They all keep getting mad at him, at the way he talks but it never occurred to them that the boy has some problems and they should bring him to the hospital for a checkup? Cause he definitely does not seem normal to a lot of us. Should have brought him to real Counselors instead
That's exactly what I was thinking. Maybe that accident left some brain damage that went unnoticed the first time he got checked after the accident, assuming they did go after the accident, that is
Honestly, I'm wondering, do they know anything about autism in Korea? Or acknowledge such things? Because he comes off as possibly autistic to me. Whatever it is, he definitely isn't neurotypical. He needs help :(
is that possible ? its understandable if he act the same to everyone but he only comfortable to love & being rude to his father which what every spoil kid does
My brain is too confused. He looks 25, acts like a 5 year old but is actually 17 like damn. I feel like his case should be taken more seriously. The way he acts/speaks is kind of worrying. It might be because of the traumatizing car accident, I do hope he gets help if it is bc of that.
I don't think he looks 25. Maybe you're a bit younger that's why you find him older. But he looks like he's 17 tbh. And by the way, maybe it isn't because of the traumatizing car accident, maybe he already had a problem in his mind because of the premature birth, and the car accident triggered it. Side note: acts like a 5 year old? That is harsh af.
crystal well i dont know why but most koreans under 20 acts weird for me. they seem to act like they have some disorders. i mean even 11 year old looks like 5 year old and acts like they have problems talking. i still cant figure how that is possible.
Why'd they bring him on this show just to embarrass him when he seems like he needs actual help? Get him a doctor, not a panel of celebrities giving their two cents on his weird habits! I really wish they could have a more open discussion about mental health on this show, because so many of the concerns brought up on this show have been centered around it like addiction, eating disorders, depression, abusive relationships, body dysmorphia, etc...
i was born very prematurely and thank god i didnt have the problem like him so i think the cause isnt because born premature but maybe theres a little damage in his brain since he got a car accident :) health condition is different from mental issue
Mal Malik I'm not too sure about that. My cousin was born extremely premature and has a neurodevelopmental disorder. She can function close to normal; however, she is extremely slow at learning and this affects her speech as well. We can't be certain when saying whether it was a result of his premature birth or his childhood trauma but I really do hope he gets the help he needs.
Mal Malik it varies from person to person. Some people are lucky and don't suffer any serious repercussions from being born premature but the chances do increase when compared with children born when they're originally supposed to be due.
I'm a kindergarten teacher and meet a lot of children with different problems. That boy definitely have autistic behavior. I bet his grades are good and that is part of the case as well. I don't get how the school doesn't send the boy somewhere to find out about his problem.
Boglárka Kun I agree but unfortunately those tests are looked down upon I heard that children that might have autism or ADHD are just called "troublemakers" bc people dont know
Cece Jagger That's really sad. In my kindergarten we integrate as many children as possible. Of course there are cases when we can't because they really need very special care but those who can be integrated still get the special care what they need. They are not troublemakers or "stupid", they are just a little different from what we call "normal". But they are very lovable and I'm happy that I can teach them and maybe help to get a better life.
Boglárka Kun sorry. But u don't think you actually know what autism is... this is trauma, not an autistic child. Autism, is from early childhood, but he was in a car accident. There's a difference between the two. Well at least in my opinion as an in training child psychologist.
He's not as bad as the comments here described. The boy was in a car accident and was dragged 30 meters on the road. How can he be "normal" after such trauma? He's perfectly fine. He just needs a little help to be independent, that's it.
Dawn Lee EXACTLY but when some people have big problems that are hard to deal with ignorant dummies just make fun of them for it and ignore it instead of trying to give them the help they need
the boy is very selfish he says he likes his dad but is more like he likes what his dad does for him, as though his dad is his servant and he doesnt want anyone else to have the dads attention. he seems like a stuck up self centred greeedy kid, u see when they tell him his behaviour is wrong he has that look of irritation of "dont get into my business" he reminds me of the spoilt cruel kid from the movie RED the blonde haired kid thats violent and he kills this oldmans dog just cause he thought it was fun.
It may sound lame but I low key started crying thinking about how they're gonna view him, because mental health isn't looked fondly on in Korea so I feel people will make fun of him. This is a problem where the family should've taken him to a real doctor... I hope all is well❤️
hi hi they shouldn’t even be dealing with “serious” concerns . they are comedians , not counselors . they need to stop taking in concerns like this . they are not fit to give advice .
they do behind the scenes. there once was a concern so serious that they had to add the aftershow scene where they actually helped the person and gave them helplines
They have counselors behind the scenes, but I agree that some points should have been taken more seriously here like people are deducing the issues in the comments a lot better than these guys.
Not really. They cant show or talk it in nation wide television. That guy's life will probably fucked up if they announced that something's wrong with him. Specially in korean culture if you are weak you will get trampled. Just like in schools he will probably get bullied nonstop with the teachers and student. They will probably talk with psychologist after the show in the back stage.
there’s something really wrong with the boy. he doesn’t seem to focus, seems dazed, and has slow reactions. he could have ptsd, brain damage, or have austism or an undeveloped system. premature babies sometimes develop autism. i know a few autistic kids and he’s reminding me of them. he should get some counseling or testing.
@@joc-asmrtingles9860 well the OP was just sharing what they think while not doing any diagnosing to the boy so that's why they don't do any confirmation in their opinions. It's a good practice not to immediately diagnose someone, even if you think they do have it, when you are not a professional yourself. So don't smh the OP for hesitating that the kid might have something. And not all prematurely born babies will have some kind of autism so it's a no to your first qs if you're being sarcastic to the OP. It's a chance it might and might not happen. He could be prematurely born and get into accident but still fine. It's a chance.
It's obvious he has a slight PTSD and a form of High Functioning Autism. This boy is not normal. But in Korea they look down on people with diagnosed mental disabilities, so a lot of the time parents will just ignore these signs and not get them properly diagnosed or treated.
Bless his heart. Coming from a family that has a history of autism, i can tell that Junseo is on the spectrum. The good news is that he can be self sufficient with adequate therapy and family support. He is a well intentioned, eloquent and polite young man and I wish him the best.
