ARE YOU A GIVER? HAVE YOU MAYBE GIVEN TOO MUCH?
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- Опубликовано: 21 фев 2024
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Sharing Donna Ashworth's words from her latest book - 'Wild Hope'
www.amazon.co.uk/s?k=donna+as...
#readings #donnaashworth #giving
“Go back for her.” That got me.
That got Me too, yeah.
Both of these poems resonated with me. I have withdrawn my energy from family, as it's one sided and only in my senior years have I set firm boundaries with what and who I give my depleted energy to. I have in the past "should'd" myself to death. Now I am gentler with myself. I have clutter that's out of control, my insides spilling out onto the outside I call it. I will look back on the day and say, what did you do today? Had a shower, made nourishing meals, vacuumed, planted some seeds, did the dishes, talked on RUclips! Just to make me feel like I didn't waste the day. If I feel overwhelm with the papers, and the things I have to make a decision about, toss, donate etc I attempt to do just one small area. It's a drop in the ocean, but hey no one's coming to visit anyway! I'll get to it as I begin to emerge out of the pit I've fallen into. Took a long time to get me here, it'll take a while to climb out into the sunshine.
I hate these man made holidays, Mother's Day (today), Valentine's Day, Grandparent's Day... does anyone even acknowledge that one? I will go back and get that girl who had dreams of being an artist and writer, the sensitive little girl with long braids (plaits) who used to kneel and watch snails, and birds, and peer under rocks by the sea for crabs and gazed in wonder at all the bits of nature I'd find. Makes me sad to recall those times. I want to hug that child and tell her how much she is loved. Thanks for sharing Dee. ♥
Let your inner child out to play - let her watch snails and gaze in wonder at nature - now, rather than in your memories. Maybe paint/draw what you study. Why don't you join us on our video walks - put your feet and and come along to lovely places whilst I chat. Would love to have you along - maybe your inner child could skip along with mine? take care.. D
❤❤I love your gentle positivity and messages of Love
Dee, I'm still trying to get my head around 'Let them'. As a mother I gave everything I had. It is quite one sided but then we raise our children to go off and fly and make their own lives. My job is done. My joy is their happiness.
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Thank you for the video, it was lovely! you have a very relaxing and compassionate voice :)
Thank you so much for your lovely comment - it is much appreciated.
I think you are the loveliest person and a huge inspiration. I hope to one day exude the warmth and light that you do, and to not see such things as a weakness. I am trying to find strength in my sensitivity - I suppose being tender is better than living with no gusto at all, because having a tender heart is the key to hearing the beat of all the other hearts. Sending so much love and happiness your way :,) xx
Thank you so much. D
Wonderful words of wisdom. Thank you. 😊
I appreciate your comment. thank you back to you too.
One of the luxuries of aging - sit down, one thought at a time
Abso-flipping-lutely!!
Christmas came with a big hard decision I made to back away from always giving to a particular group of young teens. My guilty feelings took time to iron themselves out, but eventually I did. It’s so true with these words you tell, it’s time for me to think and do for myself. It’s ok I tell myself, I’m 72 and need to look after my own wellbeing holistically. Welcoming words dear Dee thank you for sharing it’s so rewarding to hear your maturity and kindness. Blessings to all ☯️🙏🥰🌸
Did anyone else forward this one? Brilliant. Thank you!
My sweet woman,you could read me a dictionary,and it would be calming Thank you.I wish you were my auntie!
Beautiful video coming from Wisdom, peace and kindness.....God bless you ❣️
💡I needed to hear this to start my day. I appreciate your wisdom👏🏽👏🏽
I give I also receive a lot, it didn't start out this way it just happened. 😊 for me this is a strength not a weekness. ❤
I see giving as a great strength, but sadly others take advantage of this. SO Great if a balanced part of a friendship with giving and accepting from bth sides. D
Love this completely
Beautiful Dee, I am going to look for that book…
Wow….how did I miss this one? Thank you. Thank you so very much for sharing this. I shall try to find this book. Last moments before sleep and I watch this. Much gratitude. Good night and Hugs. 🤔❤️❤️❤️💐
Wow! Both of those poems were so good! They really spoke to me. Thank you for sharing them! ❤
Thank you , I needed to hear that.
Dee, you speak to my soul. I recently saw your vids and I watch it now before sleep. They make me calm. Thank you!
I'm so glad! Have you tried the relaxation - using hypnosis?Now that will really make you calm, especially after you have watched it a couple of times! D
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I needed to hear these. I was just journaling about these very things. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you🙏love from the Netherlands.
Merci beaucoup pour ce message poignant. J’avais vraiment besoin de l’entendre
Merci a vous aussi. D
Thank you for every morning coping support. Been a bit busy with an unexpected schedule, but I'm back. I miss my adopted Gram and Dottie very much...your channel helps with believing in hope and memories, and a vase. Brandy Fowler
Take care. D
This is a wonderful message. Thank you so much! ♥
You are so welcome D
Listening to you with my heart here in Brazil 🇧🇷 ❤ THANK YOU! Obrigada!
You are a kind spirit. Thank you for letting us go on the journey of getting older with you. Dee, where do you live? Blessings
I am in England. D
This one of my favourite videos Dee, I watch it often ❤❤❤ So very helpful, thank you
Thank you too. Good to know which strike home for people.D
So true. Thank you.
It is always good to get your comments - thank you.
I will find you at a later date Dee. More current. Take care for now . Love always ❤
Thank you for this video!
More and more i find myself saying "if i do nothing else today, i wii do this _______." It helps me tackle the things i don't like doing one of which is shredding junk mail. 🤮
The power of positive thinking - with a bit of prioritising for good measure. Well done you.
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Please can you increase the volume? Like to hear from you without laying my head beside the speaker.
So sorry - I will check it out - but full volume here. D
…and then we end up sitting in a wet carton box ourselves…..nobody in sight for you….
Why you have to ensure that you give to yourself - the old airline safety check. D
@@Cheshirelass thank you 🕊️💕🍀