I already feel so blessed to have taken care of so many people throughout the years and be able to positively affect their lives. But thank you for your comments.
I had a hysterectomy about two years ago. The dtr then told me i need to see a urologist for baddler prolapse. It is so bad now about the size of a lemon. Even bigger a times. Scared to death of surgery. Your channel is helping me. I see urologist on 28. And very nervous
Don’t be scared but just make sure you feel comfortable with the person and their recommendations. Send another message when you have a treatment plan.
I lost 60 pounds and did Keagle exercises all throughout the day for months and months and it made a huge difference. It also helped with bladder leakage from childbirth. ❤
How did u lose weight . I am from India, a doctor, mother of 2 kids . Recently diagnosed with prolapse of bladder .... So many exercises are out of option now . How to lose weight ?
@@spiritualskin5104 1. Never stress your mind and body with exercise. If we make it a job our brain and body will shut down and we won’t lose anything. 2. Making sure you are taking the proper vitamins and nutrients so you don’t get sick or lose your hair. 3. Completely getting rid of sugar. 4. Intermittent fasting. 5. Cardio/ but as for me I don’t like working out so my body doesn’t lose anything. I sing, and dance around my house and just move my body. This meditation has really helped with my health overall. I self healed and I love myself now. I hope all of you can change your lives too. Sending everyone love & light. ☮️🌎☯️💟
Awesome Video explaining what initially feels like an overwhelming health issue. Although it is not a life or death issue if you have prolapse, it can feel like it is. You are conscious of it at all times. Thank you for explaining with "Doctor Speak!"
Too bad that Dr. Mcqueary is in Tennessee if I lived in Tennessee I definitely would have tried to go see him to see if he can do my surgery. It is so hard to find someone that you can trust with Somethings so personal and delicate.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Staten Island,N.Y I have seen one urologist/gyno surgeon but the only surgery she has offered was the sacrocolpopexy i’d rather not deal with a Passary and I am not thrilled about having a mesh inside me she said the way they do the mesh now it does not pose any kind of health risk and it is not the one that they have banned using but I’m not comfortable with that still
@@cindyalexis616 see if a dermal graft, I use Dermapure, with sacrospinous ligament suspension could be done. I use this vaginal only technique very safely all the time.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary I will definitely ask her she said they need to do some kind of urolo diagnosis test before surgery and she also said after the surgery I would need to be able to work about 6 to 8 weeks no lifting anything heavier than a gallon of milk and no flying for three months. This is why I have been avoiding it because it seems it is a very nasty surgery with a very difficult recovery, it feels more like it’s my cervix and uterus coming out not my bladder that is where it’s most uncomfortable in that area.. My last period was extremely heavy, and seems that my cervix came out pretty much to stage 3 im afraid to shower! I was terrified when I came out of the shower, jumped upstairs and put my feet up so it could go back in so scared!
I had vaginal and rectal prolapse… surgery did not help!! Within 3 days it felt no better than before!! I was devastated as I was a waitress and a single mom!! Make a long story short… a pessary ring saved me ! I got the smallest one and 13 years later it is still working!!! I am 70!!!😀👍
Pessaries do work well if you’re willing. A lot of people really don’t want that and they want surgery right away. In my experience surgery works well but it needs to be done by an experienced surgeon.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary I supposedly had one of the best … I went in 3 times after my surgery telling him I was feeling the same falling out as before . He would give me a quick check and say nothing is wrong… I am I excellent shape with no health problems so it really bothers me. He retired shortly afterwards and I ended up going with a pessary. I had the “ mesh sling” which is totally different than the surgery my mom had years prior and she never had a problem. But , all’s well that ends well I guess, and thankful for the pessary, it has worked out wonderfully for me! 👍
I've had a bladder prolopse since 2018 after a hysterectomy, I tried several pessarys. One I had an allergic reaction to, my body simply pushed the other 2 out immediately. I'll watch this to the end to see if you have any other ideas. Many thanks for attempting to help women!
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary I will be making more money in the next 3-4 months with my new biz. I will come see you in Tennessee and get something wonderful done. There are no surgeons here that I can trust, or that have your experience.
There is life after prolapse. Oh I can so relate to this. In 2018 I had prolapse surgery for uterus & bladder failing out. My back hurt and I had such pressure. I was basically home bound due to constant having to urinate. If we went out for quick meal & I could sit I could handle that. So I had the surgery 2018. So 5 weeks post op my bladder doesn’t hold up to the surgery and prolapses again. So I was having some issues with my tissues healing so I had to wait until August of 2019 to have surgery again. Then came Covid. Still not finished in 2021 I had to have a total knee replacement. I’m doing great now but I’m not going to lie it took me some time to physically ,mentally, and emotionally heal. I couldn’t do pessary they just came right out. My worst times were when there were low pressures in the area. The pressure was just horrible. The surgery wasn’t too bad and from the prolapse surgery by the 5-6 week I felt pretty decent. I had robotic surgery and yes I still had post op pain but not as bad as previous surgeries.
I have been trying to avoid the surgery for a few years, thinking that I can fix it with diet and exercise but it just keeps coming and going and it seems to have gotten worse now I want to be able to enjoy the rest of my life picking up my grandbabies dancing Exercising without worrying anymore and I don’t wanna have a surgery that I’m going to have to worry about the serious complications and future complications that I keep hearing about
This video is so informative! Where in Tennessee are you? I’m moving to Nashville soon and would love to visit your office! My prolapse started because I picked up something way too heavy! Ugh! Never again! Subscribed to your channel!
I just had a relief listening to you. Thank you for making me to understand that it is not life threatning. I shall be seeing my Dr next week. God bless and increase you in wisdom.
If all gynecologists were like you, it w be a better world, so l thank you. Just been diagnosed w bladder and rectocele at 62. Your information is so helpful, Bless you...❤
It’s an amazing topic and patients truly need your help. If you decide to go into this field, it is very gratifying to make a huge difference in their life.
Thank you for this video. I am considering possible surgery so this helps prepare me for the consultations on the various methods used. Great delivery of the information too.
thank you!! best video so far on this miserable topic!! my experience: I am 78, had hystorectomy in my 40ties 1 child now 1 year into bladder prolapse stage 4 not overweight, healthy lifestyle. what helps me: Kegel exercises, pelvic strengthening exercises, Sex ( pushes the bladder into place, often for a whole day!!! have decided against surgery at this point!!!
