I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing. May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end. When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
I relate 💯%. Divorce is painful. Really painful. However Stella, don't give up on love coz of the experience u had. I went through the same pain. Infact mine was even more painful coz I lost so much. I had taken loans for him, I had invested at my in-laws all my life- and he left with everything. I took time to heal after divorce and later gave love another chance n I tell you, there are good men out here. I'm loved and loved right. Life is beautiful and love is a beautiful thing.
May God restore your love life and give u a good man who'll love you and your boys. Shalom.
Tafuta Monica utupee hio Ka story kwa loved again
@@elsiekendi9621yes I agree tu atu encourage us who have given up
Ooioooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
I have gone through alot for seven years,I have no job no income nothing,but am planning for an exit!but I have to quit
Our very own Stella....you were my role model kwa church nikigrow...'part of your bridal team 'she's a vibe❤❤
What kind of a preacher is he when he can't take care of his children? Some people have turned church into something else. Anahubiri nini?
This is so great bless you,,nitakutafuta mamaa 🙏
She’s very calm and intelligent. She’s a good marriage counselor and the best part of all she’s a believer. Come sunshine come rain, Yes! Life has to continue
Monic si uanze kipindi cha married but single. Ill be the first aki tondu ma reke ngwire😢😢
Married but lonely 😭😭
😂😂😂😂gutiri citathekagwo ma
Married but single is too much out here....
A lady full of wisdom knowledge and courage.....in every situation love yourself first seek good relationship with God 🙏
I pray that you find a good man who will love you and the boys UNCONDITIONALLY.
Mine left me with a 6 year old and the other in the tummy 17 years ago. It broke me, but i healed. I've been to hell and back now my kids have grown and the guy comes to us crying, full of regrets. Kids can't stand him and ive no feelings for him. Mtu abebe mzigo wake. Maisha imemramba, tena vibaya😢
They come back after huko kwingine kume haribika wewe ndio unarudiwa umuoshe tena umushughulikie I saw my father come back with a paper bag
Analilia nini😂😂huyo arudi tu kwenye alitoka
Karma aiwezi acha mtu
@dorcaskarago2876 I wish I could talk to women who've wrongly been put through hell to relax and know karma is real
She is so beautiful 😍 💖
Very wise lady and her words are really encouraging and heart healing,may God continue to give her peace to be able to provide for her kids.
It has been seven yrs of pain for me , but i choose to stay becox that's what i felt best. Early this yr i choose to forgive and begin my healing journey, it was the best thing to do. I feel so fresh in body and soul....God is faithful
Thank you Monicah for bringing such inspiring stories. I love this show so much and one time I will see myself there telling people it is very possible with God. I have been single for 30 years now and have seen the Lord doing wonders to me and my children/family.
Healing comes frm within. Monica your face is glowing.
Wow i hv learned something about forgiveness God bless u so much monicah🙏🙏
Pole Stella, I fully agree with you after undergoing the same many years ago. It is a terrible experience. But forgiveness and letting go is the key. Surely once you forgive, God becomes the best friend. You will go far.
Maketheke😂😂😂 Nima niguo moigaga ATI ciana ti ciao Stella ndkamake I was married for 28yrs he did the same but there is a God of a good chance alinipati a sweetheart a man who values a woman with all due respect ❤
I totally relate. Marriage is a total scam!
Peace is everything and Stella found peace through forgiveness. Thank you Monica for being real
Huwa sio normal this woman ndio achukuwe ur hubby n ur hubby ajisahau ,akusahau na asahau watoi juju huwa jime work n then zinaisha nguvu Wana twagana😂😂God have mercy on Goat wife
There is no juju its a choice.. Life is all about choices
Thanks Monica. You Educate many.
Ooh I know stella she is a wonderful person.stella I understand mwana wiitu nikurituhaga no God is alwaiys close the broken hearted😘
I have listened to this story and its painful to get divorced...........Madam Stella may the Lord comfort yu and restore your life fully...........Monica where can I get the Hagar book .......I need to read this healing book
There’s always a saying chini ya maji ukiona mother in law ni mzuri zaidi jua tu anamjua kijana wake ….😅
A friend of mine divorced after 3oyrs .she was in great pain
Stella is a gem. She is beautiful in and out and she has a golden heart. That guy wast the looser. Her kikuyu vocabulary is exemplary. She did the right thing for herself and her Children. Sometimes staying in such marriages have a tendency of scaring the children for life. I wish she was my sister or friend.
