Having Children in Your 40s, 50s and Beyond
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- Опубликовано: 2 май 2022
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Dont be discouraged about your age, children are gifts from God and can enter your life at anytime He choses.
But those 40 and up need to consider adoption or go childless if they can't adopt. There is such a thing as waiting too long and it's more devastating for the kid(s) than you think. The blessing for the parents might be a curse for the child.
@@finchboratI’m 31 years old with zero kids & no marriage I don’t need kids for happiness
@@marioantoniocrespoMexican92 But if you were to change your mind, do it before your 20th reunion.
please stop with feelgood messages like this. No one knows of the stresses of having autistic, or down syndrome, or otherwise disabled children like the parents of them do. It can easily wreck a marriage. As the average age for women having babies rises, almost right there with it is the larger diagnoses for ASD. We have to get away from talking about what's "possible" and talk about what's optimal. If God visits you in a dream and tells you you'll have a child at 80 than by all means have no fear.
My friend had a baby boy at 53
Good doctor.
I suspect my situation is not unique but not common either.
I am a father of one but now that I am older, not a senior yet, i want more children at 55. Any suggestions on either reading or video material that can assist me with knowing the pros and cons before i jump all in?
I am aware of gender selection, testing for several hundred different genetic disorders all before the embryos are placed into the mom or surrogate.
Or this would be a different medical specialty from yourself?
Life is broken up into stages; crossing from one stage to another haphazardly invites great risks and is generally a selfish act. "Gee, I am 59 and got married for the first time to a 37 year old and we want to be parents. I'll only be around 80 by the time the child graduates high school."
It's also a careless act.
2 you couple married young it's Wil Brake up after 2 years broken family.
At 44 I married a 25 year old and have 2 great healthy children. My average age of life in my family is 94, and I have top-tier genetics. No issue for me. I had plenty of women before I settled with a young woman to have a family with. Sorry that you don’t like it, but prominent, successful older men should be impregnating the majority of younger women.
Marrying someone a lot younger than you and adoption are the only exceptions, though you don't want it to be the case with some Civil War vets who remarried very late in life and had kids with women who were old enough to be their granddaughters.
Facts I'll have mine in my 40s and 50s maybe 60s if it's not too late
Respect. I hope to be in your position 8 years from now.
@@_Brennus bless up brothers
@@finchboratGod gave Man to marry any woman on this earth any age of women to give man baby
God gave Man to make Baby to the thy last day on earth
God said let us created man in our image.
DO NOT have kids after 40. It's a crime against humanity and a form of child abuse and couples who do that need to be thrown in prison and lose custody of their kids. The kid will be taking care of you the moment he graduates college and he'll be forced to give up everything because of you and your spouse's boneheaded mistake.
My life has been ruined because my parents were 40+ when I was born. My mom has had health issues since I was 17 (she was 58). I've been stuck taking care of her since that time. She's been immobile for over 4 years and isn't getting better at all and my dad's been dead for a year.
HAVE YOUR KIDS YOUNG! And if you and your spouse dare have a kid after you turn 40, I hope you lose the kid (obviously, not via tragic things like miscarriage or the kid dying, but by losing custody of the kid or the kid running away).
I knew a girl who was only in her teens looking after her “young” mother who ended up in a wheel chair because of an accident. A girl who ended up alone because her single mom committed suicide. Her mother had her very young. A guy who lost his father from cancer and he was a young dad. Another guy I knew who had older parents (who are healthy) and had a stable and happy childhood because they were mentally mature. My parents had me really young they were still kids, immature, always fighting and moving, focused only on themselves and been crappy parents. My moms (divorced my dad years ago) is an alcoholic has mental disorders and broke/jobless. Every families different. Life happens.
@@docbrown3139 Mine were dysfunctional and argued regularly too. They focused only on themselves and treated it like it was a crime to take me seriously and respect my wishes. And I forgot to mention I lost my dad last fall in a car accident.
No one should be a teen parent. No one should have kids after 40 either.
@@finchborat ya same here. I’m so sorry to hear about your dad (and your mom) :( This might be a stupid question but did your mom apply for disability? Do you have anyone to help you out like family members? If not try asking on forums or groups there are a lot of people going threw the same stuff some even worst like single parents looking after both their kids and sick parents which is brutal, youll get some good advice to make things easier for you and your mom. Don’t let the bad feelings get to you, just focus on turning the negative situation better. I think your awesome taking care of your mom btw. It might feel like it’s holding you back and it’s unfair but don’t let the sadness rule your life I wasted so many years and it made things way worst.
@@docbrown3139 She hasn't and there aren't other family members to help. They're either occupied with other things, live elsewhere, or they're too old to lift her on and off of things (that's the main thing; she can't use the bathroom by herself).
Because of Covid and fear of getting robbed, she refuses to get extra help. Covid is why she won't do physical therapy and keeps putting it off. At this rate, it might take YEARS of physical therapy if she can walk again. She's almost 71 and it feels like she's about to be 91.
am sorry for your challenges. they have nothing to do with your parents age. my mother died at 50 from heart failure and my dad still alive and healthy at 65