Mera sath asa he hova finally seperation ho gaye bohat dil dukhta hai mera bachoen sa meri saase nay churwa diya aur mujy bhe.. Mera ghar toote gaya apna beta ko chein liya meri mother in law nay. Narc husband kisi ki nhi hoty chayeh ap jan dey do akhir mein woh apni bewi bachon ko sab ko qurban kar deta hein. Apni maa ka liya. Mera sase ka tu 6 betay hein phir bhe unko mera shohar chayeh thay.💔
Self monitor (life time) 1.Never give sympathy for urself. 2. Never do Self Pity. 3. Don't seeking help for small thing, do urself, be self dependent. 4. Do Self Love, Self Care, Self Accept. 5. Do observe self talk Mirror Positive self talk daily. 6. Cherish urself. 7. Spend time for internal happiness. 8. Come out from your comfort zone.
This is very basic description of any toxic mother in law.But Narcissistic mother in law have cognitive thinking. Sometimes she is like first wife of your husband. There is huge difference between simply toxic and narcissistic.
@@sarikachhatbar8595 narcissism means dushta ,evil started from toxicity. Levels and degree may be different in each cases. First wife means wo chahegi unke bete ke salary pe sirf unki ka haq ho, mere hath ka khana khaye, main hi uske kapde decide karo, uski almirah set karo, etc etc wo khi jaye to husband ki tarha unhe chod ke aaye ex rakhi hain wife ko bhi jana HAI mother ko bhi to wo ye chahegi mera beta mujhe drop kare wife akeli jaye, kuch level main extreme tak jate hain jo soch bhi nhi sakte.
@@Cookfashion_andlifestyle23 not telepathy but they send negative energy to you thats Why you should keep your energy level high and know your truth. Agar apko kuch feel hota hain mind Main so just close your eyes and cord cutting karo us insaan ka naam leke three times man Main bolo mere andar jo bhi negative thoughts aa rahe hain main unhe cut karti hu. And focus on your energy.
You are right, ye apke husband ko hi apke piche lagayegi jasusi ke liye, aur agar aap niche shift ho gaye thoda door to ye darwaje bartan kursiya patakegi kyunki ye nazar nhi rakh payegi but ye nhi chodti ye apne beto ko is tarha se manipulate karti hain ye dayan se bhi giri hui hain aapne sahi kha.
Aap ke pass paise honge to bhi ye nhi rehne dege, ya to itna kaam dal dege ke aapki energy khatam ho jaye Ya aap khud job chod do. Aur agar aap strong ho to aise halat karege ke ghar se aap khud nikal jao. Narcissist ke pass apko todne ka har illaz hain. Jo inke bache door chale jate hain unki life fir bhi better ho jati hain jo sath rahege unki barbad aur wo aage jake dusre ko bhi barbad karte hain. Control karne ka matlab hain har tarike se control. Physically emotionally financially, , psychologically har tarike se. Ye apne khud ke bacho ko hi apas main ladwa dete hain aur sab bacho se faida uthate hain.
Self monitor (life time) 1.Never give sympathy for urself. 2. Never do Self Pity. 3. Don't seeking help for small thing, do urself, be self dependent. 4. Do Self Love, Self Care, Self Accept. 5. Do observe self talk Mirror Positive self talk daily. 6. Cherish urself. 7. Spend time for internal happiness. 8. Come out from your comfort zone.
Inke sath rehna isiliye difficult hain kyunki inke bete puri tarha se manipulated hain unki parwarish is tarha ki hi hain. Inhone apne bacho ko is tarha fasa rakha hota hain ke aage jake wo bhi narcissist hi ban jate hain. Ex apki first diwali hogi apke armaan honge but ye apko kisi na kisi tarha ghar bhej degi aur apne bete ya pati se call karwayegi ke mummy ki tabiyat theek nhi hain Isiliye ap mat aao, hum diwali nhi bana rahe, agar aap ghar Pohoch gaye to ye hasti khelti bahar se aa rahi hogi aur jaise hi apko dekhegi ke aap wapas aa gayi to ye acting karke bed pe late jayegi aur ye diwali bana rahe hoge lekin apse jhuth bolenge aur wo dayan bahar se ghar ghar ye bol ke aayegi pehli diwali hain aur bahu ghar pe chali gayi. Ye dayan ki bhi Har level ki.hain. ye diwali pe ghar bhi saaf nhi karegi kyunki koi bahar se aaya to bed pe late ke acting karni hain ke dekho pehli diwali hain aur bahu Ghar jake baithi hain jabki bahu aur uski family bar baar ghar aane ko bol rahe hain. Aur bahu ghar aa jaye to ghar ki safai bahu hi karegi. Socho kya bitega jab bahu ghar pohoche inke ghar ki safai kare inge khana khi paye aur dekhe ye koi bimar nhi thi ye log bana rahe the mujhe nhi aane de rahe the. In logo ko ishwar kbhi maaf nhi karta kbhi bhi nhi. Sirf ghar ghar apko badnam karne ke liye ye itni gandi politics khelti hain. Sad ke mare aise log.
