At 35, this is what I did. If a chick comes and finds her way into my life. Great. If not, keep moving forward. Let the chicks come to me if they want to pursue. Because of this, I'm childess, no baby mama's, debt free and cash in the bank. I'm getting old and it's to short to dwell on chicks who don't give af.
“Don’t have energy for this” Haha yeah I don’t either.. I’m 38 and so much of modern approach/dating/relationships just makes my mind go numb . I’m not anti-relationship but I just don’t know how guys have the energy or stamina to deal with daily bs .. a serious relationship is like having a second full time job that you might not even get paid for
Damn some of you guys have such a warped view of women. You must have the worst ability in picking women or just can’t attract the women more suited for you. There are very healthy and good women out there guys - you just need to vet them Better
Also, when people say "women have strong emotions", could also often translate to: She is a drama queen that can make your life hell. She gets bored if things are too peaceful, and stable!
I break up 1.5 month ago because she were doing so much things that I don't want her to do and she were doing it because she knew I love her so much and I didn't have guts to let go. I tried before and I couldn't so she think I wouldn't leave. I break up and for 1 month I felt so bad because I am really emotional person, but I figured out even if you are emotional you shouldn't show that to the woman that much. Give her what you get from her. I wanna say thank you, I survive break up because of you. Really thank you so much you are the first channel I joined and I will keep supporting you, thank you for that break up video especially.
That's the best decision you made! I took a similar step three years ago after spending 15 years with my dream girl. I found help through LFA and chose to go celibate, cutting off all contact with women. For me, relationships had been like a heroin addiction. Finally, I healed and am now back to interacting with women. It feels fantastic, almost like being a kid again!
Have boundaries, what is and isn’t acceptable for your partner to do, say,etc. , let them be known right from the beginning m, and stick to them. It begins and ends with the man, YOU.
Rule nr1 is: be authentic, find out who you really are and where you stand for. Rule nr2: if you follow rule nr1, you are not busy catering to women or anyone else.
@@chahineezzine5504 It is worth it for single guys. The second you start texting her, relieve yourself so you are not always on edge. Trust me you will get turned on if your test is high.
Im dating a woman who is extremely traumatized because she saw her father being unfaithful to her mother and then to all the girlfriends he had afterwards as well. We talk every day but today for example she went back to her hometown (where she hasn't been for 3 weeks) and we are not going to meet this weekend (we haven't seen each other for 1 week) How should I let her know that I want to see her more often? Dread usually scares her away. She told me to stop seeing each other 1 month ago because I gave her too much dread. Some time later she came back because of good things and attitudes I had towards her (she is a very particular woman with her own traumas and fears).
That's a complex situation that may require more info and depth. What I will say in this comment is that you definitely need to make sure it's balanced out with positivity. Causing someone to feel dread when they are already a bit damaged can have bad results.
I say find a different female. Good ones without drama are available just give it to god and wait. Sounds like she not ready for serious because she open to options. Don't be an option. The right girl it will be obvious she is into you and it will come natural and easy.
I just got out a relationship with a girl who had her dad cheated on her mom when she was a kid and it had a negative impact on her life. She would always tell me that she hated cheaters. Well guess what she ended up cheating on me. I learned my lesson to never date a girl who was raised in a broken home.
My ex’s parents are still married after 50 years but her first boyfriend of 8 years who she was engaged to cheated on her. Her 2nd boyfriend died from an OD. Guess what she did? She cheated on me. Lesson learned don’t ever date someone that’s been cheated on
@@Phil-j7t I feel like these women who faced cheating in their lives want someone whom they dated to experience their suffering especially if their boyfriend is successful. But I look at life in lenses of stoicism and will learn from this experience.
I would rather just do good for myself, get in the gym and live my life peacefully. I really cant be bothered with this tiring calculated mind games 24/7. It might be good to show another side to you every now and then but revolving your life around this kind of crap is soo annoying.
I seriously feel sorry for the men who gotta deal with this because that's negativity, for absolutely no good reason. You're right that a lot of women need to be constantly emotionally stimulated. However, it comes from those with childhood trauma & a history of cheating. I noticed there are specific ones that always ask me how I'm feeling. I can be staring at the wall thinking about what I'm gonna eat for lunch, but she's constantly asking me how I'm feeling. It's so annoying. I realized the reason why they do that is because they're trying to enter your emotional space by gauging your thoughts & heart. It's quite intrusive. It can be with good intent sometimes, but I can tell when it's manipulation. I'd say males fall for it more cause y'll want to establish a relationship. I just don't roll like that. I gotta respond quickly & I rarely ask about feelings. All the respect to those who deal with that nonsense. Hats off 🎩
This is not true, it isn't about "negativity" for "no reason". It's about being a real, natural man. Being yourself, not dropping your frame to appease women. As LFA explained many / most men automatically self-censor themselves especially when they really want to get with a woman they like a lot. You do make good points about women try to enter your emotional space, and often times quite manipulatively. But a man with his true masculine frame, who acts true to himself and treats people as they are deserving of being treated based on how they treat you. Doesn't have much too worry about in this regard.
