She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
She just listed a bunch of shit that we don’t care about. I’m not tripping about what couch she chooses or what type of blinds and curtains we have. She picks that shit because SHE cares about that nonsense.
She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
@@jeanlouis1898 You missed the whole point 😂. Single men cook, wash clothes, and clean up. We have furniture already and we buy our own groceries. Can I get along with you, do you have my best interest at heart, can I trust you. Supply something that I can’t outsource 🤷🏿♂️
@@user-tk3rm2yc2v those are also basic answers that RedPill dudes say they can get from any women bro, I watch this shit enough to know that these men will shoot down anything a woman offers and say that’s not enough because “I pay the bills”…meanwhile most men today are not paying for shit, so the real question is what are MEN offering women today? I don’t even like asking that but these debates are not helping anybody, it’s just causing more division and friction between men and women…because ANYTHING we have to offer can be attained elsewhere, that’s why the question is stupid
Women Cost you money and I can take care of all my own business and my home 🤔 so at this stage the only thing a women could give me is a child and I'm over that 🤯🎉
She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
What if she takes care of you financially or otherwise? Will you cook, clean, & take care of the household and family? Plain & simple? Because that job gets no pay and no time off.
It’s funny to me when I hear some women say “I’m not your mom so I shouldn’t/don’t have to cook clean, wash,etc for you.” You never hear men saying “I’m not your father so I shouldn’t/don’t have to protect and provide for you “
Listening to that first woman talk was like "fingernails on a chalkboard." The level of aggression and combativeness means everything would be a battle with her. No peace. No thanks. I don't care what you're bringing to the table.
Samantha Lee: "Why are Men saying No to Marriage??!" Tyrese Gibson: "You're a so-called chameleon influencer trying to pillage your ex-husband's pockets after a divorce."
If a woman is not willing to be humble to ask a man what he wants her to bring to the table then she can bring things to the table all she wants to for herself plain and simple, 🤣🤣😏
All the things she's saying she does he does already by virtue of being an adult. What she's unable to hear is "What do I not have now that you will add to my life?"
Actually, that saddest part about this clip is that the woman with short Blond hair is the married one and still doesn't have a clue of what a man truly desires in a woman... It amazes me how women will say BS like " I make a house a home by cooking and cleaning" but when you ask them directly if they cook and clean it's like fighting words. This is how I know that this woman is clapping back just to have something to say. The only note I took is that she really has nothing to offer of value to a Man mentally, emotionally or spiritually.. Technology has benefitted us both because most of the stuff we need for our household to run daily is right at our fingertips. I have subscribed to all of the same services that this Man has. House keeping and decorating, meal prepping, and laundry/dry cleaning all for under $400/mo. 2 key points are: 1. I'm at peace. 2. Intimacy/companionship is just a phone call away.
13:30 so we are taking advise from Tyrese ex-wife now??? she is literally still battling in court trying to break the prenup she signed before their marriage, the woman is a snake
My mother taught my brother and I how to cook clean and do our own laundry. She used to always say "know how to do things for yourself because women will use it against you. And boy was she right my dad taught us how to iron our shirts and pants tie a tie and buff shine our shoes and life taught us to provide for ourselves and others, today's men are just sorry allowing themselves to be controlled.
People need to understand the difference between assets and liabilities. Most arguments are settled in that understanding. All the rest is just rhetorical.
As my sisters told me, "She can't get the role if she doesn't know the script." They fake it until they feel they have you lock, stock, & barrel & that's when the act is over & get the true character. Time is their enemy guys. Give it time you'll see if they're acting or giving you who's real not what's real.
I'm married and i still do shopping, cleaning and cooking because I like it and I'm under control of my house old. Literally my women had to learn to live with me because she saw that I am on top of my game.
Look it's simple women don't bring nothing to the table outside of s** we just don't like the attitude if u can be nice and don't stress us out not a lot to ask for
They complain about keeping the house, but ignore the fact that a man is expected a man to risk his life every day to protect & provide for his family.... It's never about equality, but about fairness & appreciating men's contributions & sacrifices. Wimmen stupidly think being independence is just about money. Who actually pays to fix stuff in & around the home, mow lawn, fix roof, heater, etc??? How many men can afford to stay home 3 months if they lost their job without his spouse naggin, & calling him a lazy bum etc....???
2:09 She's not saving you anything bro. There's other things that she's going to need and do that will cost you extra. The math just don't add up to what she brings to the table.
In the beginning. Notice she said in a relationship you become our children. They want black men to obey them like the children they raised on their own.
