I Do… But I Have a Few Questions First

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  • Опубликовано: 20 июн 2016
  • What are the #1 questions you should ask before getting married? Find out what Adam asked Tamera before saying “I do.”
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  • @itzyygypsy557
    @itzyygypsy557 6 лет назад +4450

    When he predicted that Jeanie and Freddy would separate 💀💀💀

    • @staciacharles
      @staciacharles 6 лет назад +90

      OMG RIGHT LMAOOOOO

    • @LuisGonzalez-wg2yz
      @LuisGonzalez-wg2yz 5 лет назад +28

      Omfg lmfaooo yes!

    • @moniquebobb7884
      @moniquebobb7884 5 лет назад +460

      The camera went straight to Jeannie, when he talked about 2 couples breaking up about not wanting to have kids. I felt that for her. LOL

    • @dianambaine3562
      @dianambaine3562 5 лет назад +13

      Yeaaaaah that!

    • @tubadlamini1653
      @tubadlamini1653 5 лет назад +36

      U tried it😂😂😂

  • @CoCoGemel
    @CoCoGemel 8 лет назад +3516

    Chiiiiiiile, that cameraman was SHAAAAAAAY-DEEEEEEEEEE at @1:07 up in Jeannie's grill like that. That was palm, oak, maple and willow trees all at once.

  • @AkirraRaheem
    @AkirraRaheem 8 лет назад +3661

    I just pray that God send me the man that I'm supposed to be with..

    • @97indianuk
      @97indianuk 8 лет назад +145

      Hope he does too, but before then focus on being the best person you can be and developing yourself before you get into your next relationship.

    • @AkirraRaheem
      @AkirraRaheem 8 лет назад +23

      +Indi jay I agree👏🏽

    • @monikaranee
      @monikaranee 8 лет назад +13

      Right there with you.

    • @1farahnaz
      @1farahnaz 8 лет назад +75

      He will sweetheart! Just the fact that you're turning to God to guide you to your future husband shows the sincerity and purity of your heart and soul. Never compremise or lower your standards of what a good man should be. You deserve to be treated with love, kindness and respect and make trust and respect the foundation of your relationship rather than lust and see what happends! I truly wish you the best of luck on your journey. Much love.

    • @AkirraRaheem
      @AkirraRaheem 8 лет назад +17

      +Farah H Thank you for your encouraging words! God bless!

  • @chatwithchante
    @chatwithchante 8 лет назад +3519

    Did Wendy's shady cameraman transfer to The Real? 😂😂😂 because that shade was in HD 😩

    • @ashasheera8441
      @ashasheera8441 8 лет назад +36

      Haha ikr.😂

    • @CoCoGemel
      @CoCoGemel 8 лет назад +19

      HD lmaoooooo

    • @mellery23
      @mellery23 8 лет назад +3

      lol

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 8 лет назад +98

      I'm thinking he picked up a second shift after the Real producers offered him a job based on his impressive body of work at Wendy's lmao

    • @deladulce
      @deladulce 8 лет назад +10

      chiile😂😂😂

  • @ItsHannahMarieC
    @ItsHannahMarieC 8 лет назад +2687

    The Real, getting tips from Wendy Williams's shady cameraman, why they have to zoom in towards Jeanie when Adam talked about kids 0:53-1:07

  • @sxcgirlieox
    @sxcgirlieox 8 лет назад +951

    Not wanting to have kids is definitely a deal breaker

    • @97indianuk
      @97indianuk 8 лет назад +53

      And family oriented.

    • @s_.777
      @s_.777 8 лет назад +69

      maybe for some, not everyone is the same.
      not everyone wants children and not everyone is suppose to children

    • @97indianuk
      @97indianuk 8 лет назад +25

      +CYBER FAGGOT exactly it's not for everyone some people just don't want kids and that's okay as long as you are honest with yourself and the other person and don't do it because your pressured.

    • @amysorel12
      @amysorel12 8 лет назад +7

      Not to me.

