere. If his standard of being ruff is being able to shrug off broken fingers and stuff then why doesn’t he’s play with someone his size. It’s feels like he enjoys dominating someone smaller then him.
One major thing doesn't sit right. Besides the dad yelling at the kid, the kid saying "I'll tell them it was an accident" makes me feel like the dad may have had this happen before and made rhe kid lie for him. That's something abuse victims do. They are afraid of the abuser.
Raise your voice towards your kid when the EMTs are there, Thats DEFINITELY going to give them a good impression. Of course he's an abusive dick, so I guess I shouldn't be that surprised.
@@marthamitchell9452 Canadian here. Emergency patients are seen in priority order, not 'first come first serve.' Heart attack/burst appendix/bleeding to death/etc? Gets seen immediately. Broken bone - you're seen soon as they're done with the major emergencies I just listed, which could be anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours depending on how many people are having heart attacks that day. An ordinary sore throat and fever? You'll be there for many hours, because a minor ailment that could be taken care of by a walk-in clinic or basic at-home treatment is incredibly low priority And every one of the above cases gets the same medical bill - zero dollars.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me as a kid, in kindergarten my dad and I were rough housing, my wrist broke but my dad didn’t believe me, just had me put ice on it, this happened sometime in the morning. In the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep because my wrist hurt I went back to my parents and told them and my dad finally took me to the ER. Crazy to see this played out on TV
No, the way the dad is acting, this has happened before. The dad trying to toughen up his ten year old?? By playing with him like he was an adult?? They’re lucky the arm was the only thing broken.
When I was younger id rough house with my dad. Yes even as a girl, it was in the living room with my mom laughing at us, dont be weird. My parents wanted me to be a tough too, however my dad never tackled me, nor use it as an excuse to hurt me. I got "hurt" one time and it was because he was on the floor watching TV, I was gonna sneek tackle him, he saw movement through the TV and put his hand up thinking Id stop, it was in mid tackle unfortunately and i dove into his fist hitting my face 😂 he didnt know i had attacked until I hit his fist or else hed had put it down. Hes a retired EMT and looked me over immediately. I was dying laughing, my mom was freaking out and my dad apologized. My face didnt even swell up, i was fine dont freak out. But even with that my dad was attentive and would have taken me to the ER if I needed it. He monitored me for swelling all evening until I fell asleep. This guy is straight up abusive though (So i watched alot of fighting shows and films as a kid so liked to play fight with my dad and grandpa. They didnt want a weak daughter/granddaughter. I also play fought with friends its not abusive until people are getting seriously injured)
@@AnwesaChaudhury right, and in a way is okay if we get hurt, they didnt mean it and now we can handle pain better....no pain no gain 🤣🤣 so long as its not abuse 💁🏾♀️
I didn't realize until I was an adult that was abuse, my dad had a game he would play that was called ''choked you last'' he would run up to us and choke us out and say that.
Here in the states this dad would be more angry his son did this. Because there would be police and a ambulance, police to investigate the possibility of abuse, and an ambulance that would likely cost a lot for the dad. The kid would’ve been in more danger if this happened in the US if the father didn’t go to jail right then and there.
I don’t know anymore. So many kids are saying their parents are abusive when they really aren’t. Neighbor’s son told his parents that it was child abuse when they asked him to vacuum the floor.😂 Too many kids think that they shouldn’t have to share in the housework, even when they’re the one making the mess. They think the parents should do everything and the kids do nothing. I think if you do nothing you get nothing. No rides to the mall, no allowance, and certainly not a smart phone, if they even get that. This is teenagers and they can certainly contribute to keeping the house clean.