Ladies we can cook for ourselves or order out, can clean up after ourselves, can easily pay an escort to come by and keep me satisfied after a couple hours and it doesnt cost me much to keep myself entertained... so other than having children, what exactly do you bring to a mans life that we cant get ourselves??
Of course you were going to tell him, after the wedding. And you would be just: you know we can’t have kids because I’m too old to take the risk, I had my tube tied and we can adopt one and you would think you’re totally right.
I have only one question about marriage. What are the benefits for the man? I haven't received a valid answer yet. And I first asked the question when I was 20 years old. I'm 46 now. So what does that tell you?
What about older men who already have a house, car, and everything already in place. He is already taking care of himself without a woman taking care oh him.
All the things that woman listed are the things she has to do when she is single. For example, she has to pick out furniture for her home. She has to go grocery shopping for her food and her paper towels. She has to vacuum the floor. She has to do her laundry. On top of doing all these adult things, she also has to have a full time job and pay all her own bills. She also has to take care of her own car maintenance, her own home repairs and provide herself with medical and automotive insurance. The majority of women do not know how to actually cook. They know how to heat up premade food or packaged food. Ask them to cook a roast without a cookbook or their phone and they wouldn't have a clue. Ask them to make a simple dish like meatloaf and they wouldn't have a clue as to what seasonings to use, how long to cook it, what goes into the prep, or even how much meat they should buy per person.
The maid argument is a bit unfair because most of us will NOT be paying for that while we prefer our women to do those things and appreciate it. The problem is that those actions do not qualify a woman as unique which a lot of women don't understand.
"I can" is worthless. Try going to a bank and simply say I can pay my mortgage while never paying it and see what happens.. Instead of can, give your husband 80% off your paycheck and he can outsource your duties since you really don't want to uphold your end. "Can". 🤦🏾♂️
The woman that got her tube tied was definitely messing around with a bunch of guys when she was younger. Theirs no other way I can see it. She is older desperate to have that wife title attached to her name. She got exposed n just imagine if dude married her without knowing her secret he would’ve been screwed. I hope he look at the signs n take it for wat it is cuz that female is not who he think she is. She got her tubes tied 20yrs only tells me she was living her best life with no consequences. She could’ve prioritize marriage when she was younger now that she old she see the writing on the wall n now is desperate to fulfill her personal goals.
The problem is; WE ALL "KNOW" Women can pay for a house and bills, BUT SHE WON'T, DON'T and WILL REFUSE To Do So !!! So since they don't "DO HOUSE WORK" All day ERR'DAY, BUT a MAN MUST HAS TO, WILL HAVE TO WORK THE WHOLE DAY ERR'DAY, ALL YEAR, PRETTY MUCH MOST OF HIS LIFE, JUS SO A Woman can enjoy Liv'n in the "Lap of Luxury", then divorce her husband and collect "alimony" Claim'n that she works "ERR'DAY, ALL DAY, ALL OF HER LIFE"!! The courts are wrong for ALLOW'N these judges who take these women in the chambers and work a deal for them to be set the rest of their life for "NOT" Do'n a tenth of what they "LIE" about do'n ERR'DAY AS FOR A WIFES DUTIES !!!
All a man really needs is a woman he can depend on and be there for him , Men don't mind doing the providing or protecting but the woman must be worth it 🤔💯💯strange how he had her for so long and does no know anything about her family 🤦🏿♂️bro , dont get married untill u are ready ☝🏿I knew there was a reason she wanted to marry him so bad 🤣that is a secret he should have know and by the way she hid that from him , she did not want to have any kids 👎🏿I sense a slight bias in the woman's favour by that judge , seemed she was intent on placing the blame on him for the problems in the relationship
having her tubes tie 20 years ago it's not going to reverse her chance of having a child is 0.0 thats not a procedure that just reverse so easy i had my tubes tie after 3 children because i don't want no more kids
Controlling your emotions will make you a better person in the long run. 💯
Women act like a man was starving before she met him! I was fine before i met you, and I'll be fine when you're gone
That just them exposing the type of men they're dealing with. The only men women doing all that for is the bum they tryna change into Mr right
She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
@@jeanlouis1898what kind of men u deal with
@@robertwillis6552 I’m a dude bro lol
@@jeanlouis1898 u mean simp
She's very combative... No peace...
They all are they’ll act chill at first and get more combative as the time passes when it’s too much switch females lol
Facts
I have finally come to the conclusion, it's safer, cheaper, more peaceful, to just stay single and never get married.
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They are unmarried for a reason. Her voice alone isn’t peace n sweet it’s deep n combative!