Aur jab aap seekh longe akele rehna to bhi dayan picha nhi chodti, ye black magic karwati hain fir. Chahe inka beta inke sath 23 hours rahe aur wife ke sath 1 hour fir bhi ye dayan jeene nhi deti, kyunki isko aap ko chodna hi nhi hai. Ya to control main raho ya barbad karti hain buri maut bhi inhe naseeb na ho. Usse bhi bura ho.
Mam make a video of nanad & jathni & devrani all so narcissistic they all make group and distroy u they r family cult they can't want to enter in ther family u make lot's of effort to part of there family but they can't except u you give u r life till they can't care about u what is the big deal this every one can do it
The main problem is husband wo ek ek baat jake apni family ko batayega ,wo apse apni family ki burai bhi karega but you keep quiet, apko koi reaction dena hi Nhi, kyunki agar aapne reaction diya wo future main use karega, isiliye usse kuch bhi discuss na kare especially uski family ke bare main. Apna attitude positive rakhe taki wo bataye bhi to kya bataye, apna emotional support rakhiye jisse aap apna discuss kar sake. Aur unhe na bataye emotional support ke bare main kyunki narc apko mentally todte hain.... Shant rahe TRUE knowledge le. Mantra jaap kare taki energy theek rahe ye apki energy pe hi waar karte hain.
Nanad jethani devrani ye sab group isiliye bana pate hain kyunki inhe apke husband ke bare main pata hain. Isiliye no reaction and no discussion especially about family sirf acha hi bolna. Shant rehna aur kam bolna. Ye log husband ko mohre ki tarha use karte hain ke jao jake kamiya leke aao wife ki, aur husband bhi aise hi hote hain isiliye problem hoti hain..... Jaise ki mam ne apni ek video main bataya tha ke aapke husband hi apki bate jake piche se family ko share karte hain kai baar..... Thats is true...... Why it is called complex relationship kyunki jo main insaan hai uski programming ho rakhi hain.....
@@seemaansari4040 narcissistic jethani akele nhi ho sakti , narcissistic team main work karte hain mostly, no reaction and alert. Apni bate discuss mat karo aur jethani ki bhi. Kyunki narc logo ki jasusi ki adat hoti hain apki kamiya jaane ke liye. Wo direct against nhi aate piche se khelte hain. Apke husband sas sasur inko bhadkate hain but ye akele nhi hain inke support main apki family ke hi hote hain isiliye be silent and keep strong your energy level.
@@shikhasharma7464 silent hone ke baad bhi pareshan karte Hain mam Puri family ek taraf hoti hai like jethani aur devrani nand and sas mujhe akele kar dete har ek bharke person other relatives ko bata dete main buri hu na bacchon care karti na husband ki main bhut thak chuke inke jhutse aur dusre log bhi inki baton me ajte hain aur wo bhi aise treat karte hai jaise wo karte hain main chup bacchon ke taunt Kate hai main chup rahti hu phir bhi pareshan karne koi chance nahi chodte mam what should I do mam 🥹
@@poonamrani5319 I know bohot mushkil hain himmat na hare aise log kbhi inner peace ya khushi feel nhi karte. Apne ko samhale aur aage bade. Inse door jana hamari health ke liye acha hota hain. Ishwar inka justice jarur karta hai, aur jab karta hain to ye rona to door ki baat samhalne layak bhi nhi rehte.
Mam your experience is very real
Mera sath asa he hova finally seperation ho gaye bohat dil dukhta hai mera bachoen sa meri saase nay churwa diya aur mujy bhe..
Mera ghar toote gaya apna beta ko chein liya meri mother in law nay.
Narc husband kisi ki nhi hoty chayeh ap jan dey do akhir mein woh apni bewi bachon ko sab ko qurban kar deta hein.