@@edwardguzman1182 because I believe in teaching them responsibility and that actions have consequences? All they would need to do to have everything restored would be to pitch in with the work around the house. If you thought that I meant one time of not doing something would result in the removal of all privileges forever you are even crazier than the kids. Do you do everything that needs to be done at your house and your kids just use you as a taxi and ATM? Or is that how your parents treated you? I worked for what I got and was grateful for whatever my parents could provide. I was very aware of what things cost and why I couldn’t have everything I wanted. Parents that don’t teach responsibility and a work ethic are not doing their kids any favors. I’ve watched more kids than I care to have a meltdown when life didn’t work like home did when they became adults. They had no idea that they would actually be held accountable for their actions. The boss doesn’t care if your bestie scored last minute tickets for a concert on a day you are scheduled to work. You are expected to still show up at work. If you don’t you may be looking for a new job. Your job as a parent is not to be your child’s best friend, it’s to help and guide your child to become the best person they can.
This was abuse even before the dad decided not to call the ambulance he abuses his son to toughen him up and this wasn’t the first time the dad even has a temper.
" he says i need to toughen up"......im sorry, but no, thats not cool. Accidnts do happen, but telling your child something like that is inappropriate, and mentally scaring. This poor kiddo.
i need to check this show out. i have been avoiding it because i thought it was about transplant surgeries. only just looked it up and dang was i way off base. time to play catch up now.
I Remember my mom's ex-boyfriends with play rough and a lot of times me and my sister would get injured because of it we had a lot of time when we cried because of how much pain it was like all of my mom's ex-boyfriends basically have the same personality always played Ralph they were grown men really tall and strong I even had a stain on my back because they hit me way too much hard i always get angry and cry every each one of them thought it was just joking 😃
I don't perceive and intent for malice. The dad needs some counseling on appropriate play and expectations, and some sensitivity training, but ripping apart a family that wants to be together over this is excessive.
I just wanted to point out, as I rewatch seasons 1 and 2 on peacock that SEASON 3 IS COMING OCTOBER 5TH ON NBC. YAHOO! It's like the only good thing we get out of the writers strike.
I would have been so thankful if my Dad would have gotten himself help with his anger issues. But as he sees it, he needs to get it out to not get ill. Unfortunately he doesn't care how ill he made me with it.
He needs to toughen up?! Dude, I heard that bones become stronger after breaking, but come on! Not like this! also How is 10 year old suppose to get stronger while fighting dude in his 40?
I grew up with an abusive father adopted father and he would be my adopted mom he when he gave me a black eye and middle school he threw my friend brother up the stairs we reported him for abusing me and my mom and my twin brother and my adopted dad never went to jail for anything
He was eve Flipping out. Even if it was an accident, just corporate and don’t make it harder then it has to be and worse then it already is. Accidents happen but he did fail to seek the kid medical attention. There’s signs of a broken arm such as swelling and increasing pain. It wouldn’t heal right without care. Even if it’s just sprained he should always seek medical care to be safe. Once they said they called the police and he would have to give a statement, his whole demeanor changed. He was playing cool up tell then. He also quickly lost his patience with them and his son after that.
They means later in the episode, if the guy was actually abusing the kid or not. In our point of view it’s obvious but tv shows like to mislead to make more drama interesting. So their just asking for more details after this scene
@@comicsans3421 I looked and my husband looked. We were watching it on a smart TV. Not on a phone or tablet or computer. I hooked my phone in to it just to ask this question. Have you ever thought of just being nice. Maybe get your head out of your butt and think maybe someone overlooked it. Rudeness is still not popular.
@@cylversprings i thought i was just being informative as many people who ask questions like that actually are too lazy to look so ask instead. seriously the amount of times i have seen someone ask a very simple already answered question because they didn't wanna look in the videos description i wouldn't be able to count on both hands. also if you could use your phone to ask you could have used it to check the description. but by all means call me a asshole if it makes you feel better
Mmmm. This is a tough case. While it may look like abuse to someone looking for it, it could also just be a dad who played with his son who got hurt. Dad probably brushed it off because when you play rough sports you get banged up a bit. His behavior with the authorities could be attributed to the fact that he is a man- society doesn’t take kindly to men taking care of kids, he knew that what his son said , and how he said it, would be scrutinized in every possible way. The moment he saw that EMS needed was angling to separate the boy from him, the dad may have gotten scared that he was going to be in a lot of trouble over what he thought was nothing. That’s just one way of reading this situation. The alternative is what most people seem to assume.
