I particularly liked your observations that 1) when there is a gap in a relationship, the other person remembers you as the person you were in the past, a frozen moment in time and 2) that carrying a hurt is like dragging around a backpack full of bricks. I am a visual learner and those images are very helpful. Thank you so much for your insight.
Liz interesting points ,if anyone else trying to find out how can i save my marriage try Nadazma Repair Partner Helper (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
There are several things for making improvements in your partnership Try to talk more Cooperate with each other more Start to give and take more (I discovered these and the reasons they work on Pavs Partner Pundit website )
Winner of a video, I've been looking for "how can i fix my relationship after cheating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got excellent success with it.
There are several components to what to do when your marriage is falling apart . One place I found which succeeds in merging these is the Secret fixer blueprint (check it out on google) it's the best resource that I've seen. look at all the incredible information .
I blew it with my friend today... I didn't realise how me not saying what I should said further jeopardised my relationship with them.. feeling really pathetic atm
my brother used to take out his anger on me when we were younger (not physically but emotionally and verbally) and i can tell he’s trying to fix things now but it’s so hard to try and be open to him, cause i think he’s just doing it cause our mom told him to like she always did, she always had to force him to hug me or say he loves me or say sorry...
very good points and explained in a way that's easy to follow...however she didn't answer the question. that's what I was waiting for the whole 8 minutes. The first 3 sentences of the letter...HOW DO I INIATE CONTACT? when things are awkward...what should the initiator say or do? that is so nerve-wracking. please answer. BTW, your content is way better than the 5 videos before yours!
Another tough but super important lesson in life is that sometimes your path in life is separate from that friend. Sometimes we have to acknowledge it and forge ahead on our own path. It’s very tough to grieve the loss of a friend who is still alive but sometimes it’s necessary.
The problem is I have stupid people putting their poisonous ideas in my head. Well, I've realized that's what's causing fights between my sweetie and I. The friends are going to get dumped because they're toxic. My sweetie means more to me and I do not want to lose him. He's my dream come true.
I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist #dromija ◀️who brought my partner back to me after many years of separation.
Hello I recommend you to Dr James he helped me reconnected back my broken relationship and made my home secured from third parties within 2 days I advice you seek help from him.
Hello maa'am, thanks a lot for the thoughts. #HowToRepairBrokenFriendshipInAGroup I am in a different situation. We are a group of 7 persons studying at the university . Because of different individual's mistake the friendship in the group is broken now.For that everybody is suffering from the inside.I am the middleman. I have a good friendship with all the others.Now,I want to repair the bonding/ friendship in the group. What should I do now? Please help me with your advice?
you are not bad. You have done your part.. you sis what you can do. The problem is not you any longer. Remember that the receiving end is not ready yet. when she is ready she will come around. If she never, remember how guilty she might be feeling for what not being done.
What if you didn't offend the other party, they just ghosted on you for a couple of months and you ended up not speaking to each other for a couple of months, how do you fix that?
I have a problem with my ex. Last december 12, 2019 my girlfriend broke up with and now what happend is I am asking the major question why. She gave me a huge ambiguous answer which led me to insist tell her the truth. She wont listen and resulting she infact got angry at me and did not chat me for 13 days. When I got to the point that she is not even willing to forgive. I took the first step. And everything went well. I supposed yet I was wrong. She was uncomfortable with me for some major reasons and I do not know why. I keep on saving our friendship but she keeps on evading it. There was even a time that now she got even furious about me because she was irritated even I gave her space already. Now its been 3 months, I try to talk to her again. I followed what she asked. It got worst. It got really worst. Her trust in me has lost. I open up with her but her answer is so defensive that she is not even willing to save our friendship. She keeps on insisting that she is solving the problem and we are friends but the problem is giving her space became worse and worse. I ask sorry multiple times, I move on multiple times, I gave her a chance. But the end point is she is still refusing to be open and keeps changing for the better for herself but not for the better of our friendship. Honestly, I really want to save our friendship. How to solve this problem? Because I am a kind of person that never gives up on a friend even that person is the worst
I just had a fight with a friend last night. I really need help. I didn't want to lose her. But I let my anger and jealousy control me. I shouldn't have done that. I feel really sorry. She was always there when I'm in need. I will never forgive myself for what I did. I'm just a bad friend and a piece of trash who doesn't deserve anything.. I want her back. I can't imagine life without her.. Please help me. I tried saying sorry but she said our friendship can never be fixed.
