Out of Control
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- Hey doobies, I know I promised a cookie recipe in my last vlog, but I haven't yet developed one of my own just yet-- still recipe testing, and will be ready by next week's vlog! :)
Spam Kimchi Fried Rice
½ can spam
2 cups day old rice
1 cup fermented kimchi
2 eggs
1 packet of salted seaweed
Sauce
1 tbsp gochujang
1 tbsp gochugaru
2 tbsp soy sauce
1 tbsp honey
1 tsp sesame oil
Shakshuka
1 onion, diced
6 garlic cloves, leave 1 for garlic yogurt
1 can whole or pureed tomato
2 eggs
pinch of salt n pepper
herbs of choice
Garlic Yogurt Sauce
½ cup greek yogurt
2 tbsp extra virgin olive oil
1 garlic clove, microplaned or finely chopped
pinch of salt n pepper
Bake at 180C for 15 minutes!
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She’s like documenting her spiral into madness
There’s method in my madness - Hamlet, Shakespeare
@@Doobydobap you mean... Ham-let? :) Don't worry, I'm one mistake away from becoming a super villain.
I wouldn't call it madness, more like feeling, letting it change and moving on.
@@Doobydobap hi
@@Doobydobap I love you no matter what, Dooby man, not just for your thicc thighs haha. Seriously though💖
Learning to find happiness within yourself can be difficult but use your time as a single Pringle to explore life and truly find what makes Dooby Dooby and then when you’re ready the right person will find you. Good luck Doobs 💚 side note: you’re getting SOO good at editing, don’t be so hard on yourself!
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Learning to love yourself is step one right?
I agree with half of that. The other half being that nobody wants a woman over a certain age because the best years of her life are gone and she will have more of a chance to have complications with pregnancy the older she gets so being picky the older you get isn't really beneficial for women
I kind of needed this too, thank you!
Im glad that Im not the only one that puts makeup on and dresses up to sit at home. It really helps with my anxiety and depression.
Out of all the vlogs i've watch i'm enjoying your content most. Not everything will go the way you wanted, hardwork won't always result to positive outcome. Keep pushing strive to make better of where you are right now, take a rest if it's to heavy to deal with. Once you've recovered retry again to reach your desired outcome. Keep it up YOU ROCK!
before clickin had a weird feeling this video will vibe. simply subs and cooking. thankyou for the effort, truely therapeutic. (psst you should watch when you need too)
I REALLY enjoyed this video, food and cooking also makes me happy. Oh and cant forget about a nice cold beer and a bath bomb.
I totally relate to the sense of control that you mentioned at the beginning of the video. That’s why I enjoy driving and it’s really important to feel like you are in control of your life. YOU are chasing your goals, not your tasks are chasing after you. It totally changes your perspective and makes you much more confident and energised
but it's just not true. I think everyone should realize that they're not in control. God is. Sorry.
the "this is my swamp - shrek" killed me 🤣🤣
2:36 yes Gordon is kind, we just dont see it that much often.
I finally made it to my local Korean store and it was amazing. I got mugwort rice cakes and those super cute sweet corn ice cream in the shapely lovely corn shaped cones. I plan to make a ramjeon dish almost from scratch that is loosely based on what this “ramen-ya” you are eating here makes me feel. I look for this video for inspiration. I want green seaweed powder noodles that I will make by hand so they’re extra chewy and nuanced and then I need some soakable seaweed and probably doenjang although I do not want to mess up the color of the broth so I may be looking for lighter color savory flavoring ingredient like a seasoning packet maybe. I have so many amazing ideas for ice cream lately. The Korean store was amazing next time I need the Milkis popsicles they had and some of the rest of those ingredients I need for the ramyeon dish.
Go out of control like Janet Jackson on dis wick
i'm so glad this video popped up in my recommendations, bc i really needed this. i think our 20s are the hardest because there are just so many expectations and the constant pressure and feeling like we are falling behind everything in life. i'm currently figuring out my life and still learning new and very basic things everyday, and that's okay! let's live our life at our own pace, and i hope i learn to be okay with myself and find happiness within me. :] your 20s can be hard, but you are not alone.