Monica you look alike with your guest ❤
I know this lady Stella from magumu.may Jehova come through for you and your kids
Looking-good Monica... ....this story weeee.....feel the pain. Yaani mtu anakuacha with the kids,anaeda kulea za wenyewe,i fear marriage sometimes 😢😢😢
Na agathii gutuika muhunjia
the power of healing comes from within especially if u tired of kuvumilia
Let Go and let God,Its a lesson and an inspiration too
Kagoni onanii ndirenda guka kuu niguo hone ndiri mundu wa kwaria nake na rugano rwakwa ni ruritu muno am very stressed
@kagoni tuletee beatrice muthoni ahone maa
@beatricemuthoni2678 seek the kingdom of God first...
God wipes our tears..
God give us unconditionally love .
Beatrice..follow the protocol if you wanna share your story, here kwa comment section hutasaidika my dear.
Direct her😢@@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj
Contact Kagoni yeye hupeana number ya simu hapo mwisho ya video
Much love for u Monica ❤❤ learn alot from this channel
Maturity of another level
Araria ena ûhoreru mûingî wega❤❤❤. Monica nîwaheo ihûa💐💐💐 rîthaka mûno hakuhî nduîke emotional handû haku😊😊💐💐❤️❤️
Story of my life.
One day God will speak loud.
Divorce is painful 😢
True God heals and restores. I am a living testimony.
I could not believe after 20yrs we divorced. It was very painful but through prayers and accepting yourself am getting healed.
You will be loved again
20years too but God is Great getting back to my feet again
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Sending hugs🫂, mine ended after 15yrs...healing is a process,still working on it
Me too. I don't regret though
Monicah loving your consistency 🎉 , am learning a lot 😊
After 21 years of riding the marriage pain train, I stopped it and walked out. The best decision I have ever made.
Don't make me fear life tondu maah 😭😭 God have mercy on us
@@alicekagochi7869May God grant you according to the desires of your heart.May you receive the only n only God made for you.... SUITABLE For YOU
Monica our guest today is very insightful. More grace anapopambana.
But husbands wenye wako kwa leadership kwa church wako na kashida.
Monica, you look good. The castro oil is working good on you. The guest today is hirallius
You looking good Monica. Aging like fine wine.
Learnt lot especially about forgiveness. Going to put it in practice from today❤
Divorce is more painful, death you learn to accept and let go but in divorce you are in constant denial and in most cases there’s the back and forth games of both of you fighting/ interacting/ distracting… which actually turns out to very destructive and delays healing and progress….
@@janemuthoni584 divorce is painful than death...may God sustain marriages
Very wise woman with wise words thank you so much 🙏
Gikuyu men hardly ever look after the children when the marriage comes to an end.
When the mother brings up the children the men want to be recognized by the same children.
I agree ! I have never understood why the majority behave this way! Very sad...na mtoto akiwa mkubwa they want to be part of the story 😂😂😂😂wacha nisiseme kitu!
Sure
Nikuri maundu maingi mageragirwo na NGAI niakoragwo na gitumi nigetha aturute stella hingura aingi nigetha andu matige kwitha kana gwitwa.
@@warigiapurity8252 this statement is not accurate. I know of many kikuyu men who are exceptional single dads!
Ndio wapewe dowry na watoto wakipata kazi wakue wana itisha black tax
May God give you a good husband...what do people want
Wisdom 🎉🎉
Cool woman and full of humour....❤
Have given up on love,the psychological torture I went through with that narcissist is unexplainable, unforgettable experience 😢
Separation or divorce has a very bad impact on the kids! I hv walked that path n there is no bitter pill like that effect! I moved on n life became better. I don’t regret!
Very true life ya single mother ni ngumu haki sana am a single mother for 14 years now niguo stellah onanii niguo atumia manjiraga weehh ukaigwa stress maiita mana
I quit after 7yrs😢😢😢, was very sad morning when he wrote a message akasema nisikupate huko😢😢😢😢
Single life is not a joke aki ask me 🙆🙆
My friend Stella be strong mamaa, I can witness that
I understand this lady very well, trust the process
If he didn't want to be married why not just go. Why abuse her financially and then dump her. Anyway if truth be said Kikuyu Men hate kids. How do they lose themselves off completely and leave their kids behind without turning back? No other tribe or race does that in the world.