    • @Lalala-fz2ci
      @Lalala-fz2ci 8 лет назад +53

      For me, wanting to have kids is definitely a deal breaker.

  • @truworship26
    @truworship26 7 лет назад +536

    No one is perfect but I pray Tamera and Adam continues to have a blessed marriage. He is wise and she is wise I love them!

  • @threewishes8194
    @threewishes8194 8 лет назад +1112

    Shady camera man put the camera on Jeannie when they was talking about kids

    • @samara1139
      @samara1139 8 лет назад +17

      Soon as I saw that I checked for this comment😭

    • @aashianaedwards6949
      @aashianaedwards6949 8 лет назад +7

      YO FOR REAL I WENT STRAIGHT TO THE COMMENTS AND I SAID YO THE COMMENTS GOTTA BE CRAZY

    • @amandablose3310
      @amandablose3310 8 лет назад +3

      the director of the show gives the instructions of which of the camera's goes on...shady director

    • @Ten-ku4yj
      @Ten-ku4yj 8 лет назад +12

      You guys see everything lol I had to go back

    • @acharich
      @acharich 8 лет назад

      Amanda Blose 😂😂😂

  • @MsFlipflopsandsocks
    @MsFlipflopsandsocks 8 лет назад +857

    That cut to Jeannie at 1:07 damn.

    • @tanyal1674
      @tanyal1674 8 лет назад +6

      I noticed that too!

    • @LoveFinds
      @LoveFinds 8 лет назад +32

      I literally said "savage" out loud 😂

    • @serenequeen1575
      @serenequeen1575 8 лет назад

      😂 i did not notice that

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 8 лет назад +21

      LMBO I caught the Real producers being shady af there too. *smh*

    • @edemfiadonu2444
      @edemfiadonu2444 8 лет назад

      ikr!

  • @madwalka6402
    @madwalka6402 8 лет назад +1431

    Damn Jeannie looked so 😐 when Adam started telling the story about that couple. I guess because it applied to her and Freddie's situation.

    • @CBabeey
      @CBabeey 8 лет назад +21

      I know! I was just saying that! Poor girl.

    • @kindacrazyAna14
      @kindacrazyAna14 8 лет назад +118

      and the camera went straight at her too

    • @eonpahraye7625
      @eonpahraye7625 8 лет назад +23

      +kindacrazyAna14 I dead said the same thing... It shot right her.. More than one lol.. Like Remember America.. She don't want no kids America Remember lol

    • @peanutjelly727
      @peanutjelly727 8 лет назад +11

      yeah, that was so awkward. lol

    • @misscateyes
      @misscateyes 8 лет назад +2

      That was peak

  • @busimatyalana8844
    @busimatyalana8844 7 лет назад +617

    love it when Jeannie does her mom's accent😂😂😂

  • @mymyluv128
    @mymyluv128 8 лет назад +648

    why they do jeanie like that fam

  • @dyrandoms
    @dyrandoms 8 лет назад +2341

    lemme find out the real has a shady camera man like the real does lmaooo 1:00

  • @SupererDuperer
    @SupererDuperer 8 лет назад +1759

    "HOLD UP... YOU LIED..... hi Logan" so many emotions from Tamar 😂😂 this is why she will be missed, just bringing all the 100s and all the fire every time... 🔥💯 Loni you can try it....

    • @clarke4400
      @clarke4400 8 лет назад +7

      Yes and lol at the Loni comment 😂😂

    • @pookie7826
      @pookie7826 8 лет назад +16

      +cherry vanillaa it's been confirmed and she's getting her own tv show

    • @adl1585
      @adl1585 8 лет назад +7

      +cherry vanillaa Where the hell have you been for the past month? 😂

    • @simonnewman4252
      @simonnewman4252 8 лет назад

      +cherry vanillaa lol dumbass

    • @lillililli1726
      @lillililli1726 8 лет назад +2

      True

  • @santriciajones2579
    @santriciajones2579 8 лет назад +448

    I enjoyed this segment. But that shade at 1:06 tho. lol

    • @obibraxton2232
      @obibraxton2232 8 лет назад +2

      oh dear ... sigh.... lol hhhhhmm not funny

    • @hybriddiaz6849
      @hybriddiaz6849 8 лет назад +2

      Lmfao... same thought

    • @jasminedavis1946
      @jasminedavis1946 8 лет назад +6

      YEP I CAUGHT THAT. CAMERA PPL TO SHADY....THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