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How old are you?
'i think our 20s are the hardest' oh bro i'm sorry you're struggling but coming from the 80s i got some bad news for you...
Thank you, I'm not alone,we are not alone 😖
@@KlNETlCS i think shes talking about her personal experience....
I think it’s important that these vlogs are watched chronologically
What order do you think?
@@milly5568 ....Chrono...logic...ally...
@@stixorz I know what that means lol I just meant when do the more meaningful vlogs start so I know what’s going on
This message of relationship is meant for everyone, no matter guy/girl, just don't rush things into a bad relationship that wastes time and breaks you
Tricks
I need a relationship that can bring the best out of me. I’m not no ordinary mf I got a purpose to handle.
This! Bruh if only I can tell this to my younger self that I shouldn't have rushed things and got to a relationship. You really need to build yourself focus on your goals and learn to love yourself.
Yeah, you can be lonely and unhappy in a bad relationship.
@@tangetaier1783 A man shouldn't be finding happiness in a woman. His success and goals should bring him joy woman are a by product.
Don't let the pressure to find someone hit you too hard, me and my wife met at 26, married by 29, and now separating at 32 after she had an affair, so meeting young doesn't always stay happily ever after as we all hope it does. There is no timeline that needs to be followed, you're already miles ahead of many if you can find happiness with yourself and have that focus on yourself. This is something I've been struggling with after our relationship ended, so all the power to you. Just stay open to finding love and keep that focus on yourself and good things will happen.
Tina,
You are definitely a trend setter on your content! They are so unique and so enjoyable to watch. Thank you,
You’re not alone - you just have the guts to share your journey with ALL of us! Was anyone else impressed with the chop on that garlic?? 😊
She is certainly utterly proficient with the blade. Also, her inherent sensibilities will home in on Mr. right once nature’s synchronicity is initiated. 😎❤️
@@michaelpark5681 who hurt u fam
@@michaelpark5681 geez you don’t know her. stop trying to dictate how her life goes
@@michaelpark5681 bet u get fed bologna sandwiches and that’s why ur pissed for no reason 😂
@@michaelpark5681 If she's like Western women then yeah she'll end up alone. Conceited overly complicated women. But she's smoking hot so she can EASILY find a guy anytime she wants. Women have it easy that way. Especially hot women - they don't have to put in aNY effort. Guys come to them.
The comments here just says it all, really inspiring. It really feels better to know that there are some people who experience the same things as you do, you'd feel that you're not alone even if you really feel that way. anyway, I hope you continue to take care of yourself, we wish you all the best 💗
I left my PhD, and cooking was the only thing that kept me sane during that process. Thanks Dooby. For reminding me that ppl like us arent alone.
She has nothing to do with ya, she is rich and need no PhD to survive
I see you replying on a few people's comments, hiding on the other side of the screen makes you feel like you can respond to people like this? It'd be better if you find somewhere else to do it.
@@bozumoyo3277 Is this your way of simping?
@@ShishiSonson good point ubermensch, honestly this whole wave of lazy procrastinating manchildren is taking over the world. It went from "I have to have a 9-5 job and a wife and 2 kids to be happy" to "I want to own nothing and do nothing and be happy". Both have issues but there is a clear winner here. Humanity will just fade into oblivion if we embrace this spirit of nonchalance and jemenfoutism
@@mithras666 You are right, both have issues and they just stem from a different moral interpretation of the same human life, but the new one clearly proved to be deleterious to the continuation of human life itself - even deleterious to the formation of great individuals. They are just bland nihilists, last men.
To say that I'm addicted to your channel would be an understatement. I binge watch it day and night. While cooking, eating and sleeping 🤣🤣🤣
Try getting a job.
Is it better for you to say that you are crazy about her
THISS 👆🏾👆🏾 ALL OF THISSSS 👆🏾✨
Bro I’m addicted too.
