I think the reason why so many people dont ask for help, is because they are frightened of feeling rejected!!! I believe its important to help one another, but not put on others unnecessarily! Great video - you look fab!
Good morning Dee. You’re looking gorgeous as ever. Great color on you. Love your smile and your aura. You are a gift to me. I don’t usually ask for help unless there’s a real emergency. I either put it off, or try to do it myself. I’m so used to being on my own. Family all relocated…not close..except for my oldest daughter (who works very hard). Need some repairs and painting done…but can’t afford right now…so it will wait. I’ve accepted that I’m older and I’m just not as strong, motivated or as ‘capable’ as I once was. Don’t want to lose my balance and topple over (which I’ve done a few times last year). Very grateful that no bones were broken. Fell on my deck and on hardwood floor and in my bathroom. Ouch. Didn’t feel dizzy..just toppled over. The drs never figured out exactly why I was falling, and I think it’s just old age…and my numerous auto immune issues. 😊. I’m more careful and more aware now of what I choose to try to do. Hoping all works out with your car. Stay safe. Always nice to end my day by watching your video and listening to your gentle voice. Hugs to you and Mishka. 💫❤️🌈💞🥀🪻🌺💐🪴🪷🌿🍀🍃
It must be, I hope that you have helpfu people around - and friends with whom you can simply chat about anything and everything simply as two individuals. D
Hello again Dee 😊. Spoke to you recently of the loss of my husband Terry in December. I broke my shoulder at the same time and needed to ask for help to visit him in hospital, shopping etc. BUT I have recently come to the conclusion that I too have to be independent and strong now. My husband always showed me how to use tools, where the stop taps were etc. And I was the decorator. Seven months on now, I find that people are slowly drifting away to get on with their own lives, which is absolutely fine. In 54 years of marriage we never had to call on a tradesman to do anything for us, we did everything together, so it's going to be a challenge having to get the specialist in if I need too, we had no family. But Dee your right, we should never be afraid to ask ... if we need too. Take care. Sending love, light and Summer blessings 🐾🐈🌾🌹 as
Lovely to hear from you again. Keep on doing what you can for as long as you can. Takes me longer, but I get there. I can plan ahead as I know what is beyond me - so help, or a professional. D
What you are doing is amazing and very helpful, especially for those who have never had adults around to give them advice. You help us grow and think, and I thank you for that.
hey dee, I'm really in a weird position right now, I'm an 17 year old kid, my biological parents left me when I was 2 months old and since then I've been living with my adoptive parents, they are good people but I never recieved parental love, i never got a hug telling me I matter, the only relationship I have with my adoptive parents is that they let me stay at their house till I'm an adult, for my whole life I've been lonely, I've never had an adult to talk to or walk me through life. but sometimes I feel like I'm the problem. and this video really touched me cause I never had the courage to talk to anyone about how I was feeling. every adult in my life failed me, i cry myself to sleep everynight knowing ill never get parental love.
hello honey, please do not think that you are alone.you are unique, you are very valuable. when I read your comment ,I felt very close to you, my dear peer, I hope your life progresses as you wish, sorry, my English is not very good i love you😔🌷
I hope that you have friends to hang out with. Well done for shaaring your feelings with us. I would like you to have a look at a previous video - You Matter - ruclips.net/video/mKsfDtE40pk/видео.html Don't lose that thought because you do matter - so please do stsrt showing yourself this by doing things to make you happy. You plucked up the courage to tell us how you feel. Maybe you could begin to think about talking to someone face to face about this. May I ask if you feel that your parents are aware of your unhappiness? Do take care of yourself. D
Thank you Dee. I often find it difficult to ask for help but lately my illness has caught up a bit. I don't like asking for help, and often leave things un-done until I get a good day, and can tackle it in my own time. I am 60 now and have been independent all my life x
It is hard when we lose independence isn't it - guess easier if you have been an eyelash flutterer who gets things done for them!! Used to have a friend who always had people flocking around to help - as she couldn't do DIY, gardening, cooking. D
Wonderful commentary. I usually food shop alone since I am widowed but recently a neighbor and I decided next week we would go to another town to food shop together! What fun! When my beloved husband was alive we always shopped together.
