I've recently started to retire my distressed jeans just out the blue. Couldn't understand why I wasn't feeling them as much lately. I finally realized that they just didn't portray the look I wanted to project in my current phase in life.
I LOVE a sequin piece for New Year. In fact, it’s my annual tradition to wear sequin to open the new year. But perhaps to your point, I would NOT wear sequins outside of the holiday, celebratory season.
I’ve never seen someone rock black and white so well. It’s magnetic! I can’t stop staring!!!!! Gaddamn! I’ve learned to avoid black and white because it doesn’t pop on my skin tone but gosh!!! It’s immaculate on you! ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video, it was great as always. For the jumpsuit, ladies can always get the ones with front zippers/buttons. I started making mine that way after a funny experience 😂. It’s been working fine for me ever since. So try this if you love your jumpsuits ❤
Hello ma, thanks for the tips you shared. What about tee-shirts with words like 'hope, peace, God saves' things like that. Cause i like printing stuffs on my shirts
11:14 "poor quality fast fashion" how to say Temu without saying Shein. We say " That girl Temued the whole weekend " or "watch Shein shimmy" that means her dress is falling apart. Oops😮 ** I apologize for my pettiness. Thanks for the great video.
Agreeeed about the ripped jeans! I have successfully avoided them! They just look so unkempt and it behooves me to pay for what is essentially half a jean 😐 Looks even worse on older women - giving trying too hard
No shopping just to shop is irresponsible. You save for the occasions to prevent over spending. Most sites have over night shipping. You almost never wear what's in your closet for an event anyway.
Ayanime, have you tried adjusting/changing the birthday outfit? I know Princess Kate does this all the time, to re-purpose her dresses or slightly re-design them, it's always a success 🥰💙
Oh, first it was a dress I used for an awards event. It was a floor-length black dress that I had remade into a midi-length and then we added the top part. It’s time to let it go 🥹
My experience is seeing women with Very Inexpensive Shoes that tend to quickly & easily NOT weather the weather.....broken heel taps , splitting vinyl or polyurethane, I'll fitting genuinely falling apart soon after purchase & not being a candidate for a cobblers repair Oh UGG boots...for me very few are classy however they are warm for casual casual lady looks
I'm with you about the UGG boots! I was in Walmart last year during prom season and actually saw a teenager ( I realize she may not have known better) in a beautiful prom gown wearing UGG boots. Her hair & make-up were flawless but the boots looked hideous. A fly from the parking lot could have flown in my mouth because I couldnt close my mouth from the shock 😲. Why would her mother, grandmother or older sister let her leave home like that??
Hi sweetie. Please reconsider your profile photo. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm not sure how elegant your posture is,like picking your hair or sitting like that. You might think about just taking another photo my dear. Just a thought
The depth of insight i get from this channel is exceptional.👏
Oh I’m glad to hear that! 🤍
I really like the way you pass the messages without being judgemental and passing it as a suggestion...thank you
Last time i got my elegant structured bags(4) and all in classic and neutral colors.
Now am working on my wardrobe..
Thanks.
Yay! I’m glad my videos are helping you make those closet decisions. 🤍
Thanks for the information, so helpful.
I've recently started to retire my distressed jeans just out the blue. Couldn't understand why I wasn't feeling them as much lately. I finally realized that they just didn't portray the look I wanted to project in my current phase in life.
Oj
I’m feeling like this as well
I like that you show a pattern of growth and any lady can choose intentionality not just about the appearance but about life as a whole. Thank you ma
So many helpful tips. I agree with most and I do appreciate a well made sequin dress.
Glad it was helpful!
I can attest to the jumpsuit. I think that's why I have just one jumpsuit in my wardrobe. Thanks for the helpful tips.
As always, be kind to yourself.. Thank you Ayanime.
My pleasure 🤍
Love your before and now photos, this is the type of poise and elegance I aspire when I reach my 20s
I LOVE a sequin piece for New Year. In fact, it’s my annual tradition to wear sequin to open the new year. But perhaps to your point, I would NOT wear sequins outside of the holiday, celebratory season.
Me too
I'll wear new year's and when ever I want to celebrate
I’ve never seen someone rock black and white so well. It’s magnetic! I can’t stop staring!!!!! Gaddamn! I’ve learned to avoid black and white because it doesn’t pop on my skin tone but gosh!!! It’s immaculate on you! ❤❤❤
That trendy net shoe you showed, I got the blue and never wore it!🤣 and it’s been years😂
I like that you are practical and real…great job!
I love love your makeup. looks so natural😍
Fun video. And you skin looks great, both face and body! You mastered the art of not having different shades with your makeup and body!😍😍👌🏾👌🏾
Oh thank you so much 🤍
Thank you for this video, it was great as always.
For the jumpsuit, ladies can always get the ones with front zippers/buttons. I started making mine that way after a funny experience 😂. It’s been working fine for me ever since. So try this if you love your jumpsuits ❤
Aside from the insight you share, i love the way you speak. It is elegant.
Where do you suggest we buy elegant outfits from?
You are a 💎Thank you for your tips Mam❤Love it😊
Learning and thank you 😊
I agree on everything you said ❤ especially the jumpsuit😂. Thank you ma🎉
I don't think I can ever wear it again, I almost peed on myself the first time I wore it 😂😂😂😂
Seriously I learnt alot,God bless you
I never thought things like betls etc can really elevate your look etc....before I go out to buy clothes I always watch your videos
Thank you, my lady. This was very educating.
Thank you for these tips. Love you and your content ❤️
You're so welcome! Love you right back 🤍
Your videos really helps me alot am telling you for real
Ayanime Thank you for the Exceptional tips❤ Sending love from Zambia
Sending love back to you beautiful! 🤍
love the before and after examples.
