Exactly, you need a full year of dating to say you somewhat know someone. You probably need another year living together to really see their true colours. She didn't want to know him. She wanted a ring and money and any cost
That would've made more sense if her and her husband were BOTH late-teens/early-20's and had an arranged marriage and were both from good stable families.
Truly. Everyone gets told that once in a while, but some idiots think that makes them wiser than their peers. Temperament is also often misinterpreted as maturity, but we all crumble all the same when shit hits the fan and learn to pick ourselves with trauma, thinking you can just skip through adversity and gain wisdom is naivety to its utmost degree😂
Classic grooming. A man 20 years older than you has nothing in common with you. He just wants to see you as inferior and control you. Bad decisions here from the jump.
Always. Meanwhile a person 20 years older than you could run circles around you without breaking a sweat if they wanted to. How much more when it's in a romantic/sexual relationship where common sense tends to exit the chat. And that's before we even get to where the person may or may not be an actual predator.
When I was younger, I used to feel so bad because my mom never got into a relationship or married. If I ever asked why she didn't date, she would just say that I'm enough and that would take away from me. When I got older my mom told me the truth. I told her I felt bad that I held her back from finding love. She told me that she did date every so often and that no man made her feel comfortable enough to bring around me. (I physically matured at a young age, I'm talking almost C cups by middle school). She said being alone was worth it, if she knew I was safe in our own home. No man was worth my innocence. I hugged her so tightly and was so thankful. Even though I still wish she could have found that special someone, she protected me and she wouldn't have changed a thing. Some mothers know what true sacrifice is.
Good on your mom. My mom did date and they were all either physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive. She now says she does not know what she was thinking back then and she should have done it on her own, but that she bought into the idea that she needed to "find a father figure" for me. Very sad because I have to live with the trauma and anger and she has to live with the guilt and regret.
@@RoblEsquire Hey jackass, she moved in with a Stranger in less than a fucking weeks and as a result of her kids got scarred for life your ass needs to just shut up 🤦♂️
The said part is I think she should lose her children but child services system is probably worse. What a awful situation, she’s directly responsible for them being 🍇d
I had to look up the creator they're talking about that she looks up to. Yikes I really feel terrible for decent people who want to just find love. This is dystopia. I don't know what a better word is. Just terrible.
Aba Here. Sorry for the out of focus footage, it was early morning filming and I was half asleep. Totally my fault but we only shoot things once so we figured wed rather give oyu our authentic take rather than refilm. Well do better! Happy thursday
And what about how society won't acknowledge me go through the same thing, it's not a men thing women prey on little boys all the time, it's a people problem so cut the selective judgement out like women never do it
Thank you for sharing this. This is the part of the story that CANNOT be neglected. Nobody deserves what she went through. Period. But at least let's discuss the REALLY BAD choices she made to be in that situation, and how she even had the audacity to try to teach it to other women.
The only victims here are the children. She is reckless and irresponsible, and he is a monster. One does not absolve the other. Those girls were put in danger and had their trauma exposed to the world. Absolutely disgusting. Exploited physically and financially by their parents...
@@Coco-xq7zh Not to the same level he is, it's always easier to blame a woman. She should have known what he was capable of the second she met him, but that's too much misandry for society.
No child should have to grow up and discover that something so deeply personal was put out there by their mother for thousands of people to commentate on. These girls have to face the world eventually. I don’t think the internet should be privy to their experiences of assault in open forum like this.
Ex serial dater here. In my personal and "3rd party observer" experiences.... people who try and rush a relationship forward via unprotected sex, marriage, moving in, etc.... are try to skip the part where you get to know them. Why? .... because they know that they can't hide that "crazy" much longer, and they want to lock YOU in before they are exposed. Rushing-in, is a conscious (or sometimes subconscious) relationship mechanism used by the trifling, degenerate, criminal, and annoying amongst us. Exceptions to this are extremely rare.
ooooohhhh gooooooddddd point...yes....!!! Thats true. cus healed ppl or ppl who are healing usually are in a place where they dont even trust themselves (in the sense of their old behaviors) and are trying to change soooooo they are usually not quick to act so rash... unless of course....they are kinda suffering somewhere mentally themselves and are "ducking for cover" in a new relationship.... Thanks for that insight!
I have noticed a lot of these young beautiful women tend to get in such dire circumstances all coming from a household that didn't have a strong father figure. I will forever be grateful and cherish my father every single day. When I got in an abusive relationship, my dad was ready to protect his families at all cost.
She was talking about how she thought her husband was this wonderful Christian man of course he turns out to be a monster smh. Being religious doesn't make you instantly moral.
2 Corinthians 11:13-15 For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their deeds. We must be careful for these false people, because they don’t listen to the words of God
Shut up, no one wants or cares about you preach and your scripture. more importantly, stop trying to pretend like he wasn't a real Christian. That's why people don't take ya seriously, zero fucking accountability.@@ienjoyliving4568
I am not saying she's lying, but I find the way she handled this online a bit weird. I'm curious because anyone can file a restraining order, but did it say why?, did the police report say why? Again maybe I'm just a little distrusting of this shit because we have seen the lengths people will go for online notoriety.
@@noemad5391aside from her being reckless and gullible, what has changed to make people all of a sudden not believe her story? Why would she try to divorce the guy for no reason when her brand is built on her being married to a "high value man"?
Let somebody talk long enough….they will tell on themselves. And she DOCUMENTED her horrible decisions that led to this tragedy. Social media is a helluva drug….🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
Yah, I'm in Egypt and the video popped on my feedback. I even follow some KSA accounts and they translated it to arabic and shared it with details. The video is very viral.
I heard a psycologist (expert in narcissism within family dynamics) say that when a younger person is "mature for their age" it is because,more often than not, they were exposed to circumstances that forces them out of their childhood. Like poverty, SA, PTSD etc. People need to stop using that as a flex sometimes..
Yeah I was told I was very mature when I was as young as 10 and I have been formally diagnosed with PTSD among others due to childhood and adulthood abuse and abandonment
Crazy thing is she made all immature decisions. Some older men just like to say that to encourage silly women who would accept it like some sort of flattery. She really made some dumb decisions and he could see that.
I agree with that, I was "mature for my age" at 12. Grew up in poverty, father murdered, single mom away a lot because she had to work 2 jobs to support us, I was the eldest son so I felt like I had to step up and grow up fast.
It’s over with. Women that have kids are a NO NO NO NO NOOOO. Sad to say but I feel sorry for the kids also and the roller coaster relationships the mother puts them through. Nope.
@@ostentatiousbeats I get that. Heck. I would agree with you about 2 decades ago but NOW. I mean now. It yields no benefit for a man that has none to date a single mom. If you can state 2 actual benefit for a man. I would love to hear that and this is my point. I just need 2 benefits. Simple right.
Being a victim does not absolve you of accountability. Let me say it again for the people in the back: Being a victim DOES NOT absolve you of accountability!!! Im so sick of the use of the phrase "victim blaming" to cover up shitty decision making processes. It's the biggest dodge of accountability going. Especially since very few things happen in a vacuum. You can be a victim and still be a piece of crap who screwed up. Both can be true at the same time. The messed up thing is, I'm willing to bet that this is far from over.
It's the fact that, we all know she had people in her life, questioning her decisions and trying to convince her she was wrong and she just pushed them away.
This how i feel whenever these chicks say theyre victims cause they dated 20 year olds while still in HS. Like yea dude is sick af for datin that young but you get called a perv for callin out the girl obviously not giving af about what she waa doing
*I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him,* $230k every 4weeks! | now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
@@cassieinspire3940 "This is an out moted idea. There are no innocent victims. If you live on this planet, you're guilty. Period, f*ck you, end of report, next case. Next fuckin' case." - George Carlin ruclips.net/video/o3QGYprWF08/видео.html
Yeah as I commented in the previous video. It seems that she ignored a LOT of red flags, and she said in the previous vid that she’s a person that is very protective of her kids and doesn’t let her kids sit on ppls laps and etc. But bro, marrying some random old geezer within a week is way worse.
What I'm wondering is she was with the father of her older kids for 7 years and no marriage? What happened to that guy? If he's still around I might want to look into getting custody of my kids. This chick reeks of irresponsible.
My sister met some guy in DR on a "girls trip" and said she wanted to get married. I was scared for her thinking he was using my sister for money / greencard, and recommended she get to know dude first. Just for giving my sister this advice, my mom got so mad at me, she stopped talking to me. It's been 9 years since I've heard from my mom. My sister had 2 kids and never told me or my brother. They say "protect black women" and when I try I lose my family. 🤷🏾♂ Marriage didn't even last 2 years, now she a single mom. Don't save them, they don't wanna be saved.
Had to read this twice. I know its your personal life but at some point you just gotta take note of how ridiculous some shit is and leave it up to God, allah yahweh whatever you prefer.
My son will be 13 next week, he's only met one man I've dated and we were engaged at that time. Being a parent and dating isn't exactly easy, but you need to put your kid(s) safety first.
I’ve been dealing with my Mom having her partners move in with us, or we moved in with them. It’s been like this since I was 1 years old. Most of the time, I didn’t meet them first. And even if I did meet them first, they’d move in or we’d move in soon after. It never once mattered how I felt about it. Although, she tried to convince me my opinion mattered, but it didn’t. Don’t do this to your kids. It messes them up in so many ways.
