Scared to Say "I Love You" | {THE AND} Emily & Bobby

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  • @TheSkinDeep
    @TheSkinDeep  7 лет назад +129

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    • @lovelyright6032
      @lovelyright6032 7 лет назад +2

      The Skin Deep as a empath i have always had it bad in love because i feel too deep and im also an old soul and at just turning 39 i shoot straight from the hip i see no reason and putting on a mask to be accepted. So in this daybin time where superficiality supersedes being etch im all alone. Im more than an emapth and I cherish love so much it hurts me mentally and physically because ppl dont understand LOVE actually has mental and physical healing abilities. I understand so much about life that others simply have no clue about. I would like for you to create a capsule about ppl like me. Can you email me if interested at novinaalfe0001@gmail.com. Thank you in advance. In other words i have a strange power where men can't be with me if they have a bad heart condition ill pull everything bad out of them and creep em out there all afraid of me. I've decided to give up.

    • @TheLusaso
      @TheLusaso 6 лет назад +1

      @The Skin Deep My wife and I are an interracial couple who are nothing but honest with each other. If you ever want some more people to answer questions we're down!

    • @veronicahamilton5513
      @veronicahamilton5513 6 лет назад

      Lovely Right ... I am an empath as well and I almost fell out of my chair when I read your comment about the heart condition. I have never heard of anyone experiencing this except for me. When I am connected to someone, I can feel everything, especially if it’s related to the heart. Physically and emotionally 😲

    • @sinthiyapremra7793
      @sinthiyapremra7793 6 лет назад

      Come out of the window! It's a teenage club

    • @karinaguimaraes710
      @karinaguimaraes710 6 лет назад +1

      i love this channel! i wish u would international

  • @Silver-Spring
    @Silver-Spring 8 лет назад +4992

    You know how many marriages we could save if every couple did this.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  8 лет назад +103

      Wow! What a comment! For now, anyone who wants to can purchase our Card Game. :) bit.ly/TheAndCG

    • @biancaalex1670
      @biancaalex1670 8 лет назад +2

      Jake From State Farm so true

    • @whoknows-p6b
      @whoknows-p6b 7 лет назад +46

      Jake From State Farm SERIOUSLY. I wish my fiancee and i could do this haha but i'd probably end up throwing up from all of the brutal honesty hahahaha

    • @jonaswolterstorff3460
      @jonaswolterstorff3460 7 лет назад +6

      +2508488 what prevents you from doing it? Go do it! They have the "cards" free on the website www.theand.us :)

    • @kiingkay
      @kiingkay 7 лет назад +4

      Jake From State Farm strongly agree. I lost my girl of 2 years because of my little social media problem.. all I wanted was forgiveness and one more chance.

  • @Diiivajen5stardiiiva
    @Diiivajen5stardiiiva 9 лет назад +4815

    She's thinking about forever, He's not. He's not a bad person for that. One person always falls a little faster, harder in relationships. My heart breaks for her though, he can't see past 9pm, while she probably already have the name for their kids...

    • @TheMarijaSunshine
      @TheMarijaSunshine 9 лет назад +202

      I don't think this was the case. I think he said next for the evening not the relationship because it was clear that both of them are unsure how the future will plan out. I believe they will talk it out when time comes.

    • @madelinemcconico4489
      @madelinemcconico4489 8 лет назад +4

      I

    • @coppersulphate002
      @coppersulphate002 8 лет назад +3

      +Sasha Kai What you mean by he can't see past 9pm? Can you explain?

    • @msmiami212
      @msmiami212 8 лет назад +43

      +Glutamate Sulphate Watch 6:00 . The way he answers/avoids the question is very telling.

    • @giavivaglam6883
      @giavivaglam6883 8 лет назад +2

      +Mimi. Yea I definitely picked up on that too

  • @EvaVlaar
    @EvaVlaar 9 лет назад +3729

    "I'm really scared that it's gonna suck really bad... for you.'' You can tell she's trying to stay calm, but oh boy that must've hurt her... :(

    • @AnnieFuturepilot
      @AnnieFuturepilot 9 лет назад +234

      +Eva V and also when he said "i really care for you" ... thats gotta suck for her.

    • @EvaVlaar
      @EvaVlaar 9 лет назад +421

      +Annie thepilot That killed me too! He says "I care about you deeply" whilst if she wasn't so scared she'd obviously shout it from the roof. He isn't a bad guy, but she clearly is on a different page in the relationship. I just hope she remembers that she deserves to be loved by someone who'd go to the ends of the world for her. Like she'd do for him.

    • @katie4623
      @katie4623 9 лет назад +214

      Yeah I get the sense he's not as committed to this as she is.

    • @purelaine2926
      @purelaine2926 9 лет назад +4

      +Eva V i have try to understand what is was all about, can you light my lantern ?

    • @shairajavier4733
      @shairajavier4733 9 лет назад +102

      +Vince Joncas She's in love with him while he is not yet in that same area, and so when she asked what weakness she has in the relationship he said it's that when they break up (for whatever reason like he is moving away or she is going to a far school) that it would "suck for really bad" for her because she is so invested in the relationship while he is not yet.

