Alter Ego Forcing Patient to Leave her Husband | Chicago Med | MD TV
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- Опубликовано: 30 июл 2023
- Dr. Charles and Dr. Reese treat a woman who has an unusual personality disorder.
From Chicago Med Season 2 Episode 13 'Theseus' Ship' - Dr. Latham is talked into going with Dr. Rhodes on a medical trip out of town; an 8-year-old cancer patient wants to give up; a woman with a personality disorder makes a case complicated.
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That actress did so well playing two egos! Wow!
Yes❤😂she did
LMFAO. . . . You realize this was SCRIPTED right? There are no such things as "alter egos". . . Anyone who hears voices or thinks they are another person needs to be admitted to a Psych Hospital
Have you googled the subject of tulpa's and alters@@jamedlock83 before you completely dismiss them outright
@@jamedlock83they literally said actress, they’re talking about the acting not the plot chill out
@@jamedlock83yes, Dissociative Identity Disorder is a thing and it’s mental. It’s real but psychological
Love how well the actress portrayed this. Not just in her voice, but mannerisms also. Alters are just as varied as "regular" people.
True identity disorder the two identities are almost never able to speak to each other. The idea it's her "friend" is so far from reality.
@@latentgamer5762 you say it yourself, *almost* never. the portrayed case may have been just that. then again it doesn't need to be entirely accurate, it's not an educational program.
@latentgamer5762 that's false. Many systems have parts who are able to know of and communicate with each other. Obviously this woman being able to create an alter as an adult without any known childhood trauma is false so they decided to spin an episode off DID again that possibly hurt the community with making others seem as though they are fake thanks to this.
@@HaldisPyralistactical Thats only the fake ones on tictok. People who ACTUALLY have multiple personalities don't talk to each-other. That's the entire point of the machanism, someone else takes over to protect the main person. They can't talk to each other.
@@latentgamer5762it is entirely possible for alters to communicate to a certain degree once they become more aware of each other and their condition. it’s also totally possible that becca was made at a much younger age but didn’t become noticeable until high school. majority of people with identity disorders don’t discover it until adulthood or late teens because that is the nature of the disorder, to remain hidden and keep the host unaware. communication between alters is complicated and often not very easy but there is no one size fits all for identity disorders and how they present beyond the fact they need to form before the ages of 7-9 years old when the personality is supposed to form. it’s a complex disorder that we are still studying and don’t fully understand to this day. (from someone earning their masters is counseling and psychology)
To me, Grace created "Becca" so she didn't suffer or to overcome traumas. When Becca said "I'm the reason she was able to move out from her parents house" It made think that Becca had a traumatic childhood with abusive parents and was a victim of bullying in high school. We all wish to not suffer or feel pain but there are many differents ways to handle pain and trauma. There are people who creat an alter ego to defend themselves. Grace suffered through so much and "Becca" is a picture of that person she always wished to have in her life
You are talking about Dissociative identity disorder, that is from repeated childhood trauma. People who have DID are not aware they have created alters, it just happens. Theres also amnesia barriers from fronting alters, communication between them takes time and doesnt come easy. There is also OSDD which doesnt have the same amnesia barriers and communication is easier.
Tulpas are basically imaginary friends.
Grace probably has OSDD
@@BVBGirl-3313 I'm sorry for the ignorance but what is OSDD?
@@nicolasdiez7688 it basically means otherwise specified dissociative disorder. Its like DID where there are altera but they usually dont have amnesia barriers between the alters fronting, though they usually have amnesia from trauma or an emotional amnesia barrier. People with OSDD can typically access certain systems memeories alot better than those with DID.
So with DID and an alter fronts something could make them upset and they destroy an art project. When another alter fronts all they see is destroyed art not knowing who did it or why.
OSDD they will know they destroyed the art, mostlikely which alter did it and probably why, however the new alter wont be as agro or understand why the other became agro.
