Change the speed to 1.25x for better audio experience...This series is very good sir.. you are doing wonderful job to heal from family trauma and emotional neglect...
Mother in law shows one behaviour towards daughter in law in front of son and another towards her at the back of son . How will daughter in law tell this to her husband and even if she tells the husband won't believe ? Today tell these husbands what the reality is instead of disbelieving their wives .
Mujhe 25 saal bohot use kiya parents ne. Har bar papa ki side walon ka saman aur mom k side walon ka apman. Har cheez pe apni pakad kar rakha tha...I hail from joint family I saw many things right from my childhood. Jo bache apna family se bahar job ki talash mein dhaka mooki khate hai, bahar dhokha khate hai aur bohot khush negative bahar jhelte hai wo sabhi cheez mein ne apne ghar mein hi iss hadd takk dekh li aur jhel li ki jab mujhe job ayi na tab koi practically ye sab jhelna ki zaroorat nahi padi. Mera family mera comfort zone kabhi nahi tha. Mujhe aaj bhi wo ek narak hi lagta hai. But when I i decided to get job in metro politian cities I didn't followed any such politics. Uss din se me apni man mani karti ayi hu. I thereafter felt really myself. I made one permanent friend.
Sadly. Mera bhi family kabhi mera comfort zone nhi tha. Now I live in another country. Away from all the people I know. Less or NO drama in daily life. Over these years I have realised that nobody really cares about you (even if you are alive or not) agar tum unke kisi kaam nhi a rahe ho to. Yeh duniya bas matlab se chalti hain. Har ek rishta. Maa baap ka rishta bhi. SADLY 😔
Yes sir today also when I visit I still have to follow rules they laid down years ago. But achi baat hai ye sabhi rules natak sirf Ghar mein hote hai wahan nahi Jahan mein independently rehti hun.@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
Thanks Krishna sir👍 🙏 Jo kadvi sach baath aap keh sakthe hai.. No one else has the communication ability to say the same. Par beshak sabke mann ki baath hai.. These are the real evils (keedey) of society! 🤓😁!
My personal experience... never listen to the elders specially if it comes to the in-laws .....they want us to pay the taxes for bringing their children into this world
Absolutely right you are Sir. I am so glad that you recognise this and have spoken about it. Otherwise we girls die of guilt thinking we are never good enough 😢
Thanks for sharing this, I thought I was the only one who suffered. I am the only daughter between three brothers.My parents always leaned on my brothers and looked at them as golden children. Was useless to them. I always wanted validation from them but finally it took me 30 years to realize that I am worthy.Elders play politics with one and all.BTW, my uncle tried to ruin my life but I paved my path and got out of that house. Finally I stopped communicating with everyone in my family.Today I am at peace. I have two daughters and I treat them well love and respect.
I had a friend whose elder sister manipulated their parents a lot... Chhoti behen kya pehnegi kaha jayegi kya padhegi..it was as if she was her guardian... I could see right through her but my friend never realised... She interfered in everything..be it her marriage or baby birth... Now my friend has stopped talking to her mother and almost all other family members So kabhi kabhi mayke wale dushman hote hain
Sorry to say but I have faced politics from my parents and my in-laws soo I maintain distance from both sides and live in peace elders do play politics I strongly believe he is very true
Very true! Ye sab dekh dekhke mujhe western culture ka individualist family culture accha lagme laga hai - joimt families me nahi rehte aur phone kiye bina ek dusre ke ghar pe nahi aate
Yes bilkul correct , meri or mere husband ki fight bs uske parents ki vjh se hoti h or kisi k bat pe ni hoti, hm aps me bhut khus rhte h , ghr k elders juthe asirvad toh dete h kush rho pr kush dkhte hi aa jate h aag lgaane kisi na kisi bat ko faltu ka reason bna k islie fr bche budhape pe unhe chod dete h cz jese unhone uski lift hell bnai thi fr vo unki bnate h jb vo power me ate h
Patriarchy ही बेकार है। इसी समाज को कोई फायदा नहीं। बेटों को अपने मां बाप की सेवा भी करनी नही आती। सेवा बेटियां करती हैं। तो बेटियां अपने घर रहें, बेटे शादी के बाद लड़की के घर जाएं। इस तरह हर मां बाप की सेवा हो जायेगी और सास बहू झगड़ा भी नही होगा। Men should leave parent's house on marriage and go to wife house. Should take wife surname. Children be given mother's name. Girls can serve own parents. PATRIARCHY is FAIL. It has done no good to society. Men doesn't know even to serve own parents. They should go to girl's house after marriage.
@@Ninanani-4085 shi kha, ye qa seva krenge apne ma bap ki ye toh khud wife pe depend hote h hr kam k lie inke bsh ki kuch ni h ba office se ate thk jate h or ladies sb krti h ghr office Sb, Or ye smaj khbi sudhrne vala cz isme bs male ko bolne ka rights h Iska bs yhi solution h ki jo bde splcy in laws apko preshan kre budhape me ap unhe chod do jb unhe seva ki jrurt ho.jesa k sath tesa bat khtm cz smaj kbhi nyay ni krta apko khud hi krna hoga.
