I don't know why I still loved him even after he attacked me with a panga on several occasions!

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2023
  • Penninah cannot really explain why she always reconciled with her husband and moved in back with him even after, he attacked and tried to kill her with a panga on three separate occasions!
    For the three times he attacked her, they would separate for months, then he would come and beg her and she would take him back in. The third time, he beat her so badly, slashed her face with broken bottles and left her for dead. He then committed suicide! Here is Penninah's story.....

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  • @mosesmusa5193
    @mosesmusa5193 Год назад +13

    Vita zingine zina ingia kwa family inaletwa na marafiki wenye jealousy wana mpiganisha mpaka mna isha ongopa marafiki

  • @carolinekarimi9722
    @carolinekarimi9722 Год назад +10

    Hii nguvu inatoka wapi panga na urundi uko .mimi ata kofi moja tu nimetoka kabisa

  • @NyahPM
    @NyahPM Год назад +81

    I wish to advise that Part 2 should usually be put up the following day not 4 days after the airing of Part 1. Kindly adhere to this.

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 Год назад +8

      Yeah.... I second you 😊coz it's taking to long someone can easily forget part 1

    • @maureenmiriti3199
      @maureenmiriti3199 Год назад

      Part 2 tunangoja

    • @annwandia1632
      @annwandia1632 Год назад

      Thankyou for this comment, let me stop and watch when 2 is out.

    • @irenewanjugu221
      @irenewanjugu221 Год назад

      Yees part two the following day please kagoni....unatuweka sana

    • @shikohmarie3902
      @shikohmarie3902 Год назад

      Thanks will watch part 2 ikitoka

  • @gideonchrismaina1773
    @gideonchrismaina1773 11 месяцев назад +2

    Very sad but educative too. Monicah, the "baba"...fellow was a phychatric case for many many years without the knowledge of Peninah and also his parents. People are mad, but actions needs discernment by a wise person. May the lady and her children her peace from our maker throughout their life.

  • @elizabethnjoki6186
    @elizabethnjoki6186 Год назад +5

    The only person I call baba id my father . Hata watoto wangu siwezi ita mum and baba .

  • @janewaiganjo3351
    @janewaiganjo3351 Год назад +2

    Woiiiie this woman loved tht guy and wanted the best for her hubby😢😢

  • @woodveronica2660
    @woodveronica2660 Год назад +3

    Mental health is real and should not be ignored in some of these stories 😢. Hard working clever woman you are ,soldier on lady 👏

  • @kigururuth6917
    @kigururuth6917 Год назад +6

    I don't know who needs to hear this, but a man friend of mine told me once that the minute as a woman you assume the man's role in the home, the minute you pay school fees start building, give the man money atakudharau. My friend's advice has proved true. Stop keeping men and financing them. He will never respect you. Again, who said marriage is a must? It doesn't work for everyone. Domestic abuse is sickening, women stop living with man who abuses you emotionally, mentally or physically.

  • @irushmain
    @irushmain Год назад +24

    At this time she should just stop calling him "baba". That is just a useless and manipulative man.

  • @veronicagituma8892
    @veronicagituma8892 Год назад +6

    I feel bad ukimwita baba, am sorry. I wish our girls should be watching the red flags

  • @jacigachukia6815
    @jacigachukia6815 Год назад +14

    Mtu amekufanyia unyama unampea heshima ya kumuita baba😅

    • @Aggy40
      @Aggy40 Год назад

      Ata mimi kuna vitu zingine huwa sielewi

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад +1

      ​@@Aggy40she loved him more than herself . Narcissist marriage with an abuser who manipulated

    • @pearlynina7597
      @pearlynina7597 5 месяцев назад

      Exactly 💯

  • @domicocyber4574
    @domicocyber4574 Год назад +7

    Am so sorry baby girl,but''babaa''did not understand what marriage is,its so unfortunate.

