How To Win Friends And Influence People?

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025

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  • @thehellyblog
    @thehellyblog  5 лет назад +190

    This is one of the greatest requirements in your personal and professional life- being able to make friends and influence people.
    And....I know There is a minor editing error in this video! I am a human so please pardon that 😭
    And...How many of you are already good at making friends and influencing people?

    • @baljeetsingh7196
      @baljeetsingh7196 5 лет назад +1

      I am very polite person sister, so I use polite words to anyone so it is easy for me make influence people.

    • @naiduswati29
      @naiduswati29 5 лет назад

      Thank you Helly for sharing such wonderful points from the book.

    • @studylover2719
      @studylover2719 5 лет назад +2

      Hey Helly.. make a video on ( how to become master in our path) iam an engineering student of instrumentation..
      I have alot of interest but . Iam unable to find out my status of this instrumentation journey..
      Soo plzzz make a video about becoming master of our profession

    • @rahulrongepatil248
      @rahulrongepatil248 5 лет назад

      Best books I've too.

    • @vinothbalaji9
      @vinothbalaji9 5 лет назад

      I'm just following you , I read the books what u read,
      I read 7 habits, when u post video, now Im listening this book , u uploading video
      What a coincidence
      I'm using storytel, by ur link,

  • @CloakedVoyageur
    @CloakedVoyageur 5 лет назад +104

    I just cannot express how glad I'm to find your channel. Your education choices are just like mine, went with science and then somehow managed to score well. Then chose to do B.A. and studied literature. Started playing guitar and was a part of a couple of bands. While things are still difficult to an extent and I have quit music, reading and writing is beautiful and helps in feeling better. Keep doing what you're doing. Hopefully we can talk someday.

    • @pritushsarkar3061
      @pritushsarkar3061 4 года назад

      Me too

    • @chetanarya4883
      @chetanarya4883 4 года назад

      Doing B.A. is the f*ckiest decision ever

    • @bablusharma7691
      @bablusharma7691 3 года назад +1

      @@chetanarya4883 why so?

    • @sdpta2004
      @sdpta2004 3 года назад

      Me too bro.. now i am in 12 th standard... idk what will happen to me.. what will i do... but i want to read english literature (hons) ... but my parents want that i will read pharmacy.. idk what is my destiny... please help me... im in serious condition

    • @UPSCIFS2025
      @UPSCIFS2025 3 года назад

      🌝🌝🌝

  • @ashikahammed3002
    @ashikahammed3002 5 лет назад +77

    *I purchased this book 3months ago. But I couldn't start yet* Yes, I'll start tomorrow itself. Thank you verymuch for your review 😊😊

    • @life.of.kaiiii
      @life.of.kaiiii 5 лет назад +4

      I purchased 2 years ago and it's lying in my shelf

    • @SurjeetSumanAcharya
      @SurjeetSumanAcharya 5 лет назад

      @@life.of.kaiiii same here 😅

    • @tariqkhan9427
      @tariqkhan9427 4 года назад

      How much it cost

    • @aashrithasai.v6442
      @aashrithasai.v6442 4 года назад

      @@tariqkhan9427 It's 160 to 175 Rupees (India) in Amazon right now.

    • @sangitadey9605
      @sangitadey9605 4 года назад +1

      @Rajkumari Patel @Aashritha Sai.V just got for 61 rupees from flipkart.😅

  • @yusufazhar448
    @yusufazhar448 5 лет назад +80

    How to win friends and influence people
    1 never criticise anyone
    2 genuinely interest in people
    3 smile more
    4 use the name of the person
    5 be a good listener
    6 talk in terms of their interest
    7 make them feel important
    8 influence people to say yes then ask what you want
    9 encourage your team members
    10 make sure that they are happy

  • @soumyaranjan4626
    @soumyaranjan4626 5 лет назад +34

    😂😂😂First 30 seconds or so, it sounded just like some fitness brand add.. You like, "I sucked at making friends n forget bout influencing people and then I read this and it changed my life." 🤣🤣that was funny but so relatable.. And congrats for the silver play button... Hope you get that gold play button soon.. 🌟🌟👏👏❤️

  • @adityyuh
    @adityyuh 5 лет назад +6

    The earrings look good! And I'm gonna read this book soon, bought it a long time ago but I thought I didn't need it then, but now that I'm going to be in after new school and have turned into an introvert, I think I should give it a read!