@@sonaliraj3448 जब खुद के मां बाप का कर्ज खुद सेवा करके नही उतरना तो घर में क्यूं चिपके रहो? इससे अच्छा ससुराल जाओ। इज्जत से तो रहोगे। बेटियां अपने मां बाप की सेवा खुद कर लेंगी। बहुत हुआ, लड़कियों ने अब कमज़ोर नही पड़ना चाहिए। बच्चा करने के आइए नियोग या sperm banks हैं। ईश्वर ने संसार की हर मां को शक्ति दी है अपनी संतान को पालने की। क्यूं इनके गुलाम बनना अगर इनको सम्मान करना नही आता। औरत जान लगा कर, अपने खून मांस से बच्चा पैदा करे, और वंश ये अपना बढ़ाएं। ये नही चलेगा अब।
जो पति समझ जाए वो ठीक, जो पॉलिटिक्स करके इधर से भी उधर से भी फायदा उठाने के चक्कर में रहें उन्हें साफ शब्दों में समझा देना चाहिए। बहु के लिए सास ससुर ने कुछ नही किया होता, न पैदा किया होता है, न पाला होता है। ये कर्जा बेटे का होता है। बेटा इज्जत से पेश आए पत्नी से तो पत्नी।भी जान लगा देती है, पर बहु का न कोई कर्ज है, न फर्ज है। अगर ए सास सौर के लिए कुछ करे तो उसका आभार चाहिए।
Bilkul sahi bol rhi ho aap mere sath b yahi haal h meri to saas ne jhooth bol bol k shadi ki beti ki age b kam kr k batayi aur sab kuch chupaya aur 1.5 month m shadi kr di mere parents k peeche padh k ab mere husband aur meri ladai krati h aur mere parents ki bezzati krti h mujhe bahut gussa aata h main bolti hu tum log he peeche pade thy mere parents k shadi k liye jhooth tumne bola apne barey m apne bete k barey m sab kuch to ab humhe kaise blame kr skte ho tum log inhka hisab h chit b inhki pat b inhki
Family Elders' Drama & Politics causing Marital Strife, Youth Anxiety & Child Distress Introduction: In this video titled "Family Elders' DRAMA & POLITICS cause Fights between Husband-Wife, Anxiety to Youths & Children," Krishnaraj, the speaker, delves into the intricate dynamics of politics within family structures. The discourse begins with a reflection on the societal perception of humans as social beings and the recognition that humans, in fact, engage in both social and political behaviors. The speaker emphasizes that while the social aspect is widely acknowledged, the political dimension is often overlooked. Key Concepts and Arguments: 1. **Human as a Political Animal:** Krishnaraj challenges the conventional understanding that humans are solely social beings, asserting that they are also political animals. This introduction sets the stage for a discussion on the intricate politics within families. 2. **Political Dynamics in Families:** The video explores the presence of politics within families, highlighting instances from childhood where younger siblings engage in political maneuvering to gain attention and favoritism from parents. The speaker introduces the idea that politics within a family is not limited to the actions of elders but is prevalent among siblings as well. 3. **Definition of Politics and Diplomacy:** The video distinguishes between politics and diplomacy, asserting that politics involves creating divisions between individuals, while diplomacy pertains to strategic maneuvering and negotiation skills. This distinction lays the groundwork for understanding the nuanced dynamics within families. 4. **Family Politics from Childhood:** Drawing on personal and relatable examples, Krishnaraj narrates instances of childhood politics where younger siblings vie for parental attention by creating drama. This narrative serves as a precursor to the main theme of family politics involving elders. 5. **Elders' Politics in Families:** The discourse shifts to the politics among elder family members, exploring how parents and in-laws engage in subtle power plays. Krishnaraj introduces the concept of 'drama' as a tool used by family elders to manipulate situations and gain influence within the family structure. 6. **Impact on Marital Relationships:** The video suggests that family politics can spill over into marital relationships, causing discord between spouses. Krishnaraj contends that the drama and politics played by elders can lead to fights between husbands and wives. 7. **Youth Anxiety and Child Distress:** Krishnaraj discusses the broader repercussions of family politics, noting that it can contribute to anxiety among the youth and distress among children. The emotional toll on family members is emphasized, portraying family politics as a significant influencer of mental well-being. Supporting Details and Examples: Throughout the video, Krishnaraj uses relatable examples, such as the dynamics between younger siblings seeking parental attention, to illustrate the early manifestations of political behaviors. Personal anecdotes and storytelling are employed to make the content accessible and engaging. Nuances, Controversies, and Alternative Perspectives: While the video primarily presents a perspective on family politics and its negative consequences, it is important to acknowledge that family dynamics can vary widely. Krishnaraj's viewpoint may not capture the entirety of family experiences, and some families may exhibit healthy communication and cooperation. Conclusion: In conclusion, the video sheds light on the often overlooked political dynamics within families, emphasizing the impact of elders' drama and politics on marital relationships, youth anxiety, and child distress. Krishnaraj's exploration of childhood politics serves as a foundation for understanding the more complex interactions among family elders. The nuances, relatable examples, and personal anecdotes contribute to a comprehensive and insightful examination of the subject matter.