People in the audience looking all disgusted is really sad, bc they should have known that a kid who sleeps with his parent at the age of 17 is not normal. They should be more considered
He was 7month premature and 9years later in scary car accident..dad had no choice but dot on him and results is as you see. He is not confident, scared easy and knows who loves him the most and takes advantage of it.
everyone be saying that he might have some detrimental neurological effects from the car crash but i reckon the fact that he was 2 whole months premature is far more likely to be the cause. i reckon its due to a combination of both upbringing and some biological aspect but who are we to know anyways
Cycra Lisa I am 4 months premature an I am fine I have no neurological damage or am "slow" as special needs kids are I think it is serious trama from the car acc2
If your premature that don’t affect anything I was heavily premature when I was a baby and I’m perfectly fine just my mum also say I’m a miracle baby all the god dam time 😂
Though it's true that prematurity could give someone a slower learning ability. It doesn't usually give you a personality or emotional problem. This could however very well be a complication from his car accident. If his brain got a lack of oxygen or if he had a bleeding in his brain his emotional center could get messed up.
Alright, so from what I've gathered, being 2 months premature is very unlikely to be the actual CAUSE of any neurological disabilities (I asked my mum who is a GP and she said that it generally happens to babies who are far more premature and even then only around 30%). However, this doesn't mean that the premature birth can't be an INDICATOR of a disability that was created earlier in the gestational period. So I still reckon it's more a primary disability than an acquired one, but of course, the car accident could still be the cause (if there even is something wrong with him). He could even just have a completely unrelated genetic issue for all we know. But without further info we can never be sure
This is why I have a love/hate relationship with Hello Counselor, this kid clearly has a mental problem but they brush it off and says he needs to man up. This sums up Koreas views and opinions on mental illness, you should hide it and not talk about it. Seeking mental help should not be a bad thing but seen as trying to improve yourself as a person.
I feel bad for the son when the mum started talking and laughing about him. Laughing about his dream, him getting chubby, the surgery done on his eyes even after he kept on tapping on her leg. She was on a roll to embarrass him and wonder why he prefers his dad.
I can see that the son doesn't act his age but when they told the father that he should yell at him??? Like this is not the right way comparing to the way he acts !!! The boy really needs some help I feel sorry for him cause yelling will make him even worse :(
I have a friend like him.He talks like kid and can't fully understand what he's saying but it's okay it's make girls comfortable because he doesn't tease any girls like boys always do. He may look different than normal people but he is so good in study. He has some problems and i don't know the specific names for it but he always sleep in class but when teachers ask him things that us learn while he sleep,he can answer it. Don't judge a book by its cover ❤️
I swear if i talk to my parents like that i will get smacked PS: is it a coincidence that they are talking about sex and the episode is the 369th episode of this show
I think he still suffers some trauma from the accident however that is not an excuse to treat his dad that way. Hopefully he becomes more independent and less reliant on his dad. I'd like to see a follow up of this in the future.
For those people that are talking about premature baby problems I would like to say that yes It can cause Baby problems like I got myself. I was born premature which made my immune system weak and my health condition bad but I didn't grew up having a mental health problem. I had some mental issues when I was traumatized and due to some concerns. I am perfectly fine now cause my teacher and parents helped me out (my case wasn't serious at all) . I hope this boy parents help him out. P. S I am the same age as him and I can't even sleep with my younger brothers.
yes i agree with you because i was born premature and yes i have a weak immune system and bad health condition but i grew up as a normal person. born premature didnt make you have a mental problem i guess..
Alma Kirana Thanks for agreeing with me, I actually find it absurd when people say premature babies have or more likely to have mental problems. People even say absurd things like these types of babies are not likely to live in early days of birth
He might be autistic too, but a more functioning autistic person. His switch from happy to angry to sarcastic, and not really being able to interact with people well or pick up on social ques, show that there may be a possibility he has autism hence his "weird" behavior. Not to mention the fact he was born 2 months early and in a horrible car crash. Hope he gets professional help.
Yea i think so too he is not fully autistic so some doctors call it ' Developmental Delay' its like they function like a special kid but doesn't look like one (not trying to be a know it all)❤️
before i watched the episode i was going to comment that i have a friend that does the same thing. Hes in grade 12 and still sleeps with his mom. He says its cause its nice to have the warmth and presence of a person next to him, it makes him feels safe and comfortable. But beyond that he operates like any other teenage boy. So i cant say my friend and this boy are similar cause this boy seems to be going through something... uh more complex than my friend.
One of my lil bro slept with my mum till he was 15 and was force to sleep alone later. Now that I think about it, we should just let him. Cause after he got his own bedroom, he seems distant.
i don’t care about what the comments say, he’s adorable and i wish i could just give him a tight hug and give all the love he wants, he’s gone through traumatic things and he’s just scared that it will happen to him again.
no one is condescending him in anyway in the comment section. all i see are concerns about his mental health and frustation about people taking his situation lightly.
Being born so prematurely could've led to a lack of development in his brain, perhaps leading to him having a younger brain age hense him acting like a child. Additionally being trapped under a car , especially at a young age, definately had a traumatic effect on him such as claustrophobia or even a form of ptsd- that would explain why he doesnt feel safe under his covers and needs someone there to reassure him I hope he goes to a real counselor and doctor/physiatrist
I think the whole cast and audience caught on to what everybody is thinking in the comments, im sure they wanted to say something or ask questions but they probably didnt know how to bring it up
Nicole C there is something "wrong" with a mental disorder. it is an abnormal behavior and sometimes people are born with it. we should not make people feel weird for having them but it is not normal and there is something wrong. sometimes we can correct them and other times we cannot
Maybe from the accident whether injury or permanent instilled fear (being traumatized) since then is the reason he is like this ? I hope he is okay mentally, emotionally, physically...🙏
Yeah he's definitely not normal, he has to have something like autism, or a delayed developmental disability or just to emotionally scared from his accident. He needs real help.