@EchoClam Fair enough to your points. My statement about negativity didn’t have to do with masculinity. I was referring to negative emotions steered up in the process. She’s gonna constantly assume negative things. Start fights. Hot & cold. It’s like talking to a wall. You can try to upkeep masculine frame. But truth be told, she has an issue with herself. I often see men fall into this trap where they’re trying so hard to be the best man they can be for a woman who has deep wounds. It’s just never enough. All you can do is choose your battles wisely, & not lose yourself to her. As they say, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” I’ve been around women like that, & refused to befriend them so I know how difficult they can be. So dealing with that in the first place is self-censoring, especially if you’re considering her for a LTR. That is unless you’re the hulk or something 😂 Much respect to you though.
You are right, LFA was explaining how to conquer a toxic woman, definitely not christian dynamics, these type of games work with women who did not heal from trauma, if a woman get arousal by domination games, do not engage with her, she should want you, and only want you to be kind, maybe in bed she can ask for something aggressive, but in everyday dynamic she should demand a confident and sweet caring man. If she forces you to be any far from Christ in order to get her attracted to you then she is definitely not the one!!!
Some women love the emotional roller coaster, if she's messed up in the head it's a f'íng nightmare. These days if the vibe isn't good I'm out, they usually think you'll be back, but no.
Rule is too never be too nice to a woman just be chill and be direct they also like a guy that can curse but never overdo it . Cursing 🤬 brings out emotions
Hi LFA. The number one resource for understanding the content of this video is "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida. Required reading. Requires multiple reads and lots of experience to truly understand the material. Greetings from Oil country, Edmonton, Alberta.
Key to that book is that in the beginning he says something along the lines of, be careful what you’re looking for because at the end a true/real man figures out he needs no woman. It’s a really good book.
Fellas, from many many many experiences you MUST realize & take in that no matters how much it hurts, makes you resentful or traumatizes you if she really wants to hook up or meet you she WILL find a way. She'll never be too busy or use her kid as an excuse. Any excuse or silence from her then she's giving all that attention to someone else.
yep, my foreign wife of almost 2 years I kid you not has Not missed contact for at least 4 hours of our waking days on both ends of the day for like whatever the 500 days we've been together, you may say/feel "oh, that's smothering" well, no, it's how the world USED to be in the 1950s and before before you know who took over our women's minds in the West.
This video is Gold. For all of my life I was afraid to say the truth about my feelings to women because of their behaviour. Now when I get into a little fight I see it as a playful game, of course it depends on the gravity of the situation. Black and white is always better than grey
Its a narcisistic tactic. I wouldn't recommend it. It works maybe for a while, until the woman realise what u doing. And then all what u get is endless resentment, and no way back. Be authenic, having a backbone is good advise, but it has to be nautral and authentic, otherwise you're fcked. Also this kind of " don't want to piss the boss off" behaviour is lame, indeed. There is a balance, and it lies in the authentic personality and true emotions. Show your cards openly, basically so simple is that. Be a MAN!
This is not necessarily true. It’s actually women that have been cheated on from former partners especially if was a long term that end up cheating. It changes them emotionally and leaves a certain trauma they don’t ever fully heal from. It doesn’t matter how good the current relationship is she will never trust any guy ever again
@ vitorpereira5461- pretty much. Everything this guy is saying is EXACTLY how my last relationship was word for word. My point is any woman that starts playing those ghosting games or makes a habit of it is 100% cheating on you. Doesn’t matter how long yall have been together. You gotta get rid of them cause they’ll never admit it until the relationship is over.
Ever notice how some females will constantly post their boyfriends together on social media I mean like every post in their story? They don’t do it to show the world how fake happy they are they do it to make their ex’s that they cheated on jealous. Think about it. Why would you post you and your partner you’re with every single day
There are. They’re just young in the church. If the fathers are smart, they would see the stability and the wisdom of older men who’s done the work to take care of a family, and introduce their daughters to them. But we fathers are so damn stupid to see the logic on this. The young girls just want the poor beta pretty boy who’s a weakling and doesn’t know jack shit about how to take care of a family.
The brutal answer that many guys will not want to hear that will make her want to cheat on your or lose interest is that you are boring in bed. If you have 0 interest to explore in bed it's a wrap. Dirty talk, roleplaying, sensory play, expressing boundaries and turn ons, different positions. You need to make her excited to come back for more.
that is a point. But women are complex and there are several ways they can lose interest. Several. I lost my last 4 months date due to a single phrase, see she showed some text messages of her reaching out a guy for a payment he owed, she was very polite to him. I said without thinking: damn you are very polite to a guy owing you money, I dont see you being that nice to me lol. She lost it there. went cold.