Mother in laws are expert in this . Dividing husband and wife . I have seen father dividing mother and daughter i.e his own wife and the daughter . All this because he wants to take revenge.
KABI SOCHA HAI, wo busurk jiske heart thak week hothahai sahi chal bhi nahi saktha, lekin phir bhi ye dangerous gendi politcs ghar me khelne mey unko ithna maza atha hai (Jagda kya sir, Mauth thak hotha hai bahut baar!).. Yeha thak Ke koi bhi had thak janne keliye thayaar hey ye log hamesha AND THAT IS ALSO THEIR BLOODY SUPER POWER. DESH KE POLITICIANS KO HI DEKH LO keeping public money in their private private cauffers and all power control cabinet with them selves and their family, assal sadist log hey yeha 99% ganthe budde.. PEHCHANLIYA! Very hard to find good minded old people ready to share good wisdom.. That is why this country is always suffer, yes or no?
Sir you state the problems but don't give elaborate solutions on these. The problems are very relatable but would be happy if you can give some solutions to counter these problems as well. Would be very helpful 🙏
Sometimes, things have solutions. Sometimes, they don't. Some solutions are not acceptable or applicable to all people. Still, I will keep your feedback in mind.
I believe clearly articulating the underlying dark societal issues is the first step towards resolution. Which is what Urban Nadal does so beautifully. And the solutions are unique for different individuals.
In UP elders due to their greediness for dowry not marrying their sons timely n also not allowing them get married by themselves n now if a person getting married in late 30s how can you expect from them that thay serve you still as if they don't have any other task in life and irony is this they are taunting us that you are not having baby on time not serving parents properly I mean seriously what kind of these people are. Ek person jo 25 m shaadi karta hai aur ek jo 35 m kar raha hai kaise dono ka comparison ho sakta hai.
Duniya rang rangili baba atrangi hai ye duniya.aise aise roop milenge ke asani se auron ko hazam hogi hi nhi hogi.parentd aise bhi bohot milenge jo betiyon ko kuchh deke zra khush nhi maa bhi srf baap hi nhi
Sir aapki baat kafi hadd tak thik hai. Par aap kahani ka sirf ek hi pahlu dekh rahe hai. Main khud hi ek bahu hu. Phir bhi ek baat bolugi ki ghar mai politics wahi khelata hai jiski suni jati hai. Ab wah kisi bhi role mai ho sakta saas ya bahu ya nanad ya koi aur rishte mai. Kyoki jiske haath mai satta aati hai wah khud ko powerful feel karta hai. Use pata hai main kuch hi karlu. Meri hi suni jayegi. Isi baat ka fayada uthya jaata hai. Aur politics kheli jaati hai. Samne wale ki pata bhi na chale aur saap bhi mar jaaye. Isliye beto ko kisi ka bhj paksh na leke har ek ghhatna ka sahi se vishleshan karke hi jeevan mai aage badna chahiye
I am youngest son in my family, I feel like a dog in my home, 😢. Power is greatest thing in this world, phir chahe Ghar ho, office ho, school ho, desh ho.
Elders who are still addicted to substances (alcohol, drugs, sex etc. ) and have had extra marital affairs pose a much higher threat and different kind of complicated social issues. Most women usually newly married s facing domestic abuse and violence cite this reason but people in India generalise that elders can't be into such vices. There are no support groups and police also doesn't help. Neighbours never get to know the real story and keep blaming the younger family members. This is a very serious cause of domestic abuse in Indian society but no one wants to talk about it in media because we traditionally respect elders. I know 80 year Olds who are into substance addiction and are in causing serious domestic violence crimes. These days cctv & phone cameras help to show the real side of such elders because over the years they become perfect criminals and leave no proof to hold them responsible by law. Mostly double faced, they use their age to hide their crimes and addiction issues. One such family in our neighborhiod lost their grownup child to suicide and the parents have still not accepted their mistakes. 😢
Sir i just watched your video on club mahindra refund, i wanted to share about my experience, we had their membership as salesman sell it in hurry and mislead us, after 2/3 days after reading all terms and conditions we call him back to get refund, he anyhow manage to tackle us for few days and then tell us to mail to company so did we, we had paid around 40k and then after few days club mahindra cancelled our membership but not even single rupee was refunded to us, stating reason we have filled cancellation after warm up period of 10 days, please guide how to get our hard earned money back, as we Didn’t even get 1 ruppee benefit after paying 40k, this is a huge some of money for a middle class family, please guide i will be very thankful to you
Hi Sir, I am from panvel I am looking for a township-like place to stay. Could you please suggest a property currently I have shortlisted Wadhwa wise city and Lodha panacea?