She just listed a bunch of shit that we don’t care about. I’m not tripping about what couch she chooses or what type of blinds and curtains we have. She picks that shit because SHE cares about that nonsense.
Exactly and I’m a women
She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
@@jeanlouis1898 You missed the whole point 😂. Single men cook, wash clothes, and clean up. We have furniture already and we buy our own groceries. Can I get along with you, do you have my best interest at heart, can I trust you. Supply something that I can’t outsource 🤷🏿♂️
@@user-tk3rm2yc2v those are also basic answers that RedPill dudes say they can get from any women bro, I watch this shit enough to know that these men will shoot down anything a woman offers and say that’s not enough because “I pay the bills”…meanwhile most men today are not paying for shit, so the real question is what are MEN offering women today? I don’t even like asking that but these debates are not helping anybody, it’s just causing more division and friction between men and women…because ANYTHING we have to offer can be attained elsewhere, that’s why the question is stupid
Don't forget bro you paying for that couch
If you don't cook, clean & take care of the household and family. I'm not taking care of you financially or, otherwise. Plain and simple.
Say it louder for the women in the back !!!! #Facts
Women Cost you money and I can take care of all my own business and my home 🤔 so at this stage the only thing a women could give me is a child and I'm over that 🤯🎉
She literally said that she’d do the cooking, cleaning and washing and he rejected it by saying those things can be paid for…so what’s even the point of the question? These red pill dudes will reject any answer a woman gives and say that’s not enough because I “pay the bills”, mind you MOST men today are not able to pay all the bills in a household alone….this conversation is so dumb
What if she takes care of you financially or otherwise? Will you cook, clean, & take care of the household and family? Plain & simple? Because that job gets no pay and no time off.
@@acemax1124 🍪
It’s funny to me when I hear some women say “I’m not your mom so I shouldn’t/don’t have to cook clean, wash,etc for you.” You never hear men saying “I’m not your father so I shouldn’t/don’t have to protect and provide for you “
Facts.
A woman is a bill
A bill, a head ache, a gas guzzler if she has no car, a bad cook cause most of them think they can cook, need I say more
@@ricoa.k.aantlive6052 FACTS!!!
Faaaaaaacts
Just by her response she is showing you what she brings, combativeness n arguments, ego, lack of peace
Listening to that first woman talk was like "fingernails on a chalkboard." The level of aggression and combativeness means everything would be a battle with her. No peace. No thanks. I don't care what you're bringing to the table.
This broad said the Paper towels 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️😂😂😂
I don't think they actually listen to the words that come out of their mouths....
😂😂😂
The men were smoking them!! I don't know what she was talking about!!
Samantha Lee: "Why are Men saying No to Marriage??!"
Tyrese Gibson: "You're a so-called chameleon influencer trying to pillage your ex-husband's pockets after a divorce."
How is she going to ask the question of why men aren't getting married, after the way she did Tyrese Gibson!! Had that man crying on social media!
This woman is not listening to what is being asked by the man. She is so quick to answer that the answer doesn't coincide with the question.
If a woman is not willing to be humble to ask a man what he wants her to bring to the table then she can bring things to the table all she wants to for herself plain and simple, 🤣🤣😏
I wouldn't want my woman acting like my mother
Look, just make yourself happy 😊. With whatever you choose to do.
Awesome 🤣 not to be picky but they forgot to bring up how much money a month the man is spending on a women adds to his expenses 💸🎉
Paper towels?!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
All the things she's saying she does he does already by virtue of being an adult. What she's unable to hear is "What do I not have now that you will add to my life?"
She's trying to inflate her value while doing the bare minimum, believing she's a high value maid, that talks back with drama, and laziness as shield.
its ok to admit you like men johnanthanray8360
@@RlZZGODFRFR I know that holy water burn, Alex , Jezebel proud of you, keep laziness alive and well
SAD another adult acting like a child.
The guy from the barber shop, 100%
Actually, that saddest part about this clip is that the woman with short Blond hair is the married one and still doesn't have a clue of what a man truly desires in a woman... It amazes me how women will say BS like " I make a house a home by cooking and cleaning" but when you ask them directly if they cook and clean it's like fighting words. This is how I know that this woman is clapping back just to have something to say. The only note I took is that she really has nothing to offer of value to a Man mentally, emotionally or spiritually.. Technology has benefitted us both because most of the stuff we need for our household to run daily is right at our fingertips. I have subscribed to all of the same services that this Man has. House keeping and decorating, meal prepping, and laundry/dry cleaning all for under $400/mo. 2 key points are: 1. I'm at peace. 2. Intimacy/companionship is just a phone call away.