Not necessarily, even Chads can get cheated on, because vvomen treat Chads, the same way a kid treats a new toy, they play with it for a while, get bored of it, and they want a new toy.
Not always true. It’s actually women that have been cheated on in a long term relationship that usually cheat. Almost every single one of them. It changes them emotionally and doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with sex tbh
True but once they have tried to disrespect me or pick a fight I Iose interest. No make up sex in my playbook ,they can take there box somewhere else .lol
Men. I can simplify your life by this one rule. Never ever argue with a woman. PERIOD. If she does argue with you, then that is an indicator that she is competing with you, and that she disrespects you, which is abuse. Never ever tolerate behavior as such. You will regret it. If she does not argue with you, then what you have is a woman with GBD (genuine burning desire) which therefore she will be afraid to lose you if she complains and competes. She must be in a constant state of healthy fear. Because if you do hold her accountable she will respond appropriately.
This is why you let the chicks come to you. Because its on your terms and rules if they choose to stay, then its a win win. No baby mamas, childess, debt free and cash in the bank. 😂😂😂😂
A=HV*(+/-E)^∞ , Attraction = High Value x (positive and negative Emotions) to the power of infinity. Pioneered by Alex social from real social dynamics like 10 years ago. Hold true for sure.
The more masculine your vibe is, the more you'll witness women acting silly and stumbling words, this should be an ice breaker for the shy guys, let them fumble, realize she's just a person and be honest. There's lots of women in a day of being out and about.
Random dudes on the front porch are the BEST dudes from whom to receive dating advice. And I got a steno pad … (+10 to the house of your choice if you know what a steno pad is.)
I know you don’t like doing reaction videos but it would be interesting to see your thoughts on Alexander Grace’s video titled “We are done”. He explains how he used to tell men that they need to play games and put up with the combativeness and chaotic nature of low quality women and that he was wrong for it. Basically, he admits he was wrong for telling men to adapt to this destructive culture by telling them to just suck it up and figure it out because that’s “what men do.” Would be interesting to see your thoughts about the value of playing games just to, at best, get some fun. Seems like lots of men are just tired of this and personally, I don’t blame them. Just hearing about all the psychoanalysis and mental games that it seems men have to partake in just for the possibility of having a woman entertain them for a bit sounds exhausting and I’m not even a man 😂
I don’t think there’s anything to react to. As I suggested in this video, I don’t think anyone should play games. I think we should have backbone and integrity. That by itself becomes a roller coaster and keeps things exciting because it naturally causes personalities to clash. It’s possible you misunderstood this message.
Hey LFA. I like your content. Man what you talk about is the truth but it is mostly oriented around the american culture. I come from the balkans and it is somewhat different here. In America your women only want fun and emotions which creats this dynamic where you have to be like circus for her. The things that you say are true but the culture creates a diffrence. The diffrence is that women know that they still need men and some women keep on even if they are not emotionaly there. And in america they just pack and leave. So while i do believe in what you say it true about woman psychology and it is like basics. There are women and cultures that do not do what you said in the video.
Because feeling the need to state you have options is something someone without options would do. Same as someone without money would feel the need to dress expensive. Everybody well-thinking mind can see through the deceive.
Women like to be on an emotional rollercoaster. If you like to remain mostly on an even keel like me then dating is hard since women always like you to throw curveballs at them. And if you don't serve up curveballs they get bored.
I guess I never found the prize (a woman) to be worth the effort. It is such a full time job for the received benefits IMO. Why the lust for attracting women? Is it libido driven or do just need a friend?
i hear a lot of advice, some of it conflicting with each other. I listed to a book by coach Corey Wayne, he said when she gives the B.S. excuse of “oh I’m busy” you give her the “take away” and say call me if you are free later. What I always wanted to say was “that is a B.S excuse, you’re just to busy for me” should i actually say this out loud to a woman? what will it accomplish, i feel like so many of the things I wanna say when they are jerking me around or being disrespectful would make me look like a violent psycho. Maybe I am a psycho, idk bro, enlighten me
imo an empty "i'm busy" without a response should be viewed as a problem. If the other person is interested in you two meeting, wouldn't she on her own try to reschedule your time together? At least explain what's on now and when she'll have time free? "I'm busy = Can't be bothered (by you)"
If she wants to spend time with you she will move heaven and earth to see you . The im busy without any other reschedule is (im not bothered about seeing you) so yeah just be like ok cool let me know when you free. then just leave it 1000% . Brother even reading " I wanted to say BS thats just an excuse " is horribly cringe. You dont need to care when they are jerkiing you around -you just say ok cool let me know . Then DO NOT message them again. They will come back . If you are in long term dating this is different something is wrong . But 99% of time if you get this when dating long time -you Messed up . She needs to cool off and will be back for the "discussion"
@@bobthebuilder69429 Just say to her, “no worries [another girl] is not busy so I will be hanging out with her.” You have to let her know that you have options.