Well, please don’t wait too long. I just repaired a patient with a prolapse the size of a honeydew melon and her sister had told her to wait as long as she could. She concurs that that was not good advice. She’s doing well now with complete continence, and no longer has a prolapse. Just don’t continue to suffer. Let me know if there’s anything else that I can do or any other video subjects that would be best.
Thank you so much. This was so informative. I’ve been battling with stage two cystocele and rectocele for about three years now I have seen a PT and it relieve the symptoms but they tend to always come back. I have lost weight but the minute I gain two or 3 pounds I feel pressure I am 53 and perimenopause, and still getting my menstrual cycle but very heavy and very irregular now my last one seemed to have pushed the prolapse out to probably a stage three scared me to death. I do not want mesh anything foreign inside me I’ve been trying to avoid the surgery I cannot pick up my grandbabies. I cannot run around too much without suffering later on having to put my feet up the pressure is unbearable, especially right before my menstrual cycle is supposed to come, I have periods where I can go a week or two without any symptoms but now I’m at a point where I welcome the surgery but do not want mesh seems to be more my uterus and cervix than my bladder. I’ve gone to a urogyno and my bladder seems to be working fine and I empty completely I asked for a hysterectomy, but they said that would not help my problem completely. What would you suggest? I am truly exhausted
You need help and this is a severe life disabling problem that most people don’t understand. Surgery without mesh is very possible but use of biological skin grafts are extremely effective. Hysterectomy can be but is not always necessary. Good luck.
If you have not gotten a password yet, please consider getting one. It has helped me immensely. My problem is prolapsed uterus and bladder. It is at least at a very moderate stage. And pelvic floor therapy, along with the pessary may help you.
I have stage 4 bladder prolapse. I am 76. I am so glad to see this video. I wish you were my doctor! Even at stage 4 I can live with this bulge as long as it doesn't get huge! Lately there has been slight bleeding because of the irritation caused by pads worn because of slight bladder leakage. Is there a cream or gel that I can apply to the pad or onto the bulge itself without any harm? This is all I need right now. If you could kindly respond to this question, I would be most grateful. Thank you!
You are tougher than most, a stage 4 prolapse is difficult to live with. A pessary could be helpful. Estrogen cream can be helpful but Cerave cream OTC is not harmful. Petroleum jelly can help with irritation as well.
Hello doctor . Can I visit you in Tennessee? I live in Atlanta . I would be really grateful if you could assess my situation and guide me or do my surgery . But will I be able to fly back in a few days from Tennessee to Atlanta ? Can I email you
Thatis why I am here to talk about difficult subjects and help you understand that you are not alone. More of your friends have these problems than you realize.
I had a bladder lift that went to stage four. It was terrible .I could not walk at this stage and surgery was finally done. Today after many years I sometimes feel like my bladder is slowly falling again so this information is very helpful. Thank YOU.
The bladder is the weakest part of the repair and often may need to be repaired again. Wait as long as you can but don’t suffer again like you did before.
Many doctors also think it is the only option as well. Just discuss the other possibilities. If you trust your doctor always consider what they do best and have a frank discussion of the alternatives.
I think there are Urogynecology physicians available at the University but I’m not sure how long will it take to get in and be evaluated and then have the correct surgery. Prayers for you to find the help you need!
I'm. CNA and lifting and repositioning people has made mine fall out I remember the day it happened I was transferring a patient and I had to Bear their weight and I felt something fall out of me and I put my residence back in bed then went to the bathroom to see what it was and my nurse/supervisor said it was a prolapse uterus from lifting all the heavy people
A uterus can fall but you have options. Certainly consider a pessary so go to your gynecologist and ask to be fitted for that. A pessary can help you keep working and feeling comfortable with lifting patients. Surgery could also help but you need to be careful with lifting with can lead to failure.
Thank you Doctor I am puzzled as to why women don't want to talk about prolapse I myself do have a prolapse As yet not sure if i want to go down the route of surgery I have done a good bit of research and also got information leaflets I am seeing my consultant in a few months there is lots of questions i want to ask
For myself. I’m Skipping the cream the pessary the worthless exercise that will never make the pelvic floor strong enough. I’m getting surgery in 3 months. Thanks for talking about the stuff ppl act WHAT
@@DrJeffreyMcQuearyI can’t figure out why when I get my menstruation that I’m still getting it’s been pushing out my prolapse I noticed it the last. And now this one, so very uncomfortable so very frustrating. very frightening
Doctor what you are talking about is just what I'm going through For 1 year and 1 month I'm in so much pain in my pelvic and lower back please help me Thank You 🙏❤️
You can get help and look in your area for a urogynecologist. There are also many gynecologists who practice this type of surgery to help you. Where are you located?
I am very thankful to find you , amazing explaining I am so confused what to do about this problem, I subscribed and I am getting more education. Thank you Doctor 🙏💕
I’ve had a pessary for 3 years, I have a surgically (smaller) reformed bladder, it was done after my hysterectomy. Now I don’t have prolapsed issues, just the constant pain and bloating that extends from the abdominal area. My gastro doc told me to see a urogynocologist. I did. Nothing can be done🤷🏼♀️ I feel horrible and keep bouncing from Dr to dr trying different things 😢
This sounds like a very difficult problem that I cannot know exactly what’s happening with your bladder, but sometimes scarring can lead to a restricted bladder capacity. Pain in the bladder area also can be interstitial cystitis and seeing a urologist or Urogynecologist that evaluates that would be appropriate.
Thank you for your information. I have a level two cystocel, and currently going to PT, plus using estrogen cream. I’m 74, a breast cancer survivor, and I had a hysterectomy years ago. I was referred to the PT by a gynecologist but would like a second opinion. I’m looking for someone in the Portland! Oregon area near OHSU.