That’s why my sister is single after her two kids. She said she would kill if someone touched her kids. Another sister allows any man around her kids. Hopefully u have a better living situation.
I've always thought/said if something happens to my husband, I'd never have another person come into my house. I don't think I'd even be in a relationship before. I'd fuck around outside my house, have friends, but NEVER come near my kids. I find it wild when single parents bring new people into their lives and homes willy-nilly. I'd be like 1 year you can meet them, maybe sometimes dinners, move in? Nah
“ wasn’t mature enough for me“ girl , mature people don’t seek for dating advice on the internet, mature people have opinions of their own and they practice discernment
Also age doesn't have that much to do with maturity, just because the guy is 20 years older doesn't mean he's gonna be more mature. Also soo many young women are being told they're mature for their age. If she was actually mature for her age, she would have not gotten deliberately pregnant with a man who's not even her husband. She would have not agreed to move in with a man she has only been dating for a week and introduced her children to him right in the beginning.
At 9:02: Here is a translation for non-French speakers "Right now?! Right now??!! The Lord is my shepherd. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. I don't fear no evil." So, Preach is reciting a majority of the Psalm 23:4-5. There you have it folks!
Being so upset that you switch languages is common. As a Spanish speaker, it happens and it isn't super rare. I have never been so completely disgruntled that I switch languages to recite a Bible verse. That level of frustration is bananas. That's infarction territory right there.
The moment I saw your first vid, I was hoping y'all would watch her other videos, because bro... ALL the signs were there in my opinion, she ignored them because she wanted security and put a time limit on herself. and yes. social media has people MESSED UP on both sides when it comes to dating.
In one of her videos her daughter has literally yelling ow and crying in the background. Instead of going to check on her she was like sorry for the noise guys, ignore that 🤦🏾♀️
Most dudes are starting to realize how delulu some woman are getting, that the 60% of men under 30 have given up on dating (according to pew research study). Main reason a lot of men say are expectations. And people wonder why men are 50% more likely to go online dating.
The first video to this, I felt bad for her, being a mother myself. But watching this video too, bruh... WHAT THE ACTUALY FUCK. You're kids don't matter to you, money matters to you. Social status matters to her and glitz and glam, not her kids. Was what happened horrible? Yes. Was it a consequence of her own actions, yes.
The worst part is she had stated in that other vid she had the same trauma happen to her in the past and wished her children would never experience it, then introduces strangers to her kids and doesn't take necessary precautions. It's like she's to infatuated with being a housewife then being an over protective mother.
This, is a women who prioritizes herself and her needs and her men long before her kids is ever a priority. Strait up. No amount of trauma justifies this behavior. We really need to be bring back shame to society big time.
It's the lie social media sales and she fell for it, she wants to be a trophy wife (WHERE IS THAT EXACTLY?) yet she isn't even worthy to be a girlfriend, she is mentally unstable and needs help - Every child deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.
What's awful is that in one of her video, you can hear one of her daughter screaming "Ow" and crying. She wouldn't stop doing her makeup and just said to her audience "ignore the kid, she's with her dad". Who knows what he was doing to her when she was doing her videos?? Sick...
I’m not defending her at all here, but if I were her at that moment, I wouldn’t imagine that he could’ve been touching his own daughters.. She should’ve checked to see what was going on but I would think that the kids were playing with each other and their dad was monitoring them so I didn’t have to, not molest1ng them…
Yes! There’s a compilation video going viral that shows Isis on multiple videos of where A CHILD IS SCREAMING IN PAIN IN THE BACKGROUND! She just continues on putting on her makeup and giving relationship and dating advice while IGNORING her children that is with her husband in the house. 😱😡 I can’t believe her! I’m so disappointed, disgusted and devastated for the children. I just had another talk with my children. This is why I’m not dating anyone. I’ve been offered to go on dates, but MY CHILDREN’S SAFETY COMES FIRST! 🚩👀💅🏾💯
She reminds me of my sister! My sister would meet someone on a dating app and move in with them the next week. I use to be so frustrated with her because she would drag my nephew over to someone's house and they would start living with them, then she would cut off contact. She would randomly reach out if she needed something. She still does that to this day but luckily my nephew is with us and he's 18 now. The woman in the video definitely is reckless!!
I don't understand women like this. It blows my mind. I got married young, and due to the stresses of life we divorced. We were both 24 and had two daughters at the time. One was 5 and the other one was a couple months old. I made the decision that my daughters would never live with another man. I always said I'll remarry once the youngest is off to medical school. She is now 17 years old and has one more year before going to college. I put them first and don't regret it one bit. My goal is to travel and see what happens in the future. At least I can sleep at night knowing no one I dated hurt them.
Its selfishness. putting her own happiness and wants above the well-being of her children. what kind of idiot moves theirs kids into a mans house that they barley know? how come she doesn’t have anyone in her life that would tell her this is irresponsible? the whole situation makes me so sad for those children
Wait O.o medical school means she'd already have her BAS... you can go for it when she's 18. You don't have to wait for 22/23. Congrats on your girl getting close to the high school finish line. Tell her to enjoy the lack of stress lol
She claimed that when she was young, she was abused by a neighbor, that being the case, you would think she would be incredibly incredibly cautious about who has access to her children.
But the thing is, following her story so far, he didn't harm her children she had before she met him. He did the ones they had together. There's no way anyone can prepare for that, given her others were just fine.
I think you need to read up on how being molested can affect your decision making, it can be totally the opposite, or you could be blind to the same tactics that you fell for as a child.. Remember, an unhealed adult is basically a damaged child internally.
I mean they were *HIS* biological daughters. So I get why she didn't pay much attention, if you can't trust your husband with his kids, who are you going to trust ? Hopefully, people can learn from her mistakes.
She was, but society thinks everyone who isn't friends and family are the dangerous men, so she was looking the wrong way. Overwhelmingly things like homo side or grape will happen from someone who knows you.
She now has a DUTY to delete all of it! She was out here tryna teach other women the same GOOFY level of thinking that led her to this situation. Ain't no way she can keep those up
That is a sign of maturity. Why would she leave those videos online when the advice in them led her into an absolutely hellish situation? An irresponsible person would leave them online to profit financially off of them, despite them being dangerously bad advice! Smh
Abd remember she said she could do everything on her own and is "self-efficient"? These are the same ones to be calling guys "dusty" yet have absolutely nothing going on for themselves. It's hilarious and sad at the same time..
Apparently she works in law earning 90k so she was desperate for a man not that she couldn’t financially take care of herself and kids. Also if she actually listens to Shera she’d know that she tells women to always have their own money, car et. before getting in a relationship with a “high value man”. She has always discouraged single mothers with young children from dating and to only introduce their children a long way down into a relationship.
@@niqerfaguettranykykethat’s actually not what shera promotes. She promotes women having their own money and resources But if that’s what helps you sleep at night, please continue to lie to yourself 😂
I’ve been single for 5+ years. My kids have never seen a man in my bed. 2+ years since I just stopped dating. You can’t be that lonely to just let anyone in your kids life.
So she was irresponsible with her men, and that never stopped... she thought she found a big fish and didn't do her due diligence to vet the guy. Such an irresponsible move when u have children
Yes it’s insane, she’s directly responsible for the child 🍇. She is nuts and her children have had irreversible damage done because of her actions. Infuriating , be a single mom, better than child grape
Those poor poor kids didn't even get a chance to choose if this information should be shared with the whole world or not. They've been born to horrible PARENTS.
Salute to you guys saying what needs to be said. Adults are expected to be held accountable for their actions. The first thing i would've said in her situation is why is this man 20 years older than me single if he's a high value man? And why is he wanting to get married when he barely knows me? I feel horrible for her kids and i feel bad for her because no one should ever be victimized like that but my god she did absolutely nothing to protect whats supposed to be the most important thing in a parents life and she doubles down on stupid and plasters all of this all over the internet. Mothers day should not be a day celebration it should be a day of reflection for her for the rest of her life wtaf. She could've done better, and was expected to do better.
the way she still had pictures up of her 2 daughters on her social media at the time of posting is CRAZY. absolutely no regard for her children's privacy
I had pity for her initially, but even with her past, I have to say that she's partially responsible for what befell her kids. There were too many red flags for her to ignore.
I only have sympathy for the kids for having to be brought to a toxic environment where their mom Chose a man because of financial reasons instead of venting and even realizing the red flags. Bitch carried about the luxury he brought
I think straight women should just stop dating. Doesn't matter what you do or say, if a man you choose does something wrong the blame will always fall on you.
@@minecraftvvg4250so wanting a rich man(something that 99% of women naturally do) means you deserve taking the blame for running into a psychopathic pedophile who faked his whole persona and identity to get to the kids? Nahh fam. Truth of the matter is, there are some people so psychopathic that they fake their whole life and you’ll never know until you physically see proof like she did. And a r*pist of a 4yr old is less than 1%of humans level of evil. That’s so evil that thankfully 99%of ppl aren’t that hence why she didn’t even suspect it
@@Nicobs2k6 right! I didn’t have any particular interest in HC at first (I already hop from language to language so creoles or patois would be “more” work in my eyes) but after hearing that first “tout de suite,” it made me wanna pick it up and also relearn French. He’s a good motivator😭
I usually don’t listen to commentary like this but, I’m so grateful for the way you guys handled this! It does need to be said because these girls are looking at social media and taking this stuff to heart not realizing ITS JUST CONTENT! Even the sprinkle lady isn’t doing the dumb SH she promotes. She at the house making videos from her phone in her bedroom. It’s crazy.