I have a doctor who dismissed me for reasons I don't understand. I've reached out but he wants nothing to do with me. I really can't understand it. He won't even discuss it with me. He was helping me alot. I can only guess, but his receptionist hated me because of the whole mask situation and she made things a bit difficult. She wanted me out, even called me a "snarky little bitch" 2x. I cannot understand why he'd be okay with that. For the record, I'm not as she described.
If you’re anything like me you’ve seen thousands of these videos and read a million of articles on the topic. I’d give Treitan Mellory’s Simple paper a go if you don’t want to get overwhelmed, and instead follow a proven plan.
Hello Dr. Neha, Karthik here, really went through a recent breakup with my girlfriend. Reasons are horsocopes didnt match for us to get married, me being jobless for a longer time, and my attitude.. I really miss her figuring out ways to get back like finding a job asap, fighting with god our horoscopes do match, and I have changed my attitude. . .Do you think of any interim solution to get her back, forgive me and live together happy?
I've had a friend yesterday talk to me and my girlfriend and truly presented how we're pulling each other down. I had to start acting like we do when we're alone, so she did too and we could show that dear compassionate friend how we act, so he could be the 3rd person who could determine what we couldn't see by being blinded by anger. I truly hope I could stop interrupting her speech, solve my social anxiety to the highest level, stop expressing my needs in raging way after not setting my needs and personal limits (which I should learn to set, but was too afraid of loosing her if some limits were too harsh for her and never set them then - which made me look like I ain't shit and she stopped liking me day by day) - I'm just starting to recover after 4 years of struggle of being afraid to loose that person, even though I'm sure I could have another person in my life, I never met in all my 15 relationships such a good person as her. I truly love her and want to get back with her with harmoniously having my life back and make her attracted to me because of living mine life. It's the first morning after we've decided to leave each other alone for a while and have minimal contact or none to solve our personal lives, and it is extremely hard for me to focus on anything, because I feel so much regret of not giving her the love she always deserved during the times I was with her, because I was so worried about my personal issues all the time, and growing up etc. (I'm 24 now and didn't quiet grow up enough in last 4 years of relationship). And I don't want to loose that person, but want to 100th chance to make it right, after cleaning after my own life first and her too. It is so painful we couldn't do this while being together, and now she despises me because I didn't show her enough and thought I sucked, then even cheated on me, but I forgave her in about few days and still love her like I never loved anyone before. I just want to have my life works and relationship things in balance as in how much time I put in each. Because we put too much time in relationship we lost our actual living time and weren't good for each other anymore. So my advice to anyone who has problems you could do the 3rd person/therapist thing to both simultaneously see the realtionship and what truly needs to be done from another angle, and then I think there's hope after a lot of suffering/time of healing, to be back together and start another fresh relationship with that person.
Hello I recommend you to Dr James he helped me reconnected back my broken relationship and made my home secured from third parties within 2 days I advice you seek help from him..
I particularly liked your observations that 1) when there is a gap in a relationship, the other person remembers you as the person you were in the past, a frozen moment in time and 2) that carrying a hurt is like dragging around a backpack full of bricks. I am a visual learner and those images are very helpful. Thank you so much for your insight.
Liz interesting points ,if anyone else trying to find out how can i save my marriage try Nadazma Repair Partner Helper (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
There are several things for making improvements in your partnership
Try to talk more
Cooperate with each other more
Start to give and take more
(I discovered these and the reasons they work on Pavs Partner Pundit website )
Winner of a video, I've been looking for "how can i fix my relationship after cheating" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Qenamilla Strayer Magnet - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got excellent success with it.
There are several components to what to do when your marriage is falling apart . One place I found which succeeds in merging these is the Secret fixer blueprint (check it out on google) it's the best resource that I've seen. look at all the incredible information .