You are very right I think in this case it was just an accident and the dad got defensive because of how society will often jump to conclusions when a kid gets hurt. And I’m not saying that a kid getting hurt isn’t serious and shouldn’t be thoroughly investigated but I am saying accidents do happen and there is alway that fear that your going to loss something when you make a mistake in this case it’s the man’s son.
His kid broke his wrist and he didn't seek medical care. It also wasn't the first time "playing" with his son resulted in broken bones. And the child literally said his dad thought he needed to "toughen up." Also, "society doesn't take kindly to men taking care of kids?" What alternate dimension do you live in. You get put up on pedestals just for doing the day-to-day stuff most mothers do without any recognition. Learn to braid your kid's hair or have a tea party with your toddler and you're treated like father of the year.
Unless there is an underlying medical condition, or it's being done to save a kids life, a parent breaking their childs bones once, should be a wake up call, and should always, always have an accompanying hospital trip. No kid should feel they need to call 911 on a parent, or be too afraid to ask a parent for first aid
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@@brix-rb9dgDoctors might not come to your house because that does not happen in your country. It does happen in other places though. In France a doctor will come to your place if you have a severe tummy bug and feel like you cannot go out to see them. Yes, even at night. If a child called 911 (that is 112) in Germany saying they need help you will get an ambulante, a doctor will be on the way, and depending on how the call went you will get the police too.
One time it’s not provided medical care is given immediately but if a parent keeps injuring their kid during rough play and objects to medical care, then it’s abuse
The kid hurt his arm so badly he needed medical attention. The moment the dad refused to help him it became abuse. It’s also not common for parents to break multiple body parts of their kids. You can’t just “toughen” up a bone fracture. The rough play maybe wasn’t the issue, but the lack of care given afterwards.
@@saralisa823 the Dr and EMT still have zero legal authority to stop the dad from doing anything. Like is said I'd get angry as well at someone coming into my home and ordering me around with zero authority.
Accidents happen, but the second the kid got hurt and the dad chose not to get the kid medical attention, it became abuse. And the fact this kid thought he had to call 9-1-1 to get help proves that he didnt think his dad would take him.
100000%
The fact that he tried to hide the problem is very telling. Innocent people don’t have anything to hide.
hmmm i feel context mattters there seems to be a thing in first world countries were everything is abuse, broken finger before n didnt event realise for days n its wasnt like oh no take the kid away..it was n accident n we r tought to toughen up cause sometimes u cry just to get attention..i was guilty of tht at times... the whole police thing shows disrespcet and no man would want that in their own home period
@@BiggerDreamer I'm sorry but if the kid has to call 911 on his own at that age when his father is there, something is wrong. The kid should be able to go to his dad and request medical care. If the dad fails to do that it is child abuse.
@@BiggerDreamerhis arm was broken and dad wasn’t getting it seen. That’s borderline abuse at that point
It broke my heart when the boy responded "it's all my fault" regarding his father not coming home.😢 He's terrified but needs to know that he didn't do anything wrong.
It’s just a show lmao grow up
@@alexandramoyer8785 You grow up. You didn't have to waste your time reading my comment and then respond.
@@alexandramoyer8785based on real life events. So you grow up and realize this stuff really does happen
@@alexandramoyer8785why do you consume media
@@alexandramoyer8785 And Star Trek is just a show to, but people talk about it like its real. This is how normal people process media. Get over it.
What makes my skin crawl is the dad saying “So it is broken?” That tells me he suspected it but still didn’t take him to have medical attention. Withholding medical care is abuse. The fact that he was so quick to being angry and threatening shows he knew exactly what he was doing.
I mean there's nothing wrong with rough housing with your kid, but this is way,way,way,way too far. If your kid gets hurt when rough housing, might mean you need to tone it down a bit, for this dad. A lot.
It means you need to take a break and do a health check.
And if there is an injury, get it taken care of.
Normal roughhousing doesn’t cause broken bones.