  • @HEIRLESSful
    @HEIRLESSful 9 лет назад +807

    I think he really cares about her deeply. He obviously doesn't want to hurt her. He even started tearing up.

    • @bethgrogan1853
      @bethgrogan1853 6 лет назад +66

      I agree. He started tearing up when he talked about hurting her. I think he knows he's going to hurt hurt her, because their plans aren't the same, but he does love her. She was probably right when she told him that when he finds something good, he isn't as likely to hold on to it. That was really deep.

    • @QB42477
      @QB42477 6 лет назад +3

      I saw that

    • @starlight1st804
      @starlight1st804 5 лет назад +6

      Exactly..no guy tears down so easily unless he really cares and loves the relationship.

    • @user-nq6um4bs5y
      @user-nq6um4bs5y 4 года назад +7

      StarLight1st lol plenty of men tear down so easily and 24/7 😂😂

    • @PersianKitKat
      @PersianKitKat Год назад

      He teared up because he already knows that he is going to hurt her

  • @frozenmocha9911
    @frozenmocha9911 8 лет назад +1544

    People overreacting because he's not on the same level with her emotionally. I respect the fact that he's honest enough to tell her. He clearly chocked up when he said he's scared it's gonna suck for her because he'd be hurting her if it ended. He also said that he thinks about 'it'. I just think they're trying to figure out whatever they have because a long distance relationship isn't just something you play around with. I've been in her shoes; and I respect him even more for not lying to her and toying around with her feelings.

    • @charnellej.3572
      @charnellej.3572 8 лет назад +45

      "It's gunna suck for you" dang ... I feel like they are enjoying the moments they have but they both acknowledge that it'll end 😕 That really hurts

    • @js7924
      @js7924 5 лет назад +7

      Honesty is the hardest! I too respect him for not just trying to reciprocate her feelings without being true to himself first. Good for him...they’re so young. It’s healthy to let go and if it’s real they’ll be back for more for sure!

    • @user-up7dv7qt9z
      @user-up7dv7qt9z 2 года назад +1

      When he said it’s going to suck for her… I feel like that implies he would get over it easily and he doesn’t care about her as much. That hurts. I think I’d be gone at that point. That would break my heart.

  • @CallMeMs.T
    @CallMeMs.T 8 лет назад +1717

    IM SWEATING!!!! JUST SAY IT WOMAN!! TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM!! MY HEART CAN'T TAKE IT!!!

    • @chempanda6388
      @chempanda6388 8 лет назад +49

      Taylor Sanders people get nervous, stuck in their head and try to rationale their feelings. when you're this anxious, words fumble.
      its worst when you get the feeling they aren't as serious as you.

    • @asmitachatterjee5146
      @asmitachatterjee5146 7 лет назад +2

      Same!!!! Gawd the tension!!!

    • @miralabualjadail4206
      @miralabualjadail4206 7 лет назад +29

      Knowing what he feels back I don't think she should have said it.

    • @miralabualjadail4206
      @miralabualjadail4206 7 лет назад +39

      They both already know that she is more in love than he is. It''s not a good move trust me.

    • @JP-mb3nx
      @JP-mb3nx 7 лет назад +35

      The woman should NEVER say those 3 words first.....ever.

  • @LeapBeforeLooking
    @LeapBeforeLooking 9 лет назад +1488

    I wish I could have the opportunity to be this honest with the people in my life.

    • @natashafigueroa9198
      @natashafigueroa9198 9 лет назад +26

      +Kirsten Leigh C - you can! just begin by taking baby steps

    • @mindo61600
      @mindo61600 8 лет назад +4

      +Kirsten Leigh C You can,you just dont have a camera there,if you feel more comfortable like that,set your phone up and record it,same thing.But its soooo hard!

    • @joshuagascoyne1271
      @joshuagascoyne1271 7 лет назад +15

      Kirsten Leigh C Does the honest police arrest you every time you be honest? Wtf do you mean you don't have the opportunity?

    • @jamieian
      @jamieian 6 лет назад +2

      Joshua Gascoyne this is my favourite comment on youtube.

    • @KelvinWKiger
      @KelvinWKiger 5 лет назад +1

      so be it

  • @dreamersjournal
    @dreamersjournal 9 лет назад +2648

    This video gives me sweaty palms it makes me so friggin nervous. I feel like I'm there in the room

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  9 лет назад +17

      +L.K. Britton wow thank you! Love to heart his.

    • @angelicaramirez7696
      @angelicaramirez7696 8 лет назад +1

      +The Skin Deep I want to be on an episode!!

    • @ferdybichler1129
      @ferdybichler1129 8 лет назад +50

      mom spagetti

    • @Emma-zv1jr
      @Emma-zv1jr 7 лет назад +7

      +Ferdy Bichler LMAO, He's nervous, but on the surface he looks calm and ready, to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down... Yeah, I could litterally go on until the end of the song, LOL.

