I love your diction, eloquence and manner of communication mixed with a blend of agberu 😅. It shows that even educated, you don't let the roots to die. Splendid
You've spoken very well. You've indeed addressed this issue like one who has very sound knowledge of Narcs and how to deal with them. That part of "Walking Away" is the best advise that anyone dealing with a Narc needs. Thanks for Sharing.❤❤❤
It hit differently when you have an experience of a topic you’re sharing. You nailed this topic, if you’ve ever had a friend who’s a narcissist you will understand more. Welldone ma ❤👏
Thank you ma for this educative info. Honestly I’ve experienced this and I almost lost myself in it. Thank God for God and my hubby. I was able to overcome it and build my self esteem. I’ve completely decided to avoid her and she now respects herself and never cross boundaries.
Dealing with people like him, who have this Personality Disorder is draining. They have manipulative ways of making you doubt yourself and question your worth if you're not confident and have high self-esteem. In my opinion, the best course of action is to distance from such toxic individuals. Thank you so much Ma ❤❤ @ify's kitchen, for bringing awareness to narcissism. It's crucial for people to identify the red flags, and I appreciate you providing a platform for individuals like me to share their stories. At least to comment, is something😂. Thank you❤
Being married to a narcissist is suicidal 😢, they will make you feel like you are responsible when anything goes wrong, they lack empathy and they are horrible 😢.
Bless you for this video. Avoiding confrontation was what i didnt get on time, and that lead to abuse... the moment i built myself and knew what i was dealing with, that was when i won
To share how demonic this personality disorder can be. I was one of the two ladies who graduated with First Class honors in my department during my time. The other lady's name started with a 'D', while mine began with an 'E', leading to an alphabetical listing. When I shared the list online, the narcissist congratulated me but then made a rude comment about the other lady having multiple heads, questioning why her name was listed first and mine second, indirectly trying to let me know that the lady got first and I got second. And he tried to let me know that other people will view it that way. 😂😂😂... It was such an odd reaction! 🤦 Considering he went through university, he should understand how it works. Even after I tried to clarify the alphabetical order that it is not a matter of first or second position, he brushed it off as a joke, but I could sense he was deliberately trying to diminish my First Class honor. It’s remarkably immature and small-minded!🤦.
I don't usually comment on videos but this right here is just transformative. Thank you so much. Currently dealing with one and you've just helped with my decision-making on how to deal.
I have encountered a narcissist, After manipulating, and gas lighting me i never retaliate, she will apologise to me when nobody will see her the next day it will be worst 😢 I lost my Confident 😢God helped me to Stand my ground and I walk away 😢
Thank you for this video Ify. If you are in this situation, pls dnt let a narcissist know about your plans because they are master planner themselves. They will beat you at your own game. Thx sis for sharing this, hopefully our girls will start realising this...
After watching this video,my love for you just increased more, I am actually dealing with one that i am already loosing my mind but right now, hell no, I'm not taking it again, thanks once again for this video ❤❤❤
VERY GOOD LIST! So sorry you've been through this, but glad you overcame! They will never apologize- exactly. It's a principality working through people called Leviathan- pride,and partners with a demonic network called Jezebel. There are different levels of narcissists, most are people who's souls have been 90-100% manipulated and taken over. That's why this advice is good- grey rock them- avoid at all costs- master psychologists, spirits who've studied human beings for generation, they do not reason. Demons do not reason, they are not fixable. 💙
All you said is true, and I have had a first-hand experience of a whole two, I have walked out of one, but the second is not that easy to escape, but I am rest assured I will. Though, I really wish this one could change. That aspect of seeing you as emotionally draining or agitating is quite accurate. In fact, it is the fuel they require most often, as it energizes them.
Incredible! You've definitely encountered a narcissist👌💯 It's so spot-on how you described the whole thing. I once came across a guy who turned out to be a narcissist as well. It was almost damaging to my mental well-being. At first, I was attracted to his charming personality, humor, and kindness, only to realize later that it was all part of his manipulative tactics. His personality disorder really messed with my head, even invading my dreams. Before I ended things, I would see him in my dreams trying to use his manipulative ways in one way or another. I tried all the strategies you mentioned, hoping he would change, but eventually, I had to prioritize my mental health by walking away and cutting off all contact with him on social media...