    • @user-ob4sh3iq9b
      @user-ob4sh3iq9b 8 лет назад

      HAHAHAHAHA

    • @AnahataHeart
      @AnahataHeart 6 лет назад +1

      Santricia Jones Ohhhhhhhhhhhh lawwwwwwwwdt. HA!!!! And now they're divorced. Smh

  • @LolipopLW13
    @LolipopLW13 4 года назад +30

    The look on Loni’s face after Tamar says she didn’t want children but vince did and she says hi to Logan, you can tell how much Loni loves kids and cares about their wellbeing

  • @BiancaVolcy
    @BiancaVolcy 8 лет назад +156

    That shade. Omgosh. And Jeannie's face. Wow. She was like "Um..." But Adam's right! Choosing to have kids vs not wanting to is a deal breaker for sure! That's why you need to communicate ALL your needs before you get married. It's not a game. It's a lifetime commitment. Well, it's supposed to be anyway....

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 8 лет назад +27

      the sad thing is they did talk about kids prior to getting married. Jeanie and Freddie both said they didn't want kids, over the years Freddie changed his mind and now they're in this situation.

    • @VHale-yz7hc
      @VHale-yz7hc 8 лет назад +2

      +Tany Britt happens all the time.its usually one person is on the fence and the other is for sure they do or don't and talk the other into it and it falls apart over time

    • @ARoseG46
      @ARoseG46 8 лет назад +4

      +Tany Britt I remember she has said that he always wanted kids. But he married her thinking that she would compromise or change her mind on that and she hasn't.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 8 лет назад +2

      ☕🐸

    • @samuelrochard1034
      @samuelrochard1034 6 лет назад

      YB V U

  • @ThePleaseReads
    @ThePleaseReads 5 лет назад +69

    Watching this now...Adam knows 3 couples who have broke up due to kids. 😩Cameraman called it two years in advance.

    • @cecej88
      @cecej88 8 месяцев назад

      Two divorced on that table and another from Jeanie 😢...god I'm happy to been single all these years😅....just procreation fun with a man ....never get tied down!! People are very unpredictable in recent years it's unbelievable 😱

  • @lenalyon6060
    @lenalyon6060 8 лет назад +94

    The camera man tried it😂

  • @mademoiselle3000
    @mademoiselle3000 8 лет назад +139

    Did anyone else notice how the camera panned on Jeannie @ 1:06 when Adam was talking about his friends getting divorce about kids....hmm shady cameraman is on "the real" also lol

  • @rochellesmith3948
    @rochellesmith3948 8 лет назад +182

    when the camera went on Jeannie during Adam talk lmao

  • @sasukefroupie
    @sasukefroupie 8 лет назад +323

    I tried to deny it but I can't...TAMAR IMA MISS YOU! You got on all my nerves but ima miss you!

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 8 лет назад +15

      Girl I'm with you. I miss her and I can't stand that I miss her 😭

    • @sasukefroupie
      @sasukefroupie 8 лет назад +5

      +Helena idk if it's just me but ever since I found out that Tay Tay is leaving I've been paying attention to Tamera more and I realized she won't hold that left end of the table all by herself lol

    • @mishcaxox9354
      @mishcaxox9354 8 лет назад +5

      I will miss her too!!

    • @MajesticMyronn
      @MajesticMyronn 8 лет назад +1

      +sasukefroupie well they are going through the process of finding a fifth FEMALE host ! because on Tom Joyner they asked Loni if there was a gonna be a male host , and she said " No , there is gonna be a female host , and we will have a fifth host because we want as many opinions & personalities as we can get "

    • @i_c_e_555
      @i_c_e_555 3 года назад +2

      @@sasukefroupie You predicted the future. Tamera’s leaving now

  • @samantha4887
    @samantha4887 Год назад +9

    Watching this in 2022 is insane - the fact that the camera went straight to Jeannie while Adam was talking...lol!!! That's crazy. Fast forward she's a whole mom now and married to someone else!