    • @MyLadyMo
      @MyLadyMo 7 лет назад +1

      L.K. Britton Me too..I just paused it at 1:16 because I don't have time to stress now..lol

  • @mariyaa111
    @mariyaa111 8 лет назад +394

    She is the girl that he'll pass up or break her heart, and never find anyone who cones close to what she was to him!

    • @nonyafourthreetwoonezero7350
      @nonyafourthreetwoonezero7350 8 лет назад +18

      what makes you say that, she seems like she will be fine. Shes way more attractive then him, so she will be ok

    • @jonathanxavier2026
      @jonathanxavier2026 4 года назад +2

      @Mariyaa - Nope. People always have this idea that you can never find someone as good as the person you messed up with, which is just nonsense. If he decides to end things with her that will be for his own good.

    • @Rei-fm9yw
      @Rei-fm9yw 4 года назад

      I broke up with my girlfriend. I think I can find someone better but I don’t think I will feel as deeply as I felt for my ex. Will see

    • @aakashbhardwaj476
      @aakashbhardwaj476 3 года назад

      I know. Been there

  • @AllieAndPeach
    @AllieAndPeach 8 лет назад +226

    I recognize myself in emily so much...in every damn relationship with guy I've ever had...I just wanted to hug her

  • @KELLYKH
    @KELLYKH 6 лет назад +23

    being in a relationship with someone you love so much, but knowing it won't last is one of the most heartbreaking feelings ever.

  • @vinh-thuynguyen2608
    @vinh-thuynguyen2608 8 лет назад +1168

    He's not the bad guy here, it's only been two months.

    • @LTforMe
      @LTforMe 8 лет назад +132

      I agree, I'd personally be shocked if someone told me they loved me after two months of being in a relationship 😁🙃

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 8 лет назад +23

      LuliShikorina but they sleep together?

    • @LTforMe
      @LTforMe 8 лет назад +63

      +Sparks I think a lot of people can have sex without being fully attached emotionally to their partner

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 8 лет назад +53

      LuliShikorina interesting.bet am too old fashioned for that.and by the way you also said that you would be shocked if sb told you they loved you after two months of being in relationship.so ,how can a relationship start without confessing your love for each other?what is a relationship?

    • @soda1850
      @soda1850 6 лет назад +39

      I think people confuse a relationship with dating. 2 months is early if you've only dated for 2 months without viewing it as a relationship yet but if you've dated lots and then say that you're in a relationship and exclusive now then it's not so weird to say you love your partner two months into that.

  • @GinaM3
    @GinaM3 9 лет назад +323

    I just love the rawness and intimacy that is found in this series. For me, it feels like the couples really open up and embrace the fact that they have an opportunity to express themselves and the idea of the cameras kind of fall to the side. I have yet to find such an imitate and interesting series elsewhere, please continue with these!

  • @mmicheale
    @mmicheale 8 лет назад +527

    These videos I feel are like a beautiful art. I don't exactly know how to explain it but I love watching just like raw emotion, I think that's really beautiful. You guys are truly great, truly.

  • @dingsysaba
    @dingsysaba 9 лет назад +290

    Poor girl, I could see the pain in her eyes and disappointment when she realised he didn't feel the same. I've been in her position, and it sucks. He cares about her but not enough to want to be with her forever. So sad. X

    • @Crystalbomb321
      @Crystalbomb321 6 лет назад +9

      It's been two months. Chill.

    • @CharleyChioma
      @CharleyChioma 6 лет назад +6

      ctguitarguy I disagree. I always feel like women often fall harder in dating

    • @kot07111
      @kot07111 6 лет назад +5

      @ctguitarguy By your comment I can tell you're single

    • @SofySong2
      @SofySong2 5 лет назад +4

      sarah xoxo I also have this situation few months ago, we broke up in the end

    • @jonathanxavier2026
      @jonathanxavier2026 4 года назад +1

      @@kot07111 You say that as if it's a bad thing. You enjoy being an emotional leech where you're so unstable that you need someone else to validate your existence?

  • @haleemak51
    @haleemak51 9 лет назад +265

    'It's going to suck really bad.......for you' 'if I find something good I'm more likely to hold onto it and I don't think you are'. The realisation moments in this video. You could tell he cared for her when he got choked up about her being hurt but didn't have a problem with being the one who would be hurting her. Well that's what I gathered anyway but what do I know. She seems really sweet and deserves someone who loves her as much she does them.

    • @anz10
      @anz10 8 лет назад +15

      I think he does have a problem with hurting her, hence chocking up

    • @JustAbe1020
      @JustAbe1020 8 лет назад +3

      not his fault for moving jeez

  • @katharinas.9997
    @katharinas.9997 Год назад +6

    This conversation lives in my mind rent free for 8 years. Girl run. Nothing good ever came out of two people not being on the same page in a relationship when it comes to love.

    • @nayvadius-garycrim269
      @nayvadius-garycrim269 11 месяцев назад

      Rent free is right and I’m getting the “he’s just not that into you” vibes sadly

  • @Samantha-hu4qo
    @Samantha-hu4qo 9 лет назад +203

    Oh man I feel for her. You can tell this is huge for her, maybe not as much for him.