I actually searched RUclips for this topic. I didn't even know they are called narcissists. My neighbor currently. That man can keep malice for Africa. How can some one plant veggies at the entrance of our compound, still claim to be right when confronted.. 💯 True. Thank you so much sis
I am married to one. He never says sorry first. He also says I am over sensitive.. it wasn't like that from the start o...or maybe I didn't notice it. I even fell into clinical depression. If, I want to have a personal talk with you, please. The matter long and I don't have anyone to talk to.
Was married to one for more than 6years... finally took a bold step to leave with my kids. Still being manipulated till now and the lies are crazy. But I've found my peace again and I'm happy
Thank you ma for sharing, i really appreciate this ... This is my first time watching any of your videos and i most say this is a pass ... God bless you ma
Ify👸🏽😘, thank God you are a proverbs 31 woman 😊 and have the gift to discern as well . Wise woman enjoy a happy and blessed stress free peaceful weekend with your family God bless you all in abundance forever. Amen 🙏🏽🤗❤️🤗👸🏽🥰🥰🥰
Everything you said ma'am is so true in addition to what you said they lie a lot o i had an ex like this years back i walked away for my own peace of mind and mental health
Oh Ify, I think you made this video for me 😢.... Everything u said in this video is what I've been dealing with in my marriage, I feel like I'm suffocating. Even the abusive aspect.... My husband goes as far as boasting that he's a dictator and that he's authoritative and that I must become a slave to him... His dominance and manipulations is just too unbearable. God he's so overbearing and I'm not sure I can take it anymore so he doesn't break me beyond repair or beyond help 😢
Madame,you're really talking about a very very serious matter! Because people might be surprise why are you in this bizarre question! Yes, yes,yes madame you're right because when you have a narcissist in your office, couple, house,waouh madame, what a hell! Many couples, friendship are exploding because of this narcissist! So thanks you madame for your help! But how to avoid them? Because it is impossible to avoid them ! Madame,we had a narcissist in our plane Paris _ new York! Madame, what a hell! No sleep,no rest! Hell! You got the right subject! Really!
@esthertayo8371 that's what my dear I'm doing but let me be honest with you it's not easy...he's always on defensive mode, but now with this new tips from Ify nd prayers I know he will be safe and fine 🙏
This is me here begging anyone for a work at home job pleaseeeee. I am dealing with one and he keeps reminding me that he works for hours.. oleaseeeee i am a graduate. Help me with a job pleaseeeeee.
Being around a narcissist is draining…. psychologically, emotionally,spiritually and physically 😢
This!!!! 💯💯💯
Right💯
Exactly 😢
Thank you for this enlightenment. There are quite a number of them even in Churches.
Everything I av heard here is so correct .Experience all, almost loose myself in the process. Thank God I came out alive
We bless God❤️
Am glad you stood up for yourself.
They are terrible
Oh my gosh , same applies to me
I love your diction, eloquence and manner of communication mixed with a blend of agberu 😅. It shows that even educated, you don't let the roots to die. Splendid
😂😂😂😂😂thank you for watching Edward❤
You've spoken very well. You've indeed addressed this issue like one who has very sound knowledge of Narcs and how to deal with them. That part of "Walking Away" is the best advise that anyone dealing with a Narc needs. Thanks for Sharing.❤❤❤
It hit differently when you have an experience of a topic you’re sharing. You nailed this topic, if you’ve ever had a friend who’s a narcissist you will understand more. Welldone ma ❤👏
Ify you're right. Deep down is a foundation of inferiority complex/low self esteem
@@chinwea2135 I believe so 💯💯💯. Thank you for watching Chinwe ❤️
Thank you ma for this educative info.
Honestly I’ve experienced this and I almost lost myself in it. Thank God for God and my hubby. I was able to overcome it and build my self esteem.
I’ve completely decided to avoid her and she now respects herself and never cross boundaries.
@@chiamakarecheal7388 that is the right thing to do. 🫂🫂❤️
Dealing with people like him, who have this Personality Disorder is draining.
They have manipulative ways of making you doubt yourself and question your worth if you're not confident and have high self-esteem.
In my opinion, the best course of action is to distance from such toxic individuals.
Thank you so much Ma ❤❤ @ify's kitchen, for bringing awareness to narcissism. It's crucial for people to identify the red flags, and I appreciate you providing a platform for individuals like me to share their stories.
