I BOUGHT A HOUSE! home tour & buying process
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Hi Paige! There is a concept/idea with ADHD called “body doubling” where we gain motivation from having another person around us. Even if they’re not helping with the task, just being present helps ADHDers accomplish things!
Oh my god, why is that literally what I was just talking with my boyfriend about today i didnt know it was a real thing. I want to do things but like actually cant sometimes like school work (eep) and so I just have to sit near him when I do it and if I dont I spend 5 hours on my phone instead.
Yes, yes, yes! That actually makes a huge difference in my life.
Yessssss! That helps me!
wow that is so interesting. I always feel like this whenever my boyfriend is over at my house, but when hes not around it is soooo hard for me to keep up with everything and stay motivated
hi Paige! you probably won’t see this, but i just received my autism diagnosis this past wednesday, after being misdiagnosed twice the past 12 years. i wanted to thank you for making these videos because i watched them prior and it really helped me understand autism and know that there isn’t anything wrong with being autistic and clearing up misconceptions i had previously. thank you for helping me understand myself better :) also i just finished my third week in my summer research fellowship so i’m proud of us doin great things ! 🥳😤
hi paige! your content isn’t really accessible and it hasn’t been for a while, are you able to add captions to your videos?
liking and replying to make her more likely to see this
Yes! Cc would be really helpful!
Yes! Please Closed CaptionS!
Yesss I love the way she puts cc on her tiktoks and I’m excited for when she does on RUclips too
cc would be a great improvement!
I just got my driver's license!! We're kicking ass!
that's awesome !!!
Awesome!!
Full license or learners.
@@blinkfan87 I got my Class E learners last year but I got the official license today. I made a subsequent post if you want to read it.
@@yukjellybeans Thx.
Congrats Paige. Never heard of sending letters to a buyer. Must be Canadian thing.
In the US we do it too
I did this in the US!
Oregon just made it illegal to do this effective January 1, 2022. It is the first U.S. state to ban this practice.
I’ve done this and I live in Maryland.
When selling my house in the US I received letters from a couple buyers... there is a movement to ban it.
I lived alone for a short while in Uni, and I loved it! Living with my parents in my rural state DRAINS me. When I'm in school, I text my mom all the time, and thats great. But, I feel much more independent when I am away from them. I am fiercely independent too lol!
I'm so happy you are able to get your own place, and tjats you're happy with it!!
I hated living alone. My mom and I get along really well and she needs financial help so it works for us.
It’s different for everyone though
But honestly it’s three story so I’m upstairs and she’s in the basement. It would probably be different if it was a smaller house I’d feel controlled
I really appreciate your honesty and saying this isn't a "you can do it too, it's easy!" so many influencers do that and it's harmful.
Congrats!! That’s such great news!! I’m autistic as well, and I have my own place, and honestly, I can just
e x i s t
I can control most of the stimuli I encounter, I can live on my own time, in my own way, and honestly it’s so much better than any other living situation I’ve ever had.
I really hope it’s good for you, seriously, make it work for your needs, it’s your space! You deserve it! 🥰
Lucky you have such a smart mom to help you get to this point.
I wanted to thank you for your videos. I just got diagnosed with autisme, and your videos really help me with understanding myself and my new comunitie❤
I got diagnosed two days ago (on my birthday it was kind of stressful) but congratulations
Congrantulations! I hope you get acess to all resources you may need😊
@@Blue-vb5gl you too, i got my diagnose on the same day as you, but on your birtday!? It was for me already stresfull without it being my birtday❤
Dude. Congratulations! That's a huge achievement!!
I love your place! I also bought a house recently and we have really similar taste!
Glad you have a place to call your own, where you can really dive into all of your endeavors!
I'm so so so happy for youuuu !! also I'd like to add that bc of my ADHD I could never stand to watch vlogs and tours like these, but I got through ur video with a smile on my face from beginning to end.
it's really interesting to hear you talking about the process of getting a house, it seems really stressful lmao, I'm very happy for you that you accomplished this, it's a goal bigger than others think it is and your house looks really great, I love it, loved the green room lmao, congratulations!!!
