Val and OP were both so toxic! Also 100% she was going to ERP during that first "blind seamstress needs to fondle you to fix the family kimono" session. It's crazy to me that someone can spend 20+ minutes detailing online dating and ERP sessions but then barely have a few sentences to dedicate to a RL marriage that they moved across continents for. "We got married, I moved and then we got divorced. The end!" What the hell? EU FF14 players I am praying for you; OP is single and on the prowl.
These stories are wild. I am definitely playing a completely different game. My WoL is out here with no thoughts in his head, collecting rocks, and crafting furniture.
i've been rping in ff14 for 3 years, and honestly... if the person your irl dating is notr comfy with erp.. you don't do it. Any time any character i play tries to rp date i make sure their SO is chill with it best I can. i've had cases where ppl muddy the waters whe i make it clear that my character is always Lite IC when im online. and that character is separate from my irl me.
I honestly don't even do lite IC. I'm either IC, with my RP tag, or I'm not. As someone who has worked as an escort in game and in character, people mixing up IC and OOC interactions is a huge fuckin problem.
It's hard to feel sympathetic for the op with how the story ended, like val still a huge red flag but soon as the op done the thing for the 2nd break up, I lost all sympathy for them, like two wrongs don't make a right and I can't even call it a revenge story with how it ended
It always blows my mind, when girls are like "So I had to get rid of this jelly bf who got obsessive, accusing me of vile things I would never do. If he has such a low opinion of me, I am better off without him." *proceeds to do all the things the ex was afraid of right away without any self reflection*
lol as a male.. i don't pounce on anyone. I just enjoy listening and hearing out these stories. Just gives a perspective how everyone is from their point of view while sharing the same FF world.
As a Behemoth resident, the BR server is 100% Behemoth. One of my first friends on FF is Brazilian nd it’s been awesome watching his English improve (even if he says it’s bad) But fr Brazilians are some of the funniest people I’ve ever met I love their humor
21:42 this was my very first reading i came to in game so this was a really funny moment for me; glad it made it into the video! can't wait to come to the next one~
@@pathra I hope people just give feedback on it so I wanted to put mine out there! If more people prefer this by all means keep doing it, I’ll watch either way.
OP was cheating on val theyre both toxic i dont feel sympathy cause op left out the reason val changed her name on psn is because she had messages where she was erping behind his back
I can never understand the need to ERP outside of your relationship/marriage. Really tripping that respect you're supposed to have for your partner/spouse
Honestly, idk what you mean at the end. I've seen so many people "pounce" on the red flag waving men in these stories. The biggest one being Avery recently. So, idk. Clearly this is one side of the story, it always will be. From what she wrote, there might have been reason the guy was so insecure and accusing her of ERP cheating. Not that his insecure behavior was okay, it was ew. Both of them were kinda trash.
There's no doubting that was Val did through out this whole thing was YIKES AF. But it has to be acknowledged that OP pulled their own shit in the end too. Both of them are red flags. I also hope OP informed, and got consent from, the other guy they threw into the middle of all this (and made poses of). Instead of doing that though, they could've just called-out and dumped Val when they insisted on entering the room and goin' off like they have the right to tell OP who they can/can't RP with, and when they should go to bed, etc. OP should of told them right there and then that they don't own them, have no right bustin' in here, are creepy AF for stalking them like this, and can leave now coz they're dumped.
My kind of girl Portuguese and I also wouldn’t shame someone for stuff like that granted, I’m not good at RP at least somewhat not good. I’m not gonna go into context. lol
This sound op is not saying everything you said he was jelly and you keep playing VR yeah you was doing more than getting hit on during VR chat before you broke up
Hmm no faulting op for what they did really, especially over something like RP or ERP. Hell I enjoy both myself, of course I make it expressly clear that it is a character to character interaction and not between writers. Had past experiences with people who like the muddy the water and mix it with rl resulting in feelings getting hurt.
OP was definitely in the wrong for that. It’s fine to enjoy both, but if you have a partner that’s uncomfortable with you ERPing or views it as cheating and you do it anyway, it’s wrong.
Okay I was here for it until the whole Lenz thing. I do not believe for one second that the Lenz situation happened at all. Val was also weird but I’ve seen worse.
This is the type of story you have to take with a grain of salt. OP is most definitely a liar and a manipulator. She’s purposely leaving things out of the story to make herself look like the victim. And she’s trying to make it seem like Val deserved to get cheated on because he caught her…knowing damn well she was going to cheat anyway. And he knew it. That’s very manipulative. I’d like to hear Val’s side of the story.