Ur rite in a lot of things u said and I was wondering how would I be able to purchase ur book
She looks like she has her life together
I blew it with my friend today... I didn't realise how me not saying what I should said further jeopardised my relationship with them.. feeling really pathetic atm
I to,d my friend im bi and dating a girl so she said she doesent know if her mom will let us be friends anymore 😔
@@extremelysilly527 :(
my brother used to take out his anger on me when we were younger (not physically but emotionally and verbally) and i can tell he’s trying to fix things now but it’s so hard to try and be open to him, cause i think he’s just doing it cause our mom told him to like she always did, she always had to force him to hug me or say he loves me or say sorry...
very good points and explained in a way that's easy to follow...however she didn't answer the question. that's what I was waiting for the whole 8 minutes. The first 3 sentences of the letter...HOW DO I INIATE CONTACT? when things are awkward...what should the initiator say or do? that is so nerve-wracking. please answer. BTW, your content is way better than the 5 videos before yours!
Frozen in time! Wow going thru that right nowThanks
Thank you for healing my sibling relationship
Yes relationships go both ways for sure.
Well I’ve been ready for 2 months still waiting!!!!!!
I don't know what to do now
I tried everything
I said sorry
I tried to make him feel special
Please help me
Same, but my best friend hasn't forgiven me yet😔😖
Move on if he cant forgive
love yourself... locus
Another tough but super important lesson in life is that sometimes your path in life is separate from that friend. Sometimes we have to acknowledge it and forge ahead on our own path. It’s very tough to grieve the loss of a friend who is still alive but sometimes it’s necessary.
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The problem is I have stupid people putting their poisonous ideas in my head. Well, I've realized that's what's causing fights between my sweetie and I. The friends are going to get dumped because they're toxic. My sweetie means more to me and I do not want to lose him. He's my dream come true.
I got my broken relationship fixed with the help of this great spiritualist #dromija ◀️who brought my partner back to me after many years of separation.
This video was perfect to what I needed today! I am bawling. I am very, very grateful for this video Dr. Neha.
Very instructive
Your right I forgive for both partys cuz hell it's easier to forgive then to keep on fighting
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Thank you so much for this!!!
Ah, ah moment: "Frozen in time" to that person. Eye opening, thank you!
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This was so helpful
Wow this helped.. very good video .
Thanks Dr
Hello maa'am, thanks a lot for the thoughts.
#HowToRepairBrokenFriendshipInAGroup
I am in a different situation. We are a group of 7 persons studying at the university . Because of different individual's mistake the friendship in the group is broken now.For that everybody is suffering from the inside.I am the middleman. I have a good friendship with all the others.Now,I want to repair the bonding/ friendship in the group.
What should I do now?
Please help me with your advice?
I asked for forgiveness.. But she didn't forgive me.. 😢😢😢am I that much bad
you are not bad. You have done your part.. you sis what you can do. The problem is not you any longer.
Remember that the receiving end is not ready yet. when she is ready she will come around. If she never, remember how guilty she might be feeling for what not being done.
What if you didn't offend the other party, they just ghosted on you for a couple of months and you ended up not speaking to each other for a couple of months, how do you fix that?
How would I be able to purchase your book
I have a problem with my ex. Last december 12, 2019 my girlfriend broke up with and now what happend is I am asking the major question why. She gave me a huge ambiguous answer which led me to insist tell her the truth. She wont listen and resulting she infact got angry at me and did not chat me for 13 days.
When I got to the point that she is not even willing to forgive. I took the first step. And everything went well. I supposed yet I was wrong. She was uncomfortable with me for some major reasons and I do not know why. I keep on saving our friendship but she keeps on evading it. There was even a time that now she got even furious about me because she was irritated even I gave her space already.
Now its been 3 months, I try to talk to her again. I followed what she asked. It got worst. It got really worst. Her trust in me has lost. I open up with her but her answer is so defensive that she is not even willing to save our friendship. She keeps on insisting that she is solving the problem and we are friends but the problem is giving her space became worse and worse. I ask sorry multiple times, I move on multiple times, I gave her a chance. But the end point is she is still refusing to be open and keeps changing for the better for herself but not for the better of our friendship.