You know what worse than being single? "Feeling lonely when you're married."
Marriage is a trap 🪤 and I refuse to let myself be trapped
This just drop kicked me in the heart.
Yes. I know.
I'm a 31 years old soon to be mom of 4. Enjoy every second of your single life while you can. I understand it seems difficult and overwhelming now but you will miss it but I love your out look on life! You'll get where you want to be at the perfect time. I found that things fell into place for me once I stopped pushing them. 💕
@Dose Of Memes that was a lot for you to read, huh?
@Dose Of Memes what essay is 5 sentences long? are you in preschool lmao
@Dose Of Memes Don't scroll further down the comment section then. Your premature brain would explode
I.e I realized the older I got the less likely I was going to find a man and have kids so I jumped outta the single independent club😂😂😂 men read double speak. No woman wants to die alone.
If Tina opens up her restaurant someday i'll be an everyday customer for sure ;))
Creepy simp vibes
I would work for her for free
Same lmeo. Just for that good pumpkin soup w/ mochi 👌
@@justinreynolds6318 facts yo 🤣
did u just propose to her 😂
The look in her face, after she opened her little friend, the beer can. Priceless and so relateable. Btw. beautiful video.
She's only getting views because she's sexy as hell. 10/10 I would smash if I ever had the opportunity.
Yeah, the beer was San Miguel, a Philippine brand. Love the beer....
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@@michaelpark5681 we are not taking about you
god she just makes me feel like a really close friend i mean that in the most wholesome way ever
@@michaelpark5681 god tell me about it lmao
same
bruh😂😂
thank you for being so open and sharing your vulnerable feelings with us! makes me feel less alone in this hahahah
"If I dont push myself, who else will?" Hits right in the spot. Love you and keep pushing!
my boss, family, friends,
Seeing her doing her best makes me want to do my best.
Tricks
Same ☺️
I totally resonated with “cooking calms me down” because it’s also how I cope with stress when things feel too overwhelming. My little bubble
i love cooking dinner after work because it really helps me calm down and relieves any stress from that day!
okay, I just had the most horrendously awful day at work, and then I found your channel… your content is soothing my tired soul like nothing else, putting a smile on my grumpy face 😌 I feel like I might even have a decent night sleep now! thank you so much for your talent and sincerity 🙏 you’re amazing
Aww i hope your days have been better! 🤍
@@SlickyFats I hope you're ok because your comment is surely not
@@zylith5727 you have no children. you are empty and pointless.
I think we all can relate to all the feelings you shared. I’m 30 and still single with no kids so it’s easy to feel like “ what’s wrong with me” but there’s someone out there for everyone. You’re a beautiful girl, smart, funny. Everyone keeps telling me no to rush it, so I’ll pass that onto you 💕 love your content and your food always makes me so hungry!
another single w*man ruined and tricked by society into thinking a job is more important than family. lmao enjoy being 40
@@SlickyFats what's your problem?
Such a good reminder 🤍
I am in the same position as you - 30 & still single, no children and no pets. It's great living alone, but at times it becomes a bit much and I would just love to have a family. But I also realize that quality partners are quite difficult to come by, so I am being patient as much as possible hahaaha
Best wishes to you~
@@Gillian_FFXIV 30 and single, spent your 20's having fun. you aren't a quality partner. you don't get what you are not.
I love how she expresses herself like writing a book
I’m 23 and should have graduated college last year if everything had gone “to plan”. But I’m transferring colleges again and changing my major... again... I also moved back to my home town to live with my grandparents so I could help them out more and went from a big university to a small community college. I feel like I am moving backwards and I struggle with the thought of how much I should have achieved by now, especially when I look at others my age. It’s hard to remember how important it is to not compare yourself to others and that going at your own pace will lead to the best result in the long run.
I wish u all the best I wish u will achieve whatever u want to achieve.
