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  • @pinkypilot
    @pinkypilot Год назад +62

    I love how the other blonde girl could give a damn about the interview 😂

    • @yessicapineda2660
      @yessicapineda2660 Год назад +4

      I thought the other blonde girl got upset when her friend said Korean guys were cute, maybe she’s into the friend?

  • @borkblep
    @borkblep 9 месяцев назад +60

    I’m a Korean woman whose male exes have been predominantly Korean …… and I can say that I have PTSD from that entire experience. I’ve never been beaten up by one but that’s irrelevant to the question because MANY of them just don’t respect or admire women, especially women who have strong personalities. They’re very sweet and caring until they perceive the woman as a “threat” to their masculinity - it’s their ego and it’s the patriarchal structure of Korean society.

    • @SabaSaemi
      @SabaSaemi 8 месяцев назад +9

      I'm a 20 year_old girl from middle east and I've never dated or been in any kind of relationship with a man/guy, but I also got PTSD just by seeing how other women are treated in my country and its society. If a woman is sweet and fragile, really feminine and she likes to do the house chores and just basically is their 2nd mama , they will treat her like a goddess, but if you have a strong personality and you're an independent girl/woman, the think you're a misandrist and they will definitely treat you like sh*t or say you're masculine and not feminine enough for them. I know it's not fair to say all men are the same, but I just gave up on dating before even start dating.

    • @TheButterPrince
      @TheButterPrince 8 месяцев назад

      Patriarchal? Haha funny. Women always use that word when they need it. But nobody wanna he a leader in relationshop, just wanting to be led.

    • @apollofateh324
      @apollofateh324 Месяц назад +1

      Thoughts and prayers my dude, the middle east is not a great place to be if you're not into fitting into boxes/gender roles 😭 Hope you can find someone that makes you happy though, even if that takes a while longer then you would wish~ 💙

    • @user-ye3ng5fh7h
      @user-ye3ng5fh7h 17 дней назад

      ​@@SabaSaemi men in the west are also sick of women who think they are strong and independant, they're just annoying and confrontational.

  • @merla692
    @merla692 Год назад +264

    It doesn't make sense to generalize and say "all Korean men are misogynists'", of course. But misogyny is a lot more than just physically assaulting, cheating on or openly insulting women. It's a lot more insidious than that. So in that sense, I feel like most of these women didn't really address the issue properly. It made me wonder if they even understand what misogyny is.

    • @xPidgexSmithx
      @xPidgexSmithx Год назад +75

      I was about to make this comment, they seem to think misogyny is just being physically or verbally abusive by yelling or hitting or saying bad things. Not the everyday actions and treatment which puts the woman in the position of being the lesser person. But as a super patriarchal society the majority probably don’t even realise what is happening and just excuse it as a man being the lead in the relationship or “head of the family” etc

    • @_Julie_Bee
      @_Julie_Bee Год назад +61

      Exactly. How can women being raised with internalized misogyny really appreciate the level of it all? Plus, dude literally shamed one of the women for saying she's dated a lot in front of her current boyfriend. Like, dude, education is key.

    • @Cloudnine422
      @Cloudnine422 Год назад +3

      was thinking the same. So true

    • @marisstella5406
      @marisstella5406 Год назад +13

      So they gave their honest opinion as Korean women based on their lived experience with Korean men, but because their answers don’t confirm your biases then the ladies must not know what they’re talking about? The entitlement is astounding

    • @merla692
      @merla692 Год назад +24

      @@marisstella5406 wake up. There is misogyny everywhere in the world. Korea is not the magical place where that's an exception.

  • @fakebrit
    @fakebrit Год назад +270

    I’ve dated 3 Korean guys and only one of the relationships were ok. An an American/Latina woman I’m used to men being more progressive and a little more open with their feelings. I also found that there’s still that old school mentality of gender roles and women “should act a certain way.” Of course this doesn’t generalize a whole gender but as someone from a different culture I noticed the expectations for women were a little behind considered to American or western culture.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад +27

      There are pros and cons in each. I prefer old school thinking because is more family oriented, they tend to live in one big family pack. Whereas western culture, they are more individualistic, and not so family oriented thus higher chance of cheating and divorce rate higher.

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 Год назад

      I honestly think America or Western countries are not that progressive as you think in many ways.
      Asians, during Covid, were targeted and treated bad, threatened by those people in that places. That was not progressive.

    • @stefheathcote6123
      @stefheathcote6123 Год назад +19

      @@CoolNumber1While I accept the former part of the comment, I don’t think the devotee or the cheating is more in the West.

    • @fakebrit
      @fakebrit Год назад +25

      @@CoolNumber1
      In America there are a lot of people that are from different cultures and countries. A lot of them are family oriented. My family comes from Brazil and settled in the US. I am second generation born here and we carry on that tradition of family being first. In a country like the United States it’s hard to classify one type of mentality simply because it’s made of all different cultures.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад +7

      @@fakebrit So does korean women. It goes both way. NOthing is perfect, but on average, traditional culture have lower divorce rate compared to modern western women and men in the west.

  • @joycemorales5709
    @joycemorales5709 Год назад +24

    Yes, there’s misogynist men out there. Whether they are Koreans or not. Just an advice from a 57 years old woman right here, if you notice or have the intuition on your new date or has signals of being misogynistic etc… Please, cordially finish any further contact with that person because it would make your life a living hell. NOTE: IT DOES NOT MATTER WHERE THIS PERSON COMES FROM, THEY ARE OUT THERE EVERYWHERE.

