These guy is making sense 💯 anyone who has a problem with his opinion about Nigerian women is just one of the people who date for income..period 😊 The lady is just talking but she's saying nothing reasonable
Ogun pieces you there, no sew ur cloth according to your size..some women lifestyle is naturally expensive, you don't leave a woman drinking malt for the one drinking champagne and you don't expect her to make demands oga rest before ogun come fire your head 30times
Thanks, Sister. Your wisdom shines through. The brother here does not really understand the culture. He fails to realize that fleecing happens in every culture/part of the universe, probably more common in the USA. As someone who once dated women from other cultures/communities. First, I would always stick with my nubian/ebony queen to keep it within the community. I want my kids looking like me. Hey, this doesn't mean that women from other cultures are not good. No, it's just my beautiful choice. I love all ppls. Now honestly, Nigerian women are the best. That being said, you can't just go marry anybody out there. Gotta do your due delegence regardless of where that person is from, Nigeria or Mars. I think it boils down to knowing who you're marrying. Heck, in marriage, ppl still run into issues marrying who they know. Imagine how crazy it would be not really knowing the person you go into a rship with. It's a bad idea, to say the least. Good luck, fellas.
Sadly, this is what many Men face back here in Nigeria, they with their kids till they reach an age of accountability and check out of the marriage later
Why is a woman telling me that Nigerian women are not opportunitist? Which nigerian woman as she even dated in her life? 😅😅😅😅😅 I am dating ng naija women on a steady, yet someone who as never done it before is telling me rubbish
I see no justification for criticizing these two individuals who conducted themselves as mature adults. I empathize with the man's perspective and acknowledge that both parties presented valid arguments. It's important to recognize that if one desires a traditional partner, they should be prepared to fulfill the corresponding traditional role themselves. A modern man cannot expect to have a traditional woman. When the woman questioned why he would marry her if he didn't intend to live with her, share life experiences, and be present for their children, her point was understandable. Many men might hesitate to bring a woman over due to concerns about legal and financial risks in Western societies, where laws can sometimes seem unfavorable to men. A man could potentially lose much of what he has worked for if a relationship ends, irrespective of who is at fault. Overall, their discussion was insightful and conducted with mutual respect.
I’m an immigration attorney and a Yoruba man. If you want to close eyes, *use faith* and marry a Nigerian lady and bring her to USA…. Run from Ada! If you know, you know… if you don’t know.. then 🤗
I compliment this Lady she spoke intellectually. Kudos please let’s stop bashing our fellow Nigerians. We are good people regardless. 😍, There are a lot of good Nigerians.
This guy Will have issues when he marry because all what he has learnt from his dad is not right at all and from all indication he doesn't have his own mind everything my dad said this my dad said that, sorry for the lady that Will marry him
Ofcourse... They always try to deceive themselves but they know what he's saying is the truth.... The way naija girls are si money thirsty is scary.... You meet a naija girl today and by tomorrow she's begging you for money for her rent😂..... Poverty mentality
The number of 9ja women bringing men abroad is higher than 9ja men bringing women abroad due to many women having healthcare jobs, it's just that they don't make noise about it... And for this Toye guy, he should stop deceiving himself, African American girls won't date him since he is not good looking by African American standards and he doesn't have money. If he was born and raised in America why must you date 9ja girls? It's obvious that he's seeking women who need him financially, that he can lord over so he can wear the pants in his relationship like his father, but his eyes will see...
The dude needs to stop collective stigmatization or generalization, his mother unfortunately didn't do a good job to orient him about her culture and congratulations 👏👏👏 to this Queen 👑 girl you nailed it and you did an awesome job representing the African women... you are a wifey material...
@@FactsUncompromizedmake them knack, even the one you bring to Western world, they knack them...atleast they wont call police for him in usa...its better to leave them in naija..case close
The problem with culture and tradition is people stay stuck with stone age traditions and try to use them to navigate life in this digital age......... Men and women’s roles were fixed how they were back in the day because of circumstances. Women didn't have jobs or couldnt work so they stayed back and fixed the home. Men worked hard labor jobs on the farm or wherever, so no time to help out in the house or kitchen. ......many women make as much money or even more than men nowadays, so you cant keep hiding behind tradition & culture to expect a man to pay for all your bills and you contribute nothing. Men also have a little more freedom to help out around the house nowadays, so cant keep saying "thats a woman's job"..... but whatever works for you in your house sha 🤷🏿♂️
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 I said men also have enough time and more freedom to help do what is "traditionally a woman's job", which means they can and should also help a woman around the home when she's pregnant. Besides, I work with and have worked with women in the USA who continue to work while they are heavily 🤰. It's no excuse to be a parasite. And please learn to read to comprehend, not just to take what you want out of what you read and throw misguided insults.