So happy for u 💓
i love that house
personally i could never live alone id forget to take care of myself
Same
Congrats Paige. My fiance and I have been looking for a house all year. We submit a letter with every offer and it can be discouraging when we lose the house. Every time we look at a house we fall in love with it and imagine our children, dog, life, etc in that house. Really glad you found your home!
Anyone else think she looks like she should be Pheobe Buffay's daughter? 😂 p.s. I have anxiety and your videos rlly help me find new coping mechnisms thank you so much! xx
Who’s Phoebe Buffay
yes!!
@@thatrelatableautistic from the t.v shows freinds
Not sure what that has to do with the lady getting her own home.The point of the whole video.
@@kmckinlay8070 I never liked the show tbh
I'm autistic and bought my first house alone 6 months ago! Was such a scary charge at first but now I love it :) I'm in the UK and it's fun hearing house buying in other parts of the world. Love house content :)
"you can critique a society and still live in that society" I love that 💖
SO HAPPY FOR YOU PAIGE!! I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!
Hey. Lived alone for most of my adult life, even though I crave connection and struggle with the motivation issue you described. I recommend getting familiar with how to hold yourself accountable to yourself without a mediated reflection of others: it is hard hard hard. And also get familiar with letting yourself off the hook if you decide to give yourself a break about being "motivated." It is okay to just "hang out and do nothing" with yourself and your dog. That is doing something, allowing some down time.
Can you please do a day in your life at work or show us how you do lashes????? I am soo happy for you!!!!
You could make that spare bedroom into a “zen den” if u decide against putting a bed inside. You could put crystals, plants, and a yoga mat in there, as well as fidget toys for when u want to stim inside :)
I did that at my old apartment and it was so nice to have a sanctuary outside of my bedroom!
This is so exciting! My parents and I just moved into a rental house for a year as we build a new house, so I big relate to any struggles or exhaustion you might feel as you move. (And yes the housing market is *so* insane right now)
I can’t wait to see more updates on your house as you spruce it up and make it perfect for you - plus I can’t wait to see tips and tricks for an autism-friendly house. Maybe I can use some of them myself! I only recently figured out that I’m autistic, so I haven’t been able to make many adjustments in my home to make it better for me, especially since we had to pack up and move to a whole new house... it’s been a month since we moved and I swear I’m still burnt out. I hope your moving process goes much more smoothly and less stressfully than mine
Hey! Congrats on hitting 100K subs!! 🎊🎉
I'm So happy for you! Can't wait to see the decor you choose. I'm an older single mom with 4 kids at home ages 8 to 28 that all have mental health and/or physical health "challenges" including ADHD, autistic-like behaviour from a genetic disorder, SMA (Spinal Muscular Atrophy) and etc. Your videos are a lovely Hopeful reminder to myself and them that there is so much that can be accomplished and looked forward to. Thank you, dear, for sharing yourself and your life with all of your "Friends You Haven't Met Yet" here online. Blessings. 🤟🏼🕊️
omg congratulations!!! Idk if you'll see this but I hope you're planning on loading up on some security cameras, I think they're super important for everyone but especially people who live alone!
I struggle with intrusive thoughts as well as constantly feeling like I left the door unlocked or a burner on (even if I didn’t cook anything😅) having cameras inside and outside my house so I can check on thing as well as my pets when I’m away helps soooo much, as well as just the general safety of having cameras.
Make a sensory room with the spare room I’ll probably do the same thing when I move out
what is a sensory room!
@@laurasophie3059 idk how describe it can you please search it up
@@thatrelatableautistic yes i just did it seems amazing!