21:10 "You're still a kid." Hearing this put it all into perspective for me. How would a PDF File lure a kid in a adult's body. Not with candy and toys, but with money.
For real. I remember being 22, dating a 25 year old divorcee. I had already known her for 10 months, and it was not until another 5 months of dating her did she even let me know her childs name, yet alone meet her daughter.
She was definitely groomed as child and with all her background shared in the previous video, her behaviour is not surprising. This is so unfortunate on all fronts. I hope they get the help they need.
@alayhaferron1972 putting her kids in a dangerous position for no reason, and not doing proper research on the man before allowing him to touch her children
so, let me get this straight, marries this dude within 1-2 weeks of knowing him, he apparently SA her 4 times within the first months of their marriage, and she just figured he was gonna change and what a great husband he will be???? man this women needs to have her kids taken🤦♂️ not only that but her story doesn’t even add up about how he just “so happened to reach out to me ONE DAY after i left my ex” yeah sounds more like she’s a cheater and was talking to dude beforehand because if this women had 2 kids, i highly doubt she’s leaving a stable environment without being reassured that the grass is greener on the other side🤔
Have you met these modern women? I assure you they will do just that and worse. She literally told that man she was homeless and needed a place to stay.
Our eldest daughter is 14, my husband (her father) and I have spoken to her about people who say the phrase “You are so mature for your age”, those people are lying to you, they are trying to manipulate you, and they do not have your best interest in mind. She told us of a friend who had an older teen boy say this to her, we contacted the friends parents to give them a heads up. Even with both parents in the home you need to be so mindful and teach your kids, prepare them! Don’t let them be naive, keep it age appropriate sure but there are ways to discuss relationships. Have an open door policy so your children will come to you without being stressed or anxious that they will be judged. They don’t have to go through this alone!
@@AnthonyJohnson-hs3xs women will always want rich men. No sane person assumes only rich men r*pe kids.💀 That’s like saying if you want a beautiful woman, like all men, expect her to be like Amber Heard crazy. You see how insane that sounds
Yup. Single moms dooming their daughter to become single moms. Even if she didn't tell her that, she would see that it's possible to raise a child by yourself and would only pick dudes based on breeding purposes anyway. It's so sad.
The more i learn about this lady, the more awful i find out she is. I feel for her kids the whole world knows about their trauma, and their mom is a selfish idiot.
That was my first thought. This should NOT be on the internet. She’s posting their most horrific trauma to the public without their understanding or consent. That’s disgusting.
@@MK-Hogan Most women nowadays are starved for attention and tiktok/etc makes it extremely easy to get it, not to mention validation, and they search for an echo chamber too, which is really sad.
She’s gained so many followers in the past few days and that video has millions of views and legit two days ago she was averaging 2-4k views with 20k followers
@@edjohn5114 I’m low key stoked for this to blow the whole red pill and bad bitch era to smithereens. Bring back respectable average working men and women who want families. The new narrative makes it seem like young escorts and rich old men are the only people worthy of reproducing.
When I was a little girl my mom was a single mother and I almost fell victim to a pedophile(her ex), my mom was very protective of me and saw how he acted towards me and the things he would say when she went to the bathroom for a second or to look for something. She saw the red flags from a mile away and I never saw him again. Thanks mom ♥️
I believe this was an episode of When predators meet. A sexual predator vs a financial predator. Sadly two young girls are broken and traumatized for life
You’re not a financial predator if a man is offering money in exchange for manipulating you and your family. There’s a reason the term ‘sexual predator’ implies someone who’s seeking out those who are sexually vulnerable… whereas ‘financial predator’ is not a term. The creepier one’s sexual predilections, the more money and power is required to hide his deviance
Idk if it’s verified that he did what she said he did but, I wouldn’t be surprised if she is making all this ish up. Im not saying she is lying but I definitely don’t trust her
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Ya'll are gonna need to do another update. There is even more to this story and her negligence to the abuse. It's disturbing and honestly she is at fault too.
The kids ALWAYS suffer, imagine growing up and finding a video of your mom saying she let a man in her life that r@ped her and her mom…..this is a sick world we live in
@Ministress999 • Not only did I peep this out I also noticed that there is only a picture of 2 of her 5 children. Why is that?. ALL of the children were born when she met him.
It doesn't matter if this guy is rich, poor or average, I want that to be very clear these men exist in all tax brackets She did not do her homework and that's the real problem.
This is the reality about the “high value man” and the type of women that chase them. Those relationships are not based on shared values etc. … they’re not goals …. They’re miserable .
3men within the space of a year is wild. She needs to also check on those boys because if this man can do that to his SMALL children then what will he do with kids that are not his. I feel sorry for the kids because she didn't give herself time to get to know these men.
And the fact that she said she would move into a guys place so soon if she had 2 daughters shows that she was sleeping on them boys. She did not say anything about having them checked & asking them if her husband did anything to them. We have many men walking around with trauma they never told a soul cause their moms & society thinks it does not happen to boys.
The younger boy was abused. But she wouldn’t talk about that because it would be obvious she put the boys in danger moving them from one stranger man to the other
4:00 - that's why I ABSOLUTELY HATE this "advice" of follow your gut and "if you know you know" FUCK THAT. Your gut is just bunch of experiences from your life telling you what's familiar so of course if you had a shitty past you're going to be attracted to those who can replicate that. And because of that sometimes when you only "listen to your guts" and don't acknowledge your traumas and mechanisms you end up in the same situations. Heal your traumas and use your head too. Don't just follow "the butterflies" cuz they can lead you to hell if you're not careful.
Thank you two for having the courage to say this out loud, this needed to be said. I believe she said in the previous episode that she had been SA'd herself, whether that's true or not, we don't know. She presents victim mentality (making unhealthy choices, looking for a savior etc.) mixed with lazy "too pretty to work" princess attitude. I am a survivor of SA myself and I most applaud you for the part at the end when you mentioned that this trauma attracts the wrong people. I can unfortunately speak from experience that this is very true. It's bad and hard enough to get yourself together after being SA'd but then to go through more hell because sick people literally sense this dark chapter within you and prey upon you almost feels worse. I got me to a breaking point where it was time to turn the victim into a survivor. I had to learn to respect and love myself again, to take care of myself, to listen to my instincts and protect myself when the alarm bells ring. To watch her dragging her children into her mess is absolutely devastating and I hope that they will survive her and everyone else she allows access to them.
Thumbs up if you're a woman who is beginning to have more appreciation for having men in your family vet your boyfriends or husbands. As men, we provide and protect with more logic and less emotion.
I have an 8 year and 15 year old my 15 old has a lot of friends whose parents are divorced. My older son already told me if something happens to my husband/his dad to please not put any other men in the house. I gave my son my word. So many weirdos out there that specifically seek out single women to get to the kids 😢
My mom had so many bfs after her divorce. My dad it took him years after. And it was years between his relationships. And even now with my mom and 20 years later I don’t keep up with her bfs
Single mom of a 2 and 6 year old. Not even thinking of dating after a year, and if i happen to come across one, he needs to have his own kids, and we'd have to date for a looooonnnngggg time. Prefer to pour love/effort into non romantic relationships for a good while.
Theres nothing wrong to bring another man in your life, just take the time to know that man to the core. My mom married my stepfather who was a father figure to me and my sister and loved us as such but we didn’t move in together until time was right sadly he passed away when i was a teenager.
Every wife is a trophy to her husband. Every husband is high value, that’s how we should see each other. As long as you both work hard and the roles you have chosen that works for your marriage each is valuable. Marriage and relationships are jokes to these people, keep chasing shoes,bags, rings instead of quality partners.
I'm a twisted bastard, she said she left the other guy because he didn't 'embrace' her kids and I started laughing because the next guy did and in the worst possible way. Her sense of danger is all twisted, she's identifying safety signs like keeping distance from the children and identifying it as a danger signal then running to a legit predator and seeing his danger signals as safety signs. This woman is the antelope from the meme.
This is like marrying a stripper on your first night out at the club. These girls think with their dicks all the time it just looks different than men. She was chasing a title ring like dudes chase the box lol desperate
Well judging by what was shared that her mother was a product of r*pe and she was abused as well I highly doubt she has *any* idea what a healthy relationship is. She never stood a chance and now her children have a very high chance of repeating the cycle.
I said it yesterday, there are always 2 sides to the story. There were vibes from her that I wasn’t feeling at all. And the stuff she was saying belongs in a police report; not aired online for the world to see.
The year of 2025 I need black men and women to stop with the relationship podcasts. Especially, the ones with little experience and no common sense. More podcasts on financial literacy!!!