Now bare in mind this is just what ive understood from following people with DID and OSDD
For info on DID the channels Dissociadid and Multiplicity and Me are great
For OSDD ive only really only found one channel the Ring System
They don’t choose to create the ‘altars’. It’s their mind that creates them in order to cope with severe trauma and abuse.
@@dmf1301 Theres a small chance that the alter Becca is aware of why the mind split and the system has high levels of communication between those two alters. There could be a gatekeeper alter that never fronts or communicated but influences them into thinking Beccas a tulpa.
However there is a higher chance that Becca is just a Tulpa. There is a thing people call your shadow side, the parts of you hidden from others and sometimes youve denied it so long even yourself. If she named her shadow side and turned it into a tulpa, shes just expressing a side of her she wants hidden but feels comfortable expressing under a differnrt name.
Something I don't see people talking about is the fact that "Becca" is not a nice person. Grace created her in High School, and it honestly shows, while Grace continues to mature as a person, "Becca" is still a typical High School Mean Girls brat who likes to bully Grace around. I'm sure Grace doesn't see it as Becca being mean, but let's look at the interactions here:
Becca wanted to drive the car, even though Grace knows for a fact Becca is a bad driver. Becca ends up getting her way and crashes the car, she could have killed Grace or killed innocent bystanders, and she shows no remorse for it.
When Becca is called out to talk to the doctors and the husband, she acts all smug and smarmy about the fact she's sure she's better for Grace than her own husband, and if forced to choose Grace will always pick her. She argues with Grace that her husband doesn't love her and is actively making her marriage fail.
I know its not as simple as all that, but Grace describes Becca as a separate person, but if we look at Becca and pretend she was a living, breathing second person would anyone not think Becca was being a toxic witch? Forcing her friend to let her drive even though she's a terrible driver and getting into accidents? Trying to manipulate her friend into leaving her husband so she'd have more time to spend with her? These are not behaviors for a healthy friendship.
Becca may be stuck as a teenager, which makes sense of all the behaviours wanting to drive, being mad when someone tries to break up their friendship, being cocky
i love how Dr Charles is always so open about things. this is what a psychiatrist should be always. they are open to absolute everything that can go on in our mind and like he puts it the difference between coping mechanisms and disorders is so blurry.
Say what you will, the husband clearly cares given he’s actually taken the time to learn a lot of this stuff about tulpas, even though they’re admittedly something crazy.
My dad I think has this.
When he was very young he was abused in every way.
When he was 9 or 11 he created these two personalities to save him.
Georgia and lexa.
One of them being his protector. Keeping him and others safe. Starting fights when he was young or being his confidence.
And he has almost a little. One that'd his compassion and empathy. The one that needs to be protected.
Without them he wouldn't be here. And I'm the only one who knows and respect him being a host to his particular system.
But he isn't at all DID or schizophrenia, he literally in a 'normal' person who created people to help him survive trauma.
It's very fascinating if you actually think about it
What you described sounds like DID tho. Trauma at very young age due to which alters came to be. He probably has a protector and a caregiver. He could be a part of a DID system. I am no doctor so consult with a psychiatrist or a psychologist.
@nightlock2557 One of the things that can be a deciding factor in diagnosing a mental disorder is how much it impairs their daily life, which may have been part of Dr. Charles' argument in the video. It sounds to me like this person's dad is very functional and may, or may not. Fit that specific criteria
Would just like to add my opinion here: it may not be DID, but it could have started out as imaginary friends and then be made into an alter. But that sounds like a system. May not be DID but here are the other disorders that are centered around what youve described: UDD, OSDD1A, OSDD1A or P-DID! hope this helps a little bit!
DID is a spectrum. The younger and more severe the trauma, the less integrated and more volatile the splits. I'm at the very mild end of the spectrum. I have avoidant attachment style behaviors and very distinct and dichotomous facets of personality that shift with my Bipolar II. I can completely shut off engagement if threatened with intense emotions to the point of near catatonia or I can mask with extreme and unsafe behavior. I have no disconnect between the facets even though they feel like separate entities. I even used to have different personas that I would introduce myself as when hitting the club/bar circuit. I think it should be called something more like Avoidant Dissociative Spectrum Disorder.
