The Homophobic FC Leader
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"I didn't want to be part of the drama, so I blocked them." - This is something I legitimately cannot understand. This person was reaching out to OP and they ignored the one person that was trying to warn them by considering it "drama". I don't think this person deserved what happened to them at all - but they likely could have saved themselves a lot of pain if they'd taken a moment to hear the other side of the story.
Y'all - sometimes when stuff that seems like "drama" is happening, you should actively be paying attention rather than turning away and hiding from it.
Easy to say this as a viewer. Wanting to prioritize your peace in said moment isn't something you can fault OP for. It's not their job to minimize.
Let this be a lesson to you all. The person who gets singled out and exiled from a friend group likely offers a small truth of the situation. They are often exiled to hide any wrong doings of the side that did the shunning.
I cant believe op blocked the one person that was trying to reach out. Im not saying op deserved this, but this probably could have been avoided it op just listened
Imagine being homophobic...IN FFXIV OF ALL GAMES!
Like how the hell does that happen
That's like playing dream daddy and complaining its too gay
I mean sadly, the general FFXIV community isn't nearly the safe space for queer gamers as one might think it is. The game does have a decently sized LGBTQIA+ population, that's true, but as someone who's been around since the beginning, it's really not as prevalent as you'd think from first glance. We all tend to move in similar circles so it definitely can seem like the game is mostly accepting of progressive ideas and equality/equity, but the truth is that there's still a large subsect of the community that vehemently is against all that stuff. Shout Chat in most major cities is a perfect example of that.
@@ColorOfSakura yeah every MMO tends to have established LGBT+ communities, unfortunately every game also has large subset of horrible people. XIV is no exception.
The XIV SEA community is largely homophobic.
Especially indonesian and malaysians.
If Kate ever saw my pink hrothgar in my skimpy dancer glam she’d cease on the spot
"Mr Hrothgar.. I don't feel so good"
I got kick for being Korean and straight. I didn’t even lie that I was straight. Being midlander was huge part. After I help find them fc house and help with housing glitching. “Imagine being straight in 2022.” Was last thing they said to me before kicking me. But my friend who bi can stay.
@catlover-qh8pq Midlander boring to someone people. That's the point. I don't like highlander. Females are to buff. They told me anyone but Midlander. I said no and just like that. Kicked :(
@catlover-qh8pq Nice. I never thought of it that way . I wish they could be like you. Understanding. Sometimes I just think back and say I dodged a big bullet. As long as we are happy with our characters. Nobody should care right? ^^ It did hurt for a while but I got over it.
ngl, I wish I get to meet crazy ppl like these ones from your stories. I'd love to make them even crazier
4:50 was a bish move. I dont like how OP fell into the bystander effect and blocked the poor guy who got kicked out the FC for being an introvert.
Just imagine adults making drama like high school kids in a game full of story content and lots to do. Instead you turn it into a some playhouse of sounding like twitter.
Kate sounds like an insecure 13 year old. Id my FC leader was acting like that the first day I would've blocked them and left before Any of it got to that point.
We (my coleader and I) started an FC because of all the drama that was happening in our old FC. Half the active players followed us to our new FC, and we’ve kept fairly free of any drama ever since. Any time we recruit a new member we try to be very supportive, but because we are small yet most move on to bigger FCs. Still, we’ve bought members houses, helped them level, made them whatever gear they need and more. We try our best to give them a good experience. We have a variety of people and we love them all. This is all to say that there are those of us who try to be good FCs to those who join us, so keep on looking.
hearing someone else's side of the story that clearly has them as the victim and this dude just blocks them wtf. all this drama he received was deserved
agreed. I really wonder if he bothered to unblock that victim after discovering how Kate is a bat shit crazy bsh
The FC Leader became the very thing she swore to destroy
People are crazy. The only nice people I know are only nice for a few weeks or a few months before their true colors comes raging out. I had a FC leader who was cool for about a week before telling us we needed to give him the million gil we received for being on a preferred server and reaching level 30 so he could buy a plot. Very pushy about it. Apparently we didn’t need the money for anything else.