Dooby I can totally relate to your anxieties about being perfectly content single but also wanting to find someone to share your life with. I am 27 years old and at that age where not only do I consider that at my age, my mom was married with 3 children, but also I am now watching all my friends and the people my age around me beginning to settle down with families. Trust your timeline and enjoy life in the meantime :)
Times are changing. The era of your mom is not our era . Now is more like searchinf for inner peace .stability within yourself .being with someone became an option a good option indeed when you find the right person . We are social creatures we thrive for relationships .but we have been taught conditioned by our parents that the traditional model of relionships and the way of living is THE MODEL.
Now in 2022 and Gen Z era we can live the live we want with different valid models suitable for every needs.
And your vlog is soooo much relatable for me
Hey Dooby :D
Haven't been here for long, but being the same 'no idea what to do with myself' type of person I really appreciated your learnings from 2021 video
My Filipino heart when you pulled out that San Miguel beer. 🍺
Really love your content. Same feels about cooking giving a sense of control.
Hoping to cook with you someday. Love you all the way from Philippines. 💗
Dooby, honestly you dont need to urgently like be with someone who is not ur type of a life partner .. look tina ur still young and if ur parents got married at ur age who cares people change when time change at their time it was common to marry some one at a young age and ur still young u have time .. just do it ur way that u like ... be yourself and let ur soul tell u what to do ... dont be pressurised.. doobyy.. we all love uu
To stand out among a massive crowd of food content creators is an achievement in itself. Thank you for turning food into such a story and sharing with us the good and bad. It helps the next person speak up. Wishing you all the very best ahead.
This is so inspiring, relateable, and yet so relaxing. Probably one of the most comforting videos I've seen in a while. Love the vibes, keep it up!
You’re a straight 10/10! The right person will come into your life when it’s the right time. Singledom is a great stage to be embraced. Whoever gets you would be so lucky ❤️🙏🏾 thanks for your great content
10:10? Yea idk about that. She’s pretty but not a perfect 10. Plus if she can’t find a man to take her serious that’s a red flag.
im 34 and im single but its ok as long as you what you like without any one bothering you. Being single mean more peace and happy
Having no voices and only the deafening sounds of each individual action as well as the subtitles serving as inner dialogue perfectly encapsulates how it is to be an only child, its cold and lonely, we only have our thoughts with us… And I honestly love it. I relate to dooby on a personal level because of this :)
I never had a gf before soo.. never really felt bad about being single.. but sometimes when I go on hikes or go to the gym and I see all these couples doing these activities I do feel kinda lonely.. but on the bright side I'm almost a wizard!!
This was the first video ive seen on this channel and it really cheered me up. I usually dont like vlogs but the style you are making these is awesome. I can relate to many things and im always looking forward to new content!
Amazing job improving your videography skills Tina! It's actually insane how much you've learned and adapted in such a short time lol
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Thank you for making this! I’ve been feeling out of control recently and it’s been making me spiral like crazy! Knowing that you went or are currently going through this makes me realize how a lot of people are going through the same things. Loved the food in this vlog too 💞 keep it up dooby!
I just love the atmosphere in her vlogs! So calming and refreshing☺️
I saw the notification and clicked it as a reflex . I somehow relate so much to you and you videos bring me imense comfort of not being alone.❤❤
One thing I struggled with when living alone is that when I cook, I always cook for 2-3 persons, so I always end up eating the same dish for the next 3 meals. It's hard to cook for 1 person unless you are eating instant foods
I do the same but I don’t mind it. It saves time from having to cook so often but eating the same can get too repetitive
I usually call it meal prep 😂 it works for me so I dont have to figure out what to eat at work and it saves me money
You can freeze the extra meals and alternate them.
This is gonna blow your mind..ready...use less ingredients..specifically 1/3rd off usual amount.. you can do this I got faith in you 👊
@@jshaw4757 She's probably a spoiled Westerner.