  • @geoffreymuchangi-ym7nn
    @geoffreymuchangi-ym7nn Год назад +3

    I thought metha ya kagoni is scam,I know this story 100%,Its a true story,

  • @mummylexie
    @mummylexie Год назад +16

    kagoni please air part two next day please airing it 4 days later is not that good for the audience following up the story since some might not bable to see it again

  • @waridim9249
    @waridim9249 Год назад +15

    Mûndû wamûtemengaga no aramwîta "baba", "my husband", "mûthuri wakwa..." Aiyaî!😢

  • @alicenjau4364
    @alicenjau4364 Год назад +4

    Thanks Kagoni for asking kama baba ni bwanake, nii ngutukaniirwo ma.

  • @sarahwangari8461
    @sarahwangari8461 Год назад +13

    A man who manipulates you by crying is a Narcissist🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @keziahwangeci3215
    @keziahwangeci3215 Год назад +2

    Hiyo story ya kuweka panga kwa bed naijuwa kama sio Mungu kunipingania sijui place ningekuwa

  • @fridahkarimi5510
    @fridahkarimi5510 Год назад +3

    This lady she is not Healed and still living in past calling,"BABA".
    Women should love themselves.

  • @anniekym
    @anniekym Год назад +6

    The word "baba" destroyed the man😢😢😢

  • @gracemaina1627
    @gracemaina1627 Год назад +9

    Can relate. Not easy to leave your marriage particulary for those who are determined to build it. The lady was one of those. She had hope for the future. Little did she knew she was dealing with a sick man and courting death for that matter. Lesson, mburi ya rwanio ikuaga na rwanio na wamuchoka niguo uriaga mundu.

  • @babieakawanga9127
    @babieakawanga9127 Год назад +2

    Bangi aki si poa,huyu mzee unless under drugs or generous friends

  • @letscookeasyrecipes2370
    @letscookeasyrecipes2370 Год назад +13

    Family ya baba ilikuwa na madimoni...thats why you need to consider Family history before marriage

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 Год назад +4

    Most of the men has a low esteem,they will not cope with a woman,who is intelligent,home making and many are dying in such homes.

  • @florencewangetha9281
    @florencewangetha9281 Год назад +12

    Where do people get guts to call a man.baba 😮😮 that was a killer. You better stop calling him that. He doesn't even deserve that respect 😮😮😅

    • @janewaiganjo3351
      @janewaiganjo3351 Год назад +1

      Never blame someone coz hujui what was eating the man

  • @fghi1234
    @fghi1234 Год назад +2

    This lady is very hard working and blessed and I wish the husband would have taken advantage of the blessings and they would have progressed very much.

  • @amawesome3190
    @amawesome3190 Год назад +6

    I have watched quite a number of these videos and the one consistent thing that these women who have been abused ask their husbands after being attacked is, "what did I do?" it is almost as if women have internalized the fact that if they are abused it is for a reason and not the fact that they should, under no circumstances be abused.
    Kagoni, can you address this issue, it is like you don't even register that these women believe that if they were abused, it would have been for a reason and what makes the abuse bad is that they did nothing to deserve it.

  • @stevieskiful
    @stevieskiful Год назад +2

    What kind of desperation is this? Must one be in a marriage?

  • @annmbugua30
    @annmbugua30 Год назад +3

    Part 2 should take a day please
    We love it here

  • @Alice__1977
    @Alice__1977 Год назад +12

    Nimekwama hapo kwa baba 😮

    • @waridim9249
      @waridim9249 Год назад +3

      Mûndû ndangîaga gûkwama!😨

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад +1

      Mnajua narcissist ni nini nyinyi 😢

    • @estherwambui3694
      @estherwambui3694 Год назад +1

      @@shikuliz4134 hao narcissis wakufanya ujisahau?

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад

      @@estherwambui3694 unakuanga a walking eggshell they drain you mentally

    • @faithnjoki3057
      @faithnjoki3057 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @lucykaranja8751
    @lucykaranja8751 Год назад +3

    Hii story inafanaana na yanngu but thank God ndaugire kiura ruga tene ni tene .woii been a hardworking lady inafanya wanaume wakuwe insecure I was once there nakufeel. but thanks God dear uko uhai

  • @chepkorirkimani
    @chepkorirkimani Год назад +2

    Monica please bring part two today. Sometimes it takes too long such that it becomes difficult to follow. When you bring it days later huwa inakosa ladha.