Always remember TIME AND UNEXPECTED SITUATIONS show the integrity of a person. It shows how people handle their anger when they don’t get what they want and how long you spend time with them show you their flaws and integrity
As a mom of 4 girls, I already told my husband that if we didn't work out (i have no plans on ever divorcing, it's just a conversation we've had) that I won't be bringing a new man into their lives. I understand that things happen and we can't tell the future, but I can say I will never trust a man alone with my children, ever. You never really know someone and whats going through their heads.
This is why I want to have kids with the right man, one that will stay with me, because I don't ever want to bring another man around my kids. However, in this case, as far as we know, it looks as if he did this to his own biological kids. This is just a sick world.🤦♀️
Divorce is one thing, however SA can happen by one in your 4 girls life male or female. You better talk and listen to your girls, watch who you have around your girls, and watch where they go.
There are two other videos where you can hear her baby girl screaming "no" and "stop" in the background and she just casually dismisses it, tells her fans to do the same and said the kids are with their father yet she claimed she watches them like a hawk and she doesn't how and when he did it..... SMH! There are a lot of discrepancies in her videos that don't paint her in a good light.
11:19 well after what I saw Shera7 said, she never said be stupid and be desperate either,and talked about single moms and dating around your children to be careful,not trying to defend Shera idk her or follow her but there are context to everything
@@tnago916Ive never watched Shera but it seems that the main issue is what she does say, Women take a mile with it and act horribly. Similar to how rp spaces will give advice and there are men that take it to the extreme
@@bruiseleeroy7010if you are talking about idiots who take things the wrong way, they will always take things the wrong way.. because they lack common sense.
@@downsuncovery2590 of course no man is an island but to yearn for something that strong to the point that you'd sacrifice your children's safety for a partner is just sad. I don't know her but her life decisions tells me that there is definitely something wrong with her.
It just dawned on me she said her husband changed when they got married. But she married him within a week of knowing him WTF
This part
Exactly, you need a full year of dating to say you somewhat know someone. You probably need another year living together to really see their true colours. She didn't want to know him. She wanted a ring and money and any cost
!!!!
That would've made more sense if her and her husband were BOTH late-teens/early-20's and had an arranged marriage and were both from good stable families.
Bruh fr tf 😂😢
It always starts with being told your mature for your age..
Gaslighting
Truly. Everyone gets told that once in a while, but some idiots think that makes them wiser than their peers. Temperament is also often misinterpreted as maturity, but we all crumble all the same when shit hits the fan and learn to pick ourselves with trauma, thinking you can just skip through adversity and gain wisdom is naivety to its utmost degree😂
Classic grooming. A man 20 years older than you has nothing in common with you. He just wants to see you as inferior and control you. Bad decisions here from the jump.
@@Handsome_Hustler_88more like grooming
Always. Meanwhile a person 20 years older than you could run circles around you without breaking a sweat if they wanted to. How much more when it's in a romantic/sexual relationship where common sense tends to exit the chat. And that's before we even get to where the person may or may not be an actual predator.
When she said age gap 20 years she wasent looking for a husband.... she was looking for her Father
And her father is also a rapist. Wow
Unhealed daddy issues will have you messed up man 💯!!
She was looking for the father that generated her. And she found
@@bruninhamrso 😱
More like sugar daddy
As a single parent you are automatically a target for all kind of predators. This lala land of happily ever after is a lie..
Yessss
This.
When I was younger, I used to feel so bad because my mom never got into a relationship or married. If I ever asked why she didn't date, she would just say that I'm enough and that would take away from me. When I got older my mom told me the truth. I told her I felt bad that I held her back from finding love. She told me that she did date every so often and that no man made her feel comfortable enough to bring around me. (I physically matured at a young age, I'm talking almost C cups by middle school). She said being alone was worth it, if she knew I was safe in our own home. No man was worth my innocence. I hugged her so tightly and was so thankful. Even though I still wish she could have found that special someone, she protected me and she wouldn't have changed a thing. Some mothers know what true sacrifice is.
Selfless Mum
Legend
Good on your mom. My mom did date and they were all either physically, emotionally, or sexually abusive. She now says she does not know what she was thinking back then and she should have done it on her own, but that she bought into the idea that she needed to "find a father figure" for me. Very sad because I have to live with the trauma and anger and she has to live with the guilt and regret.
You have a wonderful mom❤
THAT IS A MOTHER!
I love this. Thank you for sharing. 🙏🏾
moving your kids into two different men's houses is diabolical and idgaf if it comes off as victim blaming
Yeah I agree 💯
Diabolical work… these kids need to be taken away from her as well. God help them 😞
She doesn't deserve any of what happened to her but she definitely didn't do any work to prevent it from happening
She needs to be blamed. She wasn’t even the victim here it’s the daughters. So let’s keep blaming her.
Men that she barely even knew at that!
This whole story is incredibly disturbing. Those poor kids, man.
Ummm idiot.... we have not heard if this story is confirmed
They gonna be so messed up kidos, big time. Evil parents both of them
@@RoblEsquire Hey jackass, she moved in with a Stranger in less than a fucking weeks and as a result of her kids got scarred for life your ass needs to
just shut up 🤦♂️
yup. Its diabolical to lie about such a thing
The said part is I think she should lose her children but child services system is probably worse. What a awful situation, she’s directly responsible for them being 🍇d
LMAO "It don't take a firefighter to recognize a fire."
BARS!!! Preach be preaching!!!
Amen!
Preach be quoting the Bible too ! (Psaume 23)
_Et en français, SVP !_ 😎
"Social media got y'all f'd up." Yup, that about sums it up.
Yep!! They are letting social media pick their husbands and wives and are shocked at the results 🤦
I had to look up the creator they're talking about that she looks up to. Yikes I really feel terrible for decent people who want to just find love. This is dystopia. I don't know what a better word is. Just terrible.
Factzzz
Amen
Yup
Aba Here. Sorry for the out of focus footage, it was early morning filming and I was half asleep. Totally my fault but we only shoot things once so we figured wed rather give oyu our authentic take rather than refilm. Well do better! Happy thursday
Fun Fact: Aba rhymes with Grabba.
You good, love this content! Keep up the good work exposing 🫡
Anything to push the blame back on a woman. Rich or poor, a lot of men are like this yet society doesn't want to come to terms with admitting that.
That’s a bet
No worries ❤
Even the sprinkle sprinkle lady says not to bring men around your kids, so sad
@@neecephillips4052 She's never given advice about doing that. She knows how men are, society won't acknowledge that though.
And what about how society won't acknowledge me go through the same thing, it's not a men thing women prey on little boys all the time, it's a people problem so cut the selective judgement out like women never do it
She even came out and said “aht aht don’t blame me for your actions” she further elaborated but I’m giving cliff notes
But they were his kids
@@tnago916 women are the same way but society won't acknowledge that
Thank you for sharing this. This is the part of the story that CANNOT be neglected.
Nobody deserves what she went through. Period. But at least let's discuss the REALLY BAD choices she made to be in that situation, and how she even had the audacity to try to teach it to other women.
The only victims here are the children. She is reckless and irresponsible, and he is a monster. One does not absolve the other. Those girls were put in danger and had their trauma exposed to the world. Absolutely disgusting. Exploited physically and financially by their parents...
She is a monster
@@ducksquidbat8315 hmm not really.
@@アキコ2003 bottom feeder.
@@アキコ2003hmm yea she kinda is, more on the irresponsible side
@@Coco-xq7zh Not to the same level he is, it's always easier to blame a woman. She should have known what he was capable of the second she met him, but that's too much misandry for society.
No child should have to grow up and discover that something so deeply personal was put out there by their mother for thousands of people to commentate on. These girls have to face the world eventually. I don’t think the internet should be privy to their experiences of assault in open forum like this.
That's ALL I've been thinking about. Just sad
This is 2024 a new generation of 30, 40, etc yr old ppl that feel grown but hey.
I was thinking the exact same thing, and she got all glammed up to do it...WTF
Imagine right? It’s viral at this point.
I agree but I’m glad they are seeing that these content creators are full of it and the sprinkle sprinkle life is not all what it’s cracked up to be.
Ex serial dater here.
In my personal and "3rd party observer" experiences.... people who try and rush a relationship forward via unprotected sex, marriage, moving in, etc.... are try to skip the part where you get to know them. Why? .... because they know that they can't hide that "crazy" much longer, and they want to lock YOU in before they are exposed.
Rushing-in, is a conscious (or sometimes subconscious) relationship mechanism used by the trifling, degenerate, criminal, and annoying amongst us.
Exceptions to this are extremely rare.
This!
Love that you added annoying😂
ooooohhhh gooooooddddd point...yes....!!! Thats true. cus healed ppl or ppl who are healing usually are in a place where they dont even trust themselves (in the sense of their old behaviors) and are trying to change soooooo they are usually not quick to act so rash... unless of course....they are kinda suffering somewhere mentally themselves and are "ducking for cover" in a new relationship.... Thanks for that insight!
Bruh...you nailed it...all the chicks I've dated who were rushing me into marriage..I found out later that they were complete nutjobs
This is facts! Also , beware of someone who wants you when you're vulnerable.
I have noticed a lot of these young beautiful women tend to get in such dire circumstances all coming from a household that didn't have a strong father figure.
I will forever be grateful and cherish my father every single day.
When I got in an abusive relationship, my dad was ready to protect his families at all cost.