Yes, I will try to get in to see someone there even if it takes a few months. I found out yesterday I now have a bladder infection. My husband passed from bladder cancer 18 months ago. It’s been difficult. Once again, thank you
3 years ago I was told that I have stage 2 bladder prolapse and a stage 1 rectum prolapse. They did mention something about a vaginal they did mention something about a rectocele but I'm not sure if that is the rectum prolapse or whether it's something different. The surgeon 3 years ago wanted me to have a complete hysterectomy because of a cyst on my ovary and at the same time the another surgeon was going to fix the rectocele. When I refused to have the hysterectomy the other rectocele surgeon said that she didn't want to fix the rectercele. Three years later (last month) I decided to get a second opinion and this surgeon said I didn't need hysterectomy. However, because of severe constipation my life is miserable. Nothing that I take relieves the constipation and I have tried everything. Miralax, enamas, fiber, colonics and of course I completely changed my diet by eliminating sugar, and dairy. I then went to another incontinence Doctor who said that my bladder prolapse was still stage 2 and my rectum was stage 1. (The same as it was 3 years ago) I'm a very young 76 years old and I use to be very active but now my whole quality of life has changed. All the incontinence doctor suggested was that I do kegel exercises and use vaginal hormone cream. I'm at a loss as what to do because I am constipated every day of the week all day. Although I don't have any pain it's very uncomfortable constant pressure. Please can you tell me what I should do because I don't feel I'm getting any answers from the many doctors that I have already seen.
I can’t tell you exactly what to do without examining you myself, but even with the stage one rectocele you could be very symptomatic with severe constipation. These problems can be repaired and often I will do that without a hysterectomy as well. A pessary, and sometimes also help with the bladder but may not help with the rectocele. I have had some patients that it really helped though. You certainly need a doctor that will give you a plan. Kegel exercises may help but they won’t fix the problem.
Hi. In regards of constipation, HAVE YOU EVER TRIED DRY PRUNES❓️ As far as I know, they never fail. 3 or 4 is all you will need but, as of course, talk to your Dr first. Be well 🙏 PS: Thank God I don't suffer constipation. However, friends & family members are greatful I recommend that to them. because they've been being helped by that
It is terrible. I am only 53 but I feel like I am 90 very uncomfortable specially, when I’m running around I have a barbecue coming up or I have to cook and entertain and I’m terrified.
Most common prolapse after hysterectomy is cystocele and upper vaginal prolapse. Do Kegel’s and try not to lift heavy weights. Surgery might be necessary at some point though.
What a lovely doctor wish you were in the UK, I had a total hysterectomy a few years ago and its now left me with a prolapse bladder, I've tried having rings inserted but didn't work for me 😢I'm now waiting to get a hospital appointment, I just pray this painful problem can be sorted, I haven't got much confidence in getting this resolved 🇬🇧😪
Wish I was closer and could help you. I did 5 surgeries just today for bladder prolapse. There are several Urogynecologists in London area and I don’t know if you are close to there. Here are several options. www.londonwomenscare.com/service/female-pelvic-medicine-and-reconstructive-surgery/ www.imperial.nhs.uk/our-services/gynaecology/urogynaecology/clinics
She needs a doctor for the bleeding issues it may or may not be due to the lupus. Common to have some irregular bleeding which gets better after the lupus is under control.
im 13. randomly while I was laying down, I felt something pop or like abit crack inside me. I feel like it was coming from where near my private area was, and im too scared to check. I don't know if my uterus dropped but im scared to even walk. I feel a small bulge inside me, but im not sure if I felt the exact same before. I wanna go to the bathroom and check, but ill be horrified if I really have a prolapse.
@@erehquelam at your age most likely it is not prolapse, but you should certainly see your pediatrician and have that evaluated. It will be a little bit embarrassing, but it’s worth understanding what’s going on.
I am stage 4 pelvic floor prolapse. A few years ago I had my uterus removed. Now my bladder fills my hand. I am going in for some big surgery July 30. They will pull up everything and attach it to my sacrum. The doctor said it is a mess. I can't remember everything he said but basically i am a mess. I am hoping this is a safe surgery for me. He has me putting a tiny pill inside to strengthen the tissues before surgery. He will also use mesh for the bladder sling. It will be robotic. Any suggestions? I don't get along with anesthesia as I have a difficult time waking up and it takes a long time. Thanks.
You are having a surgery called a Sacral Colpopexy. It is a very effective surgery using mesh attaching the upper vaginal area directly to ligaments on the tailbone. It’s a very effective procedure if done by the right person. The bladder sling is also very effective and should be great ways to fix your problems. I’ve seen the effectiveness for both of these procedures to be over 95%.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary That sounds great. Thanks for the encouragement. Dr. Ty Erickson is my doctor and he goes to Africa and does this for the poor, mistreated women over there and does a lot of them here in the US as well. I feel pretty good about it but I do not look forward to the waking up part. That always seems to be the worst part of any surgery I have had. Thanks.
good luck with your surgery and post operative recovery! There are many medications that can help with nausea after the surgery. Ask anesthesia to help.
Brilliant video, thank you! Very clear explanations delivered by an empathetic medic - sadly i dont live in the USA but i reckon you're the only male doctor I'd be prepared to see for this issue😅
Thank you for your kind comments. I think there are many caring physicians, all over the world who enjoy helping women with these problems. But certainly don’t suffer and seek help for prolapse issues. The goal of my videos is to make sure that people know what is available.
I'm sorry I don't understand if this is normal. Why are women not told this especially after having children. I feel its a set-up by the medical field. I'm 63 now have bladder prolaspe and my cervix has fallen and possible stage 1 rectal prolaspe. I think this happened to me b/c of hard coughing from being sick last year. I also had a UFE 2011 now my uterine lining is scared, to thick (to thick to be bisoped b/c uterus is scared) and possible change in fibroids increasing in size (up in size). I started BHT after menopause I guess it did'nt help because I still ended up with proplase. I had a UFE to keep my uterus to keep my organs in place and still ended up with prolaspe. I was fitted with a pressary last week, but was told it is something I won't be able to wear one forever. I was told my only options are remove the uterus use mesh or use my own tissue. Was told using my own tissue could only lead to prolaspe again. How do you determine if your tissue is strong enough to be used? Do you know of any doctors in the Chicago area?
Well, please don’t be ashamed to go to the doctor. They see these type of problems all the time. You have the right to be helped as well as anybody, and there are many things that can be done including non-surgical techniques. That can be very successful.