@@Rishachino leave without any explanation or blocking or anything. or create a very happy emotional moment then leave abruptly forever. most important
did goku ever chase chichi? of course not.... staying on the grind and if it comes it comes... something about being by yourself is peaceful. the young generation thinks having kids is being successful or something
I wonder how sustainable is to play mind-games in a long term. I wonder how exhausting is to play childish games instead of focus on your own growth. I wonder how adults can waste their mental health to satisfy their hunger for drama. I just wonder, sir...
What I suggested is that you stop playing games. I said that you should have backbone and speak your mind. That by itself is enough to cause the natural roller coaster that’s healthy for a well balanced relationship.
I’m curious though how this message could be so misunderstood by some. Roughly 98.8% of viewers understood that the message was to stop playing games. I would love for you to help me understand your perspective. For quality purposes, could you provide an example or a quote of “games” in this video?
Don't say you prefer blondes though! That didn't work out well for me, but it was the truth. So I guess it helped me out in the long run by knocking off that brunette trap. Well actually she wanted to keep on talking, but I could tell what I said had her bleeding out and she just couldn't keep going on. Don't get me wrong, there's some brunettes I'd marry in a heart beat. Just not her.
Nothing good can be forced...
Whatever comes, let it come, what stays let stay, what goes let go.
The purest wisdom❤️
,,and in the end if we lose ?
there is no losing in this, only experience
Is that Buddhist
At 35, this is what I did. If a chick comes and finds her way into my life. Great. If not, keep moving forward. Let the chicks come to me if they want to pursue. Because of this, I'm childess, no baby mama's, debt free and cash in the bank. I'm getting old and it's to short to dwell on chicks who don't give af.
Thanks for reminding me again why I'm single✌🏻
Don't have energy for this
Me too.
Me three!
“Don’t have energy for this”
Haha yeah I don’t either.. I’m 38 and so much of modern approach/dating/relationships just makes my mind go numb . I’m not anti-relationship but I just don’t know how guys have the energy or stamina to deal with daily bs .. a serious relationship is like having a second full time job that you might not even get paid for
@@brianmeen2158 That's why you Must look abroad for dutiful wives. I got so lucky finding one QUICK!
Why do we even care what destroys or creates attractions to individuals who see you do nothing right anyway?
That’s not the point big boy
@@tonybellick7841Ok small feller
@@tonybellick7841 Big boy?
Don't bring that victim crap here.
Damn some of you guys have such a warped view of women. You must have the worst ability in picking women or just can’t attract the women more suited for you. There are very healthy and good women out there guys - you just need to vet them
Better
Also, when people say "women have strong emotions", could also often translate to: She is a drama queen that can make your life hell. She gets bored if things are too peaceful, and stable!
That's when they take a trip to the ghetto looking for a stud, so they won't get bored.
I break up 1.5 month ago because she were doing so much things that I don't want her to do and she were doing it because she knew I love her so much and I didn't have guts to let go. I tried before and I couldn't so she think I wouldn't leave. I break up and for 1 month I felt so bad because I am really emotional person, but I figured out even if you are emotional you shouldn't show that to the woman that much. Give her what you get from her. I wanna say thank you, I survive break up because of you. Really thank you so much you are the first channel I joined and I will keep supporting you, thank you for that break up video especially.
do we seriously have to jump through all these mental gymnastics just to be with a woman? this is ridiculous.
That's the best decision you made! I took a similar step three years ago after spending 15 years with my dream girl. I found help through LFA and chose to go celibate, cutting off all contact with women. For me, relationships had been like a heroin addiction. Finally, I healed and am now back to interacting with women. It feels fantastic, almost like being a kid again!
Have boundaries, what is and isn’t acceptable for your partner to do, say,etc. , let them be known right from the beginning m, and stick to them. It begins and ends with the man, YOU.
Interesting man. Im going through something similar. Would you like to tell me which things she did you didn't like?
Rule nr1 is: be authentic, find out who you really are and where you stand for.
Rule nr2: if you follow rule nr1, you are not busy catering to women or anyone else.
*Attraction thrives when there’s a balance of mutual interest and respect - don’t sacrifice your boundaries to gain approval.*
This was my parents life. Hot and cold.
My childhood was a nightmare.
Boys/Men can't usually deal with that well. Girls are made for that hot-cold rollercoaster
@@SimonB. Agree
No time for games. You don’t make time see ya
Love your content man. Waiting for your next video about Semen Retention. 1 year and going strong. Changed my life.
is it worth it for real?