Internet women are getting advice from women that are for entertainment not for life lessons, and these women have no defense mechanism to filter that
She was talking about how she thought her husband was this wonderful Christian man of course he turns out to be a monster smh. Being religious doesn't make you instantly moral.
2 Corinthians 11:13-15
For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. So it is no surprise if his servants, also, disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their deeds.
We must be careful for these false people, because they don’t listen to the words of God
Lots of monsters hide behind money, charity or religion
Often, just the opposite
Shut up, no one wants or cares about you preach and your scripture. more importantly, stop trying to pretend like he wasn't a real Christian. That's why people don't take ya seriously, zero fucking accountability.@@ienjoyliving4568
It's takes Christian discernment to vet a Christian spirit, I see now that she wasn't even in the Spirit to test his Spirit.
She did file a restraining order and got police involved from the screenshots I saw online of the police report.
Betski
I am not saying she's lying, but I find the way she handled this online a bit weird. I'm curious because anyone can file a restraining order, but did it say why?, did the police report say why? Again maybe I'm just a little distrusting of this shit because we have seen the lengths people will go for online notoriety.
Her kids need a restraining order from her
Fucked up on ya'll part to run with an unconfirmed story!!!!
@@noemad5391aside from her being reckless and gullible, what has changed to make people all of a sudden not believe her story? Why would she try to divorce the guy for no reason when her brand is built on her being married to a "high value man"?
Let somebody talk long enough….they will tell on themselves. And she DOCUMENTED her horrible decisions that led to this tragedy. Social media is a helluva drug….🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
The crazy thing brotha is she’s volunteering all of this information like she isn’t doing anything wrong. Sad and pathetic asf lol
Or worse
she lied about all this
cause this isnt making sense and why is this man not charged?
This is disappointed & disturbing!!💀
I guarantee you her social media will be used to vindicate her husband
@@D13vestWow! I thought about her kids' privacy, but you're so right!
Yah, I'm in Egypt and the video popped on my feedback. I even follow some KSA accounts and they translated it to arabic and shared it with details. The video is very viral.
I heard a psycologist (expert in narcissism within family dynamics) say that when a younger person is "mature for their age" it is because,more often than not, they were exposed to circumstances that forces them out of their childhood. Like poverty, SA, PTSD etc. People need to stop using that as a flex sometimes..
Yeah I was told I was very mature when I was as young as 10 and I have been formally diagnosed with PTSD among others due to childhood and adulthood abuse and abandonment
Crazy thing is she made all immature decisions. Some older men just like to say that to encourage silly women who would accept it like some sort of flattery. She really made some dumb decisions and he could see that.
@@alleykittycat I am sorry you went through that. I hope you're in a better place now. Hugs.
@@Kontroversiii facts, and he lovebombed her but she was also blinded by his resources that she forgot the art of discernment.
I agree with that, I was "mature for my age" at 12. Grew up in poverty, father murdered, single mom away a lot because she had to work 2 jobs to support us, I was the eldest son so I felt like I had to step up and grow up fast.
I feel worse for the kids more than anything else in this situation. They deserve better than this.
It’s over with. Women that have kids are a NO NO NO NO NOOOO. Sad to say but I feel sorry for the kids also and the roller coaster relationships the mother puts them through. Nope.
I just hope they beat the odds and grow up to be in a much better situation
@@mr.duanesharpenot all single moms are like that. Some take a long time to introduce their kids
I honestly think child services needs to intervene after seeing this
@@ostentatiousbeats I get that. Heck. I would agree with you about 2 decades ago but NOW. I mean now. It yields no benefit for a man that has none to date a single mom. If you can state 2 actual benefit for a man. I would love to hear that and this is my point. I just need 2 benefits. Simple right.
Being a victim does not absolve you of accountability. Let me say it again for the people in the back: Being a victim DOES NOT absolve you of accountability!!!
Im so sick of the use of the phrase "victim blaming" to cover up shitty decision making processes. It's the biggest dodge of accountability going. Especially since very few things happen in a vacuum.
You can be a victim and still be a piece of crap who screwed up. Both can be true at the same time.
The messed up thing is, I'm willing to bet that this is far from over.
@adrianchatman5734 well said!!!
It's the fact that, we all know she had people in her life, questioning her decisions and trying to convince her she was wrong and she just pushed them away.
@@Omniryu are you assuming that or has she mentioned something along those lines?
@@hotshower695 I'm assuming. But I'm also not stupid. You know she did. Pretending she didn't is naive.
This how i feel whenever these chicks say theyre victims cause they dated 20 year olds while still in HS. Like yea dude is sick af for datin that young but you get called a perv for callin out the girl obviously not giving af about what she waa doing
*I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him,* $230k every 4weeks! | now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?.. I have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
It's Ms. Evelyn Vera doing, she's changed my life.
I started pretty low, though, $5000 thereabouts. The return came massive. Joey is in school doing well, telling me of new friends he's meeting in school. Thank you Evelyn Vera, you're a miracle.
Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.
The saddest part is that it was her children that had to bear the pain of her vanity and greed.
Like mother, like daughters. She wasn't protected and her kids weren't either
@@courtneyw6224 And her kids are gonna perpetuate the cycle.
@@nobushidono9897naw they not going to bring kids here into this hellhole like most smarter people
@@nobushidono9897 Or maybe not, don't wish ill on innocent kids.
@@cassieinspire3940 "This is an out moted idea. There are no innocent victims. If you live on this planet, you're guilty. Period, f*ck you, end of report, next case. Next fuckin' case." - George Carlin
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Yeah as I commented in the previous video. It seems that she ignored a LOT of red flags, and she said in the previous vid that she’s a person that is very protective of her kids and doesn’t let her kids sit on ppls laps and etc. But bro, marrying some random old geezer within a week is way worse.
It doesn't matter because the dude had money. That's what she cares about the most.
@ Yeah… and that’s just sad
What I'm wondering is she was with the father of her older kids for 7 years and no marriage? What happened to that guy? If he's still around I might want to look into getting custody of my kids. This chick reeks of irresponsible.
She's a narcissist
if you only know someone a week, a lot of red flags don't have enough time to start waving yet, much less be ignored.
My sister met some guy in DR on a "girls trip" and said she wanted to get married. I was scared for her thinking he was using my sister for money / greencard, and recommended she get to know dude first. Just for giving my sister this advice, my mom got so mad at me, she stopped talking to me. It's been 9 years since I've heard from my mom. My sister had 2 kids and never told me or my brother. They say "protect black women" and when I try I lose my family. 🤷🏾♂ Marriage didn't even last 2 years, now she a single mom. Don't save them, they don't wanna be saved.
You tried your best. Thats all you can do.
You were right. Nobody is hated more than those who speak the truth.
But it’s always our fault, huh?🤦🏾♂️
Damn. That’s rough and the innocent party, your nieces/nephews, didn’t have any part of that decision making
Had to read this twice. I know its your personal life but at some point you just gotta take note of how ridiculous some shit is and leave it up to God, allah yahweh whatever you prefer.
My son will be 13 next week, he's only met one man I've dated and we were engaged at that time. Being a parent and dating isn't exactly easy, but you need to put your kid(s) safety first.
My first reaction to seeing the thumbnail was "Oh no".
me too bro. i gasped. started praying... i aint even religious like that 😭🙏
People like these make me lose hope in humanity
yep. and my second reaction was "fuck, my empathy is at dangerously low levels right now"
On everything. I Immediately said no way before even clickin
Me too
I’ve been dealing with my Mom having her partners move in with us, or we moved in with them. It’s been like this since I was 1 years old. Most of the time, I didn’t meet them first. And even if I did meet them first, they’d move in or we’d move in soon after. It never once mattered how I felt about it. Although, she tried to convince me my opinion mattered, but it didn’t. Don’t do this to your kids. It messes them up in so many ways.
I’m so sorry you experienced that. I empathize with that trauma.
@@Boba_Tourette I'm so sorry. I hope that you are old enough and financially stable enough to have your own home.
That’s why my sister is single after her two kids. She said she would kill if someone touched her kids. Another sister allows any man around her kids. Hopefully u have a better living situation.
I've always thought/said if something happens to my husband, I'd never have another person come into my house. I don't think I'd even be in a relationship before. I'd fuck around outside my house, have friends, but NEVER come near my kids. I find it wild when single parents bring new people into their lives and homes willy-nilly. I'd be like 1 year you can meet them, maybe sometimes dinners, move in? Nah
😢
“ wasn’t mature enough for me“ girl , mature people don’t seek for dating advice on the internet, mature people have opinions of their own and they practice discernment
Mature people usually don't need help finding other mature people....
Also age doesn't have that much to do with maturity, just because the guy is 20 years older doesn't mean he's gonna be more mature. Also soo many young women are being told they're mature for their age. If she was actually mature for her age, she would have not gotten deliberately pregnant with a man who's not even her husband. She would have not agreed to move in with a man she has only been dating for a week and introduced her children to him right in the beginning.
💯💯
People who are mature don’t date women 20 years younger than them, everybody really thinking we living in a James Bond film
Don’t save her… she don’t wanna be saved
At 9:02: Here is a translation for non-French speakers "Right now?! Right now??!! The Lord is my shepherd. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. I don't fear no evil." So, Preach is reciting a majority of the Psalm 23:4-5. There you have it folks!