I am now 35 and I also had this problem . It is in the forth stage and now i did a sling sugery. Now i am doing exercises. But my doctor said my intestine is also coming down.
This can all be repaired. Did you only have a sling and not repair of the prolapse? Exercises will not help a enterocele very much which is when the intestines are falling. This can be fixed.
Urethral prolapse does cause stress incontinence, which is leaking with coughing and sneezing. This certainly can be improved with both physical therapy and kegel exercises, as well as potentially even surgery.
thank you for explaining the different forms it can take, this is for my mum and DRs just say er exercise Keagle, diet blah! you mention Mesh is this not dangerous? thanks again
That is why I published these videos because women need more information in a practical form. I did mention mash, but that typically is only used around the urethra or abdominal suspension and is safe when done by an experienced reconstructive surgeon.
It sounds like you have severe nerve damage or potentially have prolapse that is causing poor flow of urine and stool. He certainly need evaluation by a gynecologist to determine that.
Your biggest issue is probably trying to empty your bladder. Try to always push up on your bladder so that will empty better. Kegels exercises can definitely help to make things stronger. But if nothing is helping, then consider surgery because it can be very successful in solving your issues.
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This doctor is lovely. Easy to talk to and kind
Thanks, you are too kind.
May GOD bless you Doctor McQueary
I already feel so blessed to have taken care of so many people throughout the years and be able to positively affect their lives. But thank you for your comments.
I had a hysterectomy about two years ago. The dtr then told me i need to see a urologist for baddler prolapse. It is so bad now about the size of a lemon. Even bigger a times. Scared to death of surgery. Your channel is helping me. I see urologist on 28. And very nervous
Don’t be scared but just make sure you feel comfortable with the person and their recommendations. Send another message when you have a treatment plan.
Hi Karen. Did you get surgery and if so how are you doing. I hope all is well with you now.
I lost 60 pounds and did Keagle exercises all throughout the day for months and months and it made a huge difference. It also helped with bladder leakage from childbirth. ❤
Kegels exercises definitely help but not for everyone. Glad you did well.
How did u lose weight .
I am from India, a doctor, mother of 2 kids . Recently diagnosed with prolapse of bladder ....
So many exercises are out of option now . How to lose weight ?
@@spiritualskin5104 1. Never stress your mind and body with exercise. If we make it a job our brain and body will shut down and we won’t lose anything.
2. Making sure you are taking the proper vitamins and nutrients so you don’t get sick or lose your hair.
3. Completely getting rid of sugar.
4. Intermittent fasting.
5. Cardio/ but as for me I don’t like working out so my body doesn’t lose anything. I sing, and dance around my house and just move my body. This meditation has really helped with my health overall. I self healed and I love myself now. I hope all of you can change your lives too. Sending everyone love & light. ☮️🌎☯️💟
@@spiritualskin5104 Look into keto or just low carb. Best to you.
@spiritualskin5104 I had surgery . It went well and I'm relieved to not have the prolapse on my walks .
I have had this type of surgery with Dr. McQueary. He is a wonderful physician. I give him 5 out of 5 stars!!
I aim to help all that I can. Thanks for your confidence in me!
Hi may I know his location? Since I’m your comment it says you e seen him already? Thank you so much …
@@HawaiiAmi He is in Bristol, TN
Thank you increasing my knowledge about this troublesome issue.
Happy to help! These are real problems that have great solutions.
Dr, you are so nice, I loved this information. God bless you, dear.
So nice of you to say!
Terrific video on a very important topic for women! Very grateful!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Awesome Video explaining what initially feels like an overwhelming health issue. Although it is not a life or death issue if you have prolapse, it can feel like it is. You are conscious of it at all times. Thank you for explaining with "Doctor Speak!"
It is still a severe issue that is difficult to live with. Hope you can find help!
Too bad that Dr. Mcqueary is in Tennessee if I lived in Tennessee I definitely would have tried to go see him to see if he can do my surgery. It is so hard to find someone that you can trust with Somethings so personal and delicate.
There are many great surgeons out there, where are you located?
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary
Staten Island,N.Y I have seen one urologist/gyno surgeon but the only surgery she has offered was the sacrocolpopexy i’d rather not deal with a Passary and I am not thrilled about having a mesh inside me she said the way they do the mesh now it does not pose any kind of health risk and it is not the one that they have banned using but I’m not comfortable with that still
@@cindyalexis616 see if a dermal graft, I use Dermapure, with sacrospinous ligament suspension could be done. I use this vaginal only technique very safely all the time.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary
I will definitely ask her she said they need to do some kind of urolo diagnosis test before surgery and she also said after the surgery I would need to be able to work about 6 to 8 weeks no lifting anything heavier than a gallon of milk and no flying for three months. This is why I have been avoiding it because it seems it is a very nasty surgery with a very difficult recovery, it feels more like it’s my cervix and uterus coming out not my bladder that is where it’s most uncomfortable in that area.. My last period was extremely heavy, and seems that my cervix came out pretty much to stage 3 im afraid to shower! I was terrified when I came out of the shower, jumped upstairs and put my feet up so it could go back in so scared!
@@cindyalexis616 get another opinion that is much stricter than my thoughts. I can see how intimidating those requirements would be.
I had vaginal and rectal prolapse… surgery did not help!! Within 3 days it felt no better than before!! I was devastated as I was a waitress and a single mom!! Make a long story short… a pessary ring saved me ! I got the smallest one and 13 years later it is still working!!! I am 70!!!😀👍
Pessaries do work well if you’re willing. A lot of people really don’t want that and they want surgery right away. In my experience surgery works well but it needs to be done by an experienced surgeon.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary I supposedly had one of the best … I went in 3 times after my surgery telling him I was feeling the same falling out as before . He would give me a quick check and say nothing is wrong… I am I excellent shape with no health problems so it really bothers me. He retired shortly afterwards and I ended up going with a pessary. I had the “ mesh sling” which is totally different than the surgery my mom had years prior and she never had a problem. But , all’s well that ends well I guess, and thankful for the pessary, it has worked out wonderfully for me! 👍
That’s great news and comforting for the rest of us.