  • @jennygreat4846
    @jennygreat4846 9 лет назад +175

    next step: Breakup
    it's was so obvious and blatant. It's so sad

  • @kellycarpenter2701
    @kellycarpenter2701 9 лет назад +2181

    CAN WE GET A DAMN UPDATE PLEASE

    • @mariafoteini
      @mariafoteini 8 лет назад +7

      YES

    • @Kubilous
      @Kubilous 8 лет назад +75

      Oh God, I would hate to see them as exes here 😞

    • @indrinita
      @indrinita 8 лет назад +135

      +Kubilous K unfortunately it's almost a guarantee they're exes. I don't see how they could not be...

    • @tiarachiffon8131
      @tiarachiffon8131 8 лет назад +71

      Kelly Carpenter yeah .. they're not dating anymore .

    • @cycy805
      @cycy805 8 лет назад +2

      Lifewith TeeCee DAAMN SAVAGE

  • @idiotsandwich9326
    @idiotsandwich9326 8 лет назад +284

    I love these so much. I would watch these for hours. You guys should post the full episode with a duration from like 30 - 40 minutes.

  • @veeoby3364
    @veeoby3364 6 лет назад +53

    She is sooo REAL and her love is real. When you love someone, you'll NEVER let them go no matter what. Honest truth!

  • @sherry-annlol415
    @sherry-annlol415 8 лет назад +61

    life really is too short. if you feel it then say it! shout it, own it. it's a beautiful thing to feel that way. aww.

  • @dyllonsather2142
    @dyllonsather2142 8 лет назад +72

    I love you is a very strong passion, it is most meant to be said at the best opportune time. it just happens, it never is forced.

  • @kamunikatate
    @kamunikatate 8 лет назад +40

    this was at 2 months in the relationship... I don't know why ya'll are hating on him...

  • @mariamyupperz7614
    @mariamyupperz7614 8 лет назад +573

    I can't believe how deeply they feel for each other after 2 months... maybe I'm just heartlesss lol

    • @lauranavarro1676
      @lauranavarro1676 8 лет назад +11

      Exactly what I thought..sadly they arent together anymore

    • @user-ry9rw5fi5k
      @user-ry9rw5fi5k 8 лет назад

      Why'd they break up?

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 8 лет назад +2

      Laura Navarro how do u know?

    • @sarahmunoz5749
      @sarahmunoz5749 6 лет назад +33

      I'm surprised by how many people can't believe it. When you really like someone you just know.

    • @Phantom-ez4zv
      @Phantom-ez4zv 4 года назад +7

      @@sarahmunoz5749 Exactly, most of those people who say i can't feel something unless im with someone for very long are just oblivious, probably never met someone that tickle all their boxes, its an intense feeling the moment you meet them, and both know it.

  • @Hakeem94
    @Hakeem94 5 лет назад +38

    I had nearly an identical experience with my ex when she was afraid to tell me that she loved me for the first time. She spoke of it in the exact way this young lady in the video did but I knew what she was trying to say and during one of the moments of silence I said, "I love you too. I've loved you for a long time." and she broke down crying. According to her that was the first time anyone outside of family had loved her.

  • @kelleebeanz
    @kelleebeanz 9 лет назад +66

    These segments always get me in the feels 💟 Something raw and organic happens when two people take the time and delve into the souls of one another.

  • @LaurenFrancisco
    @LaurenFrancisco 9 лет назад +101

    OMG, these kill me. I'm going to start practicing these sit downs with the people I love in my life.

  • @felipears2092
    @felipears2092 4 года назад +14

    She looks at him much more intensely than he does... He’s just appreciating her company, while she really loves him... My impression even before he’d been asked about the future...

  • @chloeg271
    @chloeg271 8 лет назад +474

    A lot of people comment about it sucking for her and how he's not into it as much as her, but I see different. It's obvious that he's just as scared and just as in love with her. People avoid talking about something because it hurts, people can look more reserved but still feel the same. He just has a way of being stronger and thinking things through--not that she doesn't or she's not, but they're different. And when he talks about it hurting her if they were to ever separate, he had tears in his eyes. If that's not some deep shit then I don't know what is.

    • @itspan
      @itspan 8 лет назад +3

      absolutely agree

    • @deniseonyeoma2769
      @deniseonyeoma2769 8 лет назад +15

      Being kind of the same way with emotions and my personality, I'm relieved to see you saw what I saw too

    • @laineymerep5341
      @laineymerep5341 8 лет назад +6

      i can totally agree , cause if anything .. im the exact same , some people bottle up their feelings with the intent not to hurt , or feel hurt yunno ?? they feel that if they don't admit what their feeling, it wont leave that big of a scar .......

    • @johnwaynepresley
      @johnwaynepresley 8 лет назад +19

      Lsdies, look at how he ended it. What's the next step in this relationship? He said wine and cuddle. He's not there for the long term and there's only a feel good now commitment.

    • @sickgirl2012
      @sickgirl2012 7 лет назад +1

      Chloe Miller i

  • @H4wN4
    @H4wN4 9 лет назад +105

    OMG ! Who ever came up with this idea / series / project is a genius !!! I hope you guys can include some youtubers that would be dope!!