  • @TanakaG2
    @TanakaG2 Год назад +116

    Given the rates of domestic violence against foreign wives (last I checked it’s 42%), the 3 Bs movement, digital sex crimes (Nth Room case) and how rampant hidden cameras are it’s a little meh that you’d even ask this question but you know you do you 👍🏾

    • @burrrrr8525
      @burrrrr8525 Год назад +2

      Yet 1 out of 6 American women have been raped like physically raped, what’s your point? Walk in the middle of night in philly let me know how it went

    • @thecoolintroverttv8381
      @thecoolintroverttv8381 10 месяцев назад

      Really?!😢

    • @izzati.888
      @izzati.888 4 месяца назад

      For real lmao. Not to mention the horrible patriarchy too

    • @user-vs1no7ku4r
      @user-vs1no7ku4r 3 месяца назад

      These statistics need additional explanation.
      You may have seen an article by CNN, which shows that most women from Southeast Asia and Korean men in their 50s or older are couples. It's a kind of 'trafficking marriage' where a man goes to Southeast Asia and finds a young bride. Most of these Korean men were born in the 1960s and 1970s, and they grew up in an environment where Machia Valleyism and male chauvinism were the basis of society. In fact, as of 2024 the violent crime rate (murder, assault, rape, arson) of the 50s is overwhelmingly higher than that of other generations. (statistics from the Supreme Court of Korea)
      The gap in values between generations is so severe that Korea's republican system was reformed six times from 1945 to 1988. (Now Korea is under the system of the 6th Republic) The older the generation, the more patriarchal they are, and the younger generation today does have tiny chance of patriarchal attitude. Usually a country develops while maintaining 'Avitus' for a long time, so this gap between generations may not be understood from the perspective of non-Koreans. It is also a side effect of rapid economic growth.
      If this explanation is too difficult, you can search for young Korean husband and foreign wife couples on RUclips. There are tons of young couples living happily together. This is the most undistorted and honest way.
      I hope this comment helps you understand korean society.

  • @_Julie_Bee
    @_Julie_Bee Год назад +96

    Did you really shame a woman for saying she's dated a bunch of guys in front of her boyfriend,while asking about misogyny? What's wrong with dating? Is she less desirable and she should shield the guy from the shame of her ways? It's 2023 !?

    • @Xshejfube61662
      @Xshejfube61662 Год назад

      You are the one who andrew tate is looking for

    • @pinkybat003
      @pinkybat003 Год назад +9

      tbh i think it's because people are easily jealous

    • @doxeado356
      @doxeado356 10 месяцев назад +1

      Come on don't be so weak💀

    • @_Julie_Bee
      @_Julie_Bee 10 месяцев назад

      @@doxeado356 men can stop being weak and lazy and evolve.

    • @user-km7qu2rt5k
      @user-km7qu2rt5k 10 месяцев назад +1

      Bro Get easy..

  • @Withmyguys
    @Withmyguys Год назад +70

    This was really interesting to watch. I enjoyed that you also interviewed an older woman to get her perspective as well and not just the younger generations. I like the expressiveness and answers of the woman that said not to depend on a man 😊 there is good and bad men everywhere, it’s important to get to know their values and who they are as a person, not just based on their race.

  • @stefheathcote6123
    @stefheathcote6123 Год назад +14

    I love the format of your videos and I’m so happy when I see a mixture of opinions - single, couples, young, not so young. I’m especially impressed with the 아주머니 opinion - and the older generation in general. It’s fascinating to hear the culture instilled pov!

  • @slight.penchant
    @slight.penchant Год назад +55

    Some acquaintances of mine were saying that most/all Korean guys are f*ckboys, but I was and I am still indifferent to such opinions, because "bad", misogynist guys exist in every country, as the interviewed people mentioned. And one more important thing was mentioned: you shouldn't generalise.
    Thank you for another cool interview!

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад +3

      I would generalise Korean guys as bad guys.

    • @slight.penchant
      @slight.penchant Год назад +1

      @@basugunja Do you have a bad experience with them?

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад +4

      @@slight.penchant May be, over Internet I had. Also it's been 3 years I have been exploring Korean Wave and Korean culture.

    • @KyleHong
      @KyleHong Год назад +19

      ⁠@@basugunja
      Talking to men over the internet isn’t really a good representation of what men are like in general.

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад +2

      @@KyleHong I disagree with you since some Korean RUclipsrs behaved rudely with me. Hence proved whatever I said are all genuine, and correct and are good representation only.

  • @golbinnom
    @golbinnom Год назад +11

    i think those tiktok comments that say all korean men are one way are mostly made by kpop fans who are minors and have never been to korea but have watched too many sensationalized videos about "dating korean men in korea". specially the foreign girls meeting guys in clubs or dating apps, of course they'll mostly end up being trash

  • @countrysidekookie2238
    @countrysidekookie2238 Год назад +28

    Ahah looking forward to part 2 where you interview foreigners on their perspective. I feel like this is where we will get the real tea. 💅
    But no, seriously, I liked their answers. I do think you can’t generalize and realistically there are good and bad people no matter where you go. I liked how the one woman said to have a strong mindset is a good way to avoid people who take advantage because it harder for them to manipulate you if you exert that strength.
    I thought it was kind of cute how the woman’s boyfriend seemed like he was listening intently to what she said.