😅😅😅. Thank you for the translation.
Mercy bookoo
Being so upset that you switch languages is common. As a Spanish speaker, it happens and it isn't super rare.
I have never been so completely disgruntled that I switch languages to recite a Bible verse. That level of frustration is bananas. That's infarction territory right there.
@@TravisFebruarymerci beaucoup
@@punksoabhonestly speaking Portuguese I do the same thing but to reference the bible is a next level of disbelief 😂😂😂
The moment I saw your first vid, I was hoping y'all would watch her other videos, because bro... ALL the signs were there in my opinion, she ignored them because she wanted security and put a time limit on herself. and yes. social media has people MESSED UP on both sides when it comes to dating.
Yep
Precisely, she didn't want to lose her fantasy land that she has smh
In one of her videos her daughter has literally yelling ow and crying in the background. Instead of going to check on her she was like sorry for the noise guys, ignore that 🤦🏾♀️
Drizzle Drizzle
Most dudes are starting to realize how delulu some woman are getting, that the 60% of men under 30 have given up on dating (according to pew research study). Main reason a lot of men say are expectations. And people wonder why men are 50% more likely to go online dating.
This isn't victim blaming. Her CHILDREN are victims, she's an accessory
Hey, YES.
That’s the CORRECT word!!!
These were HIS kids not the stepkids.
@JK-nq1dl people seem to conveniently leave that part out when talking about this
FACTTTSSS 🗣️
The first video to this, I felt bad for her, being a mother myself. But watching this video too, bruh... WHAT THE ACTUALY FUCK. You're kids don't matter to you, money matters to you. Social status matters to her and glitz and glam, not her kids. Was what happened horrible? Yes. Was it a consequence of her own actions, yes.
Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child.
This is a huge example of that quote
*every child
@ my bad. Thanks 😂😂
shite😢
I see this quote on every video about shitty parents I cannot see it anymore
The worst part is she had stated in that other vid she had the same trauma happen to her in the past and wished her children would never experience it, then introduces strangers to her kids and doesn't take necessary precautions.
It's like she's to infatuated with being a housewife then being an over protective mother.
I got the impression that bcuz she asked God to not let that happen to her kids, she thought she could just be wreckless and everything would be fine.
This, is a women who prioritizes herself and her needs and her men long before her kids is ever a priority. Strait up. No amount of trauma justifies this behavior. We really need to be bring back shame to society big time.
It's not about being a housewife, it's about the bag and will always be the bag.
It's the lie social media sales and she fell for it, she wants to be a trophy wife (WHERE IS THAT EXACTLY?) yet she isn't even worthy to be a girlfriend, she is mentally unstable and needs help - Every child deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children.
Thing is she was over protective and they were still abused sadly.
What's awful is that in one of her video, you can hear one of her daughter screaming "Ow" and crying. She wouldn't stop doing her makeup and just said to her audience "ignore the kid, she's with her dad". Who knows what he was doing to her when she was doing her videos?? Sick...
Oh my god no!!!!!!
I’m not defending her at all here, but if I were her at that moment, I wouldn’t imagine that he could’ve been touching his own daughters.. She should’ve checked to see what was going on but I would think that the kids were playing with each other and their dad was monitoring them so I didn’t have to, not molest1ng them…
Yes! There’s a compilation video going viral that shows Isis on multiple videos of where A CHILD IS SCREAMING IN PAIN IN THE BACKGROUND!
She just continues on putting on her makeup and giving relationship and dating advice while IGNORING her children that is with her husband in the house. 😱😡
I can’t believe her! I’m so disappointed, disgusted and devastated for the children.
I just had another talk with my children. This is why I’m not dating anyone. I’ve been offered to go on dates, but MY CHILDREN’S SAFETY COMES FIRST! 🚩👀💅🏾💯
@@QueenRennepost the video
@@QueenRennewhere was this video posted?
She reminds me of my sister! My sister would meet someone on a dating app and move in with them the next week. I use to be so frustrated with her because she would drag my nephew over to someone's house and they would start living with them, then she would cut off contact. She would randomly reach out if she needed something. She still does that to this day but luckily my nephew is with us and he's 18 now. The woman in the video definitely is reckless!!
I don't understand women like this. It blows my mind. I got married young, and due to the stresses of life we divorced. We were both 24 and had two daughters at the time. One was 5 and the other one was a couple months old. I made the decision that my daughters would never live with another man. I always said I'll remarry once the youngest is off to medical school. She is now 17 years old and has one more year before going to college. I put them first and don't regret it one bit. My goal is to travel and see what happens in the future. At least I can sleep at night knowing no one I dated hurt them.
Its selfishness. putting her own happiness and wants above the well-being of her children. what kind of idiot moves theirs kids into a mans house that they barley know? how come she doesn’t have anyone in her life that would tell her this is irresponsible? the whole situation makes me so sad for those children
I completely agree with you. @@chuckokoye2410
It's easy, most women have NO accountability or foresight. The "women are perfect" economy has ruined most of them.
Wait O.o medical school means she'd already have her BAS... you can go for it when she's 18. You don't have to wait for 22/23.
Congrats on your girl getting close to the high school finish line. Tell her to enjoy the lack of stress lol
No one has to do it like you tf many people don't understand women like you who think cause a relationship ends you can't move on
She claimed that when she was young, she was abused by a neighbor, that being the case, you would think she would be incredibly incredibly cautious about who has access to her children.
But the thing is, following her story so far, he didn't harm her children she had before she met him. He did the ones they had together. There's no way anyone can prepare for that, given her others were just fine.
I think you need to read up on how being molested can affect your decision making, it can be totally the opposite, or you could be blind to the same tactics that you fell for as a child..
Remember, an unhealed adult is basically a damaged child internally.
I mean they were *HIS* biological daughters. So I get why she didn't pay much attention, if you can't trust your husband with his kids, who are you going to trust ? Hopefully, people can learn from her mistakes.
She was, but society thinks everyone who isn't friends and family are the dangerous men, so she was looking the wrong way. Overwhelmingly things like homo side or grape will happen from someone who knows you.
@@ApohMayeven if he didn’t girl it’s still not an excuse
She deleted all her old videos. That says a LOT
She sure did. That's because she was putting on a show. I've been there. It's really embarrassing.
Yessss!!! Plus they would bring those up in COURT!!!
Because they were with or about the abuser of her children. Tf
She now has a DUTY to delete all of it! She was out here tryna teach other women the same GOOFY level of thinking that led her to this situation. Ain't no way she can keep those up
That is a sign of maturity. Why would she leave those videos online when the advice in them led her into an absolutely hellish situation? An irresponsible person would leave them online to profit financially off of them, despite them being dangerously bad advice! Smh
“It doesn’t take a fire fighter to recognize a fire.” That quote was fire. 🔥
Wait hold up she was about to be homeless with two kids and begged a man to move her in after a week? SHE’S THE DUSTY SHERA RAILS AGAINST!!
No no, it's not the same thing with women. Only men can be dusties as they are sole providers, in the sparkle bich universe
Not in the sparkle bimch universe where men are seen as sole providers.
Abd remember she said she could do everything on her own and is "self-efficient"? These are the same ones to be calling guys "dusty" yet have absolutely nothing going on for themselves. It's hilarious and sad at the same time..
Apparently she works in law earning 90k so she was desperate for a man not that she couldn’t financially take care of herself and kids. Also if she actually listens to Shera she’d know that she tells women to always have their own money, car et. before getting in a relationship with a “high value man”. She has always discouraged single mothers with young children from dating and to only introduce their children a long way down into a relationship.
@@niqerfaguettranykykethat’s actually not what shera promotes. She promotes women having their own money and resources But if that’s what helps you sleep at night, please continue to lie to yourself 😂
I’ve been single for 5+ years. My kids have never seen a man in my bed. 2+ years since I just stopped dating. You can’t be that lonely to just let anyone in your kids life.
@@daynaclemons8626 I don't think that it was her being lonely as much as it was her looking for a come up following Shera7's "advice"
My kids met my replacement the day he moved in.
LITERAL APPLAUSE!!! Yes mama!!!
She doesn't want to work
you never bring a man home unless he already dating you and he already been knowing you for some time. 6 months minimum
So she was irresponsible with her men, and that never stopped... she thought she found a big fish and didn't do her due diligence to vet the guy. Such an irresponsible move when u have children
Love your comment and Piker is a douche. Very astute. 👍
Hasan Piker is a douche indeed
Yes it’s insane, she’s directly responsible for the child 🍇. She is nuts and her children have had irreversible damage done because of her actions. Infuriating , be a single mom, better than child grape
Love your name.😂
@@carlocarlosHe touched HIS daughters allegedly and not the older kids she already had.
Did anyone else notice the picture of the husband in the back?
Those poor poor kids didn't even get a chance to choose if this information should be shared with the whole world or not.
They've been born to horrible PARENTS.
She married a stranger and shes shocked that the stranger did strange things... 🤔
Crazy Tings!