  • @MemersRocks
    @MemersRocks 5 лет назад +4

    This one is one of my starting books from which I started and what the amazing book it is... Still after so many years of being published, still this book holds each and everything true. The complete Carnegie Family is so talented.

  • @sukanyasamanta4839
    @sukanyasamanta4839 5 лет назад +7

    You are a saviour Helly..I was feeling low today n this actually helped me a bit. Love for you always :)

  • @sakshitaneja2390
    @sakshitaneja2390 5 лет назад +3

    I read this book a long time back.. I think I will read it again.. I have genuinely applied smiling and using names and it was actually effective..
    Review was great 😎😎

  • @dr.prasanthnaik128
    @dr.prasanthnaik128 5 лет назад +2

    Hi Helly! I'm glad to see you online. Keep rocking

  • @skyward7903
    @skyward7903 5 лет назад +1

    I started watching you videos when you had 2k subs and now there are 130k+
    CONGRATS!! I hope you get more!

  • @booradely6423
    @booradely6423 5 лет назад +2

    I just finished reading this! Lo and behold here's your review perfectly in time! Wow

  • @mobinfrancis1607
    @mobinfrancis1607 5 лет назад +5

    I would say the non fiction section is incomplete without this awesome write by Mr.Dale Carnegie. Even though this book had crossed 80+ years after the first publish, it still add values to the society.
    Mr.Dale throws light to compassion,respect,genuineness,attitude and power of encouragement during the converse between the 'Sapiens'. You may feel kinda little distress during the read , because Mr.Dale had written these when the digital age is not yet in the planet. We probably need to relate few stuffs.
    Its quite good one compared to the new age bluff "motivational books".
    -Mobin

  • @Lavanya.1097
    @Lavanya.1097 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks for making such an awesome video helly ! I absolutely needed it !
    And as a student, I'm glad that youtubers like YOU are helping and encouraging children to read more books and be productive....
    Keep it up abd thanks again....
    Lots of love from Bhubaneswar....

  • @rishabhbeniwal7128
    @rishabhbeniwal7128 5 лет назад +5

    I love the way you sign off in the sweetest voice possible "byee byee"

  • @harshitjotwani7604
    @harshitjotwani7604 5 лет назад +1

    Thanks for reviewing this book. Very good review.

  • @sekarrajendran0078
    @sekarrajendran0078 5 лет назад +1

    You are the best RUclips there's no word to encourage you

  • @bat_of_gotham
    @bat_of_gotham 5 лет назад +6

    You're doing a good job, Saheli. I'll share this video with people who need to learn more about grooming their personalities. Meanwhile, make more such videos. Thank you.

    • @humaqueen189
      @humaqueen189 5 лет назад

      Give me A book 😂i am from Pakistan

  • @ehsaaswithvikas3254
    @ehsaaswithvikas3254 4 года назад +1

    Saheli, your library is very beautiful

  • @sailabalapanda4371
    @sailabalapanda4371 5 лет назад

    Thanks alot helly...
    This video of urs helps me alot in my booktalk....
    Thank you so much...

  • @mokshgupta8232
    @mokshgupta8232 3 года назад

    The video was really great
    Glad to find your channel

  • @simmichoudhary6871
    @simmichoudhary6871 5 лет назад +4

    Helly,
    you give correct info about this book, and your efforts are very useful , i like your work for making review about this book, genuinely good one book!

  • @jasrajsubhedar6380
    @jasrajsubhedar6380 4 года назад +1

    this was one of the best videos of yours I've came across🤗🤗🙏🙏

  • @ashishtewari4972
    @ashishtewari4972 5 лет назад +8

    Hey helly your suggestions are always greats and today you're looking gorgeous in this suit... and this suit suits you.

  • @akash__cs
    @akash__cs 3 года назад +1

    First time in this channel👍🏻
    Great❤

  • @jayantimazumdar8903
    @jayantimazumdar8903 5 лет назад

    I liked this video a lot ❤. I've already read this book and others but doesn't got the clue why I never been able to continue. So it will be better for many that you make a video on how to read books and other writeups in an effective way but within few days.

