Am a functional adult but have to keep saying am a functional adult, so you all know how much of a functional adult i am. I might be old school but if you have to keep saying you are something then you're either not or your insecure about it🤷♂. The last clip sounded more like a telling of herself and women in general than what a guy would say and do.
Answer THIS: Why are ALL of the so-called "Independent" women CONSTANTLY complaining about WHAT "MEN" DON'T DO for THEM and WHAT a man is Supposed to BE doing for THEM!!!???🤔🤨 make it make sense!!! The PROBLEM IS: Women who think like THIS, are the one's who chose to COMPETE WITH MEN!!🤔 and the ONLY WAY that they've fooled themselves into believing that they CAN is WITH "Money" They feel that "Money" is what makes a man a MAN!! So they strive and grind to GET all these degrees and achieve "Status" So they can "FEEL" (Most of their actions & behavior revolve around emotions) superior to a man! Never realizing, that their money and status STILL doesn't make them superior to a man!! Real men could care LESS about THAT! When men SAY THIS, as they often have and DO! women become triggered, bitter and angry!
@@perrywashup5168Because it sounds stupid if we say that. Even men know that we are dependent on someone in life. The only person that can say I’m independent is a man living off the grid.
The whole human race is interdependent upon each other. Also, the day that women declared 📜 to be strong and independent from men is when women decided to be men in attitude. This is a documented fact that cannot be refuted.
Keep it going man!! Agreed.When people get around to using labels..the game changes. From relatives, to dating, if you have a selfish midset..it won't work.
Nothing wrong with marriage at all been with my wife for 15 years married for 7 she’s very independent nothing wrong with it. All this here is internet talk
I think a strong independent woman who is not a feminist is okay and is a functioning contributor to society. My misses is a strong that can take care of herself and the kids. I really needed this while I was in the military.
The Domino effect statement is true. Women typically don’t listen to anybody, but men… men listen to the OGs before them and sons listen to their fathers.
I'm a independent man. I'm just a self functioning adult that pays his bills, and do need a co signer. Am rich? Absolutely not. Women glorify normal shit😂
That’s called dysfunctional not functional. If modern day women cannot build a beautiful, healthy life with respectful gentleman, while being loyal to one man only if they don’t have a ring their feelings, words, don’t matter. If they don’t have a ring their beliefs don’t matter 💯
When a man starts to understand about his mental health that’s when a man wants peace in a relationship and if it isn’t happening then he will emotionally check out.
If they truly believed that being an independent woman simply meant that they were functioning adults, they would not go around boasting about and emphasizing their independence. They say it as if it is a badge of superiority. That chick is always capping with her narratives.
Independent doesn’t equate to being a functioning adult. No one can function alone. There must be a level of INTERDEPENDENCE for any kind or type of progression.
What's crazy to me is the people with all of the rights and court? All of the rights when the police are called all of the affirmative action at work are crying about a backup plan.... 5:37
If a woman refers to herself as an independent woman , it means that she believes that can thrive on her own. I, and many other men don't want that type of person as a life mate. You can try to shame me for my preference but being that I've been 30 years faithfully and happily married you'd be waiting your time. To each his own.
independent implies to standing alone; it implies lack of connection with any other having power to sustain its self. If person come off strong it’s implied they don’t need no help.
19 Keys once told a woman who asked him "Why don't an Independent Man want to date an Independent Woman?" His response, "It's like having a business partner you don't need."
These people are goofy af. U can be a mature, responsible, functional adult. That's great. But being INDEPENDENT means INDEPENDENT. People want to get into long-term relationships, or especially get married, but stay independent from the person they're with. And wonder why relationships and marriages are constantly failing.
@@ManOfYah-work-in-progress Great point. Some people say codependent which is also incorrect. It's 2x whole, complete, stable, adults agreeing to operate as a whole. Not independent and also not immature or damaged people having to be codependent on each other to function. Bro, it's a mess out here today. My wife left a few yrs ago, ofc. Just past yr I finally checked back into the dating market and holy sh*t!! Things have gone %1000 straight to hell just in the last 20yrs. I was shocked. So I'm getting my passport now. No way I'm swimming in this toxic BS of a pool of prospects.
@@timmy1tap678 Exactly. And I'm sorry to hear about about your wife leaving, but 100% support you going overseas to find happiness. The pickings in America are just too slim.
Believe me we want to rest in our feminity. We have to no choice but to be independent that's what grown woman do be responsible. We have no choice if we have no help.