Yayyy! Just when i was about to have lunch a video from ya to watch alongside having lunch! Omg that winking bunboi in the omega glam is sooo distracting lol. Omg that catgirl's expression was like mine on that point of the drama
People have a responsibility in any relationship to communicate what they want out of it and what their boundaries are. That being said I'm inclined to side with her because it seems he struck the first blow and it was a triple whammy: He betrayed her trust while borrowing her account, called her a w**re and embarrassed her in front of any friends she had on the service. I think she's validated on any retaliation after that point.
16:33 --- I wonder where OP got the money from... I mean, those VR headsets and stuff, then a phone... not to sound like a pennypincher, but these things are pricy... 28:49 --- Never thought of it like that XD 29:17 --- And the boyfriend was cringe and jealous. We can play this game both ways, guys :P You aint the only part of the human species that gets horny XD I must say, OP has quite the journey behind them... Brazil, Germany, Italy... Go visit the Lago di Garda should you ever be up North. I can recommend that little village Limone for a short holiday ^.^
@@kiiturii I have no idea what the average wage in Brazil is nor what the precise prize for these items is, though since VR is still a quite new technology, I imagine it doesnt come cheap. Also, I didnt say its "sus", I said "I wonder...", by which I meant just that: "I wonder...". Dont jump to conclusions. Thank you.
Kudos to OP He played her, manipulated her, and cheated on her. He then got back with her to scam money out of her. She got closure and vengeance. If she were my sister I would be telling her I am so proud.
Idk if your right about warning of guys jumping on her at the end but personally when its a guy player i roll my eyes females that make that jump are far more entertaining
i love this, the end too, in a game i sometimes use alts to pose as my new guy to get someone jelly, never liked possessive bfs so when they get like that, i use alts or a random guy just to pose
@@ねこ男の子i have alts so that i dont buy fantasias 😅 my main and 2 alts are in friend fcs (so i can be in all of them) and one is my mansion haver on dynamis. there's a person in my fc that has more than 10 alts (14 as of 2022 but i don't know how many there are now)
@@ねこ男の子 idk i have alts so i can be in all my friends fcs (different friend groups), one is for a mansion on dynamis (3 alts and 1 main), and i make them so i dont spend money on fantasias. i know a person who has at least 14 alts because they like designing characters. i'd say most alts arent made with malicious intent, some people make them for raiding, retainer space, fc rooms, house designing, not wanting to rp on main, lots of different reasons
I hate ff players man…like some of yall need to go touch grass I tell my friends who are just down bad. If you want a e girl just go play ff14 you’ll definitely find someone 😂
@@atomheart7907 cuz i like laughing at how bad FF players are. i play FF but god do i think the community is beyond down bad. With personal experinces and shit ive seen just how bad the community is
Darling... are you aware that Hawaii is an American state? And Brazil is a different country? And people in countries outside of where you are also like to play online game?
These drama stories are so good because even a chronically online loser like me feels normal when you hear these
bro fr
Val and OP were both so toxic! Also 100% she was going to ERP during that first "blind seamstress needs to fondle you to fix the family kimono" session.
It's crazy to me that someone can spend 20+ minutes detailing online dating and ERP sessions but then barely have a few sentences to dedicate to a RL marriage that they moved across continents for. "We got married, I moved and then we got divorced. The end!" What the hell?
EU FF14 players I am praying for you; OP is single and on the prowl.
These stories are wild. I am definitely playing a completely different game. My WoL is out here with no thoughts in his head, collecting rocks, and crafting furniture.
same mine just afk in FC yard mostly
Mine is mainly focused on finishing up splendorous tools before DT
LEAVE THE CARBUNCLE ALONE
Rip Carby😢
Holy shit, sending the pics with the ERP text is absolutely sinister behaviour! Lmaooo
i've been rping in ff14 for 3 years, and honestly... if the person your irl dating is notr comfy with erp.. you don't do it. Any time any character i play tries to rp date i make sure their SO is chill with it best I can. i've had cases where ppl muddy the waters whe i make it clear that my character is always Lite IC when im online. and that character is separate from my irl me.
I honestly don't even do lite IC. I'm either IC, with my RP tag, or I'm not. As someone who has worked as an escort in game and in character, people mixing up IC and OOC interactions is a huge fuckin problem.
The real hero of this story is hester the girls girl 😂
It's hard to feel sympathetic for the op with how the story ended, like val still a huge red flag but soon as the op done the thing for the 2nd break up, I lost all sympathy for them, like two wrongs don't make a right and I can't even call it a revenge story with how it ended
Yeah I'm not sympathetic at aaaaallll. The OP was just as horrible. Constantly ERPing with other people on the sly.
When will people learn glam is the real end game
atleast these stories make me feel normal.
Edit: OP is emotionally challenged.
It always blows my mind, when girls are like "So I had to get rid of this jelly bf who got obsessive, accusing me of vile things I would never do. If he has such a low opinion of me, I am better off without him." *proceeds to do all the things the ex was afraid of right away without any self reflection*
OP is so insane she swings around to becoming based, lol
OP: I don't like exposing myself online...