One thing I could never do , I need it about three times a day
@@elasticharmony how old are you?
@@chahineezzine5504 It is worth it for single guys. The second you start texting her, relieve yourself so you are not always on edge. Trust me you will get turned on if your test is high.
@@elasticharmonyur beyond saving ma boy
Im dating a woman who is extremely traumatized because she saw her father being unfaithful to her mother and then to all the girlfriends he had afterwards as well. We talk every day but today for example she went back to her hometown (where she hasn't been for 3 weeks) and we are not going to meet this weekend (we haven't seen each other for 1 week)
How should I let her know that I want to see her more often?
Dread usually scares her away. She told me to stop seeing each other 1 month ago because I gave her too much dread. Some time later she came back because of good things and attitudes I had towards her (she is a very particular woman with her own traumas and fears).
That's a complex situation that may require more info and depth. What I will say in this comment is that you definitely need to make sure it's balanced out with positivity. Causing someone to feel dread when they are already a bit damaged can have bad results.
I say find a different female. Good ones without drama are available just give it to god and wait. Sounds like she not ready for serious because she open to options. Don't be an option. The right girl it will be obvious she is into you and it will come natural and easy.
I just got out a relationship with a girl who had her dad cheated on her mom when she was a kid and it had a negative impact on her life. She would always tell me that she hated cheaters. Well guess what she ended up cheating on me. I learned my lesson to never date a girl who was raised in a broken home.
My ex’s parents are still married after 50 years but her first boyfriend of 8 years who she was engaged to cheated on her. Her 2nd boyfriend died from an OD. Guess what she did? She cheated on me. Lesson learned don’t ever date someone that’s been cheated on
@@Phil-j7t I feel like these women who faced cheating in their lives want someone whom they dated to experience their suffering especially if their boyfriend is successful. But I look at life in lenses of stoicism and will learn from this experience.
I would rather just do good for myself, get in the gym and live my life peacefully. I really cant be bothered with this tiring calculated mind games 24/7. It might be good to show another side to you every now and then but revolving your life around this kind of crap is soo annoying.
do we seriously have to jump through all these mental gymnastics just to be with a woman? this is ridiculous.
He's Always Correct.
Wisdom & Truth Bombardier 🙌
I seriously feel sorry for the men who gotta deal with this because that's negativity, for absolutely no good reason. You're right that a lot of women need to be constantly emotionally stimulated. However, it comes from those with childhood trauma & a history of cheating. I noticed there are specific ones that always ask me how I'm feeling. I can be staring at the wall thinking about what I'm gonna eat for lunch, but she's constantly asking me how I'm feeling. It's so annoying. I realized the reason why they do that is because they're trying to enter your emotional space by gauging your thoughts & heart. It's quite intrusive. It can be with good intent sometimes, but I can tell when it's manipulation. I'd say males fall for it more cause y'll want to establish a relationship. I just don't roll like that. I gotta respond quickly & I rarely ask about feelings. All the respect to those who deal with that nonsense. Hats off 🎩
Great comment
This is not true, it isn't about "negativity" for "no reason". It's about being a real, natural man. Being yourself, not dropping your frame to appease women. As LFA explained many / most men automatically self-censor themselves especially when they really want to get with a woman they like a lot. You do make good points about women try to enter your emotional space, and often times quite manipulatively. But a man with his true masculine frame, who acts true to himself and treats people as they are deserving of being treated based on how they treat you. Doesn't have much too worry about in this regard.
I worry more about the ones that don’t care how I feel nor ever asked tbh
@EchoClam Fair enough to your points. My statement about negativity didn’t have to do with masculinity. I was referring to negative emotions steered up in the process. She’s gonna constantly assume negative things. Start fights. Hot & cold. It’s like talking to a wall. You can try to upkeep masculine frame. But truth be told, she has an issue with herself. I often see men fall into this trap where they’re trying so hard to be the best man they can be for a woman who has deep wounds. It’s just never enough. All you can do is choose your battles wisely, & not lose yourself to her. As they say, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” I’ve been around women like that, & refused to befriend them so I know how difficult they can be. So dealing with that in the first place is self-censoring, especially if you’re considering her for a LTR. That is unless you’re the hulk or something 😂
Much respect to you though.
You are right, LFA was explaining how to conquer a toxic woman, definitely not christian dynamics, these type of games work with women who did not heal from trauma, if a woman get arousal by domination games, do not engage with her, she should want you, and only want you to be kind, maybe in bed she can ask for something aggressive, but in everyday dynamic she should demand a confident and sweet caring man.
If she forces you to be any far from Christ in order to get her attracted to you then she is definitely not the one!!!
