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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2024

Комментарии • 238

  • @winfredkamene5821
    @winfredkamene5821 2 месяца назад +58

    I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing.
    May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.

    • @elsiekendi9621
      @elsiekendi9621 2 месяца назад +4

      Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 2 месяца назад

      ​@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up

    • @marthanjoki2285
      @marthanjoki2285 2 месяца назад +1

      Ooioooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

    • @mamanzee3734
      @mamanzee3734 2 месяца назад

      I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit

  • @irenekinyanjui4319
    @irenekinyanjui4319 2 месяца назад +17

    Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤

    • @lucymwangi2663
      @lucymwangi2663 Месяц назад +1

      What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?

  • @marywanjiru4106
    @marywanjiru4106 Месяц назад +2

    This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏

  • @ForeverDee9939
    @ForeverDee9939 2 месяца назад +21

    She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue

  • @MariahNjoroge-v4i
    @MariahNjoroge-v4i Месяц назад +9

    Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢

  • @vgeegodseed1720
    @vgeegodseed1720 2 месяца назад +4

    A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏

  • @kweliyake5212
    @kweliyake5212 2 месяца назад +17

    I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.

  • @Violet3734
    @Violet3734 2 месяца назад +41

    Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 2 месяца назад

      They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag

    • @KikiKikih-g9l
      @KikiKikih-g9l Месяц назад +1

      Analilia nini😂😂huyo arudi tu kwenye alitoka

    • @dorcaskarago2876
      @dorcaskarago2876 Месяц назад +1

      Karma aiwezi acha mtu

    • @Violet3734
      @Violet3734 Месяц назад

      @dorcaskarago2876 I wish I could talk to women who've wrongly been put through hell to relax and know karma is real

  • @SusaMukethi
    @SusaMukethi Месяц назад +3

    She is so beautiful 😍 💖

  • @eddahmwangi6689
    @eddahmwangi6689 2 месяца назад +2

    Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.

  • @annieannie9444
    @annieannie9444 Месяц назад +1

    It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful

  • @lucynjagi5988
    @lucynjagi5988 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.

  • @margaretkairu6494
    @margaretkairu6494 2 месяца назад +2

    Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.

  • @CharitymwangiMwangi-u8q
    @CharitymwangiMwangi-u8q 2 месяца назад +3

    Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏

  • @marymumbibaiya8787
    @marymumbibaiya8787 2 месяца назад +2

    Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.

  • @Elijah-vz4sp
    @Elijah-vz4sp 2 месяца назад +2

    Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤

  • @Shii1990
    @Shii1990 2 месяца назад +5

    I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!

  • @maishafrance96
    @maishafrance96 Месяц назад

    Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real

  • @terrymichael2541
    @terrymichael2541 2 месяца назад +6

    Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife

    • @janewaithera8835
      @janewaithera8835 2 месяца назад +2

      There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices

  • @lucymaina1555
    @lucymaina1555 Месяц назад

    Thanks Monica. You Educate many.

  • @Gracethuopharis
    @Gracethuopharis 2 месяца назад +2

    Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘

  • @rachaelkim843
    @rachaelkim843 2 месяца назад +2

    I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book

  • @KikiKikih-g9l
    @KikiKikih-g9l Месяц назад +1

    There’s always a saying chini ya maji ukiona mother in law ni mzuri zaidi jua tu anamjua kijana wake ….😅

  • @anointedhandmaiden5261
    @anointedhandmaiden5261 Месяц назад +1

    A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain

  • @elizabethmulli3717
    @elizabethmulli3717 2 месяца назад

    Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.

  • @CAROLINEWANGUI-q2q
    @CAROLINEWANGUI-q2q 2 месяца назад +2

    Monica you look alike with your guest ❤

  • @Maryjohnson-zq6yb
    @Maryjohnson-zq6yb Месяц назад

    I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids

  • @teresianjeri-k7l
    @teresianjeri-k7l 2 месяца назад +1

    Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢

  • @RuthKamau-u3x
    @RuthKamau-u3x 2 месяца назад +1

    the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia

  • @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux
    @BenjaminWaithaka-pm5ux 2 месяца назад +2

    Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too

  • @beatricemuthoni2678
    @beatricemuthoni2678 2 месяца назад +37

    Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed

    • @trizaWairi-xt1yj
      @trizaWairi-xt1yj 2 месяца назад +3

      @kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa

    • @alekonya1116
      @alekonya1116 2 месяца назад +2

      @beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first...
      God wipes our tears..
      God give us unconditionally love .

    • @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
      @abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj 2 месяца назад

      Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.