@@laurasophie3059 it is you don’t have to get expensive sensory stuff just get anything you can afford
Never thought I could include a kind of cover letter. Thank you! 🎉 congrats
congratulations on your new home & journey living by yourself, u do great good luck 💙 you got this
I love your walk through of the buying process. It's so easy to understand compared to the other videos out there, so yes it definitely helps other autistics, though I had already gone through this 20+ years ago. It's nuts right now but also what an experience
I probably said grats on Tiktok but grats again! It looks really great.
I have a question, how do you guys that own your own home; how do you make sure you can always pay for the mortgage, bills, and your needs? Xx I’m so happy for you all 💖
My Fiance and I just bought a house and our story soumds similar to yours. The first house was gorgeous but sold before we put an offer in the second we put one in and they didn't even contact us and then third we fell in love with and put in 20k over ask price plus fixing the ac and other issues and we were top two and they asked a few questions and we got it!! The housing market is ridiculous right now
A very me me message
@@ransfordrowe6409 What do you mean?
You are so lucky having parents who taught you that / did / do these things for you! I bet you’re super grateful 🙏❣️ definitely a privilege
I agree. She's a kind person who came from a stable family and was well cared for... It's a very different story when someone comes from poverty and abuse (raises hand). It does not mean that Paige didn't work very hard...but the wounded inner child in me sort of wishes I could have had a family that was stable. We also lived in poverty for a long time, too, and that really impacts your development and can create deep shame. On top of that...we moved a ton. I sometimes went to three different schools in a year. I remember considering suicide at 12. It takes a lot longer to pull yourself out of that sort of world when you have not been consistently treated with respect or your needs have been totally unmet for your formative years.
I love this RUclipsr. She's amazing. But you are right...in a world where many children grow up in abusive homes or in poverty it shows the range of privileges that can exist. I also feel like someone can acknowledge this and yet not be trying to tear down another. It's life. It's not fair. But at least in Paige's case...she is a lovely person and I am so happy for her.
It also baffles me that we live in a world where giving children what they need is considered privilege. It shows just how many go without things they truly need and how commonplace this is that many seem bitter when a good person gets ahead. Or start to create a contest of who was the most traumatized. When I find a person who is very full of anger and bitterness and feels pain when someone else gets ahead...I now see it as a sign that they likely didn't get their needs met at all. I know I am doing my best to heal because I definitely don't feel so bitter anymore. That's my personal progress and to me that's a win too. :)
I really love interior design and decorating, so I'm excited to see what you do with the place! I also am very interested in the ways you'll be able to make it more autism friendly, that's also something that interests me since I'm autistic.
I just moved into an apartment where there's staff during the daytime and I have my own coordinator, so that I'm not alone and not just thrown into the world of living by myself. I'm also really lucky that I got my older siblings and my dad nearby, and my sister and her boyfriend recently renovated basically their entire apartment, so they gave me a lot of stuff like side tables, a rug, lamps, etc lol.
I decided from day one that whatever is going into my apartment will be calm and muted in terms of colours, and that I'll make my place as calm as possible so that I can be less anxious.
Still trying to get the hang of keeping the place clean and tidy, and I do need help with it, but today I managed to do the day's dishes with no problem, which I'm quite proud of. Also got Pokemon bedding because that's important lol.
I’m so excited to see this! We moved into our first house just a few weeks ago. I am also autistic. So it’s exciting we almost did this at the same time.
I randomly came across your youtube channel while looking into Autism - I believe my 9 year old son may be on the spectrum and was just trying to learn a bit more - I have to say it's really nice to see someone being so open & honest about the subject and you are such a bubbly person with an amazing outlook on things. Thanks for the videos, the info and well, just being you .. I wish you lots of happiness, keep smiling :)
damn.....Paige got me rethinking my whole life rn
Love it! Congrats girl. You are killin it! I live in Ontario about an hour north of Toronto and I know how crazy and stressful this current real estate market is right now for first time buyers. Such a huge accomplishment and something you should feel super proud of.