This brings back 2018 LFA vibes, and I’m here for it
No knowledge instigates a larger revelation, regarding women, than the one presented and explained in this video. 👏
This is your best film to date brother.
love your vids dude
Some women love the emotional roller coaster, if she's messed up in the head it's a f'íng nightmare.
These days if the vibe isn't good I'm out, they usually think you'll be back, but no.
Rule is too never be too nice to a woman just be chill and be direct they also like a guy that can curse but never overdo it . Cursing 🤬 brings out emotions
I must agree women do love a bit of drama , its keeping it fresh that counts but in a loving way not malicious
You brought the camera! Hell yes bro!
Hi LFA. The number one resource for understanding the content of this video is "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida.
Required reading. Requires multiple reads and lots of experience to truly understand the material.
Greetings from Oil country, Edmonton, Alberta.
If it requires multiple passes and lots of experience to truly grasp it, then it's not a number one resource maybe?
Key to that book is that in the beginning he says something along the lines of, be careful what you’re looking for because at the end a true/real man figures out he needs no woman. It’s a really good book.
Great book, I recommend it too.
Bro this is so on point, gold💯
Fellas, from many many many experiences you MUST realize & take in that no matters how much it hurts, makes you resentful or traumatizes you if she really wants to hook up or meet you she WILL find a way. She'll never be too busy or use her kid as an excuse. Any excuse or silence from her then she's giving all that attention to someone else.
yep, my foreign wife of almost 2 years I kid you not has Not missed contact for at least 4 hours of our waking days on both ends of the day for like whatever the 500 days we've been together, you may say/feel "oh, that's smothering" well, no, it's how the world USED to be in the 1950s and before before you know who took over our women's minds in the West.
Masculine brotherhood we meet again. 😎
Good point! Any books or Chanel have details about how to be good stimulations emotion ?
This video is Gold. For all of my life I was afraid to say the truth about my feelings to women because of their behaviour. Now when I get into a little fight I see it as a playful game, of course it depends on the gravity of the situation. Black and white is always better than grey
Its a narcisistic tactic. I wouldn't recommend it. It works maybe for a while, until the woman realise what u doing. And then all what u get is endless resentment, and no way back. Be authenic, having a backbone is good advise, but it has to be nautral and authentic, otherwise you're fcked. Also this kind of " don't want to piss the boss off" behaviour is lame, indeed. There is a balance, and it lies in the authentic personality and true emotions. Show your cards openly, basically so simple is that. Be a MAN!
Good for you not drinking. See what happens.
Let's see LFA's business card...
Bro living in the future. Ohio or PA vibe in this video.
When inside to upload and realized it was only 10.
@LFA it's the exact same temp here in Northern Indiana. Welcome to the cold lol
I want to piss my boss off 😅😂
sounds like a lotta work
Integrity isn't that hard bro. Once you get used to it, it's second nature.
If you want the woman, you'll have to do the work.
Nothing worth having is free.
😂exactly.this is the biggest sign of pain later
Not saying exactly what you're feeling actually takes more work
This man needs to release a country Rock Album I can imagine him sounding like the lead singer of NickelBack.
November 30th giving us advise from the future 😮
The technique described in the video is also what the late "Doc Love" called negative challenge and cautioned against using it too often.
This is not necessarily true. It’s actually women that have been cheated on from former partners especially if was a long term that end up cheating. It changes them emotionally and leaves a certain trauma they don’t ever fully heal from. It doesn’t matter how good the current relationship is she will never trust any guy ever again
How does that make it not true? Kinda sounds like an entirely different subject all together big boy...
@@stevewarner6621 what hes saying is many women will kill desire, whatever you do, whatever you say.
@ vitorpereira5461- pretty much. Everything this guy is saying is EXACTLY how my last relationship was word for word. My point is any woman that starts playing those ghosting games or makes a habit of it is 100% cheating on you. Doesn’t matter how long yall have been together. You gotta get rid of them cause they’ll never admit it until the relationship is over.
Ever notice how some females will constantly post their boyfriends together on social media I mean like every post in their story? They don’t do it to show the world how fake happy they are they do it to make their ex’s that they cheated on jealous. Think about it. Why would you post you and your partner you’re with every single day
It applies to men. Once you have been broken 💔 you never give your 💯 pct again
Well, you don't want to sound like a complete jackass, instead you can say to her: "Delete my number. From now on, you're a complete stranger to me."
There are No Virgins.
There are. They’re just young in the church. If the fathers are smart, they would see the stability and the wisdom of older men who’s done the work to take care of a family, and introduce their daughters to them. But we fathers are so damn stupid to see the logic on this. The young girls just want the poor beta pretty boy who’s a weakling and doesn’t know jack shit about how to take care of a family.