I am so sorry that your dad went through that TRAUMA
So its just an alter born out of her anxiety, isolation, and insecurity of self. Understandable. Its known alters can be born of trauma, coping mechanisms to deal with facets of ones self or experiences that the host alone cannot. This is just a less severe version of that.
Tulpas come from Theosophy, an occult religion developed in the USA by some Russian.
@@stephenking5852what the heck are you talking abt man?😂
so Grace created Becca to help her keep her sanity in check from some kind of Trauma she suffered from as a child I can't really blame her but her Husband could at least try to understand that it's how Grace copes with things but instead he's gonna send her DIVORCE paper's and throw it all away
Yeah.. if you were a child. She's not, she's a grown adult
@@e.y1734 "The tulpa was first described by Alexandra David-Néel (1868-1969) in Magic and Mystery in Tibet (1929) and is still regarded as a Tibetan concept. However, the idea of the tulpa is more indebted to Theosophy than to Tibetan Buddhism" maybe if u search up the definition
It sounds like this girl creates an alter ego through which she could deal with any sort of emotional trauma like her abusive parents or being brave enough to leave an unstable home and go out into the world on her own. It’s actually kinda impressive and very interesting
Dissociative Identity disorder only forms through repeated abuse and trauma in their childhood
Interesting fact about multiple personality disorder. In some cases where the alternative identities with physical differences, such as allergies, right-or-left handedness or the need for glass the body of the main person that usually doesn't have these issues will physically change.
Please dont call it MPD. It's DID.
@@noname-qw9td It's the same thing. That's like calling a UFO a UAP, technically it's both correct. Doesn't really change anything.
@@noname-qw9tdwho cares. Same thing
@@MaddoxMelton Not the same thing. Thank god you're not a doctor if you think outdated and incorrect diagnoses and terms are valid or correct.
That’s actually never been proven to be true.
The husband looks like Nathan Kress (Freddie from ICarly)
I thought so, too!
He was in season 7 too playing another character
No he don’t lol
I ALSO THOUGHT THAT!!! I thought it was just me.
8:06 wow Dr Charles words that you want to listen to again!
"Intestinal bacteria could be the determining factor of our emotions." That got my attention
So many people in the comments seem to think this is DID when it’s really not. A Tulpa is completely different thing not caused by a break in childhood. A Tulpa is a conscious decision to have “a alter”willed to be, DID on the other hand is not & often is formed at such a young age the conscious decision part of it goes out the window.
Do you think some people on TT accidentally created Tulpas?
I believe that people with DID do not have much if at all control of the creation of alters. It seems like tulpas need to be “fleshed out” to become the host’s companion whereas for DID, alters are born to be part of the system.
the entire chigago shows go hard asf
REAL
It's the same thing that had Norman Bates. He created an alter ego of his own mother triggered by his need to no be alone and because of depending entirely of his mother, and it started when he killed both his mother and her boyfriend. He developed a new personality inside of his mind of his mother and later he went beyond and started dressing and emulating her voice to the point the 'mother' became the dominant part of him and took over his body and mind, with Norman surrendering to her and allowing her to '"manifest"
Dr Charles! The best character!
Having this myself and seeing it talked about in one of my fav programs has really made me happy. They portrayed it perfectly
what's it like if you don't mind me asking and don't mind sharing? Yeah sure, Google is out there but it's not the same, y'know?
Careful most online people are self diagnosed or faking it for attention
Sometimes it's the best and most effective coping mechanism.
@@runsoncaffeine For me it sucks. My other person takes over and I lose hours and have no clue what she did
@@Zoedrake707 that’s crazy, I’m sorry to hear that
As someone with DID i am impressed with episode.
I feel bad for the husband, imagine if something in your wife hates your guts, and the other loves you.