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This has been one of the best videos I have seen on this matter. Thank you ! I wish I lived in Tennessee to see you.
Hope you can find help!
I've had a bladder prolopse since 2018 after a hysterectomy, I tried several pessarys. One I had an allergic reaction to, my body simply pushed the other 2 out immediately. I'll watch this to the end to see if you have any other ideas. Many thanks for attempting to help women!
Glad if the information helped you! Please consider surgical repair so you don’t need to suffer. But you need to find a surgeon you can trust.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary I will be making more money in the next 3-4 months with my new biz. I will come see you in Tennessee and get something wonderful done. There are no surgeons here that I can trust, or that have your experience.
@@elishagabriell6529happy to help you!
The prolapse should have been repaired when you had the hysterectomy. Have you seen a urogynocologist?
There is life after prolapse. Oh I can so relate to this. In 2018 I had prolapse surgery for uterus & bladder failing out. My back hurt and I had such pressure. I was basically home bound due to constant having to urinate. If we went out for quick meal & I could sit I could handle that. So I had the surgery 2018. So 5 weeks post op my bladder doesn’t hold up to the surgery and prolapses again. So I was having some issues with my tissues healing so I had to wait until August of 2019 to have surgery again. Then came Covid. Still not finished in 2021 I had to have a total knee replacement. I’m doing great now but I’m not going to lie it took me some time to physically ,mentally, and emotionally heal. I couldn’t do pessary they just came right out. My worst times were when there were low pressures in the area. The pressure was just horrible. The surgery wasn’t too bad and from the prolapse surgery by the 5-6 week I felt pretty decent. I had robotic surgery and yes I still had post op pain but not as bad as previous surgeries.
Hope you continue to heal but your story is one I hear every day!
How is the sex life after ?
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Hi DR. Thank you 🙏 for such a great info & for responding to our comments. ❤
Thank you. Your video actually relieved me that I can get this taken care of and not be too embarrassed to seek help
Please seek help but hopefully you have more information to make a great decision.
I have been trying to avoid the surgery for a few years, thinking that I can fix it with diet and exercise but it just keeps coming and going and it seems to have gotten worse now I want to be able to enjoy the rest of my life picking up my grandbabies dancing Exercising without worrying anymore and I don’t wanna have a surgery that I’m going to have to worry about the serious complications and future complications that I keep hearing about
Pick a great doctor. Ask your gyn for a referral to a Urogynecologist! They can give you all the options so you can choose what is right for you!
This video is so informative! Where in Tennessee are you? I’m moving to Nashville soon and would love to visit your office! My prolapse started because I picked up something way too heavy! Ugh! Never again! Subscribed to your channel!
Located in Bristol Tennessee about 4 hours from Nashville.
Pelvic floor exercises are wonderful. I luckily only had one baby when I was young. Im 50 with strong pevics 💪
Great job
Can you please tell me which exercises did you do.?
I wish I could, I was so full of water with my first i couldn’t do pelvic floor, then I had another surprise baby shortly after. That was it for me. 😂
I just had a relief listening to you. Thank you for making me to understand that it is not life threatning. I shall be seeing my Dr next week.
God bless and increase you in wisdom.
Wonderful! You are very welcome. My videos are just to help!!
Great info. ❤
Thanks for watching!
If all gynecologists were like you, it w be a better world, so l thank you. Just been diagnosed w bladder and rectocele at 62. Your information is so helpful, Bless you...❤
That’s sweet, thank you and I hope you do get the help you need.
Thank you! Simple yet amazing and well explained! As a medical student it has given me a great push in regards to this topic!! God bless
It’s an amazing topic and patients truly need your help. If you decide to go into this field, it is very gratifying to make a huge difference in their life.
Thank you for this video. I am considering possible surgery so this helps prepare me for the consultations on the various methods used. Great delivery of the information too.
Yes, this way you will be able to go in fully prepared to ask great questions and hopefully get excellent answers that make sense.
Yes great information so far very well explained. Thanks
Glad it was helpful!
thank you!! best video so far on this miserable topic!!
my experience: I am 78, had hystorectomy in my 40ties
1 child
now 1 year into bladder prolapse stage 4
not overweight, healthy lifestyle.
what helps me: Kegel exercises, pelvic strengthening exercises, Sex ( pushes the bladder into place, often for a whole day!!!
have decided against surgery at this point!!!
Well, please don’t wait too long. I just repaired a patient with a prolapse the size of a honeydew melon and her sister had told her to wait as long as she could. She concurs that that was not good advice. She’s doing well now with complete continence, and no longer has a prolapse. Just don’t continue to suffer. Let me know if there’s anything else that I can do or any other video subjects that would be best.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary thanks, having mine checked regularly.....getting better w exercise and hormone cream!
Thank you so much. This was so informative. I’ve been battling with stage two cystocele and rectocele for about three years now I have seen a PT and it relieve the symptoms but they tend to always come back. I have lost weight but the minute I gain two or 3 pounds I feel pressure I am 53 and perimenopause, and still getting my menstrual cycle but very heavy and very irregular now my last one seemed to have pushed the prolapse out to probably a stage three scared me to death. I do not want mesh anything foreign inside me I’ve been trying to avoid the surgery I cannot pick up my grandbabies. I cannot run around too much without suffering later on having to put my feet up the pressure is unbearable, especially right before my menstrual cycle is supposed to come, I have periods where I can go a week or two without any symptoms but now I’m at a point where I welcome the surgery but do not want mesh seems to be more my uterus and cervix than my bladder. I’ve gone to a urogyno and my bladder seems to be working fine and I empty completely I asked for a hysterectomy, but they said that would not help my problem completely. What would you suggest? I am truly exhausted
You need help and this is a severe life disabling problem that most people don’t understand. Surgery without mesh is very possible but use of biological skin grafts are extremely effective. Hysterectomy can be but is not always necessary. Good luck.
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I feel so sorry for you! I have mild to moderate and that's bad enough.
If you have not gotten a password yet, please consider getting one. It has helped me immensely. My problem is prolapsed uterus and bladder. It is at least at a very moderate stage.
And pelvic floor therapy, along with the pessary may help you.
