Want to QUIT sewing? Hear me out first.
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- Sewing can be extremely rewarding but at times frustration can get the better of us. In this video I am exploring the idea of quitting - the why, the motivation, the consequences and how to overcome feelings of overwhelm. Watch until the end to get the full benefit of the message I am sharing.
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Hello friends! Welcome back! Today we are having a discussion about the urge to quit sewing and what we can do about it. If you like my psychological takes, you'll love this. Let me know what you do when you are struggling to stay motivated to sew? Consider purchasing a kofi to support the channel www.ko-fi.com/penguinandpear 💖
I grew up with people who sewed because they had to (born in the early 1900s and 1920s). I had no idea it was something you had a choice about. I breezed through Home Ec in 7th grade because I had been hand sewing since I was five. I've always loved sewing, even though sometimes I would have long periods when I didn't because I had to work or take care of kids. Now that I'm older, I vowed to master garment sewing and have started in on quilting. I think it's good for older people since it makes your brain fit together puzzle pieces and do math (dammit).
That’s interesting thank you for sharing! ❤️
Good video, Claire. Thanks. Like many, I started sewing to make clothes for my children. Fabric back then, in the 60s and 70s, was affordable and ready made was so expensive. With 3 young children, it was the only way to clothe them, as well as myself. As the kids got older, I got more into crafts not sewing related. I’ve always loved fabrics, especially cotton, so eventually I built up a stash😢 I then decided patchwork and quilting. I still have enough fabric to fill a fabric shop. My husband of 58 years recently passed away and want to be motivated to continue. It’s so hard…no doubt this time next year I’ll sew again. 😁❤️🇦🇺
Thank you Claire for being real.
Thank you for using yourself as an example and so relating to me ❤ Thank you from Australia 🇦🇺
I took up sewing a year ago when I was feeling lost and directionless. I remembered I used to hand sew victorian dresses for my barbies when I was young, and I knew when I bought my first ever sewing machine last October, it would change my life. It took me 9 months to learn to sew in a straight line, and my sewing machine was so crap I wanted to chuck it out the window. When I knew the hobby was going to stick, I got myself a workhorse which is a joy to sew on and I love sewing historical clothing. When I'm better, I want to make day to day garments that actually fit - having a 38 inch leg inseam and veryyyyy long arms makes it very hard to find decent clothes in the shops.
I truly want to be able to keep sewing but right now my concentration isn’t going to be there. I literally found out today that I have cancer. Right now I on pins & needles of what the next step is for me & how serious the cancer is right now. I find sewing to be challenging but also relaxing and enjoying. Hopefully once I know what comes next maybe I can get back to sewing . I have been working on pants and they can be a booger. I may have to sew some simple projects. I believe though that sewing would be a big help to me mentally.
Im so sorry to hear this you must be going through hell. I really hope you can fix this. I’ve seen quite a few people say they turned to carnivore with cancer to starve the cancer. I’ve also seen some people reduce cancer tumours with castor oil. I cannot verify any of this it’s just comments I’ve seen but might be worth some research once you’ve got your head straight. Thinking of you ❤️
@@Penguinandpear Thank you.
Your tips and talking points are very well thought out and refreshing. I like to sew and right now I’m not in a position to do any big projects due to extremely limited space. I do, however, keep my sewing interest fed with smaller projects. For instance, I’m on this kick of towel toppers for hanging kitchen towels. It’s perfect for the limited space and it’s coming up on the holidays. I get to sew and build a pile of hand sewn gifts. Win win.
Edited to add: I’m not sure about the UK, but in the US, we have county fairs and state fairs that have arts and crafts section they judge for 1st, 2nd, 3rd place etc; they are great places to see for inspiration.
So agree with you re sewing taking you out of your world. It has helped me enormously. I came back to sewing after a gap of 37 years or so when I retired. I am lucky enough to have a proper sewing space and now make most of my own clothes. The biggest problem is restraining myself with patterns and fabrics!!! Like most people I have wasted money going after the gadgets and trends in the same way as I used to sometimes buy clothes I never ended up wearing. One day I will get it right 🤔. Well, I will keep trying 😂😂. Love your vlogs. Thank you for your insights. Happy Sewing 😊. Lynne
(Linda) thank you Claire, I needed this video. You have it down perfectly. You have touched so many points that hit home. It is very hard when you want to, but just get moving 🙄. I love your channel, thank you!💝
Hi Claire. This video was so fantastic ! You look so rested and healthy and congratulations on loosing 100 lbs - wow, that is a major accomplishment. First of all, I don't want to quit sewing, but I haven't sewn anything in months. I am a quilter, not a garment maker. I have more than enough time to sew. I have been retired for almost 2 years now. My problem is, I turn to RUclips for inspiration but I watch one video after another after another. Before I know it, it's time for bed and I do that same thing the next day. Any chores I need to get done around my house, I do them. But once I step inside my sewing room I'm watching videos and not sewing. I wish I could just listen to the videos while I'm sewing but I can't. I don't have the discipline to turn it off. I'll have to figure something out - maybe 4 hours of videos and 4 hours of sewing. Wish me luck. Cheers from Canada.
Good luck! I spoke about this very thing in my previous video called the problem with sewing on RUclips. It can be a curse!!