You are a wise and sensible man. The clown who asked a question about if woman work when she is pregnant? Will a man work when he gets sick and be in the hospital? Crazy people always try to use the exception as a rule.
This woman talking looks like an opportunist. In nigeria it is wise to date a woman from an affluent family. Dont marry women from poor homes or you will bear all the family expense.
That's what I have found out too...they don't love, everything is survival to them.even when they genuinely love u..yet survival is in the core of it.sp,it takes a great understanding to live with them
@CreamySuds Unfortunately you do, you should have said the truth, Not all of Nigerian women are like that, but a man will know especially when they have that Strong and Ruthless 'ajepako' and "hungry Lion Look for money'
@Walley28 that's not a fair thing to say given you have a mother and likely have a sister too. If we continue to demarket our own, how do you expect others to see us? A lot of you men attract the type of women you meet. I have many friends and 90% of them are NOT opportunists. So I'm sorry, I will not speak against Nigerian ladies because of a few bad eggs. Most of you will vouch for your family members... are they not Nigerians women too? Let's start to have self love!
The toxicity of our people is true but If the American thinks that there is cultural and mental difference why should he bother or even think of going to marry in Nigeria.He should marry an American girl with same mentality and culture like his. Did you notice that he could not find just one good thing about his mother and was making fun or jest of his mother's accent.I am sure he thinks that by speaking through his nose he is now so civilized or more civilized than any body who doesn't speak through their nose . This brain washed ,coconut thinking method,that sees every African culture or ways of doing thing as inferior or lower is not the right way.The Indians and Chinese are going to their home countries to marry and will prefer to train their children based on their cultures, and they still speak their languages too. Most African kids raised in the west cannot even speak their language. In fact some will even look down on their language.His mother wanting him to be a Doctor does mean she love him . And he does not see any one good thing of his mother. Davido was born in Atlanta and got married to a Nigerian girl and he still speaks with his Nigerian accent and we do appreciate Davido very much. Nigerian girls are some of the best girls to get married to in the world if you are treating them well.
Oga run for Nigerian women in Texas ooh.. And some in Atl too. Den don all do levels years ago and now den de find man to hook down after den don knack 3 million miles out of them. Na now de wana be submissive ..Kojo rara..kolo leeko.
Oga pls if you can't cope with the African culture then date or marry your Caucasian girls. Even the bible says the woman should be a man's support system. This guy is still a kid
You're a joker..... You naija women see relationship as a business transaction.... That's why men in Nigeria don't even respect women these days..... What he's saying is the truth.... You meet a naija girl today and by tomorrow she's begging for money.... A naija girl will be seeing 4 guys with the intention of begging all of them for money.... You're here bringing bible verse 😂😂
Absolutely, Nigeria women sees relationship as a means of income
I largely agree with the gentle man.
The lady is full of wisdom ❤❤❤
These guy is making sense 💯
anyone who has a problem with his opinion about Nigerian women is just one of the people who date for income..period 😊
The lady is just talking but she's saying nothing reasonable
Actually She doesn't have anything to say... I'm a Nigerian and Nigerian women are opportunist...
@HISTORIUOM am a Nigeria, but I can tell you that many other African women are more or less opportunist than Nigerian women.
Ogun pieces you there, no sew ur cloth according to your size..some women lifestyle is naturally expensive, you don't leave a woman drinking malt for the one drinking champagne and you don't expect her to make demands oga rest before ogun come fire your head 30times
@@ayatollahigboland4612 Yes... Nigerian women are more opportunist than any other in Africa
@@Roseovffsharon you're giving olosho vibes
I love this guy,may lord give you a good wife she will be with you in USA and give you peace 🙏🙏
My guy no be by force if you dont want nigerian woman then go get your type in your America.Nigeria woman we are queens and the best of all.
queens in your world ,1 of the least black Africans women to be married to.
This girl is just CAPPING 😅😅
Thanks, Sister. Your wisdom shines through. The brother here does not really understand the culture. He fails to realize that fleecing happens in every culture/part of the universe, probably more common in the USA.