Hi Dee, thank you for your videos that greatly are appreciated. My father, passed away many years ago when I was just turning 15yrs young, his advice was "God helps those who help themselves" So I have learnt that, sometimes if we DO need assistance in anyway (If not coping) ask and ye shall receive!! By the GRACE of Divine Goodness. Then give thanks in Gratitude. Blessings to you dear Dee. Blessings to all. We all deserve IT.
What a great post! My mother used to tell me I was "belligerently independent." She was gone 25 years before I understood, that wasn't a complement! Oh, our crazy lives do go on! Hahaha.
My dad's moto was if you don't ask.you don't get....so I ask...I don't feel guilty and accept no if that's the answer. Maybe you get a surprisingly yes
I guess so many people are so busy these days - but those who you can trust, even if busy, come to your aid. I also hope tht they know that I would drop anything I was doing to help them. D
greetings, taking responsibility is a HUGE step. how we can be a human? how we can be a good soul being without taking responsibility? it is hard, especially if you grow up in toxic behavior but it is possible. the sooner you will do it - the better it will be! thank you for this video! (i was sleepy and saw only “take responsibility”…) tbh, admiring that you need help is really much hard. you always think that you a powerful but it’s not truth
Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. As a single mother has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed because I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.❤️💕❤️
Next to Negative Nancy, Wilting Winnie is my FAVOURITE kind of person 😂😂😂 *sarcasm* It's a balance, isn't it? Like so much in life. Being overly willing to help everyone is a thing I used to struggle with. I'm better balanced now. ❤❤❤
I know the feeling on that one! Take care. D PS - I set you the challenge of coming up with a name for aa strong, but supportive figure as a counter-balance to Nancy and Winnie!
@@amanitamuscaria7500 Yes - I like the idea of that and loyalty .. just thought of Super Susie - different set of qualities - I have 2 now - thank you so much for your help. Dee
I totally agree with you Dee! And I have found that in some circumstances managing to do something yourself feels good,impowering. But yes realising that you won't manage something also feels good too maybe because you have still had to arrange the help! Big love as always from a not raining Scotland ❤️ so far anyway 😏
Thank you for this message. I find it hard indeed to ask for help. I think your comment...it is NOT a sign of weakness...I have found friends are very happy to help me. It is me, who has the problem. Thank you again...and yes, I am so grateful!
I wish I could ask for help but there's no one to turn to and I hate being dependent on others because everyone has their own life and problems. I'm autistic with selective mutism, but I was happy because I could work with my hands, I could do woodwork, electrics, design and think of solutions. Now because of constant pain in my back and stomach problems I couldn't even peel some apples today without terrible pain. I've asked for help from the doctors to find the cause with anything, even an ultrasound would at least be a start but they don't seem to care, it's just depressing even talking about my situation.
Im so sorry that you are struggling nd not ble to do the things that brought you happiness.Could you press your case with the doctors - or get someone to support you in this? Take care. D
I have a difficult time asking for help because I don't want to be a burden or an inconvenience to others. Also I don't know who I can trust enough and with whom I can be vulnerable to ask for help.
Could lack of action not be seen as doing nothing - as such, it is a choice, an action, and sometimes the most appropriate one? Apologies - playing with words here - accepting responsibiity that it is an action to avoid doing housework! D
Asking for help .......... Unfortunately doesn't mea If helped , It will be helpful to you as a individual. Helpful advice can be negative or positive or totally nonsense 😊
Hi Dee, may I say how lovely you look. So lovely in your green top or it might be a dress. I’m like you Dee not a wilting Winnie, very independent but will ask for help if I really need to. Good luck with your car lovely lady xx 🥰
I struggle very hard to ask for help. It makes me feel low. I'm not longer able-bodied due to an illness 3 1/2 years ago. And people close to me know, yet I still internally cringe having to go to them for help when I need it.