Thank you for these tips, though I love T-shirts with meaningful writings
Same here 😂😂
A new subscriber! I love your advice on the do's and don'ts. Have a great day! 🥰
Awesome! I’m glad to have you here!! 🎉🎉 Have a wonderful day too!
Lovely.. thanks for the tips. The word is "often" though, not "often times".
This is so insightful ❤❤❤
I just started watching you and I love you and your videos.
I’m so glad to have you here! 🤍
I love this video so much! 🎉
Just in time ❤
To each his own 👍🏾
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Hello ma, thanks for the tips you shared. What about tee-shirts with words like 'hope, peace, God saves' things like that.
Cause i like printing stuffs on my shirts
As a first time and New mum need a change of wordrob cause I can't fit in all my clothes thanks for this tips ❤❤❤
True sequence. I have one, Neva worn even once
I can so relate and this video is helpful. Thank you
You're welcome! I'm glad it was helpful.
I appreciate your work
Thank you for the vidéo👌🏽👌🏽
My pleasure!
OMW, you're right on point!
Thank you for this ❤❤
I’m glad you found it helpful 🤍
Let me add ☝🏽 clear shoes to the list! I also could never get with the square love affair either.
Thanks sis I am on the right track 😊
Glad to hear that! 🎉
A new subscriber! I love your videos ma.. I'm in my early 20s ma. Nice to meet you.
Hi beautiful, I’m glad to have you here! 🤍
Pls can you add photos of the elegant non trendy sneakers 👟? Thank you
Go on Pinterest and type in; “simple white sneakers” you’ll see options
11:14 "poor quality fast fashion" how to say Temu without saying Shein. We say " That girl Temued the whole weekend " or "watch Shein shimmy" that means her dress is falling apart. Oops😮
** I apologize for my pettiness. Thanks for the great video.
This was hilarious to read! 😂😂
Agreeeed about the ripped jeans! I have successfully avoided them! They just look so unkempt and it behooves me to pay for what is essentially half a jean 😐 Looks even worse on older women - giving trying too hard
“Half a jean” made me laugh 😂
I can't find the link for the class. Thank you.
Here you go; ayanimeedem.selar.co/page/StylingYourEssence
The Intentional Queen...I Love You ❤❤❤
I love you too beautiful 🤍
That bright neon pieces 😂 it's just off
How do I join your teach or get your e-books
I’ll like to register for your ongoing program but haven’t been able to get reg process
That’s great, here’s the link; mainstack.store/ayanime_edem/guvGiMn8zy4_
13:12 what kind of shoe is that😂😂
The birthday dress 🥺🤲
Can i get the link for the upcoming class
Of course, here’s the link mainstack.store/ayanime_edem/guvGiMn8zy4_
I’m guilty with weird pattern leggings…I mainly wear them to workout.
Oh jumpsuit 🤦♀️...that's why I don't have any
Kindly share the link
No shopping just to shop is irresponsible. You save for the occasions to prevent over spending. Most sites have over night shipping. You almost never wear what's in your closet for an event anyway.
Ayanime, have you tried adjusting/changing the birthday outfit?
I know Princess Kate does this all the time, to re-purpose her dresses or slightly re-design them, it's always a success 🥰💙
Oh, first it was a dress I used for an awards event. It was a floor-length black dress that I had remade into a midi-length and then we added the top part. It’s time to let it go 🥹
@ayanime_edem Ohh, I see...quite a history it has 😁. I'm glad you were able to use and re-use it in different shapes 🤗!
Jumpsuit! At last it has been addressed ❤️
Thank you ma
Is there a way to adopt these styles and still look like an individual, not a copy, paste, repeat woman?
I’m not even a heels person 😅
God forbid 😅
First comment🎉. I love love your content.
Yay! 🎉
The pattern leggings is a no for me Biko
Am highly guilty of impulse buying.Am finding it difficult stopping it
I think some tattoos, like face tattoos, are a regret buy. What do you think?
My experience is seeing women with Very Inexpensive Shoes that tend to quickly & easily NOT weather the weather.....broken heel taps , splitting vinyl or polyurethane, I'll fitting genuinely falling apart soon after purchase & not being a candidate for a cobblers repair
Oh UGG boots...for me very few are classy however they are warm for casual casual lady looks
You're totally right… investing in good quality shoes is worth it! 🤍
I'm with you about the UGG boots! I was in Walmart last year during prom season and actually saw a teenager ( I realize she may not have known better) in a beautiful prom gown wearing UGG boots. Her hair & make-up were flawless but the boots looked hideous. A fly from the parking lot could have flown in my mouth because I couldnt close my mouth from the shock 😲. Why would her mother, grandmother or older sister let her leave home like that??
you get me ma'am
Honestly this is my life rn
Oh oh, it was mine too as shown in the pictures I shared. I had to become more intentional and you can too 🤍
You have a beautiful name
Oh thank you 🤍
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Love your channel but if you show us what not to use,pls try and show us what to use
I did that through out the video 🤦🏽♀️
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Can I be your community manager ma ?
Hi sweetie.
Please reconsider your profile photo.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm not sure how elegant your posture is,like picking your hair or sitting like that.
You might think about just taking another photo my dear.
Just a thought
And also the chain
I don't mean any disrespect, it's a no for me
Both of y'all need to rest
She looks familiar. Is she an actress.
Yes she is
Who the hell wears cow 🐄 prints , you see tht over dramatic leggings?? Godforbid 🤣🤣🤣
My online big sister ❤
Hi beautiful
Boots