As someone who once dated women from other cultures/communities. First, I would always stick with my nubian/ebony queen to keep it within the community. I want my kids looking like me. Hey, this doesn't mean that women from other cultures are not good. No, it's just my beautiful choice. I love all ppls. Now honestly, Nigerian women are the best. That being said, you can't just go marry anybody out there. Gotta do your due delegence regardless of where that person is from, Nigeria or Mars. I think it boils down to knowing who you're marrying.
Heck, in marriage, ppl still run into issues marrying who they know. Imagine how crazy it would be not really knowing the person you go into a rship with. It's a bad idea, to say the least. Good luck, fellas.
Sadly, this is what many Men face back here in Nigeria, they with their kids till they reach an age of accountability and check out of the marriage later
I really like the lady and I want to be her friend.
Why is a woman telling me that Nigerian women are not opportunitist? Which nigerian woman as she even dated in her life? 😅😅😅😅😅 I am dating ng naija women on a steady, yet someone who as never done it before is telling me rubbish
He is right! We copy religion, democracy, reality shows, etc.
I see no justification for criticizing these two individuals who conducted themselves as mature adults. I empathize with the man's perspective and acknowledge that both parties presented valid arguments. It's important to recognize that if one desires a traditional partner, they should be prepared to fulfill the corresponding traditional role themselves. A modern man cannot expect to have a traditional woman. When the woman questioned why he would marry her if he didn't intend to live with her, share life experiences, and be present for their children, her point was understandable. Many men might hesitate to bring a woman over due to concerns about legal and financial risks in Western societies, where laws can sometimes seem unfavorable to men. A man could potentially lose much of what he has worked for if a relationship ends, irrespective of who is at fault. Overall, their discussion was insightful and conducted with mutual respect.
I’m an immigration attorney and a Yoruba man.
If you want to close eyes, *use faith* and marry a Nigerian lady and bring her to USA…. Run from Ada!
If you know, you know… if you don’t know.. then 🤗
You mean run from Yemisi, ode
I understand. But it's not just Ada, but Bimbo.
I compliment this Lady she spoke intellectually. Kudos please let’s stop bashing our fellow Nigerians. We are good people regardless. 😍, There are a lot of good Nigerians.
The girl just gaslight the mam. Nigerian women are the best indeed. Will you keep quiet
This guy Will have issues when he marry because all what he has learnt from his dad is not right at all and from all indication he doesn't have his own mind everything my dad said this my dad said that, sorry for the lady that Will marry him
Nonsense talk, so who do you think he should learn from?
Exactly! He is having problems now!
@@lanreariwayo6416😂😂😂 so those people who do as who do dey learn from. Even fools grow old. Because it’s a “PARENT” doesn’t make them intelligent.
Women will always defend themselves without facing the means issue
Ofcourse... They always try to deceive themselves but they know what he's saying is the truth.... The way naija girls are si money thirsty is scary.... You meet a naija girl today and by tomorrow she's begging you for money for her rent😂..... Poverty mentality
The number of 9ja women bringing men abroad is higher than 9ja men bringing women abroad due to many women having healthcare jobs, it's just that they don't make noise about it... And for this Toye guy, he should stop deceiving himself, African American girls won't date him since he is not good looking by African American standards and he doesn't have money. If he was born and raised in America why must you date 9ja girls? It's obvious that he's seeking women who need him financially, that he can lord over so he can wear the pants in his relationship like his father, but his eyes will see...
The dude needs to stop collective stigmatization or generalization, his mother unfortunately didn't do a good job to orient him about her culture and congratulations 👏👏👏 to this Queen 👑 girl you nailed it and you did an awesome job representing the African women... you are a wifey material...
He should marry in the US and live the Nigeria in Nigeria....no Nigeria in Nigeria will allow them to enslave them anymore.
Mongo park man raising mongo park child and he thinks he is making sense.
Am telling you
Live ur life, must other people live their life the way u choose
Make a full football team . Give her 7 kids. But as you de abroad den go knack her for you na .