If the shoe was on the other foot, I imagine that you would be happy to help a friend who was struggling. If you don't say, they won't know and could well be upset that you didn't think you could ask for help. D
Be still sad heart! And cease repining ; behind the clouds the sun is shining... Thy fate is the common fate of all. Into each life some rain must fate .. Be well and be wel
lol good morning Dee, i often find that asking for help never works out, because they cant help, or wont help, which i find strange, or they genuinly cant help, which i understand to ,so yes i have to do it myself, lol but i do understand what your saying lol huggs 🥰
I have asked for help and I didn’t get anywhere. Last time I saw the dr was October of last year. I was supposed to go back in April and for some reason they told me he took the week off but nobody scheduled me a new one. I was at my breaking point and needed to talk. Not just talk but to talk and actually be heard. I wish I could speak to you in person because I don’t know how people understood what I said but the people I actually know didn’t. I was looking for anyone to speak to so I could be assured someone got the message. When I did I hadn’t had answers just a bunch of clues that didn’t fit anywhere. Then I opened one eye and heard and saw…shut it out, then opened one eye, then opened both eyes and found out what pieces go where. My answers were in books and biblical stories. Stories with an “S”…plural like the song(s)…it took a long time to understand it so I’m kinda afraid to even broach the subject. If I don’t tell the story from beginning to what I’ve lived so far it won’t be fully comprehended because how could it when I confused myself? So I just wanted to go back to my dr but the April appointment fell through and I don’t want to have to find another dr when I know what’s doing it…what’s doing it was and is my need for answers and my proof and the guidance I got from books. Quotes, songs, what happened with my family when I know it to be my truth. Just someone to talk to is all I need. Someone who won’t tell me my gut is wrong. The things I said in 2020 just came out of me without knowing myself what I meant by it. I can’t be blamed for that when even my neighbors saw my confusion. Because I wouldn’t be quiet people heard me talking and shouting and I acted really not nice after the panic set in. I feel like people are confused too. All I know are my experiences and my thoughts and what I was talking about. I didn’t lie about this I wasn’t going crazy even though I thought that a lot because I was told it wasn’t taking place. Those were the people I trusted the most. I want to tell you I have heard you and I appreciate you. I love your personality and you show and make known your kindness and intelligence and advice all aimed at your audience. Words of encouragement and things to think about. I was looking for a psychologist to go under hypnosis just to prove to my family that I didn’t lie and I didn’t go crazy. I didn’t know what I did to have this happen to me. I didn’t shock my own body so something did it to me. I wasn’t near electricity when that shock hit me but if I could imagine being struck by lightning that’s how I would describe it. That’s when that panic set in. The weird things I have been experiencing were written somewhere and I couldn’t shake the feeling of not wanting to read anything. In hindsight (because of what I recently found) can see clearly why I wouldn’t. Thank you for the advice and your insight. Thank you for your words of encouragement. Stay blessed. 🙏❤️
You mention hypnosis - you don't need psychologist for that - rather a hypnotherapist - guess some may be psychs too. Have you checked out local counsellors who you could have listen to you. Some may also be hypnotherapists. Take care of yourself. D
Unfortunately cant ask close family for help as my sistef is ill herself and the rest have jobs and children. I'm ill and housebound so could do sith help at times but not possible. 🤷♀️
Dee! Looking stunning🩷 So much love to you. I saw one of your comments on an older video of yours saying you had a podcast and blog. Do you have a link or podcast channel name you can share? 🤍
Good morning ma'am, ma'am I apologised to her you know, so I'm keeping things professional but she to me it's ok when I apologised but I'm still feeling that she has not forgiven me , because I'm still blocked on WhatsApp, I broke trust between us, it is difficult to build again, I'm still feeling that she is upset with me, what should I do please reply to me I will wait thanks ma'am 🙏
@@animation_views5027 That is down to you to decide - depends on how she behaves towards you. Or you could ask her? I hope that you get things sorted. D
8:57 ET 🇺🇸. It's lovely to be sitting with you in your home.. your color green looks good on you... it's finding help that doesn't want to drug you up... So miss diagnosed... mine was the shift and my awakening... but did have two in my life time that became my very best friends... mainly because they too needed to be heard... And perhaps traveling like we did every two years... Many who were friends become your family...I never understood why mental health is so taboo still to this day the pendulum swings ... " One must not always think so much about what one should do , but rather what one should be.Our works do not noble us; but we must ennoble our works." Enjoy this time... and thanking you for yours...Cheers! From me to you... 💌🪴🌟🕊️
just want you to know i love you and your videos and you 100% help me through all of life’s crazy struggles 🤍 you make me miss my grandma and your videos feel like a warm hug. i am truly very grateful. i don’t have any friends and when i watch your videos i feel less alone. thank you miss dee❤
I think the reason why so many people dont ask for help, is because they are frightened of feeling rejected!!! I believe its important to help one another, but not put on others unnecessarily! Great video - you look fab!