    • @perryton
      @perryton 11 месяцев назад +1

      I think it’s the producer backstage doing the shading…. 😅 the cameraman just followed instructions.

    • @cecej88
      @cecej88 8 месяцев назад

      Now she divorced to Jeezy and left been a single mama.😢

  • @lj1360
    @lj1360 5 лет назад +11

    I love how Howsley is so involved in this conversation. The girls are giving it to him and....he is giving it right back!

  • @angelicataylor90
    @angelicataylor90 2 года назад +5

    Not the camera looking at Jeanie when Adam said if you want kids and they dont they break up.....the camera man was either shady or could see into the future. 🤣🤣

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 Год назад +2

      Tamar gave Vince a child and they still got divorced so yeah...

  • @AliRokai
    @AliRokai 6 лет назад +152

    Straight forward til 2017 and they getting a divorce. Adam was right without even knowing it 😂😂

    • @Forever20young
      @Forever20young 5 лет назад +3

      Ali Rokai 🙋🏽‍♂️😏 Hi what's up Ali? How are you doing? You're really cute 😉 to me so if you're single and into guys then feel free to message me on IG. My screen name is Forever20young❗Ttyl❓🤷🏽‍♂️😉

  • @missbrownskin0
    @missbrownskin0 8 лет назад +42

    That awkward moment when Adam talks about not wanting kids, as a deal breaker and the camera zooms in on Jeannie

  • @Nahal3
    @Nahal3 8 лет назад +52

    Adam is awesome! Very intelligent

  • @jaybird5589
    @jaybird5589 8 лет назад +29

    i honestly love when adam is on the show because he adds in such good points about whatever the topic is

  • @5my9other93half
    @5my9other93half 8 лет назад +17

    I believe there are 4 things that should be discussed in this exact order: Sex, Money, Politics, Religion. If a couple can get those things down pact their fundamental basis will be resolutely strong and will have laid the groundwork for a successful marriage.

  • @kingly1407
    @kingly1407 2 года назад +5

    Shady ass camera man lmao! Went straight to Jeannie when Adam talked about breaking up over wanting kids lol

  • @KiaDeeNe
    @KiaDeeNe 8 лет назад +57

    I looooovvvveeeee when Jeanie mimics her mother's accent. I find it so funny. It will never get old

  • @MichelleRom
    @MichelleRom 4 года назад +13

    I loved seeing Adam on there. He seems like such a cool, chill dude!

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 8 лет назад +153

    i think you should ask questions way before we ( the men ) even PROPOSE ! Like with Jeannie & Freddie , J let it known that she did not want to have kids before they got married ! because you wanna know what your dealing with before you even take a further step !

    • @bleubelle4339
      @bleubelle4339 8 лет назад +1

      +Jay Bugg So true...i understand that things change and i feel for him missing oit but he made that decision.

    • @Natz682
      @Natz682 8 лет назад +5

      you know something in me tells me that Freddie is going to get lucky one of these days, Jeannie is going to give him that bundle of Joy that he needs❤... I feel it yow!!!!!!!

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 8 лет назад +4

      +Jay Bugg Freddie pulled a Vince

    • @myhextixmind8632
      @myhextixmind8632 8 лет назад +4

      +Jay Bugg True. Which is annoying because everyone says that it is her fault.

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 8 лет назад +18

      Jeannie did say that they had an agreement that they weren't going to have kids, but overtime she noticed the look in his eyes when they were around kids or kids were brought up. When women say they don't want to have kids people expect them to change their minds because of the emotional attachment most women get when wanting kids. So Freddie probably thought that in time that would happen for Jeannie.

