So they chose sil over there own daughter but are now crying and complaining that there biological daughter wants nothing to do with them wow what a joke of a family .
I feel bad for OP. I mean, her own family told the church community and a lot of people sent OP Bible Verses that she needs to save lives. I hate her family. They chose SIL over her. What a horrible family. I mean, she had to block a LOT of people. Her family made it go public and everyone believed them and they got mad at her. Horrible people. I mean, the other people agreed with them and posted that OP was a murderer. These are horrible lies. They threatened to destroy her reputation then they pressure her to donate her kidney and cut her off. Wow. Well, at least these people apologized.
Honestly if they really chose the DIL one of them would've done a trade in the hospital, you can literally donate a kidney to someone else and in exchange the hospital will find a kidney that matches the one that the donor couldn't get
So parents will believe DIL, but not their own daughter? Brother would spread lies about his own Sister, but want a kidney for his wife? LC to NC contact for parents and brother indefinitely. Ignore the rest.
No doctor is going to let OP donate even if she changed her mind. They do screenings for whether a donor is getting paid, being pressured, or not in an emotionally stable state to donate. It’s not just physical health.
Bella can go on dialysis until they get another donor, so no, she doesn't have to donate her kidney. Bella's life is NOT at stake. Other donors can be available.
Why this woman didn’t immediately go public with everything she found as it happened and continue to with every form of harassment is beyond human comprehension.
Actually, she has every right to say no to this without this story. Ethically, anyone pressuring her, including church members, are absolutely wrong. She should cut off anyone telling her she must donate. Horrible people. If her transplant doctors found out about this, they would refuse that kidney on her behalf. They would not be allowed to participate in coercion to obtain a kidney. Same reason people can’t get kidneys from, say, prisoners. A kidney donation cannot be forced.
Spreading malicious rumors is trying to protect someone !? For a year !? Then try and morally blackmail like they're the victims !? WTF is wrong with these people 🙄
OP's brother: Sorryyyy! OP: You told lies about me that you knew weren't real, you harassed me, AND you were going to get my kidney then dump me like trash, as well as nearly destroying my friendships and my best friend's marriage. Sorry just doesn't cut it!
That's the thing that sticks out to me. Bella told lies just to kick OP out of her "perfect family" fantasy. OPs brother, for whatever reason, decided to hop on that bandwagon. He deserves to be with Bella, and the only reason he's divorcing her is because he doesn't want to get shunned by the rest of the family by staying married to her. It's easier to blame the culprit than the accomplice.
It's always the ones who want no part in the drama that manages to stir the pot. These people didn't want to be asked to "save a life." And these are supposed to be people of faith?
Like she crazy, because ain’t no way I’m going out of my way to rebuild bridges with family members that burnt them on their ends over some rumors they didn’t even bother to try and figure out if they’re true or not. Mom, Dad, and Brother? Cut off completely. They were accomplices in the SIL’s BS, and they can take that “we’re family so you should forgive us” BS somewhere else. The fact she’s even contemplating considering to make up with them is insane to me. As for people saying she should’ve given up her kidney regardless? Nah, THEY can give this demon their kidney.
This is absolutely insane. First, they spread lies about their sister/SIL. But still expect her to donate a Kidney. And they weren’t even ashamed of what they did. They act confused when when she decides not to donate. Not only that, you were deciding to cut her out of your life after taking part of her body. The parents are also awful, treating the brother and SIL like golden children. And could care less that they were trying to destroy their own daughter’s life. As the brother and SIL were also actively telling people not to invite them to parties and stuff. And after that, the Brother/SIL were so sure their manipulation would work that they wouldn’t even accept other help from the doctor. It’s also crazy that they said she was ruining her relationship with her brother when he already ruined it multiple times earlier. First when he straight up lied about her. I probably would’ve stopped talking to him there as that’s hard to come back from. Especially since he’s already been doing it behind her back for God knows how long. And the second time when he literally said, “Your dead to me” to OP. I’d cut all the family out of my life. And all the other family that took their side. And all the “friends” that agreed. And all of this was over Bella’s failure to seduce. Which means she was going to either cheat on then brother. Meaning that OP was collateral damage. Except that they had also spread a shit ton of other rumors about her. Bella is an insane person, and hates OP for absolutely no reason.
This is why opt out donor laws exist, it is wildly unfair to leave these sorts of decisions in the hands of individuals as the case is happening, both to the person and to the patient.
Throwing away the relationship with her brother? Meanwhile brother “YOU’RE DEAD TO ME”. Also those people should get tested and see if they’re all a match and step up and be good people and give up their kidney! The way they were acting isn’t very Christian! Parents who use the bare minimum care as “sacrifice” shouldn’t have children.
Trying to force someone to donate organs against their will using harassment is illegal. She could have started recording/Blocking and serving lawsuits and restraining orders like hot cakes.
