So far I have understood the concept of forgiveness it clearly means to unload the burden of any kind of negative emotion from our inner self against the wrongdoer, but it doesn't mean to accept the abuse or the abuser, otherwise no battle of Kurukshetra would have continued once after Arjun surrendered to fight against his own family, and no Bhagavat Geeta would ever prevail...sometimes it becomes very essential to take action against someone we know and also know that whatever they are doing are definitely not supposed to be done, since it's against humanity, it's against morality, it's always not equally important that how far we can suffer but many a time it's more essential that what'll be the impact of such actions on others as well on the later coming days...thank you for this informative video!
Super podcast, I have followed dr Ramani in English & seeing in hindi made me feel proud as it would reach to lot of people in our country, thanks again & God bless both of you 😊
My 33 yrs old daughter ,very charming, and doing good job she is having NPD and has the all the symptoms u said .we gave her everything and we as a parents had good relationship between we both the partners she has no value for us .we gave her all love to her .she is devorce and she is very charming also for outside she is very normal . inside home she is very toxic .we suffer since so many yrs .my elder daughter is ok .
😢NPD women i have seen , she just made hell for her hubby, she cutted down his frds, mom, sis ,and brother too, and she manipulated him, and blamed him always for everything, make him feel like that he is uslessperson
Same happened with me mam. Love bombing se domestic violence. And i am still facing this. Even he didn't spare me during my pregnancy and I landed in miscarriage. Even after my miscarriage he abused me and my family and blamed my age for it. I didn't understand till now that he is mentally ill. Was hoping some day my devotion and love will change hum. Even his family members knew about it but they hid it from me. He went into depression in past before our marriage due to break ups and layoffs. Even when I came to live with him usa , he was taking secretively depression tablets prescribed to him by his family doctor. And now I am in a hell situation. Stuck from all sides. What should i do now. I don't want my Marriage to break. But what is right for me. I am going through a lot each day
I have been living with my husband for last 37yrs and who is having Narcissistic personality disorders. Now I am watching my 34yrs daughter that she is also slowly slowly getting all the NPD traits. What should I do. My husband and daughter both are denied that they have these issues and they are blaming me that I have all mental issues. I am suffering a lot .At the age of 58 I can't go out of this marriage and I am not financially independent also. So kindly suggest me how I can handle this situation
Try practicing vipassna meditation. Their are many centres In india. It runs on donations. Please try and heal yourself. Detachment is very important in these cases. Do courses and seva. Keep yourself busy like that.
Mam I tackling whole faimly narcissiststhey all play part for over come to me from business way even one young lady was envolved by that faimly by the m mind
Dear madam whats the need to laugh so much. Be a bit sensitive. You are talking about such a cruel personality traits.you know we are living dead bodies. Nothing in this world to live for n can't die either to ends the things once n for all . Roj ek struggle hai aise bekar logo ke sath jina.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Laughter or smiling can sometimes be a way to cope, but I understand it might seem insensitive. Please remember you're not alone-reach out to a friend, family member, or you can contact us as well at +91 91510 06808
@@lifecoachamitadevnani thank you so much for your reply. but let me know how can you help? I lost all the hope to b ever free from this vicious circle till alive. How many time I tried to run away but where to go , these people make sure you have no place to find a bit of peace.
Same ,dead inside alive only for kids.Lost self confidence, self esteem, physical appearance everything. 34 years of extreme mental and emotional abuse by father in law and husband in a joint family.Controlled my kids n my life .On top of that husband is alcohol n tobacco addict. Is no contact the only solution ?