Apni maa ka liya.
Mera sase ka tu 6 betay hein phir bhe unko mera shohar chayeh thay.💔
Mam iske upper b ek vedio bnaye 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Self monitor
(life time)
1.Never give sympathy for urself.
2. Never do Self Pity.
3. Don't seeking help for small thing, do urself, be self dependent.
4. Do Self Love, Self Care, Self Accept.
5. Do observe self talk
Mirror Positive self talk daily.
6. Cherish urself.
7. Spend time for internal happiness.
8. Come out from your comfort zone.
This is very basic description of any toxic mother in law.But Narcissistic mother in law have cognitive thinking. Sometimes she is like first wife of your husband. There is huge difference between simply toxic and narcissistic.
@@sarikachhatbar8595 narcissism means dushta ,evil started from toxicity. Levels and degree may be different in each cases. First wife means wo chahegi unke bete ke salary pe sirf unki ka haq ho, mere hath ka khana khaye, main hi uske kapde decide karo, uski almirah set karo, etc etc wo khi jaye to husband ki tarha unhe chod ke aaye ex rakhi hain wife ko bhi jana HAI mother ko bhi to wo ye chahegi mera beta mujhe drop kare wife akeli jaye, kuch level main extreme tak jate hain jo soch bhi nhi sakte.
Mam kya ek daughter in law b narcissist ho sakti h , please answer me,I am a victim mother in law,same traits are in my daughter in law 😢😢😢
Mam kya narcissistic telepathy kar sakte hai kya kal. ek video dakha main kai o telepathy kar sak ta hai
@@Cookfashion_andlifestyle23 not telepathy but they send negative energy to you thats Why you should keep your energy level high and know your truth. Agar apko kuch feel hota hain mind Main so just close your eyes and cord cutting karo us insaan ka naam leke three times man Main bolo mere andar jo bhi negative thoughts aa rahe hain main unhe cut karti hu. And focus on your energy.
You are right, ye apke husband ko hi apke piche lagayegi jasusi ke liye, aur agar aap niche shift ho gaye thoda door to ye darwaje bartan kursiya patakegi kyunki ye nazar nhi rakh payegi but ye nhi chodti ye apne beto ko is tarha se manipulate karti hain ye dayan se bhi giri hui hain aapne sahi kha.
V painful, kunky ye ap ke sath hi reh rahe hoty hain ap kahin ja nai sakty, aur esp jub ap financially stable na hon
Aap ke pass paise honge to bhi ye nhi rehne dege, ya to itna kaam dal dege ke aapki energy khatam ho jaye Ya aap khud job chod do. Aur agar aap strong ho to aise halat karege ke ghar se aap khud nikal jao. Narcissist ke pass apko todne ka har illaz hain. Jo inke bache door chale jate hain unki life fir bhi better ho jati hain jo sath rahege unki barbad aur wo aage jake dusre ko bhi barbad karte hain. Control karne ka matlab hain har tarike se control. Physically emotionally financially, , psychologically har tarike se. Ye apne khud ke bacho ko hi apas main ladwa dete hain aur sab bacho se faida uthate hain.
Self monitor
(life time)
1.Never give sympathy for urself.
2. Never do Self Pity.
3. Don't seeking help for small thing, do urself, be self dependent.
4. Do Self Love, Self Care, Self Accept.
5. Do observe self talk
Mirror Positive self talk daily.
6. Cherish urself.
7. Spend time for internal happiness.
8. Come out from your comfort zone.
Inke sath rehna isiliye difficult hain kyunki inke bete puri tarha se manipulated hain unki parwarish is tarha ki hi hain. Inhone apne bacho ko is tarha fasa rakha hota hain ke aage jake wo bhi narcissist hi ban jate hain. Ex apki first diwali hogi apke armaan honge but ye apko kisi na kisi tarha ghar bhej degi aur apne bete ya pati se call karwayegi ke mummy ki tabiyat theek nhi hain Isiliye ap mat aao, hum diwali nhi bana rahe, agar aap ghar Pohoch gaye to ye hasti khelti bahar se aa rahi hogi aur jaise hi apko dekhegi ke aap wapas aa gayi to ye acting karke bed pe late jayegi aur ye diwali bana rahe hoge lekin apse jhuth bolenge aur wo dayan bahar se ghar ghar ye bol ke aayegi pehli diwali hain aur bahu ghar pe chali gayi. Ye dayan ki bhi Har level ki.hain. ye diwali pe ghar bhi saaf nhi karegi kyunki koi bahar se aaya to bed pe late ke acting karni hain ke dekho pehli diwali hain aur bahu Ghar jake baithi hain jabki bahu aur uski family bar baar ghar aane ko bol rahe hain. Aur bahu ghar aa jaye to ghar ki safai bahu hi karegi. Socho kya bitega jab bahu ghar pohoche inke ghar ki safai kare inge khana khi paye aur dekhe ye koi bimar nhi thi ye log bana rahe the mujhe nhi aane de rahe the. In logo ko ishwar kbhi maaf nhi karta kbhi bhi nhi. Sirf ghar ghar apko badnam karne ke liye ye itni gandi politics khelti hain. Sad ke mare aise log.