  • @kalaiarasis2798
    @kalaiarasis2798 5 лет назад +2

    Hatsoff for such a genuine content.. Huge thumbs up.

  • @Madhu-Yadav
    @Madhu-Yadav 5 лет назад +5

    Already read this book... Loved it to the very alphabet of it....
    Will recommend this to everyone of any age...

  • @rituhira6468
    @rituhira6468 5 лет назад +3

    In my small town if i smile to eyery body ''dey strt expect smthing else''
    😛😛so its better to be ignore ''dem 'smwhere we need to give dem agression expresion if people ''tease ''or commnt '''
    Dats d my thinki other else '
    I ll definetely read dis book '
    I lv ur channal Helly 😍

  • @west9492
    @west9492 5 лет назад

    Aahhh..... Just one day past, when i was thinking about 'should I buy that book?' and here Low of Attraction worked... ......and the best suggestion i got from u. TNQ HELLY....

  • @shwetaarya743
    @shwetaarya743 5 лет назад

    Thanks Helly for this useful info

  • @arifulislamshohag
    @arifulislamshohag 5 лет назад

    Start loving your channel..very good work

  • @Dave-cd8sm
    @Dave-cd8sm 2 года назад

    I'm seeing your video for the first time and I must say that you did a really great job. I really liked your content. Just one personal suggestion from my side is, try a rimless spec next time you buy a spectacle for you, I think You'll look really great. Keep up the good work.

  • @MohitK96
    @MohitK96 5 лет назад +2

    I am realizing this after graduation the importance of friends when I used to very limited in college.

  • @tomjarreytomjarrey8687
    @tomjarreytomjarrey8687 5 лет назад +1

    cuteness overload with sunglasses

  • @govindbagariya9784
    @govindbagariya9784 5 лет назад

    so good video helly. very good review. i read it. thank you helly.

  • @tomarsingh6367
    @tomarsingh6367 5 лет назад

    Wow!!! Right now I am reading this book.And your video pop up.

  • @vishnupriya8662
    @vishnupriya8662 5 лет назад +25

    Hi Helly didi! You look great today, your hair style is adorable....
    Love from Pondicherry 💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟💟

  • @sunilkumar-sc5fw
    @sunilkumar-sc5fw 5 лет назад +1

    You are grt
    You always appreciate us to read books
    Ive already read this book,its really a wonderful book

  • @spallavikrishna9423
    @spallavikrishna9423 5 лет назад +1

    Hey helly , good content and worth watching 😁 keep going 😄

  • @tusharvaswani8588
    @tusharvaswani8588 5 лет назад +1

    Helly,really I liked your video n your effort..!!loved your channel

  • @luckysuniqueness5921
    @luckysuniqueness5921 5 лет назад

    You described so nicely, you helped a lot by summerising the book. Thank you very much.

  • @socialjustice4874
    @socialjustice4874 2 года назад

    what ever you said was excellent, and really love your taking , it would be more better to avoid artificiality way .

  • @sadhanakisadhanawritingand8622
    @sadhanakisadhanawritingand8622 4 года назад

    Thanks a lot for useful information tips

  • @leninsurjan9863
    @leninsurjan9863 5 лет назад

    This video helped a lot helly thanks

  • @pranavpatil9973
    @pranavpatil9973 5 лет назад

    Yes.. and I downloaded storytel through ur link yesterday...

  • @shubhamkumarsharma
    @shubhamkumarsharma 5 лет назад

    Very empowering explaination of the book.
    Thanks you helly for bringing such a great review.

  • @nanichinna1629
    @nanichinna1629 3 года назад

    looking great helly

  • @bhushan21699
    @bhushan21699 5 лет назад

    It's not a question of which Helly looks better, Helly is the most beautiful person- always has been

  • @ssharma1412
    @ssharma1412 5 лет назад +1

    Very nice and helpful video...am not good at reading non-fiction...but loved the way u presented the video...thanku for sharing...

  • @NZImmigrationAdvice
    @NZImmigrationAdvice 3 года назад

    Very nice video and I love your presentation style... keep it up👍

  • @San_home-chef
    @San_home-chef 5 лет назад

    You are right.