Also OP: YEAH, VIRTUAL SMEXY TIMES! LET'S GO!
my whole reaction boils down to "but why?" "for what purpose??" in no particular order, ad nauseam
lol as a male.. i don't pounce on anyone. I just enjoy listening and hearing out these stories. Just gives a perspective how everyone is from their point of view while sharing the same FF world.
As a Behemoth resident, the BR server is 100% Behemoth. One of my first friends on FF is Brazilian nd it’s been awesome watching his English improve (even if he says it’s bad)
But fr Brazilians are some of the funniest people I’ve ever met I love their humor
Yayyy just when I needed a pathra video
i like the part where the insta queen told on the guy to OP. that's a real friend.
Moral of the story DON'T GIVE ANYONE YOUR ACCOUNT
It's crazy to me that he changed her PSN name to that, and she still went back to talking to them.. yikes lol
21:42 this was my very first reading i came to in game so this was a really funny moment for me; glad it made it into the video! can't wait to come to the next one~
dats my girlfriend
Ok so, OP decided to just add on to the drama
Mail order bride savage
I liked it more when we could see the whole group of people
I can go back to that! Definitely just wanted to try the /icam
@@pathra I hope people just give feedback on it so I wanted to put mine out there! If more people prefer this by all means keep doing it, I’ll watch either way.
@@pathra people abusing emote spam so their faces are shown like 80% of the time kinda ruins it
Every day, I thank the twelve that I never got into the RP scene or E-dating.
guy still won a 1500 dollar phone lol
I didnt ignore the red flags, i just thought it was an amusement park
OP was cheating on val theyre both toxic i dont feel sympathy cause op left out the reason val changed her name on psn is because she had messages where she was erping behind his back
I feel you fam, but he started all this by constantly talking about another woman while he was with OP.
I can never understand the need to ERP outside of your relationship/marriage. Really tripping that respect you're supposed to have for your partner/spouse
I have a feeling like Val wouldn't put that ERP name on the PS account without sense, like op is being sincere but still skipping stuff
We get you bro.
GRASS GIVE THIS PERSON GRASS
The Idle Camera really likes this one WOL lol
They kept emoting! XD
Sorry about that 😅
I just learned that certain emotes can lock the camera on you 😂
If this was my story you couldn't torture me to post it publicly. The lack of self awareness is stunning
OP needs to touch grass badly
People be having a good time in game 😂
Honestly, idk what you mean at the end. I've seen so many people "pounce" on the red flag waving men in these stories. The biggest one being Avery recently. So, idk. Clearly this is one side of the story, it always will be. From what she wrote, there might have been reason the guy was so insecure and accusing her of ERP cheating. Not that his insecure behavior was okay, it was ew. Both of them were kinda trash.
There's no doubting that was Val did through out this whole thing was YIKES AF. But it has to be acknowledged that OP pulled their own shit in the end too. Both of them are red flags.
I also hope OP informed, and got consent from, the other guy they threw into the middle of all this (and made poses of).
Instead of doing that though, they could've just called-out and dumped Val when they insisted on entering the room and goin' off like they have the right to tell OP who they can/can't RP with, and when they should go to bed, etc. OP should of told them right there and then that they don't own them, have no right bustin' in here, are creepy AF for stalking them like this, and can leave now coz they're dumped.
My kind of girl Portuguese and I also wouldn’t shame someone for stuff like that granted, I’m not good at RP at least somewhat not good. I’m not gonna go into context. lol
*hands Pathra a ring box* what is this? It's a target ring... I'm trying to keep that uptime 😎
This sound op is not saying everything you said he was jelly and you keep playing VR yeah you was doing more than getting hit on during VR chat before you broke up
HEY I SAT IN ON THIS STORY TIME!
Both are red flags.
That's not how credit cards work at all, lol. They dont pile on fees for not paying the full balance. Also, NGL, that's some hoe'ish behavior
that poor carbie
Their character is dope lmaoo.
Damn and I thought I was bad🤣
Omg! You can't make these stories up!👀😳😂😅
Hmm no faulting op for what they did really, especially over something like RP or ERP.
Hell I enjoy both myself, of course I make it expressly clear that it is a character to character interaction and not between writers.
Had past experiences with people who like the muddy the water and mix it with rl resulting in feelings getting hurt.
OP was absolutely in the wrong for this, what
OP was definitely in the wrong for that. It’s fine to enjoy both, but if you have a partner that’s uncomfortable with you ERPing or views it as cheating and you do it anyway, it’s wrong.
Okay I was here for it until the whole Lenz thing. I do not believe for one second that the Lenz situation happened at all. Val was also weird but I’ve seen worse.