  • @NyahPM
    @NyahPM Год назад +10

    Esther’s story you similarly left it hanging for Part 2 that never came. Kindly check on this issue.

  • @victormaina9343
    @victormaina9343 Год назад +2

    Even if they love is blind this was three much... ladies you shouldn't entertain such evil men in the name of love

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 Год назад +3

    Ndiatindaniriire nikio kiugo gikuriire 🤦‍♀️

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 Год назад +14

    She's a go getter but she felt for a irresponsible man and ingored red flags

  • @MaryKimani-tm7xx
    @MaryKimani-tm7xx Год назад +3

    Once u get married with a child and the man doesn't love the child,u should quit.
    Stop calling agrown up man baba
    This man had mental problems

  • @lilylilian8729
    @lilylilian8729 Год назад +2

    Wow peninah nikarembo❤

  • @marykay2829
    @marykay2829 Год назад +3

    I'm not judging though huyu mwanaume ni kati ya wenye huskiza watu wa nje but don't listen to their wives..

  • @wakiurumuriu1411
    @wakiurumuriu1411 Год назад +1

    This is very worrying to even think off
    But there is a problem and stigma if you don’t stay in marriage which leads to death or near miss
    Thanks Monica for always bringing learning stories

  • @judymwangimuthoni4176
    @judymwangimuthoni4176 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ladies ladies its high time we stop raising men, this babaa is giving a spoilt village brat wenye ata walikua wanatandika hadi their parents & the lady is giving low self esteem & enabler. Sasa unamuita babaa ya nini 😂, Kafa Nemwo

  • @23BlessedLady
    @23BlessedLady Год назад +1

    Aki Monicah wewe ati ama alipewa food zote😅😅😅nima atumia nimakona Ngai na maitho😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 Год назад +3

    Waah Baba ari na wifey material haha 😮

  • @jeniphergithinji3889
    @jeniphergithinji3889 Год назад +2

    Every one is enique and singular, i wonder why the man couldn't see the blessings in his wife im not judgemental my opinion.

  • @bettynjoki3115
    @bettynjoki3115 Год назад +1

    Waiting for part 2, loving that lady already

  • @felistermbugua9740
    @felistermbugua9740 Год назад +5

    Please stop calling him baba .

  • @Shii1990
    @Shii1990 Год назад +6

    This is trauma bonding not love....

    • @pauline2604
      @pauline2604 Год назад

      Very True, the Man was Narcicistic!

  • @judemazho9612
    @judemazho9612 Год назад +5

    Why is she addressing the perpetrator like baba? Ni kama amerogio victimized uiiii!

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад +2

      Iove bombing ghai 🙆😭😭😭

    • @Shiku355
      @Shiku355 Год назад +1

      I seriously can’t

    • @Shiku355
      @Shiku355 Год назад +2

      Why is she calling him Baba

    • @maureenngendo9618
      @maureenngendo9618 Год назад +4

      I think the name "baba" was a nickname

    • @elizabethwachira7884
      @elizabethwachira7884 Год назад +1

      ​@@maureenngendo9618 yes but we all know wives use the name like daddy when calling their husbands.sasa pia huyo narcissist mpaka saa hii anamuita hivo

  • @jessenjuenjoka4440
    @jessenjuenjoka4440 Год назад +6

    Am getting worried,when I watch these programs ,I m fearing for our daughters who are growing up to get married to men who are sadist and killers.

    • @irenenjeri8681
      @irenenjeri8681 Год назад

      Am actually scared for our sons 😢, women are worse these days just that men don't express themselves

    • @veronicawanjiku1763
      @veronicawanjiku1763 Год назад

      @@irenenjeri8681 Not all men are worse women mostly second wives ndio shida

    • @valentinenyawira4079
      @valentinenyawira4079 Год назад

      Wueeeh! Never thought of this

    • @veronicawanjiku1763
      @veronicawanjiku1763 Год назад

      @@valentinenyawira4079 sad but true

  • @cucuturuganojoanwanjiku4227
    @cucuturuganojoanwanjiku4227 Год назад +1

    Mapenzi ni kipofu❤

  • @irenenjeri8681
    @irenenjeri8681 Год назад +4

    This woman was the problem 🙄

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Год назад

    Wewe baba baba, love wins aky but nt mi

  • @catherinenyawira4858
    @catherinenyawira4858 Год назад +2

    This drunks are so selfish. They never want prosper. Run Murife 🏃🏃

  • @favournganga4258
    @favournganga4258 Год назад +3

    Though he seems like a narcissist,could it he is suffering from bipokar?