Omg i love your house girl, stay blessed ✨💚
Congratulations! What an amazing and inspiring accomplishment. We live in California and I am watching your video with great envy. I would wish this for my own children so much but can't imagine because the prices of homes here are so out of reach. Ahhhhhh! Good for you! Your house is incredible and your plans are truly exciting. Thank you for planting that seed of hope and possibility. xo
CONGRATULATIONS!! Woohooooo!!
I'm still anxiously waiting for my diagnostic assessment (gotta wait a few months T^T) but I've been learning a lot through your videos these last few weeks and I vibed with you straight away. Wish you all the best Paige
Hi, love these videos. I was diagnosed two years ago after a suicide attempt. In the UK treatment, meds, counselling is free. There is one area not discussed that I hope you will make a video of and that is relationships, how do you try if you don't or can't mix with people properly?
I’m happy for you.
This is so cool dude!!! I love this home reno content, please keep us updated on how the move in process goes!!
Congrats on your home! I’m so elated for you- and impressed! I’m 45 years old and the mother of two sons and I’ve never bought a home on my own. To do this at your age is so exciting! I hope you continue to grow and flourish and discover more amazing things about yourself!
So proud of you! I’m 23 and I bought a house with my lovely husband this year. It’s awesome to have your own space :)))
hi just wanna say that you inspire me so much and I look up to you a lot🥺
hey Paige i just wanted to say that you deserve the money you have earned. you and this other girl have actually helped me really know that i had autism.
OMG CONGRATS!!!
Could you maybe do a "how to buy a house" video?
The house is gorgeous! Kinda blowing my mind thi that your kitchen and living room is upstairs and you have plug sockets in your bathrooms 🙈 you don't have plug sockets in bathroom in the UK.
Congratulations on this awesome milestone 😊❤
Sooooo excited to see it all 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Paige, this is amazing 😍😍👏🏼 congrats . I love to see a fellow girl on the autistic spectrum doing some well. It gives me such hope x
Congrats! Enjoy! (I would make the downstairs area my master suite)😉
that's super exciting!! hopefully soon the change won't bother you as much, i love how you house looks so far!
also your blush looks just like my sunburn
CONGRATULATIONS PAIGE👍THE WALK-IN CLOSET AND GOLD EATING UTENSILS ARE MY FAVORITE AS WELL..YOUR HOUSE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL♥️
Yaaaay Paige!! Congratulations on your home purchase
Congratulations! A shallow pantry is awesome for things not to get shoved to the back and forgotten.
That's awesome Paige! Congratulations!!! 🎉🎉🎉🍾
Congratulations! This is an amazing accomplishment at this time for anyone, especially at your age.
I so so SO LOVE how much happiness you are showing about this house! I really hope this is the future for my daughter!!!
Yeah!! Congrats Paige!!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳💐
I loved this video, I’m saving to buy a house rn and it made me so excited
I also just bought a house and the market is crazy rn! we put offers on 4 or 5 all above asking before we got one. Glad you finally landed on one and you're happy with it!
Love this for u!! Congrats 💖
Well done Paige.
Hi Paige. Congratulations. Can't wait to see your walk through. I found your channel when you had only 9, 000 subscribers. Your so precious and genuine. And I'm so happy to see your success, growth and that you are representing for autistic people. My son was diagnosed in January. He's the sweetest most awesome kiddo. I love him more than words can describe. It's brings me so much happiness to see your successes and that you are showing the world the there is so much that austists bring to the world. All the best.
Why am I crying!? 😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰 I’m happy for you!
Good news for Paige.
Congratulations Paige... so happy you found your home!
congratulations!! that's so exciting
getting a google home helps so much with not feeling alone! when you wake up you can tell it “good morning” and have it tell you what you need to do that day! same with saying “goodnight,” it’ll put on a noise you chose to sleep to. and you can ask it to tell you jokes and there’s so many.
Hi Paige, congrats on buying a house.