When the parent doesn't let a fully decisional child - one that takes the time to call 911 after a very reasonable injury - talk about the injury/situation, this is concerning. Either it is very ignorant parenting or intentional violence; this is all a form of abuse.
He's just a kid ! If he really wants to play football put him in football ! But noooo Having a middle aged man slam his body against a 10 year olds body is a great idea .
yeah would like to know that aswell, what's the story...?!
…. You obviously don’t understand the cost it is to put a child into sports, the time missed from work to take them to games all of that costs money not everyone is privileged miss out on. You’re really going to bash on a father playing sports with their children?? Really?
@@madisonharkes226 No, I'm not saying that . I understand that not everyone can afford everything but im still saying that its not okay for a 30 year old man to slam his body agasint the poor kids body
@@starzy_latei agree with you
@@madisonharkes226 So because some people are poor, it’s ok for a grown ass man to break a child’s wrist?
It might have helped if the doctors explained to the boy that a 9-yo is not as tough as a 19-yo, and that Dad's tackle was wrongly calibrated. The son is not guilty of wrongdoing for being 9 years old, the dad is guilty of expecting his son to be an older teenager.
Makes me wonder how much dad really explains to son cause son seemed to think it was kinda ok
You wanna toughen the spirit, not the body. And life will naturally assist in the process as he continues living. Dad just has a lot of anger and you can tell.
Yeah it’s one thing playing some catch but if your breaking bones repeatedly then theres a toxic atmosphere. If his standard of being ruff is being able to shrug off broken fingers and stuff then why doesn’t he’s play with someone his size. It’s feels like he enjoys dominating someone smaller then him.
One major thing doesn't sit right. Besides the dad yelling at the kid, the kid saying "I'll tell them it was an accident" makes me feel like the dad may have had this happen before and made rhe kid lie for him. That's something abuse victims do. They are afraid of the abuser.
Raise your voice towards your kid when the EMTs are there, Thats DEFINITELY going to give them a good impression. Of course he's an abusive dick, so I guess I shouldn't be that surprised.
When does a doctor come to your house when you call 911. Wtf lol
I've heard about ride alongs as part of training, seeing about switching careers or maybe trying to add on some skill sets.
i mean when a child calls, there is a reason.
It’s Canada. If he went to the emergency room he’d wait for hours on end to be seen. I have heard horror stories from Canadian friends.
@@marthamitchell9452 Canadian here. Emergency patients are seen in priority order, not 'first come first serve.' Heart attack/burst appendix/bleeding to death/etc? Gets seen immediately. Broken bone - you're seen soon as they're done with the major emergencies I just listed, which could be anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours depending on how many people are having heart attacks that day. An ordinary sore throat and fever? You'll be there for many hours, because a minor ailment that could be taken care of by a walk-in clinic or basic at-home treatment is incredibly low priority
And every one of the above cases gets the same medical bill - zero dollars.
When a child makes the 911 call and the EMS is dispatched with a doctor aboard.
Almost the exact same thing happened to me as a kid, in kindergarten my dad and I were rough housing, my wrist broke but my dad didn’t believe me, just had me put ice on it, this happened sometime in the morning. In the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep because my wrist hurt I went back to my parents and told them and my dad finally took me to the ER. Crazy to see this played out on TV
Poor kid. He just wants to make his dad happy.
No, the way the dad is acting, this has happened before. The dad trying to toughen up his ten year old?? By playing with him like he was an adult?? They’re lucky the arm was the only thing broken.
When I was younger id rough house with my dad. Yes even as a girl, it was in the living room with my mom laughing at us, dont be weird.
My parents wanted me to be a tough too, however my dad never tackled me, nor use it as an excuse to hurt me.
I got "hurt" one time and it was because he was on the floor watching TV, I was gonna sneek tackle him, he saw movement through the TV and put his hand up thinking Id stop, it was in mid tackle unfortunately and i dove into his fist hitting my face 😂 he didnt know i had attacked until I hit his fist or else hed had put it down.
Hes a retired EMT and looked me over immediately. I was dying laughing, my mom was freaking out and my dad apologized.