The husband hates part of his wife. Of course part of his wife would hate him.
It seems like to me, Becca was making the husband feel like he wasn't needed.
I agree with Becca. If he really loved Grace, Then he would have accepted this part of her. That guy is such a dirtbag for being so selfish.
Nonsense! Why wasn't she honest about it from the start? I don't blame him at all, he is definitely right he is not needed in that relationship so why stay?
Having multiple alters myself, I really appreciate how the psyche doctor didn't label her as insane. Sometimes, it's just how we cope from past trauma. People are sometimes hard to depend on... Someone who's inside me, I know I can trust because they're a part of me. They experienced the trauma with me and completely know how i feel.
There's no "alter". It's just you. Try facing reality instead of being weird.
@@BloodyHand29They are facing reality. The reality is that they suffered abuse and/or trauma, and that the brain split and created alters to help survive. It’s like saying everyone should take the airbags out of cars and “face reality”. Just because you’re obviously uncomfortable with something you don’t understand, doesn’t mean that other people don’t experience it.
@@KazKindred613 no
@BloodyHand29 that’s literally what did is. people with it aren’t stupid they know they’re just one person but the disorder causes people to go into episodes of amnesia where they take on alternate personalities that are able to function differently because they’re tied to specific memories or personality traits that make the sufferer feel protected and disconnected from whatever they experienced. they can get some treatment for this by going to therapy and working through the trauma but usually people develop this as really small children that don’t have the capacity for personalities or self awareness yet so it damages their ability to develop this way
It's basically pretending you're someone else to cope with negative memories and trauma.
3:42 Wow! It really seemed like there was a completely different person sitting in Grace's bed. I've always been fascinated by alter egos. It's like 2 or more people sharing a body.
Dr Charles' last sentences are on point.
4:00 nuts WOW the ACTING 😮😮😮😮
Oliver Platt (Dr. Charles) was really the only reason I watched Chicago Med. He literally nailed his portrayal of a psychiatrist, and is just too simply an underrated actor.
As a system (not a tulpa system, but I know them) I appreciate how Dr Charles doesn't automatically jump to mental illness
Loved watching this
I created a whole bunch of other alters during my teen years and adult years to cope with abuse. It's good to see it portrayed
This actress did such a good job!
I think I had one when I was eighteen. I was severely abused in elementary, Middle and Highschool by the staff or other kids. As it was a slow build up. And I found out the tulpa, her name was Mary Andrea. She helped me eat, use the restroom, go out, even meet people, and therapy. Once the therapist noticed she was what she called "slipping" or going back to my subconscious. I didn't rely on her to protect me. We talk sometimes, just not too much as we use to.
I’m curious, when you and Mary talk, does she sound like you? Or does she sound like a different person?
Yeah I am not equipped to deal with mental health issue nor do I want to....
that part about becca being the reason she was able to move out of home and get through stuff hit home i have dissociative identity disorder and one alter i have had for as long as i can remember was the reason i got out of home and could live a somewhat normal life.
2:24 holy Molly what is THIS 😮😮😮
I love dr Charles
I have DiD. This episode is brilliant.
This was an interesting one. For anyone interested in programs or movies about this disorder I strongly recommend watching a crowded room starring Tom Holland. It is by far the very best show about this topic I have ever seen and Tom Holland absolutely killed it.
I like how Dr. Charles was so open-minded about Geace and Becca. A coping technique, such as Becca in this case, is entirely different from mental illness. The question should be, does the coping mechanism function for you, and does it do so in a healthy way? I used to be a cutter. Cutting helped me manage my anxiety and, while it did work for me and was, in no way, a suicidal gesture, it was not a healthy way to manage my emotions. I eventually learned other coping techniques and skills that work just as well AND are healthier. I now have a Masters in Social Work, with an emphasis in mental health and patient advocacy. I always try to advocate for patients' rights and autonomy. Contrary to how many health care professionals operate, having poor coping skills does not negate those rights. I choose to help my clients try to find healthier ways of coping while not dismissing the role prior mechanisms have been utilized.