My little sister is autistic and used to have to sleep with me hugging her since she had sensory issues along with the autism. Through different therapies and communicative coaching i believe this kid will be okay. Im glad they treated him kindly but you could tell right off the bat that he wasnt like every other person who has been on the show. I feel like yeongja noticed when she askes him to "promise".
If I’m gonna be completely honest, I believe the boy has a form of high functioning autism. I’ve grown up surrounded by people with similar disabilities and he shows the same kind of behaviors and symptoms. Korea is known for having poor care towards people with mental disabilities and this kid needs to visit a real doctor and a real therapist or consular rather than being broadcasted for entertainment
I wouldn't judge them. I think that son has love for his dad, and it's the same the other way around, but most likely bc of those things that happened to him in the past they haven't set respectable boundaries. it's a serious concern because there may be something going on with the son that requires psychological help, but other than that, I wouldn't put "blame" on either one of them for anything. they've been through difficult things. who are we to judge people that have gone through so much worse than we have?
Lmao everyone is talking about how weird the son is but... Can we plz play attention at how much of a savage the mom is, she legit called her son out about his insecurities on television!!
Lol im not saying its right either, i felt bad too, dont get me wrong but u gotta think about... Its his mother. I cant talk rudely about her shes a mother. Who am i to to tell her what she did was wrong. Plus she not the only one whos done it on the show. I was just saying it was funny beacuse almost everyone in the comments are talking about whats wrong with the son, but no one called out the mom for doing that. You cant deny that she called him out on tv. Trust me i wouldn't be happy either if i were him. My mom would also call me out cuz she's just that type of person. But i mean what could i have done its my mom, she always dose it even if i tell her it not like she'll listens to me.
the son might have cerebral problems. either from premature birth or the car accident, but i think that deserves more attention than a mother sharing details that the son obviously did not want to be shared.
I feel like there is definitely a culture difference between western culture because a lot of the stuff this boy does (like asking his dad for rides. bickering with him or talking to him like a friend) would be completely acceptable where I live.
Iris Tello oh yeah I guess I didn’t take that into account but tbh I’ve heard a lot of people be pretty demanding to their parents here and it’s not really seen as rude but I really admire how respectful their culture is.
Smdumpster yah I also feel like it’s a cultural difference cuz I sometimes mess around with my parents but don’t get me wrong I respect them regardless
well yes a huge part of asian culture is about treating elders with respect !! we usually do not treat our parents as friends etc since they are of a higher status in age thats why it’s considered rude but it still varies case to case :”)
It's seems to me that this issues goes beyond him simply having a spoiled upbringing. I'm not a psychologist but I have worked with children with autism, and something in his behavior and demeanour reminded me of children or teen I have worked with. Then again, it's still a taboo subject. It just that if he doesn't have the tools to go trough life, he is never going to change or be more independent. Again this show would benefit of professional insight, but that not the format they are going for, and I don't think the success of the show would be the same.
His family are so nice 😁 but really,he's just like my brother....similar attitudes and symptoms.Maybe a high-functioning One.My brother is smart,and now works as an engineer.But everyone knows that he is a weird guy.Even us,as his family we admit that he's different from any regular adult.But it's okay,as long as he can work,and supports himself, that's fine.Though, truthfully we can never imagine our brother to be in any romantic relationships and eventually getting married..that's like out of question, i guess. But we as a family will always be supporting him.😀
Am I the only one who wants to call the boy baby. People should realize that the kid is a sweet little bean and needs all love, the parents are the ones who need help in understanding him because as far I can understand he seems to be a special child.
I honestly feel like he must suffer from a lot of anxiety and his dad became is only way to prevent this anxiety. He's basically acting like a child who need affection and someone who'll reassure them. Like the fact that he need to have the light on and the TV turn on to be able to go to bed, is exactly what I do when I have to sleep without no one home, otherwise, like a child I'll believe that something will happen to me. Knowing what anxiety is like, I truly feel like it's some kind of anxiety on a high level.
I was feeling positive about the father and the fact that he seems to truly care about his son, when I remembered that he brought him on Hello Counselor, the show that makes spectacles out of troubled people. This kid should be at a counselor, not put on national tv to face mass ridicule...
I feel so bad for this kid....everybody is just trying to gang up on him without understanding his problems. May god bless this kid and may he give this kid the strength to deal with these stupid people.
its not a bad thing to be clingly to your parents at any age.. you can be 40 and still want your parents to embrace u and be there "babying " you theres nothing wrong with that. ppl in the comments are rude, trying to blame "mental problem or autism" on his , behivore, yes he might have traumas from the past and its just make him think that he wants to spend every minute with his parents cuz life is precious and fragile. im 27 and im mom's girl, i dont care than in the eyes of the sociaty im an adult, i still love hugs and cuddles and like when im getting babyd like a good night kiss and head pats and things like that- theres nothing wrong with it and i dont have issues outside some depression that got caused by "friends" but i was mom's girl since the first memories i can remeber. the advice they gave the dad about that he should yell at the son and not treat him as a friend is bad advice- if parents aer not friendly with their kids- the kids will grow up and be bad adults what is wrong is when teens start to distance themselves from the parents and show no love or need at all. never understood the thing where parents just let their 18 years old to move out as if they are adults.... you dont fully mature until the age of 25, 18 is still a kid who just graduated highschool- how can parents let their kids go live on thier own without knowing anything about the life outside is weird. some of you might call it being indepandent but the truth is: that its not- most parents just pop off kids and let them be rised by themselves and than "kick " them out when they are "adults" at age of 18. and say "ive done my job as a parent" parents job is never done- if u made a kid you should be there loving and caring even if hes 40-50 (as long as they alive) for some reason the most patents think that they should only rise the kid until 18, and only give them care of love and "babaying" until they are like 10. if parents were more attentive to kids rather than throw the indepandance card: today's kids would have been so much better and ofc less bullying
Aside from his trauma, his attitude was also because of how his dad spoiled him. The dad doesnt need to yell at him , but he needs to properly explain and be firm when talking to his son. Discipline is important. If you love them you discipline them. You explain why and be firm on your decision.
he honestly looks like he has incontrolable little space moment. notice how in 08:41 he just make pinky promise. if he does has little space, all things would be easier to tell. how he wants to sleep together, throw tantrums, being demanding towards his caretaker (father here) and his fashion also!