My face didnt even swell up, i was fine dont freak out.
But even with that my dad was attentive and would have taken me to the ER if I needed it. He monitored me for swelling all evening until I fell asleep.
This guy is straight up abusive though
(So i watched alot of fighting shows and films as a kid so liked to play fight with my dad and grandpa. They didnt want a weak daughter/granddaughter. I also play fought with friends its not abusive until people are getting seriously injured)
Yeah but what he did was natural instinct. He didn't do it on purpose. Tackling carries risks. That's common sense
Same here as a girl but would get worried if I got hurt
@@samg873 thats my point though. The guy in the video is abusive and using rough housing as an excuse. Im showing how hes wrong.
@@AnwesaChaudhury right, and in a way is okay if we get hurt, they didnt mean it and now we can handle pain better....no pain no gain 🤣🤣 so long as its not abuse 💁🏾♀️
@@BVBGirl-3313 oh sorry. Guess I wasn't really paying attention to what you meant
I didn't realize until I was an adult that was abuse, my dad had a game he would play that was called ''choked you last'' he would run up to us and choke us out and say that.
Holy crap! Why would he think that was ok? I hope you don't speak to him now.
This is definitely a case of abuse and the dad has definitely hurt the kid more times in the past.
"The dad insists he just landed wrong" the bias is clear in that doctors tone, hes already made up his mind
Here in the states this dad would be more angry his son did this. Because there would be police and a ambulance, police to investigate the possibility of abuse, and an ambulance that would likely cost a lot for the dad. The kid would’ve been in more danger if this happened in the US if the father didn’t go to jail right then and there.
I don’t know anymore. So many kids are saying their parents are abusive when they really aren’t. Neighbor’s son told his parents that it was child abuse when they asked him to vacuum the floor.😂 Too many kids think that they shouldn’t have to share in the housework, even when they’re the one making the mess. They think the parents should do everything and the kids do nothing. I think if you do nothing you get nothing. No rides to the mall, no allowance, and certainly not a smart phone, if they even get that. This is teenagers and they can certainly contribute to keeping the house clean.
I definitely think the real cases of abuse might get buried because of factors like that.
@@marthamitchell9452I hope you never have children and if you do that they abandon you, your not fit to be a parent ☺️
@@edwardguzman1182 because I believe in teaching them responsibility and that actions have consequences? All they would need to do to have everything restored would be to pitch in with the work around the house. If you thought that I meant one time of not doing something would result in the removal of all privileges forever you are even crazier than the kids. Do you do everything that needs to be done at your house and your kids just use you as a taxi and ATM? Or is that how your parents treated you? I worked for what I got and was grateful for whatever my parents could provide. I was very aware of what things cost and why I couldn’t have everything I wanted. Parents that don’t teach responsibility and a work ethic are not doing their kids any favors. I’ve watched more kids than I care to have a meltdown when life didn’t work like home did when they became adults. They had no idea that they would actually be held accountable for their actions. The boss doesn’t care if your bestie scored last minute tickets for a concert on a day you are scheduled to work. You are expected to still show up at work. If you don’t you may be looking for a new job. Your job as a parent is not to be your child’s best friend, it’s to help and guide your child to become the best person they can.
@@edwardguzman1182Um she’s not wrong
1:01 yeah talking in his behalf...ABUSE ALERT
It's not playing if they break a part of your body
Children break bones playing spot all the time. I’m not saying this was abuse I’m just saying it happens.
You know how easy it is for a child to break a bone? Some kid at my school has a full arm cast because he tripped during band 💀
@@gizzmowalliss his behaviour is abusive.
@@gizzmowallisshe wasn't playing a sport. A man 20 years older than him tackled him. No comparison between the two
This was so weird. 911 emergecy response would not be just two people who aren't in uniform lol
The kid will toughen up by the time he's 19 and then he will slap his dad around when his dad is 70.
0:09 2319! WE GOT A 2319!
HAHAHA
My exact thoughts!
I'm surprised the CDA didn't start swarming the area when she said that.