I mean, I get where you're coming from, but you can't let a person continue to actively harm themselves just because it helps
I feel for the husband. Dude didn't know that the wife had an alter ego since high school? So she hid her...mental friend? Also Becca is also grace. Becca is only for Grace when she needs courage. Becca isn't even a person but a feeling of being strong. That's all.
That’s cool!
Talented actress with Becca
looked up what a tulpa was and how to create one so i could learn more about it. turns out, i've been in the process of making one this whole time. i should stop day dreaming so much.
Can maladaptive daydreaming cause a tulpa character?
@@missdaydreamss i have no idea but i'm guessing there is a possibility
Why would you stop, if you are already in the process?
7:10 sorry, I know this is only a TV show, but what emergency doctor can’t tell the difference between a panic attack and a cardiac event?
Right?
If anything, doctors are more prone to dismiss a cardiac event as a panic attack.
To a doctor who doesn't understand the patient they very well could think she was having a heart attack. To one who understands the patient and their history a panic attack could be more likely. Also know a heart attack and other problems could look very similar clinically. Sometimes your initial thought is not the right one. It's more complex than that sometimes
I think becca is just a coping mechanism for the bullying she suffered in Highschool. But I think Dr Charles really needs to consider the thought of mpd
The proper terminology is Dissociative Identity Disorder. Mod was gotten rid of in 1994 so about 30 years ago
Well Becca may have started out that way but she seems to have taken on a life of her own now plus there's no way to know if Grace has DID Becca could really be a Tulpa
I love dr Reese
One of the sillier stories like the panda episode lol
3:48 “what’s up😊😜”
This was unbelievable. Couldn't take them seriously. 😄
I have a couple of friends who are tulpas, this was quite cool to see portrayed in tv!
Okay I know this is a TV show but it hits really close to home because both I and my partner, who's also been one of my best friends of almost a decade has DID.
This patient likely doesn't experience tulpamancy. Tulpamancy is entirely controllable, Alters are not (usually). This lady very likely has DID as well, a disorder caused by reoccurring childhood trauma from the ages of 6-9 (give or take). Alters can form later in life as well due to trauma or stress but the disorder itself ONLY forms in childhood. Her husband is obviously isolating her and just overall emotionally abusive. Becca is likely a protector, an alter that takes the role of protecting the body and the host from experiencing any more trauma than needed. She could also be a "prosecutor" which is an alter that can come off as rude, harmful, etc. (They are NOT automatically "evil." That is a stereotype, most prosecutors are a form of protector that takes things to extreme limits or are a manifestation of a person's negative thoughts, etc.) It's also VERY common for the brain to actively hide alters when it feels it's unsafe to show them or let them front, hence why it took a year for her husband to know.
Obviously since DID is so complex there's psychiatrists SPECIFICALLY for this disorder and it's other variants, this is just a brief example, it varies from system to system so not everyone is the same.
I'm a system as well and this episode is amazing. When she started explaining everything I was like ✨ Dissociative Identity Disorder ✨
I don't think the husband is isolating and abusive. His wife spends all day online (not the real world) and she let her alter ego drive the car!
@@annebodee That's what happens when you feel people don't try to understand you, you look for that validation and comfort in others, sometimes people online. I agree though that it's definitely not a healthy coping mechanism. She very clearly felt she couldn't trust her husband to understand her, so she looked for that elsewhere.
Though this specific case isn't meant to be related to DID, in some cases of the disorder, people don't just let their alters front, it can happen without control. Though instances of alters fronting and doing dangerous stunts like crashing cars is pretty rare, in the real world I mean.
However this is a TV show so obviously it's not gonna be perfect representation.
Disorders like DID are far more complex than I can ever explain, even though I, myself have been diagnosed with it. However you can probably find good information about it from professionals.