I do but it was until i'm like twelve. What i find cute are his love for his dad. Teenagers usually dont show that, me too. Im not used to express mu feelings to my parents.i envy him
Seacgull xx It's not cute, it's weird, creepy and should be taken more serious in my opinion. He need's a therapist. Same with his dad, they both need one.
His father is way too good & kibd hearted... Many dream of half of his father... To all tortured souls, abused young, prisoners in what called home , hope you find a ray of hope at end of tunnel, praying for you to find peace
You can't blame the boy in this case. He needs proper help from a doctor or a therapist. Not only does he have a childhood trauma, but most premature kids have a slow brain developing process. It explains his behaviour and speech pretty well. Also, I think the mother shouldn't have been so open about his insecurities; she should've kept it to herself.
Shows that talk about others concerns: Korea: Hello Counselor UK: The Jeremy Kyle Show America: Dr. Phil I think Hello Counselor is the most colorful and joyful show that talks about other people’s concerns.
Mental health in Asian countries are a big problem. After incidents like this in my country we spend time with a psychologist and get help if we need. This issue makes me sad.
He seems like a very sweet boy but just has some communication issues. I'm actually really happy he has such a good relationship with his dad but his dad should try to set clearer boundaries. Idk why his mom embarrassed him like that tho that was unnecessary and I'm concerned about why hes scared of his big brother. Overall I'm scared hes gonna get bullied hes so cute :-( I hope he and his family of to therapy to help him get over whatever trauma he has and to help him socialize. But I found this whole episode generally pretty cute 💕
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They all keep getting mad at him, at the way he talks but it never occurred to them that the boy has some problems and they should bring him to the hospital for a checkup? Cause he definitely does not seem normal to a lot of us. Should have brought him to real Counselors instead
That's exactly what I was thinking. Maybe that accident left some brain damage that went unnoticed the first time he got checked after the accident, assuming they did go after the accident, that is
a lot of kids born as premature as him have a crap tonne of neurodevelopmental delays...i wonder if he's been assessed?
Honestly, I'm wondering, do they know anything about autism in Korea? Or acknowledge such things? Because he comes off as possibly autistic to me. Whatever it is, he definitely isn't neurotypical. He needs help :(
is that possible ? its understandable if he act the same to everyone but he only comfortable to love & being rude to his father which what every spoil kid does
R Marie i agreeeeeee.....
My brain is too confused. He looks 25, acts like a 5 year old but is actually 17 like damn. I feel like his case should be taken more seriously. The way he acts/speaks is kind of worrying. It might be because of the traumatizing car accident, I do hope he gets help if it is bc of that.
I don't think he looks 25. Maybe you're a bit younger that's why you find him older. But he looks like he's 17 tbh. And by the way, maybe it isn't because of the traumatizing car accident, maybe he already had a problem in his mind because of the premature birth, and the car accident triggered it. Side note: acts like a 5 year old? That is harsh af.
crystal well i dont know why but most koreans under 20 acts weird for me. they seem to act like they have some disorders. i mean even 11 year old looks like 5 year old and acts like they have problems talking. i still cant figure how that is possible.
TheFlying Tiger ohhh yeah bc korean age
I don’t think the ‘looks 25’ was necessary.
He was born in 2002 in normal age he would be 15 or 16.
Why'd they bring him on this show just to embarrass him when he seems like he needs actual help? Get him a doctor, not a panel of celebrities giving their two cents on his weird habits! I really wish they could have a more open discussion about mental health on this show, because so many of the concerns brought up on this show have been centered around it like addiction, eating disorders, depression, abusive relationships, body dysmorphia, etc...
Sinead B EXACTLY
this show is not helping (their) society in any way. its actually belittling these issues and treating them like a big joke. not a fan.
I was seriously tearing up with the way they were treating him. Clearly he needs help. Poor baby❤️😔
if you don't like it why do you watch it
preach it.
Since the boy was born very prematurely, its not surprising if he has the problem y'all are talking about. I hope they figure soon.
i was born very prematurely and thank god i didnt have the problem like him so i think the cause isnt because born premature but maybe theres a little damage in his brain since he got a car accident :) health condition is different from mental issue
nothing would change if he wasnt premature. it was the car accident that started it.
Mal Malik I'm not too sure about that. My cousin was born extremely premature and has a neurodevelopmental disorder. She can function close to normal; however, she is extremely slow at learning and this affects her speech as well. We can't be certain when saying whether it was a result of his premature birth or his childhood trauma but I really do hope he gets the help he needs.
ah, now that I think about it, my mother said that i would have a disability because I was born premature.
Mal Malik it varies from person to person. Some people are lucky and don't suffer any serious repercussions from being born premature but the chances do increase when compared with children born when they're originally supposed to be due.
I'm a kindergarten teacher and meet a lot of children with different problems. That boy definitely have autistic behavior. I bet his grades are good and that is part of the case as well. I don't get how the school doesn't send the boy somewhere to find out about his problem.
Boglárka Kun I agree but unfortunately those tests are looked down upon
I heard that children that might have autism or ADHD are just called "troublemakers" bc people dont know
Cece Jagger That's really sad. In my kindergarten we integrate as many children as possible. Of course there are cases when we can't because they really need very special care but those who can be integrated still get the special care what they need. They are not troublemakers or "stupid", they are just a little different from what we call "normal". But they are very lovable and I'm happy that I can teach them and maybe help to get a better life.
Let’s just say Korea’s knowledge of mental health disorders...is...lacking
Boglárka Kun sorry. But u don't think you actually know what autism is... this is trauma, not an autistic child. Autism, is from early childhood, but he was in a car accident. There's a difference between the two. Well at least in my opinion as an in training child psychologist.
James Heng--It's not a mental health disorder to be autistic--it is, however, a disability.
