1. A high value woman knows her worth. She doesn't go to the extent that other women go to to seek validation from a man. 2. A high value woman doesn't just focus on her emotions. She looks at the logistics and sees if it's something worth pursuing. 3. A high value woman matches a man's investment. That doesn't mean that she can't reach out to him, or show interest; however, his investment has to be rewarded. 4. A high value woman values sex. She knows that it is something he is after, and for this reason she cherishes it. She puts out when she trusts the guy. 5. A high value woman is a master negotiator. She makes it very clear what she is looking for.
you all prolly dont care at all but does anybody know of a way to get back into an instagram account..? I was dumb lost the password. I would appreciate any tips you can give me
I DID ALL THOSE THINGS YOU LISTED AND WAS TOTALLY ALONE FOR 13 YEARS......I WAS NOT HAPPY BEING A HIGH VALUE WOMAN>>>>>IT REALLY REALLY WAS A CRAPPY WAY OF LIVING
@@marejensen8294 I know you can often fe lonely as a high value woman and you won't get too much attention from too many men, that's true, but that doesn't matter. Getting respect from a high value man is all you should expect.
When you're not afraid of losing the man, you will automatically act high value. High value women seeks for red flags while the rest of low value women busy to lower their boundaries just to gain his validation. This is bc high value woman has her emotion under control, she is not a slave to her emotion
i realy like a guy and i do see it really goes the way he wants.. i guess i'm afraid of losing him if i tell or call him out on things.. 😢 if i tell him i have feelings for him.. i think he will stop seeing me or stops contact? it's a shitty situation to be in because i have feelings for him
"Guys have chemistry with any women out there" I laughed at it. As women we often feel "we had such a great connection or chemistry", not understanding why they have disappeared, in fact we are just infatuated but we tell ourselves a romantic story that prevents us from looking at the red flags. Often the "chemistry" was attraction to our past trauma.
Ladies, friends don’t f*ck. A real friend wouldn’t think you’re not good enough to be his girlfriend or wife, but you’re good enough to use for the moment. You determine your worth not him. Kind of like how little dogs are sometimes the alpha dog; it’s their attitude not their looks or size. Believe in your value, and don’t let any man tell you any different.
I don’t do IOI to see where I stand. I can tell where I stand based on his actions or lack there of and will block and move on without much notice or go cold if I’m not getting the energy I feel I should. It’s really that simple.
Fuck I love you and how honest you are. Upfront, no bullshit truth. You're delivery is perfect. I remember one time I asked for your help through your premium options and you were such a champ about it and told me that you didn't see there being any real potential for the relationship or options to move forward and you gave me a bloody refund. Always remembered that and really appreciated your level of morality and kindness. You're a good man Elliot. 👍
The irony... I cannot listen to it. You know why? Because just because I'm high value woman, succeed, with hobbies, my own opinions, happy life and all... and im alone. And they say it scares men because I'm too confident. I have taken care of myself 10 years ago, but I'm unloved and unwanted. And I really want to invite someone to my beautiful life.. they only watch me and look at me
Yep. Following emotions is being in your feminine energy, which gets u ghosted and dumped. You need some masculine energy so that a man has something to connect to.
Elliot please do more videos about how to be a high value women but with more specific examples than fundamentals. 🙏 Love your videos, they have been very helpful to me tremendously. You're the best dating coach bar none!
I truly enjoyed this video ! 😃 speaking as a high value women all things here are true and works I have been married 17 years because of these things 💯💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
I dont know if I caught a great You-tube recommendation, but you r on a roll with some of the videos, I just seen! U r awesome. You're explanation is awesome! I might need u for some coaching ;) Never did coaching in my life.
I kind would be interested in like a consult where you just tell me or someone where we are at as far as value and what we can work on An objective male opinion if u will
Answer me this, guru Elliot. Can you flip the script if you engaged in sex way too early? I’m a high value woman who jumped in too quick. Admittedly fell for him. But I also am not getting my needs/wants met at a level that is fair. I’m ready to jump ship if needed. There is little reciprocity from him now. I’ve hit the brakes but would love your thoughts 🙋🏻♀️has my ship already sunk? Or is there hope if I set those expectations now?