  • @amitachandanshive1959
    @amitachandanshive1959 5 лет назад

    I have this book but dint read full.I think I will read it now.Thanks

  • @KomalGujarsLifestyle
    @KomalGujarsLifestyle 5 лет назад

    Thanks Helly to share wonderful tips of how to influence people... Superliked the video 👌👌👍👍

  • @niveditasharma959
    @niveditasharma959 5 лет назад +45

    No u r a very good influencer cause u influenced me to read

  • @jontychudasama694
    @jontychudasama694 5 лет назад +1

    I love this video.

  • @PranayBrajabashi
    @PranayBrajabashi 4 года назад

    I don't know why🤷🏻‍♂️ but I think I'm addicted to you and your videos ,

  • @rahimchoudhary1320
    @rahimchoudhary1320 4 года назад

    Awesome explaining 👏👏👏

  • @rahul6616
    @rahul6616 5 лет назад +3

    First like ,
    Then watching
    My by default action for your videos too !!
    Idi chala bagundi.....

  • @pranaymane8103
    @pranaymane8103 5 лет назад

    I just love the way you speak

  • @siddharthbhopatrao5861
    @siddharthbhopatrao5861 5 лет назад +2

    This is one of the best self-help book...

  • @alanparambath2920
    @alanparambath2920 4 года назад

    Thank you so much

  • @sumedhakapoor3676
    @sumedhakapoor3676 5 лет назад

    Thank you helly so much 😎😎

  • @somdeepbose2592
    @somdeepbose2592 5 лет назад

    Thanks.... Helpful... I love your videos.... ❤️❤️

  • @saifulalam1277
    @saifulalam1277 5 лет назад

    I got a good concept about the book.......thank you...

  • @vaishnavishirsekar6369
    @vaishnavishirsekar6369 5 лет назад +1

    It's great that you are now reading non fiction you are helping us to develop our personality and Even I noticed u are getting better at ur work

  • @varshuslittleworld6291
    @varshuslittleworld6291 5 лет назад

    I loved how you explained point 3 ❤

  • @divyadiv1432
    @divyadiv1432 4 года назад

    Hi dear.. Really appreciate your work. You r such an amazing human being.. Love ❤ You

  • @youlit.7680
    @youlit.7680 5 лет назад

    Amazing, Helly. 😄

  • @sandhwikumari9692
    @sandhwikumari9692 5 лет назад

    Hi helly I love our book review videos it's make me more curious about book reading although I did not love to do that previously but now I develop this hobby thanks..😍

  • @RishabhRawat_98
    @RishabhRawat_98 5 лет назад +2

    I have read this book.. Its really influential.
    Thanks for revising me the book and the concepts again😁😁..🙏

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 лет назад

      Is there a story in this book or this book is just about do's and don't?

    • @RishabhRawat_98
      @RishabhRawat_98 5 лет назад

      @@sumnaarshad4466
      Actually , there are many real life examples mentioned in this book which tells u how to apply the concepts and how these concepts help people achieving their goals. Some of them are Dale carnegie's personal experiences and observations.

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 лет назад +1

      @@RishabhRawat_98 okay. .I get it now, ,actually few months go I have read (13 things mentally strong people don't do) by Amy morin. .it was amazing but not so much interesting as comparing to 40 rules of love. .well thanks Rishbah 😊

    • @RishabhRawat_98
      @RishabhRawat_98 5 лет назад +1

      Pleasure😊.
      U may also try "The power of habits" by Charles Duhhig if u haven't yet. It is a good book too.

    • @sumnaarshad4466
      @sumnaarshad4466 5 лет назад

      @@RishabhRawat_98 is it story?? Coz I love stories either fiction or non fiction ❤

  • @stephysimon4700
    @stephysimon4700 5 лет назад

    First view 😍anyway I have read the book last yr and it's really awesome.
    By the way you look great with a smile Helly😍

  • @mutthulakshmi1730
    @mutthulakshmi1730 5 лет назад +2

    Takeaways start from 1:45

  • @siddhantaren4010
    @siddhantaren4010 4 года назад

    Thanks

  • @lookinside4828
    @lookinside4828 5 лет назад

    Which Helly do you like most? You look great either way Helly ☺️ . I understand sometimes you should sugar coat harsh opinions n believe me I've been doing it since birth. However many times I ran into situation where I strive to keep conversation alive and for that I periodically check on my mind for next topic to discuss. Just want help of yours to understand is there any way to make conversation easier and at the time I can fully enjoy it?