At least to comment, is something😂.
Thank you❤
Being married to a narcissist is suicidal 😢, they will make you feel like you are responsible when anything goes wrong, they lack empathy and they are horrible 😢.
Bless you for this video. Avoiding confrontation was what i didnt get on time, and that lead to abuse... the moment i built myself and knew what i was dealing with, that was when i won
To share how demonic this personality disorder can be.
I was one of the two ladies who graduated with First Class honors in my department during my time. The other lady's name started with a 'D', while mine began with an 'E', leading to an alphabetical listing. When I shared the list online, the narcissist congratulated me but then made a rude comment about the other lady having multiple heads, questioning why her name was listed first and mine second, indirectly trying to let me know that the lady got first and I got second. And he tried to let me know that other people will view it that way. 😂😂😂...
It was such an odd reaction! 🤦 Considering he went through university, he should understand how it works.
Even after I tried to clarify the alphabetical order that it is not a matter of first or second position, he brushed it off as a joke, but I could sense he was deliberately trying to diminish my First Class honor.
It’s remarkably immature and small-minded!🤦.
My God!!!!😮this is the BEST thing I have ever watched..
Thank you for watching Nonye ❤❤❤
I don't usually comment on videos but this right here is just transformative. Thank you so much. Currently dealing with one and you've just helped with my decision-making on how to deal.
@@rhunoenaughe1026 I am glad you found this video useful. I wish you all the best❤️❤️❤️.
Hi. I am dealing with one too. Are you male or female?
I have encountered a narcissist,
After manipulating, and gas lighting me i never retaliate, she will apologise to me when nobody will see her the next day it will be worst 😢
I lost my Confident 😢God helped me to Stand my ground and I walk away 😢
And Dey lie a lot !!! Am married to one and am mentally drained 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ depressed,zero fun and happiness
How did you get married to one in the first place? How many times did he breakup with you before you guys got married?
You have spoken well Ify👏👏👏. Let me also add that you delivered this message so beautifully. The composure, beauty & eloquence are so captivating ❤
Moyeni my darling ❤️❤️❤️
We need more videos like this. An eye opener.
I absolutely loved every bit of this episode.... please keep them coming❤
Thank you for this video Ify. If you are in this situation, pls dnt let a narcissist know about your plans because they are master planner themselves. They will beat you at your own game. Thx sis for sharing this, hopefully our girls will start realising this...
After watching this video,my love for you just increased more, I am actually dealing with one that i am already loosing my mind but right now, hell no, I'm not taking it again, thanks once again for this video ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing Ify, you spoke well. And I love your dress!!!! It is beautiful!!!
Ify well-done 👍 🎉❤
Thank you very much for this life saving knowledge,
Haa God bless you endlessly Amen.
You nailed it Ify. Thanks ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️❤️
VERY GOOD LIST! So sorry you've been through this, but glad you overcame!
They will never apologize- exactly. It's a principality working through people called Leviathan- pride,and partners with a demonic network called Jezebel. There are different levels of narcissists, most are people who's souls have been 90-100% manipulated and taken over. That's why this advice is good- grey rock them- avoid at all costs- master psychologists, spirits who've studied human beings for generation, they do not reason. Demons do not reason, they are not fixable. 💙
All you said is true, and I have had a first-hand experience of a whole two, I have walked out of one, but the second is not that easy to escape, but I am rest assured I will. Though, I really wish this one could change. That aspect of seeing you as emotionally draining or agitating is quite accurate. In fact, it is the fuel they require most often, as it energizes them.
Incredible! You've definitely encountered a narcissist👌💯
It's so spot-on how you described the whole thing. I once came across a guy who turned out to be a narcissist as well. It was almost damaging to my mental well-being. At first, I was attracted to his charming personality, humor, and kindness, only to realize later that it was all part of his manipulative tactics.
His personality disorder really messed with my head, even invading my dreams. Before I ended things, I would see him in my dreams trying to use his manipulative ways in one way or another.
I tried all the strategies you mentioned, hoping he would change, but eventually, I had to prioritize my mental health by walking away and cutting off all contact with him on social media...
They are now everywhere, u r so true
See eh.. Please we need more of these kind of videos. I love this
Thank you for watching Priscillia❤
Thank you, ma'am, I have experienced one first hand and all you have highlighted are very true.