True@@Mr.Lateralus
There's not here...but they are in other countries, I flew out of country first time in my life 2023 and 1st trippp...found my wife. In One Week!
@@blockaderunner What country did you find your wife in?
I am 33yrs old and never had intercourse ..
Best LFA video
Great video 🔥🙌
Thanks for these videos! Great info & insight on these important topics for us men. Greetings from south Texas!
The brutal answer that many guys will not want to hear that will make her want to cheat on your or lose interest is that you are boring in bed. If you have 0 interest to explore in bed it's a wrap. Dirty talk, roleplaying, sensory play, expressing boundaries and turn ons, different positions. You need to make her excited to come back for more.
The same thing applies to the women also, if they don't do the things a guy wants in bed, he'll go elsewhere to get it,
that is a point. But women are complex and there are several ways they can lose interest. Several.
I lost my last 4 months date due to a single phrase, see she showed some text messages of her reaching out a guy for a payment he owed, she was very polite to him. I said without thinking: damn you are very polite to a guy owing you money, I dont see you being that nice to me lol.
She lost it there. went cold.
Not necessarily, even Chads can get cheated on, because vvomen treat Chads, the same way a kid treats a new toy, they play with it for a while, get bored of it, and they want a new toy.
Not always true. It’s actually women that have been cheated on in a long term relationship that usually cheat. Almost every single one of them. It changes them emotionally and doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with sex tbh
@@Phil-j7t perfect takes.
💯 I've seen and experienced this
Still the 29th here in Honolulu. 79°
True but once they have tried to disrespect me or pick a fight I Iose interest. No make up sex in my playbook ,they can take there box somewhere else .lol
Men. I can simplify your life by this one rule. Never ever argue with a woman. PERIOD.
If she does argue with you, then that is an indicator that she is competing with you, and that she disrespects you, which is abuse.
Never ever tolerate behavior as such. You will regret it.
If she does not argue with you, then what you have is a woman with GBD (genuine burning desire) which therefore she will be afraid to lose you if she complains and competes.
She must be in a constant state of healthy fear. Because if you do hold her accountable she will respond appropriately.
Nothing wrong with a healthy argument
@ A woman can challenge a man respectfully. But to compete is from
the heart, and that’s a huge no no.
LFA be like 😏😏 "what's up brothers"
This is why you let the chicks come to you. Because its on your terms and rules if they choose to stay, then its a win win. No baby mamas, childess, debt free and cash in the bank. 😂😂😂😂
Excellent
A=HV*(+/-E)^∞ , Attraction = High Value x (positive and negative Emotions) to the power of infinity. Pioneered by Alex social from real social dynamics like 10 years ago. Hold true for sure.
LFA giving away the secrets
This works great for me
You are right❤
Women make rules for betas and break rules for chads
The more masculine your vibe is, the more you'll witness women acting silly and stumbling words, this should be an ice breaker for the shy guys, let them fumble, realize she's just a person and be honest. There's lots of women in a day of being out and about.
Random dudes on the front porch are the BEST dudes from whom to receive dating advice.
And I got a steno pad …
(+10 to the house of your choice if you know what a steno pad is.)
Tension = Attraction
I know you don’t like doing reaction videos but it would be interesting to see your thoughts on Alexander Grace’s video titled “We are done”.
He explains how he used to tell men that they need to play games and put up with the combativeness and chaotic nature of low quality women and that he was wrong for it. Basically, he admits he was wrong for telling men to adapt to this destructive culture by telling them to just suck it up and figure it out because that’s “what men do.”
Would be interesting to see your thoughts about the value of playing games just to, at best, get some fun. Seems like lots of men are just tired of this and personally, I don’t blame them. Just hearing about all the psychoanalysis and mental games that it seems men have to partake in just for the possibility of having a woman entertain them for a bit sounds exhausting and I’m not even a man 😂
I don’t think there’s anything to react to. As I suggested in this video, I don’t think anyone should play games. I think we should have backbone and integrity. That by itself becomes a roller coaster and keeps things exciting because it naturally causes personalities to clash. It’s possible you misunderstood this message.
Hey LFA. I like your content. Man what you talk about is the truth but it is mostly oriented around the american culture. I come from the balkans and it is somewhat different here. In America your women only want fun and emotions which creats this dynamic where you have to be like circus for her. The things that you say are true but the culture creates a diffrence. The diffrence is that women know that they still need men and some women keep on even if they are not emotionaly there. And in america they just pack and leave. So while i do believe in what you say it true about woman psychology and it is like basics. There are women and cultures that do not do what you said in the video.
Its fuc...g true 👏👍
I tend to say: sure, youre busy. I'll date another girl then.
It doesnt give my good results though
I usually say “suit yourself” works way better. And write nothing else or just ghost her
Because feeling the need to state you have options is something someone without options would do. Same as someone without money would feel the need to dress expensive. Everybody well-thinking mind can see through the deceive.
