Great points. Can we also get a guy to talk about the men’s part? Cause it seems everyone is only interested in training and advising the girl child. We need to invest in our men as well.
Since it's not a man's duty to help with household chores,it shouldn't be a woman's duty too to be financing the family,we should all know our duty, African women are not slaves. If we women must help men financially in the family then nothing should stop men from helping us with household chores.Imagine foreign women watching this won't they call African women slaves the way they do call Africans slaves
A woman who brings home money is helping the man in his job to support the household financially. A kind husband will have no problem pitching in to help keep the home clean. 😊
I did everything you said Ify, but he just wanted an end to the marriage. Am ok with my son now. Thanks so much for taking time for this video. Young ones please pray not to have wrong partners
I really love this! So refreshing to hear in 2024.. I hope people listen to understand. Especially keywords like “responsibility”.. And of course every marriage has peculiarities but this is very sound advice generally speaking.
And do you think women haven’t been doing this ? Just a Honest question, if it was this simple , don’t you think all women would be married or in a relationship? Before the advent of genz ladies , weren’t there women , who did all this and more , did that help them keep a man? Wasn’t it because irrespective of these points , they were will still not loyal , were violent etc ? So much , that these genz baddies learned from their mothers and upgraded? There is no smoke without fire . Do you think the mess in the now “dating scene” is , cause women can’t keep a home or aren’t financially wise . You think a married woman finds it hard to cook and clean? Or she finds it hard to spend wisely , or she finds it her to cook for her own children and family? Or she willingly didn’t want to be friends with her in laws ? And the women that did all this , how many of them did this, only for the man to pour his resources into someone that didn’t even life a finger? Lol it’s well.
I don’t agree with you about pretending to be who you are not for your in-laws. Be accommodating, loving , treat them as you want to be treated but you must have boundaries. You can never please everyone. Period!😘 Just be your authentic self without any pretense all in the name of marriage. If they value you, they will accept you for who you are.
I agree but not to a woman who have gone through hell in their past relationships and is financially stable, such ladies it takes grace, patience and alot of counseling to be able to be a maker
You see this hospitality towards in-laws and husband's friend. Its indeed a key. Women should please get rid of this "I'm married to him alone mentally" ee should lesrn to accommodate.
I agree. You need to humble yourself and have some class. You cant get everything you want. Be appreciative because it can be gone in a flash. No ego,pride or cockiness
Thank you for being honest and realistic on this topic, Ify. Love it. I'll like to know your opinion on single ladies that intentionally foster friendship with married men, disregarding their wives. Their flex is usually along the lines of "I don't make friends with girls..." they also feel like an achiever when they drop statements like "I'm closer to her husband, actually..." I'll be really happy to see/hear your thoughts on this, please ❤
I won’t contribute more money to my home o and still come back home to do house chores. The first problem is marrying someone who you earn more than, don’t make that mistake.
Never knew you, haven't even listened to your message but I already followed and liked 😂😂 because girl you're so beautiful, from makeup to wears to background...girl I love you ♥️🥰 I will listen all through from today
Wow, I loved the advice you're giving to those looking for a partner or hubby. Will definitely be sharing it with the young people in my church. Strong sound advice. Look forward to the next one.. 🙏🏾
Madam Ify, thanks for these tips, i love your example of church and hospital. honestly attending worship services at designated centres should be primarily to praise God and then all other things desired will be added unto us.
This is really insightful tbh, just as a woman wouldn’t wanna be with a wasteful man with no concept of money, a man wouldn’t be with a woman with d same that trait too, it’s True that what works for a particular person might not work for another but there’re some attributes that makes a woman stand out as being virtuous, physical appearance can only get a woman so far but your ways is what keeps a home & a man. That’s my personal view tho.
I love you more for this Mrs Ify You said it all my love… all you said is true n am not bragging I do this alone…. I wanted to pause for a while but this talk you have given me the strength to keep it up.