🧦😱
I literally lol'd when they said it.
That dad epitomises toxic masculinity.
Anyone catch that the boy also said he broke his finger before? Dad is being too rough...needs counselling
I was not expecting to see John Hannah. What a treat!
This was abuse even before the dad decided not to call the ambulance he abuses his son to toughen him up and this wasn’t the first time the dad even has a temper.
What was the outcome of this?
" he says i need to toughen up"......im sorry, but no, thats not cool. Accidnts do happen, but telling your child something like that is inappropriate, and mentally scaring. This poor kiddo.
2319!!!! Hey....that's from Monsters Inc. 😂
Toughen up is code for you are not good enough
i need to check this show out. i have been avoiding it because i thought it was about transplant surgeries. only just looked it up and dang was i way off base. time to play catch up now.
What’s the show called
I Remember my mom's ex-boyfriends with play rough and a lot of times me and my sister would get injured because of it we had a lot of time when we cried because of how much pain it was like all of my mom's ex-boyfriends basically have the same personality always played Ralph they were grown men really tall and strong I even had a stain on my back because they hit me way too much hard i always get angry and cry every each one of them thought it was just joking 😃
wow. i was on the side the kid was just being a derp, but i was very wrong O_O
I don't perceive and intent for malice. The dad needs some counseling on appropriate play and expectations, and some sensitivity training, but ripping apart a family that wants to be together over this is excessive.
First! Great vid!
I just wanted to point out, as I rewatch seasons 1 and 2 on peacock that
SEASON 3 IS COMING OCTOBER 5TH ON NBC. YAHOO! It's like the only good thing we get out of the writers strike.
His dad clearly has a temper problem, probably abuses the mother sometimes. If u have anger issues seek help don't take it out on ur family.
The way he said " you called 911 why didn't you tell me" even sounded mean
I would have been so thankful if my Dad would have gotten himself help with his anger issues. But as he sees it, he needs to get it out to not get ill. Unfortunately he doesn't care how ill he made me with it.
Yeah, but more than likely, sooner or later, this kid ends back at home with Dad. What happens then?
He needs to toughen up?! Dude, I heard that bones become stronger after breaking, but come on! Not like this!
also
How is 10 year old suppose to get stronger while fighting dude in his 40?
Actually, bones become weaker when they break.
@@heathercontois4501I actually heard for first 6 months after a break they are stronger
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I grew up with an abusive father adopted father and he would be my adopted mom he when he gave me a black eye and middle school he threw my friend brother up the stairs we reported him for abusing me and my mom and my twin brother and my adopted dad never went to jail for anything
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He was eve Flipping out. Even if it was an accident, just corporate and don’t make it harder then it has to be and worse then it already is.
Accidents happen but he did fail to seek the kid medical attention. There’s signs of a broken arm such as swelling and increasing pain. It wouldn’t heal right without care. Even if it’s just sprained he should always seek medical care to be safe. Once they said they called the police and he would have to give a statement, his whole demeanor changed. He was playing cool up tell then. He also quickly lost his patience with them and his son after that.
do they ever figure out if this was abuse?
What do you mean? We can see for ourselves that it is. He pretty much admits it.
They means later in the episode, if the guy was actually abusing the kid or not. In our point of view it’s obvious but tv shows like to mislead to make more drama interesting. So their just asking for more details after this scene
@@overthinker5877yeah, with twists like the child has a condition that leaves him with brittle bones that break easily.
@@overthinker5877from body language something going on
@@overthinker5877the father is abusive right in front of the friggin camera.
fifth!! I love this show so much!!!
What show is this??
it literally says the shows name in the title and the description. i would recommend reading those before asking questions like this.
This show is Transplant TV. A Canadian series,from 2022. Episode is Relapse Ep #12 season 1.
@@comicsans3421 I looked and my husband looked. We were watching it on a smart TV. Not on a phone or tablet or computer. I hooked my phone in to it just to ask this question. Have you ever thought of just being nice. Maybe get your head out of your butt and think maybe someone overlooked it. Rudeness is still not popular.