  • @asisiphoclay1568
    @asisiphoclay1568 3 года назад +10

    Jeanie always knew her awkward marriage wasn't going to work out but she spoke of her marriage as if things were ok or she was just reminiscing on the good moments

  • @arielrogan2904
    @arielrogan2904 8 лет назад +38

    The shadeeeeee at 1:08 when they put the cameras on Jeannie!

  • @camileahnrox47
    @camileahnrox47 8 лет назад +174

    Jeannie's face @1:10 was like: shiiiiii.....

  • @x3Stoopid
    @x3Stoopid 8 лет назад +240

    Camera man, why you do my girl, Jeannie like that?! 😂😂😭😭😭

  • @Averia89
    @Averia89 8 лет назад +20

    Haha, when that camera man zoomed in on Jeannie when Adam was talking about breaking up over kids...the shade of it all 🕶🌂🌵🎄🌲🌳🌴🌞!

  • @alexiastargirl
    @alexiastargirl 8 лет назад +213

    I hope Jeannie and her husband work through the 'I want kids, I dont want kids' situation

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 8 лет назад +52

      girl I am pulling for them so hard. I would hate for that to become a catastrophic issue between the two of them. They have my favorite marriage.

    • @bahnaanahmed801
      @bahnaanahmed801 6 лет назад +29

      Sadly 1 year later they couldn’t 😐

    • @arianacollymore7091
      @arianacollymore7091 5 лет назад +11

      They didn't☹

  • @noemoralesgomez9318
    @noemoralesgomez9318 6 лет назад +11

    If you notice, Jeannie was really reading into the fact that people have broken about wanting or not wanting kids.

  • @ninijames8717
    @ninijames8717 3 года назад +5

    That camera man is shady zoomin in on Jeannie like that 😭

  • @DePiagetfan
    @DePiagetfan 6 лет назад +21

    When Adam said one wanted kids and the other didn't so they broke up, shady cameraman went straight for Jeannie.

  • @lebengm1
    @lebengm1 7 лет назад +8

    Before I go out on a date, I ask all those questions. I don't have time to waste. Thank you!

  • @Whoareyoupeople900
    @Whoareyoupeople900 4 года назад +8

    When you talk about marriage bring up the topic of money. I told my fiance we couldn't get married cause we wouldn't be able to support ourselves. He tells me that gave him a goal to reach for and now he's driven to do as well as he can. I'm proud of him

  • @TiffanyNicholeCatley
    @TiffanyNicholeCatley 8 лет назад +88

    I had to pause on Jeannie's face at 1:07. She knows damn well she shouldn't be with someone who wants kids and she doesn't. It's sad.

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 8 лет назад +32

      Well at least she is thinking about it because when they first got together they both decided on no kids but Freddie changed his mind

    • @TiffanyNicholeCatley
      @TiffanyNicholeCatley 8 лет назад +1

      +blackfemme Yeah, unfortunately life changes people's perspectives. I didn't remember her saying that Freddie didn't want children initially. Hopefully they'll make it together no matter what happens.

    • @santriciajones2579
      @santriciajones2579 8 лет назад +11

      Thank you! People seem to forget that they are married and you can't just up and leave when you've made a big commitment and love is there.

    • @laurarizik3225
      @laurarizik3225 8 лет назад +2

      i agree. i absolutely love freddie but they shouldnt be together anymore. he wants children and she doesnt, he should move to someone who does.

    • @laurarizik3225
      @laurarizik3225 8 лет назад +2

      not ha ving children is a big thing. if i want children and my husband doesn't i dont care how long we have been married we need to move on.

  • @PrincessShanice17
    @PrincessShanice17 8 лет назад +92

    #Dead, the way Jeannie turned her head had me cracking uppppp with her Mama Mai story!

    • @chatwithchante
      @chatwithchante 8 лет назад +2

      Lmaoooo at which part? After the kids part? Or the Mama Mai story?

    • @helenatube
      @helenatube 8 лет назад +1

      I think she's referring to 1:07 when Adam discussed the issue of kids causing marriages to break down. Producers are shady as hell.