13:30 so we are taking advise from Tyrese ex-wife now??? she is literally still battling in court trying to break the prenup she signed before their marriage, the woman is a snake
My mother taught my brother and I how to cook clean and do our own laundry. She used to always say "know how to do things for yourself because women will use it against you. And boy was she right my dad taught us how to iron our shirts and pants tie a tie and buff shine our shoes and life taught us to provide for ourselves and others, today's men are just sorry allowing themselves to be controlled.
Really Samantha you left your husband and you came up with this list. You are the enemy Samantha.
20 years? BRUH RING THE BELL!!! ⚰🔔🪦
A giver is not a taker ,and a taker is not a giver. Women keep telling you, we are taker facts 💯
she may do these things but all these woman are not. Just like he said it started that way but when they get comfortable its over
Run man run!
Before he brought up the tube tying, those seals were clapping and trying to shame him for not jumping blindly into the abyss.
I so tired of seeing Tyrese ex wife up here giving advice when she doesn’t even follow it…
Blind leading the blind.
Her manly haircut says it all.
No Man wants to deal with that.......
People need to understand the difference between assets and liabilities. Most arguments are settled in that understanding. All the rest is just rhetorical.
As my sisters told me, "She can't get the role if she doesn't know the script." They fake it until they feel they have you lock, stock, & barrel & that's when the act is over & get the true character. Time is their enemy guys. Give it time you'll see if they're acting or giving you who's real not what's real.
That’s why it makes sense to get a girl who was raised to be a wife
She brings headaches...
like ur face
@@RlZZGODFRFR yep... Like yo mammy...
A woman overstating her value…
Tubes are not tied prior to child birth.
I'm married and i still do shopping, cleaning and cooking because I like it and I'm under control of my house old. Literally my women had to learn to live with me because she saw that I am on top of my game.
It's grade school mentality
Look it's simple women don't bring nothing to the table outside of s** we just don't like the attitude if u can be nice and don't stress us out not a lot to ask for
Who’s the woman that spoke last about self control?
The one speaker is not combative she just speaking for herself
They complain about keeping the house, but ignore the fact that a man is expected a man to risk his life every day to protect & provide for his family....
It's never about equality, but about fairness & appreciating men's contributions & sacrifices.
Wimmen stupidly think being independence is just about money. Who actually pays to fix stuff in & around the home, mow lawn, fix roof, heater, etc???
How many men can afford to stay home 3 months if they lost their job without his spouse naggin, & calling him a lazy bum etc....???
2:09 She's not saving you anything bro. There's other things that she's going to need and do that will cost you extra. The math just don't add up to what she brings to the table.
Women want a wedding (celebration to be the centre of attention) not a marriage (hard work, responsibility, long term commitment to a man)
Because they aren't wives a real wife is a wife before she gets married she just knows how to be more than likely she had s blueprint to follow
Everything a man has for a woman is a gift. Anything a woman gives a man is a loan…..
In the beginning. Notice she said in a relationship you become our children. They want black men to obey them like the children they raised on their own.
Ladies we can cook for ourselves or order out, can clean up after ourselves, can easily pay an escort to come by and keep me satisfied after a couple hours and it doesnt cost me much to keep myself entertained... so other than having children, what exactly do you bring to a mans life that we cant get ourselves??
She said that furniture I picked that out
Of course you were going to tell him, after the wedding.
And you would be just: you know we can’t have kids because I’m too old to take the risk, I had my tube tied and we can adopt one and you would think you’re totally right.
12:04 Oh Nah
Hell naw
What did the guy do?
I have only one question about marriage. What are the benefits for the man? I haven't received a valid answer yet. And I first asked the question when I was 20 years old. I'm 46 now. So what does that tell you?
She knows what he’s talking about. She just wants to argue. She’s trying to prove a moot point.
Let Rico cook!!!😂
What about older men who already have a house, car, and everything already in place. He is already taking care of himself without a woman taking care oh him.
All the things that woman listed are the things she has to do when she is single.
For example, she has to pick out furniture for her home. She has to go grocery shopping for her food and her paper towels. She has to vacuum the floor. She has to do her laundry. On top of doing all these adult things, she also has to have a full time job and pay all her own bills. She also has to take care of her own car maintenance, her own home repairs and provide herself with medical and automotive insurance. The majority of women do not know how to actually cook. They know how to heat up premade food or packaged food. Ask them to cook a roast without a cookbook or their phone and they wouldn't have a clue. Ask them to make a simple dish like meatloaf and they wouldn't have a clue as to what seasonings to use, how long to cook it, what goes into the prep, or even how much meat they should buy per person.