Ify I older than u married 40 years my experience money and material things don't put that in font yhe person u love or want to spend rest of Yr life true love comes from Yr heart and not want u looking for in a man or a woman when u first meet u got everything to share with each other but after years down the line u becomes separated from talking from when u first meet but that doesn't mean Yr love gone it mean u become Yr own self of living and not sharing the same conversation any relationship u go in it well always becomes like this so stay with the one u have and learn to accept and preciate what he or she has to offer in Yr relationship this women like to have everything and put pressure on men the men go and try hard to work to gave them so they can keep the peace be happy with each other have respect and love for each other put god in front Yr relationship and let God do what u can't do to make it work hod bless
Let God do what you can't do, to make it work! ❤ This is me and my partner... When I bring up stubborn girl vibes, he will say we need to pray / fast! Before you know I submit to God in him😊
Thank you for this video Ify. These are important issues that people hardly want to hear these days, yet they can't be overlooked or avoided. I love that you have a sound mind and you are reasonable too. Lots of love from here. By the way, you look so beautiful. ❤❤❤
Truth be told This is a Pure 💯% Truth ❤ This Entitlement i just listen to now is enough... Even though is a #1,000 say thank you and be Greatfull. Maybe is better for me to wish them well without sending Money
Why is it that it seems like most female RUclipsrs who like giving relationship and marriage advice on RUclips are Nigerian ladies while Nigerian men outside of Nigeria have nothing good to say about you guys???
Social media is crazy, everyone wants to do what someone else is doing, dairy of a kitchen lover started telling stories few days back and now ify’s kitchen is doing same thing, una no wan dy cook again?
@@Ifyskitchen i mostly watch cooking videos, i watch ify’s kitchen, sisiyemima, foodies and spice and the rest of them, don’t worry I’m not new on this channel madam Ify 😊
As much as I don't totally agree with what you are saying, I want to agree with the financial aspect. We don't have men that provides for the home anymore. Why must we have to bend to take up their responsibility and they can't do any domestication. I don't agree with the African aspect. We can't tilt towards "African" when it doesn't favour the men ... It's only the entitled men that will definitely disagree with me
Cleanliness is next to Godliness for everyone. Keep things tidy, as soon as you use them. African or otherwise, we all have a 24 hour day. Nobody is sent to clean after anyone!
I love this video so much 💓🙏🏻 Thank you so much Mrs ify. My question is what about those men that no how to manege more than the women 😊 they can use two thousand Naira to cook pot of soup 🍲 and the woman only no how to manage 3000 to prepare concoshor soup please what is your advise to that lady in that kind of relationship?
Can we take a minute to appreciate Ify’s makeup and blouse?💕❤️❤️
😂thank you
Yes ooooo... Ify please I want d blouse
I kept on taking screenshot at every opportunity. She’s an Iconic Queen. She looks like an Idol
❤❤❤❤ it's very beautiful
Beautiful
Great points. Can we also get a guy to talk about the men’s part? Cause it seems everyone is only interested in training and advising the girl child. We need to invest in our men as well.
Fact
True talk
Well said
Exactly, I’m so sick for always being told what to do but never seeing the same for men
Beautiful 😍
Since it's not a man's duty to help with household chores,it shouldn't be a woman's duty too to be financing the family,we should all know our duty, African women are not slaves. If we women must help men financially in the family then nothing should stop men from helping us with household chores.Imagine foreign women watching this won't they call African women slaves the way they do call Africans slaves
If I find myself providing, the man will definitely do the chores. I can't be everything while he lazy about. Not fair at all.
A woman who brings home money is helping the man in his job to support the household financially. A kind husband will have no problem pitching in to help keep the home clean. 😊
I did everything you said Ify, but he just wanted an end to the marriage. Am ok with my son now. Thanks so much for taking time for this video. Young ones please pray not to have wrong partners
Don’t mind her they are always against women
Amen 🙏🏻🙌🏻
Sorry about this. God will connect us with the right partners
Prayer is the Key. Only God knows best.
I did all these buh he finally dumped me for another woman...
Peaceful marriage is just luck
I'm still a young boy
But I'll keep everything you said here in mind 😅... I know I'll need these points in the future
I really love this! So refreshing to hear in 2024.. I hope people listen to understand. Especially keywords like “responsibility”.. And of course every marriage has peculiarities but this is very sound advice generally speaking.
