When these sorts of people say, “You will tear the family apart,” they mean, “Unless to make the decision to follow what I tell you, I will make such a fuss that I will tear the family up.”
So is OP. She's used to having her sister go for her man... but then she's ok for them to go alone to that place because "they already know each other"? Like what.... she doesn't sleep with them after they already know each other? 😂😂😂
Right!? Like I get it, it’s hard to have family be cut out but letting them in your space to be the chaos in your life is also allowing them to do it. OP is only hurting herself and be apart of the reasons for her own stress.
"Sister's shouldn't hold grudges, and that Bailey was young and immature." Sisters also shouldn't sleep with their sister's partner, yet Bailey did that anyway. Yeah Bailey was young but in no way immature when it was a deliberate act and even planned to do it again with OP's fiancé.
I'm sorry you're dealing with such a challenging situation. It’s heartbreaking when family dynamics make an already emotional time even more difficult. You deserve to have your wedding day be about your happiness and choices, not about appeasing others. Stay strong and prioritize your peace
How delightful that OP got the vacation home. Bailey should be happy OP isn't me. In my case, my toxic relatives did teach me how to insult people in ways that hurt the most, but unlike them, I keep it exclusively for assholes like them and I'm simply returning the favor. I believe in 'treating others the way you want to be treated' but in the sense that this counts for other people too and that toxic people should be treated just as toxic because that's how they say they want to be treated. I would have made Bailey cry harder.
My question is why do they still have your phone number? You have to have them in your phone unblocked if you know that they are the ones that's calling you.
Love love love her grandpa 🥺 Also I would die getting something both historical and idyllic like that I’d start an event business (not planning just venue) only very small but w a lake and 5 acres you’d get some absolutely stunning outdoor weddings - plus a very sweet and petty way to spread the joy and beauty and rub it in both mom and sisters faces 😂
A participation certificate in a beauty contest? Really? No wonder Bailey was so entitled and rotten. Alex was such a weak minded fool. Mom was brain dead when it came to parenting. Dad seriously needs to grow a backbone. And any relatives who disagree with OP, then they have moral issues and shouldn't be welcomed at the wedding either. Who needs that kinda family?
Should tell the mom by taking the house you're saving Bailey from a situation that would be too much for her, that clearly the house is too much of a mental strainf or her and that you are making the...noble sacrifice just as she did for you and that by taking the home and doing all the hard work of caring for it and keeping it alive and in the family you will remove the stress of that work from Bailey and that she can now look forward to a more simple way of life😈 .
This is so frustrating and I'm only halfway through. Why is she still running to her mom??????? Limit contact with that woman. Grandpa should have told the whole family what was going on especially with the mom and sister harassing him. That would have cut down on the drama immediately.
its deliberately written like that to cause outrage. Also most people like to write a pity party without ending it with good ending so people like you and me can't even fathom how someone can be such a doormat and engage with the video.
When these sorts of people say, “You will tear the family apart,” they mean, “Unless to make the decision to follow what I tell you, I will make such a fuss that I will tear the family up.”
Oh my gosh, the father is such a doormat.
I was thinking the same thing. Like, this dude is so pathetic he will listen when his wife tells him to not give away his own daughter?
Simp
The mother chose her husband right, utter and complete simp.
So is OP. She's used to having her sister go for her man... but then she's ok for them to go alone to that place because "they already know each other"? Like what.... she doesn't sleep with them after they already know each other? 😂😂😂
Op should also cut contact to the relatives that are trying to pressure in her to give the vacation house to Bailey in the first place as well
Right!? Like I get it, it’s hard to have family be cut out but letting them in your space to be the chaos in your life is also allowing them to do it. OP is only hurting herself and be apart of the reasons for her own stress.
"Sister's shouldn't hold grudges, and that Bailey was young and immature."
Sisters also shouldn't sleep with their sister's partner, yet Bailey did that anyway.
Yeah Bailey was young but in no way immature when it was a deliberate act and even planned to do it again with OP's fiancé.