  • @flowr530
    @flowr530 Год назад +26

    Maybe next you also can make a content about "How patriarchal are korean men ?" and ask it to men and women

  • @mema7474
    @mema7474 Год назад +15

    All types of men in every country.

  • @karee555
    @karee555 Год назад +86

    This is great. I get so frustrated hearing "dating in Korea is horrible" ...Dating everywhere is horrible! lol. And the woman makes a good point, people don't really talk about the good things. There are bad people everywhere. And the ones having poor experiences are finding men on Tinder or clubs (hey, I've done it too!) but to be upset when they're an fboy is a little silly.
    Basically..don't just outright trust a man anywhere? Not just Korea lol. I've had plenty of bad experiences in LA. Honestly the dates I've had in Korea have been much more pleasant.

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 Год назад +2

      Those people probably lived in Disney land lol.
      They don't know it's up to them to find a good, decent partner.

    • @Cloudnine422
      @Cloudnine422 Год назад +6

      @pruitv3maybe stop blaming women for men’s issues? It’s not a women’s fault that men get attracted to them based off the way they dress or how their body looks 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @peanutbutter-banana
    @peanutbutter-banana 11 месяцев назад +4

    misogyny isn't just on cheating on you, or hitting you, it's not just those things. it's about how they view women. like,, do they think that women are less than men? what are their beliefs about women, things like that.
    with the recent crimes there against women, where would that be coming from then?
    and i also noticed,, u asked one of the girls if "korean men are rude to them" not if men are misogynist so that's kinda not accurate

  • @katherinejimenezmatos2009
    @katherinejimenezmatos2009 Год назад +7

    Again, I dont think dating someone 3 times is enough to know who they are because in this stage of the relationship people is putting the best of themselves at display.
    And yes, the chance of meeting a decent person at a club in Korea is tiny small 🤣 advise from my korean grilfriend: better to meet guy throught friend than app.

  • @chapter_by_chapter
    @chapter_by_chapter Год назад +4

    You did a great job here🎉🎉🎉And I'm looking forward to the next in the series 😀 Thank you 😀😀😀🫶

  • @theescapetrix
    @theescapetrix 3 месяца назад +2

    The young lady made a great point about how people are way more vocal about bad experiences with men and not as vocal about positive experiences.

  • @skylou1189
    @skylou1189 Год назад +27

    The answers were so interesting and demonstrate much more balance than we usually see because of extremes pushing a narrative. So thank you for the great interview and insight 😊

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад

      Is because those haters were self hating asian or korean women who are feminists. They would take small sample of bad korean guys to make the world hate korean men. But in reality, most korean guys I've met were normal. I mean most people are normal anyways. That's why sometimes I don't feel sorry for some women who got abused, because some women are really evil and spread lies, therefore they deserved a beating. I only support good women, but as for evil women, nah fk them especially those self hating asian or korean women feminists.

    • @rosesavocado8557
      @rosesavocado8557 3 месяца назад +1

      Then why have over 80% of Korean men admitted to abusing their partners and over 60% have admitted to cheating on their spouses?

  • @casperwhiteman9769
    @casperwhiteman9769 Год назад +11

    I appreciate the diverse perspectives and voices featured in this video. It's inclusive and thoughtfully curated.

  • @keekzartist
    @keekzartist Год назад +19

    so do you think that korean women are generally oblivious to how this subset of korean dudes are out there treating non-korean women vs how they would treat a korean woman due to the perceived lack of ‘repercussions’ as it were? ( the whole lack of social circle crossover/ bad reputation getting out etc since ‘foreigners’ are rarely integrated or accepted into korean social circles) 🧐

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v Год назад +2

      Если человек поганый, то он ко всем плохо относится,либо носит маску. Порядочный человек одинаково отнесется и к иностранке, и к кореянке. И я юы советовала всех мужчин проверять на эти человеческие качества: доброта, милосердие, щедрость и куча других. Ибо с лица воду не пить, а красота в глазах любящего.

    • @ghadir2389
      @ghadir2389 Год назад +2

      they're talking about their own experiences why would they care about how their men treat foreign women?? it's literally none of their business lol

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад +1

      Very well said you.

    • @TravelingFoodie22
      @TravelingFoodie22 Год назад +1

      ​@@ghadir2389hello. Well the topic of the video is are Korea men misogynistic and it would make sense to hear from a variety of women including Koreans. Foreign women may or may not have a different perspective.

    • @ghadir2389
      @ghadir2389 Год назад

      @@TravelingFoodie22 well I got your point but op is not asking to hear from foreign women, they’re just wondering if Korean women are aware of how Korean men treat foreign women which I think is irrelevant to the topic because they’re answering based on their own experiences which has nothing to do with other women (foreign or not).

  • @redorangeneko
    @redorangeneko Год назад +4

    could you please make a video on how korean k-pop listeners feel about the increasing usage of english lyrics over korean in most recent releases? examples are Super Shy, Queencard, Hype Boy, New Jeans, Fast Forward, Seven etc

    • @redorangeneko
      @redorangeneko Год назад

      @@lorddogmav7259 yeah maybe that wasn't the best example of what I mean, but still hope he makes a video about it!!