“I can cook…but I dont…because I am hot garbage.”
The maid argument is a bit unfair because most of us will NOT be paying for that while we prefer our women to do those things and appreciate it. The problem is that those actions do not qualify a woman as unique which a lot of women don't understand.
The wedding ring means all to her when she’s ready to leave. Without the ring there’s no alimony, no division of his property and assets.
8:12 Did this woman want reimbursement for the ring? Girl, you bought it on your own volition, he shouldn't have to reimburse you for that
Great video
I know women that have men that make the money and stock it and do most of the maintenance. Cut The Games.
so her value is spending his money then pretending like he couldn't do any of that himself- got it.
She really does not sound like wife material.
Can't even listen to the lady that gave the top 5 reasons anymore. We all know now that she was the lady that had Tyrese crying on social media.
She's very masculine
Wait until she realizes time isn’t her friend. The best thing a woman can do for a man is not be a burden
"I can" is worthless. Try going to a bank and simply say I can pay my mortgage while never paying it and see what happens..
Instead of can, give your husband 80% off your paycheck and he can outsource your duties since you really don't want to uphold your end. "Can". 🤦🏾♂️
Hellllll no
Toilet paper 😂
If the man doesn't gain value from the woman she is a liability.
Some states have required marriage licenses since the late 1600's but okie dokie... 😂
The woman that got her tube tied was definitely messing around with a bunch of guys when she was younger. Theirs no other way I can see it. She is older desperate to have that wife title attached to her name. She got exposed n just imagine if dude married her without knowing her secret he would’ve been screwed. I hope he look at the signs n take it for wat it is cuz that female is not who he think she is. She got her tubes tied 20yrs only tells me she was living her best life with no consequences. She could’ve prioritize marriage when she was younger now that she old she see the writing on the wall n now is desperate to fulfill her personal goals.
You have to be a helpmate. If you're not. A man doesn't need you
Fake crying no tears
She dont want a man to look at her like a traditional women but she looks at men like it's their job to be traditional men.
It costs more then 100 bucks but still cheaper then the maintenance it takes to have his women to do those things for the home
It’s the Fanni energy for me.
What is he bringing except material. BS vs BS they are both jaded.
The problem is; WE ALL "KNOW" Women can pay for a house and bills, BUT SHE WON'T, DON'T and WILL REFUSE To Do So !!! So since they don't "DO HOUSE WORK" All day ERR'DAY, BUT a MAN MUST HAS TO, WILL HAVE TO WORK THE WHOLE DAY ERR'DAY, ALL YEAR, PRETTY MUCH MOST OF HIS LIFE, JUS SO A Woman can enjoy Liv'n in the "Lap of Luxury", then divorce her husband and collect "alimony" Claim'n that she works "ERR'DAY, ALL DAY, ALL OF HER LIFE"!! The courts are wrong for ALLOW'N these judges who take these women in the chambers and work a deal for them to be set the rest of their life for "NOT" Do'n a tenth of what they "LIE" about do'n ERR'DAY AS FOR A WIFES DUTIES !!!
tell me ur single without telling me ur single
What do you bring that I don’t have to pay for 🤷🏾♂️ otherwise I can pay someone to do that & go
You picked it out?👀
I do way more in a relationship than women
some people are already married...to their money, or imaginary money..
Shyt if I had to come home to a woman like this, I rather be homeless… Make a house a home”, HOW SWAY, HOW? More like make a house, HELL…
All a man really needs is a woman he can depend on and be there for him , Men don't mind doing the providing or protecting but the woman must be worth it 🤔💯💯strange how he had her for so long and does no know anything about her family 🤦🏿♂️bro , dont get married untill u are ready ☝🏿I knew there was a reason she wanted to marry him so bad 🤣that is a secret he should have know and by the way she hid that from him , she did not want to have any kids 👎🏿I sense a slight bias in the woman's favour by that judge , seemed she was intent on placing the blame on him for the problems in the relationship
Text to women what are they bringing to the table that's tangible.? I need to read more books.
having her tubes tie 20 years ago it's not going to reverse her chance of having a child is 0.0 thats not a procedure that just reverse so easy i had my tubes tie after 3 children because i don't want no more kids
If u expect to be provided for, ur looking for an asset . Which means ur likely a liability .
If women do all that she named that’s a lot and it helps the run on 200% and she there for him. But most women don’t do any of that
And when you get sick and hungry she can't help you 😅
I’d argue most men more clean than women be and we better cooks