@@comicsans3421it’s not even accurate big guy, I would recommend CHECKING the sources before boasting them
@@cylversprings i thought i was just being informative as many people who ask questions like that actually are too lazy to look so ask instead. seriously the amount of times i have seen someone ask a very simple already answered question because they didn't wanna look in the videos description i wouldn't be able to count on both hands. also if you could use your phone to ask you could have used it to check the description. but by all means call me a asshole if it makes you feel better
2319 is a Monsters Inc easter egg
Yeeeeeees that made me trip
i wouldn't let those two in, they don't look like EMT, especially him.
Mmmm. This is a tough case. While it may look like abuse to someone looking for it, it could also just be a dad who played with his son who got hurt. Dad probably brushed it off because when you play rough sports you get banged up a bit. His behavior with the authorities could be attributed to the fact that he is a man- society doesn’t take kindly to men taking care of kids, he knew that what his son said , and how he said it, would be scrutinized in every possible way. The moment he saw that EMS needed was angling to separate the boy from him, the dad may have gotten scared that he was going to be in a lot of trouble over what he thought was nothing.
That’s just one way of reading this situation. The alternative is what most people seem to assume.
You are very right I think in this case it was just an accident and the dad got defensive because of how society will often jump to conclusions when a kid gets hurt. And I’m not saying that a kid getting hurt isn’t serious and shouldn’t be thoroughly investigated but I am saying accidents do happen and there is alway that fear that your going to loss something when you make a mistake in this case it’s the man’s son.
Given that his son called 911 rather than trying to convince his parent (gender be damned). There's a problem.
His kid broke his wrist and he didn't seek medical care. It also wasn't the first time "playing" with his son resulted in broken bones. And the child literally said his dad thought he needed to "toughen up." Also, "society doesn't take kindly to men taking care of kids?" What alternate dimension do you live in. You get put up on pedestals just for doing the day-to-day stuff most mothers do without any recognition. Learn to braid your kid's hair or have a tea party with your toddler and you're treated like father of the year.
Unless there is an underlying medical condition, or it's being done to save a kids life, a parent breaking their childs bones once, should be a wake up call, and should always, always have an accompanying hospital trip. No kid should feel they need to call 911 on a parent, or be too afraid to ask a parent for first aid
Um. Are we ignoring the fact that this isn't the first time the son has broken a bone while "playing" with his Dad?
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And sorry I know it was pretty random to say this on a video like this...
I pray for all the people who have gone through this situation :)
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This scenario and the interactions seem poorly scripted. How did this series survive the first season?
As someone who had a dad who “played rough” and systematically abused me and my little sister, I can assure you the scenario happens exactly this way.
@darchangel8675309 No, no it does not. Doctors do not come to your house due to 911 calls regardless of how much you get abused
@@brix-rb9dgDoctors might not come to your house because that does not happen in your country. It does happen in other places though. In France a doctor will come to your place if you have a severe tummy bug and feel like you cannot go out to see them. Yes, even at night. If a child called 911 (that is 112) in Germany saying they need help you will get an ambulante, a doctor will be on the way, and depending on how the call went you will get the police too.
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Shows like this can make the least thing into abuse. Not saying this isn't, just saying rough play isn't always abuse.
One time it’s not provided medical care is given immediately but if a parent keeps injuring their kid during rough play and objects to medical care, then it’s abuse
The kid hurt his arm so badly he needed medical attention. The moment the dad refused to help him it became abuse. It’s also not common for parents to break multiple body parts of their kids. You can’t just “toughen” up a bone fracture. The rough play maybe wasn’t the issue, but the lack of care given afterwards.
2319!
This is silly really
The Doctor and the EMT have ZERO authority to stop the dad from doing anything. I'd get angry as well.
It's the way the dad was acting is why I think they did it
@@saralisa823 the Dr and EMT still have zero legal authority to stop the dad from doing anything. Like is said I'd get angry as well at someone coming into my home and ordering me around with zero authority.
Please, tell me you do not have children.