My mother in law firstly dint want us to get married but we married against their will.. Now she wanted to manipulate her son to leave me but i being super smart i separated her son from her ... now we are living happily and are in no contact with the in laws ... so yeah u have to be alert and smart enough to protect yourself your husband and your children ... u have to protect your ground on all terms...
For husbands: never become a judge between adults - (wife and parents) your life will be better and little easy. They both are adults let them sort it out themselves.
Husband father bete ki bibi ke ishq me..mere husband ki job life khagye..secssion officer the ministry of planing me..court me papers me mere liye bhut gnda gnda likh kr submitt kiya...kiya..saaa apne pihr ki fikr me lgi rhi..khana paisa bhaeyo ke bchcho ko deri rhi last breath tk
Sir Your Work Is Very Impactful Please Appeal Big/Average/Small Brands, Companies, Dealers, Firms For Giving Twice Weekly Off Every Week Itians And Bankers Are Making There good weekends They are so busy They don't even thaught about do each employee need twice weekly off? If you are good employers and hiring people is very good deal But what about life sapn spent by employees at your platforms.
No no, Naxalite comrades have no families. They live in the forests of Orissa, eat leaves and f**k anything they want, especially holes in tree trunks. They are born from trees, so no mother, no wives, only trees 🤣🤣
But har insan ek din elder to Banta hi hai Ghar ka, that does not mean we all are evil or will eventually become evil . What is ur personality will remain ur personality , also we also need to understand elders their generation was different and younger generation is different but both expect alot from each other .
Mere pati ne iska upay nikala tha... Jaise hi meri mother in law meri shikayat karti thi wo unke saamne hi mujhe bula k mujhse jhagda karte the... Meri mother in law sochti thi ki jeet unki hui... But ab 10 saal ho gaye hain aur wo khoob samajhane lagi hain ki ye log mere saamne drama karte hain😅...
I agree with you sir on the fact that politics in family is normal. But since times are changing so will our family structures and a lot of elders cannot cope with this fact.
My mobile camera cuts at 23:07. If I make it longer, it will start automatically start a new video. Then I will have to stitch the two videos together. Done that a few times, but I prefer not to.
Main Jeet Sakta Hoon. I Am Immune To Mantharas Homewreckers Bullies And Can Kill Their Poison Too. How ? Jab Kisi Ke Baare Mein Bitching Ho Toh Wahin Same Time Uss Insaan Ko Bula Lo Ya Bol Do. Basic Yahi Hai, Iss Ke Aur Bhi Bahut Tweaks Hain Kitna Maarna Hai Kis Hadd Tak Kuchalna Hai Depends. Bitching Sab Karte Hain Aur Yeh Normal Nahin Lagna Chahiye. Never Underestimate, Forgive, Forget, Be Friends, Help, Tolerate A Manthara.
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The great Uncle just exposed the society by knowledge,experience and philosophy❤❤❤❤
Arey ye tou dhoti khol rha he😢😢
This person is narrating 30 years of my life in his every episode.
Change the speed to 1.25x for better audio experience...This series is very good sir.. you are doing wonderful job to heal from family trauma and emotional neglect...
Mother in law shows one behaviour towards daughter in law in front of son and another towards her at the back of son . How will daughter in law tell this to her husband and even if she tells the husband won't believe ? Today tell these husbands what the reality is instead of disbelieving their wives .
Mujhe 25 saal bohot use kiya parents ne. Har bar papa ki side walon ka saman aur mom k side walon ka apman. Har cheez pe apni pakad kar rakha tha...I hail from joint family I saw many things right from my childhood. Jo bache apna family se bahar job ki talash mein dhaka mooki khate hai, bahar dhokha khate hai aur bohot khush negative bahar jhelte hai wo sabhi cheez mein ne apne ghar mein hi iss hadd takk dekh li aur jhel li ki jab mujhe job ayi na tab koi practically ye sab jhelna ki zaroorat nahi padi. Mera family mera comfort zone kabhi nahi tha. Mujhe aaj bhi wo ek narak hi lagta hai. But when I i decided to get job in metro politian cities I didn't followed any such politics. Uss din se me apni man mani karti ayi hu.
I thereafter felt really myself. I made one permanent friend.
"Mera family mera comfort zone kabhi nahi tha" -- This is one of the saddest statements I hear from young people. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻
Sadly. Mera bhi family kabhi mera comfort zone nhi tha.
Now I live in another country. Away from all the people I know. Less or NO drama in daily life.
Over these years I have realised that nobody really cares about you (even if you are alive or not) agar tum unke kisi kaam nhi a rahe ho to. Yeh duniya bas matlab se chalti hain. Har ek rishta. Maa baap ka rishta bhi.
SADLY 😔
Yes sir today also when I visit I still have to follow rules they laid down years ago. But achi baat hai ye sabhi rules natak sirf Ghar mein hote hai wahan nahi Jahan mein independently rehti hun.@@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
@@ZenLife17Good u made ur life away from drama n noutanki PPL. We shud now set our own rules whether PPL want to live with our way of living or not.