Thank you for watching ❤
And do you think women haven’t been doing this ? Just a Honest question, if it was this simple , don’t you think all women would be married or in a relationship?
Before the advent of genz ladies , weren’t there women
, who did all this and more , did that help them keep a man?
Wasn’t it because irrespective of these points , they were will still not loyal , were violent etc ? So much , that these genz baddies learned from their mothers and upgraded?
There is no smoke without fire . Do you think the mess in the now “dating scene” is , cause women can’t keep a home or aren’t financially wise .
You think a married woman finds it hard to cook and clean? Or she finds it hard to spend wisely , or she finds it her to cook for her own children and family? Or she willingly didn’t want to be friends with her in laws ?
And the women that did all this , how many of them did this, only for the man to pour his resources into someone that didn’t even life a finger?
Lol it’s well.
I agree no matter what you say or do, a man should want to be “kept” first, if not, nothing will keep him. I’ve seen this firsthand
I don’t agree with you about pretending to be who you are not for your in-laws. Be accommodating, loving , treat them as you want to be treated but you must have boundaries. You can never please everyone. Period!😘 Just be your authentic self without any pretense all in the name of marriage. If they value you, they will accept you for who you are.
Thanks Ify,am watching from Uganda the pearl of Africa. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I agree but not to a woman who have gone through hell in their past relationships and is financially stable, such ladies it takes grace, patience and alot of counseling to be able to be a maker
You see this hospitality towards in-laws and husband's friend. Its indeed a key. Women should please get rid of this "I'm married to him alone mentally" ee should lesrn to accommodate.
I agree. You need to humble yourself and have some class. You cant get everything you want. Be appreciative because it can be gone in a flash. No ego,pride or cockiness
💯💯💯
Thank you for being honest and realistic on this topic, Ify. Love it. I'll like to know your opinion on single ladies that intentionally foster friendship with married men, disregarding their wives. Their flex is usually along the lines of "I don't make friends with girls..." they also feel like an achiever when they drop statements like "I'm closer to her husband, actually..."
I'll be really happy to see/hear your thoughts on this, please ❤
I won’t contribute more money to my home o and still come back home to do house chores. The first problem is marrying someone who you earn more than, don’t make that mistake.
🎉😂see you can marry someone who you earn more than but who knows the person will later earn more than you. We have different potential.
I love the 'primary responsibility' you used!
Thank you mama😊
Never knew you, haven't even listened to your message but I already followed and liked 😂😂 because girl you're so beautiful, from makeup to wears to background...girl I love you ♥️🥰 I will listen all through from today
Awwww this means a lot to me. Thank you and welcome to the family 💕
ALL the points ARE very IMPORTANT!! Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
Learning financial management for me is hard as a student but I am gonna work it out. Thank you Ma ❤.
Thanks for what you said but some men don't appreciate the effort of a woman.that lady found grace.that all I can say
Wow, I loved the advice you're giving to those looking for a partner or hubby. Will definitely be sharing it with the young people in my church. Strong sound advice. Look forward to the next one.. 🙏🏾
Thank you❤️
Madam Ify, thanks for these tips, i love your example of church and hospital. honestly attending worship services at designated centres should be primarily to praise God and then all other things desired will be added unto us.
This is really insightful tbh, just as a woman wouldn’t wanna be with a wasteful man with no concept of money, a man wouldn’t be with a woman with d same that trait too, it’s True that what works for a particular person might not work for another but there’re some attributes that makes a woman stand out as being virtuous, physical appearance can only get a woman so far but your ways is what keeps a home & a man. That’s my personal view tho.
Ify you do this onee♥️
Pls comtinue with these type of video... Alot needs to hear this
Thank you, I will❤️❤️❤️
I love you more for this Mrs Ify
You said it all my love… all you said is true n am not bragging I do this alone…. I wanted to pause for a while but this talk you have given me the strength to keep it up.
Keep going love.❤❤❤
Weldone ma'am,don't wanna sound spiritual but this is so divine...God bless you ma'am😘😍.