Tell the transplant team that you no longer feel you can do this. They have a process which is to say they found that there is condition that will not let you donate a kidney.
i just would ask every body "if i would need a new kidney and you would/could give me one and i say such lies over you. would you still donate your kidney to me? i dont think so"
Sounds like sil is jealous of op and tried to ruin op's life and poisoned her brother against her. I say karma hit her with op refusing to give her a kidney. But I'm not surprised that sil was also so disgusting to spread such a lie to also get back at Mark for accepting her advances like it should be a blessing. Her ego got hurt and she was desperate to hurt him. And she saw it as two birds with one stone by using op in the lie. Typical that she's mad that op is spreading the truth and not saving her with her kidney. Same with manipulating op's brother into cutting op off IF they get her kidney out of hate for spreading the truth and treat the truth as lies made by op. Figures that sil kept trying to lie during the confrontation despite the fact that she was caught trying to cheat on op's brother. Glad op's brother didn't forgive her and just left that disgusting hateful woman. Called it, sil hated and was insecure about op and her husband being close because op was a female. It didn't matter that they were siblings, she just felt threatened and jealous to the point of trying to ruin a sibling bond. People like that have no business being in a relationship let alone married. At least ex sil admitted to everything and her issues. And is going to get therapy to resolve her issues. Looks like the divorce and confrontation was the breaking point that made her reaihow far she let everything spiral because of her insane jealousy towards op.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Tell Bella to go on the registry like others who need a transplant. Tell her to go on dialysis. This is ridiculous. And to anyone who says I sm heartless get over yourselves as I am a transplant recipient myself!
I wanna hide a private detective and get the bottom of all these lies. Lawsuits would’ve been with the church the extended family members strangers, my parents, my brother and Bella and after all that I’m not talking to nobody, but Amy and Lisa, I want to move out of state after my money And completely erase them out of my life and I will public humiliate all of them, but Mark should have came and told the truth way earlier since he got the video like it’s dumb you were scared but you got videos and text message. Come on now he could’ve saved all that.
after the nasty lie that your brother and sister-in-law spread about you!!and you offering to have a organ removed from your body to help save a life!!your brother has the audacity to go off and your parents have the audacity to tell you you're being selfish and doesn't matter just forgive and open your body and give a organ tell them to open their body and give their organs and I'd go no contact with them Aunts Uncles whoever tell them to line up get tested and donate whatever they haveI'm going to contact there's nothing Petty about what you're doing what is petty and disgusting is your brother and sister-in-law oh and not to mention your parents and the rest of your family!!!
Please stop these AWFUL graphics. I have to read the stories as I'm hearing-impaired and the graphics make me nauseous and have even triggered migraines. Just display pictures or something.
So they chose sil over there own daughter but are now crying and complaining that there biological daughter wants nothing to do with them wow what a joke of a family .
I feel bad for OP. I mean, her own family told the church community and a lot of people sent OP Bible Verses that she needs to save lives. I hate her family. They chose SIL over her. What a horrible family. I mean, she had to block a LOT of people. Her family made it go public and everyone believed them and they got mad at her. Horrible people. I mean, the other people agreed with them and posted that OP was a murderer. These are horrible lies. They threatened to destroy her reputation then they pressure her to donate her kidney and cut her off. Wow. Well, at least these people apologized.
Exactly! It's none of their business, and if they're so upset, THEY can donate.
Honestly if they really chose the DIL one of them would've done a trade in the hospital, you can literally donate a kidney to someone else and in exchange the hospital will find a kidney that matches the one that the donor couldn't get
So parents will believe DIL, but not their own daughter? Brother would spread lies about his own Sister, but want a kidney for his wife? LC to NC contact for parents and brother indefinitely. Ignore the rest.
"Im dead to you??? You're ALL dead to me, just like Bella will be soon."
mmhha I think we're soul mates, because I was just about the post the same thing mmhhaa
Damn it. I also wanted to say the same thing. "you're dead to me!" "just like your wife 🤗"
Wow took the words outta my mouth
LMAO OMGOSH HARSH SAVAGE AND WELL DESERVED
I have found my tribe, this exactly something I would say!
No doctor is going to let OP donate even if she changed her mind. They do screenings for whether a donor is getting paid, being pressured, or not in an emotionally stable state to donate. It’s not just physical health.
Imagine finding all that out AFTER donating the kidney!
Bella put her own life at stake, refusing other options. Id sue her for defamation & blackmail. Force a retraction of her lies.
Brother: You are dead to me!
OP: And soon your wife will be too
TELL IT
Op should keep her Distance from those so called Family & Relatives.
The thing about burned bridges, you can rebuild them but it literally means from scratch and most people wouldn’t put that much effort into it
The ones that don't show that they're not worth having in your life. Like my dad's father for example.