Why is it that so many strong, independent women object so much to being told by a man to use their own money and be strong and independent somewhere other than the man's house?
There's nothing wrong with being an independent woman as long as you're single that's your time to do as you wish or live how you choose but there's no such thing as an independent husband, wife or relationship. So you have your own big deal, nothing wrong with that however: Remain single if you have that selfish attitude or mentality because when you and another create that bond between one another there's no such thing as (This is my shit)
You forgot to include that of she has casual sex while single she is disqualified from marriage or being taken seriously by the majority of men, automatically.
That independent shit is an identity to protect them from heartache. I don't need no man, just in case it don't work out i didn't need it anyway. That type of mentality is what we're not attracted to.
The recipe to this whole dating saga is simplicity! If she has 3 businesses, he has 3 businesses. Together you have 6 businesses, upon a unified companionship! Michelle helped Barack with his homework and vice versa. Together they were the 1st black family to live in the white house ! Sorry Michelle could not tell everybody, I live in the White House by myself with my kids!
Im on fire today as former pookie ray ray i endorse this cause I literally just said the exact same thing that dude said in the third clip @ 2:31 mark. no such thing as coincidences
How is it fair for women to say that men don't want to be in relationships and marriages, when we can all see that men are prepared to travel to the other side of the planet to find a wife that will actually love them back and who want to be wives and mothers?
To review, Never enter a contract that rewards the other person for violating it. Although, You want traditional men but you're not traditional women - Kevin Samuels. However, The problem is that modern women suffer from cognitive dissonance. This doublemindedness has pretty much drive us men with common sense away.
But what you don't realize is that men don't leave relationships once we're in and we're locked in we're locked in for life it's the women that leaves the relationship because she gets bored so until they get that to their head and realize that men don't leave relationships it's them
These batches want the wedding and not the actual marriage. It's a talking point to her and her friends. For the man, he's like "F*, what have I done??"
See you all getting it wrong again most men don’t want a disrespectful woman having your own money don’t have nothing to do with a man being terminated by that
All this is, is a debate on or about opinions. People's can only talk for themselves and not everyone else. We all have our own checklist, and if they don't qualify then bye, but every man's qualifications are different.
We dont wanna marry. We just want the cheeks and then move on to new cheeks. There is no return on investment for marriage only headaches and settlement.
Watching two simps argue wit Mr Letgo on the definition of independent is crazy.
Women misuse the word independent
Idky why they use that as a answer for what I bring to the table. I be like ma'am your a adult
A woman saying I have a car, apartment/house, pay her bills, etc. Welcome to adulthood. Women.
Am a functional adult but have to keep saying am a functional adult, so you all know how much of a functional adult i am. I might be old school but if you have to keep saying you are something then you're either not or your insecure about it🤷♂.
The last clip sounded more like a telling of herself and women in general than what a guy would say and do.
Answer THIS: Why are ALL of the so-called "Independent" women CONSTANTLY complaining about WHAT "MEN" DON'T DO for THEM and WHAT a man is Supposed to BE doing for THEM!!!???🤔🤨 make it make sense!!! The PROBLEM IS: Women who think like THIS, are the one's who chose to COMPETE WITH MEN!!🤔 and the ONLY WAY that they've fooled themselves into believing that they CAN is WITH "Money" They feel that "Money" is what makes a man a MAN!! So they strive and grind to GET all these degrees and achieve "Status" So they can "FEEL" (Most of their actions & behavior revolve around emotions) superior to a man! Never realizing, that their money and status STILL doesn't make them superior to a man!! Real men could care LESS about THAT! When men SAY THIS, as they often have and DO! women become triggered, bitter and angry!
Exactly 💯
I’m not giving props to a functioning adult that’s like saying I’m a independent man
Exactly 💯
Isn't that just a man
Not one man ever said I'm a independent man😂
Independent strong man don’t need no woman or kids lol
@@perrywashup5168Because it sounds stupid if we say that. Even men know that we are dependent on someone in life. The only person that can say I’m independent is a man living off the grid.
Modern feminism isnt about being a helpmeet. A relationship/union based on her happiness is failing before starting.
The whole human race is interdependent upon each other. Also, the day that women declared 📜 to be strong and independent from men is when women decided to be men in attitude. This is a documented fact that cannot be refuted.