He's not as bad as the comments here described. The boy was in a car accident and was dragged 30 meters on the road. How can he be "normal" after such trauma? He's perfectly fine. He just needs a little help to be independent, that's it.
Dawn Lee eventually it's his father's mistake... saying yes to everything is a bas parenting!
Dawn Lee Exactly
I agree with you. Some if the comments seem overboard. Things may be hardER for him, but not impossible.
Dawn Lee I agree
Dawn Lee EXACTLY but when some people have big problems that are hard to deal with ignorant dummies just make fun of them for it and ignore it instead of trying to give them the help they need
Wait?! Am I the only one that's shocked that the dad is 50?!?! 😱 He looks soo young!
Exactly!! He looks 40 at most
the boy is very selfish he says he likes his dad but is more like he likes what his dad does for him, as though his dad is his servant and he doesnt want anyone else to have the dads attention. he seems like a stuck up self centred greeedy kid, u see when they tell him his behaviour is wrong he has that look of irritation of "dont get into my business" he reminds me of the spoilt cruel kid from the movie RED the blonde haired kid thats violent and he kills this oldmans dog just cause he thought it was fun.
im not because hes asian
Korean plastic surgery isn’t #1 for nothing
Welcome to Korean genetics and skin care😂♥
It may sound lame but I low key started crying thinking about how they're gonna view him, because mental health isn't looked fondly on in Korea so I feel people will make fun of him. This is a problem where the family should've taken him to a real doctor... I hope all is well❤️
I was just thinking that...he goes to school wont the kids treat him differently after this.....i feel like he is traumatized from that incident...
Not just in Korea...
In all parts of Asia, mental health is looked down. Our parents usually tell us, "you don't need therapy! It's all in your head!"
@@prokshhh true my parents dont like people with depression.
@@sonikalama6524 ikr. I have severe anxiety yet.... y'know, I don't even need to say this.
The counselors never take serious concerns seriously
hi hi
they shouldn’t even be dealing with “serious” concerns . they are comedians , not counselors . they need to stop taking in concerns like this . they are not fit to give advice .
they do behind the scenes. there once was a concern so serious that they had to add the aftershow scene where they actually helped the person and gave them helplines
They have counselors behind the scenes, but I agree that some points should have been taken more seriously here like people are deducing the issues in the comments a lot better than these guys.
Not really. They cant show or talk it in nation wide television. That guy's life will probably fucked up if they announced that something's wrong with him. Specially in korean culture if you are weak you will get trampled. Just like in schools he will probably get bullied nonstop with the teachers and student. They will probably talk with psychologist after the show in the back stage.
JK SH yeah
there’s something really wrong with the boy. he doesn’t seem to focus, seems dazed, and has slow reactions. he could have ptsd, brain damage, or have austism or an undeveloped system. premature babies sometimes develop autism. i know a few autistic kids and he’s reminding me of them. he should get some counseling or testing.
Umm, wouldn't you if you were born prematurely and ontop of that been in a car accident? I'm pretty sure he has all of the above you've mentioned smh.
@@joc-asmrtingles9860 well the OP was just sharing what they think while not doing any diagnosing to the boy so that's why they don't do any confirmation in their opinions. It's a good practice not to immediately diagnose someone, even if you think they do have it, when you are not a professional yourself. So don't smh the OP for hesitating that the kid might have something. And not all prematurely born babies will have some kind of autism so it's a no to your first qs if you're being sarcastic to the OP. It's a chance it might and might not happen. He could be prematurely born and get into accident but still fine. It's a chance.
It's obvious he has a slight PTSD and a form of High Functioning Autism. This boy is not normal.
But in Korea they look down on people with diagnosed mental disabilities, so a lot of the time parents will just ignore these signs and not get them properly diagnosed or treated.
Bless his heart. Coming from a family that has a history of autism, i can tell that Junseo is on the spectrum. The good news is that he can be self sufficient with adequate therapy and family support. He is a well intentioned, eloquent and polite young man and I wish him the best.
People in the audience looking all disgusted is really sad, bc they should have known that a kid who sleeps with his parent at the age of 17 is not normal. They should be more considered
His dad's smile is really sweet
am i the only one who got mad because they were all laughing at the way he is dressed????
I actually liked the way he dressed lol
I dress like that lol
your instagram account must have like thousands of followers, then
Yaco Aroha What do you mean by that?
I meant that cel probably has lots of people following her/him on IG because of the way s/he dresses (which I'm sure many people like and not just me)
He was 7month premature and 9years later in scary car accident..dad had no choice but dot on him and results is as you see. He is not confident, scared easy and knows who loves him the most and takes advantage of it.
No that boy has a form of High functioning autism. It's extremely obvious.
everyone be saying that he might have some detrimental neurological effects from the car crash but i reckon the fact that he was 2 whole months premature is far more likely to be the cause. i reckon its due to a combination of both upbringing and some biological aspect but who are we to know anyways
Cycra Lisa I am 4 months premature an I am fine I have no neurological damage or am "slow" as special needs kids are I think it is serious trama from the car acc2
Being premature has absolutely nothing to do with neurological disorders
If your premature that don’t affect anything I was heavily premature when I was a baby and I’m perfectly fine just my mum also say I’m a miracle baby all the god dam time 😂
Though it's true that prematurity could give someone a slower learning ability. It doesn't usually give you a personality or emotional problem. This could however very well be a complication from his car accident. If his brain got a lack of oxygen or if he had a bleeding in his brain his emotional center could get messed up.
Alright, so from what I've gathered, being 2 months premature is very unlikely to be the actual CAUSE of any neurological disabilities (I asked my mum who is a GP and she said that it generally happens to babies who are far more premature and even then only around 30%).
However, this doesn't mean that the premature birth can't be an INDICATOR of a disability that was created earlier in the gestational period. So I still reckon it's more a primary disability than an acquired one, but of course, the car accident could still be the cause (if there even is something wrong with him). He could even just have a completely unrelated genetic issue for all we know. But without further info we can never be sure
This is why I have a love/hate relationship with Hello Counselor, this kid clearly has a mental problem but they brush it off and says he needs to man up. This sums up Koreas views and opinions on mental illness, you should hide it and not talk about it. Seeking mental help should not be a bad thing but seen as trying to improve yourself as a person.