Good point! It is down to knowing who you can trust to turn to and when to do that turning. D
It’s true because people DO help generally
Good morning Dee. You’re looking gorgeous as ever. Great color on you. Love your smile and your aura. You are a gift to me. I don’t usually ask for help unless there’s a real emergency. I either put it off, or try to do it myself. I’m so used to being on my own. Family all relocated…not close..except for my oldest daughter (who works very hard). Need some repairs and painting done…but can’t afford right now…so it will wait. I’ve accepted that I’m older and I’m just not as strong, motivated or as ‘capable’ as I once was. Don’t want to lose my balance and topple over (which I’ve done a few times last year). Very grateful that no bones were broken. Fell on my deck and on hardwood floor and in my bathroom. Ouch. Didn’t feel dizzy..just toppled over. The drs never figured out exactly why I was falling, and I think it’s just old age…and my numerous auto immune issues. 😊. I’m more careful and more aware now of what I choose to try to do.
Hoping all works out with your car. Stay safe. Always nice to end my day by watching your video and listening to your gentle voice. Hugs to you and Mishka. 💫❤️🌈💞🥀🪻🌺💐🪴🪷🌿🍀🍃
Keep on being careful and aware. D
So wonderful to have helpful friends. Agree with you about saving help for when it’s needed. As a disabled person, it’s a balance
It must be, I hope that you have helpfu people around - and friends with whom you can simply chat about anything and everything simply as two individuals. D
@@Cheshirelass thank you for replying. Yes, I am blessed with a wonderful husband and two amazing sons ❤️
You are blossoming, Dee 🌸
I, too, am fiercely independent and don’t ask for help unless I really need it. Hope your car is sorted out soon 🙏🏻🫶🏻
Hello again Dee 😊. Spoke to you recently of the loss of my husband Terry in December. I broke my shoulder at the same time and needed to ask for help to visit him in hospital, shopping etc. BUT I have recently come to the conclusion that I too have to be independent and strong now. My husband always showed me how to use tools, where the stop taps were etc. And I was the decorator. Seven months on now, I find that people are slowly drifting away to get on with their own lives, which is absolutely fine. In 54 years of marriage we never had to call on a tradesman to do anything for us, we did everything together, so it's going to be a challenge having to get the specialist in if I need too, we had no family. But Dee your right, we should never be afraid to ask ... if we need too. Take care.
Sending love, light and Summer blessings 🐾🐈🌾🌹 as
Lovely to hear from you again. Keep on doing what you can for as long as you can. Takes me longer, but I get there. I can plan ahead as I know what is beyond me - so help, or a professional. D
@@Cheshirelass Thank you Dee. Take care 🐈🐾🕯xx
What you are doing is amazing and very helpful, especially for those who have never had adults around to give them advice. You help us grow and think, and I thank you for that.
Thank you. D
hey dee, I'm really in a weird position right now,
I'm an 17 year old kid, my biological parents left me when I was 2 months old and since then I've been living with my adoptive parents, they are good people but I never recieved parental love, i never got a hug telling me I matter, the only relationship I have with my adoptive parents is that they let me stay at their house till I'm an adult, for my whole life I've been lonely, I've never had an adult to talk to or walk me through life. but sometimes I feel like I'm the problem. and this video really touched me cause I never had the courage to talk to anyone about how I was feeling. every adult in my life failed me, i cry myself to sleep everynight knowing ill never get parental love.
hello honey, please do not think that you are alone.you are unique, you are very valuable. when I read your comment ,I felt very close to you, my dear peer, I hope your life progresses as you wish, sorry, my English is not very good i love you😔🌷
I hope that you have friends to hang out with. Well done for shaaring your feelings with us. I would like you to have a look at a previous video - You Matter - ruclips.net/video/mKsfDtE40pk/видео.html
Don't lose that thought because you do matter - so please do stsrt showing yourself this by doing things to make you happy. You plucked up the courage to tell us how you feel. Maybe you could begin to think about talking to someone face to face about this.