    • @catherinewanja4655
      @catherinewanja4655 2 месяца назад

      Direct her😢​@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 2 месяца назад

      Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video

  • @RoseWangoi-k5s
    @RoseWangoi-k5s 2 месяца назад +2

    Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel

  • @beatricewairimu8882
    @beatricewairimu8882 2 месяца назад +1

    Maturity of another level

  • @bettiejoy-mtotowamama
    @bettiejoy-mtotowamama 2 месяца назад +1

    Araria ena ûhoreru mûingî wega❤❤❤. Monica nîwaheo ihûa💐💐💐 rîthaka mûno hakuhî nduîke emotional handû haku😊😊💐💐❤️❤️

  • @BlessedSophia-h7d
    @BlessedSophia-h7d 2 месяца назад +1

    Story of my life.
    One day God will speak loud.

  • @sarahnemi4593
    @sarahnemi4593 2 месяца назад +5

    Divorce is painful 😢

  • @maggienjenga8617
    @maggienjenga8617 2 месяца назад +7

    True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.

  • @JaneWanjiru-ey1kc
    @JaneWanjiru-ey1kc 2 месяца назад +42

    I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.

    • @Dhemaxxfamily
      @Dhemaxxfamily 2 месяца назад +9

      You will be loved again

    • @loco871
      @loco871 2 месяца назад +2

      20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again

    • @johngichango
      @johngichango 2 месяца назад +1

      )/

    • @janegithumu8906
      @janegithumu8906 2 месяца назад

      Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it

    • @swaglive4856
      @swaglive4856 2 месяца назад

      Me too. I don't regret though

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 2 месяца назад +2

    Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊

  • @b.3940
    @b.3940 2 месяца назад +6

    After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.

    • @alicekagochi7869
      @alicekagochi7869 2 месяца назад +1

      Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us

    • @tabithangugi-g6m
      @tabithangugi-g6m 2 месяца назад

      ​@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU

  • @Nancy.Nyambura
    @Nancy.Nyambura 2 месяца назад

    Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.

  • @MarthaMukuha
    @MarthaMukuha 2 месяца назад +5

    But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.

  • @elizabethwangui2008
    @elizabethwangui2008 2 месяца назад +7

    Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius

  • @angelawangui5184
    @angelawangui5184 2 месяца назад +1

    You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.

  • @RufinaAbisai
    @RufinaAbisai 2 месяца назад

    Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤

  • @janemuthoni584
    @janemuthoni584 2 месяца назад +5

    Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….

    • @ngonyoesther
      @ngonyoesther Месяц назад

      @@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages

  • @losimetoni2537
    @losimetoni2537 2 месяца назад

    Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏

  • @warigiapurity8252
    @warigiapurity8252 2 месяца назад +18

    Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end.
    When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.

    • @shironjuguna5853
      @shironjuguna5853 2 месяца назад

      I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!

    • @LucyWangui-h2o
      @LucyWangui-h2o 2 месяца назад

      Sure

    • @reginamumbi4418
      @reginamumbi4418 2 месяца назад

      Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.

    • @petermuhoro1510
      @petermuhoro1510 2 месяца назад

      @@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 2 месяца назад

      Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax

  • @winniekamau2752
    @winniekamau2752 2 месяца назад +1

    May God give you a good husband...what do people want

  • @mercynjeri7086
    @mercynjeri7086 Месяц назад

    Wisdom 🎉🎉

  • @ngonyoesther
    @ngonyoesther Месяц назад

    Cool woman and full of humour....❤

  • @shirowkihara6577
    @shirowkihara6577 2 месяца назад

    Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢

  • @kavetim1895
    @kavetim1895 2 месяца назад

    Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!

  • @JaneWagaki-p1o
    @JaneWagaki-p1o 2 месяца назад

    Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana

  • @veronicadeker4589
    @veronicadeker4589 2 месяца назад

    I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢

  • @marygathoni8014
    @marygathoni8014 2 месяца назад +3

    Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆

  • @veronicadeker4589
    @veronicadeker4589 2 месяца назад

    My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that

  • @lucy-vz5ur
    @lucy-vz5ur 2 месяца назад

    I understand this lady very well, trust the process

  • @nectarblue
    @nectarblue 2 месяца назад +4

    If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.

    • @lucymwangi2663
      @lucymwangi2663 Месяц назад +1

      I agree. Many of them don't love their kids

    • @carolinekokengo5331
      @carolinekokengo5331 Месяц назад

      Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority

    • @christinewachira9010
      @christinewachira9010 Месяц назад

      @@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.

  • @sussymuthonimauthia7230
    @sussymuthonimauthia7230 2 месяца назад +2

    Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady
    Thanks

  • @elizabethk8500
    @elizabethk8500 Месяц назад +1

    Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through

  • @arinyunjuguna7542
    @arinyunjuguna7542 2 месяца назад +2

    😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult

  • @MaggyNganga-hb7ol
    @MaggyNganga-hb7ol 2 месяца назад +1

    My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.

  • @lizzymjombas8538
    @lizzymjombas8538 2 месяца назад +1

    Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...

  • @ElizabethNjau-k7v
    @ElizabethNjau-k7v 2 месяца назад

    I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu

  • @EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS5976
    @EMMANUEL-GODWITHUS5976 2 месяца назад +7

    IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.

    • @Eunice-gl9fh
      @Eunice-gl9fh 2 месяца назад +11

      Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.