Some solid information, but I disagree about having sex early I think that's something special that should be saved till later plus you don't want to get some kind of disease or get pregnant there's a lot of complications that can come with easy sex.
Respect and know all your talents and what sets you apart from the basic crowd. Never hesitate to pivot and disregard any man that raises that eyebrow. Make sure they pass the smell test and triangulate when in the vetting and observing their 3 dimensional character and feel free to zoom out when you feel an interruption of energy from them.... all this is before getting frisky and you can achieve the type of relationship you want with any man. I refer to the courting process as what it is, a potential consideration knows he’s auditioning with me as I am self entertained to say the least. If it helps think “I’m real good, is entertaining you better?” Be Missouri! That ‘show me’ state of mind ladies 😁
I heard it doesn't matter how long you make a guy wait for sex if he's interested he's interested if he's not then he could just wait as long as you make him wait and get it what he wants and still dump you
Guess what, putting out second, third date, is still way to early. Men take way longer to get emotionally Attached. And if they get it sooner then that, they lose all interest
New video idea. You want to get rid of guy but he won't leave. You don't give a fiddle, so a little of your dark side shows and then there is this freaky attraction between you, so now he really won't leave! What goes on in the guy's mind here? A series about what he thinks in scenarios would be helpful.
Ashley XO well be careful with that . Guy who is really in to you will agree , happened to me ..... what a mess , so have to come up with something else to get out of the situation .
I HAVE BEEN REALLY PASSIONATE LATELY ABOUT ATTRACTION & I WILL LIKE TO SHIFT MY PERSPECTIVE AROUND FOR THE BETTER I HIGHLY BELIEVE I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES 🅰️📛GAME🙌🏼💯✔️
Hmm yeah, great video. I agree, I don’t thik this whole thing on waiting to have sex with a guy is worth it, however on some occasions it should be waited on, depending on the vibes. There is a lot of information out there on being a high value woman and I personally think the power comes from within, the deep inner work. I think a man should be an addition to our happiness or contentment and I think when we realise we may be doing something to fill a void for example sex, tinder, compliments from men, all this kind of stuff for constant validation, we should reflect and pause for a while. Saying, don’t have sex with him on the third date (even though I want to) should not be the only thing as women we hold at value, I agree but who give with our affection to, makes a difference, I agree. I think when we fuck up, acknowledge it but don’t view it with so much negativity. I think our value as women should come from deep within, believing that you’re the shit but remaining humble and not thinking one is better than others
What you elaborate here is something i really resonate with. We gotta go within and find help from spiritual work guidance. That's why i wrote shadow work - but also. Attachment styles. Trauma. Deepest fears and core wounds. Break our spells of our shyness and emotional unavailability. :)
So we have to pretend like we’re not interested when we are interested? Why can’t we just be genuine with our feelings? Why does everybody have to play games? It’s such BS.
YES AND YOU WILL BE ALL ALONE FOR MANY MANY YEARS IF YOU DO ALL THE THINGS HE SAYS>...SO YOU CAN CHOOSE BEING TOTALLY ALONE >>>>>>OR HAVING SOME KIND OF AFFECTION AND "LOVE" EVEN IF IT IS NOT REAL LOVE
@@dixieboy5689 well she is looking for love so i gave her my advice...to stay away from users.. Everybody deserves love if that s what they want to... Useless people too..
1. A high value woman knows her worth. She doesn't go to the extent that other women go to to seek validation from a man.
2. A high value woman doesn't just focus on her emotions. She looks at the logistics and sees if it's something worth pursuing.
3. A high value woman matches a man's investment. That doesn't mean that she can't reach out to him, or show interest; however, his investment has to be rewarded.
4. A high value woman values sex. She knows that it is something he is after, and for this reason she cherishes it. She puts out when she trusts the guy.
5. A high value woman is a master negotiator. She makes it very clear what she is looking for.
@I was gonna take a si p but I’m not thirsty I don’t understand
Word
you all prolly dont care at all but does anybody know of a way to get back into an instagram account..?