I agree. Many of them don't love their kids
Hata wakisii hawapendi watoto Mimi nikona mtoto bt Huwa hashuguliki ni wanawake tu ndio ameweka first priority
@@carolinekokengo5331 from experience it's like they are bewitched.
Hi Monica,, kindly share the contacts for the castor oil lady
Thanks
Good Question Kangoni,Mbara ya meciria ni kari, like a few weeks ago a lady aroire mukanda areita niundu wa mbara ya meciria, it’s the worst thing someone can go through
Depression
😢 no matter what ww have to gride to reach our final destination ,,,God heal our inner soul , strength us in all time of difficult
My marriage lasted for only 3 years, and was a church wedding.
Marriage is made of 2,a husband and a wife...the role of a husband in a marriage is crucial as well as of a wife...
I understand😢. Ndekite uhiki ngiikara 15 years,,I am single for ten years😢😢😢natihahuthu
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DRAW CONCLUSIONS FROM ONE SIDE OF THE STORY. UNTIL YOU HEAR FROM THE OTHER PARTNER.
Whatever the other side of a story may be,if there is infidelity,the case is done.
Kuja useme your side.
Are you the accused ama?
😂😂 thinking of the same @@janewamaitha3407
Enda umtafute atwambia, the truth bearer is bold but the guilty is always afraid
This lady she so mature
Njeri kirema from Germany ❤
I know this lady Stella waa the story I know nikienda your wedding aki❤
Strong of a woman forgiveness is the first stage of healing
Soree… hira whuot😮
Actually it is the last stage because before you forgive, you will face denial and other stages until you decide to let go. That's when you forgive and move on fully.
Jipe nguvu, God is on your sides, he will also be pay one day
Point of correction...uhiki waku wathukirio ni muthuriguo....
Njaa ni kuuru okorwo wekite uhiki. 😂😂😂 niangenia
My father did the same n I hate men to date💔😢
A good story teller at the same time feeling for her 😊
Uhiki we Murio 😅
Aty single life ain't good?mmh i prefer to be single than kua na kondoo hainisaidii
We need to hear the other side of the story what happened to huyu boychild alishindwa to swallow his pride or what🤔🤔
Uyu mutumia niakona Ngai 🎉🎉🎉
congratulations kangoni
Kagoni amesema mucene haitaki uvivu 😂.... atupe story vizuri..... sad though
Wow wow good woman
Life is spiritual……
Since niache my first marriage 😢😢naogopa marriage
Me too naogopa frm tuachane na my ex 🤔
I know her from naivasha alikua anatupea job ya kuosha manguo kwake
I believe she is familiar too from Naivasha
The story is nice but Kagoni keep interfering please let the guest talk 😮
Waiting 😊
Mm cjai olewa lkn ile heartbreak nlipata after kupata ball cjai heal adi waleo 11yrs ago. Matua mangi mundu datuaga ni kweda, peace is paramount!
Yes pain hufanya mtu aamue kukaa ivo
That's true ciana icokaga na thutha huwezi amini but sometimes women makes it happens
Kagoni witu uhana tatukugagatia curu natucahi very soon❤🎉
😂me too nimeona hivyo
😂 even me nimeona hivyo
Me too nimeona hivo
I HAVE SEEN THE SAME. UJI LOADING
Woooi ngai hee hinya wakwohera uria wahikitie tondu weeeh 8yrs 😢
Kagoni let's the lady talk ,, niuramuhingica muno,
Yes ni kama ako slow akili...maswali unnecessary !!
Aki huyu mama ananichanganya anasema sighle mama simzuri alafu anasema usikae Kwa mwanaume alafu akuue sasa ni nini mzuri.?
Very true ruo mundu aiguwaga
She's my friend aki
three is a crowd.. divorce is murder..... there is no fury like a woman scorned.....
Not with a narcissist 😢eti single hood isn't good nooo
Vyenye niliona marriage ya wazazi ikisumbua na yangu vyenye ilinipiga kitu surely marriage is a scam 🤔🤫
3.8 AMG is expensive 😮
Is it really that bad to be married as a second wife plz msinitusi just asking
Mwanamke huwa kwa marriage alone