This is the first video I have ever watched from you and I must admit it is one amazing video. I loved every second of it, from your childish humor to your honest fears and life philosophy. I can't help but relate to you as we seem to be in similar situations. Of course I can't say much as this is the only video I have seen from you, but you can bet I will follow allong as we, like the bubbles on your bathtub, swirl our way through life. For anyone who reads my comment, don't forget to always move forwards, have dreams and goals. Even if life doesn't look good now, keep your chin up and stay hydrated because life will get better.
Watching this channel reminds me of myself before I got married and had kids. It’s a very interesting time in life being completely self independent and alone. You learn a lot about yourself and those rough patches you face ends up becoming important memories. I do think it’s imperative to set goals for yourself, which I didn’t do when I was young and kept getting set back as a result.
you're a strong free-spirited young lady who is living life to the fullest, your vlogs are like ASMR very soothing.
I’m so inspired by you girl! And don’t worry bout being single, it’s when you stop looking that your new S.O. present themselves. Keep doing you and when you get lonely, visit the doggos! 🐾
I'm not surprised why she's single. If I'm a girl in Asia, I would be single too because of all the ugly guys in that part of the world.
@@followthewhiterabbit8561 mate that’s not very nice
@@yokelyeeha7057 its 100% true.
Beauty is subjective and culturally shaped.
@@followthewhiterabbit8561 “Remember what the door mouse said, feed your head!”
As much as I want Tina to upload everyday, I know how tiring it is to edit videos.
I really enjoy her vlogs.
especially the foods
The pressure of finding a husband in india is also very stressful. I am dusky girl. I earn well but unable to find the perfect groom . I am in my 28 years
Fiancé left me at the beginning of the month, first time in 7 years I spent Valentines Day alone. It hadn’t been a week and they already moved on. Everything I’ve ever done was with someone else and for someone else. And now what I have no one I didn’t know what to do, but after watching this I’m going to start working on myself. I’m nervous about what I’ll do with my life now, but I guess I’ll have to figure it out on my way.
I’m in the same situation… living alone, in early 20s, love to cook and workout (two things that calms me down), moved from my country to America to get education, failed relationships and worrying about not being able to get married and have kids“on time”😩… I feel sooooo relatable that’s why I LOVE your videos so much
I love how she didn't use any electronic devices while eating... it's so rare to find people just eating & concentrate on the food. not sure if that's her usual behaviour or for the video. but honestly people looking at me strangely while eating or drinking if I don't have my phone to look. enjoy the meal yo
I relate so much to the “after hours” portion of this. I fall in love with learning new things and the more I learn the more “flaws” I see, but I reframe it as learning opportunities. I love looking back and seeing growth though. Another awesome video ☺️
I watch these vods and find myself smiling at her. She will make someone very happy one day. I hope they do the same for her.
Possibly. But, she comes across as extremely obsessive.
@@AmbientWanderer don't watch then. Simple
@@zaixai9441 no, I'm fine, I'll continue watching.
@@AmbientWanderer ok
@@AmbientWanderer ok
It's not truly dealing with being single, because she is supplementing a woman’s natural urge for attention via social media and the consistent validation it brings. Imagine if that was taken away; you'd truly see a real downward spiral.
I found Dooby and her channel about 4 months ago, and have watched and loved every video released since. They inspire me to cook, and/or they show me that I'm not the only one in the world with my problems. We are all in this together!
I love how she walked away and came back 🤣 it was THAT GOOOOD 🤤 love it ❤️
Funnily enough I’ve been in a personal funk these past few days and this video really helped! I love your content with all my heart and they all fill me with so much serotonin. Love you Doobs xo
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Same Doobs same :")
I've been on a really rough patch for the past few days and it literally feels like there's no end to this bullshit.
Thanks for the video, I feel relaxed watching it.
Sending you all my love and hugs♡
🤗 Eat the food straight from the pan to save on washing the bowl 🤪 drink the beer 🍺 straight from the can to save washing the glass 🙄
I luv following dooby on her adventures. Honestly always so chill n calm watching ur videos.