That is going in my book of quotes: "I don't need to be a firefighter to recognize a fire" - Preach
Salute to you guys saying what needs to be said. Adults are expected to be held accountable for their actions. The first thing i would've said in her situation is why is this man 20 years older than me single if he's a high value man? And why is he wanting to get married when he barely knows me? I feel horrible for her kids and i feel bad for her because no one should ever be victimized like that but my god she did absolutely nothing to protect whats supposed to be the most important thing in a parents life and she doubles down on stupid and plasters all of this all over the internet. Mothers day should not be a day celebration it should be a day of reflection for her for the rest of her life wtaf. She could've done better, and was expected to do better.
the way she still had pictures up of her 2 daughters on her social media at the time of posting is CRAZY. absolutely no regard for her children's privacy
she lacks boundary recognition. this is a clear indicator or narcisssism.
god help those children.
I had pity for her initially, but even with her past, I have to say that she's partially responsible for what befell her kids. There were too many red flags for her to ignore.
I only have sympathy for the kids for having to be brought to a toxic environment where their mom
Chose a man because of financial reasons instead of venting and even realizing the red flags. Bitch carried about the luxury he brought
I think straight women should just stop dating. Doesn't matter what you do or say, if a man you choose does something wrong the blame will always fall on you.
@@minecraftvvg4250Rich or poor, a lot of men do this.
@@minecraftvvg4250so wanting a rich man(something that 99% of women naturally do) means you deserve taking the blame for running into a psychopathic pedophile who faked his whole persona and identity to get to the kids? Nahh fam. Truth of the matter is, there are some people so psychopathic that they fake their whole life and you’ll never know until you physically see proof like she did. And a r*pist of a 4yr old is less than 1%of humans level of evil. That’s so evil that thankfully 99%of ppl aren’t that hence why she didn’t even suspect it
@@tnago916 narcissistic men are statistically more likely to be in positions of power.
9:02 I love when Preach gets confused or pissed off and switches languages😅
I can't lie, I love it too! It's worth learning French, let me tell you that! Now I need to work on Haitian Créole 🤣
@@Nicobs2k6 right! I didn’t have any particular interest in HC at first (I already hop from language to language so creoles or patois would be “more” work in my eyes) but after hearing that first “tout de suite,” it made me wanna pick it up and also relearn French. He’s a good motivator😭
@@kikialeaki1850the fact that he kept it glinf after the fact made it tjat much more funnier. It’s like he couldn’t stop 😂
It’s the best shit ever honestly lol
You know it’s bad when he speaks his native language. 🤣
I usually don’t listen to commentary like this but, I’m so grateful for the way you guys handled this! It does need to be said because these girls are looking at social media and taking this stuff to heart not realizing ITS JUST CONTENT! Even the sprinkle lady isn’t doing the dumb SH
she promotes. She at the house making videos from her phone in her bedroom. It’s crazy.
21:10 "You're still a kid."
Hearing this put it all into perspective for me. How would a PDF File lure a kid in a adult's body. Not with candy and toys, but with money.
100% agree. My bf of 10 years didn't meet my son until we had been dating for 9 months. Protect your children.
Smart... but I hope he knew from the start
But these were HIS kids
@@JK-nq1dlthey are referring to her letting this monster meet the kid after knowing him for one date. Her boys from previous relationships
@@evelinapushkash6827But many people in these comments seem to think the kids he touched allegedly were the kids she let him meet too soon
For real. I remember being 22, dating a 25 year old divorcee. I had already known her for 10 months, and it was not until another 5 months of dating her did she even let me know her childs name, yet alone meet her daughter.
She was definitely groomed as child and with all her background shared in the previous video, her behaviour is not surprising. This is so unfortunate on all fronts. I hope they get the help they need.
Will therapy be enough
Jail will fix her
@@onlyelectronics no. She has probably never had a relationship that didn’t include sexual violence
@ jail for what?
@alayhaferron1972 putting her kids in a dangerous position for no reason, and not doing proper research on the man before allowing him to touch her children
so, let me get this straight, marries this dude within 1-2 weeks of knowing him, he apparently SA her 4 times within the first months of their marriage, and she just figured he was gonna change and what a great husband he will be???? man this women needs to have her kids taken🤦♂️ not only that but her story doesn’t even add up about how he just “so happened to reach out to me ONE DAY after i left my ex” yeah sounds more like she’s a cheater and was talking to dude beforehand because if this women had 2 kids, i highly doubt she’s leaving a stable environment without being reassured that the grass is greener on the other side🤔
Have you met these modern women? I assure you they will do just that and worse. She literally told that man she was homeless and needed a place to stay.
Aba - "Social Media got y'all Fxcked Up" yep sums up a lot of wild situations in today's society smh
It's got some people feeling entitled to a lifestyle they don't want to build but for someone to build it for them.
Our eldest daughter is 14, my husband (her father) and I have spoken to her about people who say the phrase “You are so mature for your age”, those people are lying to you, they are trying to manipulate you, and they do not have your best interest in mind. She told us of a friend who had an older teen boy say this to her, we contacted the friends parents to give them a heads up.
Even with both parents in the home you need to be so mindful and teach your kids, prepare them! Don’t let them be naive, keep it age appropriate sure but there are ways to discuss relationships. Have an open door policy so your children will come to you without being stressed or anxious that they will be judged. They don’t have to go through this alone!
That's wild. Her golddigging had a heavy price.
FACTS!!!!!!
Hypergamy works against women.
@@AnthonyJohnson-hs3xs So you believe poor men don't do this?
@@AnthonyJohnson-hs3xs women will always want rich men. No sane person assumes only rich men r*pe kids.💀 That’s like saying if you want a beautiful woman, like all men, expect her to be like Amber Heard crazy. You see how insane that sounds
@@tnago916most men can’t so yeah
Just listened to his niece account of everything. Kinda filled in the blanks for me. I'll refrain from judgement until all facts come out.
at 1:10 she said her mom said to go with the best breeder. this woman was doomed from the start
Yup. Single moms dooming their daughter to become single moms. Even if she didn't tell her that, she would see that it's possible to raise a child by yourself and would only pick dudes based on breeding purposes anyway. It's so sad.
I dont even understand what kind of advice that is? What is "the best breeder"?!??!
@ best breeder is guys like me
@ jk 😂😂😂💀 but it’s delusion that’s what it is
I had to rewind to make sure I was hearing correctly. Cause WHAT
The more i learn about this lady, the more awful i find out she is. I feel for her kids the whole world knows about their trauma, and their mom is a selfish idiot.
My thoughts exactly!
That was my first thought. This should NOT be on the internet. She’s posting their most horrific trauma to the public without their understanding or consent. That’s disgusting.
@@MK-HoganIll say it
Is there a trial or any charges to this man?
This dude if this is true SHOULD BE IN PRISON
@@MK-HoganThis woman strikes me as odd asf
@@MK-Hogan Most women nowadays are starved for attention and tiktok/etc makes it extremely easy to get it, not to mention validation, and they search for an echo chamber too, which is really sad.
The more I learn about this woman, the less I want to.
She’s gained so many followers in the past few days and that video has millions of views and legit two days ago she was averaging 2-4k views with 20k followers
@@opheliadays5803all off her daughter being touched
Facts but I just can’t look away. This is a great case study that applies to too many modern women 🤦🏾♂️
@@edjohn5114 I’m low key stoked for this to blow the whole red pill and bad bitch era to smithereens. Bring back respectable average working men and women who want families. The new narrative makes it seem like young escorts and rich old men are the only people worthy of reproducing.
@@opheliadays5803 you nailed it
She was ridiculously thirsty!!! Those poor children 😢 😢😢😢
When I was a little girl my mom was a single mother and I almost fell victim to a pedophile(her ex), my mom was very protective of me and saw how he acted towards me and the things he would say when she went to the bathroom for a second or to look for something. She saw the red flags from a mile away and I never saw him again. Thanks mom ♥️
Shero
I believe this was an episode of When predators meet.
A sexual predator vs a financial predator.
Sadly two young girls are broken and traumatized for life
Sexual predator is a billion times worse
!!!!! Energy matched energy, with the biggest losing parties being the children.
@@KittyKat-zo1ueobviously but never go after a guy for just their money that’s a foolish move
You’re not a financial predator if a man is offering money in exchange for manipulating you and your family.
There’s a reason the term ‘sexual predator’ implies someone who’s seeking out those who are sexually vulnerable… whereas ‘financial predator’ is not a term. The creepier one’s sexual predilections, the more money and power is required to hide his deviance
Idk if it’s verified that he did what she said he did but, I wouldn’t be surprised if she is making all this ish up. Im not saying she is lying but I definitely don’t trust her
Ya'll are gonna need to do another update. There is even more to this story and her negligence to the abuse. It's disturbing and honestly she is at fault too.
The force is strong with Aba! He always knows whats up.
Yo wtf is the "THIS IS A SICKNESSSSSSSSSSS, of the Highest Order."
Pasta Martin Ssempa. Dey eat da PooPoo!
Dad may be white
Yow, sickness it’s when it’s funny, this ain’t funnyy
Pasta Martin Ssempa
The kids ALWAYS suffer, imagine growing up and finding a video of your mom saying she let a man in her life that r@ped her and her mom…..this is a sick world we live in
No these were HIS kids not the older kids she let him meet quickly. She had boys these were HIS daughters.
I notice how the comments completely missed the full blown photos in the background of the video of the husband AND the kids.
Clocked it quick
I thought that must be her dad at first😣
I literally paused the video and ZOOMED in
The guy is 20 years older than her, he's supposed to look like her dad 😂.