  • @NaveGristle
    @NaveGristle Год назад +8

    They all seemed to perceive mysoginy, or sexism, as essentially a character trace, a problem of morality, whereas it should be better understood as a problem of social structures, culturally determined assumptions and ways of being in the world and relating to other people etc. Beginning with a limited conception, the reflection couldn't go very far and had a tendency to attribute guilt to the victims, as expressed in "be a better person and you will attract good people", "weak people remain in bad relationships" etc. But it is good to see their points so we don't overestimate the level of mysoginy in Korea.

  • @MuchAdoAboutMel
    @MuchAdoAboutMel Год назад +10

    Hochun...I have loved watching the evolution of your interview style. Is it weird to say I'm proud of you? Because I am. 🙂Rooting for your continued success Shy.

  • @egohernyo993
    @egohernyo993 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is not very representative... you basically interviewed the same six ppl.

  • @valaramorgulis8960
    @valaramorgulis8960 Год назад +2

    Sis in the green shirt is spillin truths ❤

  • @happyfeliz9014
    @happyfeliz9014 11 месяцев назад +4

    I wonder why did you use 'misogynist' in title. Because when you ask to people in korean you didn't say anything about 'mysogynist'. I noticed that you're just asking about 'bad men'. It's totally different concept. Their asnwer will be defferent if you ask about '여성 혐오‘ or '여혐’.

  • @stranger0128
    @stranger0128 Год назад +18

    Ofc the locals are gonna think majority of men are not misogynist bc they've lived in that culture all their lives and they think it's okay. Ofc there's also good and bad men in every country, but Korean people are actually threatening women who speak up on séxual harrá$ment and abúse on media. How they see it as normal is problematic.

    • @officialbenzine4075
      @officialbenzine4075 5 месяцев назад +1

      It is completely normal and right. I respect Korea for that. It's the Western world which is being ruined and destroyed because of toxic feminists and simps like yourself.

    • @officialbenzine4075
      @officialbenzine4075 5 месяцев назад +1

      Toxic feminism is problematic. Not patriarchy.

    • @stranger0128
      @stranger0128 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@officialbenzine4075 it's misogyny, not just patriarchy.

    • @stranger0128
      @stranger0128 5 месяцев назад

      @@officialbenzine4075 how come women standing up for themselves in a misogynistic society become toxic?

    • @officialbenzine4075
      @officialbenzine4075 2 месяца назад

      @@stranger0128 society is not misogynistic... there are unfortunately some misogynist men but certainly not the majority. We are normally used to live in a society where the men lead, take responsibility and build the world. The reason why it is like that is simply biology and not misogyny. Now that women are more stimulated to do these men roles, they feel so independent and are having a toxic mentality which makes them think that the world doesn't need men while the people who made our life much easier today are men... and that's the way how toxic feminists mainly think.

  • @lorrainezekri
    @lorrainezekri Год назад +6

    It was really interesting I don't think that going on dates is terrible specifically in Korea, I think that everywhere it is (at least in my country) at the end of the day it's meeting a stranger and trying to develop something romantic with him.
    I still think Korean guys treat Korean girls more seriously than foreigners, like they never be serious with foreigners (expect from some guys) because marriage a foreigners is not that welcome at Korea (we can see it in your other video 😉)
    Hope its understandable 😢

    • @KyleHong
      @KyleHong Год назад +1

      As a Korean, I think the biggest barrier for marriage outside of my ethnic group is mainly due to difference in culture. For my family specifically, it’s (1) Religion and (2) Culture. But sharing the same faith is a plus and knowing each others’ native tongue is also an added plus.

    • @olgamorozova6222
      @olgamorozova6222 Год назад +3

      ​​​@@KyleHongas a person who 14 years in international marriage, there is nothing like you mentioned in your comment. Religion is an essence of a human, but as long as you don't force it on your spouse and respect hers, everything will be fine. Same with culture. Culture is the least important. Actually could be opposite an entertainment, knowing new culture. Just don't force it and respect the other party. As for the language, we speak English 😂😂😂😂 I don't speak his native, and he doesn't speak my native 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KyleHong
      @KyleHong Год назад +2

      @@olgamorozova6222
      Hello Olga, I am glad to hear that your marriage is a success. My comment is not a rule of thumb, it is one of many ways to minimize potential conflicts and conflicts is what causes a rift in a relationship.
      As long as both parties are willing to set aside differences and be understanding of each other's culture then that's clearly a way to have a successful marriage.

    • @lorrainezekri
      @lorrainezekri Год назад +1

      ​@@KyleHong
      Hi, I understand what you're saying, it's just that in my country (Israel) everyone comes from different parts of the world, my father came from Morocco and my mother came from France, so almost no one is bothered by the matter of culture,
      But your first reason of religion very much plays a role in my country you don't need to believe in God or pray to him everyone has different levels of faith but yes it is important for a lot of people that the partner need to be Jewish.
      Many people from my country no longer care about dating foreigners because we are all already foreigners and come from different countries and the country is progressing and becoming more liberal and many people are also marrying people who are not Jewish.
      Everything is fine in every country it is different and has its own mentality, thanks for trying to explain to me!

    • @TravelingFoodie22
      @TravelingFoodie22 Год назад +1

      ​@@KyleHongI think it's a barrier if you make it a barrier. I feel cultural differences could be respected and honor. However, for some people it is important to them to have someone from the same culture and of the same religion. There's nothing wrong with that but as the person above said people from different cultures and/or religions can successfully have a relationship as long as there is respect and understanding just like cultures of the same culture and religion can have unsuccessful relationships.