@Mahakaalkideewani111 bro can you make a video on it without face or specific details so that we can understand the ills of Indian society
I lost my father when I was 13. I really miss a fatherly figure in my life. When I see you, I see my Papa in you.
Thanks Krishna sir👍 🙏 Jo kadvi sach baath aap keh sakthe hai.. No one else has the communication ability to say the same. Par beshak sabke mann ki baath hai.. These are the real evils (keedey) of society! 🤓😁!
My personal experience... never listen to the elders specially if it comes to the in-laws .....they want us to pay the taxes for bringing their children into this world
Absolutely
Yes true
Yes. Many times it's true
Their? Will u not be his/her mother
@@justlikegandhi
That's not be important.many of time they are own parents due to the jealous
Absolutely right you are Sir. I am so glad that you recognise this and have spoken about it. Otherwise we girls die of guilt thinking we are never good enough 😢
Thanks for sharing this, I thought I was the only one who suffered. I am the only daughter between three brothers.My parents always leaned on my brothers and looked at them as golden children. Was useless to them. I always wanted validation from them but finally it took me 30 years to realize that I am worthy.Elders play politics with one and all.BTW, my uncle tried to ruin my life but I paved my path and got out of that house. Finally I stopped communicating with everyone in my family.Today I am at peace. I have two daughters and I treat them well love and respect.
I had a friend whose elder sister manipulated their parents a lot... Chhoti behen kya pehnegi kaha jayegi kya padhegi..it was as if she was her guardian... I could see right through her but my friend never realised... She interfered in everything..be it her marriage or baby birth... Now my friend has stopped talking to her mother and almost all other family members
So kabhi kabhi mayke wale dushman hote hain
Thank you for nailing it ❤
@@shwetak1052my father n brother did same
Sorry to say but I have faced politics from my parents and my in-laws soo I maintain distance from both sides and live in peace elders do play politics I strongly believe he is very true
Very true! Ye sab dekh dekhke mujhe western culture ka individualist family culture accha lagme laga hai - joimt families me nahi rehte aur phone kiye bina ek dusre ke ghar pe nahi aate
I totally agree hence I have prioratized my and my childrens happiness above all others.
Yes bilkul correct , meri or mere husband ki fight bs uske parents ki vjh se hoti h or kisi k bat pe ni hoti, hm aps me bhut khus rhte h , ghr k elders juthe asirvad toh dete h kush rho pr kush dkhte hi aa jate h aag lgaane kisi na kisi bat ko faltu ka reason bna k islie fr bche budhape pe unhe chod dete h cz jese unhone uski lift hell bnai thi fr vo unki bnate h jb vo power me ate h
Patriarchy ही बेकार है।
इसी समाज को कोई फायदा नहीं।
बेटों को अपने मां बाप की सेवा भी करनी नही आती।
सेवा बेटियां करती हैं। तो बेटियां अपने घर रहें, बेटे शादी के बाद लड़की के घर जाएं। इस तरह हर मां बाप की सेवा हो जायेगी और सास बहू झगड़ा भी नही होगा।
Men should leave parent's house on marriage and go to wife house.
Should take wife surname. Children be given mother's name. Girls can serve own parents.
PATRIARCHY is FAIL. It has done no good to society.
Men doesn't know even to serve own parents. They should go to girl's house after marriage.
@@Ninanani-4085 shi kha, ye qa seva krenge apne ma bap ki ye toh khud wife pe depend hote h hr kam k lie inke bsh ki kuch ni h ba office se ate thk jate h or ladies sb krti h ghr office Sb,
Or ye smaj khbi sudhrne vala cz isme bs male ko bolne ka rights h
Iska bs yhi solution h ki jo bde splcy in laws apko preshan kre budhape me ap unhe chod do jb unhe seva ki jrurt ho.jesa k sath tesa bat khtm cz smaj kbhi nyay ni krta apko khud hi krna hoga.
@@sonaliraj3448 जब खुद के मां बाप का कर्ज खुद सेवा करके नही उतरना तो घर में क्यूं चिपके रहो?