@Ministress999 •
Not only did I peep this out I also noticed that there is only a picture of 2 of her 5 children. Why is that?. ALL of the children were born when she met him.
It doesn't matter if this guy is rich, poor or average, I want that to be very clear these men exist in all tax brackets She did not do her homework and that's the real problem.
This is the reality about the “high value man” and the type of women that chase them.
Those relationships are not based on shared values etc.
… they’re not goals …. They’re miserable .
She's using the excuse of "religious", there's no religious rich men. Just egomaniacs pretending to be moral.
3men within the space of a year is wild. She needs to also check on those boys because if this man can do that to his SMALL children then what will he do with kids that are not his.
I feel sorry for the kids because she didn't give herself time to get to know these men.
I noticed that too. When she said the doctors checked the daughters for abuse she didn't mention the boys getting checked.
And the fact that she said she would move into a guys place so soon if she had 2 daughters shows that she was sleeping on them boys. She did not say anything about having them checked & asking them if her husband did anything to them.
We have many men walking around with trauma they never told a soul cause their moms & society thinks it does not happen to boys.
@@beewest5704She didn’t have 2 daughters. Those are HIS kids. She had older boys but that’s NOt who he allegedly touched.
@@JK-nq1dl He touched his own kids with her. She had 2 previous boys and 3 daughters with the man.
The younger boy was abused. But she wouldn’t talk about that because it would be obvious she put the boys in danger moving them from one stranger man to the other
I’m Nigerian, but Preach getting worked up in Creole had me roooooolling because it’s like I completely understood the outrage in another language lol
4:00 - that's why I ABSOLUTELY HATE this "advice" of follow your gut and "if you know you know" FUCK THAT. Your gut is just bunch of experiences from your life telling you what's familiar so of course if you had a shitty past you're going to be attracted to those who can replicate that. And because of that sometimes when you only "listen to your guts" and don't acknowledge your traumas and mechanisms you end up in the same situations. Heal your traumas and use your head too. Don't just follow "the butterflies" cuz they can lead you to hell if you're not careful.
Those kids gotta be AWAY from both of these clowns, good lord
Thank you two for having the courage to say this out loud, this needed to be said. I believe she said in the previous episode that she had been SA'd herself, whether that's true or not, we don't know. She presents victim mentality (making unhealthy choices, looking for a savior etc.) mixed with lazy "too pretty to work" princess attitude. I am a survivor of SA myself and I most applaud you for the part at the end when you mentioned that this trauma attracts the wrong people. I can unfortunately speak from experience that this is very true. It's bad and hard enough to get yourself together after being SA'd but then to go through more hell because sick people literally sense this dark chapter within you and prey upon you almost feels worse. I got me to a breaking point where it was time to turn the victim into a survivor. I had to learn to respect and love myself again, to take care of myself, to listen to my instincts and protect myself when the alarm bells ring. To watch her dragging her children into her mess is absolutely devastating and I hope that they will survive her and everyone else she allows access to them.
Arrested development keeps you playing the same character in different stories
I like what you said
Thumbs up if you're a woman who is beginning to have more appreciation for having men in your family vet your boyfriends or husbands. As men, we provide and protect with more logic and less emotion.
The fact that she has to be sped up because she talks so painfully slow lol
Mentally disturbed. I have that too at times.
10:12 even Queen Elsa said you can’t marry a guy you just met ❄️👸🏼
So true.👍🏾
Right!
I have an 8 year and 15 year old my 15 old has a lot of friends whose parents are divorced. My older son already told me if something happens to my husband/his dad to please not put any other men in the house. I gave my son my word. So many weirdos out there that specifically seek out single women to get to the kids 😢
My mom had so many bfs after her divorce. My dad it took him years after. And it was years between his relationships. And even now with my mom and 20 years later I don’t keep up with her bfs
He molested his own kids that she had with him. Not the step kids.
Single mom of a 2 and 6 year old. Not even thinking of dating after a year, and if i happen to come across one, he needs to have his own kids, and we'd have to date for a looooonnnngggg time. Prefer to pour love/effort into non romantic relationships for a good while.
Theres nothing wrong to bring another man in your life, just take the time to know that man to the core. My mom married my stepfather who was a father figure to me and my sister and loved us as such but we didn’t move in together until time was right sadly he passed away when i was a teenager.
@@galarxaAwww. Bless you. May He Rest In Power❤. The Good ones are always called by God too quickly🕊️🕊️🕊️❤
Every wife is a trophy to her husband. Every husband is high value, that’s how we should see each other.
As long as you both work hard and the roles you have chosen that works for your marriage each is valuable. Marriage and relationships are jokes to these people, keep chasing shoes,bags, rings instead of quality partners.
I'm a twisted bastard, she said she left the other guy because he didn't 'embrace' her kids and I started laughing because the next guy did and in the worst possible way.
Her sense of danger is all twisted, she's identifying safety signs like keeping distance from the children and identifying it as a danger signal then running to a legit predator and seeing his danger signals as safety signs. This woman is the antelope from the meme.
Bars.
Im ngl.....This was going thru my mind too as soon as I heard "embrace" lol.
This is like marrying a stripper on your first night out at the club. These girls think with their dicks all the time it just looks different than men. She was chasing a title ring like dudes chase the box lol desperate
Generally speaking ladies get away with being dumbb
Well judging by what was shared that her mother was a product of r*pe and she was abused as well I highly doubt she has *any* idea what a healthy relationship is.
She never stood a chance and now her children have a very high chance of repeating the cycle.
I said it yesterday, there are always 2 sides to the story. There were vibes from her that I wasn’t feeling at all. And the stuff she was saying belongs in a police report; not aired online for the world to see.
You’re not alone. Aside from being upset over the whole situation, this was my strongest sentiment: why dafuq is she airing this online
@@indoorfish55and WHY IS THERE NO CHARGES!!?!!!!
@@indoorfish55she smiling tho that’s what is pissing me off
@ImYukaByeBye probably not enough evidence. She did manage to get a restraining order though
The year of 2025 I need black men and women to stop with the relationship podcasts. Especially, the ones with little experience and no common sense. More podcasts on financial literacy!!!
Who will watch that?
I'll watch that for sure.
Caleb Hammer is a good one🤷🏼♀️
💯💯💯💯
Not just black all races.
Always remember TIME AND UNEXPECTED SITUATIONS show the integrity of a person. It shows how people handle their anger when they don’t get what they want and how long you spend time with them show you their flaws and integrity
As a mom of 4 girls, I already told my husband that if we didn't work out (i have no plans on ever divorcing, it's just a conversation we've had) that I won't be bringing a new man into their lives. I understand that things happen and we can't tell the future, but I can say I will never trust a man alone with my children, ever. You never really know someone and whats going through their heads.
This is why I want to have kids with the right man, one that will stay with me, because I don't ever want to bring another man around my kids. However, in this case, as far as we know, it looks as if he did this to his own biological kids. This is just a sick world.🤦♀️
When are the ASMR videos coming 😂🥺
RESPECT!!!!
I hope your husband does the same bc a lot of women a just as vile as a man
Divorce is one thing, however SA can happen by one in your 4 girls life male or female. You better talk and listen to your girls, watch who you have around your girls, and watch where they go.
Shuler King Comedian said it recently, social media have you thinking you're behind people you already passed.
It’s been proven that many people refuse to think for themselves.
💯👏🏽💯✨️🫡🌷🌅
FAXX
@@nataliexrd256 💯💯💯💯 logic on point
So true 👍🏽
9:19 not the whole prayer!! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂😂
Jsuis mort 😂😂😂😂
I understood every work 🇭🇹 😂
I had no idea what the hell he was saying, but I know what he was saying you feel me
There are two other videos where you can hear her baby girl screaming "no" and "stop" in the background and she just casually dismisses it, tells her fans to do the same and said the kids are with their father yet she claimed she watches them like a hawk and she doesn't how and when he did it..... SMH! There are a lot of discrepancies in her videos that don't paint her in a good light.
11:19 well after what I saw Shera7 said, she never said be stupid and be desperate either,and talked about single moms and dating around your children to be careful,not trying to defend Shera idk her or follow her but there are context to everything
Agreed.
@@senexieneipha3362 People just don't like that she is blunt about men and how they act.
@@tnago916Ive never watched Shera but it seems that the main issue is what she does say, Women take a mile with it and act horribly. Similar to how rp spaces will give advice and there are men that take it to the extreme
@@bruiseleeroy7010if you are talking about idiots who take things the wrong way, they will always take things the wrong way.. because they lack common sense.
Saying you need to cheat if you're paying half rent is crazy man. That's worth disliking her over, alone.@@tnago916
the consequences of low self-awareness..
The moment she said that she feels lonely without a partner is a big indication that she is unfixable. She inevitably met the demon.
Most people feel lonely without a partner. Thats just human nature.
@@downsuncovery2590 of course no man is an island but to yearn for something that strong to the point that you'd sacrifice your children's safety for a partner is just sad. I don't know her but her life decisions tells me that there is definitely something wrong with her.
Maybe if youre desperate and dont know how to have fulfilling relationships with people in general @downsuncovery2590
They don't even get married in the end of MOST disney princess movies