I feel bad for the son when the mum started talking and laughing about him. Laughing about his dream, him getting chubby, the surgery done on his eyes even after he kept on tapping on her leg.
She was on a roll to embarrass him and wonder why he prefers his dad.
woah peniel hair grewww
i relate to your username
Dean is my baby
i saw you on justin park's video lmaoooo
Dean is my husband.
Sndjakfwpkei Dean is so nice, I went to one of his concerts and I was right at the front, he gives gReAt fan service
I can see that the son doesn't act his age but when they told the father that he should yell at him??? Like this is not the right way comparing to the way he acts !!! The boy really needs some help I feel sorry for him cause yelling will make him even worse :(
That's why people from your country aren't strong like Koreans u don't get us✋
@@tarareign8326 bro what?😂
@@tarareign8326 bruh there’s a reason why Korea has such high suicide rates tf
I have a friend like him.He talks like kid and can't fully understand what he's saying but it's okay it's make girls comfortable because he doesn't tease any girls like boys always do. He may look different than normal people but he is so good in study. He has some problems and i don't know the specific names for it but he always sleep in class but when teachers ask him things that us learn while he sleep,he can answer it. Don't judge a book by its cover ❤️
ME: I'm hungry, Dad. Make me something.
DAD: WHATTTTTTTT?!
ME: Nothing dad. You want some food?
DAD: Okay.
CJ Mapogi lol same 😂
Mood
Me: Dad , Make m-
Dad: *Look at me with blank eyes*
Me: Nvm *Walk silently elsewhere*
I swear if i talk to my parents like that i will get smacked
PS: is it a coincidence that they are talking about sex and the episode is the 369th episode of this show
meanwhile my dad cant even cook rice.
I think he still suffers some trauma from the accident however that is not an excuse to treat his dad that way. Hopefully he becomes more independent and less reliant on his dad. I'd like to see a follow up of this in the future.
A son sleeping with his dad even when he become big is a rally big gift for the father..
Because now a days nobody is being that good with parents
For those people that are talking about premature baby problems I would like to say that yes It can cause Baby problems like I got myself. I was born premature which made my immune system weak and my health condition bad but I didn't grew up having a mental health problem. I had some mental issues when I was traumatized and due to some concerns. I am perfectly fine now cause my teacher and parents helped me out (my case wasn't serious at all) . I hope this boy parents help him out.
P. S I am the same age as him and I can't even sleep with my younger brothers.
H Music Visions❤❤❤ Thanks for sharing your experience.
yes i agree with you because i was born premature and yes i have a weak immune system and bad health condition but i grew up as a normal person. born premature didnt make you have a mental problem i guess..
Alma Kirana Thanks for agreeing with me, I actually find it absurd when people say premature babies have or more likely to have mental problems. People even say absurd things like these types of babies are not likely to live in early days of birth
H Music Visions I was born 5 weeks early and for me I have learning problems like slow learning and not understanding
Squishy junhui that must be hard but stay strong
He might be autistic too, but a more functioning autistic person. His switch from happy to angry to sarcastic, and not really being able to interact with people well or pick up on social ques, show that there may be a possibility he has autism hence his "weird" behavior. Not to mention the fact he was born 2 months early and in a horrible car crash. Hope he gets professional help.
Yea i think so too he is not fully autistic so some doctors call it ' Developmental Delay' its like they function like a special kid but doesn't look like one (not trying to be a know it all)❤️
The son is so precious.
before i watched the episode i was going to comment that i have a friend that does the same thing. Hes in grade 12 and still sleeps with his mom. He says its cause its nice to have the warmth and presence of a person next to him, it makes him feels safe and comfortable. But beyond that he operates like any other teenage boy. So i cant say my friend and this boy are similar cause this boy seems to be going through something... uh more complex than my friend.
One of my lil bro slept with my mum till he was 15 and was force to sleep alone later. Now that I think about it, we should just let him. Cause after he got his own bedroom, he seems distant.
i don’t care about what the comments say, he’s adorable and i wish i could just give him a tight hug and give all the love he wants, he’s gone through traumatic things and he’s just scared that it will happen to him again.
i like Asian boys finally! a comment that I can agree with all my heart ❤
You weirdo
no one is condescending him in anyway in the comment section. all i see are concerns about his mental health and frustation about people taking his situation lightly.
Being born so prematurely could've led to a lack of development in his brain, perhaps leading to him having a younger brain age hense him acting like a child. Additionally being trapped under a car , especially at a young age, definately had a traumatic effect on him such as claustrophobia or even a form of ptsd- that would explain why he doesnt feel safe under his covers and needs someone there to reassure him
I hope he goes to a real counselor and doctor/physiatrist
I think the whole cast and audience caught on to what everybody is thinking in the comments, im sure they wanted to say something or ask questions but they probably didnt know how to bring it up
his reactions r so weird im rlly confused
Summer Rahn there's something wrong with him thats why he behave like that...
I think he could be autistic. It's very plausible considering that he was born premature; developmental delays are next to inevitable.
wow we love a smart sis that actually makes a lot of sense:)
The son always want to sleep with his dad but the dad wanted to sleep with the mother for once in their life
Nicole C there is something "wrong" with a mental disorder. it is an abnormal behavior and sometimes people are born with it. we should not make people feel weird for having them but it is not normal and there is something wrong. sometimes we can correct them and other times we cannot
I get it he loves his dad and is way more dependent on his dad. I feel like something is wrong and maybe they should consult psychologist.
minimalel and thats just so sad.
I hope in coming days korea will be more open about mental health and do something about it.
The way he talks remind me of D.O's character from "I remember you"... Give my chills....
Maybe from the accident whether injury or permanent instilled fear (being traumatized) since then is the reason he is like this ? I hope he is okay mentally, emotionally, physically...🙏
The Dad is ♥ and his voice ... w♥w
Yeah he's definitely not normal, he has to have something like autism, or a delayed developmental disability or just to emotionally scared from his accident. He needs real help.