    • @mej.2008
      @mej.2008 8 лет назад +1

      Yeah, gotta love Mama Mai!! If anyone is bold enuff to ask that question, she is :)

    • @PrincessShanice17
      @PrincessShanice17 8 лет назад +1

      @monicawilson693 The Mama Mai story

  • @emilybrinegar7011
    @emilybrinegar7011 4 года назад +7

    My dad told me when I got engaged that you should be able to talk about 2 things in marriage: sex and money. If you can't talk about those, it's gonna be hard to have a happy marriage. I also think you should be on the same page about kids.

  • @jqueen3494
    @jqueen3494 5 лет назад +28

    When they said “Eventually one wanted kids and one didn’t and they broke up” and they turned the camera on Jeannie 😭 😭😭😭SHADEEEE

  • @writerspen010
    @writerspen010 7 лет назад +8

    I want a show episode with just Jeannie and Mama Mai. They seem like they have a wonderful, loving relationship, and their stories are the best!

  • @poopsieperez
    @poopsieperez 6 лет назад +9

    I appreciate Adam's point of view.

  • @MichelleRom
    @MichelleRom 4 года назад +8

    You know when Tamara saw this she was like “Adam!!” Lol! He was just speaking the truth, tho.

  • @CBabeey
    @CBabeey 8 лет назад +14

    Jeannie was listening intently when Adam said that his friends broke up over one of them not wanting kids lmao she hoping that don't happen to her and Freddie.

  • @calm_b4thestorm582
    @calm_b4thestorm582 4 года назад +9

    Adam "u get half no matter what, so idk whats the problem" 😂😂

  • @aurghh
    @aurghh 6 лет назад +1

    So glad they brought up finances. So important

  • @lenanorman7847
    @lenanorman7847 8 лет назад +3

    good to hear Adams perspective on things

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 4 года назад +7

    Jeanie come thru everytime 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @clarke4400
    @clarke4400 8 лет назад +7

    Adam better not put things in Freddie's head 😳 😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂. Love Tamar and Adams relationship on the panel. Loved the way he answered Tamars question.

  • @fuluify
    @fuluify 4 года назад +25

    Jeanie just didn’t wanna have children with Freddy, she didn’t love him like that. I bet she’ll be having a baby by jeezy pretty soon

    • @cche16
      @cche16 4 года назад +2

      she's 41 so it's highly unlikely and he has so many kids already so i doubt it.

    • @fuluify
      @fuluify 4 года назад +4

      cche16 she froze her eggs, so she might. Mark my words

    • @cche16
      @cche16 4 года назад +1

      @@fuluify that's just insurance in case she'd ever want to down the line. she did it a while ago. she still says she doesn't want kids. she'd probably be in her mid-40s. she won't be almost 50 having kids and jeezy has enough. i don't think she likes kids that much based on her interactions on the show whenever they're mentioned.

    • @fuluify
      @fuluify 4 года назад

      @@cche16 okay

    • @rizikrizik1395
      @rizikrizik1395 3 года назад +2

      She doesn’t want kids overall. It’s pretty obvious by now she doesn’t like them

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 4 года назад +5

    The credit score one is another biggie. You don’t have to be rich to have a good score, but if you are irresponsible and neglectful of your bills, you are the same way in other areas of your life and that is a dealbreaker. My mom had a pretty good credit score and then she married my stepdad and her score plummeted right down along with his.

  • @lamoskgr
    @lamoskgr 3 года назад +3

    Adam was so right about the babies situation

  • @keialove-black3950
    @keialove-black3950 6 лет назад +3

    I Liiiiiiiiiive for Jeannie’s impressions of Mama Mai! 🤣👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @JackGeezy85
    @JackGeezy85 8 лет назад +2

    LOL Jeanie and Freddie perfect example of what Adam is talking about

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 2 года назад +2

    Criminal record is key for me ,finances, health issues, then kids.