I seem to remember a Tulpa being in an episode of Supernatural.
See, the thing that's so vexing about this one is that there are really no glaring inaccuracies; I've been into the field of tulpamancy for about 10 years, and everything I've seen here is more-or-less accurate for a medical show. But at the same time, I don't know if I like how it's posited as some sort of horror movie-ass anomaly. What we do is considered "unusual" by most people, but still. Beggars can't be choosers. I suppose. I might need to watch the full episode for some extra context.
i don't have this but i was a car once. love the way they portrayed this, as a former car
Tulpamancy...am reading up on it now, thanks to this program...amazing.
Demon
0:07 AH! He said it!
This is becoming more prevalent as a coping mechanism for young adults and teens.
It sound dangerous to develop separate personalities here.
So it's like an imaginary friend. You're willingly giving yourself DID.
Nope, you’d be missing the amnesia
DID is NOT a personality disorder it’s a trauma response.
Dr Reese’s curly hair is so pretty
Maybe it was a part of her that wanted to leave him.
god this is the earliest I’ve ever been lol
That alter ego is crazy. She’s jealous of the husband
I have a couple of friends with DID, and their alters are as real as they are. I do not, but sometimes in.. let's say "an intimate setting" a whole other personality takes over who has a completely different mindset to me. My partner and I named "her", just because it's easier to refer to a being than a heightened set of emotions. The brain is a fascinating thing, and Dr Charles is right - just because someone gives an idea a name, doesn't necessarily mean they 100% believe in the delusion, or that they have something diagnosable.
Ah yes anxiety at its finest
Psychiatrist, "Huh, that's interesting."
Translation: "You're nuts."
LOL i can see dr charles in the background just RUBBING his hands with a massive smile like ''IM RDY BOYS!!!! LET ME AT HER!!!!! I GOT DIS!!! LET ME IN CHOACH!
Human brains are friggan crazy.
How completely bizarre. I understand the concept, I just couldnt take it seriously.
I need that website they said you can learn how to switch
Any one knows dr.choi was a successful drift king in tokyo ?
Terrifying
"Huh, that's interesting"
As someone with DID i actually don't like this episode, the idea of a tulpa is frustrating because it gives the idea you can create DID you can't it happens because of trauma yes parts of the episode was good in that she clearly has Becca as a coping mechanism but lets not call it a tulpa because that doesn't exist
The fact that the husband was so quick to leave her ironically reinforces Grace’s decision to keep Becca. Think about it, Grace had no friends or people in her life that she could trust or who loved her unconditionally for who she was. Becca was created for that purpose. She was loyal and nonjudgmental. She was the only constant in Grace’s life. Her husband should have been just as loyal and committed. That’s what a marriage vow is. But as soon as things get difficult he kicks Grace to the curb. He could have used this as an opportunity to prove himself more loving, caring, loyal, trustworthy, reliable than Becca, but he blew it. If Grace’s own husband can’t love her unconditionally, she’ll never give up Becca.
I love jour guys vidoes who doesent❤
The doctor is soo pretty
Crazy
Tis is one of earlyst i ever have been❤😂
what season and episode this is?
Tulpa is an imaginary friend that was created like a fairy tale or a supernatural. I studied it last month and it wasn't good to be the same as D.I.D.
Morgan is my Becca
I study folklore and from what I have read a Tulpa is an idea and when more than one person believes in that idea that Tulpa the thought become alive. This relate to many of the supernatural stories which people believe in such as the Mothman in West Virginia, hook man or any other number of characters from urban legends. They may have some vague truth be the ideaology is what give the Tulpa life. So I am not discounting what they say here but from my understanding it is not the correct explaination.
the writers of this episode watched the mlp tulpa greentext video didnt they
She should just contain her alter ego and never leave it alone with hubby since he didnt marry Becka. I feel so bad for him. She flipped on him one year into the marriage and thought it would be easy for him to adjust
Does this happen in real life?
