I have been in marital counseling for 15 years. The outcome of leaving for the men and women has been very different. For those with genuine reasons... infidelity, violence etc....most especially the women are thriving single women and the children during family sessions confess they like it better that way. Research has proven, women lose more when they are married and thrive when single. I would encourage any person who is struggling in marriage to go to a professional marriage counselor, who can work with you on the decision making process.
Hi Monica Is singleness a sin? Well l am single Mom and God fearing and contented to the fullest. I once listened to T.D.Jakes about singleness and l loved his teachings of the same. He pointed out the strength of a godly single woman who's trust is in God for all her Previsions. He respected the woman so much as he knew when she prays,her prayers are very genuine as she has no other person to lean on apart from her God. The truth of the matter is:- As a single woman l have experience lots of growth in many great areas. One is faith in God,second is my strengths and independence. And many others that has produced a decent woman. As for me ,the co values of singleness are goldfish and nothing can make me wish or turn around.l fo get secret admirers but l say, thanks 🙏 🙏 🙏. Marriage is not for me. Thanks for all you do. Say Hi to this beautiful lady wakiama😂
Singleness is not a sin. We have genuine single women n men and still remain in christ. Abusive or death might lead to singlehood. You resonate my sister. God is faithful coz she has brought her kids alone coz the never marriage never worked. Her kids term her as a “ Hero”. She has fought tooth n nail to give them the best. Feeled loved Mama.
You discuss very good topics but as someone who doesn't speak or understand your language my humble request is for you to have subtitles options for some of us interested in your programme. Great topics thanks
Mimi ni single father's kuuma riria ndokire metha ya kagoni nilipata nguvu mpya saa hii roho inaendelea kupona juu ya mashauri yenu Asanteni saana mungu awabariki
I think every case is different. My ex got twins with his girlfrienf. He became verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive. I couldnt take it any more. He is in jail for 10 years
One day talk abt ben 10 that leave marriage to settle with the woman for raha,some women has no money but they dont pressure the men with responsibilities.
This reminds me of another that left the husband and went back to her parents home with the children because she had applied for a visa to go to Germany with children. She was denied a visa. The rest is history.
But the way you say it,you assume it's too easy,sometimes it's not that easy,again you are like promoting infidelity,call men up on their responsibility too, you cannot advice women to stay where they are constantly disrespected,oh my oh my some marriages are painful more than you can imagine
It's just asking,A wife was asked to leave for a husband to remarry and she refused to go claiming she will stand firm for her marriage the husband took their child and sold to murderers,the child was murdered and the husband was jailed,my question is is it fair for her to leave that home?or is she going to remain there alone without a child and husband?
Hi ladies, what about those women who pushes their husband's so much, whenever you come go back to rose,joy,Mary etc.And you are very sure you are not (kiumbani)..just asking..
Wakiama you need to stop being biased. Are you saying that we depend on God only when the man is cheating, but stop trusting when my life is threatened. I thought our God is a God of all seasons. If you so genuine about saving marriages, tell women to trust God in all seasons. This contradicting narrative is pure conviction you still don't understand marriage. Gathoni I love your shows, I never miss any. But if You must feature Wakiama in your channel, kindly choose another topic for her. We're just tired of this ancient, and superstitious teachings about marriage.
I have been in marital counseling for 15 years.
The outcome of leaving for the men and women has been very different.
For those with genuine reasons... infidelity, violence etc....most especially the women are thriving single women and the children during family sessions confess they like it better that way.
Research has proven, women lose more when they are married and thrive when single.
I would encourage any person who is struggling in marriage to go to a professional marriage counselor, who can work with you on the decision making process.
😂😂😂😂 ati manii ma hofna😅😅
God have mercy upon these men, these priests God cover them
True .❤❤
Wonderful conversation,listening to you mrs kiama and monica has helped me heal and am learning to love myself more and more.
Hi Monica
Is singleness a sin?
Well l am single Mom and God fearing and contented to the fullest.
I once listened to T.D.Jakes about singleness and l loved his teachings of the same. He pointed out the strength of a godly single woman who's trust is in God for all her Previsions. He respected the woman so much as he knew when she prays,her prayers are very genuine as she has no other person to lean on apart from her God.
The truth of the matter is:-
As a single woman l have experience lots of growth in many great areas. One is faith in God,second is my strengths and independence. And many others that has produced a decent woman. As for me ,the co values of singleness are goldfish and nothing can make me wish or turn around.l fo get secret admirers but l say, thanks 🙏 🙏 🙏. Marriage is not for me.
Thanks for all you do. Say Hi to this beautiful lady wakiama😂
Singleness is not a sin. We have genuine single women n men and still remain in christ. Abusive or death might lead to singlehood. You resonate my sister. God is faithful coz she has brought her kids alone coz the never marriage never worked. Her kids term her as a “ Hero”. She has fought tooth n nail to give them the best. Feeled loved Mama.