Honestly, I really want to save our friendship. How to solve this problem? Because I am a kind of person that never gives up on a friend even that person is the worst
I just had a fight with a friend last night. I really need help. I didn't want to lose her. But I let my anger and jealousy control me. I shouldn't have done that. I feel really sorry. She was always there when I'm in need. I will never forgive myself for what I did. I'm just a bad friend and a piece of trash who doesn't deserve anything.. I want her back. I can't imagine life without her.. Please help me. I tried saying sorry but she said our friendship can never be fixed.
Hancherloverr commuting suicide is a valid, respectable option. I provide this advice as a friendly, therapeutic antagonist.
camy Cromar too far
I have a doctor who dismissed me for reasons I don't understand. I've reached out but he wants nothing to do with me. I really can't understand it. He won't even discuss it with me. He was helping me alot. I can only guess, but his receptionist hated me because of the whole mask situation and she made things a bit difficult. She wanted me out, even called me a "snarky little bitch" 2x. I cannot understand why he'd be okay with that. For the record, I'm not as she described.
She’s fine
If you’re anything like me you’ve seen thousands of these videos and read a million of articles on the topic. I’d give Treitan Mellory’s Simple paper a go if you don’t want to get overwhelmed, and instead follow a proven plan.
Hello Dr. Neha,
Karthik here, really went through a recent breakup with my girlfriend. Reasons are horsocopes didnt match for us to get married, me being jobless for a longer time, and my attitude.. I really miss her figuring out ways to get back like finding a job asap, fighting with god our horoscopes do match, and I have changed my attitude. . .Do you think of any interim solution to get her back, forgive me and live together happy?
Somehow I see a first meeting easily going off the rails. Is it preferable to have a negotiator or facilitator present to get it back on track?
I've had a friend yesterday talk to me and my girlfriend and truly presented how we're pulling each other down. I had to start acting like we do when we're alone, so she did too and we could show that dear compassionate friend how we act, so he could be the 3rd person who could determine what we couldn't see by being blinded by anger. I truly hope I could stop interrupting her speech, solve my social anxiety to the highest level, stop expressing my needs in raging way after not setting my needs and personal limits (which I should learn to set, but was too afraid of loosing her if some limits were too harsh for her and never set them then - which made me look like I ain't shit and she stopped liking me day by day) - I'm just starting to recover after 4 years of struggle of being afraid to loose that person, even though I'm sure I could have another person in my life, I never met in all my 15 relationships such a good person as her. I truly love her and want to get back with her with harmoniously having my life back and make her attracted to me because of living mine life. It's the first morning after we've decided to leave each other alone for a while and have minimal contact or none to solve our personal lives, and it is extremely hard for me to focus on anything, because I feel so much regret of not giving her the love she always deserved during the times I was with her, because I was so worried about my personal issues all the time, and growing up etc. (I'm 24 now and didn't quiet grow up enough in last 4 years of relationship). And I don't want to loose that person, but want to 100th chance to make it right, after cleaning after my own life first and her too. It is so painful we couldn't do this while being together, and now she despises me because I didn't show her enough and thought I sucked, then even cheated on me, but I forgave her in about few days and still love her like I never loved anyone before. I just want to have my life works and relationship things in balance as in how much time I put in each. Because we put too much time in relationship we lost our actual living time and weren't good for each other anymore. So my advice to anyone who has problems you could do the 3rd person/therapist thing to both simultaneously see the realtionship and what truly needs to be done from another angle, and then I think there's hope after a lot of suffering/time of healing, to be back together and start another fresh relationship with that person.
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Hello I recommend you to Dr James he helped me reconnected back my broken relationship and made my home secured from third parties within 2 days I advice you seek help from him..
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People that don't no what there talking bout coses more problems that's why I stay to myself
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*DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* saved my marriage and brought my wife is back from Facebook after a long time separation I will always be grateful.
*DOCTOR NENGAK LOVE SPELL* saved my marriage and brought my wife is back from Facebook after a long time separation I will always be grateful.