Because if it does, and if I'm right, it is nothing more than MPD (Multiple Personality Disorder)🤔
❤😂
This is like Gollum, Smeagol created Gollum to survive when the power of the ring changed him and he became an outcast.
Wow
Since when was Two Face and Jonas brothers in Chicago Med 😮
Like conjoined twins it’s weird how people will try to make friends
Possession, trauma is a great opening for emotional manipulation and then possession
So the guy married the girl he loved and her best friend, it was a 2 for 1 package. Weird but he could’ve just tried being friends with her or maybe at least civil, but he tried to cut the best friend out, that doesn’t work out so well.
He didn't marry the best friend. He found out about her a year after the wedding.
to be fair, Gracie didn't tell him about Becca from the beginning, which she should've done.
@@runsoncaffeine yet people are calling him emotionally abusive.... This is a big lie...
So he should have become friends with the other personality?
That's like being friends with Harvey Dent and Two Face at the same time.
@@drakecarter1780 Well, he shouldn't be forced to become friends with the other personality, he shouldn't have told Gracie to stop talking to Becca the MOMENT he found out about her. That's like telling someone who has been doing something for YEARS to just immediately stop because you don't like it. That's not how it works. It takes YEARS of therapy to get over trauma or even stop bad coping mecisums.
Becca is like April from Greys
Mark should take the L.
Grace n Becca is 1 entity, they exist together. If he could open his mind and befriend Becca, the marriage wont fall apart
She hid this from him. Not being transparent in a marriage does not equal success. Especially if it’s something as horrible as this. That would be miserable to live with
@@MaddoxMelton nah, i see this the same as discovering your partner have daddy issues after marriage.
He could stop thinking that his wife is a freaky weirdo and try to understand both grace n becca.
But instead he wanted to change someone who's not comfortable making new friends to be someone more outgoing. And doesnt accept the friends her wife already have. Imo, mark is in the wrong.
@@adylaar6708yea it's not same
@@MaddoxMeltonA relationship doesn’t automatically entitle you to know every aspect of the other person’s life regardless of how personal or embarrassing it is for them, married or not. I could see her keeping this hidden from a lot of people out of fear of how they’d react. She learned to trust him enough and he immediately spat on that trust because she was no longer perfect enough for him.
So you expect sane people to accept one day you are you and then the next day at any time you will turn into someone else?
So dr jeykle and Mr Hyde
It sounds like a case of Disassociative Identity Disorder, or Multiple Personality Disorder.
Except you can't just teach yourself to have that. It stems from childhood trauma
@@101spacemonkeyshe could have trauma in her past we don’t know, and only became aware of Becca in high school. They gave us very little information about the patient.
@@superphantom100 I agree they gave very little bit it would have presented long before then and so the way it is presented in the show is less than ideal and appears to be linked to accusations of so called 'trends' online to claim DID or induce DID, even though you can't just induce it. I think it could have been handled better to an extent as DID is so misunderstood as it is
Mpd got changed to DID in 1994 so about 30 years ago cause calling an alter a personality makes it seem as though as it's just a mask you can take on and off when that is entirely false.
I would leave that Becca mess too.
Justifying a disorder and finding people like yourself online is just feeding your addiction.
Having a Tulpa (or imaginary friends in my case) is NOT an addiction, finding people who understands you and what you're going through is finding a community where you're accepted
@@samanthapatrick4345Nah man. You need to get serious help.
Just because you find other people going through the same thing as you doesn’t mean it’s okay. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. I mean the people at Jonestown mostly believed the same thing. See how that worked out?
Anyone who thinks they have another alto ego, needs mental help big time. There is no such thing
That's what I wish to have sometimes tbh 😂😂😂 I wish to have another personality in me more stronger to deal with the stress in my life & for me to just pop up when there is fun or easy times 😂😂 that would be amazing
Well, tulpamancy is a real deal, but it requires a lot of responsibility
Do you want to learn more?
I can't be a psychiatrist.....🤐😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