My husband & my samne vali aunty neighbour both have these symptoms and flyingmonkeys all are making my life hell. Abhi thora samaj aa rha hai npd ke bare me pta chla to
@@lifecoachamitadevnani Not true at all. If it were that simple, we wouldn't be sitting here discussing this so extensively and survivors wouldn't be constantly suffering or in fear for their lives. It's a condition for which there is no cure. Narcs and their behavior can't be corrected since they don't acknowledge that the problem lies with them. They're delusional and perpetually in denial mode, blaming others for their wrongdoings. Therefore, to say that they can be made to understand anything through counseling is not just laughable but outright dangerous. In therapy, the narc will end up learning how to better cover their tracks and to better hide their true inner selves. Narcs are often able to connivingly reverse roles and convince the therapist that the victim is the perpetrator. Where therapy can help, is teaching the survivor to be cognizant of the tactics they use to manipulate and control others and to teach them coping mechanisms to somewhat manage the onslaught of abuse they're facing.
Meri Wife narcisst hai . Mere shadi ko 7 years ho gaye . Main abhi usake sath nahi rehta hoon . Muze pahile bahut silent Treatment deti thi . Usaki family usako support karati hai. Kya usake family ko pata hai who NPD hai
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So far I have understood the concept of forgiveness it clearly means to unload the burden of any kind of negative emotion from our inner self against the wrongdoer, but it doesn't mean to accept the abuse or the abuser, otherwise no battle of Kurukshetra would have continued once after Arjun surrendered to fight against his own family, and no Bhagavat Geeta would ever prevail...sometimes it becomes very essential to take action against someone we know and also know that whatever they are doing are definitely not supposed to be done, since it's against humanity, it's against morality, it's always not equally important that how far we can suffer but many a time it's more essential that what'll be the impact of such actions on others as well on the later coming days...thank you for this informative video!
Super podcast, I have followed dr Ramani in English & seeing in hindi made me feel proud as it would reach to lot of people in our country, thanks again & God bless both of you 😊
My 33 yrs old daughter ,very charming, and doing good job she is having NPD and has the all the symptoms u said .we gave her everything and we as a parents had good relationship between we both the partners she has no value for us .we gave her all love to her .she is devorce and she is very charming also for outside she is very normal . inside home she is very toxic .we suffer since so many yrs .my elder daughter is ok .
Join a group who can visit ur home often.
Sir aap mujhe yeh Bata sakte Hai kya ki usko vulnerable narssistic issue Tha ki disra. Mere pass kuch tarkib Hai usse thick karne ka.
Mam u r absolutely correct. I ve seen such kind of NPD character.
Hello ma'am
She is a good and only sensible teacher,,,she taught me in Delhi,,,B.Ed
Thank you ma'am
Glad you liked it, stay tuned for more such videos.
@@lifecoachamitadevnani fee
Was living as a dead person, no contact with outside world, multiple affairs.. now I am out. But still feel hopeless, sad all the time
Thank you so much both of you ❤🙏
I'm suffering this situation 😊😊😊❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Sorry to hear that, please feel free to contact us in case you need any help. +91 91510 06808
I m suffering severely with cruel husband who has this disorder..😢😢i want solution so badly, god take him away from me
@@vasudha11 ,take police help pls
Focus on self love
❤❤❤❤ THIS SHOULD VE A PINNED COMMENT
Go for walk .eat well.earn.do your prayer.dress well.painting..plants.garden..beauty parlour.tuitions.get busy
Ha apne sahi kaha sidhe log hi iske pakar me aajate hai.
😢NPD women i have seen , she just made hell for her hubby, she cutted down his frds, mom, sis ,and brother too, and she manipulated him, and blamed him always for everything, make him feel like that he is uslessperson
Same happened with me mam. Love bombing se domestic violence. And i am still facing this. Even he didn't spare me during my pregnancy and I landed in miscarriage. Even after my miscarriage he abused me and my family and blamed my age for it. I didn't understand till now that he is mentally ill. Was hoping some day my devotion and love will change hum. Even his family members knew about it but they hid it from me. He went into depression in past before our marriage due to break ups and layoffs. Even when I came to live with him usa , he was taking secretively depression tablets prescribed to him by his family doctor. And now I am in a hell situation. Stuck from all sides. What should i do now. I don't want my Marriage to break. But what is right for me. I am going through a lot each day
I have been living with my husband for last 37yrs and who is having Narcissistic personality disorders. Now I am watching my 34yrs daughter that she is also slowly slowly getting all the NPD traits. What should I do. My husband and daughter both are denied that they have these issues and they are blaming me that I have all mental issues. I am suffering a lot .At the age of 58 I can't go out of this marriage and I am not financially independent also. So kindly suggest me how I can handle this situation
@meenatibiswa
Involve yourself in outdoir activities , make friends, go for picnic , develop and groom your hobbies, dont be a puppet for NPD people
Follow acharya Prashant once . you'll definitely get a way
Try practicing vipassna meditation. Their are many centres In india. It runs on donations. Please try and heal yourself. Detachment is very important in these cases. Do courses and seva. Keep yourself busy like that.