  • @84tahlia
    @84tahlia 9 лет назад +26

    I hate that every time these couples get emotional...I do too. That last part made my heart drop and upset when she told him that he basically will move on from her. And he looked down... now wonder she's scared to say I love you. I like felt that sh*t!

  • @LilMissRedList
    @LilMissRedList 8 лет назад +27

    human beings can be the most beautiful creatures. I love how ranged our emotions can be and how intuitive we are to be able to understand one another without saying goes much as far as real solid information and facts go. these videos are really intense.

  • @hpis4me
    @hpis4me 8 лет назад +86

    Love is so scary and so amazing. My goodness.

  • @jerrello06
    @jerrello06 8 лет назад +230

    I definitely don't think she should get attached to this guy lol

    • @mariafoteini
      @mariafoteini 8 лет назад +4

      i HOPE she dumbed him, for real.

  • @madisonblake11
    @madisonblake11 9 лет назад +62

    THIS WAS SO INTENSE

  • @jeffmorse645
    @jeffmorse645 8 лет назад +67

    They haven't been together that long and you guys really need to give him a break. I think he's pretty deep for just two months. I wouldn't be surprised if they are still together.

  • @MrExtraFINESSEtrial
    @MrExtraFINESSEtrial 4 года назад +10

    “If I find something good, I'm more likely to hold onto it, and I don't think you are...” He confirmed her biggest fear, she gotta accept it, move on

  • @missiemoolissa
    @missiemoolissa 8 лет назад +14

    My favorite skin deep. Their relationship with each other was so well portrayed in this video. Their thoughts and their struggles. Super amazing

  • @MightyMako
    @MightyMako 8 лет назад +77

    I love how everyone acts like they know these people and how the feel. Shut up.

    • @Mecispieces
      @Mecispieces 8 лет назад +3

      Nazgûl, Fool admit you low-key did it too😌 don't fuss if you didn't that makes me nervous😂

    • @MightyMako
      @MightyMako 8 лет назад +2

      Tamecia Browning
      L.O.L. No, I really didn't. They seem to care about each other a lot. Not sure why so many people are jumping this guy's ass and stuff, saying that he clearly doesn't care about her.
      Silliness. 😜

  • @viczelez9018
    @viczelez9018 8 лет назад +10

    love how they look at each other. i am constantly gravitating towards this video and this couple. i hope that theyre still together. and i love the way he breathes out when he smiles, that kind of suppressed laugh. it sseems so sincere!

  • @TheNewMailLady
    @TheNewMailLady 5 лет назад +10

    The moment she realized she was more invested in the relationship than him...
    I felt so sad for her.

    • @sunsol8156
      @sunsol8156 5 лет назад +1

      probably everyone experiences that atleast once

  • @artgeek626
    @artgeek626 9 лет назад +72

    I can't stop staring at Emily, she is SO gorgeous.

    • @EllysaE
      @EllysaE 5 лет назад +2

      artgeek626 is she ...

    • @RedPop4
      @RedPop4 4 года назад +1

      @@EllysaE Red hair (like me), lovely green eyes, crooked smile/grin...wow. I agree with you guys.

  • @14thivy89
    @14thivy89 8 лет назад +23

    Perhaps bc I don't know the back story, but I don't think it's weird that after only two months of dating they're afraid to say I love you. If it was two years, yes it would raise an eyebrow.

  • @NatalieEveWong
    @NatalieEveWong 9 лет назад +894

    omg this guy isn't as deep in this as she is... when he said "this is going to really suck for you." WTF?

    • @kkibela
      @kkibela 9 лет назад +16

      he is sleeping on that one, shes very cool.

    • @LaChicaPlastica
      @LaChicaPlastica 9 лет назад +95

      +NatalieEveWong I think he meant to say that he cares sooooo much for her and her well being that he does not want that for her... He can see ahead based on their feelings for each other that he does not want her to feel that level of pain... I seriously don't think that he was being shallow with his feelings when he said that.

    • @kkibela
      @kkibela 9 лет назад +1

      +LaChicaPlastica hahaha yea because he doesn't feel the same...or he would have said, it will be hard on us....did he even say he loved her? let's just say I can relate...he never saw her as a long term thing which was stupid but he had made up his mind, of course he 'forgot' to tell her about it

    • @LaChicaPlastica
      @LaChicaPlastica 9 лет назад +12

      Maybe because of your personal experience you are projecting... Maybe you are right about what you think his words, or lack of words meant... Maybe you are all wrong... Since he hasn't done a follow up, it is all maybe's... Just don't be so quick to judge someone else if you are not 100% sure... Neither of them said I love you... They have only been dating for two months... They are both scared of the strong feelings they are having... She is the one who had to answer the question... Why are you only judging him? I guess it is all about point of view because I see them both being at the same vulnerable place

    • @kkibela
      @kkibela 9 лет назад +1

      +LaChicaPlastica I'd love to be wrong.

