I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing. May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end. When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
Monicah the deborah of our generation keep shinning for the love,telling my story without tears?what shall i render to Jevoha who heal the broken hearts,to the broken heart there is God in heaven take you heart there am a witness i have tasted him for sure he is good.
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing.
May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again
@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up
Ooioooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit
This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢
Married but lonely 😭😭
Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤
What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
Thanks Monica. You Educate many.
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag
A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏
Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real
I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.
Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.
I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids
Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘
Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed
@kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa
@beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first...
God wipes our tears..
God give us unconditionally love .
Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.
Direct her😢@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia
She is so beautiful 😍 💖
A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain
Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too
Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
@@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages
I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.
You will be loved again
20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again
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Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it
Me too. I don't regret though
Monica you look alike with your guest ❤
Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤
Maturity of another level
Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel
Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end.
When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
Sure
Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.
@@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!
Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax
Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius
Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢
Na agathii gutuika muhunjia
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
I agree. Many of them don't love their kids
Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority
@@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.
Story of my life.
One day God will speak loud.
After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.
Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us
@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU
Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊
But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.
May God give you a good husband...what do people want
You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.
Is kagoni expecting. Congratulations
😂
Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady
Thanks
Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....
Divorce is painful 😢
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
Depression
My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that
I understand this lady very well, trust the process
Araria ena ûhoreru mûingî wega❤❤❤. Monica nîwaheo ihûa💐💐💐 rîthaka mûno hakuhî nduîke emotional handû haku😊😊💐💐❤️❤️
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult
Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢
Wisdom 🎉🎉
Monicah the deborah of our generation keep shinning for the love,telling my story without tears?what shall i render to Jevoha who heal the broken hearts,to the broken heart there is God in heaven take you heart there am a witness i have tasted him for sure he is good.
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.
Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.
Kuja useme your side.
Are you the accused ama?
😂😂 thinking of the same @@janewamaitha3407
Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid
Cool woman and full of humour....❤
Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...
Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆
Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
Njeri kirema from Germany ❤
This lady she so mature
Where is mizzipah I need to visit?
There is one at Lakeview Estate, Naivasha. Near, Mungai heights
@paulinemwangi7560 from Nairobi nashuka?
I know her from naivasha alikua anatupea job ya kuosha manguo kwake
I believe she is familiar too from Naivasha
A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊
Uhiki we Murio 😅
Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!
Yes pain hufanya mtu aamue kukaa ivo
My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.
Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,
Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!
Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing
Soree… hira whuot😮
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤
I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢
Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga
The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮
Waiting 😊
That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens
The intetviewers rhetorics are boring! Follow the story...
I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu
She's my friend aki
Kagoni witu uhana tatukugagatia curu natucahi very soon❤🎉
😂me too nimeona hivyo
😂 even me nimeona hivyo
Me too nimeona hivo
I HAVE SEEN THE SAME. UJI LOADING
My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢
three is a crowd.. divorce is murder..... there is no fury like a woman scorned.....
congratulations kangoni
Life is spiritual……
I decided to never make a decision based on one side of the story. Women lie. I wish you bring the man.
Is it really that bad to be married as a second wife plz msinitusi just asking
Nawe kagoni niracokera muno ati nduranyita aai
Analeta confusion na flow ya story juu ya kukatakata....
Wow wow good woman
Uyu mutumia niakona Ngai 🎉🎉🎉
Vyenye niliona marriage ya wazazi ikisumbua na yangu vyenye ilinipiga kitu surely marriage is a scam 🤔🤫
Doing right or wrong its not coz of being a pastor,born again or not..its an individual choice
Kagoni maundu nii uthodekete biu riu,maitu niaguciarwo
Tuletee connie muuru pls
Not with a narcissist 😢eti single hood isn't good nooo
Since niache my first marriage 😢😢naogopa marriage
Me too naogopa frm tuachane na my ex 🤔