You discuss very good topics but as someone who doesn't speak or understand your language my humble request is for you to have subtitles options for some of us interested in your programme. Great topics thanks
Please talk in English or have captions so that we follow you. Can wakiama council non speakers of kikuyu. Am kindly asking. We need this great wisdom
Mimi ni single father's kuuma riria ndokire metha ya kagoni nilipata nguvu mpya saa hii roho inaendelea kupona juu ya mashauri yenu Asanteni saana mungu awabariki
Good job ladies you look good 🎉
Athuri makaririo ri? Kujenga boma ni watu wawili, we can't blame women all day.
I treasure you greatly.. Deborah of this generation.
Hehehehehehe.....love this as always!!!😁🤣🤣. Eti "she's etc" lol lol. Thank you for the entertainment and advice.
Woow, Mrs. Kiama is really glowing.
I think every case is different. My ex got twins with his girlfrienf. He became verbally, emotionally and mentally abusive. I couldnt take it any more. He is in jail for 10 years
Am happy for you, some of us never received a slap before they start cheating.
Monica na wa Kiama salimikeni nawapenda sana ❤❤ your topics do inspire me i learn alot👍🏾👍🏾
Thank you, Mrs Wakiama na Wakagoni! Learning a lot ❤
Thanks I second if when one sent to her, she calls back. God bless you
Reke tu njiganire now 5yrs ahirane mahu ngiriririe, athame akahike ngiririe hapo apana ciana ciakwa ni cibataire
Wakiama mami witu looking great 👍🏾 ATA wewe Moni 😅😅❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ndingieterera murimu. I left my husband got sick, ningekaaa!!!
Wakiama you are a blessing,God bless you.
Attentively Waiting This Marriage Coach…
Aaaiiii nie reke ndiyende ndi nja, gucindana ndingihota
One day talk abt ben 10 that leave marriage to settle with the woman for raha,some women has no money but they dont pressure the men with responsibilities.
I ❤️ you mama's your teaching is always 🔥
The amazing duo nawalove❤❤
Good Job Both Of you 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Marriage is overrated in Africa but there is more to life than it.
Sometimes I just wonder do the commandments only apply for women? Men should also know that they will be answerable to God
Exactly. Everytime is women women do this do that for your man😅
Great advice. What about being single for being left
It's just a matter of trusting yourself n become more''kwiitikira what happened
❤ wow amazing
That's agud advice na wale walikula na huko nje then comes home empty handed
The Lord hates infidelity.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥♥️♥️♥️Amazing show
angi twi single ona twinao nyumba
Hau nima,tariu nii ndi muruaru na ndingiona ona wakundugira gaturungi.
Aii hiyo nayo hapana @@MobileE19
I like the eagle pride.I will be an eagle.
When you come to UK, please visit Birmingham
Waulize nyamu about being chick imemramba saaii anawaturn camera person 😂😂😂😂
Tuned in
Vkaribu kairetu
Ati banga maita matatu???? Ndagikwoera maita macio mothe naukorwo mwoyo...nii ndigetera ona riakeri!!
Na wale wanaume wananunua nyama nje na kwake halftime,ata huyu tufumilie.
This reminds me of another that left the husband and went back to her parents home with the children because she had applied for a visa to go to Germany with children. She was denied a visa. The rest is history.
Am trying to imagine 😂😂😂
But the way you say it,you assume it's too easy,sometimes it's not that easy,again you are like promoting infidelity,call men up on their responsibility too, you cannot advice women to stay where they are constantly disrespected,oh my oh my some marriages are painful more than you can imagine
Your decision is final, it's you who is wearing the shoe, you know it hurts, take action.
Is there English captions
It's just asking,A wife was asked to leave for a husband to remarry and she refused to go claiming she will stand firm for her marriage the husband took their child and sold to murderers,the child was murdered and the husband was jailed,my question is is it fair for her to leave that home?or is she going to remain there alone without a child and husband?
If such a thing happens, Tafadhali sahau na yeye na ukanyanga kubwa kubwa. That's my take.
Hi ladies, what about those women who pushes their husband's so much, whenever you come go back to rose,joy,Mary etc.And you are very sure you are not (kiumbani)..just asking..
Is there any reason why she's doubting the man?
Is the man secretive,not caring, not talking to the wife? That could lead to mistrust
What is that u are drinking Monica? It looks sweet.
Wakiama you need to stop being biased.
Are you saying that we depend on God only when the man is cheating, but stop trusting when my life is threatened.
I thought our God is a God of all seasons.
If you so genuine about saving marriages, tell women to trust God in all seasons.
This contradicting narrative is pure conviction you still don't understand marriage.
Gathoni I love your shows, I never miss any.
But if You must feature Wakiama in your channel, kindly choose another topic for her.
We're just tired of this ancient, and superstitious teachings about marriage.
👍👍👍🙏🤣
Hi mnjjn. I