Yes, good idea to shift from cooking. Love it. Keep this idea up.
Thank you! Will do!❤️❤️
Indeed ,people are multidimensional and should not be boxed into one expression of their gifting, skills ,creativity and talent
Wow! Very informative! Thank you our teacher.
Beautiful ifyeeeeeeeee ❤❤❤❤❤❤, wow! I love this topic you’re talking about.
Everything you’ve said is so true ma
WOW, this is so fantastic thanks Ify 😊
❤❤❤
I actually searched RUclips for this topic. I didn't even know they are called narcissists.
My neighbor currently. That man can keep malice for Africa. How can some one plant veggies at the entrance of our compound, still claim to be right when confronted..
💯 True. Thank you so much sis
This is amazing
Thank you ms
Well done, ma. This is educative.
The average Nigerian male was raised to see themselves as perfect ,uncorrectable, Lord and master
I too love u😘 I've really learned alot 💯dis was very educative thank you so much 💕
I had a friend like that
She's never wrong
I reay love the topic narcissist and the explanation perfect❤
You are so so on point ❤
You are absolutely right sis thank you so much for sharing
Sometimes I even used to hate myself, not even to talk of being overwhelmed by myself 😭
Pls pls pls, you are a lovely person and no one should make you feel less than who you are. Take care my friend❤.
You didn't add that they lie a lot
😂😂😂
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
Honestly, they lie alot yet claim to always tell the truth
She mentioned it, they gaslight people a whole lot, lieing is under gaslighting.
She said it! She said they would always make promises they will never fulfill (literally liar's).
Thanks Ify 😢😢😢😢 I really needed this
I am married to one. He never says sorry first. He also says I am over sensitive.. it wasn't like that from the start o...or maybe I didn't notice it. I even fell into clinical depression. If, I want to have a personal talk with you, please. The matter long and I don't have anyone to talk to.
Drop your contact.
We can be friends
Very sorry about that. I'd be willing to listen, although this is just a RUclips platform. I've dealt with one too... For 3 years
Was married to one for more than 6years... finally took a bold step to leave with my kids. Still being manipulated till now and the lies are crazy. But I've found my peace again and I'm happy
@@Drivenda1ly thank you. . Are you a male or female please?
@@UwaUgbodu-rf4xq hmmmm I can imagine. It doesn't feel good 😢 he can do the things he doesn't want me to do
Thank you for this Ify🙏
Ur uploads always come at a right time
So glad!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for this eye opener Ify...much appreciated!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you ma for sharing, i really appreciate this ... This is my first time watching any of your videos and i most say this is a pass ... God bless you ma
Aunty Ify, I love this new divergence. Thank you so much
I appreciate you❤️
The manipulative part is reaaallll!!!!!
It's so badddd
They always make it look like your fault 😂... finally worked on my self esteem
Thank you!
I am so glad you feel better about yourself. I love you and thank you for watching ❤️
They make it look like they're trying to help you by being present sef
So real without missing words
Ify👸🏽😘, thank God you are a proverbs 31 woman 😊 and have the gift to discern as well . Wise woman enjoy a happy and blessed stress free peaceful weekend with your family God bless you all in abundance forever. Amen 🙏🏽🤗❤️🤗👸🏽🥰🥰🥰
I love you❤
@@Ifyskitchen Love you too Darling 👸🏽🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️ Have an amazing day 👸🏽😘😘
Everything you said ma'am is so true in addition to what you said they lie a lot o i had an ex like this years back i walked away for my own peace of mind and mental health
God bless you abundantly nwanyioma ❤❤❤❤❤
I learnt a lot…thank you
Thank you ma❤️, all the way from your what'sapp family 🥰
Wow! This is good topic 👏👌
On point a narcissist is the leader of manipulator gosh they are so selfish.... Thanks for this video
This was really enlightening ,thanks a lot
Glad it was helpful!❤️
Wow, thank you ma for this information
God bless you 🙏💕
Very informative. Well done ify
Glad you liked it❤️❤️❤️
Nice one ma'am❤from your WhatsApp family...
Thanks very much for this, everything you mentioned points to two people in my life right now haaaa😂
😂😂😂😂 now you know how to deal with them appropriately ❤❤❤
Like seriously I really appreciate your words about narcissist, I'm dealing with one as my neighbor.