Please raise the volume momma,give it to them ❤
I agree with you a 100%, great video Ify, I pray they take your advice.
So much wisdom here. Thank you so much, big sis. God bless you,ma.
Very beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed this, ma'am. Thank you. Looking forward to more of this as a young lady preparing for marriage.❤ 23:08
Ify I older than u married 40 years my experience money and material things don't put that in font yhe person u love or want to spend rest of Yr life true love comes from Yr heart and not want u looking for in a man or a woman when u first meet u got everything to share with each other but after years down the line u becomes separated from talking from when u first meet but that doesn't mean Yr love gone it mean u become Yr own self of living and not sharing the same conversation any relationship u go in it well always becomes like this so stay with the one u have and learn to accept and preciate what he or she has to offer in Yr relationship this women like to have everything and put pressure on men the men go and try hard to work to gave them so they can keep the peace be happy with each other have respect and love for each other put god in front Yr relationship and let God do what u can't do to make it work hod bless
Let God do what you can't do, to make it work! ❤ This is me and my partner... When I bring up stubborn girl vibes, he will say we need to pray / fast! Before you know I submit to God in him😊
Yes ohh!!! pride needs to be put aside
I Wished We D Singles Find D Best Of All,It's Not Easy Indeed; But May God Direct Us To The Right Partners......
Thank you for this video Ify. These are important issues that people hardly want to hear these days, yet they can't be overlooked or avoided. I love that you have a sound mind and you are reasonable too. Lots of love from here.
By the way, you look so beautiful. ❤❤❤
I appreciate this❤️
I'm not yet married but i love this video and I learnt alot from it ❤
Thank you I really learned a lot 🙏🙏🙏
Use me as a like button, if you think Ify should do more of these videos
We can communicate through your channel without reacting to your channel Miss Ifys
We can communicate through your channel without reacting to your channel Miss Ifys
Great point ma
It's really helpful
I would make sure I don't slack myself
I like what you are saying.
Cooking is never hard
I love cooking 😊
Cooking is my hobby ❤
Eating is my hobby o! Abeg give me location to your kitchen oo
Flawless makeup, beautiful top, you are glowing Ify.
You just gained a subscriber ❤
Welcome onboard❤️
Weather it's to get a husband or not It's GOOD to have a GOOD kept Home AND we need to have attitude of Gratitude 🙏🙏🙏
For all persons not just women
You have really done well with these teachings of yours. God bless you.
Ify, it is Oyaya (Acceptance/Accommodating).
Wow this is what I call motivation thank u so much lfy for this advice
You are so welcome 🤗
Ify you look great. You are just glowing.. You have spoken well.
Thank you Esther ❤️
Truth be told
This is a Pure 💯% Truth ❤
This Entitlement i just listen to now is enough...
Even though is a #1,000 say thank you and be Greatfull.
Maybe is better for me to wish them well without sending Money
SOME good advice here. However, life is NOT linear.
Words of wisdom 👏 thanks ify, this will help a lot of people
❤
I wish I could meet a woman like you thank you . 🙏🏽
Pure truth. All ladies need this priceless fact.
I just liked & subscribed....too good❤❤
Thank you and welcome ❤️❤️❤️
Why is it that it seems like most female RUclipsrs who like giving relationship and marriage advice on RUclips are Nigerian ladies while Nigerian men outside of Nigeria have nothing good to say about you guys???
Those men are stupid, there are good ladies in Nigeria which I am one of them
Ify this video is really really helpful!! thanks for sharing...
You are welcome ❤️
That goat 🐐 recipe I knew they were more than milk 🥛! Thank you for that 🎉❤
I love your charisma. And thanks for this great piece. Kudos.
Thank you❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Ify ❤
Love your outfit,hair and makeup up
Social media is crazy, everyone wants to do what someone else is doing, dairy of a kitchen lover started telling stories few days back and now ify’s kitchen is doing same thing, una no wan dy cook again?
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am sure you are new on this channel. Take a stroll down past videos and enjoy yourself. You are welcome dear friend.