I was dumb lost the password. I would appreciate any tips you can give me
I DID ALL THOSE THINGS YOU LISTED AND WAS TOTALLY ALONE FOR 13 YEARS......I WAS NOT HAPPY BEING A HIGH VALUE WOMAN>>>>>IT REALLY REALLY WAS A CRAPPY WAY OF LIVING
@@marejensen8294 I know you can often fe lonely as a high value woman and you won't get too much attention from too many men, that's true, but that doesn't matter. Getting respect from a high value man is all you should expect.
When you're not afraid of losing the man, you will automatically act high value. High value women seeks for red flags while the rest of low value women busy to lower their boundaries just to gain his validation. This is bc high value woman has her emotion under control, she is not a slave to her emotion
When you hungry, don't be a slave to your instincts. Only low value women follow their instincts
i realy like a guy and i do see it really goes the way he wants.. i guess i'm afraid of losing him if i tell or call him out on things.. 😢 if i tell him i have feelings for him.. i think he will stop seeing me or stops contact? it's a shitty situation to be in because i have feelings for him
Yes but any woman. Who can fall in love is vulnerable mine tine or another. - tint you have to get it j set control.
"Guys have chemistry with any women out there" I laughed at it. As women we often feel "we had such a great connection or chemistry", not understanding why they have disappeared, in fact we are just infatuated but we tell ourselves a romantic story that prevents us from looking at the red flags. Often the "chemistry" was attraction to our past trauma.
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I’m feeling attacked 😂
YES! So true. This is why women chase men that are completely unavailable.
Ladies, friends don’t f*ck. A real friend wouldn’t think you’re not good enough to be his girlfriend or wife, but you’re good enough to use for the moment. You determine your worth not him. Kind of like how little dogs are sometimes the alpha dog; it’s their attitude not their looks or size. Believe in your value, and don’t let any man tell you any different.
I don’t do IOI to see where I stand. I can tell where I stand based on his actions or lack there of and will block and move on without much notice or go cold if I’m not getting the energy I feel I should. It’s really that simple.
What is IOI? Is it like a test people do on someone ?
Indicators of interest
@@equalitarianbiologist2327 Practically how does someone do an indicator of interest on someone ?
I realized that was my problem.
Ladies you have to remain high value going into the relationship and heading out if you don't work out.
I’ve really been watching your videos lately, they’re great. Cause you get to the point straight away, plus I think your videos are genuine!
Fuck I love you and how honest you are. Upfront, no bullshit truth. You're delivery is perfect. I remember one time I asked for your help through your premium options and you were such a champ about it and told me that you didn't see there being any real potential for the relationship or options to move forward and you gave me a bloody refund.
Always remembered that and really appreciated your level of morality and kindness.
You're a good man Elliot. 👍
Chemistry is important for woman too if we ain’t feelin it then we can ghost them too lol 🤓
BOUNDARIES!!!!
Exactly.
Great advice! I had a question about a situation I’m in and you just gave me the answer! Thanks! 👏🏼
The irony... I cannot listen to it. You know why? Because just because I'm high value woman, succeed, with hobbies, my own opinions, happy life and all... and im alone. And they say it scares men because I'm too confident. I have taken care of myself 10 years ago, but I'm unloved and unwanted. And I really want to invite someone to my beautiful life.. they only watch me and look at me
Same!! B
This is the one 💖
Awesome video addressing real concerns that most women don’t understand! Thank you😊
Elliot, keep telling us how it is…. We need it & LOVE you for it
Excellent video!! Direct and to the point. Every woman must watch this before her first date! Even the second or third ....an so on ❗
So helpful👏👏, thanks very much, great coach!!
One of your bests videos! Thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you for this!! I feel like I tend to follow my emotions more than logic and I don’t want to do that anymore!!
Yep. Following emotions is being in your feminine energy, which gets u ghosted and dumped. You need some masculine energy so that a man has something to connect to.
Elliot should have more subscribers. He’s wise and on point. Can’t say I have disagreed yet 🎉🙋🏼♀️🥂💃🏼
well I f*cked up...lmao
With hooking up, if that’s all you want with a guy then go for it but if you love someone then do these five things.