It's very rude to post something about someone not being normal when you don't even know the person
@@maureenthomas3545 | my dude, you can clearly tell that that isn't normal behavior
@@maureenthomas3545 his behavior is obviously not normal
My little sister is autistic and used to have to sleep with me hugging her since she had sensory issues along with the autism. Through different therapies and communicative coaching i believe this kid will be okay. Im glad they treated him kindly but you could tell right off the bat that he wasnt like every other person who has been on the show. I feel like yeongja noticed when she askes him to "promise".
The son is so cute. To me he doesn't look fat at all. I really want to give him a hug :)
"Why didn't you lock the door?"
The dad: "There was no time..."
Me:Dad get me a glass of water plsue
Dad:U don't have leg?
Lost Gurl i was always told that i have two legs and a heart beat lol
My dad just glares at me. I would just get water on my own and he goes "since you are up and near the fridge anyways, grab me a beer"
Lost Gurl 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm in tears rn 😂😂😂😂😂 this comment is so true 😂😂😂😂😂
If I’m gonna be completely honest, I believe the boy has a form of high functioning autism. I’ve grown up surrounded by people with similar disabilities and he shows the same kind of behaviors and symptoms. Korea is known for having poor care towards people with mental disabilities and this kid needs to visit a real doctor and a real therapist or consular rather than being broadcasted for entertainment
I wouldn't judge them. I think that son has love for his dad, and it's the same the other way around, but most likely bc of those things that happened to him in the past they haven't set respectable boundaries. it's a serious concern because there may be something going on with the son that requires psychological help, but other than that, I wouldn't put "blame" on either one of them for anything. they've been through difficult things. who are we to judge people that have gone through so much worse than we have?
Lmao everyone is talking about how weird the son is but... Can we plz play attention at how much of a savage the mom is, she legit called her son out about his insecurities on television!!
that's shaming, it would lower the son's self confidence, i'm really worried about the son
Lol im not saying its right either, i felt bad too, dont get me wrong but u gotta think about... Its his mother. I cant talk rudely about her shes a mother. Who am i to to tell her what she did was wrong.
Plus she not the only one whos done it on the show. I was just saying it was funny beacuse almost everyone in the comments are talking about whats wrong with the son, but no one called out the mom for doing that. You cant deny that she called him out on tv. Trust me i wouldn't be happy either if i were him. My mom would also call me out cuz she's just that type of person. But i mean what could i have done its my mom, she always dose it even if i tell her it not like she'll listens to me.
Its not savage its demeaning it ruins your self esteem
I felt so bad for the boy...it is embarrassing him and he felt so uncomfortable it made me so mad
the son might have cerebral problems. either from premature birth or the car accident, but i think that deserves more attention than a mother sharing details that the son obviously did not want to be shared.
Junseo looks so adorable and smol, I wanna protect him lmaoo
Ikr
I was tryna focus on the issue but I can't get over how cute he is
I love the way Yeongja noticed something was not right with that boy 8:45
I was feeling that second hand embarrassment when they mom kept on calling him out 😂 I felt like my mom was doing that and got so pissed
I feel like there is definitely a culture difference between western culture because a lot of the stuff this boy does (like asking his dad for rides. bickering with him or talking to him like a friend) would be completely acceptable where I live.
Smdumpster I dont think the problem was him asking. It was him telling him to take him. He didnt ask, he demanded.
Iris Tello oh yeah I guess I didn’t take that into account but tbh I’ve heard a lot of people be pretty demanding to their parents here and it’s not really seen as rude but I really admire how respectful their culture is.
Smdumpster yah I also feel like it’s a cultural difference cuz I sometimes mess around with my parents but don’t get me wrong I respect them regardless
well yes a huge part of asian culture is about treating elders with respect !! we usually do not treat our parents as friends etc since they are of a higher status in age thats why it’s considered rude but it still varies case to case :”)
How cute ,i hope he can get what he dream of and change to be good , Good luck!!
I love Ilhoon’s new hair. He looks so good.😍😍😍
am I the only one that think his voice and the way his talking is like dyo? He's cutee huhuuu
I wish the older brother was there 😭
Omg he's litterally so cute I can't believe the dad did this to him.....
It's seems to me that this issues goes beyond him simply having a spoiled upbringing. I'm not a psychologist but I have worked with children with autism, and something in his behavior and demeanour reminded me of children or teen I have worked with. Then again, it's still a taboo subject. It just that if he doesn't have the tools to go trough life, he is never going to change or be more independent. Again this show would benefit of professional insight, but that not the format they are going for, and I don't think the success of the show would be the same.
Me: dad can i borrow 30 dollars?
...
Me: dad...dad...
Azee Aram 😂😂😂😂😂so true 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
my parents give money to me and my lil bro and the take it back at the end of the month😶😶
"there was no time to lock the door"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He needs help. Bless him!
He looks like a really Nice and Caring dad
His family are so nice 😁 but really,he's just like my brother....similar attitudes and symptoms.Maybe a high-functioning One.My brother is smart,and now works as an engineer.But everyone knows that he is a weird guy.Even us,as his family we admit that he's different from any regular adult.But it's okay,as long as he can work,and supports himself, that's fine.Though, truthfully we can never imagine our brother to be in any romantic relationships and eventually getting married..that's like out of question, i guess. But we as a family will always be supporting him.😀
Siti Inche wow good to hear that !
He's a special kid. Like you all have noticed in the way he speak and act.
Am I the only one who wants to call the boy baby. People should realize that the kid is a sweet little bean and needs all love, the parents are the ones who need help in understanding him because as far I can understand he seems to be a special child.
The dad is so nice xD
That dad is so nice 🥺
He kind of reminds me of kyungsoo from EXO 😭💖 specially his lips.
The boy seems.....hmmmmm. *could be the fact that he's 2 months premature and the accident which left him traumatized/paranoid*
So he's embarrassed to admit to have plastic surgery, but is okay with saying that he still sleeps with his dad!!
What? He had plastic surgery really?