May I ask if you feel that your parents are aware of your unhappiness?
Do take care of yourself. D
Thank you Dee. I often find it difficult to ask for help but lately my illness has caught up a bit. I don't like asking for help, and often leave things un-done until I get a good day, and can tackle it in my own time.
I am 60 now and have been independent all my life x
It is hard when we lose independence isn't it - guess easier if you have been an eyelash flutterer who gets things done for them!! Used to have a friend who always had people flocking around to help - as she couldn't do DIY, gardening, cooking. D
Wonderful commentary. I usually food shop alone since I am widowed but recently a neighbor and I decided next week we would go to another town to food shop together! What fun! When my beloved husband was alive we always shopped together.
Have fun! Don't forget to have a coffee too! D
I so appreciate your gentle and wise viewpoints on life. Joy and love from New Zealand xx💛💚
I love listening to your viewpoints and of course the way you do..love from Spain xxx
Hi Dee, thank you for your videos that greatly are appreciated. My father, passed away many years ago when I was just turning 15yrs young, his advice was "God helps those who help themselves" So I have learnt that, sometimes if we DO need assistance in anyway (If not coping) ask and ye shall receive!! By the GRACE of Divine Goodness. Then give thanks in Gratitude. Blessings to you dear Dee. Blessings to all. We all deserve IT.
What a great post! My mother used to tell me I was "belligerently independent." She was gone 25 years before I understood, that wasn't a complement! Oh, our crazy lives do go on! Hahaha.
I love that phrase - beligerently independent!!! Onwards and upwards. Preferably without belligerence - D
❤ Thank you for this message. Wise words!
My dad's moto was if you don't ask.you don't get....so I ask...I don't feel guilty and accept no if that's the answer. Maybe you get a surprisingly yes
So long as we don't take advantage of those who offer help when not really needed. D
I also feel awkward for asking help. Actually I don't believe people anymore.Many r very selfish I think .only few r really good dear❤❤❤
I guess so many people are so busy these days - but those who you can trust, even if busy, come to your aid. I also hope tht they know that I would drop anything I was doing to help them. D
you should have a podcast queen. i would listen to it to sleep for affirmations
greetings,
taking responsibility is a HUGE step. how we can be a human? how we can be a good soul being without taking responsibility?
it is hard, especially if you grow up in toxic behavior but it is possible. the sooner you will do it - the better it will be!
thank you for this video!
(i was sleepy and saw only “take responsibility”…)
tbh, admiring that you need help is really much hard. you always think that you a powerful but it’s not truth
Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. As a single mother has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed because I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.❤️💕❤️
Next to Negative Nancy, Wilting Winnie is my FAVOURITE kind of person 😂😂😂 *sarcasm* It's a balance, isn't it? Like so much in life. Being overly willing to help everyone is a thing I used to struggle with. I'm better balanced now. ❤❤❤
I know the feeling on that one! Take care. D
PS - I set you the challenge of coming up with a name for aa strong, but supportive figure as a counter-balance to Nancy and Winnie!
@@Cheshirelass challenge accepted......watch this space .....
@@Cheshirelass how about Stalwart Stella?
@@amanitamuscaria7500 Yes - I like the idea of that and loyalty .. just thought of Super Susie - different set of qualities - I have 2 now - thank you so much for your help. Dee
@@Cheshirelass 😀👍
I totally agree with you Dee! And I have found that in some circumstances managing to do something yourself feels good,impowering. But yes realising that you won't manage something also feels good too maybe because you have still had to arrange the help! Big love as always from a not raining Scotland ❤️ so far anyway 😏
Waving from a sunny Cheshire - so far anyway too. D
Well stated, Thank You.