  • @ladyL21
    @ladyL21 8 лет назад +23

    What would you do if I Po?! 😂😂😂😂😭😭

  • @sophiaclovis8512
    @sophiaclovis8512 8 лет назад +10

    the shade the real threw when they put Jeanie on camera after Adam said two of his friends marriages broke up after disagreements on having kids😐😂

  • @Denise-ob8dk
    @Denise-ob8dk 7 лет назад +1

    Jeannie's hair is the bomb!!!

  • @JaCrispyTV.
    @JaCrispyTV. 4 года назад +3

    As soon as he said breaking up over kids, I came straight to the comments.

  • @nayvalentinegaming
    @nayvalentinegaming 5 лет назад +5

    I think Adam is right when it came to a boy becoming a man at 30 I am 25 I’m young still figuring life out and my man is 29 about to be 30 we talked about kids and like planning EVERYTHING the moment we made it official he showed me EVERYTHING his finances and credit score how much he made and i was like 🤨 I thought he was showing off but then he made him and myself a spreadsheet me and him could edit and it was planning our apartment together our future house what we want to do before we have a baby and I felt better about moving forward and proud to call him my man

  • @youaintneverlied
    @youaintneverlied 8 лет назад +155

    And once again Loni had nothing to add

    • @youaintneverlied
      @youaintneverlied 8 лет назад +3

      The point is (since you don't know or can't figure it out) that she's on the panel and bc she doesnt want to get married does not mean she doesnt want a relationship wherein there could also be deal breakers. Please. I don't want to have to break this down for you again. Step off and get yourself a life.

    • @youaintneverlied
      @youaintneverlied 8 лет назад +5

      OMG here we go with the "you people". You don't know A THING about me.
      I don't need to watch the whole show to feel free to make a comment on one of the clips. It's a free country... right? I'm free to put my opinion here... right?
      Now. I'm going to respect your comment and opinion of Loni where you didn't have the same consideration for mine.
      God bless. Have a good nite. And stop with your own brand of hate"fulness" when someone has an opinion different from your own.

    • @janiyahmc7901
      @janiyahmc7901 8 лет назад +3

      +youaintneverlied she wasn't hating she was just telling you her opinion which I think is right

    • @cassandratype4
      @cassandratype4 8 лет назад +11

      She actually mentioned enough in the intro: criminal records is very important..

    • @ceecee8766
      @ceecee8766 8 лет назад +6

      +Naomi Bargnani you are right , I think Loni is the most knowledgable person on global issues and it is evident when the topics arise in the show , even in relationships she does have an input , while I do agree sometimes she tries to bring up the bacon and brown liquor , when she opens up she actually is probably the best contributor on the panel

  • @michelem7914
    @michelem7914 4 года назад +3

    He is perfect for Tamera. Wow.

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 4 года назад +4

    Nowadays I feel like the list of questions is even longer:
    -DO you have a secret baby?
    -Have you ever dated another man before?
    -Are you biologically a male?
    You wouldn’t believe the kind of crap people hide these days. 👀

  • @simpliicharlotte6124
    @simpliicharlotte6124 8 лет назад +11

    Enjoying the last few episodes with Tamar on.

  • @BRITTWOODNESHIE
    @BRITTWOODNESHIE 8 лет назад +12

    This was a good segment. Got some great tips from this.

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 лет назад +1

    I absolutely believe that it's not about what you say but it's about how you say it to your partner that will not make him/her feel uncomfortable.

  • @menat8100
    @menat8100 8 лет назад +1

    I love Adam and listening to his perspective...I was missing Tamera saying HOUSLEY lol
    love those two

  • @maroonisgone
    @maroonisgone 8 лет назад +6

    OMG when she did mama mai I hit the floor. This is a great night for youtube

  • @toomuchfourU
    @toomuchfourU 8 лет назад +6

    Ok I think adam should be the automatic alternate when tamera is not there. I would say he should be tamar's replacement but you can't have both him and tamera on the show at the same time. But adam is so honest and down to earth.

  • @jellybeankisser
    @jellybeankisser 4 года назад +3

    NO...before you get through the first 3-5 dates you should be asking these questions so that when the answers don't match up you can break up sooner and not waste each others time.