It's like I always say, never underestimate the audacity of people when they're behind a keyboard.
Why can’t FC leaders just be chill? I’m a leader but I don’t really do anything or make anyone do things. I just have buffs on and my friends do their things. We will sometimes hang out to catch up cuz we all play differently in ff14. An fc full of dorks.
The irony of calling someone sexist and then saying that women's clothes don't belong on a male character LOLOL
They said it feels forced and they didn't like it
Ehhh, I just dont like how the clothing doesnt form right. It happens with all clothing. I hate to say it but It is really due to the game engine. For example, that Yakuza youkata they added a patch or two ago, standing is fine but sitting and such, I hate how gravity just becomes ignored. Its such a small thing that I just ignore it. Only reason why I dont invest much into the game other than dungeons, trials, savage and ultimates. Love me some boss fights.
How is that even remotely sexist? And to which gender exactly?
It's fine if you have some kind of sick fetish for wearing women's clothes as a man but seriously, dial back the perpetual victimhood.
I still remember that one time I was promoting my FC, and I said something along the lines of, "LGBT+ Friendly," and then some dude was bitching about it. I just couldn't help but laugh because if I was pushing for shit like, "if you don't join our FC, then you're homophobic," that would've been one thing, but I said nothing like that at all, so it felt so random and unwarranted.
As a straight cis dude, "LGBT+ Friendly" may not refer to me specifically but I absolutely do not want to join an FC that isn't that. It seems like such a common inclusion in FC promo blurbs now, that when I DON'T see it mentioned, I have to wonder why. There's so much dog whistling and coded language these days, even the words you _don't say_ are deafening silence.
@@0Fyrebrand0 Admittedly, I don't care if people say that they're LGBT+ friendly or not. I just wonder why anyone would be up my ass when I say it, especially if I'm not forcing them to join because I say that we're LGBTQ+ friendly.
@@0Fyrebrand0 When people point that out it is for a certain reason, same reason you won't see a lot of straight dudes in gay bars.
@@CADPgamer Why don't you include races, ethnicities and differently abled people in your promo then?
Any FC that has to broadcast which "marginalized" groups they support are just virtue signaling.
Do people have to announce their sexuality when they join the FC?
Then why the heck does it matter?
@@edenarchive4150 In all honesty, the only reason I brought up LGBT+ was because I assumed majority of us were, and I figured that I might as well bring it up. It just never crossed my mind at all at the time to mention other ethnic groups.
Relatable. My introduction to 14 was also being used to farm crafting shards
wait....charlotte kate??????????????????????????????????
What a LOVEly story lol
As someone who plays on Famfrit I know of who you speak. I normally see them dancing near the jades. From what I can tell they seem harmless, then again I don’t interact with the limsa regulars.
@@rufo840 theres a LOT of stories that come out of that fc and I would not be surpirsed in the slightest if it was Charlotte Kate causing these problems 🤣🤣
I thought it was her too haha. I remember awhile back she was in some shout chat match at Limsa with like two other people.
I hesitate to believe this story without hearing both sides
This is why I’ll never join an FC unless it’s made by a group of extremely close irl friends.
I feel like the kind of person who wants to be an FC leader is probably the worst person for the position.
My fc had multiple dramas… We still have our FC house! I don’t remember some of the details but my fc really likes to joke about it a lot and we think it’s hilarious. Luckily the people that are left are memelords and shit posters.
An online mmorpg is not a place to facilitate discourse on equity, leftism and progressiveness. (As in, if one is a mentally vulnerable person/shy/person who happens to be marginalized, honestly empower yourself through your own skill and hard work first by eg studying or grinding your own journey through whatever field of your choice.) I'm saying this as a progressive, leftist who is pro-equity myself by western Canadian/American definitions. Online games are owned/populated by 6 - 12 year old mindsets, stating that with no connotation. It's the truth, watch some psychology video's, healthygamergg, read a psychology book, take a few psychology courses if you're in school instead if one needs empowerment. Honestly, as a fan of playing FFXIV myself, it is my genuine advice that one shouldn't every really 100% trust members of an online gaming community to act diplomatically, equitably and progressively. Games are a beautiful thing!, just don't take human encounters one makes in games to have any real potential of being a genuine relationship. (Generally speaking.)