I Love your videos sooo much you're the best👏🏻❤️
And thanks a lot for understanding by talking slower that's much better😍
Great video! Thank you.
Elliot please do more videos about how to be a high value women but with more specific examples than fundamentals. 🙏
Love your videos, they have been very helpful to me tremendously. You're the best dating coach bar none!
I love this new intro
Me too
I like the intro music 🎶 I think it's the best out there.
That’s exactly what I thought I was like yes someone is upgrading his look
9:29 onwards. Those points right there hit different 👌🏾
❤❤❤ this was on point
I love you Elliot Scott you’re my saviour
You put everything in a better perspective
So high value is the new thing I see
This is very educational. 💛
Looove you Elliot!!! If you’re looking for dating advice, please listen to him-he’s spot on!💓
Yesssss! That is my issue
I haven't even watched yes I already liked it I know it's going to be good
thank you
This is one of the best dating advice videos on RUclips by any dating coach.
Every human is valuable
I truly enjoyed this video ! 😃 speaking as a high value women all things here are true and works I have been married 17 years because of these things 💯💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
I dont know if I caught a great You-tube recommendation, but you r on a roll with some of the videos, I just seen! U r awesome. You're explanation is awesome! I might need u for some coaching ;) Never did coaching in my life.
Can i say that you are just so awesome 😁
always good advice! thanks, Elliott
Appreciate the honesty from your channel.
Thanks for the new video (dead3agle from twitch ;D)
Thanks for being awesome and following on twitch. Ill be on today
New Subscriber. Thank you 😊
I kind would be interested in like a consult where you just tell me or someone where we are at as far as value and what we can work on
An objective male opinion if u will
We get it.
Yesss! Shooootttt trial and error... over the last year
Answer me this, guru Elliot. Can you flip the script if you engaged in sex way too early? I’m a high value woman who jumped in too quick. Admittedly fell for him. But I also am not getting my needs/wants met at a level that is fair. I’m ready to jump ship if needed. There is little reciprocity from him now. I’ve hit the brakes but would love your thoughts 🙋🏻♀️has my ship already sunk? Or is there hope if I set those expectations now?
How come no one answered to your comment??? I want to know this answer too
Sounds to me like he just wanted a roll in the hay.
Much, mutch, Matcha!
I'm alright with being myself during this season. I guess you learned when you get tired of looking like a dummy.
That intro is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great advice, Elliot, you are my guy
Is the hair for me
Its the after I like them
Some solid information, but I disagree about having sex early I think that's something special that should be saved till later plus you don't want to get some kind of disease or get pregnant there's a lot of complications that can come with easy sex.
You are absolutely adorable and so real!!
We have to have rules. Guys tests us!
9:15 yep that’s what happened I don’t regret it but I regret the outcome🥺
Apparently they write articles titled, "Where are all the good men?"
Respect and know all your talents and what sets you apart from the basic crowd. Never hesitate to pivot and disregard any man that raises that eyebrow. Make sure they pass the smell test and triangulate when in the vetting and observing their 3 dimensional character and feel free to zoom out when you feel an interruption of energy from them.... all this is before getting frisky and you can achieve the type of relationship you want with any man. I refer to the courting process as what it is, a potential consideration knows he’s auditioning with me as I am self entertained to say the least.
If it helps think “I’m real good, is entertaining you better?” Be Missouri! That ‘show me’ state of mind ladies 😁
And that’s on periodt pooh!! 🙌🏾
So genius👍
What are they doing to attract us tho?
I don't enter a relationship with men who aren't in the stage of marriage. It would just be a waste of my time.
Epic vid, Elliot!.. You're a lifesaver.. clean shit up, proper!