I think this is the best vlog I've ever watched. Every single setting looked like another vlog was about to start whilst all of it being so comforting and peaceful. My heart is full and I love the feeling. Thank you Dooby
Nah, I'm pretty good. Every time I was in a relationship it was a god dam rollercoaster of emotions, sh!t testing , drama, lots of money throwing just make her "feel special" whole my feelings needs and wants were unmet. "equality" you see, it means it's all her her her her......
been single left my emotional spiritual psychological AND financial stability to come back to its Equilibrium.... It's not worth the squeeze....the wall is undefeated 😊
I'm a 23 yr old dude, soon to be 24 and I feel the same way. Haven't even had a formal relationship yet. You aren't the only one out there. It does feel good knowing there are others out there who I can relate to - and for that, I really do appreciate you opening up on it. Your content is awesome btw, keep it up.
The Kimchi fried rice looked so good! I was taught a different way but I’m def going have to try it your way!
The shakshuka looked phenomenal also! I need to expand my skills so I can whip up things like that on a whim and it coming out fantastic.
everything she cooks looks good
I was living alone (single) for six years before meeting my husband. Before that, I was married for 15 years and had my kids living with me. They are adults now living their own life. Yes, living along (single) can be lonely most of the time. But I would spend time doing things alone and for myself. Focused on me. I learned to take care of me and enjoy myself. Don’t rely on someone else (dependency) to make you happy and content. You are doing really good. Keep it up! :-)
gotta say i found your channel a few days ago and im about to turn 24. watching you live your life so fully and confidently and how you film it is a huge inspiration ☺️
Being “single” can be an absolute thriller/horror film that never ends at the credits. And the credits read: Director: me | Producer: me | stylist: me 🥸🧎🏻🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🍾🎉 keep it up Doobs! I needed to watch this tonight because the monotony of day to day can become oh so dull unless you yourself create magic, and you are. So cheer up. I am making kimchi fried rice tomorrow morning with a lager to test your mood grading scale 🥸🤓🤞🏻
I'm so in love with you and your recipes 😍 I want to manifest you into my life 😂
Am/was going through a bit of a sour patch of my own, but watching this oddly helped calm a lot of the nerves I was feeling. Thank you, as always, for your genuine and authentic content! Wishing you more happiness in your journey - whatever that is!
Being a noob in cooking i always try new and different things because of you and nisa ligyun
Anxiety is a powerful tool, harness it! Don’t let it control you!
Nothing makes me more Happy than you posting
Well this hits close to home, my sanity is saved by singing and tiring my dog by talking to him all the time. Thanks for the content I wish I knew people like you
Just keep cooking that yummy food and filling your days with errands and fun. I’m 25 & have been crippling single for 7 years (or longer) and I drove myself crazy wondering why no one wants to be with me or go on dates, literally nothing. It’s not worth the anxiety & mental strain. You have to create your own fun life without a man or thinking about one coming. We just have to accept that we live in a society where the media de-romanticized romantic relationships and our generation is just plain ass dumb, and it truly does suck. I can’t promise anything about a man, but good things are going to happen for sure. but ya it would just be cool if a man decides to come one day lol. I hope for you too 💗
I feel you Tina! I just went through a breakup too and as much as I believe I’ve gotten over it, sometimes I have these moments where I feel really really sad. My parents also put an emphasis on my “timing” and it’s stressing me out even though 24 (25 next week omg) is actually still young!! Don’t worry Tina, I believe we will get through this and come out stronger than ever. Take this time to relax, focus on ourselves, we don’t need a guy to complete us. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. Sending you lots of love ❤️
I love how everytime I finish one of your video I feel happy and optimistic. And I want to say your stayle of editing is amazing, thumbs up for the subtitled touch
I was 26 when I met my partner. When I met him I had been single for only 6 months so I had no intention in dating, but I gave him a chance and we have grown stronger ever since. I think we meet our best partner when we least expect it because that's when we are most honest and least picky (don't have unreasonable and pointless requirements).