    • @pearlynina7597
      @pearlynina7597 2 месяца назад +1

      Kuja useme your side.

    • @janewamaitha3407
      @janewamaitha3407 2 месяца назад

      Are you the accused ama?

    • @IshalliveN
      @IshalliveN 2 месяца назад

      😂😂 thinking of the same ​@@janewamaitha3407

    • @marywangari2555
      @marywangari2555 Месяц назад +1

      Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid

  • @FAITHWANGARI-vp5tn
    @FAITHWANGARI-vp5tn 2 месяца назад

    This lady she so mature

  • @carolineberger8889
    @carolineberger8889 2 месяца назад

    Njeri kirema from Germany ❤

  • @marykamau4214
    @marykamau4214 2 месяца назад

    I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤

  • @paulinewaruguru442
    @paulinewaruguru442 2 месяца назад +4

    Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing

    • @rose_wangari
      @rose_wangari 2 месяца назад

      Soree… hira whuot😮

    • @missk8647
      @missk8647 2 месяца назад

      Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.

  • @teslamumo1396
    @teslamumo1396 2 месяца назад

    Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day

  • @dorismakena5467
    @dorismakena5467 Месяц назад

    Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....

  • @swaglive4856
    @swaglive4856 2 месяца назад

    Njaa ni kuuru okorwo wekite uhiki. 😂😂😂 niangenia

  • @rechomunini2730
    @rechomunini2730 Месяц назад

    My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 2 месяца назад +4

    A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊
    Uhiki we Murio 😅

  • @Sallyk-ix7mq
    @Sallyk-ix7mq 24 дня назад

    Aty single life ain't good?mmh i prefer to be single than kua na kondoo hainisaidii

  • @sarahwanjiku9120
    @sarahwanjiku9120 13 дней назад

    We need to hear the other side of the story what happened to huyu boychild alishindwa to swallow his pride or what🤔🤔

  • @njoguwanjeri
    @njoguwanjeri 2 месяца назад

    Uyu mutumia niakona Ngai 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Magywanaks
    @Magywanaks 2 месяца назад

    congratulations kangoni

  • @cateataya1739
    @cateataya1739 2 месяца назад

    Kagoni amesema mucene haitaki uvivu 😂.... atupe story vizuri..... sad though

  • @janekariuki5241
    @janekariuki5241 2 месяца назад

    Wow wow good woman

  • @elizabethk8500
    @elizabethk8500 Месяц назад

    Life is spiritual……

  • @miriamwanjiru9071
    @miriamwanjiru9071 Месяц назад

    Since niache my first marriage 😢😢naogopa marriage

    • @Gatsiga
      @Gatsiga Месяц назад

      Me too naogopa frm tuachane na my ex 🤔

  • @JudyMuluki
    @JudyMuluki 2 месяца назад +1

    I know her from naivasha alikua anatupea job ya kuosha manguo kwake

  • @doctordeeM
    @doctordeeM Месяц назад

    The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮

  • @janetwakio6074
    @janetwakio6074 2 месяца назад +1

    Waiting 😊

  • @annmwariri3059
    @annmwariri3059 2 месяца назад

    Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!

  • @juliusmuhia1353
    @juliusmuhia1353 2 месяца назад

    That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens

  • @madamboss8758
    @madamboss8758 2 месяца назад +6

    Kagoni witu uhana tatukugagatia curu natucahi very soon❤🎉

  • @MonicNdinda
    @MonicNdinda 2 месяца назад

    Woooi ngai hee hinya wakwohera uria wahikitie tondu weeeh 8yrs 😢

  • @marygitau3869
    @marygitau3869 2 месяца назад

    Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,

    • @reginanjuguna3229
      @reginanjuguna3229 2 месяца назад

      Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!

  • @MaryGitundu-x8h
    @MaryGitundu-x8h 28 дней назад

    Aki huyu mama ananichanganya anasema sighle mama simzuri alafu anasema usikae Kwa mwanaume alafu akuue sasa ni nini mzuri.?

  • @hannahwakonyo414
    @hannahwakonyo414 2 месяца назад

    Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga

  • @ceciliawairimu8087
    @ceciliawairimu8087 Месяц назад

    She's my friend aki

  • @danielmurage4926
    @danielmurage4926 2 месяца назад

    three is a crowd.. divorce is murder..... there is no fury like a woman scorned.....

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 2 месяца назад

    Not with a narcissist 😢eti single hood isn't good nooo

  • @Gatsiga
    @Gatsiga Месяц назад

    Vyenye niliona marriage ya wazazi ikisumbua na yangu vyenye ilinipiga kitu surely marriage is a scam 🤔🤫

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 2 месяца назад +2

    3.8 AMG is expensive 😮

  • @wamaithakamau8175
    @wamaithakamau8175 2 месяца назад +1

    Is it really that bad to be married as a second wife plz msinitusi just asking

  • @salomenewsome4188
    @salomenewsome4188 Месяц назад

    Mwanamke huwa kwa marriage alone