Thank you dearly for your kind reminder 💞🌸 I needed to hear it✨️
Thank you for this message. I find it hard indeed to ask for help. I think your comment...it is NOT a sign of weakness...I have found friends are very happy to help me. It is me, who has the problem. Thank you again...and yes, I am so grateful!
It is often the way. D
I wish I could ask for help but there's no one to turn to and I hate being dependent on others because everyone has their own life and problems. I'm autistic with selective mutism, but I was happy because I could work with my hands, I could do woodwork, electrics, design and think of solutions. Now because of constant pain in my back and stomach problems I couldn't even peel some apples today without terrible pain.
I've asked for help from the doctors to find the cause with anything, even an ultrasound would at least be a start but they don't seem to care, it's just depressing even talking about my situation.
Im so sorry that you are struggling nd not ble to do the things that brought you happiness.Could you press your case with the doctors - or get someone to support you in this? Take care. D
I have a difficult time asking for help because I don't want to be a burden or an inconvenience to others. Also I don't know who I can trust enough and with whom I can be vulnerable to ask for help.
The second part of your comment is the key - trust. I have complete trust in those I know I could turn to. D
Goodmorning Dee!🌹☕️ Sorry to hear about you're car! Hopefully you'll get it back soon!🩷
I hope so too D
We are responsable for both our own actions and our lack of action. Simply nothing comes from nothing.
Could lack of action not be seen as doing nothing - as such, it is a choice, an action, and sometimes the most appropriate one? Apologies - playing with words here - accepting responsibiity that it is an action to avoid doing housework! D
@@Cheshirelass The law of cause and effect, you reap what you sow
Thank you Dee for another heartwarming msg. Be safe, be blessed🌷🙏
You are so welcome D
Good morning Dee ❤️ thanks for advice and i hope you get your car back
Asking for help ..........
Unfortunately doesn't mea
If helped ,
It will be helpful to you as a individual.
Helpful advice can be negative or positive or totally nonsense 😊
Good morning Ms. Dee
Thank you 😊
Hi Dee, may I say how lovely you look. So lovely in your green top or it might be a dress. I’m like you Dee not a wilting Winnie, very independent but will ask for help if I really need to. Good luck with your car lovely lady xx 🥰
Oh thank you! D
I struggle very hard to ask for help. It makes me feel low. I'm not longer able-bodied due to an illness 3 1/2 years ago. And people close to me know, yet I still internally cringe having to go to them for help when I need it.
If the shoe was on the other foot, I imagine that you would be happy to help a friend who was struggling. If you don't say, they won't know and could well be upset that you didn't think you could ask for help. D
Be still sad heart! And cease repining ; behind the clouds the sun is shining... Thy fate is the common fate of all. Into each life some rain must fate .. Be well and be wel
lol good morning Dee, i often find that asking for help never works out, because they cant help, or wont help, which i find strange, or they genuinly cant help, which i understand to ,so yes i have to do it myself, lol but i do understand what your saying lol huggs 🥰
My morning energizing coffee is your videos Thank you🍀✨🤍
Good morning! D
I have asked for help and I didn’t get anywhere. Last time I saw the dr was October of last year. I was supposed to go back in April and for some reason they told me he took the week off but nobody scheduled me a new one. I was at my breaking point and needed to talk. Not just talk but to talk and actually be heard. I wish I could speak to you in person because I don’t know how people understood what I said but the people I actually know didn’t. I was looking for anyone to speak to so I could be assured someone got the message. When I did I hadn’t had answers just a bunch of clues that didn’t fit anywhere. Then I opened one eye and heard and saw…shut it out, then opened one eye, then opened both eyes and found out what pieces go where. My answers were in books and biblical stories. Stories with an “S”…plural like the song(s)…it took a long time to understand it so I’m kinda afraid to even broach the subject. If I don’t tell the story from beginning to what I’ve lived so far it won’t be fully comprehended because how could it when I confused myself? So I just wanted to go back to my dr but the April appointment fell through and I don’t want to have to find another dr when I know what’s doing it…what’s doing it was and is my need for answers and my proof and the guidance I got from books. Quotes, songs, what happened with my family when I know it to be my truth. Just someone to talk to is all I need. Someone who won’t tell me my gut is wrong. The things I said in 2020 just came out of me without knowing myself what I meant by it. I can’t be blamed for that when even my neighbors saw my confusion. Because I wouldn’t be quiet people heard me talking and shouting and I acted really not nice after the panic set in.