I kinda jumped up and down at the Grandfather's announcement of getting the house!!!!!
OP’s Mom: “Why doesn’t my unwanted child talk to me anymore?”
Wait. What were the parents and Bailey doing at the reception when they the parents were boycotting and Bailey wasn’t invited?
Mom and Bailey showed up uninvited to the reception.
To cause a scene
I'm sorry you're dealing with such a challenging situation. It’s heartbreaking when family dynamics make an already emotional time even more difficult. You deserve to have your wedding day be about your happiness and choices, not about appeasing others. Stay strong and prioritize your peace
The father needs to divorce her! If anyone would tell me thay would make my life miserable, I would go NC with them immediately!
Lol! ‘Natural charm with men.” That’s not what I’d call it!
She’s the town bicycle
@@66DoodleGal Right!?
DAD! Find your manhood and reattach please!
Where was your father in all this? Don't invite any of them!
being a coward and obeying op's mom
No wonder the op had a terrible childhood apart from her grandpa
Half way through and I wouldn't be surprised if mom had an affair that resulted in Bailey and dad was the sucker who played the role of fatherhood😂😂
Why is the OP constantly surprised that the people who have treated her like crap still treat her like crap?
Epic! With a capital E! Go Gramps!
How delightful that OP got the vacation home. Bailey should be happy OP isn't me. In my case, my toxic relatives did teach me how to insult people in ways that hurt the most, but unlike them, I keep it exclusively for assholes like them and I'm simply returning the favor. I believe in 'treating others the way you want to be treated' but in the sense that this counts for other people too and that toxic people should be treated just as toxic because that's how they say they want to be treated. I would have made Bailey cry harder.
Im not blaming mom and sister, they're just evil, but what the heck with the father???
Sideing with the mom by the looks of it
When op started saying how her new man was everything her ex wasn’t…that’s not setting very high standards…
What a terrible mom and a doormat dad! You don't need toxic family.
My question is why do they still have your phone number?
You have to have them in your phone unblocked if you know that they are the ones that's calling you.
"The slap came out of nowhere" ~Mom
Love love love her grandpa 🥺
Also I would die getting something both historical and idyllic like that
I’d start an event business (not planning just venue) only very small but w a lake and 5 acres you’d get some absolutely stunning outdoor weddings - plus a very sweet and petty way to spread the joy and beauty and rub it in both mom and sisters faces 😂
It's not bailey's fault It's mom's fault. That's where they learned it.
So basically the dad is just a grown muppet… 🙄
A participation certificate in a beauty contest? Really? No wonder Bailey was so entitled and rotten. Alex was such a weak minded fool.
Mom was brain dead when it came to parenting. Dad seriously needs to grow a backbone. And any relatives who disagree with OP, then they have moral issues and shouldn't be welcomed at the wedding either. Who needs that kinda family?
The constant motion hurts my eyes.
Should tell the mom by taking the house you're saving Bailey from a situation that would be too much for her, that clearly the house is too much of a mental strainf or her and that you are making the...noble sacrifice just as she did for you and that by taking the home and doing all the hard work of caring for it and keeping it alive and in the family you will remove the stress of that work from Bailey and that she can now look forward to a more simple way of life😈 .
This is so frustrating and I'm only halfway through. Why is she still running to her mom??????? Limit contact with that woman.
Grandpa should have told the whole family what was going on especially with the mom and sister harassing him. That would have cut down on the drama immediately.
its deliberately written like that to cause outrage. Also most people like to write a pity party without ending it with good ending so people like you and me can't even fathom how someone can be such a doormat and engage with the video.
Another family peace bs
¿Who paid for the main character's college education?.
This story again?
Website where you posted this story on Reddit, in ALL your videos.
Why all these stories the OP is a software engineer?
Dad's a doormat an a wuss sis Bailey is hoho
Deserve hahahaha😂
OP should have exposed them and send the message to relatives
@hugoumero9723 yea your right so the relatives know about what happened