  • @Vercippu
    @Vercippu 8 лет назад +69

    Isn't it sad that two people are dating and they don't even say I love you, because they are scared to say it? Isn't LOVE supposed to be the purpose of dating though?

    • @bokarndiaye323
      @bokarndiaye323 7 лет назад +3

      Not obligatorily. I mean, just look at those two. He sure as hell is not in love with her: he feels affection, but nothing further. Here's, it's sad, because that makes Emily's love unrequited, but in some dating relationships, that may be a way to make it work: keep it about affection or sex, or whatever else you want. And I think both of them have really good reasons not to say "I love you" in that segment: her, because she knows that saying it will ruin what they have, and him... well, because it would be a lie.

  • @kiwicapri8768
    @kiwicapri8768 8 лет назад +126

    she broke out in hives... she was so nervous.

  • @lanitana100
    @lanitana100 8 лет назад +818

    "I'M PREGNANT!!" Can you imagine? xD

  • @Maricely14
    @Maricely14 9 лет назад +1273

    I think he's scared of commitment

    • @irun_mon
      @irun_mon 8 лет назад +20

      +itsmaricelyohforeal m or just new to relationship

    • @mariafoteini
      @mariafoteini 8 лет назад

      who knows..

    • @evanhubbard146
      @evanhubbard146 8 лет назад +83

      Maybe not scared but not ready.

    • @chempanda6388
      @chempanda6388 8 лет назад +20

      Firstname Lastname a lot of men are in that phase. somewhere in the disclaimer before dating, they need to say they have commitment issues. cause one day its going to get serious

    • @Kamoblue
      @Kamoblue 7 лет назад +21

      Firstname Lastname But it's selfish to know that going in without letting your partner know.

  • @trinityredeemed6443
    @trinityredeemed6443 8 лет назад +65

    "I care about you deeply"

    • @Sochilinda
      @Sochilinda 8 лет назад +5

      +Trinity Redeemed that's when I said out loud "awkward" ....

  • @AustinTheMoonBear
    @AustinTheMoonBear 9 лет назад +115

    I'm only at 3 minutes in and it would have been as smooth as balls if the guy just went and said, I love you too.

    • @Alexandraisaboss
      @Alexandraisaboss 8 лет назад +2

      The Moon Bear I was thinking that the whole time haha

    • @Bbbygrrl_
      @Bbbygrrl_ 6 лет назад +7

      yea but dishonest so how smooth would that really have been

    • @ashleyisawesome18
      @ashleyisawesome18 6 лет назад

      yes however i dont think he feels that way love is complicated many people have a hard time developing feelings into love. Ive been in love a total of 3 times. Only one of those times has been reciprocated and is still happening right now im happy with my relationship with my bf. It was very painful my other experiences I kinda wanna share my thoughts and feelings into a youtube channel mainly to document my progress in my personal life but im scared either no one will watch it which wouldnt be that bad or that very few will but theyll leave hate comments.

  • @TheFashiongirl05
    @TheFashiongirl05 9 лет назад +15

    i love these videos. i'm a single person and i take a little something from these couples. things i need to think about. this couple seems so strong with/for each other for just two months. good for them!

  • @investedfemelle7564
    @investedfemelle7564 5 лет назад +41

    Im in her shoes. It’s painful 😣. It’s literally like physical pain to love a man who doesn’t feel the same

  • @jcsmooth70
    @jcsmooth70 5 лет назад +4

    The end was coming and they both know it. Much respect to them for living in the moment! There's nothing wrong with just connecting no matter the cost and these type of connections lost hurt the most. But the love was real and that is a memory that will stick with you forever.

  • @TS-fz5fz
    @TS-fz5fz 8 лет назад +9

    This is so cute. Such intensity and they're both freaking beautiful.

  • @cynthialandrau2500
    @cynthialandrau2500 9 лет назад +172

    Awww! I seriously love these videos! Every time I see that you guys have uploaded a new video I just pause and run to that first! 😊😊

    • @clarabenner8048
      @clarabenner8048 9 лет назад +1

      SAME!!! I think These Videos are awesome! 😊

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  9 лет назад +4

      +Cynthia Landrau we're happy to hear that we can keep you excited :D Stick around because we're constantly working on more and more stories!

  • @jchrist5385
    @jchrist5385 7 лет назад +73

    "i know how you thrive on moving around and traveling and learning and i love that about you and i think im the same way but i think if i find something good im more likely to hold onto it and i dont think you are" fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

  • @musiclolli7280
    @musiclolli7280 6 лет назад +5

    when he said "for you" i felt like she needs to leave before she falls deeper. either 1. she moves on and finds someone with same maturity and wants or 2. He realises he would rather have her than the things currently holding him back... You actually can choose to walk away and build self love with that energy

  • @nikkbronx
    @nikkbronx 3 года назад +4

    This was almost 6 years ago????? Holy shit !!!!!! I remember watching this back in 2016.

  • @midnightmave
    @midnightmave 5 лет назад +5

    I’ve been her before. After about 7 months with the last guy I was seeing, I knew I’d fallen in love with him. When I told him, he apologized. It crushed me. I’m still trying to build myself back up from that, but sometimes the memories chip away at me all over again.