  • @veronica7673
    @veronica7673 Год назад +2

    I agree with what they said in the video. There are a lot of factors to consider when dating:
    - first of all culture difference doesn't necessarily mean that one culture is better than the other. I've see a lot of times western people tend to apply "western criteria" to everything, so when they see something that in Western countries is not acceptable, they automatically think it's wrong. I realise I also tend to do that, but we should all try to understand different points of view.
    - second of all there are "bad people" and "good people" everywhere, and there are always exceptions. Even if there is a general way of thinking in a certain country, it doesn't mean everyone thinks that way. It's the same with the historical time: for example in my mother's family my grandfather was the one who usually cooked, and because of that most of my mother's brothers cook in their families too, even though in 900s it was mainly women who cooked.
    Idk if my message is clear 😅 but I think that we should not generalize and also try to stop "applying western criteria" to fields and places that are not "western"

  • @StarlightAngel948
    @StarlightAngel948 Год назад +5

    I agree with the girls that there are good people and bad people in every country. Also, Cha Eun Woo 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ChimChimChums
    @ChimChimChums Год назад +12

    Do they understand what misogynist mean...? Because they speak about good and bad men...which has nothing to do with the question asked...
    You can be a good man, sweet, polite, gentle and be misogynist... but that's ok.@5:49...do you even have the word "misogynist "in Korean?
    It's like interviewer who went to Morocco and ask how many genders are there? And people didn't understand the question. They would say 50/50, 2...

    • @happyfeliz9014
      @happyfeliz9014 11 месяцев назад

      Not at all.
      He didn't say 'misogynist' in korean. He used just 'bad guy'.

    • @user-km7qu2rt5k
      @user-km7qu2rt5k 10 месяцев назад

      There is, of course, the word misogyny in Korea (여성혐오)

  • @enooeeelelee_
    @enooeeelelee_ Год назад +2

    Anyone else confused by the way the blond girl's friend was acting during her interview?

  • @kimckawa
    @kimckawa Год назад +2

    Wow first two ladies are gorgeous🥰! Too much common sense being spilled here

  • @russianmarusya59
    @russianmarusya59 10 месяцев назад +1

    I will say I did notice the difference between videos, foreign girls said they didn't have that good of experience, while korean women majority said they had wonderful experiences. However a few times it's been stated that Korean men treat foreign women different then korean women which the opinions kind of show. Interesting video though :)

  • @keree7549
    @keree7549 11 месяцев назад +1

    Encore une fois ! C'est une belle interview ! J'aime beaucoup les réponses ! Évitons de généraliser dans un sens comme dans un autre . Les coréens sont des hommes il y en a avec de belles motivations et il y a d' autres avec de moins belles motivations. Après je pense que culturellement les coréens ont peut être tendance à être plus protecteurs. Mais de même on trouve des hommes misogynes coréens on trouve également des hommes protecteurs et romantiques en France
    Merci beaucoup
    J'aime vraiment vos sujets et la manière dont vous menez vos échanges
    Bonne continuation

  • @futuremindvintageheart9887
    @futuremindvintageheart9887 5 месяцев назад

    3:26 this women is so right shes very smart and this applies to all things in the news ppl always focus on negative the most and make it a bigger issue than it really is, good point.

  • @filoluleando
    @filoluleando 11 месяцев назад +1

    😅 maybe in next part ask about hidden camaras, gender violence in the home?, assault in the streets apparently 😢 saw some video about a case in Seul of a guy that stalking a girl and assault her and he was sentence only to 20 years, he is saying that when he is free is gonna seek revenge, veryyyy scary

  • @gastbaby7667
    @gastbaby7667 Год назад +18

    i have a friend who married a korean man and she told me she's never been happier, he literally buys her everything and treat's her soo good with all respect and loyality. really makes me wanna go marry one too 😭 I've also been to korea and the way korean men have manners is just so attractive. and not to mention how freaking good looking they are 🤌

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 Год назад +9

      ​@@pruneswithbutterher family could reject him too. Didn't think about that neither? That's the one of the hardships of interracial dating. Parents' approve.

    • @nononoo356
      @nononoo356 10 месяцев назад +2

      Then you don't know a thing about Korean men LOL

  • @KHatticus
    @KHatticus Год назад +3

    I think it's the same wherever you go. There are great people and there are awful people. I've met both in every country I've lived in...!

  • @aaat4873
    @aaat4873 2 месяца назад

    They haven't heard about the Burning Sun Scandal, the way they treat women in general, discrimination, etc, etc.

  • @Nancy_sihag
    @Nancy_sihag Год назад +7

    I guess most of your subscribers are foreigner like me .But we actually effected by the faces we saw in k-dramas .
    But there is a thing I noticed about young generation of Korea( As a part of Asia) they are not misogynist at all but also each person have their own prospectives related to each and every thing.
    But beside you there were a lot of happy and admirable couples I like them the most .

    • @rsdxxxx
      @rsdxxxx 11 месяцев назад

      there are definitely mysoginists in every age group unfortunately; i'm on language learning apps and have heard/ read some really (in my opinion) questionable statements about women, and the expectations men *think* women have for them... it can be really old fashioned, and uncomfortable to hear because it's often the exact opposite of my beliefs.