I am really victam
Same meri situation
Aur jab aap seekh longe akele rehna to bhi dayan picha nhi chodti, ye black magic karwati hain fir. Chahe inka beta inke sath 23 hours rahe aur wife ke sath 1 hour fir bhi ye dayan jeene nhi deti, kyunki isko aap ko chodna hi nhi hai. Ya to control main raho ya barbad karti hain buri maut bhi inhe naseeb na ho. Usse bhi bura ho.
Mam make a video of nanad & jathni & devrani all so narcissistic they all make group and distroy u they r family cult they can't want to enter in ther family u make lot's of effort to part of there family but they can't except u you give u r life till they can't care about u what is the big deal this every one can do it
The main problem is husband wo ek ek baat jake apni family ko batayega ,wo apse apni family ki burai bhi karega but you keep quiet, apko koi reaction dena hi Nhi, kyunki agar aapne reaction diya wo future main use karega,
isiliye usse kuch bhi discuss na kare especially uski family ke bare main. Apna attitude positive rakhe taki wo bataye bhi to kya bataye, apna emotional support rakhiye jisse aap apna discuss kar sake. Aur unhe na bataye emotional support ke bare main kyunki narc apko mentally todte hain.... Shant rahe TRUE knowledge le. Mantra jaap kare taki energy theek rahe ye apki energy pe hi waar karte hain.
Nanad jethani devrani ye sab group isiliye bana pate hain kyunki inhe apke husband ke bare main pata hain. Isiliye no reaction and no discussion especially about family sirf acha hi bolna. Shant rehna aur kam bolna. Ye log husband ko mohre ki tarha use karte hain ke jao jake kamiya leke aao wife ki, aur husband bhi aise hi hote hain isiliye problem hoti hain.....
Jaise ki mam ne apni ek video main bataya tha ke aapke husband hi apki bate jake piche se family ko share karte hain kai baar..... Thats is true...... Why it is called complex relationship kyunki jo main insaan hai uski programming ho rakhi hain.....
Narcissistic jetani si kaise tackle kare
@@seemaansari4040 narcissistic jethani akele nhi ho sakti , narcissistic team main work karte hain mostly, no reaction and alert. Apni bate discuss mat karo aur jethani ki bhi. Kyunki narc logo ki jasusi ki adat hoti hain apki kamiya jaane ke liye. Wo direct against nhi aate piche se khelte hain. Apke husband sas sasur inko bhadkate hain but ye akele nhi hain inke support main apki family ke hi hote hain isiliye be silent and keep strong your energy level.
@@shikhasharma7464 silent hone ke baad bhi pareshan karte Hain mam Puri family ek taraf hoti hai like jethani aur devrani nand and sas mujhe akele kar dete har ek bharke person other relatives ko bata dete main buri hu na bacchon care karti na husband ki main bhut thak chuke inke jhutse aur dusre log bhi inki baton me ajte hain aur wo bhi aise treat karte hai jaise wo karte hain main chup bacchon ke taunt Kate hai main chup rahti hu phir bhi pareshan karne koi chance nahi chodte mam what should I do mam 🥹
Cognitive dissonance k upper video banaye side effects v
Meri mother laws n mere riste ko hi khatam krwa diya apne bete se
@@poonamrani5319 apka koi bacha hain ?
@@poonamrani5319 I know bohot mushkil hain himmat na hare aise log kbhi inner peace ya khushi feel nhi karte. Apne ko samhale aur aage bade. Inse door jana hamari health ke liye acha hota hain. Ishwar inka justice jarur karta hai, aur jab karta hain to ye rona to door ki baat samhalne layak bhi nhi rehte.