12:55 Sure, Pathra
This is the type of story you have to take with a grain of salt. OP is most definitely a liar and a manipulator. She’s purposely leaving things out of the story to make herself look like the victim. And she’s trying to make it seem like Val deserved to get cheated on because he caught her…knowing damn well she was going to cheat anyway. And he knew it. That’s very manipulative. I’d like to hear Val’s side of the story.
Yayyy! Just when i was about to have lunch a video from ya to watch alongside having lunch! Omg that winking bunboi in the omega glam is sooo distracting lol. Omg that catgirl's expression was like mine on that point of the drama
4:52 max piggy mentioned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a FFXIV Drama story, but with a happy ending, does that count???
Sure ^.^
idk OP sounds like a serial cheater for me 🤔 Sus as F
$1000 for a phone is crazy
I hear these stories... then heres me... anti-social in ff14 XD
Early for once, I love this series
Im so confused whos the bad guy? lol
it's not a bedtime story..
vrchat crazy
I know nobody is going to ever say this so I'm just gonna say it here: OP should to take a page from Stoic philosophy.
Val and OP deserved each other. Holy toxic. 😬
val got a free phone think he wins on to the next
RPers are so odd
Why is OP pretending to be a savage raider? She's clueless.
People have a responsibility in any relationship to communicate what they want out of it and what their boundaries are. That being said I'm inclined to side with her because it seems he struck the first blow and it was a triple whammy: He betrayed her trust while borrowing her account, called her a w**re and embarrassed her in front of any friends she had on the service. I think she's validated on any retaliation after that point.
16:33 --- I wonder where OP got the money from... I mean, those VR headsets and stuff, then a phone... not to sound like a pennypincher, but these things are pricy...
28:49 --- Never thought of it like that XD
29:17 --- And the boyfriend was cringe and jealous. We can play this game both ways, guys :P You aint the only part of the human species that gets horny XD
I must say, OP has quite the journey behind them... Brazil, Germany, Italy... Go visit the Lago di Garda should you ever be up North. I can recommend that little village Limone for a short holiday ^.^
Goes both ways ;)
OP stated that they had a job at an international firm; for Brazil, that means they were likely decently compensated compared to average.
brother normal people work for their money, how is buying a couple midtier priced items sus in any way, if they said they didn't have a job then maybe
@@NoWorriesLa Oh okay, I missed that one.
@@kiiturii I have no idea what the average wage in Brazil is nor what the precise prize for these items is, though since VR is still a quite new technology, I imagine it doesnt come cheap. Also, I didnt say its "sus", I said "I wonder...", by which I meant just that: "I wonder...". Dont jump to conclusions. Thank you.
Kudos to OP
He played her, manipulated her, and cheated on her.
He then got back with her to scam money out of her.
She got closure and vengeance.
If she were my sister I would be telling her I am so proud.
Idk if your right about warning of guys jumping on her at the end but personally when its a guy player i roll my eyes females that make that jump are far more entertaining
Oh I was just basing it off past videos. But in the end you’ll never know how majority will take a story! It’s interesting to always see
i love this, the end too, in a game i sometimes use alts to pose as my new guy to get someone jelly, never liked possessive bfs so when they get like that, i use alts or a random guy just to pose
You're weird for that. Alts in general are sus lol
@@ねこ男の子i have alts so that i dont buy fantasias 😅 my main and 2 alts are in friend fcs (so i can be in all of them) and one is my mansion haver on dynamis. there's a person in my fc that has more than 10 alts (14 as of 2022 but i don't know how many there are now)
@@ねこ男の子 why? that's just funny lol
@@ねこ男の子 idk i have alts so i can be in all my friends fcs (different friend groups), one is for a mansion on dynamis (3 alts and 1 main), and i make them so i dont spend money on fantasias. i know a person who has at least 14 alts because they like designing characters. i'd say most alts arent made with malicious intent, some people make them for raiding, retainer space, fc rooms, house designing, not wanting to rp on main, lots of different reasons
putting ppl thru childish tests like that is immature & a huge red flag
God, this RP is some of the worst writing I've ever heard.
I hate ff players man…like some of yall need to go touch grass I tell my friends who are just down bad. If you want a e girl just go play ff14 you’ll definitely find someone 😂
brother why are u here then lmao
@@atomheart7907 cuz i like laughing at how bad FF players are. i play FF but god do i think the community is beyond down bad. With personal experinces and shit ive seen just how bad the community is
I mean I just do my dailies and raid. Youre not going to see stories about the average player because thats boring.
Leave us alone 🤣
Brazil? What's next people from Hawaii 🤪
Darling... are you aware that Hawaii is an American state? And Brazil is a different country? And people in countries outside of where you are also like to play online game?
@@kellevichy that was sarcasm 🤣but half the people online think they need a passport to get to Hawaii 🍻🤙
Tea time! 🫖
This is gonna be fun!