@@nucle4rpenguins534 because men worship women and until men stop doing so, it’ll keep happening that they’ll be promoted at work and praised for doing basic efforts. They are very entitled.
Truth is that we all have our weaknesses and that we all depend on others to some - quite a large degree - degree. Being "adult" means accepting that and acting accordingly. But then, accepting your weaknesses and asking others for help/support requires mental strength, too.
If a woman needs physical validation from me, she won't get it. That 's a sign of weakness. I tell them that I wouldn't be with you if I didn't approve.
Thank you for presenting your thought provoking ideas. My observation is that we are fully in competition with women in the workplace, in the same way as we are with men. Remuneration for our work and related opportunities are skewed by false praise or inappropriate help of any kind. You are corrrect... men need to stop it.
Early in my career, older men (silent generation and older baby boomers) frequently provided undeserved compliments as if they were going to get at "reward" for those compliments.
At the Fortune 25 corporation that my husband works at, Sales and Account Executives who met their targets got their names put in a drawing for an upgraded car. The top dog pulling the names decided, out loud, that there were too many men getting the cars (probably wouldn’t look good for pictures), so he proceeded to pick names until females came up. A co-worker told my husband “that’s your name he just put aside, and that’s yours Jacob, that’s Travis’s, oh now Jennifer got your car!” “Jennifer” actually went up and received the car, at the expense of her male colleagues, so did Megan, Jill, and Sarah. As a woman I am ashamed! My husband keeps finding that companies need to prove that they can’t find anybody else but him (a white male) before he can get a job or promotion. Those hiring even tell him this. Enough is enough!
I remember when this started in the 80's. I am in the engineering professional where there were only 10 percent women graduates in my field. In my second company, they were try to fill an engineering manager opening. The executives were meeting across the office try to decide who can fill the role. One of them declared. There has to be a woman we can find to fill the role. So much for meritocracy
Hey you should do a video on why young men( under 30) are primarily not interested in getting married....also you should do a video on how online dating is starting to die
I noticed that whenever a woman posts a selfie on social media, no matter how bad or good it is, about a kazillion women will always comment "omg, you're so beautiful".
Because women knows tô not expect men to know that in our society looks is more demanded from women. Men don't understand how it affects the life of women in general. Let them be.
I commend your topic selection. If you had to keep playing the corp game, vids like these could come back to bite you in the butt. As a 40 something who’s still in the mainstream working world, I appreciate your insights.
100 percent on point everything this dude says is true . I gave feedback on a work product to some woman in my team and she started crying and next thing you know HR calls and I’m on notice and can’t be a manager anymore
Over the years I've have heard numerous women being complimented by men for standard performance or even substandard performance. Some of the women even received awards. I never heard any of these women say '"not necessary, just doing my job" or something to that effect. They all accepted the praise like they did extraordinary work.
I don't compliment women more than men as a straight guy. Compliments are earned, not needlessly given. Remember this. Too much compliments can come off as insecure or worse, you're just feeding her ego. I compliment on people's actions more. If a female colleague did an outstanding job, I'll compliment her on that.
This is a trend that has to stop. Also, no adult should be trying to carry another adult. Help people who really need it, but no one should be bending over backward
The WORST are the infantilizing accolades we have to participate in handing out to them. The corporation I work for forced managers to each pick a female employee to publicly praise on women's day for her contributions. Of course nobody celebrates men's day.
I moved to a new city and joined a boxing gym the coach told them to welcome our new member maybe one or two claps lol when a girl joined the gym next session and the coach asked the same thing the clapping sound was crazy 🤣🤣 so sad
everyone starts off with a basic level of trust and respect. to increase those values they have to be earned. So, compliments beyond the basics need to be treat the same.
Great points. The tears...those damn tears...conditions you to now avoid broaching the subject of improvement altogether. So many times though I have had female staff come back to apologize for having been emotional. To be fair, I've dealt with a few guy criers, too, when constructive feedback was given. It's the times.
A few years ago I was talking to a friend of mine... We were in an apartment building. He saw this woman exiting the building and he open the door for her. She didn't even look at him or said "thank you". I looked at his face. He was so embarrassed. I didn't know what to say.
@@gonnacry4513 I don't really see anything to be embarrassed about. I've been in that exact scenario a few dozen times with both men and women and it didn't seem particularly special to me. Some people are just rude and some don't see someone opening a door for them as deserving a "thank you".
I’m seeing this in a big way at my women empowering workplace, have to walk on eggshells everywhere, I got it trouble for not treating a young girl in a more special way than a male, she cried and then got angry like you said..
I like to help and complement people in general because that's the kind of person I want to be. If someone is truly undeserving of my help and complements, I have nothing to do with them...they just aren't part of my life.