Yet your non Mongo park ends in divorce 80% of the time. You think everyone is stupid like you
@@FactsUncompromizedmake them knack, even the one you bring to Western world, they knack them...atleast they wont call police for him in usa...its better to leave them in naija..case close
Is like winning a jackpot when you find someone that clicks with u
The batter between men and women is huge than you can imagine
Also with my newly accepted reality most of ppl have spiritual husbands and wife B4 they actually get married in the phycal realm
Is just the reality facing us as humans
That's why the saying he that find a good wife
The problem with culture and tradition is people stay stuck with stone age traditions and try to use them to navigate life in this digital age......... Men and women’s roles were fixed how they were back in the day because of circumstances. Women didn't have jobs or couldnt work so they stayed back and fixed the home. Men worked hard labor jobs on the farm or wherever, so no time to help out in the house or kitchen. ......many women make as much money or even more than men nowadays, so you cant keep hiding behind tradition & culture to expect a man to pay for all your bills and you contribute nothing. Men also have a little more freedom to help out around the house nowadays, so cant keep saying "thats a woman's job"..... but whatever works for you in your house sha 🤷🏿♂️
Will women work when pregnant? Is that also tradition? Will they have eggs in old age? Keep deluding yourself
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 I said men also have enough time and more freedom to help do what is "traditionally a woman's job", which means they can and should also help a woman around the home when she's pregnant. Besides, I work with and have worked with women in the USA who continue to work while they are heavily 🤰. It's no excuse to be a parasite. And please learn to read to comprehend, not just to take what you want out of what you read and throw misguided insults.
@unclevee3133 only men without anything will deal with you. I have multiple women, i nofit hustle finish come settle for one nonsense woman
You are a wise and sensible man. The clown who asked a question about if woman work when she is pregnant? Will a man work when he gets sick and be in the hospital? Crazy people always try to use the exception as a rule.
This days it has nothing to do with the colour of your skin
This woman talking looks like an opportunist. In nigeria it is wise to date a woman from an affluent family. Dont marry women from poor homes or you will bear all the family expense.
That's what I have found out too...they don't love, everything is survival to them.even when they genuinely love u..yet survival is in the core of it.sp,it takes a great understanding to live with them
Haba, so I look like an opportunist? Na wa o 😂😂😂
@CreamySuds Unfortunately you do, you should have said the truth, Not all of Nigerian women are like that, but a man will know especially when they have that Strong and Ruthless 'ajepako' and "hungry Lion Look for money'
@Walley28 that's not a fair thing to say given you have a mother and likely have a sister too. If we continue to demarket our own, how do you expect others to see us? A lot of you men attract the type of women you meet. I have many friends and 90% of them are NOT opportunists. So I'm sorry, I will not speak against Nigerian ladies because of a few bad eggs. Most of you will vouch for your family members... are they not Nigerians women too? Let's start to have self love!
Why is he looking for a Nigerian women in the first place, let him marry an American woman😂😂😂
WHERE IS JOHN THE NASTY TALKER
A typical Nigerian girl will leave you whenever you stop being the ATM....even if you bring them over.
The toxicity of our people is true but If the American thinks that there is cultural and mental difference why should he bother or even think of going to marry in Nigeria.He should marry an American girl with same mentality and culture like his. Did you notice that he could not find just one good thing about his mother and was making fun or jest of his mother's accent.I am sure he thinks that by speaking through his nose he is now so civilized or more civilized than any body who doesn't speak through their nose . This brain washed ,coconut thinking method,that sees every African culture or ways of doing thing as inferior or lower is not the right way.The Indians and Chinese are going to their home countries to marry and will prefer to train their children based on their cultures, and they still speak their languages too. Most African kids raised in the west cannot even speak their language. In fact some will even look down on their language.His mother wanting him to be a Doctor does mean she love him . And he does not see any one good thing of his mother. Davido was born in Atlanta and got married to a Nigerian girl and he still speaks with his Nigerian accent and we do appreciate Davido very much. Nigerian girls are some of the best girls to get married to in the world if you are treating them well.
Oga run for Nigerian women in Texas ooh.. And some in Atl too. Den don all do levels years ago and now den de find man to hook down after den don knack 3 million miles out of them. Na now de wana be submissive ..Kojo rara..kolo leeko.
U just yan wetn I wan yan.
Oga pls if you can't cope with the African culture then date or marry your Caucasian girls.
Even the bible says the woman should be a man's support system. This guy is still a kid
That means who should support man na, u no understand English ni? If you are my support system it means u are the one supporting me
Leave him alone he de EXPRESS HIS BELIEFS.
You're a joker..... You naija women see relationship as a business transaction.... That's why men in Nigeria don't even respect women these days..... What he's saying is the truth.... You meet a naija girl today and by tomorrow she's begging for money.... A naija girl will be seeing 4 guys with the intention of begging all of them for money.... You're here bringing bible verse 😂😂
Caucasian women na joy ooo . Hmmmm
@@kennyking5606 dem dey help o
'My dad makes the rules and she obeys ' i like that
Making sense
In London here lots of white ppl have similar experience within their community too trust me