A family from Whatsapp
I am glad you found this useful❤️
Oh Ify, I think you made this video for me 😢.... Everything u said in this video is what I've been dealing with in my marriage, I feel like I'm suffocating. Even the abusive aspect.... My husband goes as far as boasting that he's a dictator and that he's authoritative and that I must become a slave to him... His dominance and manipulations is just too unbearable. God he's so overbearing and I'm not sure I can take it anymore so he doesn't break me beyond repair or beyond help 😢
Oh my gosh. I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. Please seek help immediately. You are important and I love you❤.
@Ifyskitchen Thanks a lot, I love you too 🥰
@@Ugurl I wanna be your friend. I'm going through almost the same. Maybe we can talk
Look for an independent marriage counsellor AND a qualified psychologists before your psyche breaks.
@@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 I'll do that ma'am. Thanks a lot 🙏🏼
KUDOS TO GOD ALMIGHTY
GREETINGS ❤❤ 🎉🎉
Thanks for the information it's very educative. From wasapp family
Madame,you're really talking about a very very serious matter! Because people might be surprise why are you in this bizarre question! Yes, yes,yes madame you're right because when you have a narcissist in your office, couple, house,waouh madame, what a hell! Many couples, friendship are exploding because of this narcissist! So thanks you madame for your help! But how to avoid them? Because it is impossible to avoid them ! Madame,we had a narcissist in our plane Paris _ new York! Madame, what a hell! No sleep,no rest! Hell! You got the right subject! Really!
From what's family 👀 inspiring auntie ify ❤❤
So informative 👏 👌
This is 💯 apt!!!
Awww so good to see you here Funke❤️❤️❤️
Hmmmm Ify, you really encountered one.. exactly what i am going through.
Ify fam!! I managed to get out of a bad relationship years ago
Single but well
Your amazing cooking is the only partner I need 😂❤
Thank you for watching my videos friend❤️❤️❤️
Thank You So Much Ma For Sharing, GOD BLESS You Ma IN JESUS NAME, AMEN🙏
I love ur statement 😊
Thank you❤
From your explanation! I no some of them!!
There are all around us😢 but thankfully, we can now identify them and deal with them accordingly.
This is very Educative❤❤
All the way from WhatsApp 😅😅
Thank you for stopping by Ifeoma. I appreciate you❤
No one has summarised narcissism the way you have just done .
A narcissistic is a psychotic person full stop. We tend to over analyze things a lot,give it new names also give it legs and arms😢
God bless you madam ❤
Dealt with one for 3 years. Watching this makes me sad because I gave the person so many chances and got disrespect and abuse in return
You just described my ex to a fault 😂😂
Good job
Ify my African Queen, how r u?thank you so much, you have just describe my firstborn son 😂😂😂😂
Oh dear.
So sorry sis but pls help him by showing him plenty LOVE AND counselling very EARLY
All the best
@esthertayo8371 that's what my dear I'm doing but let me be honest with you it's not easy...he's always on defensive mode, but now with this new tips from Ify nd prayers I know he will be safe and fine 🙏
Takes a narcissistic person to do something really impactful in this world.😅😅😂😂
It's also your siblings
Very educative
This is me here begging anyone for a work at home job pleaseeeee. I am dealing with one and he keeps reminding me that he works for hours.. oleaseeeee i am a graduate. Help me with a job pleaseeeeee.
My roommate is like that
But she seff will meet me there😂😂
You too much sis 😘😘😘
🤗❤️❤️❤️
Ify thank you❤
It's her facial expressions for me 😂😂
My best point is to maintain my steeze🙈🙈 (don't react to confrontation)
Whatsapp family, where are you 🫣🤭
😅 yes o. Maintain steeze and composure at all times❤️
a guy looking at his own reflection like that ain't no narcissist. he's a lady!
Hmm.. thanks for sharing
Hey you, how are the double twins? Trust you all are well and thank you for watching ❤
@@Ifyskitchen they are showing me shege ooo.. but God has been faithful 🙌
I enjoy this video 😂
That his the case of yull edochie full of himself
Thank you ❤
From your WhatsApp family
Are u a trained physchologist?
But they also people... not all of them are bad has you say it
Thank you for watching Ifeoluwa❤❤❤