Awesome. I hope you’re right. Then men should absolutely stop complimenting women needlessly and doing their work so that these strong women can totally shine on their own and show us what they got. 👍
Eh my personal code of conduct whether or not I’ll help/compliment a woman is I ask myself if I would do/say those things if I was not romantically interested. If I would, I’d keep the compliment light hearted, and if they want/need help I’d ask if they want my help. Of course I would not go out of my way to help someone at the expense of myself unless I have a close relationship with them. On the other hand, if it’s something I would only say/so for someone I am interested in, I would make sure I have a foot in the door at least 😂
Sorry i am a woman who works in a developing country. The situation is so different here. Nobody complements us. We need to constantly fight to be heard, to get opportunities and to get raises. Its exhausting.
Chinese listener here. One of the biggest complaints here from women is: Chinese guys don't compliment women, and Westerners are much better at complimenting. Therefore we (the Chinese women) prefer Westerners than Chinese guys. So complimenting might be actually "helping" if you're trying to impress an Asian girl..
The most tired compliment is "strong independent woman". Nobody ever says "strong independent man" because it's just called "being an adult"
They want to be praised when they actually take accountability for something, even though it’s not going to last past their next emotion
Agreed.. also this “queen” concept is coming up with the darker ladies living in the west
@@Savvynomad225 that’s like the bare minimum of an adult …. how do you hold a job with some level of responsibility and walk through life like this?
@@nucle4rpenguins534 because men worship women and until men stop doing so, it’ll keep happening that they’ll be promoted at work and praised for doing basic efforts. They are very entitled.
Truth is that we all have our weaknesses and that we all depend on others to some - quite a large degree - degree.
Being "adult" means accepting that and acting accordingly.
But then, accepting your weaknesses and asking others for help/support requires mental strength, too.
I strive towards absolutely no woman in both my professional and personal life.
Good. Thank you.
I am a good complement to my wife even when I don't compliment her.
You are good at grammar, too
Right. Don't be a basic simp.
Nothing for free for women. Not even attention .
If a woman needs physical validation from me, she won't get it. That 's a sign of weakness. I tell them that I wouldn't be with you if I didn't approve.
Top Gun Maverick was FINALLY a movie that had a legit male lead and did so well too!
He literally got tossed out of the bar, and then crawling back begging to get into a relationship with a woman that throw him out of the bar. Come on
Thank you for presenting your thought provoking ideas. My observation is that we are fully in competition with women in the workplace, in the same way as we are with men. Remuneration for our work and related opportunities are skewed by false praise or inappropriate help of any kind. You are corrrect... men need to stop it.
Early in my career, older men (silent generation and older baby boomers) frequently provided undeserved compliments as if they were going to get at "reward" for those compliments.
At the Fortune 25 corporation that my husband works at, Sales and Account Executives who met their targets got their names put in a drawing for an upgraded car. The top dog pulling the names decided, out loud, that there were too many men getting the cars (probably wouldn’t look good for pictures), so he proceeded to pick names until females came up. A co-worker told my husband “that’s your name he just put aside, and that’s yours Jacob, that’s Travis’s, oh now Jennifer got your car!” “Jennifer” actually went up and received the car, at the expense of her male colleagues, so did Megan, Jill, and Sarah. As a woman I am ashamed! My husband keeps finding that companies need to prove that they can’t find anybody else but him (a white male) before he can get a job or promotion. Those hiring even tell him this. Enough is enough!
I remember when this started in the 80's. I am in the engineering professional where there were only 10 percent women graduates in my field. In my second company, they were try to fill an engineering manager opening. The executives were meeting across the office try to decide who can fill the role. One of them declared. There has to be a woman we can find to fill the role. So much for meritocracy
Who cares
Trust me you only care because this directly affects you
This is tragic.
Hey you should do a video on why young men( under 30) are primarily not interested in getting married....also you should do a video on how online dating is starting to die
theres plenty of those videos n other channels. this channel is for professional topics.
How about YOU do them.
I noticed that whenever a woman posts a selfie on social media, no matter how bad or good it is, about a kazillion women will always comment "omg, you're so beautiful".
Because women knows tô not expect men to know that in our society looks is more demanded from women. Men don't understand how it affects the life of women in general. Let them be.
Ia also applies for men who compliment other men for not extrordinary things too.
I commend your topic selection. If you had to keep playing the corp game, vids like these could come back to bite you in the butt. As a 40 something who’s still in the mainstream working world, I appreciate your insights.
100 percent on point everything this dude says is true . I gave feedback on a work product to some woman in my team and she started crying and next thing you know HR calls and I’m on notice and can’t be a manager anymore
Holy fuk man...