Keeping projects small makes sense as well. You need some wins. Why not do shift dresses and culottes with elastic waistbands? I find it practical and enjoyable to sew what I wear, not what others are sewing on RUclips or Instagram. You can still learn and overcome obstacles but at your pace. So much of the stress comes from following others. Sewing is a slow skill that you need to give yourself the time to learn.
Thank you Claire! I finally got my sew-jo back! I'm now making sweaters. Some cardigans, pullovers, and a sweater dress. I'm finding that I love working with sweater knits!
That sounds great! I love working with sweater knits too!!
Great vlog Claire…some very good tips that I will take on board…❤😊
Here's what I do to get motivated to sew! I go into my sewing room (or rooms) and play with the fabric, if I find something I really love (which is easy to do!), then I drag that out and I iron it and use a little spray on it so it feels nice and crisp. I really love sewing with freshly pressed fabric that feels kind of crispy when I cut it out. This usually gets my sewmojo back! It helps if I have a project going, like a quilt that I've been wanting to make. I also think color helps so much. Find a color that you just love, prepare the fabric so you love touching it, make sure all your lights are on, and you have something to drink next to your machine or your recliner if you are hand sewing. Sometimes I'll put on a yt video or some great music. It's all good.
Claire, you are looking so good - well done, you xx
Thank you so much 🥰
I take breaks, but I never totally quit. My health issues cause me to have periods where I just don't feel good enough to sew.
Such a great psychological analysis 👍
Thank you!
Around the age of nine, I was encouraged to learn to sew by my Gram and my Girl Scout troop leader. Started out making clothes for my dolls then transitioned into learning basic garment construction in junior high school Home Economics classes and practicing on a hand me down machine. Now as I move into my 70s and several machine upgrades over the years, I’m always amazed at how much there is still to learn, tips and tricks to make the process fresh and enjoyable. Have I made my way thru the stash I built for my “when I retire” projects? LOL, no way! But talk about motivation for staying busy and alive😉
You look great 👍
Thank you 😊
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Hi Claire, I'm currently trying to hem a curved hem and I'm pulling my hair out. I found I needed to walk away...thus I'm here listening to you. I'm about to pull some weeds in the garden which is where I do most of my thinking. You're looking amazing! 🇦🇺 🐨
Try to do it from the right side, because the feeddog helps you to handle the extra fabric into the hem.
Thank you Lizann. Yes time out is best. Are you doing a baby hem?
@Penguinandpear RUclips advised sewing a row around the bottom close to the edge, then folding and trimming before folding again. No luck getting the sides to fold 🤪 It's the Sew To Grow Bondi Top.
@lizann3058 that’s how I do it. I think I learned from Gertie x
Have you tried, if you have the fabric, making a facing. It's the same shape as the bottom of what you're trying to hem, curve included, so it can be easier. Bias tape is also an option
I haven't even watched the video yet, but why would anyone"quit sewing"? I mean, maybe don't do big projects, but sewing is a basic skill. If no more be without a sewing machine than I would be without a basic set of hand tools, cooking gear or a toothbrush. But I'll watch the video.
I quit sewing a few years ago because I was burned out and on the brink of collapse. It did me the world of good stepping away. We all have different relationships with sewing but many do walk away.
You are right, I do like your psychological take on things. I also think you have a very attractive top on today. My issue with my lack of crafting is the internet. I have a terrible addiction to it. I find it difficult to put it down to get on with making.
I also have difficulty with space. I live in a motorhome with my partner, our critters and our business that uses most of our space. This won’t be forever but it is a challenge for now
I LOVE your phycological sewing tips. ✌️
I'm so glad! I love sharing them!
I really appreciate you and your content. I want to share two motivational questions that have helped me. What would you be doing if money were not a consideration? Where do you see yourself in five years? What steps are you taking to get there? Have you looked into Skill Share. You can learn to draft your own patterns and much more at minimal expense. Believe in yourself! Love you!
Thanks for sharing!! If money were no object I’d either travel (because I could afford the best healthcare) or run my own business. I have no idea where I’ll be in five years! Hopefully fit healthy and happy! ATM I’m taking each day as i can whilst doing things today that will benefit tomorrow. Yes I have looked into skillshare. They’ve sponsored my channel in the past. I will draft once I’ve stabilised my weight. A bit more to lose first. Thanks for your support.
Hi Claire, sewing is my 2nd thing……my main interest is art, I draw animal / pet portraits. I regularly get burn out because I put so much into my drawings. Sometimes I feel like I’ll never draw again, but after a couple of weeks, I push myself to do a small simple piece of art just to get me back into it again…….maybe sewing block could be tackled in the same way. Just making something small & simple……just a thought for anyone who has lost their mojo x
Great idea! I got into illustration a few years ago but had to stop when I hurt my coccyx. Mad respect for you. Drawing is so difficult!
@ aww thank you…..& back at you! I find sewing a challenge lol, so I tend to stick to straight forward stuff 😂 I admire all of you clever sewers out there!
I don’t want to quit sewing, but your last video made me decide to limit my RUclips to one hour per day!
Today you are in that hour…
I appreciate that! ❤️
I really love your top.❤ Did you make that?
Thanks but no I bought it in Peacocks. I might recreate it though as it’s just two pieces of fabric with elastic in the waist.
@@Penguinandpear Ooh, I'm off to Peacocks then 🙂
@KarenG.-qs7wc haha it was a few months ago in the sale.
Congrats on losing the weight. You look great!
Thank you!! I love when people notice because it reminds me. lol
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