Thank you so much for your information I've been dealing with this from 2016 im 56yrs thx from South Africa 🎉
Hope you find help!
I have stage 4 bladder prolapse. I am 76. I am so glad to see this video. I wish you were my doctor! Even at stage 4 I can live with this bulge as long as it doesn't get huge! Lately there has been slight bleeding because of the irritation caused by pads worn because of slight bladder leakage. Is there a cream or gel that I can apply to the pad or onto the bulge itself without any harm? This is all I need right now. If you could kindly respond to this question, I would be most grateful. Thank you!
You are tougher than most, a stage 4 prolapse is difficult to live with. A pessary could be helpful. Estrogen cream can be helpful but Cerave cream OTC is not harmful. Petroleum jelly can help with irritation as well.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Thank you so much for this much needed info!🥰
I was going to tell you that the pessary will help a lot.. my mother has been using pessary for more than 3 years and she’s okay and she is 78
@@ivycintron6136 Thank you!
I just had a total hysterectomy and prolapse repairs. That was just in mid July. Hoping to not have to repeat this.
I hope that it fixes your problems and that you have a long-term repair.
Doctor, You are so thorough. Thank You
@@jurleanwilliams2771 you are welcome
Thank you for this clear, simple explanation!
You are welcome!
I am 74 years old and have been dealing with uterine prolapse wish I had you for as my Dr.
I would be happy to be your doctor
Have you tried a pessary? Surgery may not be best at your age.
Hello doctor . Can I visit you in Tennessee? I live in Atlanta . I would be really grateful if you could assess my situation and guide me or do my surgery . But will I be able to fly back in a few days from Tennessee to Atlanta ? Can I email you
So well explained! Thank you doctor
Thank you, Doctor McQueary, for such an informative video. Wishing I knew all this years ago.
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you Doctor for all this wonderful information! Blessings
You are very welcome
I had the mesh repairs in 2001. It was a great success!
The mesh did work if done well.
Thank You. It's such a personal subject, it's difficult to talk about. ♥️
Thatis why I am here to talk about difficult subjects and help you understand that you are not alone. More of your friends have these problems than you realize.
Yes, thank you doctor!
Thank you doctor.. Your video is very informative, and I learned a lot from your video, which I am going to share with my sister.
Hope it gives you the information needed!
Thank you Doctor for your Awesome video.very understandable explanation ❤
Hope it helps!
The information provided is so helpful.This could be the solution to one of my problems
I hope the Information allows you to get the help you need.
I had a bladder lift that went to stage four. It was terrible .I could not walk at this stage and surgery was finally done. Today after many years I sometimes feel like my bladder is slowly falling again so this information is very helpful. Thank YOU.
The bladder is the weakest part of the repair and often may need to be repaired again. Wait as long as you can but don’t suffer again like you did before.
Thank you for a great informative programs.
Hope the information helps!
Very useful video!
Glad you think so!
U r a great doctor ,a very good lesson and u make this problem sound so easy to do with the rings,U R VERY WELCOMING AND VERY HELPFUL THANK U.❤
I hope the Information is able to help you and you were able to find any help that you need.
Thankyou so much for explaining so well
Glad it was helpful!
Very interesting presentatoin. THANKYOU DR. X
You are very welcome
Great detailed explanation, you’ve convinced me to call a urogynecologist
Seek good explanations and non-surgical and surgical options.
very informative
Glad you think so!
Great videos and very ! Informational, clearly explained and answers all the questions you’ve wondered to yourself. Thank you Doc 😊
Thanks so much I try to explain in very clear, simple terms! I hope these exclamations really help and make a difference in everyone’s life.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for watching!
Thank you , dear Doctor.
Hope the information was helpful!
Thank you Dr.
Thank you Doctor you definitely helped me decide to follow up.
Happy to help in your decision making.
Thank you for information 😊🙏🏻
Hope it helps with your problem and guides you to the solution.
Thank you very informative.
Hope the information helped you!
Thank you for describing so many different options. I didn’t know they existed. I thought hysterectomy was the only option.
Many doctors also think it is the only option as well. Just discuss the other possibilities. If you trust your doctor always consider what they do best and have a frank discussion of the alternatives.
Thank you Dr. for your professionalism. Please move to Toronto. I would love to come see u. I need help!
I think there are Urogynecology physicians available at the University but I’m not sure how long will it take to get in and be evaluated and then have the correct surgery. Prayers for you to find the help you need!
I'm. CNA and lifting and repositioning people has made mine fall out I remember the day it happened I was transferring a patient and I had to Bear their weight and I felt something fall out of me and I put my residence back in bed then went to the bathroom to see what it was and my nurse/supervisor said it was a prolapse uterus from lifting all the heavy people
A uterus can fall but you have options. Certainly consider a pessary so go to your gynecologist and ask to be fitted for that. A pessary can help you keep working and feeling comfortable with lifting patients. Surgery could also help but you need to be careful with lifting with can lead to failure.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Thank you
Thank you, doctor Mcquery, great, professional, humble, helpful, video! Blessings 🙏🏼💙🌷
@@violetblue4155 thanks
Thank you Doctor
I am puzzled as to why women don't want to talk about prolapse
I myself do have a prolapse
As yet not sure if i want to go down the route of surgery
I have done a good bit of research and also got information leaflets
I am seeing my consultant in a few months there is lots of questions i want to ask
These things are embarrassing and are very difficult to talk about most women. I’m glad that you are able to tackle this straight on.
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Thank you Doctor
Thank you, this was very helpful!
I'm so glad!
Great information‼️❤️😍👍
Glad you think so!
For myself. I’m
Skipping the cream the pessary the worthless exercise that will never make the pelvic floor strong enough. I’m getting surgery in 3 months. Thanks for talking about the stuff ppl act WHAT
Hope surgery goes well!
@ thanks so much for reply.
Very good advice
Glad you think so!
Thank you so much for getting back to me Dr. you have no idea how much I appreciate it🙏🙏🙏
These are difficult problems that are intimidating and scary. But they are truly fixable and that is the reason for the video.
@@DrJeffreyMcQuearyI can’t figure out why when I get my menstruation that I’m still getting it’s been pushing out my prolapse I noticed it the last. And now this one, so very uncomfortable so very frustrating. very frightening
@@cindyalexis616 you can get help!