    • @nononoo356
      @nononoo356 10 месяцев назад +1

      That's not true. You never know until talk about gender with korean man

  • @honeymoonavenue97
    @honeymoonavenue97 4 месяца назад +1

    Jungkook and Jung Sung Il from the Glory. The top 2 most attractive Korean men omg

  • @yonnahorton7152
    @yonnahorton7152 11 месяцев назад +1

    You know, I have respect for Koreans, because if you asked a question like that to an American woman about American men, I bet they would swear up and down that they are the worst things on earth. The people in this video are super mature, and actually think about the majority and not just how they are conditioned or feel.

  • @rumsthatsme
    @rumsthatsme Год назад +1

    Men's view on dating women would also be interesting video. Have you considered interviewing men and checking if K-Drama is real for them?
    Beautiful way to do the interview. The women in this video are very wise
    Bad and Good men exists everywhere and in all countries. We just need to be careful and know about the person before getting into relationship

  • @JPAPA604
    @JPAPA604 10 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t think people understand word misogyny.. Why can’t men be men these days.. no one wants to be that Nice guy if any men are true to their biological instincts. Not saying go and abuse a female ofc that’s extreme but stop generalizing Koreans as misogynists.. We became soft with this K-pop era of Korea!

  • @DK.Nanayakkara
    @DK.Nanayakkara Год назад +9

    3:50 Girl spoke facts 👏

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад +1

      She spoke rubbish things, not facts.

  • @worshipthecomedygodseoeunk4010
    @worshipthecomedygodseoeunk4010 5 месяцев назад

    i lost any chance of meeting my korean father, bc he died when i was born. and idk why but when this topic comes up, it kind of makes me emotional. i guess because id want to think that he was a good father. being adopted, my parents were kind of abusive. so i guess theres a part of me that wishes that my birth parents werent like that.

  • @shamkand
    @shamkand 2 месяца назад

    Do some Korean guys treat foreigners bad, but the same guys would not treat Korean girls bad. I saw interviews in which Korean guys would be curious but say they would not be serious with foreign girls.😅

  • @michelfreeman9559
    @michelfreeman9559 4 месяца назад

    I also feel that there are good and bad guys in every country.

  • @guerlainse8613
    @guerlainse8613 Год назад +1

    Can you ask- Am I handsome. I'm in that profile picture. :)

  • @JuzzMe-xu4mu
    @JuzzMe-xu4mu Год назад

    All the women gave great answers, especially the girl with the green shirt 6:28 she is so right!

  • @Anshika-cx6uu
    @Anshika-cx6uu 3 месяца назад

    i can sense the emotional and mental intelligence of women is higher than men of previous interviews.

  • @FavsGranted
    @FavsGranted 6 месяцев назад

    I guess if a person has a bad character or intension they behave bad and visa versa. But people can change. Feel never too save. Even the good ones can turn into evil. 😅

  • @Nxghty-Knightmares
    @Nxghty-Knightmares 11 месяцев назад

    Guys if you live in America and learning Chinese anyway but not like actively trying is it worth and that’s your type & I’m waysian freshy because like people I know just speak in mandarin just out of habit if your a good person, I live in the rice village area of Houston so there are a lot of Asians and am somewhat attractive but short, (5,4.5) currently I will grow I just don’t eat enough. Totally unrelated question is it actually worth working on how you talk for the future because I have a gamer accent and am thinking about trying for Ivy League, I’m decently intelligent and if you do like commit to that stuff how many should you apply too

  • @JZL-hp5iz
    @JZL-hp5iz Год назад +1

    I think is that Asia as a whole but it’s actually three Chinese and Thai. It’s a very patriarchal society I like America but it’s like a lot more hard-core a little worse if you would. Like yeah you guys have like certain things in America that you can kind of expect a man to do and you’re willing to do but I feel like it’s just slightly more in the forest most of the time in Asia. In terms of like the roles you’re taking on and what you’re supposed to do, etc. whatever it’s also one of the reasons why I feel like there’s been a lot less young people being married or having kids over there because of the societal pressure not to mention we care so much about what other people and how society views and sees us. Play my mom had to go to hell and back with my dad when you want to marry him and have children and then when they both decided to relationship anymore and got divorced on mutual terms, both moved on and got remarried, nothing was like bad or anything, the long hedges, evolve and change Them up the tonic reading, romantically no matter how much they try to make this shit work. It was still one of those moments from her family and the way that just like played out and then even with her husband, my stepdad it’s actually probably a little worse the expectations they have on him so happens to be Chinese and it’s like yeah it’s just kind of how things play and work out.
    Not to mention you notice that most of the time when it comes to people talking about how shitty green guys are or Asian guys are sometimes besides, the fact that I am, do you have anger issues English is a huge issue in Asia in general especially Asian man, but because health mental health isn’t taking Super seriously and just like push it off and Alcoholism it’s like a huge issue and it runs rampant in these countries but no one wants to talk about it or admit to the fact that it’s an issue. But a lot of people who do end up finding selves only the worst end of the stick for foreigners or mixed race, people because they genuinely see you dating someone who’s mixed race as Jess Experience same thing with foreigners it’s not like they’re going to settle with you or they want you most of the time it’s like trying out the flavors of the rainbow for ultimately settling for something that email their families got into approval is that how everyone thinks know how a lot of people think over there? Yes because again society standards pressure is an alarmist. Also, sometimes it’s more of just the easier out it’s easier to be with someone who has exact same background long that I don’t understand things better there doesn’t have to be as much compromise because we both know exactly what would be expected of us.