Bella can go on dialysis until they get another donor, so no, she doesn't have to donate her kidney. Bella's life is NOT at stake. Other donors can be available.
This was my first thought, too.
Why this woman didn’t immediately go public with everything she found as it happened and continue to with every form of harassment is beyond human comprehension.
Those who said OP should've just donated are pushovers, people pleasers and doormats.
Actually, she has every right to say no to this without this story. Ethically, anyone pressuring her, including church members, are absolutely wrong. She should cut off anyone telling her she must donate. Horrible people. If her transplant doctors found out about this, they would refuse that kidney on her behalf. They would not be allowed to participate in coercion to obtain a kidney. Same reason people can’t get kidneys from, say, prisoners. A kidney donation cannot be forced.
The doctor can actually say she's not a match
Stupid games.... stupid prizes they say😅
Is there a "Darwin by proxy?" Award? Spreading lies about the person who's about to donate you their kidney has to be a Darwin award.
Spreading malicious rumors is trying to protect someone !? For a year !? Then try and morally blackmail like they're the victims !? WTF is wrong with these people 🙄
Narcissit's? Self entitled A-holes? and that's just putting it politely
OP's brother: Sorryyyy!
OP: You told lies about me that you knew weren't real, you harassed me, AND you were going to get my kidney then dump me like trash, as well as nearly destroying my friendships and my best friend's marriage. Sorry just doesn't cut it!
That's the thing that sticks out to me. Bella told lies just to kick OP out of her "perfect family" fantasy. OPs brother, for whatever reason, decided to hop on that bandwagon. He deserves to be with Bella, and the only reason he's divorcing her is because he doesn't want to get shunned by the rest of the family by staying married to her. It's easier to blame the culprit than the accomplice.
"you should be donated your kidney" I DONT HEAR ANY IF THE OTHER FAMILY MEMEBERS RUNNING TO DONATE THEIR KIDNEY!!
It's always the ones who want no part in the drama that manages to stir the pot. These people didn't want to be asked to "save a life." And these are supposed to be people of faith?
TOM and the parents would get a single message saying "You're dead to me"
Damn. Big time NTA. Well done on standing up for yourself in a massive tide of evil.
Like she crazy, because ain’t no way I’m going out of my way to rebuild bridges with family members that burnt them on their ends over some rumors they didn’t even bother to try and figure out if they’re true or not. Mom, Dad, and Brother? Cut off completely. They were accomplices in the SIL’s BS, and they can take that “we’re family so you should forgive us” BS somewhere else. The fact she’s even contemplating considering to make up with them is insane to me. As for people saying she should’ve given up her kidney regardless? Nah, THEY can give this demon their kidney.
Tom: You’re dead to me!!
OP: Your wife too 😈
Oops😂
OOOHHHHHHHHH! BURNINATED! 🤣
Why is op even trying to rebuild relationships with people who never believed her, or called her bad things?
Op needs to move and block her family.
Bella chose this option.
This is absolutely insane. First, they spread lies about their sister/SIL. But still expect her to donate a Kidney. And they weren’t even ashamed of what they did. They act confused when when she decides not to donate. Not only that, you were deciding to cut her out of your life after taking part of her body.
The parents are also awful, treating the brother and SIL like golden children. And could care less that they were trying to destroy their own daughter’s life. As the brother and SIL were also actively telling people not to invite them to parties and stuff.
And after that, the Brother/SIL were so sure their manipulation would work that they wouldn’t even accept other help from the doctor.
It’s also crazy that they said she was ruining her relationship with her brother when he already ruined it multiple times earlier. First when he straight up lied about her. I probably would’ve stopped talking to him there as that’s hard to come back from. Especially since he’s already been doing it behind her back for God knows how long. And the second time when he literally said, “Your dead to me” to OP.
I’d cut all the family out of my life. And all the other family that took their side. And all the “friends” that agreed.
And all of this was over Bella’s failure to seduce. Which means she was going to either cheat on then brother. Meaning that OP was collateral damage. Except that they had also spread a shit ton of other rumors about her. Bella is an insane person, and hates OP for absolutely no reason.
There is no rebuilding relatioships after you agree with the ppl that tried to destroy you
This is why opt out donor laws exist, it is wildly unfair to leave these sorts of decisions in the hands of individuals as the case is happening, both to the person and to the patient.
Throwing away the relationship with her brother? Meanwhile brother “YOU’RE DEAD TO ME”. Also those people should get tested and see if they’re all a match and step up and be good people and give up their kidney! The way they were acting isn’t very Christian! Parents who use the bare minimum care as “sacrifice” shouldn’t have children.
Bella didn't want to burn in hell so Bella confessed her vile sins.
She still going to hell 😈
I would've posted everything anyone that said anything negative about me online after sil came clean. And asked where's the Christian forgiveness now.