@@Ifyskitchen i mostly watch cooking videos, i watch ify’s kitchen, sisiyemima, foodies and spice and the rest of them, don’t worry I’m not new on this channel madam Ify 😊
@@stelladaniel5555 thank you for watching my videos. I appreciate you💕
Ify God bless for these points.
Please next time touch on kitchen safety and kitchen economy.. Thank you
Noted❤️❤️❤️
Thanks big sis 🥰
U are truly one of a kind ❤️
❤️❤️❤️
Ma'am you are good in everything you do.. you should do this more often
Will do and thank you for watching ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Ify for the lovely advice Ohhh wow I've learnt a lot here ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
You are so welcome 🤗
I agree with you. Love it! Thank you Ify.
Wow ❤ i love everything about this gorgeous woman 😊 thank you for this wonderful teaching ❤❤
You are so welcome🥰
Thanks big sis
U are truly one of a kind 💕
Ify, you look stunning, i admire you from afar.Keep it up.
I appreciate you Doreen❤️
This is really making a lot of sense beautiful Sis❤
Wise words Sis❤ Ride on 😊 More of this hooo Sis
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Thank you mama Ify for this, God bless you❤❤❤
Amen. God bless you too❤️
Beautiful video, insightful 👌 👏 ❤️, facts 👏 💯
Pure truth ma'am,I've added your points to the one I know before.Thanks ❤
Anyways,like your style and make ups💋😊😉
WISE WORDS!
Thank you for this video ❤
Ify you have your flowers 💐
So nice of you❤️
Thanks for sharing this, it goes a long way and trust me, I totally agree with you...
We pin 📌 ❤
As much as I don't totally agree with what you are saying, I want to agree with the financial aspect. We don't have men that provides for the home anymore. Why must we have to bend to take up their responsibility and they can't do any domestication. I don't agree with the African aspect. We can't tilt towards "African" when it doesn't favour the men ... It's only the entitled men that will definitely disagree with me
I 💯 percent agree with everything that has been said, na partner remain
Thanks ma
But a lot of guys out there don’t value all this ma
I’m looking forward to meet my man that’ll reciprocate with same energy
You will meet that man by the grace of God❤
@@Ifyskitchen Amen 🙏🏼
Thanks for your teachings
I really appreciate 😭😭😭😭
U can type that again in this messed up generation
As being part of Gen Z I need to educate my classmates abiut this and I am learning myself despite being a guy ❤❤.
Wise words Ify. I agree totally.
This is why I love you!! God bless you ❤❤❤
BONJOUR IFY
TA BLOUSE TON MAQUILLAGE CEST JUST TOP
HOW WE GET YOUR BLOUSE?
YOU ARE SO SO SO BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤❤❤❤
GOD BLESS YOU ❤❤❤❤
Weldon Ify you have spoken well.
Thanks for the teaching Ify, God bless you more and more.
Amen. God bless you too❤
All your point are purely truth, god bless you
Good morning ma I will say ur words motivate me ❤❤❤❤ more love
Thank you ma
Ify is like a big sister to me here
Love you sis❤️
Pure truth ify thanks for this
Thank you mama. God bless you for this. More of this video ma. I really appreciate and enjoy it
Thanks for watching my love❤️
Pure truth from WhatsApp family ❤❤
Cleanliness is next to Godliness for everyone. Keep things tidy, as soon as you use them. African or otherwise, we all have a 24 hour day. Nobody is sent to clean after anyone!
You just gain a subscriber
Totally agree with all you said Ify😊
Nice one ❤
More of this biko 😊
God bless you
❤️❤️❤️
I love this video so much 💓🙏🏻
Thank you so much Mrs ify. My question is what about those men that no how to manege more than the women 😊 they can use two thousand Naira to cook pot of soup 🍲 and the woman only no how to manage 3000 to prepare concoshor soup please what is your advise to that lady in that kind of relationship?
Thank you so much for the advice😊
Ify please where did you get that golden flower from, please send us a link, its beautiful.
This was very helpful Ify. Thank you❤
Glad it was helpful!
Yes,ify you look really lovely,Ur blouse is giving please can I have it?Many Thanks for the great tips
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I love your values, Ify❤
Really appreciate this. Thank you so much ma 💖💖💖