  • @andrealimagalarza3469
    @andrealimagalarza3469 9 месяцев назад

    I’ve only dated one and yes he was 😂 but that doesn’t mean everyone is right?

  • @stranger0128
    @stranger0128 Год назад

    Comparing it to my country, here in the Philippines, most of the married women I know HOLD the financial power in their households, unlike in Korea where the husband does it. Bc in our culture Filipino husbands respect and trust their wives, they treat them as equals, which are marriages should be.

    • @2x1qsdqw40
      @2x1qsdqw40 Год назад +1

      in korea , its same. woman have financial power too here

    • @stranger0128
      @stranger0128 Год назад

      @@2x1qsdqw40 I've seen married Korean(both local) vlogging. Most of the financial power are handled by men. While some are either balanced(joint acct) or the woman handles it.

    • @2x1qsdqw40
      @2x1qsdqw40 Год назад

      @@stranger0128 who better knows about that ? i m korean. you re not even knowing at all i guess.
      go search
      just one case made you think like that?? funny !

    • @stranger0128
      @stranger0128 Год назад

      @@2x1qsdqw40 ofc you're gonna say it's not bc you grew up in that culture where women is submissive. The same locals who think extreme school búlly!ng is the norm. Also, local Korean couples have shared about it thru their vlogs, that it's typically the men who holds financial power in the household. Why would they lie abt it? 🙄

    • @stranger0128
      @stranger0128 Год назад

      @@2x1qsdqw40 it's not one case.

  • @06Yvonne06
    @06Yvonne06 Год назад

    Great interview!! All the ladies are right, of course 😂 and that's good for men as well. I also think that generalisations never get you anywhere and as the one girl said very correctly: Be a strong character and you won't attract the bad ones too much since they cannot have their way with you. I also agree it was important to have an older woman giving her opinion because specific behaviors and problems are different in generations, especially since Korea is changing so rapidly. Looking forward to the next one!

  • @Anonymous_422
    @Anonymous_422 Год назад +1

    Hey bro do the vice versa!❤

  • @fahima_study_713
    @fahima_study_713 Год назад

    nice 👌

  • @someguyik
    @someguyik Год назад +1

    Nice grift you got here. Trying to cash in on preconceived notions.

  • @LNF828
    @LNF828 10 месяцев назад

    Classic

  • @user-gt1kg7zv3v
    @user-gt1kg7zv3v 11 месяцев назад +5

    데이트한걸로 여성혐오 대놓고 드러내는 나라는 얼마없지않나?인터뷰어 개뻔뻔한듯 ^^~~

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 11 месяцев назад +1

      데이트한걸로 여성혐오하는 나라라니 여초 커뮤니티좀 그만해 ㅋㅋㅋ

    • @user-gt1kg7zv3v
      @user-gt1kg7zv3v 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@youknowwhoiam6057 뭔소리하냐고 데이트하면서 지가 여성혐오있는거 말하는 남자는 멍청한 놈 아님? 인터넷에선 지랄할지언정 앞에서 티내면 등신인데 ?데이트하면서 여성혐오있는거 느꼈냐고 질문하는게 이해가 안가서 그럼~차라리 여성혐오로 사이버불링 느껴봤냐고 묻는게 적절하지(여혐남혐 인터넷에서 제일심하니까)

  • @excripto1
    @excripto1 Год назад +13

    Korean men are known to be the most respectful and most loyal to women. They know how to treat a woman right.
    If I were to ask for any relationship or marriage advice I would ask any Korean man because they are in the longest relationships and have the lowest divorce rates especially the Korean men who are dating or married to foreign women.

    • @oobstinado3692
      @oobstinado3692 Год назад +21

      Fairy tales... Are you talking about other Korea? 😂😂😂😂
      It's not what girls say...

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад

      My fucking foot and shoes your comment is.

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад

      ​@pruitv3To hell with what Korean girls think; a foreigner's perspective in a country is the most important.

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад

      ​@@oobstinado3692Very well said.

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад

      ​@pruitv3And people who generalise Korean guys as bad are not woke but are traditional, chivalric and self-respecting only.

  • @youknowwhoiam6057
    @youknowwhoiam6057 Год назад +7

    Thanks for making this video.
    There are many pathetic people who want to bring Korean men down. Like Misogyny only happens in Asia or Korea. They are the loudest people and many of them wandering at RUclips and Reddit.
    Many young Korean men who have relationship are not misogynists.
    Being misogynist as young man means being outcasted by their friend group in Korea. Especially your friend group is diversed with men and women.

    • @jinnamonroll5684
      @jinnamonroll5684 Год назад +3

      You're kidding right

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 Год назад

      ​@@jinnamonroll5684no

    • @basugunja
      @basugunja Год назад

      ​@@jinnamonroll5684😅😅😅😅

    • @djotchuiangela9955
      @djotchuiangela9955 Год назад

      ​@pruitv3You used the word woke in your sentence I won't take that comment seriously

    • @youknowwhoiam6057
      @youknowwhoiam6057 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@djotchuiangela9955woke meaning: swapping race in movies will end racism.
      The woke you saying is not helping Asian at all.