I would say.. Ok I will donate my kidney, but I want 1 of your kidney too ...I will donate it to a random stranger that needs it... watch them refuse
She's not an innocent woman!
Trying to force someone to donate organs against their will using harassment is illegal. She could have started recording/Blocking and serving lawsuits and restraining orders like hot cakes.
"Petty Drama"
Tell the transplant team that you no longer feel you can do this. They have a process which is to say they found that there is condition that will not let you donate a kidney.
Golden child's wife
Two suggestions: Dialysis. Transplant List. Keep your kidney OP! Besides, who wants a dead siblings kidney?!?! 🙄
The moment you spoke to her doctor you became ineligible to donate. Any amount of coercion and the transplant team will not do it.
Why is Tom so evil too???
i just would ask every body "if i would need a new kidney and you would/could give me one and i say such lies over you. would you still donate your kidney to me? i dont think so"
That woman was/ is a very dangerous woman!
Clerical hypocrisy. I'm Muslim myself but this is beyond disgusting......
I would have sued them
Tell them you are keeping your kidney because you may need it and she can go on dialysis people do it everyday and live good lives.
Sounds like sil is jealous of op and tried to ruin op's life and poisoned her brother against her. I say karma hit her with op refusing to give her a kidney.
But I'm not surprised that sil was also so disgusting to spread such a lie to also get back at Mark for accepting her advances like it should be a blessing. Her ego got hurt and she was desperate to hurt him. And she saw it as two birds with one stone by using op in the lie. Typical that she's mad that op is spreading the truth and not saving her with her kidney. Same with manipulating op's brother into cutting op off IF they get her kidney out of hate for spreading the truth and treat the truth as lies made by op.
Figures that sil kept trying to lie during the confrontation despite the fact that she was caught trying to cheat on op's brother. Glad op's brother didn't forgive her and just left that disgusting hateful woman. Called it, sil hated and was insecure about op and her husband being close because op was a female. It didn't matter that they were siblings, she just felt threatened and jealous to the point of trying to ruin a sibling bond. People like that have no business being in a relationship let alone married.
At least ex sil admitted to everything and her issues. And is going to get therapy to resolve her issues. Looks like the divorce and confrontation was the breaking point that made her reaihow far she let everything spiral because of her insane jealousy towards op.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Tell Bella to go on the registry like others who need a transplant. Tell her to go on dialysis. This is ridiculous. And to anyone who says I sm heartless get over yourselves as I am a transplant recipient myself!
If they really wanted her to get a kidney, then why didn't they give her one of theirs?
At what point do you not think to just go off on online?
You're not obliged
You are not in the wrong they were soo wrong
This can’t be real. A nurse and a doctor wouldn’t be giving out that information because of HIPPA.
Everyone relocated to Seattle😂😂😂😂🤔 Is Washington that awesome and thriving 😂😂😂
Who ever writes these stories must not be that good at telling stories bad story here for sure
I wanna hide a private detective and get the bottom of all these lies. Lawsuits would’ve been with the church the extended family members strangers, my parents, my brother and Bella and after all that I’m not talking to nobody, but Amy and Lisa, I want to move out of state after my money And completely erase them out of my life and I will public humiliate all of them, but Mark should have came and told the truth way earlier since he got the video like it’s dumb you were scared but you got videos and text message. Come on now he could’ve saved all that.
INNOCENT????!!!! 😠
Bella knew she needed a kidney before she started spreading rumors & no I AM NOT the bigger person 🤷🏾♀️
Quit relocating in Seattle! It's expensive and crowded enough as it is!
this is AI right?
Is the OP's dad asian? Lol, offering food as apology is so typical.
Transplant ethics committee?
AMAZING CONTENT
I won’t
Not real Christians if they are behaving like that.
A completely stupid story.
after the nasty lie that your brother and sister-in-law spread about you!!and you offering to have a organ removed from your body to help save a life!!your brother has the audacity to go off and your parents have the audacity to tell you you're being selfish and doesn't matter just forgive and open your body and give a organ tell them to open their body and give their organs and I'd go no contact with them Aunts Uncles whoever tell them to line up get tested and donate whatever they haveI'm going to contact there's nothing Petty about what you're doing what is petty and disgusting is your brother and sister-in-law oh and not to mention your parents and the rest of your family!!!
I don’t mind fake stories at all, but HIPAA made me cringe
Please stop these AWFUL graphics. I have to read the stories as I'm hearing-impaired and the graphics make me nauseous and have even triggered migraines. Just display pictures or something.
Ai
I don't mind it being AI, but the story makes no sense. Bella plan is crazy. Also, Bella hates OP, but made OP the maid of honor?
Your match, but your brother are not match on her?
Are you really siblings?
Please enlightened me 😅
That’s not how it works. I have 4 sisters. Three of us have O POS blood types, two are AB positive. We all have different dna, too!