@Kailey Luong Yeah here in Korea you can have plastic surgery after you cross 10-12 years...
I honestly feel like he must suffer from a lot of anxiety and his dad became is only way to prevent this anxiety. He's basically acting like a child who need affection and someone who'll reassure them. Like the fact that he need to have the light on and the TV turn on to be able to go to bed, is exactly what I do when I have to sleep without no one home, otherwise, like a child I'll believe that something will happen to me.
Knowing what anxiety is like, I truly feel like it's some kind of anxiety on a high level.
They should get him checked. But also if he had worn a yellow shirt, he could’ve been a minion!!!
I think he is a special child
I was feeling positive about the father and the fact that he seems to truly care about his son, when I remembered that he brought him on Hello Counselor, the show that makes spectacles out of troubled people. This kid should be at a counselor, not put on national tv to face mass ridicule...
I feel so bad for this kid....everybody is just trying to gang up on him without understanding his problems. May god bless this kid and may he give this kid the strength to deal with these stupid people.
its not a bad thing to be clingly to your parents at any age.. you can be 40 and still want your parents to embrace u and be there "babying " you
theres nothing wrong with that.
ppl in the comments are rude, trying to blame "mental problem or autism" on his , behivore, yes he might have traumas from the past and its just make him think that he wants to spend every minute with his parents cuz life is precious and fragile.
im 27 and im mom's girl, i dont care than in the eyes of the sociaty im an adult, i still love hugs and cuddles and like when im getting babyd like a good night kiss and head pats and things like that- theres nothing wrong with it and i dont have issues outside some depression that got caused by "friends" but i was mom's girl since the first memories i can remeber.
the advice they gave the dad about that he should yell at the son and not treat him as a friend is bad advice- if parents aer not friendly with their kids- the kids will grow up and be bad adults
what is wrong is when teens start to distance themselves from the parents and show no love or need at all.
never understood the thing where parents just let their 18 years old to move out as if they are adults....
you dont fully mature until the age of 25, 18 is still a kid who just graduated highschool- how can parents let their kids go live on thier own without knowing anything about the life outside is weird.
some of you might call it being indepandent but the truth is: that its not- most parents just pop off kids and let them be rised by themselves and than "kick " them out when they are "adults" at age of 18.
and say "ive done my job as a parent" parents job is never done- if u made a kid you should be there loving and caring even if hes 40-50 (as long as they alive) for some reason the most patents think that they should only rise the kid until 18, and only give them care of love and "babaying" until they are like 10.
if parents were more attentive to kids rather than throw the indepandance card: today's kids would have been so much better and ofc less bullying
Aside from his trauma, his attitude was also because of how his dad spoiled him. The dad doesnt need to yell at him , but he needs to properly explain and be firm when talking to his son.
Discipline is important. If you love them you discipline them. You explain why and be firm on your decision.
he honestly looks like he has incontrolable little space moment. notice how in 08:41 he just make pinky promise. if he does has little space, all things would be easier to tell. how he wants to sleep together, throw tantrums, being demanding towards his caretaker (father here) and his fashion also!
11:57 I don't know why, but he reminded me of EXO's D.O.
임나영 me toooo, the way he talks!
"There was no time" the dad is funny
this poor boy needs an actual councelor or a therapist. i hope they get him the help he needs.
He's the same age as me 😂😂 but i find it kinda cute
I do but it was until i'm like twelve. What i find cute are his love for his dad. Teenagers usually dont show that, me too. Im not used to express mu feelings to my parents.i envy him
Yeah but why does he treat his dad so poorly? I think it's selfish love
Seacgull xx same
Same
Seacgull xx It's not cute, it's weird, creepy and should be taken more serious in my opinion. He need's a therapist. Same with his dad, they both need one.
His father is way too good & kibd hearted... Many dream of half of his father... To all tortured souls, abused young, prisoners in what called home , hope you find a ray of hope at end of tunnel, praying for you to find peace
11:30 ahahhhh.... his son reaction is so cute
Why are they laughing at they way he dressed? That's adorable ☺️
i really want to see what his brother is like
I just think it's sweet the way dad is looking at his lil eggy😊 lol
He's so cute ❤
bebi_ sham I hope you’re talking about the dad lol
Stop it.get sum help
Taetae Feet I agree
bebi_ sham He's not
bebi_ sham he's adorabl3 I can't help it😂💙💙
What a wonderful and honest family..
May you have happy and loving life ahead..
👍👍👍
You can't blame the boy in this case. He needs proper help from a doctor or a therapist. Not only does he have a childhood trauma, but most premature kids have a slow brain developing process. It explains his behaviour and speech pretty well.
Also, I think the mother shouldn't have been so open about his insecurities; she should've kept it to herself.
Shows that talk about others concerns:
Korea: Hello Counselor
UK: The Jeremy Kyle Show
America: Dr. Phil
I think Hello Counselor is the most colorful and joyful show that talks about other people’s concerns.
Mental health in Asian countries are a big problem. After incidents like this in my country we spend time with a psychologist and get help if we need. This issue makes me sad.
huwaa there are peniel and jung ilhoon!!! so pretty!
AWW cute he looks like EXO's Kyungsoo!!!!
The dad and son so cuteee
Ilhoon😍
Can we talk abt how nice the dad is.
I love the son's reaction😂😂😂😂
This is the best story ive heard in such a long time
I could just imagine the older brother watching this
I'm more scared without sleeping a blanket idk why but I feel like it's a armor that saves me from ghosts xD
I feel like he has Aspergers or is at least on the autistic spectrum, he shows traits of autism but it could be PTSD from the accident
Woah what a sweet hearted dad! He looks good too.
He seems like a very sweet boy but just has some communication issues. I'm actually really happy he has such a good relationship with his dad but his dad should try to set clearer boundaries. Idk why his mom embarrassed him like that tho that was unnecessary and I'm concerned about why hes scared of his big brother. Overall I'm scared hes gonna get bullied hes so cute :-( I hope he and his family of to therapy to help him get over whatever trauma he has and to help him socialize. But I found this whole episode generally pretty cute 💕