  • @margaretmungai1924
    @margaretmungai1924 Год назад +2

    That man was a Narcissist aki

  • @bettychege7009
    @bettychege7009 Год назад +1

    The most interesting thing is baba 🤣🤣🤣it sounds kababy🤣🤣

  • @timothywachira6107
    @timothywachira6107 Год назад +4

    Waiting anxiously

  • @carolinemunge1563
    @carolinemunge1563 Год назад +1

    Ati atia kagoni😂😂😂😂atumia ni makona Ngai maa

  • @janetkihiu7623
    @janetkihiu7623 Год назад +3

    Surely love is blind. This lady was mad in love with her husband so he took advantage of her.

  • @NjeriLydia
    @NjeriLydia Год назад +2

    She was my frenf back in kawangware aki

  • @FransiscahMuindi
    @FransiscahMuindi Год назад +1

    I think the man was experiencing depression but no one noticed pole mum may God give you peace to overcome the pain

  • @lilianwaithira7021
    @lilianwaithira7021 Год назад +1

    That man was a narcissist and seems a mental case too living with one is hell on earth

  • @user-ji6bd7lk2z
    @user-ji6bd7lk2z Год назад +1

    Waiting for part 2plz it's sweet but painful story

  • @gladwellgathara1632
    @gladwellgathara1632 Год назад +5

    I cannot take it when someone is abusive and yet l call it love??? Mmmm love cares and does not hurt mo punish. There is life after that and good people are still around if you are the type that can not stay single.

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Год назад +2

      If she doesn't learn who narcissist are she's likely to attract same

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Год назад +2

    Learn about narcissism mama before engaging yourself in another relationship because you will atract same because of your emphathy

  • @pearlynina7597
    @pearlynina7597 5 месяцев назад

    This woman is broken. She's still glorifying this "baba" !😢😢

  • @user-cf2ky4fc1c
    @user-cf2ky4fc1c Год назад +5

    Well..a lady friend of mine was cut by her husband in the buttocks.He claims that he was drunk.The man died from alcoholism related complications.Afyerwards the mother abandoned the two kids they sired together,the kids nearly ended up in childrens home were it not for a relative to take them in..

    • @user-cf2ky4fc1c
      @user-cf2ky4fc1c Год назад

      Theirs was a complicated affair as they wer both heavy drinkers..They fought.They separated but got back together with the man taking the lady back from her bar boyfriend.
      I wish the man got helped,and healed from his wounds...He might not have inflicted his wounds on others

  • @maggiejane7951
    @maggiejane7951 Год назад +1

    Hii ni come we stay😂😂

  • @eglahmuthoni400
    @eglahmuthoni400 Год назад +1

    Huyu mama anafanana na kuongea kama mwimbaji Caroh Mwaura

  • @bilharwambui2035
    @bilharwambui2035 Год назад +1

    Unamuita baba ya Nini pepo

  • @joycemurage6974
    @joycemurage6974 Год назад +1

    The worst mistake you can is ignoring the red flags and a man who is not a man

  • @MifupaMikavu23
    @MifupaMikavu23 Год назад

    Waiting ooh

  • @bensonmacharia1679
    @bensonmacharia1679 Год назад +2

    Why Baba its like he was your god women think twice Give your Maker 100 % of your Heart Not your Man ?????

