Mad 😀how you nailed it so well x ❤pretty sad though , isn’t it ! & also great for the victims!! In the end ! Because everyday you suffer, means everyday you’re getting stronger 💪🍀big love everyone x stay strong & be lucky , Godbless yous all
Thank you! I love the way you describe them as predators and us as prey. So true. I feel like a mask slipper. I don't back down, I tried for almost 2 years. I accept he can't be honest or confess. I'm feeling into his crazy energy as boring and dull black and white and I want a colorful life ❤ New sub here thank you so much❤
@phoenix.444.rising the hardest part for me now is wondering whether any of the love was really real. It seems like it was all a means to an end and that is truly sad.
@@CoachKlein26 I feel that completely. I’m not sure if a narc ever really loves because they secretly don’t love themselves, so they can’t love you in a way. I do think that they may care about you a little bit here and there. They need you more than you need them a lot of times, so they cling to you, but play mind games. Be secure in the fact that you loved and that is the most important part of the memory. You were capable of love and deserving of love regardless.
I left almost a year ago after 12 years of that and it destroyed me. She was also extremely dismissive avoidant and it flipped me over from anxious attachment to fearful avoidant.
This is 100% spot on… I am a first time narcissistic abuse survivor… and this is by far the best video I have found on the subject, as I am researching what it is I freed myself from… I love you for making this video!!! Please marry me!
I encountered one of these. She made a big mistake. She smelled my trauma, and saw im kind. I found her diagnosis. She hid it from me. But even when she tried to embarass me in front of everyone, i managed to flip it on her
Sure, a narc especially views as prey anyone with a lot of empathy for others. Aka an 'empath' you might say. Except an informed, educated empath is a narc's kryptonite. They find out quite quickly they picked the wrong 'target'.
@@kennethlapointesongwriter3330 30+ years ago , the internet didn’t exist. Narcissists have it much harder nowadays..Tons of good content on narcissism. It has been an invaluable resource. Gave me the wisdom to go no contact
I want so badly to feel loved- he got me in a stay I had at a psych hospital- omg!!! This is so so true!! I’m about to throw the whole towel away! As I don’t think I can continue to live- he did hook me - but now it’s so bad!! Yes they do! He tells me every day how ugly and valueless I am- I am so sad so broken- I feel he stole my soul!he gives me nothing I wake up crying! He tells me shut up if I even dare to talk- I have so much trauma - I need help!! Please
@@VanessaWills-u1f I do hope that you have a support network where you are. That would be the first step. And starting to separate from him little by little would be really good
Hahahaha, I like how you illustrated what we do in the shadows with narcissism. Absolutely vampirism. Nandoor too is a great example.
@@grantbruso lol! I saw it and couldn’t help it. Now I can’t unsee that 😂
Mad 😀how you nailed it so well x ❤pretty sad though , isn’t it ! & also great for the victims!! In the end ! Because everyday you suffer, means everyday you’re getting stronger 💪🍀big love everyone x stay strong & be lucky , Godbless yous all
@@JamieWharton-o4l thank you so much - but it is so fun for the victims 😭 and absolutely! Thank you!
Thank you! I love the way you describe them as predators and us as prey. So true. I feel like a mask slipper. I don't back down, I tried for almost 2 years. I accept he can't be honest or confess. I'm feeling into his crazy energy as boring and dull black and white and I want a colorful life ❤ New sub here thank you so much❤
@@ceceb9082 I feel just the same - and we deserve colorful lives.
This was such a wonderful video. It really hit me hard because it explains everything. I'm glad I escaped.
@@CoachKlein26 thank you - I am so glad you escaped as well!
@phoenix.444.rising the hardest part for me now is wondering whether any of the love was really real. It seems like it was all a means to an end and that is truly sad.
@@CoachKlein26 I feel that completely. I’m not sure if a narc ever really loves because they secretly don’t love themselves, so they can’t love you in a way. I do think that they may care about you a little bit here and there. They need you more than you need them a lot of times, so they cling to you, but play mind games. Be secure in the fact that you loved and that is the most important part of the memory. You were capable of love and deserving of love regardless.
This is real truth, real talk, real life.
They are HORRIBLE people! 😢😢
@@ValerieStancillyu6qt it’s so sad
I left almost a year ago after 12 years of that and it destroyed me. She was also extremely dismissive avoidant and it flipped me over from anxious attachment to fearful avoidant.
@@stl2nola72 I’m so sorry - I am also so glad you left
😍 that “ I know your game “ beautiful smile. So smart..you definitely know every one of their angles
@@Joe-hf3cn lol thank you!
This is 100% spot on… I am a first time narcissistic abuse survivor… and this is by far the best video I have found on the subject, as I am researching what it is I freed myself from… I love you for making this video!!! Please marry me!
@@UnitedVine I’m so glad to have helped 🙏 and I am so proud of you for surviving
I encountered one of these. She made a big mistake. She smelled my trauma, and saw im kind.
I found her diagnosis. She hid it from me. But even when she tried to embarass me in front of everyone, i managed to flip it on her
@@jknott1509 oof - I’m so sorry. I’m glad you flipped it!
@phoenix.444.rising all I had to do was publicly post her absurd claims and her attempts to reach out to newer partners
Sure, a narc especially views as prey anyone with a lot of empathy for others. Aka an 'empath' you might say. Except an informed, educated empath is a narc's kryptonite. They find out quite quickly they picked the wrong 'target'.
@@kennethlapointesongwriter3330 30+ years ago , the internet didn’t exist. Narcissists have it much harder nowadays..Tons of good content on narcissism. It has been an invaluable resource. Gave me the wisdom to go no contact
@@kennethlapointesongwriter3330 so true!
Thank God I Left Her. My Peace Means Much More In Jesus Name And The Holy Spirit 🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏
@@alexrodriguez1100 amen to that. It’s all about peace!
I want so badly to feel loved- he got me in a stay I had at a psych hospital- omg!!! This is so so true!! I’m about to throw the whole towel away!
As I don’t think I can continue to live- he did hook me - but now it’s so bad!! Yes they do! He tells me every day how ugly and valueless I am- I am so sad so broken- I feel he stole my soul!he gives me nothing
I wake up crying! He tells me shut up if I even dare to talk- I have so much trauma - I need help!! Please
14 years
Yes I am ahot mess
He videotapes me!!
Wow
@@VanessaWills-u1f I do hope that you have a support network where you are. That would be the first step. And starting to separate from him little by little would be really good
@@VanessaWills-u1f also - you have to make the choice to leave him - this has to be your decision and no one else’s
Great content.You are beautiful
@@infantrycaptain9224 thank you and thank you!
It s just a toxic game on the net
@@SpookyBuddies-e3v it is, sadly
As someone who craves authentic communication and interaction this became a very bitter pill to swallow.
@@Tokolos I’m there with you
My mother...
@@themmydiedrichs8107 I feel that. Mine too
@@phoenix.444.rising 🤗❤️🙏🏿
I have zero interest in these people
@@vickimann3262 that’s good!