  • @juliathomsen1900
    @juliathomsen1900 8 лет назад +54

    Don't let the same flame burn you twice

  • @chloeyoung7213
    @chloeyoung7213 8 лет назад +2

    When he said " hurt for you" the tears in his eyes, and his tone let me know he seemed to be trying to protect himself from the pain he knows is coming or assumes is anyways. I hope he finds himself and what he wants

  • @kczmonkey03
    @kczmonkey03 9 лет назад +7

    I adore this one. I admire both of the, and I don't think the guy is being emotionless. They're my favorite and I'd love to see what happens later in life.

  • @Hersheychocolate12
    @Hersheychocolate12 8 лет назад +13

    Honestly I died after he said that you would suck...for you. But looking into his eyes after that I could tell he does indeed care for her but it's just probably not to the level where she's at. Hopefully we are this couple later..maybe.

    • @imacloud11
      @imacloud11 8 лет назад +1

      he was about to cry so...

  • @asmas8449
    @asmas8449 8 лет назад +5

    I love them , they're very honest and clearly respect each other . I hope things work out well for them .

  • @cassandra9307
    @cassandra9307 8 лет назад +79

    love these series
    this couple is so beautiful

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  8 лет назад +4

      Thank you, we're glad you enjoy it.

  • @mariamtabatadze6641
    @mariamtabatadze6641 9 лет назад +48

    wow the dude is really not appreciative of her...she seems great!

  • @arleighsmith7316
    @arleighsmith7316 9 лет назад +8

    Am I the only one who teared up when they started to cry??? Ahhhhhhh

  • @rileyrose574
    @rileyrose574 9 лет назад +4

    This is the cutest thing. You can tell just how he looks at her they are so in love. Aw man. The feels.....

  • @Luna-ds7bg
    @Luna-ds7bg 8 лет назад +418

    they kinda have similar facial features

    • @sunbeamzz1191
      @sunbeamzz1191 8 лет назад +4

      Luna deadass

    • @jennelgomez4923
      @jennelgomez4923 8 лет назад +2

      Luna G shit. More than kinda

    • @muzikmystro
      @muzikmystro 8 лет назад +51

      They say that's a mark of a couple that'll suit each other.

    • @sunbeamzz1191
      @sunbeamzz1191 8 лет назад +10

      Helen Kate Lynch that was deep bruh.

    • @Tsitsibenny
      @Tsitsibenny 8 лет назад +6

      Luna they seriously look alike ... from the eyes to the colour of hair... etc

  • @10zin86
    @10zin86 8 лет назад +14

    What a sweet and an honest young couple.

  • @caseymariana3654
    @caseymariana3654 8 лет назад +167

    two redheads. cute

    • @ashbash2892
      @ashbash2892 6 лет назад +9

      Their kid is gonna be a cheeto

  • @vizengwa
    @vizengwa 8 лет назад +116

    I'm surprised this is only a 2 mo relationship. Felt like 2 years

    • @STELLARSUBLIMINALS1111
      @STELLARSUBLIMINALS1111 7 лет назад +6

      Joanne I they could've been friends long before the relationship

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 года назад +3

      I think she might be into the idea of him. His energy is perceived as distant. While she is close and more settled, nuzzled. He is still in the new car smell mode which he should be. If she moves slowly he could come to her if she gives him space to do so. It’s been two months. I know this is old , I wonder if they’re still together.

  • @kimberlychancellormcnally4672
    @kimberlychancellormcnally4672 8 лет назад +101

    She has killer eyebrows and he looks like a Hemsworth

  • @tiffanythorne1
    @tiffanythorne1 8 лет назад +8

    her slightly crooked smile is too cute!

  • @SofySong2
    @SofySong2 5 лет назад +2

    I feel you, girl, I have exactly the same situation. It was so hard to speak it out, and the tears just keep rolling in eyes, so emotional, but just can’t say it...
    Also is so hurt when you already know the results,but still trying to have a hope..
    ...I just feel you.

  • @KemiKayy
    @KemiKayy 9 лет назад +5

    This is LITERALLY where im at right now. Recently graduated nd recently started dated someone nd every second the words I Love You r pounding in my head but its too soon nd we dont know where were going just coming out uni looking 4 work. Aaa!! I feel ur pain!

  • @michellea9857
    @michellea9857 4 года назад +1

    Caught up in each other's bodies, so head tells you it won't work, but your emotions powerfully draw you together. The push-pull lasts until you finally split up.

  • @jay-pg8no
    @jay-pg8no 8 лет назад +10

    yikes this was a rollercoaster... that whole "i think it would really suck...for you"

    • @staciissmith
      @staciissmith 8 лет назад +4

      jay yeah pretty much like "if we move sperate ways it wont be hard for me, just you" wow that cut me..suttle harshness

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 3 года назад

      yeah, people didnt explore the converse, …suck4 u AND NOT FOR ME and not even a suck for US.