Doctor what you are talking about is just what I'm going through For 1 year and 1 month I'm in so much pain in my pelvic and lower back please help me Thank You 🙏❤️
You can get help and look in your area for a urogynecologist. There are also many gynecologists who practice this type of surgery to help you. Where are you located?
Thank you for better explanation I got it now
Glad it helped
Thank you doctor for this amazing video . I wish to have doctor like you in Canada 🙏
Where do you live in Canada?
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary in British Columbia
@@ivankavitrihmatjaz5566 Dr Geoffrey Cundiff is in Vancouver.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Thank you!
I am very thankful to find you , amazing explaining I am so confused what to do about this problem, I subscribed and I am getting more education. Thank you Doctor 🙏💕
So happy to help
I’ve had a pessary for 3 years, I have a surgically (smaller) reformed bladder, it was done after my hysterectomy. Now I don’t have prolapsed issues, just the constant pain and bloating that extends from the abdominal area. My gastro doc told me to see a urogynocologist. I did. Nothing can be done🤷🏼♀️ I feel horrible and keep bouncing from Dr to dr trying different things 😢
This sounds like a very difficult problem that I cannot know exactly what’s happening with your bladder, but sometimes scarring can lead to a restricted bladder capacity. Pain in the bladder area also can be interstitial cystitis and seeing a urologist or Urogynecologist that evaluates that would be appropriate.
Thank you for your information. I have a level two cystocel, and currently going to PT, plus using estrogen cream. I’m 74, a breast cancer survivor, and I had a hysterectomy years ago. I was referred to the PT by a gynecologist but would like a second opinion. I’m looking for someone in the Portland! Oregon area near OHSU.
www.ohsu.edu/womens-health/urogynecology
Go to this site and you can get a urogynecologist appointment.
@ thank you
Yes, I will try to get in to see someone there even if it takes a few months. I found out yesterday I now have a bladder infection. My husband passed from bladder cancer 18 months ago. It’s been difficult. Once again, thank you
A few months is common and they should do well for you!
This very helpful
I hope this video was able to give you some information that can make your life better.
3 years ago I was told that I have stage 2 bladder prolapse and a stage 1 rectum prolapse. They did mention something about a vaginal they did mention something about a rectocele but I'm not sure if that is the rectum prolapse or whether it's something different.
The surgeon 3 years ago wanted me to have a complete hysterectomy because of a cyst on my ovary and at the same time the another surgeon was going to fix the rectocele. When I refused to have the hysterectomy the other rectocele surgeon said that she didn't want to fix the rectercele.
Three years later (last month) I decided to get a second opinion and this surgeon said I didn't need hysterectomy. However,
because of severe constipation my life is miserable. Nothing that I take relieves the constipation and I have tried everything.
Miralax, enamas, fiber, colonics and of course I completely changed my diet by eliminating sugar, and dairy.
I then went to another incontinence Doctor who said that my bladder prolapse was still stage 2 and my rectum was stage 1. (The same as it was 3 years ago)
I'm a very young 76 years old and I use to be very active but now my whole quality of life has changed.
All the incontinence doctor suggested was that I do kegel exercises and use vaginal hormone cream.
I'm at a loss as what to do because I am constipated every day of the week all day. Although I don't have any pain it's very uncomfortable constant pressure.
Please can you tell me what I should do because I don't feel I'm getting any answers from the many doctors that I have already seen.
I can’t tell you exactly what to do without examining you myself, but even with the stage one rectocele you could be very symptomatic with severe constipation. These problems can be repaired and often I will do that without a hysterectomy as well. A pessary, and sometimes also help with the bladder but may not help with the rectocele. I have had some patients that it really helped though. You certainly need a doctor that will give you a plan. Kegel exercises may help but they won’t fix the problem.
In regards to constipation I drinking mango juice helps.
Hi. In regards of constipation, HAVE YOU EVER TRIED DRY PRUNES❓️ As far as I know, they never fail. 3 or 4 is all you will need but, as of course, talk to your Dr first. Be well 🙏
PS: Thank God I don't suffer constipation. However, friends & family members are greatful I recommend that to them. because they've been being helped by that
Have you tried taking magnesium for constipation? It keeps me regular.
Thank you so much I’m currently afraid I may be going through this and too embarrassed to talk on it
Don’t be embarrassed! Many women have these problems just get help because you can get help!
Thank you doctor, love you so much
So nice of you
It is terrible. I am only 53 but I feel like I am 90 very uncomfortable specially, when I’m running around I have a barbecue coming up or I have to cook and entertain and I’m terrified.
Fear of the unknown, many great doctors out there that can help you!
I had a total hysterectomy 35 years ago, and now have a prolapse of some sort, don’t know what it is.
Most common prolapse after hysterectomy is cystocele and upper vaginal prolapse. Do Kegel’s and try not to lift heavy weights. Surgery might be necessary at some point though.
Awesome information
Glad you think so! Just trying to get practical information that helps you understand a difficult subject.
@@DrJeffreyMcQuearygood morning need your advice when am haveing sex it pain what you think cause that and I can feel like something come down
Yes you said is true, it's really really painful😭😭 I have 24years and I'm having it since my 19th😢
So sorry you are suffering, hopefully you can get help!
Do you have a baby?
I m 27 years old and coz of weakness i m suffering this uterus prolapse help me
Go to a OB.gyn dr .
Even being young you can have prolapse problems! Get to a Urogynecologist who specializes in this type of surgery. A pessary can help as well.
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There is no such good gyn.dr. dear
@@kabirtoys33 so sorry to hear that.
Hey I have prolapse problem
And 6mm harnia do in bellybutton
What I can take kegal exercise
Please give any advise
I would not do kegles for a belly button hernia, it would bot help and could make it worse.
Thankyou for the information❤ Dr.
CaN woman have a Bladder Prolapse operation at the age of 75 ?
I do them all the time on patients in their 80’s. Patients do very well with minimally invasive procedures.
What a lovely doctor wish you were in the UK, I had a total hysterectomy a few years ago and its now left me with a prolapse bladder, I've tried having rings inserted but didn't work for me 😢I'm now waiting to get a hospital appointment, I just pray this painful problem can be sorted, I haven't got much confidence in getting this resolved 🇬🇧😪
Wish I was closer and could help you. I did 5 surgeries just today for bladder prolapse.