Yeah the Canadian housing market is bonkers right now. I just got a Semi in Thorold for 530 K and although i love the place i feel a tad dirty paying that much.Congratulations on your new place also.
Congrats Paige! You can be very proud of yourself to have accomplished so much already in life at such a young age! Your house looks very cute. I’m already looking forward to seeing it getting furnished and everything!
I just moved into a new apartment I’d love to see what sensory/autism friendly things you put in your house!!
Congratulations! Owning your own home is the best feeling! Though I wish I painted and ripped up carpet when I first moved in and it was empty. I just didn’t think of that, and had to move out ASAP. Been living here for 7 years this November, and still haven’t completed everything, as I just didn’t have the money. But now hubby and I are in a position to save and get jobs done, which is the best feeling ever.
Congrats on the new house!!
Just taking a moment to say watching your videos, for me, is a lesson in how eye contact works. I don't have the kinds of difficulties some do with eye contact - I can do it for a while quite easily but then, as the conversation moves along, I find myself looking into the other person's eyes, concentrating on that, and eventually losing the thread of what's being said. It doesn't happen always, but when it does it can be awkward to trail off, having lost my place and forgotten where the conversation was going. That's usually the point where I start talking garbage. I'm just saying I can watch your videos, with your searchlight-brilliant eyes, and really see only them but listen to you at the same time. You're good practice :)
Self obsession can be a trait of autism maybe you should work on that.Less me me me messages.Since it's Paiges channel and referring to the fact she has just bought a house Would probably be appreciated by her
@@ransfordrowe6409 Or she might appreciate me paying her a compliment.
@@ransfordrowe6409 I don't think talking about someone's own experience is the same as them being self-absorbed and rude...
omg i love that hidden pantry
Congratulations!! That’s so exciting! Can’t wait to see it complete
Definitely me too
Dogs are honestly the bestest of friends 💕
That little nook is called a mud room. Love your new house. So proud of you.
A close up of you is never a bad thing😀😀.Try to not worry about it.Congratulations on the plans to live alone.I never even knew there was a thing as a brow technician.Well done on turning it into a business
Guuurl I'm SO happy for you!!! Congratulations!! Please do show how you make it AS friendly! I'm 34 and just learned I'm autistic haha so any tips will be welcome to either improve this place or take into account for my next home 🥰 I love you!!
Omg that was really what I needed today. Looking at houses and walkthroughs of houses is one of my special interests even though I know I could never afford to buy a house ❤ I love your house. Wonderful.
Congratulations Paige! ♡
Congratulations Paige on your new house. May you find joy always in your home. I am interested in seeing what you do to the house to make it Autism friendly. Take care of yourself, you are an amazing person.
Congratulations Paige! Well done!
Ohh I can’t wait til this has captions! So excited for you Paige!
I need to see your acting gigs!!! Please share!!!
I think that you should keep the green room because it would be nice for backgrounds like you could place your self in the mountains or in a log cabin without leaving your house
Thank You for this! Gives me ideas on the types of housing to decide in the future or even on how to construct & design one. I love the free open space it consist of. So refreshing! Happy for you sis enjoy the glory & peace of it all. 🎆✨🤍✨🎇
Love your makeup, and congratulations!!
From what i learned from home improvement shows, you can get an old crock pot at the thrift store and have the hardware sit in just hot water and it should get the paint off ☺️
Congrats! Happy for you ❤️
Happy for you! 💕
Getting your own place is one of the best achievements in life. You're going to love it. 💚💙💜🌟
Paige seems so happy about it.Hope she is very happy there.
@Child Molester I said one of the BEST achievements, as in, one of the most enjoyable, (having space to yourself that you're able to call your own). Also, your youtube name is gross in the most disturbing way. I'd prefer a society where we rally together and do away with all child molesters, violently or otherwise.
Congratulations! Looks great! Can't wait for the videos you'll record there. Cheers from Belgium
Congratulations! So happy for you! You deserve only the best!
That is a super sweet little house!