I feel like people are confused too. All I know are my experiences and my thoughts and what I was talking about. I didn’t lie about this I wasn’t going crazy even though I thought that a lot because I was told it wasn’t taking place. Those were the people I trusted the most.
I want to tell you I have heard you and I appreciate you. I love your personality and you show and make known your kindness and intelligence and advice all aimed at your audience. Words of encouragement and things to think about. I was looking for a psychologist to go under hypnosis just to prove to my family that I didn’t lie and I didn’t go crazy. I didn’t know what I did to have this happen to me. I didn’t shock my own body so something did it to me. I wasn’t near electricity when that shock hit me but if I could imagine being struck by lightning that’s how I would describe it. That’s when that panic set in. The weird things I have been experiencing were written somewhere and I couldn’t shake the feeling of not wanting to read anything. In hindsight (because of what I recently found) can see clearly why I wouldn’t.
Thank you for the advice and your insight. Thank you for your words of encouragement. Stay blessed.
🙏❤️
You mention hypnosis - you don't need psychologist for that - rather a hypnotherapist - guess some may be psychs too. Have you checked out local counsellors who you could have listen to you. Some may also be hypnotherapists. Take care of yourself. D
@@Cheshirelass I’ll try using hypnotherapist in my search. Thank you! 🙏
Love your videos, Dee!
Thank you so much! D
Good morning 🌞
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Unfortunately cant ask close family for help as my sistef is ill herself and the rest have jobs and children. I'm ill and housebound so could do sith help at times but not possible. 🤷♀️
I don't know where you are based - but in UK, we have AGE UK who may be able to offer suggestions local to you. There are groups who do help. D
@Cheshirelass Thanks for suggestion. ❤️ Frances
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Dee! Looking stunning🩷 So much love to you. I saw one of your comments on an older video of yours saying you had a podcast and blog. Do you have a link or podcast channel name you can share? 🤍
I used to post on my web site - have all saved - D
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Good morning ma'am, ma'am I apologised to her you know, so I'm keeping things professional but she to me it's ok when I apologised but I'm still feeling that she has not forgiven me , because I'm still blocked on WhatsApp, I broke trust between us, it is difficult to build again, I'm still feeling that she is upset with me, what should I do please reply to me I will wait thanks ma'am 🙏
I am sorry, but you cannot make someone forgive you. That is their choice. D
@@Cheshirelass ok ma'am but how do I know that she has forgiven me
@@animation_views5027 That is down to you to decide - depends on how she behaves towards you. Or you could ask her? I hope that you get things sorted. D
@@Cheshirelass I don't know ma'am now I'm sad I don't want to convince her I have respect for her In my mind I don't want to disturb her.
@@animation_views5027 Your choice your mind to be made up - I can add no more.D
8:57 ET 🇺🇸. It's lovely to be sitting with you in your home.. your color green looks good on you... it's finding help that doesn't want to drug you up... So miss diagnosed... mine was the shift and my awakening... but did have two in my life time that became my very best friends... mainly because they too needed to be heard... And perhaps traveling like we did every two years... Many who were friends become your family...I never understood why mental health is so taboo still to this day the pendulum swings ... " One must not always think so much about what one should do , but rather what one should be.Our works do not noble us; but we must ennoble our works." Enjoy this time... and thanking you for yours...Cheers! From me to you... 💌🪴🌟🕊️
My pleasure - take care and cheers from me - D
just want you to know i love you and your videos and you 100% help me through all of life’s crazy struggles 🤍 you make me miss my grandma and your videos feel like a warm hug. i am truly very grateful. i don’t have any friends and when i watch your videos i feel less alone. thank you miss dee❤
Take care. D