There are several Urogynecologists in London area and I don’t know if you are close to there. Here are several options.
www.londonwomenscare.com/service/female-pelvic-medicine-and-reconstructive-surgery/
www.imperial.nhs.uk/our-services/gynaecology/urogynaecology/clinics
I don't know if I could have surgery for this problems 😥
Hi Dr. My daughter has Lupus n very heavy menstrual bleeding for months at a time can you enlightened me with her issue thanks👍
She needs a doctor for the bleeding issues it may or may not be due to the lupus. Common to have some irregular bleeding which gets better after the lupus is under control.
Please talk about vault prolapse after hysterectomy
I will make videos on that soon but problems still very similar to uterine prolapse
im 13. randomly while I was laying down, I felt something pop or like abit crack inside me. I feel like it was coming from where near my private area was, and im too scared to check. I don't know if my uterus dropped but im scared to even walk. I feel a small bulge inside me, but im not sure if I felt the exact same before. I wanna go to the bathroom and check, but ill be horrified if I really have a prolapse.
@@erehquelam at your age most likely it is not prolapse, but you should certainly see your pediatrician and have that evaluated. It will be a little bit embarrassing, but it’s worth understanding what’s going on.
Tell the dr or an adult. Hope your ok
Tell your doctor she’ll help you don’t be afraid
I am stage 4 pelvic floor prolapse. A few years ago I had my uterus removed. Now my bladder fills my hand. I am going in for some big surgery July 30. They will pull up everything and attach it to my sacrum. The doctor said it is a mess. I can't remember everything he said but basically i am a mess. I am hoping this is a safe surgery for me. He has me putting a tiny pill inside to strengthen the tissues before surgery. He will also use mesh for the bladder sling. It will be robotic. Any suggestions? I don't get along with anesthesia as I have a difficult time waking up and it takes a long time. Thanks.
You are having a surgery called a Sacral Colpopexy. It is a very effective surgery using mesh attaching the upper vaginal area directly to ligaments on the tailbone. It’s a very effective procedure if done by the right person. The bladder sling is also very effective and should be great ways to fix your problems. I’ve seen the effectiveness for both of these procedures to be over 95%.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary That sounds great. Thanks for the encouragement. Dr. Ty Erickson is my doctor and he goes to Africa and does this for the poor, mistreated women over there and does a lot of them here in the US as well. I feel pretty good about it but I do not look forward to the waking up part. That always seems to be the worst part of any surgery I have had. Thanks.
good luck with your surgery and post operative recovery! There are many medications that can help with nausea after the surgery. Ask anesthesia to help.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary Oh, thank you for that but my problem is waking up. It is horrible and takes a very long time.
I hope your surgery went well
Brilliant video, thank you! Very clear explanations delivered by an empathetic medic - sadly i dont live in the USA but i reckon you're the only male doctor I'd be prepared to see for this issue😅
Thank you for your kind comments. I think there are many caring physicians, all over the world who enjoy helping women with these problems. But certainly don’t suffer and seek help for prolapse issues. The goal of my videos is to make sure that people know what is available.
What kind of estrogen?
Vaginal estradiol or Premarin cream
I'm sorry I don't understand if this is normal. Why are women not told this especially after having children. I feel its a set-up by the medical field. I'm 63 now have bladder prolaspe and my cervix has fallen and possible stage 1 rectal prolaspe. I think this happened to me b/c of hard coughing from being sick last year. I also had a UFE 2011 now my uterine lining is scared, to thick (to thick to be bisoped b/c uterus is scared) and possible change in fibroids increasing in size (up in size). I started BHT after menopause I guess it did'nt help because I still ended up with proplase. I had a UFE to keep my uterus to keep my organs in place and still ended up with prolaspe. I was fitted with a pressary last week, but was told it is something I won't be able to wear one forever. I was told my only options are remove the uterus use mesh or use my own tissue. Was told using my own tissue could only lead to prolaspe again. How do you determine if your tissue is strong enough to be used? Do you know of any doctors in the Chicago area?
hope my explanation helps
I need ur advice I have prolapse I'm scared and shamed to go to doctor
Well, please don’t be ashamed to go to the doctor. They see these type of problems all the time. You have the right to be helped as well as anybody, and there are many things that can be done including non-surgical techniques. That can be very successful.
I am now 35 and I also had this problem . It is in the forth stage and now i did a sling sugery. Now i am doing exercises. But my doctor said my intestine is also coming down.
This can all be repaired. Did you only have a sling and not repair of the prolapse? Exercises will not help a enterocele very much which is when the intestines are falling. This can be fixed.
Prolups exercises helps me a lot
Great
I am diagnosed with mild urethra prolapse recently, and my symptoms affect my quality of life.
Urethral prolapse does cause stress incontinence, which is leaking with coughing and sneezing. This certainly can be improved with both physical therapy and kegel exercises, as well as potentially even surgery.
@@DrJeffreyMcQueary thank you
thank you for explaining the different forms it can take, this is for my mum and DRs just say er exercise Keagle, diet blah! you mention Mesh is this not dangerous? thanks again
That is why I published these videos because women need more information in a practical form. I did mention mash, but that typically is only used around the urethra or abdominal suspension and is safe when done by an experienced reconstructive surgeon.
Good afternoon
I had lower back surgery the L4&L5 fused after surgery I use a catheter and has problems with passing stools. What can I do
It sounds like you have severe nerve damage or potentially have prolapse that is causing poor flow of urine and stool. He certainly need evaluation by a gynecologist to determine that.
Very frustrating
True
I had a hysterectomy and I think my bladder is prolapsed. Dr I what you think about the impressa the over counter pessari.
It is mostly for stress incontinence. It can help if you have that problem.
I hv cystocele 2 .
Do you feel surgery or kegels will help. Kindly suggest
Your biggest issue is probably trying to empty your bladder. Try to always push up on your bladder so that will empty better. Kegels exercises can definitely help to make things stronger. But if nothing is helping, then consider surgery because it can be very successful in solving your issues.