  • @gudgurlgonebadd
    @gudgurlgonebadd 8 лет назад +5

    I think finances need to be discussed when both of u start discussing the possibility of getting married one day

  • @jessicawatt8647
    @jessicawatt8647 4 года назад +5

    For some reason I feel like Jeanie never loved Freddie, the way she talks about him and their relationship I never see it as her speaking of love. You can just tell

  • @MsWaitrose
    @MsWaitrose 8 лет назад +5

    For Black and Asian people one of those questions better be 'Whats your genotype?' Prevent Sickle Cell

    • @CoCoGemel
      @CoCoGemel 8 лет назад +3

      yes!!! It's sad when a child is unfortunately born with the disease because their parents didn't care to check beforehand.

  • @denisheabates7660
    @denisheabates7660 4 года назад +1

    I just pray in General

  • @hannahhaynes1048
    @hannahhaynes1048 4 года назад +2

    This is so good! 👏🏼💕

  • @adl1585
    @adl1585 8 лет назад +190

    Really Jeannie? Finances? That's the biggest thing you and Freddy should agree on?
    I'm just saying.....👶👶👶

    • @joejill51lala
      @joejill51lala 8 лет назад +44

      MYOB

    • @adl1585
      @adl1585 8 лет назад +1

      +joejill51lala Make me! ✋

    • @Emily62524
      @Emily62524 8 лет назад +48

      Um they both had that discussion before marriage and they agreed not to have kids. He was the one who changed his mind later down the line.

    • @mademoiselle3000
      @mademoiselle3000 8 лет назад +15

      The number one cause for divorce is finance so I would say it's a valid question.

    • @Andeavor
      @Andeavor 8 лет назад +14

      Well, finances was part of what ruined my sister's marriage and it was her husband who was latching on. So...

  • @mbasazita5197
    @mbasazita5197 5 лет назад +3

    Tamera you did well

  • @MasonPerry7
    @MasonPerry7 7 лет назад +1

    I think you should order your questions appropriately, finances should be the last question you ask.

  • @estelarodriguez9653
    @estelarodriguez9653 6 лет назад

    its soo interesting when adams on the view hes not shy and says what he thinks !!!!he should take over when tamera cant

  • @adetola1000
    @adetola1000 7 лет назад +4

    ADAM is on point

  • @angelicarivera9272
    @angelicarivera9272 6 лет назад +3

    woahhhh when the cameraman focused on Jeannie when he was talking about couples who have broken up because one wanted kids and the other didn't

  • @starbutterfly197
    @starbutterfly197 7 лет назад +1

    Awwww!! This was posted on my brothers Birthday🎉👏🏽👏🏽

  • @vanessabyrne8079
    @vanessabyrne8079 5 лет назад +1

    I loveeeeee Jeannie’s hair styles 😍❤️

  • @KiarixHikari
    @KiarixHikari 8 лет назад +6

    that shade the camera man through at Jeannie. We see you!

  • @AGdancestudios
    @AGdancestudios 8 лет назад +3

    I LOVED THIS

  • @JavaughnCampbell
    @JavaughnCampbell 5 лет назад +1

    THE SHADE!!!

  • @cassandratype4
    @cassandratype4 8 лет назад

    Very good topic, I am taking notes just in case

  • @MsCathy42
    @MsCathy42 4 года назад +4

    Wish my parents had talked about having children. My mom wanted children and my dad didn't.

  • @sameekaluster4541
    @sameekaluster4541 7 лет назад +5

    Lmao when Tamar said, "Lies!" too jeannie saying finances!!! Girl fckn bye, tell em Tamar! Luv me sum Tay.

  • @DPeacockFilms
    @DPeacockFilms 4 года назад

    That was super shade... that palm tree had a cape on and flew through the sky with this one!
    🤣

  • @ojurerekingsley7307
    @ojurerekingsley7307 8 лет назад +1

    tbh you have to ask the little questions as well, how often do you shower, morning or evening how often do you talk to your mum?, do you have outstanding loans? could you afford your funeral if you were to die today? but seriously all aside, ask about everything.