Try vipassana meditation 🧘♀️. Their are many centres in india free of cost.
@@Artlover2803 ❣️
My father has NPD , i am his victim and i am suffering terribly, my whole carrier is ruined
Break silence.share with others record quietly.be safe.its a crime on yourself
How to get out of trauma bond it is very difficult.
Mam I tackling whole faimly narcissiststhey all play part for over come to me from business way even one young lady was envolved by that faimly by the m mind
Dear madam whats the need to laugh so much. Be a bit sensitive. You are talking about such a cruel personality traits.you know we are living dead bodies. Nothing in this world to live for n can't die either to ends the things once n for all . Roj ek struggle hai aise bekar logo ke sath jina.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Laughter or smiling can sometimes be a way to cope, but I understand it might seem insensitive. Please remember you're not alone-reach out to a friend, family member, or you can contact us as well at +91 91510 06808
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@@lifecoachamitadevnani thank you so much for your reply. but let me know how can you help? I lost all the hope to b ever free from this vicious circle till alive. How many time I tried to run away but where to go , these people make sure you have no place to find a bit of peace.
Same ,dead inside alive only for kids.Lost self confidence, self esteem, physical appearance everything. 34 years of extreme mental and emotional abuse by father in law and husband in a joint family.Controlled my kids n my life .On top of that husband is alcohol n tobacco addict.
Is no contact the only solution ?
आपने समस्याओं का बहुत ही सूक्ष्म विश्लेषण किया है। आपकी प्रस्तुति भी सराहनीय एवं उत्कृष्ट है
My husband & my samne vali aunty neighbour both have these symptoms and flyingmonkeys all are making my life hell. Abhi thora samaj aa rha hai npd ke bare me pta chla to
🎼💐🙏🏻
Make a medicine for these evil people to be calm.
We can make them understand through counseling.
@@lifecoachamitadevnani Not true at all. If it were that simple, we wouldn't be sitting here discussing this so extensively and survivors wouldn't be constantly suffering or in fear for their lives. It's a condition for which there is no cure. Narcs and their behavior can't be corrected since they don't acknowledge that the problem lies with them. They're delusional and perpetually in denial mode, blaming others for their wrongdoings. Therefore, to say that they can be made to understand anything through counseling is not just laughable but outright dangerous. In therapy, the narc will end up learning how to better cover their tracks and to better hide their true inner selves.
Narcs are often able to connivingly reverse roles and convince the therapist that the victim is the perpetrator.
Where therapy can help, is teaching the survivor to be cognizant of the tactics they use to manipulate and control others and to teach them coping mechanisms to somewhat manage the onslaught of abuse they're facing.
@@lifecoachamitadevnani😂😂
Why is it the husband wants to rule the wife as she has no freedom of speech but why
Mam maine ekbar ek person ko narcissist boli thi , uske bad usne ghuma fira k mujhko hi NPD bata diya.
Aap kyu boli thi ??
Unfortunately my husband has the all the symptoms.
Meri Wife narcisst hai . Mere shadi ko 7 years ho gaye . Main abhi usake sath nahi rehta hoon . Muze pahile bahut silent Treatment deti thi . Usaki family usako support karati hai. Kya usake family ko pata hai who NPD hai
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Why laughing madam?? Looking very insensitive