6 months? i've been single for 2 years now :( but i guess i understand what you mean with the reason why meet the right person when we least expect it. maybe im just too picky
Your content is always so intelligent and well thought out. So proud of you my Korean sis. Much love ❤. Fighting!!
It’s 9am. I had breakfast an hour ago and now that kimchi fried rice has made me hungry again! So yum looking!
for me its also 9am-
She’s literally my mood on a daily basis
I have been so anxious recently and felt like nothing is in my control, so thank you so much for posting this. Like you, I graduated from college in 2020, and there’s just so many waves of feeling like you’re killing it and there are so many times when everything feels like everything is falling apart. It’s a little bit consoling to know that I’m not alone, and I hope that the following week turns out better for the both of us!! 💓
Omg same, also I studied art so I feel even more useless
Gorgeous, fit, an awesome cook, and a cute sense of humor...I love that you share your cooking techniques and li'l tidbits of your life!!
Simp
Totally relate. Cooking is the only thing that makes me feel like myself these days.
Cooking and working out are two of my go to stress reliever.
Your videos never fail to make my day and I always find myself coming back to your videos to get a little peace from all the chaos in life, so I just wanted to say, thank you so much for making these videos🙆🏻♀️💖
Everytime you drink beer, that delicious throaty gulping and that breath of satisfaction reminds me of the beer commercials when I lived in Japan. Looks so delicious.
12:30 You put too much pressure on yourself. Women have rights for a reason. You can choose to stay single, if that's what you'd like. If you make choices under pressure, it doesn't really go well.......
This video was so calming to watch, I’m really falling in love with your content, Dooby! also the parallel to Emily in Paris of dooby in Seoul with a leek had me laughing so hard🤣 you’re hilarious
so glad this vlog popped up in my recommendations. this was so calming to watch. i too am 24 and feel so under pressure to find someone ahhhh! thank you for making me feel not so alone❤️
Independence does not mean living alone. When I moved to a new place, because of school, I lived alone, but had many friends to hang out with. Also, you forget about the social and familial aspect. Most single people live at home with their parents until they meet someone and want some privacy. Even when I was single, I always went to seasonal events, outings, shows just to be living and sometimes you might see a familiar face. Living alone does not mean isolation.
Been waiting for the video from quite few days. Thank you so much Dooby for making my day better 😊
I can relate to the sentiment of having the pressure to find "the one" during the senior year of college. Once I started doing well in school, my family started expecting more of me really quickly, specifically, law school or something similar and getting married. I was counting the years I had left of being young before having to settle down by comparing myself to my cousins or parents and giving myself a couple years room for error and eventually realizing it was too much pressure to reach that timeframe. In addition, the pressure sudden of getting married while having little to no dating experience while trying to figure out my own life and career is irrational and I had to fight back with that a bit. Growing up in a multicultural household where popular western culture says to hook-up with as many people as possible to be worthy and familial pressures of dating to find a life partner becomes a problem because the two ideas are almost completely mutually exclusive for a given time. I never understood how others could say to me, "the right one will come one day, don't worry." I think it didn't make sense because I didn't want the right one at the time. I wanted to find myself, make mistakes, partake in low risk relationships so that when mistakes happened, it wouldn't be as devastating. The time to make mistakes and learn is when we're young. The cost to mistakes get higher when we're older. But now that I've had some losses and mess-ups and with time, I understand what people meant by youll find the one oneday. I'm not too worried about if it'll happen in the near future or the later future, because "the one" doesn't really ever come when you have some higher ideal that you're currently in pursuit of.
A woman has to ''find herself'' a lot quicker than a man does. Life is more pressuring for women in that aspect. Women have a biological clock so unfortunately you have to make the decision to have offspring or not. It's not an easy decision! Some women get too focused in their careers and then by the time they want kids, they are already in their mid to late 30s and then it's pretty much too late. They regret it. Same goes for the opposite - some women start large families early on and then regret it in their 30s that they didn't get into a career.