Someone helped me restore back my relationship he can also help you , just as he did mine too
Contact him on whtsapp
+(234)815-689-6436,,,,
I heard it doesn't matter how long you make a guy wait for sex if he's interested he's interested if he's not then he could just wait as long as you make him wait and get it what he wants and still dump you
Yea but you can’t properly vet a dude you don’t take time to know
My chest says it all :)
Guess what, putting out second, third date, is still way to early. Men take way longer to get emotionally Attached. And if they get it sooner then that, they lose all interest
I thought men fall in love quicker
yip, I made it clear, he doesn't want a relationship so it's simple, NEXT...x
Love it, thank you. For this honest, wise advice. Shoutout from Switzerland
Hey
Bell 🔔 Notifications does help. 😁
First !😊
New video idea. You want to get rid of guy but he won't leave. You don't give a fiddle, so a little of your dark side shows and then there is this freaky attraction between you, so now he really won't leave! What goes on in the guy's mind here? A series about what he thinks in scenarios would be helpful.
Tell him you want babies right away! And watch him run lol
@@ash13311 haha, good idea!
Ashley XO well be careful with that . Guy who is really in to you will agree , happened to me ..... what a mess , so have to come up with something else to get out of the situation .
I HAVE BEEN REALLY PASSIONATE LATELY ABOUT ATTRACTION & I WILL LIKE TO SHIFT MY PERSPECTIVE AROUND FOR THE BETTER I HIGHLY BELIEVE I HAVE WHAT IT TAKES 🅰️📛GAME🙌🏼💯✔️
Hello evolving matrix ,I can definitely recommend you to a man who helped me fix my broken relationship >I'm so happy now I got my ex back
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@Goddess Shella Thanks baby girl🕯💗✨🌸
@@hood7empress114 have you texted him???
👏👏👏
We have alot of chemistry with alot of women😂
This is your video
👏👏
Hmm yeah, great video. I agree, I don’t thik this whole thing on waiting to have sex with a guy is worth it, however on some occasions it should be waited on, depending on the vibes. There is a lot of information out there on being a high value woman and I personally think the power comes from within, the deep inner work. I think a man should be an addition to our happiness or contentment and I think when we realise we may be doing something to fill a void for example sex, tinder, compliments from men, all this kind of stuff for constant validation, we should reflect and pause for a while. Saying, don’t have sex with him on the third date (even though I want to) should not be the only thing as women we hold at value, I agree but who give with our affection to, makes a difference, I agree. I think when we fuck up, acknowledge it but don’t view it with so much negativity. I think our value as women should come from deep within, believing that you’re the shit but remaining humble and not thinking one is better than others
Shadow work, preach!!
What you elaborate here is something i really resonate with. We gotta go within and find help from spiritual work guidance. That's why i wrote shadow work - but also. Attachment styles. Trauma. Deepest fears and core wounds. Break our spells of our shyness and emotional unavailability. :)
👑💯
So we have to pretend like we’re not interested when we are interested? Why can’t we just be genuine with our feelings? Why does everybody have to play games? It’s such BS.
Is my camera crooked, whatever 😂
Quality attracts quality
“IOI”.... OH wow... you nailed it!! Read a woman’s mind thank you !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I KNOW I will do it differently with the next guy 🍦🍦
🤙🏼
We love Jesus First
YES AND YOU WILL BE ALL ALONE FOR MANY MANY YEARS IF YOU DO ALL THE THINGS HE SAYS>...SO YOU CAN CHOOSE BEING TOTALLY ALONE >>>>>>OR HAVING SOME KIND OF AFFECTION AND "LOVE" EVEN IF IT IS NOT REAL LOVE
Men don t give affection and love to a woman that they don t love..
If they don t love u they will only use u for sex..🤷♀️
@@sweetgirl62 >>> so what ! some women dont have a use for anything else, but sex.
@@dixieboy5689 well she is looking for love so i gave her my advice...to stay away from users..
Everybody deserves love if that s what they want to...
Useless people too..
The main women I know who act like they are desperate for attention are usually strippers and don't have dad's or were raised without a father figure
What a load of crap 😂😂😂😂
i like Elliot
I wish black women seeked this info more than KS.
Black woman here
Yeah I hate when you use numbers too
What about number 6?
A high value woman allows a man to be a man.
6:04 7:45
Don’t trust a guy after 2/3 dates…could’ve saved me a whole year
Please stop saying “put out”. Use a more high value expression. Sex is something you both share with one another