इससे अच्छा ससुराल जाओ। इज्जत से तो रहोगे। बेटियां अपने मां बाप की सेवा खुद कर लेंगी।
बहुत हुआ, लड़कियों ने अब कमज़ोर नही पड़ना चाहिए।
बच्चा करने के आइए नियोग या sperm banks हैं। ईश्वर ने संसार की हर मां को शक्ति दी है अपनी संतान को पालने की। क्यूं इनके गुलाम बनना अगर इनको सम्मान करना नही आता। औरत जान लगा कर, अपने खून मांस से बच्चा पैदा करे, और वंश ये अपना बढ़ाएं। ये नही चलेगा अब।
जो पति समझ जाए वो ठीक, जो पॉलिटिक्स करके इधर से भी उधर से भी फायदा उठाने के चक्कर में रहें उन्हें साफ शब्दों में समझा देना चाहिए।
बहु के लिए सास ससुर ने कुछ नही किया होता, न पैदा किया होता है, न पाला होता है। ये कर्जा बेटे का होता है।
बेटा इज्जत से पेश आए पत्नी से तो पत्नी।भी जान लगा देती है, पर बहु का न कोई कर्ज है, न फर्ज है। अगर ए सास सौर के लिए कुछ करे तो उसका आभार चाहिए।
Bilkul sahi bol rhi ho aap mere sath b yahi haal h meri to saas ne jhooth bol bol k shadi ki beti ki age b kam kr k batayi aur sab kuch chupaya aur 1.5 month m shadi kr di mere parents k peeche padh k ab mere husband aur meri ladai krati h aur mere parents ki bezzati krti h mujhe bahut gussa aata h main bolti hu tum log he peeche pade thy mere parents k shadi k liye jhooth tumne bola apne barey m apne bete k barey m sab kuch to ab humhe kaise blame kr skte ho tum log inhka hisab h chit b inhki pat b inhki
Toxic family heirarchy is everywhere only one thing we can do is stand up for ourselves and ignore them
Absolutely True
Best way…ignore
Very true. Still passing through it. I don’t feel like coming home after work.
Mera Bhai sabki lega😂😂😂
This is the reality, exposing the society.
Family Elders' Drama & Politics causing Marital Strife, Youth Anxiety & Child Distress
Introduction:
In this video titled "Family Elders' DRAMA & POLITICS cause Fights between Husband-Wife, Anxiety to Youths & Children," Krishnaraj, the speaker, delves into the intricate dynamics of politics within family structures. The discourse begins with a reflection on the societal perception of humans as social beings and the recognition that humans, in fact, engage in both social and political behaviors. The speaker emphasizes that while the social aspect is widely acknowledged, the political dimension is often overlooked.
Key Concepts and Arguments:
1. **Human as a Political Animal:**
Krishnaraj challenges the conventional understanding that humans are solely social beings, asserting that they are also political animals. This introduction sets the stage for a discussion on the intricate politics within families.
2. **Political Dynamics in Families:**
The video explores the presence of politics within families, highlighting instances from childhood where younger siblings engage in political maneuvering to gain attention and favoritism from parents. The speaker introduces the idea that politics within a family is not limited to the actions of elders but is prevalent among siblings as well.
3. **Definition of Politics and Diplomacy:**
The video distinguishes between politics and diplomacy, asserting that politics involves creating divisions between individuals, while diplomacy pertains to strategic maneuvering and negotiation skills. This distinction lays the groundwork for understanding the nuanced dynamics within families.
4. **Family Politics from Childhood:**
Drawing on personal and relatable examples, Krishnaraj narrates instances of childhood politics where younger siblings vie for parental attention by creating drama. This narrative serves as a precursor to the main theme of family politics involving elders.
5. **Elders' Politics in Families:**
The discourse shifts to the politics among elder family members, exploring how parents and in-laws engage in subtle power plays. Krishnaraj introduces the concept of 'drama' as a tool used by family elders to manipulate situations and gain influence within the family structure.
6. **Impact on Marital Relationships:**
The video suggests that family politics can spill over into marital relationships, causing discord between spouses. Krishnaraj contends that the drama and politics played by elders can lead to fights between husbands and wives.
7. **Youth Anxiety and Child Distress:**
Krishnaraj discusses the broader repercussions of family politics, noting that it can contribute to anxiety among the youth and distress among children. The emotional toll on family members is emphasized, portraying family politics as a significant influencer of mental well-being.
Supporting Details and Examples:
Throughout the video, Krishnaraj uses relatable examples, such as the dynamics between younger siblings seeking parental attention, to illustrate the early manifestations of political behaviors. Personal anecdotes and storytelling are employed to make the content accessible and engaging.
Nuances, Controversies, and Alternative Perspectives:
While the video primarily presents a perspective on family politics and its negative consequences, it is important to acknowledge that family dynamics can vary widely. Krishnaraj's viewpoint may not capture the entirety of family experiences, and some families may exhibit healthy communication and cooperation.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, the video sheds light on the often overlooked political dynamics within families, emphasizing the impact of elders' drama and politics on marital relationships, youth anxiety, and child distress. Krishnaraj's exploration of childhood politics serves as a foundation for understanding the more complex interactions among family elders. The nuances, relatable examples, and personal anecdotes contribute to a comprehensive and insightful examination of the subject matter.
Ap to chatgpt ko bhi piche chod diya
Parents have been fighting each other for a decade now, extremely toxic situation in house. Video is very true.😢
Sir I think the last nail is always on the man of the house. Thanks you sir bringing up this topics.
16:00 woh keeda ab kam kar rha hai :P so true
Very true
Agree.. In our family also inlaws are playing politics with bahu 😡😡😡😡
back at it with sheer truth
Thank you for speaking what are facts within society. Caling a spade as it js
Thank you🎉
Mother in laws are expert in this . Dividing husband and wife . I have seen father dividing mother and daughter i.e his own wife and the daughter . All this because he wants to take revenge.