Peace and love.
21st century Urangier
@@brofourtwenty2143 godammit now im reading it in his voice
men in thighboots are too feminine?? wait til she learns about historic military leaders outfits 😂
jackboots must mean all Nazis were also gay, in this guy's alternate timeline.
heil homo!
Or high heels.
Men were the ones that originally wore them.
These stories are really discouraging me from being in a FC
There are great FCs out there! Just gotta find it!
@@pathra I got into for the story was thinking about joining one once I get to heavenward still in ARR
Instead of joining FCs I usually just friend people I like on discord and message them instead, no reason to be flying anyone's banner just to play with people.
@@AhamkaraMommy exp buffs, and its really convenient being able to ask for some random small help later on when you dont have NN anymore 🥰
@@revolutionarydragon1123 Don't let this deter you from joining FCs. If you don't like it, or you can't really vibe with the members, it's perfectly okay to leave. The game doesn't penalizes you for it. It may take a few tries until you settle on one that's a good fit for you. :)
I wonder how many people would rather not be in fcs right now. fcs have been rough for me. One drama after another. I personally started a fc for myself and my alts just to make trading items to myself easier. I'm not in a real fc
I'm glad I found an FC where people don't talk or hang out. Is just for the buffs.
I need something like this actually. But I raid on aether so the buffs from crystal don’t even carry over 😢
Based👍
Awwww I hope their lil huddle has found a nicer place now!
I got kicked from an fc after leaving the discord. I was planning on leaving anyway but still weird
Refreshing to hear about another of my kind, we are becoming slightly rare unfortunately.
Imagine being forced for accept everyone on an online game, people can do/think whatever they want as long as they dont break ff14 rules.
Wait what is homophobic here? XD
this drama series hit different like true crime hehe
I could see why people need lbgt fcs . I personally don’t care what someone does in their bed , it’s a game .
that's why I have made me and ONE friend FC and its called alone, xD
ROFL a fresh sprout =)
This is why I love my Fc. This is just yikes.
FC = Food Buff.
Bing bong
Yes?
@@ProjectBongo So you agree?
@@Gortash I am the Bing Bong, Yes.
The left eats their own👍😂
Kate sounds like a wonderful leader and worthy to own an FC
my fc leader is gay
this is why fc's are bad lmao too many crazy bishes on ff14 XD been playing it since ARR started and there have been a few cray cray fc's i had the misfortune to join .
also using the word homophobic as click bait as a gay guy i kinda wish you didn't do that because it was just one of the things of many this fc lead did. it just doesn't sit right with me. but you dont care right? #dramanerd
Tbf I thought long and hard about the title. I asked the OP if they did think they they were as well as if they like the potential title and they said yes. They even wrote the word in their story so it’s not actually “that” much of a clickbait as you think it is
to be fair, its kind of gross seeing male characters wear feminine stuff. I can see where it's a problem
I'm making another male miquote drag glam just for you. Stay mad
They are quite rare thank god. Devs aren’t based enough to restrict masculine/feminine clothes to the respective sexes
@@questionablebackyardmeows Some people are just turned off by clowns.
It's a personal preference thing.
Lmao a person wearing a piece of fabric is gross ? Dude we're animals, we're born to be naked. Further more, you're really complaining about how someone dresses they unreal character ? 🤡
@@williambirkin7960we're a part of the animal Kingdom, sure... But we're far different from animals. Self awareness and shit
Why tf would you be homophobic in xiv. Game is mad gay
Oh I got news for you.
I've never seen or heard of two same gender characters in the game that have had sex.
How is it gay?
@@edenarchive4150 Majority of the playerbase and FF enjoyers are literally queer lmaooo.
Based FC Leader