@@VolleKwark makes sense. Thats why im not getting the results I expected.
But its not a deceive, i'll really date nother girl
Or just say FIt who needs em
Masculine brings divorce
Beta simp brings divorce too
In the men loose too😂😂😂
How to be in the club and not see hot girls as the enemy ?
dont give them as much attention as other men. Treat them like normal human beings
@ 🙏
Women like to be on an emotional rollercoaster. If you like to remain mostly on an even keel like me then dating is hard since women always like you to throw curveballs at them. And if you don't serve up curveballs they get bored.
People who are easily bored are the most boring people to be with.
It all boils down to how you make a woman FEEL.
I guess I never found the prize (a woman) to be worth the effort. It is such a full time job for the received benefits IMO. Why the lust for attracting women? Is it libido driven or do just need a friend?
Guys please take this advice fucking serious, don't live under anybodies standards including your boss and any woman
I think couples should ration out intimacy and sex to keep the passion going
i hear a lot of advice, some of it conflicting with each other. I listed to a book by coach Corey Wayne, he said when she gives the B.S. excuse of “oh I’m busy” you give her the “take away” and say call me if you are free later. What I always wanted to say was “that is a B.S excuse, you’re just to busy for me” should i actually say this out loud to a woman? what will it accomplish, i feel like so many of the things I wanna say when they are jerking me around or being disrespectful
would make me look like a violent psycho. Maybe I am a psycho, idk bro, enlighten me
imo an empty "i'm busy" without a response should be viewed as a problem. If the other person is interested in you two meeting, wouldn't she on her own try to reschedule your time together? At least explain what's on now and when she'll have time free?
"I'm busy = Can't be bothered (by you)"
If she wants to spend time with you she will move heaven and earth to see you . The im busy without any other reschedule is (im not bothered about seeing you) so yeah just be like ok cool let me know when you free. then just leave it 1000% . Brother even reading " I wanted to say BS thats just an excuse " is horribly cringe. You dont need to care when they are jerkiing you around -you just say ok cool let me know . Then DO NOT message them again. They will come back . If you are in long term dating this is different something is wrong . But 99% of time if you get this when dating long time -you Messed up . She needs to cool off and will be back for the "discussion"
@@bobthebuilder69429 Just say to her, “no worries [another girl] is not busy so I will be hanging out with her.” You have to let her know that you have options.
Just respond back with "k"
you look like that chad meme.
Try not to be reactive. Be proactive
My ex is kinda angry at me and still gets emotional but is gonna reach indiffrence soon. What should i do?
leave
@godsbruh done!
@@Rishachino leave without any explanation or blocking or anything. or create a very happy emotional moment then leave abruptly forever. most important
@@godsbruh I created the happy one and then again the angry one 💀 and then left 😭😭😭
@@Rishachino then problem. last moment should be happy so it will keep thins open
did goku ever chase chichi? of course not.... staying on the grind and if it comes it comes... something about being by yourself is peaceful. the young generation thinks having kids is being successful or something
I wonder how sustainable is to play mind-games in a long term. I wonder how exhausting is to play childish games instead of focus on your own growth. I wonder how adults can waste their mental health to satisfy their hunger for drama. I just wonder, sir...
I would suggest that you don't play games. Why would you?
@@LFA What you said in the video is literally games
What I suggested is that you stop playing games. I said that you should have backbone and speak your mind. That by itself is enough to cause the natural roller coaster that’s healthy for a well balanced relationship.
I’m curious though how this message could be so misunderstood by some. Roughly 98.8% of viewers understood that the message was to stop playing games. I would love for you to help me understand your perspective. For quality purposes, could you provide an example or a quote of “games” in this video?
Confession: I went into simp mode last night.
Recognize it and be better
Add bag to differ ! That is way too soft ! I will say to her instead what is your sister's phone number ?😆😆😆
Create a problem or she will
Don't say you prefer blondes though! That didn't work out well for me, but it was the truth. So I guess it helped me out in the long run by knocking off that brunette trap. Well actually she wanted to keep on talking, but I could tell what I said had her bleeding out and she just couldn't keep going on. Don't get me wrong, there's some brunettes I'd marry in a heart beat. Just not her.
you cant destroy whats never been there before bro
Cool
games
Instead of playing games, what I suggested is that you speak your mind and have backbone and integrity.
This is the shit that pisses me off about women.
take it with a pinch of salt
Teaching guys how to get laid in 2024???
According to stats… most young men don’t get laid
someone has too lmao
You have a real reason for asking that or just making a pointless observation?
@@malcolmwilliams9148 having sex w random women is a waste of time.
@@nicholastang1217 the sooner they realize getting laid isn’t what they’re missing/looking for the better.
lolol