  • @veronicakahura111
    @veronicakahura111 Год назад +1

    So sad for this lady. Please stop calling husbands BABA.......
    BABA who attempted to kill you???. Anyway may God open your eyes

  • @kamxokangugi8617
    @kamxokangugi8617 Год назад +1

    Aty baba😢😢

  • @miriamkamau7975
    @miriamkamau7975 Год назад

    wueeeee....hawa wanaume wa kulialia waogope

    • @marynyambura5175
      @marynyambura5175 6 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂 I agree with you I have experience....

  • @beatriceweru9304
    @beatriceweru9304 Год назад +1

    The name....

  • @milkamunywoki210
    @milkamunywoki210 Год назад +1

    Si tukwame hapo kwa.babaaa wah wah

  • @liliannginyo6859
    @liliannginyo6859 Год назад +2

    Mmh part please 😊

  • @mbairemwangi6669
    @mbairemwangi6669 Год назад +2

    Haiya and the way you guys looked in love

    • @NjeriLydia
      @NjeriLydia Год назад +1

      Huyu Dem is so familiar back in ungwaro aki

    • @annmaina4343
      @annmaina4343 Год назад +2

      ​@@NjeriLydiayes she hapo kwa ng'ang'a she is a very hardworking gal

  • @janetkahuhu2508
    @janetkahuhu2508 Год назад

    Bring the part 2

  • @sarahwangari8461
    @sarahwangari8461 Год назад +13

    This is what happens when a woman takes the role of a man in a relationship or marriage. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Baby girl you are the price. Unajenga hadi nyumba na unapea bwana hadi fare ya kwenda job. waaaa. Can never be me. You took a role of being the head instead of the neck. Wanawake tujipende please🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mada658
    @mada658 Год назад +1

    This man sounds mentally deranged.the girl is enterprising and was taking risks by staying with him.

  • @janetnyokabi6540
    @janetnyokabi6540 Год назад +2

    waiting part 2

  • @teresiakimani8353
    @teresiakimani8353 Год назад

    Waiting for part 2

  • @veronicagituma8892
    @veronicagituma8892 Год назад +2

    I feel bad ukimwita baba

  • @marywangari2124
    @marywangari2124 Год назад +3

    Penninah you look beautiful God’s Grace has kept u good. U are a strong woman.

    • @babieakawanga9127
      @babieakawanga9127 Год назад +2

      I think someone was poisoning guys mind,either best friend or family member who didn't like her progress

    • @jacagroup4142
      @jacagroup4142 Год назад

      True 😢some people are very jealous people who a very close to you are one to finish they also went ahead and killed him so as to pin his death to her😮people are evil.
      Remember those that don’t know you have nothing against you!!!! Only those who are near you are quick to finish you.

  • @jomokaratu
    @jomokaratu Год назад +4

    Kagoni mûndû agûteme hatarî ûtarî ûndû wîkîte no mûtetere?

  • @amanibasalim4698
    @amanibasalim4698 7 месяцев назад

    Sorry

  • @carolmbugua7886
    @carolmbugua7886 Год назад

    Aa baba nake

  • @Shiku355
    @Shiku355 Год назад +2

    Am so annoyed every time she says Baba

  • @lucywambui1516
    @lucywambui1516 Год назад +3

    Baba.... Your father Cannot birth you and marry you...... Ptho

  • @shiromwangi6951
    @shiromwangi6951 Год назад +1

    Stop it with the " baba " word 🙄

  • @maggiesonnie1027
    @maggiesonnie1027 Год назад +1

    Part 2 faster faster kagoni

  • @joycemuthoni-tx8hb
    @joycemuthoni-tx8hb Год назад +3

    Ate babaa,

  • @janewamaitha3407
    @janewamaitha3407 Год назад +1

    Baba un this case is useless....

  • @puritygakii5163
    @puritygakii5163 7 месяцев назад +1

    Someone cuts you with a machete and you still want him back in your life?anyway i don't want to judge but nii reke nemwo.

  • @robinwambui1589
    @robinwambui1589 Год назад +1

    That family has a problem aki

  • @FransiscahMuindi
    @FransiscahMuindi Год назад

    Eish uncle too wanted to kill himself yawa

  • @isaackibe954
    @isaackibe954 Год назад +2

    don't judge by just listening to one side.. unless i hear the man's side can't point a finger 🤞