Keep it going man!! Agreed.When people get around to using labels..the game changes. From relatives, to dating, if you have a selfish midset..it won't work.
DONT DO IT. DO NOT GET MARRIED
Thanks for telling us men that.. We don't want to get married it doesn't benefit us..
Nothing wrong with marriage at all been with my wife for 15 years married for 7 she’s very independent nothing wrong with it. All this here is internet talk
Life of celebacy for me
@@kasheemsmith6239get ready for the 7 year itch
@kasheemsmith6239 that's you bruh you ain't the rule
I think a strong independent woman who is not a feminist is okay and is a functioning contributor to society. My misses is a strong that can take care of herself and the kids. I really needed this while I was in the military.
The term "independent" the way it is used today has been toxic. And what. U said about the wall is exactly right
They keep complaining of the chads who discard them the same way they discard the average men they ignore, cry me a river.....
Marriage is so old-fashioned and obsolete. SItuationships are in. You drove men away, and they found out solitude is so very sweet.
As a man who's been married for 27 years not going to disagree with today's dating market.
Ditto for women.
The Domino effect statement is true. Women typically don’t listen to anybody, but men… men listen to the OGs before them and sons listen to their fathers.
I like how you word things. You are well spoken. Great content bro.
To many social media people talking about this topic nowadays.
Being an adult is not worthy of delusion!!! thinking you are doing something special !!!.SMH!!!
I'm a independent man. I'm just a self functioning adult that pays his bills, and do need a co signer. Am rich? Absolutely not. Women glorify normal shit😂
Marriage, never!
These conversations are so draining. I hope my family dont bring this shit up during super bowl or im whispering to my wife like " we out in 5" 😂😂😂
I remember at 7 years of age is when I learned what marriage was and I thought it was the dumbest concept I have ever heard. Even to this day.
Im happily divorced, and I've discovered that solitude and tranquility is my 'Best Friend.'
2:13
Any adult that says they are bored truly habe something wrong with their brain. Should never utter the word bored as an adult.
independent - "SELF-GOVERNING", "not requiring or relying on something else : not contingent".
That’s called dysfunctional not functional.
If modern day women cannot build a beautiful, healthy life with respectful gentleman, while being loyal to one man only if they don’t have a ring their feelings, words, don’t matter.
If they don’t have a ring their beliefs don’t matter 💯
When a man starts to understand about his mental health that’s when a man wants peace in a relationship and if it isn’t happening then he will emotionally check out.
If they truly believed that being an independent woman simply meant that they were functioning adults, they would not go around boasting about and emphasizing their independence. They say it as if it is a badge of superiority. That chick is always capping with her narratives.
Independent doesn’t equate to being a functioning adult. No one can function alone. There must be a level of INTERDEPENDENCE for any kind or type of progression.
What's crazy to me is the people with all of the rights and court? All of the rights when the police are called all of the affirmative action at work are crying about a backup plan.... 5:37
Defintion independent meaning is = not influenced or controlled in any way by other people, events, or things:
If a woman refers to herself as an independent woman , it means that she believes that can thrive on her own. I, and many other men don't want that type of person as a life mate.
You can try to shame me for my preference but being that I've been 30 years faithfully and happily married you'd be waiting your time.
To each his own.
Some men not marring, it’s about to be the large majority of men not marrying. LoL.
independent implies to standing alone; it implies lack of connection with any other having power to sustain its self. If person come off strong it’s implied they don’t need no help.
This era is weak period. My era respected strong women and men. This era does too much to prove NOTHING!
19 Keys once told a woman who asked him "Why don't an Independent Man want to date an Independent Woman?"
His response, "It's like having a business partner you don't need."
These people are goofy af. U can be a mature, responsible, functional adult. That's great. But being INDEPENDENT means INDEPENDENT. People want to get into long-term relationships, or especially get married, but stay independent from the person they're with. And wonder why relationships and marriages are constantly failing.
@777LastTruthGateKeeper 👊
Agreed. The proper term for being in a relationship is being INTERDEPENDENT.
@@ManOfYah-work-in-progress Great point. Some people say codependent which is also incorrect. It's 2x whole, complete, stable, adults agreeing to operate as a whole. Not independent and also not immature or damaged people having to be codependent on each other to function. Bro, it's a mess out here today. My wife left a few yrs ago, ofc. Just past yr I finally checked back into the dating market and holy sh*t!! Things have gone %1000 straight to hell just in the last 20yrs. I was shocked. So I'm getting my passport now. No way I'm swimming in this toxic BS of a pool of prospects.