I m sure Sir Krishanraj you have taste this politics ..you have a genuine experience..
Namaste, Dear Elder Brother,
Meri mother in law aur sister in law ne mere aur mere husband ke beech mein daraar daal di hai. The day he raised his hand on me. It was over for me.
Ageing should actually give highly maturity..n Godliness.
👌👌👌
*🤣😂💯👍 , you can't live with them or without them.*
KABI SOCHA HAI, wo busurk jiske heart thak week hothahai sahi chal bhi nahi saktha, lekin phir bhi ye dangerous gendi politcs ghar me khelne mey unko ithna maza atha hai (Jagda kya sir, Mauth thak hotha hai bahut baar!)..
Yeha thak Ke koi bhi had thak janne keliye thayaar hey ye log hamesha AND THAT IS ALSO THEIR BLOODY SUPER POWER. DESH KE POLITICIANS KO HI DEKH LO keeping public money in their private private cauffers and all power control cabinet with them selves and their family, assal sadist log hey yeha 99% ganthe budde.. PEHCHANLIYA!
Very hard to find good minded old people ready to share good wisdom.. That is why this country is always suffer, yes or no?
Osho told this earlier that sad state of this country is because of andhbhakti of older gen by younger gen.
Very True❤. I have seen people dying of brain damage and heart attack
Exception are every where.bilkul ulta bhi dekha gya h parents behn Bhai bohot co-operate krte hain but vo success hote hi chuumnter ho jate hain.
It will be good if this videos can be redone and dubbed in English and other languages for the benefit of many people
May be subtitle can be in English.
Rao Saab aap toh modern day Machiavelli ho.
Sir you state the problems but don't give elaborate solutions on these. The problems are very relatable but would be happy if you can give some solutions to counter these problems as well. Would be very helpful 🙏
Sometimes, things have solutions. Sometimes, they don't. Some solutions are not acceptable or applicable to all people. Still, I will keep your feedback in mind.
I believe clearly articulating the underlying dark societal issues is the first step towards resolution. Which is what Urban Nadal does so beautifully. And the solutions are unique for different individuals.
In UP elders due to their greediness for dowry not marrying their sons timely n also not allowing them get married by themselves n now if a person getting married in late 30s how can you expect from them that thay serve you still as if they don't have any other task in life and irony is this they are taunting us that you are not having baby on time not serving parents properly I mean seriously what kind of these people are. Ek person jo 25 m shaadi karta hai aur ek jo 35 m kar raha hai kaise dono ka comparison ho sakta hai.
So relatable
Duniya rang rangili baba atrangi hai ye duniya.aise aise roop milenge ke asani se auron ko hazam hogi hi nhi hogi.parentd aise bhi bohot milenge jo betiyon ko kuchh deke zra khush nhi maa bhi srf baap hi nhi
Politically vs emotionally
Good strategy
Sir namaskara
please make the video on curse of elder siblings
My MIL ruined our young marital and family life completely. After 25yrs my husband perhaps could realise value of wife.
so whats the solution of it. Its true in India a mother who is widow cannot stay alone. specially in my case where we do not have any ancestral home.
Didn't knew you were kannadiga sir. Anyways, nice video.
😂😂😂 3:00 to, 9:00 to
Could you make a playlist of books u read.
Sooo true😢
exactly same situation in my home please give solution
Sir aapki baat kafi hadd tak thik hai. Par aap kahani ka sirf ek hi pahlu dekh rahe hai. Main khud hi ek bahu hu. Phir bhi ek baat bolugi ki ghar mai politics wahi khelata hai jiski suni jati hai. Ab wah kisi bhi role mai ho sakta saas ya bahu ya nanad ya koi aur rishte mai. Kyoki jiske haath mai satta aati hai wah khud ko powerful feel karta hai. Use pata hai main kuch hi karlu. Meri hi suni jayegi. Isi baat ka fayada uthya jaata hai. Aur politics kheli jaati hai. Samne wale ki pata bhi na chale aur saap bhi mar jaaye. Isliye beto ko kisi ka bhj paksh na leke har ek ghhatna ka sahi se vishleshan karke hi jeevan mai aage badna chahiye
I am youngest son in my family, I feel like a dog in my home, 😢. Power is greatest thing in this world,
phir chahe Ghar ho, office ho, school ho, desh ho.
Sir, you haven't watch "Acharya" movie. #infinityfoundation
3:05 🤣
😂😂😂
True
Elders who are still addicted to substances (alcohol, drugs, sex etc. ) and have had extra marital affairs pose a much higher threat and different kind of complicated social issues.
Most women usually newly married s facing domestic abuse and violence cite this reason but people in India generalise that elders can't be into such vices.
There are no support groups and police also doesn't help.
Neighbours never get to know the real story and keep blaming the younger family members.
This is a very serious cause of domestic abuse in Indian society but no one wants to talk about it in media because we traditionally respect elders. I know 80 year Olds who are into substance addiction and are in causing serious domestic violence crimes.