  • @nimisharaj8501
    @nimisharaj8501 5 лет назад

    Thanks for this video..

  • @shreyaspanchal
    @shreyaspanchal 4 года назад +1

    "We are actually being a**hole"😂😂

  • @ashiva2603
    @ashiva2603 5 лет назад

    Thank you i am buying this book.

  • @khuram9508
    @khuram9508 5 лет назад

    Really Great Tips.

  • @shashibala7882
    @shashibala7882 5 лет назад

    I just completed reading this and it was just awesome ...

  • @simmichoudhary6871
    @simmichoudhary6871 5 лет назад +2

    i read that book in 2014, :) best forever

  • @rohitsoni5677
    @rohitsoni5677 2 года назад

    Hi Helly,
    Good Morning and Happy Holi
    I just have a quick question. In Amazon the book is available from so many publications, Which one is selling the original book ? Can you please advise .

  • @nikhilwagh7314
    @nikhilwagh7314 4 года назад

    I have only two friends in college. I don't talk to anyone because I'm introvert person😔.I will buy this book right now.

  • @yourstudybuddy9705
    @yourstudybuddy9705 5 лет назад

    Definitely gonna read this book. ❤️

  • @saravanangovindan9646
    @saravanangovindan9646 5 лет назад

    I love you Helly 💓

  • @banashreechakraborty6864
    @banashreechakraborty6864 5 лет назад +1

    Hey , if u have kindle then why u buy these hard cover books ??
    It's only a query .

  • @Goku-sw2el
    @Goku-sw2el 5 лет назад

    Which book to read the original one or in a digital age version??

  • @jayshukla450
    @jayshukla450 5 лет назад

    Good one

  • @Chesh35
    @Chesh35 5 лет назад +10

    It's been lying on my Amazon wishlist since ages now😂. Probably it's time I buy it😝.
    PS - 8/10 people pronounce my name incorrectly, even after I've told them how it's spelled! That pisses me off all the time😑

    • @thehellyblog
      @thehellyblog  5 лет назад +3

      Did I too ?😭

    • @Chesh35
      @Chesh35 5 лет назад +3

      @@thehellyblog nope! You pronounced my name perfectly in the voice message 🙈😘

    • @Zen_Sportz
      @Zen_Sportz 5 лет назад

      I hope you are not marathi as चेष्टा means MAKING OPINION

    • @Chesh35
      @Chesh35 5 лет назад

      @@Zen_Sportz I'm Bengali

    • @alex-sv8ru
      @alex-sv8ru 5 лет назад

      It's pronounced chaeshTa right? White people will definitely not be able to pronounce it.

  • @memesgroup5775
    @memesgroup5775 5 лет назад

    Thanks helly u r grt tq vry much fr ur hlp

  • @Inspiringtalks04
    @Inspiringtalks04 5 лет назад

    nice helly its truly inspiring

  • @globalscience5062
    @globalscience5062 5 лет назад +1

    Hiii helly when I first saw you I don't have words..

    • @ujwaljagtap8681
      @ujwaljagtap8681 5 лет назад

      GLOBAL BIOLOGY TUTORIAL ,, buy dictionary please

  • @ranveer438
    @ranveer438 5 лет назад +1

    Really u r going better n better day by day.. U r an inspiration for me... For some days i dont want to read more , what can i do now?

  • @RahulKumar-db6rp
    @RahulKumar-db6rp 4 года назад +1

    I will try to use name again and again

  • @onenonlyheart
    @onenonlyheart 2 года назад

    You are the best Saheli

  • @memories6096
    @memories6096 2 года назад

    from where we can buy original copy

  • @faisalshaikh6450
    @faisalshaikh6450 5 лет назад

    Can you just plz tell if it’s boring to read for a first timer ? As I’ve never ever read a book would you recommend it for me ? Or should I start with some another book that I don’t found boring plz reply

  • @saifahmed6111
    @saifahmed6111 4 года назад

    How much this book?

  • @pushpendranarvariya8362
    @pushpendranarvariya8362 3 года назад

    Nice BOOK by the way.

  • @Poojasinha2023
    @Poojasinha2023 5 лет назад +2

    Hey saheli! I hope I wrote your name correct.😊
    It was the most useful video.
    Thank you. You did it beautifully.