Over the years I've have heard numerous women being complimented by men for standard performance or even substandard performance. Some of the women even received awards. I never heard any of these women say '"not necessary, just doing my job" or something to that effect. They all accepted the praise like they did extraordinary work.
They are shameless
It's called "girlboss" and it's ruined plenty of movies and videogames already.
I don't compliment women more than men as a straight guy. Compliments are earned, not needlessly given. Remember this. Too much compliments can come off as insecure or worse, you're just feeding her ego. I compliment on people's actions more. If a female colleague did an outstanding job, I'll compliment her on that.
This is a trend that has to stop. Also, no adult should be trying to carry another adult. Help people who really need it, but no one should be bending over backward
The WORST are the infantilizing accolades we have to participate in handing out to them. The corporation I work for forced managers to each pick a female employee to publicly praise on women's day for her contributions. Of course nobody celebrates men's day.
I moved to a new city and joined a boxing gym the coach told them to welcome our new member maybe one or two claps lol when a girl joined the gym next session and the coach asked the same thing the clapping sound was crazy 🤣🤣 so sad
You made think about last time I got an compliment. It is few and far between.
everyone starts off with a basic level of trust and respect. to increase those values they have to be earned. So, compliments beyond the basics need to be treat the same.
Great points. The tears...those damn tears...conditions you to now avoid broaching the subject of improvement altogether. So many times though I have had female staff come back to apologize for having been emotional. To be fair, I've dealt with a few guy criers, too, when constructive feedback was given. It's the times.
A few years ago I was talking to a friend of mine... We were in an apartment building.
He saw this woman exiting the building and he open the door for her.
She didn't even look at him or said "thank you".
I looked at his face. He was so embarrassed.
I didn't know what to say.
Why was he embarassed?
@@yuriy5376He felt like an idiot
@@gonnacry4513 I don't really see anything to be embarrassed about. I've been in that exact scenario a few dozen times with both men and women and it didn't seem particularly special to me. Some people are just rude and some don't see someone opening a door for them as deserving a "thank you".
I’m seeing this in a big way at my women empowering workplace, have to walk on eggshells everywhere, I got it trouble for not treating a young girl in a more special way than a male, she cried and then got angry like you said..
I like to help and complement people in general because that's the kind of person I want to be. If someone is truly undeserving of my help and complements, I have nothing to do with them...they just aren't part of my life.
I can't stop looking at attractive woman. But, I try to avoid talk, eye contact, professional and personal relationship with Woman.
Love it. Especially in school or universities.
I like "glass half full/empty" "compliments". For example, "where did you get that little dress?!" or "was that dress expensive?"
After what I saw on The Road Warrior movie and how Maxx was portrayed, I haven’t been to the movies again…
Hey Rich, women are stronger than what you depict here. You are responsible for the girlfriend or wife you pick.
Awesome. I hope you’re right. Then men should absolutely stop complimenting women needlessly and doing their work so that these strong women can totally shine on their own and show us what they got. 👍
Bro just roasted all romantic lyricists. 😂
Great episode
No Problem ....
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Haha. That’s awesome. You’re the first one to say it. Thanks. English. Sheesh! 🙄😀
@@CulturalCommentary ah wow. you updated your thumbnail even
This channel becomes more Red and Black Pill day by day.
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@1:10 "Past five years" I say past twenty-five years at least.
Eh my personal code of conduct whether or not I’ll help/compliment a woman is I ask myself if I would do/say those things if I was not romantically interested.
If I would, I’d keep the compliment light hearted, and if they want/need help I’d ask if they want my help.
Of course I would not go out of my way to help someone at the expense of myself unless I have a close relationship with them.
On the other hand, if it’s something I would only say/so for someone I am interested in, I would make sure I have a foot in the door at least 😂
How do you know that a "woman" is a woman? That's a very prejudiced, binary assumption. 🤓
good one, lol
Sorry i am a woman who works in a developing country. The situation is so different here. Nobody complements us. We need to constantly fight to be heard, to get opportunities and to get raises. Its exhausting.
Nope thats what you call equality.
Did you delete your 3rd channel, "thoughtfulcenter" ?
I think that you mean "compliments" rather than "complements". Two different words with different meanings.
Modern movies are boring.
Chinese listener here. One of the biggest complaints here from women is: Chinese guys don't compliment women, and Westerners are much better at complimenting. Therefore we (the Chinese women) prefer Westerners than Chinese guys. So complimenting might be actually "helping" if you're trying to impress an Asian girl..
"Thats what created all the problems for the men in the West.
Simping must die
Unfortunately, women will still complement, vote for and do business solely with women just for being women.
Simping is male biology, it will never die.
The guys spot on but 5 decades a little late...
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