These days cctv & phone cameras help to show the real side of such elders because over the years they become perfect criminals and leave no proof to hold them responsible by law. Mostly double faced, they use their age to hide their crimes and addiction issues. One such family in our neighborhiod lost their grownup child to suicide and the parents have still not accepted their mistakes. 😢
Sir i just watched your video on club mahindra refund, i wanted to share about my experience, we had their membership as salesman sell it in hurry and mislead us, after 2/3 days after reading all terms and conditions we call him back to get refund, he anyhow manage to tackle us for few days and then tell us to mail to company so did we, we had paid around 40k and then after few days club mahindra cancelled our membership but not even single rupee was refunded to us, stating reason we have filled cancellation after warm up period of 10 days, please guide how to get our hard earned money back, as we Didn’t even get 1 ruppee benefit after paying 40k, this is a huge some of money for a middle class family, please guide i will be very thankful to you
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Hi Sir, I am from panvel I am looking for a township-like place to stay. Could you please suggest a property currently I have shortlisted Wadhwa wise city and Lodha panacea?
Humare ghar bhi ek party hai😂
My mother in law firstly dint want us to get married but we married against their will..
Now she wanted to manipulate her son to leave me but i being super smart i separated her son from her ... now we are living happily and are in no contact with the in laws ... so yeah u have to be alert and smart enough to protect yourself your husband and your children ... u have to protect your ground on all terms...
8:18 are you in contact with your mother and father
It seems you’re a narcissist
@@train_xc is it ?
@@flintstone9443 I'm 100% sure
School me hone vali bulling pe bhi video banao
Content level 🎚️💯❤❤❤🔥🔥
gussa mat karna mat karne ka matalb wife ke upar barso
For husbands: never become a judge between adults - (wife and parents) your life will be better and little easy. They both are adults let them sort it out themselves.
why aren't you making these kind of videos now?
Husband father bete ki bibi ke ishq me..mere husband ki job life khagye..secssion officer the ministry of planing me..court me papers me mere liye bhut gnda gnda likh kr submitt kiya...kiya..saaa apne pihr ki fikr me lgi rhi..khana paisa bhaeyo ke bchcho ko deri rhi last breath tk
My mother in law and brother inlaw destroyed our lives
For this reason especially, a mriied couple must never stay with parents. And parents should never intervene in their son/daughter's married life.
Please give solutions also
The society
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Aap kuch daughters / ladkiyon ke liye bhi advices diya kro 🧿🤎
Of course. Definitely karoonga. Suggestion ke liye dhanyavaad 🙏🏻
Aaj pata chala Naxalite Comrades also get hassled by wife and mother 😂
No no, Naxalite comrades have no families. They live in the forests of Orissa, eat leaves and f**k anything they want, especially holes in tree trunks. They are born from trees, so no mother, no wives, only trees 🤣🤣
But har insan ek din elder to Banta hi hai Ghar ka, that does not mean we all are evil or will eventually become evil . What is ur personality will remain ur personality , also we also need to understand elders their generation was different and younger generation is different but both expect alot from each other .
Mere pati ne iska upay nikala tha... Jaise hi meri mother in law meri shikayat karti thi wo unke saamne hi mujhe bula k mujhse jhagda karte the... Meri mother in law sochti thi ki jeet unki hui... But ab 10 saal ho gaye hain aur wo khoob samajhane lagi hain ki ye log mere saamne drama karte hain😅...
🤣😂 Aap dono pati-patni ne yeh accha setting kiya hai. Amazing!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hahahahhahahah
I agree with you sir on the fact that politics in family is normal. But since times are changing so will our family structures and a lot of elders cannot cope with this fact.
Why are all your videos 23 minutes long? Coincidence or intentional? Love your perspective btw
My mobile camera cuts at 23:07. If I make it longer, it will start automatically start a new video. Then I will have to stitch the two videos together. Done that a few times, but I prefer not to.
Mai bilkul bhi samajik prani ni hu
Me also
Sir nimhtra mathadbeku kannada vlog madi sir elrigu agathya ide..kannadadavrigu
Main Jeet Sakta Hoon.
I Am Immune To Mantharas Homewreckers Bullies And Can Kill Their Poison Too.
How ?
Jab Kisi Ke Baare Mein Bitching Ho Toh Wahin Same Time Uss Insaan Ko Bula Lo Ya Bol Do.
Basic Yahi Hai, Iss Ke Aur Bhi Bahut Tweaks Hain Kitna Maarna Hai Kis Hadd Tak Kuchalna Hai Depends.
Bitching Sab Karte Hain Aur Yeh Normal Nahin Lagna Chahiye.
Never Underestimate, Forgive, Forget, Be Friends, Help, Tolerate A Manthara.
Parivar ki asliyat khol ke rkh di apne
My father treated me like slave
Hello
Aise bolne se keya Sir! Sab jaan kar v bahut saare ladka apni wife ko divorce deta he apni maa ki dil rakhne😂
English subs please
Elder sre cursed
Ap ka bhaut jwada old ho geya , ap verey old elder ho gea ho alredy.