@@timmy1tap678 Exactly. And I'm sorry to hear about about your wife leaving, but 100% support you going overseas to find happiness. The pickings in America are just too slim.
@@ManOfYah-work-in-progress Appreciate it bro. Things are looking up👊
Believe me we want to rest in our feminity. We have to no choice but to be independent that's what grown woman do be responsible. We have no choice if we have no help.
Sigma nation playa
Why is it that so many strong, independent women object so much to being told by a man to use their own money and be strong and independent somewhere other than the man's house?
Men want peace for his sake and the sake of his children.
There's nothing wrong with being an independent woman as long as you're single that's your time to do as you wish or live how you choose but there's no such thing as an independent husband, wife or relationship. So you have your own big deal, nothing wrong with that however: Remain single if you have that selfish attitude or mentality because when you and another create that bond between one another there's no such thing as (This is my shit)
You forgot to include that of she has casual sex while single she is disqualified from marriage or being taken seriously by the majority of men, automatically.
People actually think like this. Lol.
Take care of yourself before you take care of someone else
That independent shit is an identity to protect them from heartache.
I don't need no man, just in case it don't work out i didn't need it anyway. That type of mentality is what we're not attracted to.
Why the hell would I want an "independent" woman when I want be a team?
A independent woman can make it economically but by law they are codependent
When you think meeting adult requirements is an accomplishment, it's because you've been a child for so long.
The recipe to this whole dating saga is simplicity! If she has 3 businesses, he has 3 businesses. Together you have 6 businesses, upon a unified companionship! Michelle helped Barack with his homework and vice versa. Together they were the 1st black family to live in the white house ! Sorry Michelle could not tell everybody, I live in the White House by myself with my kids!
Women misuse the word independent
It’s the mindset that men are talking about 😅
He ain't about that not treating the women they love not like a p-star.
TALK! TALK! TALK! Western Men Zoom To the 194+ Nations to date traditional women! As for me, I'm Zoom To the Dominican Republic and Colombia!
I don’t care if she independent, that’s cool but loud and masculine is a hell no. I have enough headaches without my woman being one too.
Women want there partner to LEAD and DESIRE to be Independently Dependent on HIM and him alone.
Great content
These women need to read a book and learn what interdependent means.
Im on fire today as former pookie ray ray i endorse this cause I literally just said the exact same thing that dude said in the third clip @ 2:31 mark. no such thing as coincidences
How is it fair for women to say that men don't want to be in relationships and marriages, when we can all see that men are prepared to travel to the other side of the planet to find a wife that will actually love them back and who want to be wives and mothers?
To review, Never enter a contract that rewards the other person for violating it. Although, You want traditional men but you're not traditional women - Kevin Samuels. However, The problem is that modern women suffer from cognitive dissonance. This doublemindedness has pretty much drive us men with common sense away.
But what you don't realize is that men don't leave relationships once we're in and we're locked in we're locked in for life it's the women that leaves the relationship because she gets bored so until they get that to their head and realize that men don't leave relationships it's them
Some?
These batches want the wedding and not the actual marriage. It's a talking point to her and her friends. For the man, he's like "F*, what have I done??"
It’s bcuz they walking around with attitudes&acting like dudes!!
See you all getting it wrong again most men don’t want a disrespectful woman having your own money don’t have nothing to do with a man being terminated by that
The lady looking like a jack in a box had everything completely wrong. If she prefaced it with "women...." then she would be absolutely right
Independent is a red vlag period 🥱💫
True
Stay single kings.
Just say you want a “bible woman “
Better that than the modern jezabel
All this is, is a debate on or about opinions. People's can only talk for themselves and not everyone else. We all have our own checklist, and if they don't qualify then bye, but every man's qualifications are different.
Yall stop trying to justify cheating
I couldn't listen to them 2 dudes simping bruh I had to turn this one off lol
Taking care of yourself is nothing special
That white woman at the end is probably 27, tell me im wrong
We dont wanna marry. We just want the cheeks and then move on to new cheeks. There is no return on investment for marriage only headaches and settlement.
Can't be strong and independent and still want your bills payed by someone else🤦🏾♂️ just saying lady's
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They said “Most” men, but your title read “some” men
No brother it’s most men
Don't need a man..... fine... don't need a woman... quit chasing women back in the 80's....trix take care of the only thing I need...