  • @amymassina6494
    @amymassina6494 6 лет назад +1

    "... for you". He pretty much answered
    the next question re: The Next step. Not really nice if he's just "passing time" though he did tear up. Sad because she seems to have a lot of love to give and her eyes tell a story of hurt. Sweet girl, Ive watched a bunch of these videos but this one honestly hit my heart differently.

  • @lindsaygogol4069
    @lindsaygogol4069 3 года назад +3

    I just came here from insta and I still have no answers!

  • @abdalrahimabdallah9486
    @abdalrahimabdallah9486 8 лет назад +4

    he is not good enough for her..........she deserves better.........I can feel her heart beats when she is taking

  • @parkerlion156
    @parkerlion156 8 лет назад +5

    '.....I don't wanna say it.'
    'Why??'
    dope I felt that.

  • @rosacervantes8721
    @rosacervantes8721 5 лет назад +1

    these kinds of videos really help me get a different perspective on life. And it helps at least me to know that, it's ok to not say I love you or feel pressured or tied up to one another.

  • @lmello2597
    @lmello2597 6 лет назад +3

    He cried because of the thought of her being hurt... Ohh he in LOVE LOVE

  • @danielleattackattack2632
    @danielleattackattack2632 8 лет назад +19

    he is so NOT into like she is . my heart hurts for her :/

  • @sumayaosman7013
    @sumayaosman7013 8 лет назад +167

    is it just me or do they look like siblings?

    • @imaniprice8275
      @imaniprice8275 8 лет назад +17

      lovT yesssss same eyes and hair color and complexion

    • @espyq6119
      @espyq6119 6 лет назад +1

      Well yeah they’re white.

  • @Kaelani-f4u
    @Kaelani-f4u 8 лет назад +2

    this isn't even the first time i've watched this episode but it's hitting really close to home for me right now.

  • @dainasmith5116
    @dainasmith5116 8 лет назад +4

    In my opinion he wants to be as invested in it as she is but he's just scared of being serious or committed, I've been in the same boat and nearly ended a great relationship a few times because commitment is scary. I think he needs time to overcome that barrier. only 2 months in he's not gonna be head-over-heels and thinking about forever with her

  • @khaoulakachouane9447
    @khaoulakachouane9447 6 лет назад

    I find them reaally mature! Finally a couple who understand the value of these 3 words...I've been in an age gap relationship for 6 months (I'm 6 years older than him). I knew the guy loved me and I loved him even more. But, I knew he wanted to finish his studies in an other country. We met and talked.Icouldn't be vulnerable throughout the whole 6 months and that bothered him. I was just trying to protect myself. We decided to break up to save the good memories and not ruin each other lives....It took us a day to face the terror of living a life without us both in. I feel so lucky and grateful for not making that mistake and for calling him and negotiating our needs, desires and our seperate goals. Here we are today I became vulnerable,I can say I love you,and he tells me every day how happy he is for having me. I just had to honest with myself and I knew he is the right one for me. If you think you both match....give it a little thought... I just don't want anyone of you to regret that after 20 years...aand last thing...Don't listen to your friends or family! Listen to your heart! is he the one you've always wanted? it's not enough to be honest with him or her! You have to be honest with yourself first! Good luck! I wish you the best!

    • @khaoulakachouane9447
      @khaoulakachouane9447 3 года назад

      @classical chameleon yes we are ❤

    • @khaoulakachouane9447
      @khaoulakachouane9447 3 года назад

      @classical chameleon thank you very much for the sweet wish. It was not easy and it is still tough. It is funny reading my comment after these 2 years. I wish everyone the best!

  • @aw7871
    @aw7871 9 лет назад +57

    Am sorry to say that she's with the wrong guy. Clearly, they are not on the same page in the r/ship. I should know from past experience. He looks like he could be a great friend to her but boyfriend and eventually hubby?? Not really, he seems to be more of a free spirit and not yet ready to settle yet she's probably already decided what her wedding dress will look like.

    • @kevenklayne4211
      @kevenklayne4211 5 лет назад

      People and their obsession with marriage...

  • @SheBYaya
    @SheBYaya 5 лет назад +1

    A picture of how it looks when you KNOW you guys are most probably not going to last but choose to keep oblivious to that fact for as long as you can.. Choosing to live in the NOW and indulge in every moment spent together..

  • @bustatreflip
    @bustatreflip 9 лет назад +14

    6:27 BULLET DODGED

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 7 лет назад +3

    Sometimes we need to make sure in our feelings before we give these words and the best thing is this couple are honest of their feelings.

  • @MilaAsha
    @MilaAsha 8 лет назад +8

    She is I. I am She. Why am I crying?! 😭😭😭

  • @asiamarie4
    @asiamarie4 7 лет назад +1

    i keep coming back to these two. she pierces my soul, because she is desperately in love. its amazing to watch!

  • @NicoleMakeupXX
    @NicoleMakeupXX 5 лет назад +6

    2 months is too early to say I love you

  • @monalisa-rg6xe
    @monalisa-rg6xe 7 лет назад +2

    I LOVE THIS COUPLE!!!! THEIR EYES TALK TO EACH OTHER.