  • @Sanismom
    @Sanismom Год назад

    From

  • @user-hq1qg6cj8d
    @user-hq1qg6cj8d Год назад +1

    바나나짓 적당히해라 검은머리야

  • @2x1qsdqw40
    @2x1qsdqw40 Год назад +12

    Statistics and gossip related to misogyny issues in Korea are exaggerated by Radical Feminists, and the reason why their voices can be voluminous also means that women's voices have enough weight in Korea

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v Год назад +7

      От чего же? Так ли они не правы? В Корее ужасно относятся к женщинам, это я вам говорю,как сторонний наблюдатель. Патриархат,что вы хотите. При всем техническом развитии корейское общество осталось в пещерном веке. Поэтому я отлично понимаю женщин, которые не хотят замуж. Вот зачем женщине муж,если у нее всё есть без него? Деньги,положение, захочет-секс. Муж будет качать права. Посмотрите,сколько женщин живут с мужем,как с соседом. Сколько женщин терпит абьюз, так как им кто-то сказал,что развод-это страшно. Поэтому она терпит урода, пашет на 3 работах,пока этот мужик лежит на диване. И он же отбирает ее деньги, наклепал 3 детей, она же свои деньги выпрашивает. Я видела такой ролик,гду иностранка вышла замуж за такого корейца. Я бы его отпинала и выкинула,если честно. Я сама кореянка, но родилась за границей. И у нас женщины получают образовпние и строят карьеру.В доходах не уступят мужчинам. И это отличное время.

    • @2x1qsdqw40
      @2x1qsdqw40 Год назад

      @@user-ly8vw3ej3v 한국에서 태어났지만 외국에서 자랐기때문에 당신의 관찰은 그저 관찰자에 머물러있습니다
      즉 편향되고 적은 정보와 일부의 진술에 의해 실제와는 거리감이있습니다.
      이 비디오의 여자들은 거짓말을 하도록 강요되어있습니까??
      한국에서 연애를 경험한 수많은 경험자들이 한국에서 남녀관계에 이해도를 가지고있고 당신은 그저 경험없고 무지한 외국인일뿐입니다
      나는 한국의 젊은 세대와 오래된 세대가 다른것을 느끼고있숩니다
      요즘 젊은 세대들은 여자들을 차별하고 억압하는 방식과는 완전히 반대의 상황입니다. 오히려 관계에서 여자들은 남자에게 요구하고 원하는대로 조정하도록 만든 사회로 진입했숩니다
      당신이 일부 영화나 자극적인 폭력적인 드라마에서 보는것이 전체를 대변하지않습니다
      만약 남자들이 여자를 억압하는 사회라면 왜 점점 더 많은 여성들이 한국인과 결혼합니까?
      왜 케이팝과 드라마는 여성들에 의해서 선호됩니까? 남성들이 좋어하는 그라마는 설 저리가 없습니다
      한국에서 여성의 목소리가 무게를 가진다는 증거입니다
      다시한번 말하지만 세대에 따라 여성을 다루는 방식이 급변했숩니다
      여성들이 즐길만한 대중 문화가 어떤 방향으로 나타나고있는지를 살펴보면 여성의 목소리가 얼마나 많이 반영되고있눈지룰 말해줍니다
      한국에서 2023년 지금 여성들은 여전히 가부장제에서의 경제적 책임을 오로지 남자에게 전가하고, 전통적인 가정에서의 책임을 반반 나누려고합니다.
      남자가 여성에게 나가서 일을 찾아서 하라고 요구하는건 폭력이고 여성혐오적이라고 말하는 페미니스트 이기주의자들이 점점 많아지기때문에. 한국에서 남자들도 결혼을 꺼려합니다
      다시한번 말허지먼 한국남자들이 여성을 다루는 방식이 끔직하면 외국인 여성들은 어떻게 한국남자들가 기꺼이 결혼합니까??
      수많은 행복한 스토리들도 많숩니다. 그저 당신들은 일부 과대망상 페메니스트들의 주장에 현혹되고있숩니다
      남자들이 사려깊고 돈을 잘쓰고 희생적이고. 센스가 있어야된다고 생각하는 여자들이 평범한 남자를 비웃고 비하하고 혐오하는 남성혐오 현상에 대해서조 이해할수있어야한다
      한국의 페미니즘이 과도한건 남성을 혐오하눈 여성들의 목소리가 지나치게 옳은것처럼 반영되고 남성들은 그에 대항할 목소리를 잃었기때문입니다

    • @shortycastella
      @shortycastella Год назад

      But the problem is, the radical feminist movement is its own beast compared to the west. We cannot compare the two contexts. I am a white westerner who grew up in a second wave feminist household. I am also married to a Korean man. The problem with third wave feminism and the radical feminism in Korea is that much of the rhetoric is venomous. A lot of extreme man hating, calling them derogatory names, justifying r*pe and molestation if it’s done by a woman. Because they are trying to get back at the men basically. Never once was I told growing up to hate men at all. We were encouraged to work together and not insult each other, because that goes nowhere in the end. A lot of people in the West have that misconception. The concept of feminism in Korea does not have the same connotation in the West.

  • @evarodriguez1000
    @evarodriguez1000 Год назад

    Really smart women!!!!! Such a good recommendations!!!!!🫶🏻

  • @patrickcian5663
    @patrickcian5663 Год назад

    you are handsome. Ask. Am I handsome? I'm just a model but still I like you a lot :)