It is interesting for sure, like this one girl in particular. “Married” as she so puts it. But never wears her wedding ring. Even at work she goes by two different last names. Does have two kids, but no picture of her “husband” and she doesn’t even talk about him. But she does look at me differently, talks differently, gets closer than others. Smiles all the time, always asking me what’s going on in my life. While others couldn’t care less. She could be busy and stops to talk to me, she was walking to her desk saw me and took the longer way around just to say hello and start a short friendly conversation. Hey! I’m not complaining one bit. It’s just very satisfying that a pretty girl as her. Would do that for me. I’d love to ask her out. But I know that would not only ruin my job, but make things more complicated. If we’re being honest here, without all of the rules. I would love to hook up with her in a heart beat. Unfortunately though, it wouldn’t ever happen.
I'm in the same situation! I would love to have the opportunity to ask her out she is so gorgeous I forget about everything...but shes "married" and leaves me puzzled is she for reals? Or playing me. Ugh
@@mampoiapathiamopeli5500 my crush is in a warehouse and she has never went up to me (always walking the whole shift btw) but she always maintains eye contact from quite a distance and is always in view right when i come out of the breakroom. i tried to hand her a note 2 days ago and she was walking with another female employee (doing training i think) and she purposely slowed down and the other girl was out of view past a pallet and i said "i wanted to give you this" as im handing her the note the other girl comes back around the corner and i say "nevermind" and take my arm back and walk away(totally awkward) didnt see them the rest of that shift then yesterday i go near her and she doesnt look at me so i can set the note down somewhere, so i follow her and say "yo" (nothing) "yo yo" she turns around and im nervous as fuck and toss the note on the floor in front of her and walk away. it said in the note "if its awkward to come up just text yes or no to (my #) then at the end of it i realize it and say "wait dont say no just throw it away lmao!" to make her laugh and i get nothing.*so after that during the same shift yesterday* she follows me around the warehouse twice and i avoid her both times and then its end of shift and now i dont see her until next sunday the 16th *hopefully* *i have no clue whats about to go down when im there doing the same thing i do every week*
You’d hook up with a married woman? Go find your own girl, or at least let her get a divorce. Stop taking the easy way when a woman has a husband who just may be working his as$ off for her. What a Dick move.
I have a crush on someone at work, we started the same day and really got along great. We don’t work in the same department but I bump into him nearly every day and he always calls my name and makes the effort to chat and see what I’m doing. I find myself looking out to see if he is in work too and go find him. One day, at lunch, he came and sat near my colleague and I, and I find he does come and sit near me if he can if we have lunch the same time, and my friend mentioned she felt as though he fancied me. I haven’t noticed any rings but I did over hear him talking to another colleague about his wife...... That literally broke my heart 😂 I had no idea! I really felt like he had an interest in me outside of our work relationship. He saw me coming over and hushed his voice, but I still heard him say about his wife etc. I don’t know if he really is interested in me now, if I was getting the wrong signals, or if he does like me but has a wife! Any advice on how to handle this ?
Fact of the matter is, if he did that to his wife, then how would he play you? Many times a guy will play the single game to see if they still got it...OR his relationship is failing. Whatever the reason, a true person will never lead you on or beat around the bush. Intentions should be clear. Steer clear, smile and play your distance like nothing happened *sigh. You'd be silly to think he's the only one who finds you attractive.
@Jade D Honey that is a red flag 🚩 when it comes to dating. If he is interested in you then why didn't he tell u personally that he has a wife, why did he tell to ur colleague perhaps he didn't want u to know his deep secret and that u might loose interest in him or probably he is a player/chad. Beware sweet heart!!! Stay away from him and avoid all interaction with him and date someone outside workplace
@Jade D... greeting and warm love ❤😘 to you from India🇮🇳 🙏🤝👍 All the very best 💕 dear. May u find someone special who is interested and tries to make u the best version of yourself.
I have two office crushes. They're both married. I've had office romance before and I know the old saying "Don't fish off the company pier" I know how these things end. Usually not well. But man when they look at me... One of them has smoldering eyes and a subtle smile, which burns right through my chest like Superman's laser eyes.
My co-worker would bother me non-stop and make fun of me. He used to make fun of my exs. He never asked me to hang out outside of work. He had a gf at the time. He got upset because I didn't find him attractive. He also told me to stop being those girls that don't know if a guy is flirting with them. (I don't know what that means.) He also said to stop seeing him like a nephew. I did find him very attractive but he was my co-worker and he is younger than me. I told him I like nerds and he said I’m a nerd. Lol, I told him “no, you're a jock.” But I think he did all that because I hurt his ego and he's a bully. Ugh, boys.
Last 6 wks, a female vendor is at my busy job Tues/Thur (early a.m.) for 1-2 hrs. It’s a small delivery warehouse building. She’s thin, blonde, gorgeous w green eyes. Sorta looks like Christina Applegate. I had crush on her 2 min after we were introduced. We talk a few min each day about non work stuff, her dog, our mutual interests. She has 2 younger grade school kids. We talk before 95% of employees get there. And if still talk a little when everybody else is there but we are all super busy loading, staging delivery totes on racks. She’s never mentioned a bf or husband. She’s always in a good mood, smiling, kind & sweet. She’s lightly tapped my arm when talking or walking by me a few times. I haven’t noticed her touching other people. She gave me gift right before Xmas: a cat-eye bracelet, small crystal & rose crystal. I gave her small thank u gift next time I saw her. It was a beige canvas wallet w the Mexican day of the dead roses/skull and a small geode. She said she really liked it and has a tattoo on her leg of the same design. 5 min later before she left, she walked up behind me while I was fixing a shelf and stood next to me. She gently grabbed my forearm and said, “thanks again I really like them.” Does she want me to ask her out? Or is she just being friendly, really nice in a platonic way. I want to tell her “let’s grab a drink sometime.” What do u think I should do?
I started a new job and there’s this girl who’s also new that I’m 90% sure likes me. She always helps me or wants to work with me as a team , I feel like we lock eyes a lot and she touches me a lot but to be fair she’s playful with multiple people but doesn’t do the rest of the things . Also this other female coworker she’s close with mumbled that she liked me the other day so if anyone would know I’m sure it’s her The only complicated part is she has a bf. Also I notice she acts different when it’s me and her vs when we’re In a group with other coworkers. Idk how to go about this cause I’m definitely feeling her too
I have a crush on somebody at work, but I don't do any of those 6 things you talk about in the video for a very good reason: I am married and she is in a relationship and has kid. So it would be extremely inappropriate to do any of this. It is just very strange and weird at the same time of having to literally cope with a crush for a coworker I talk to on a weekly basis, because I can't turn off my feelings for this person. It's been like this for about a year now. Will it ever go away?
AussieChap1 I think crushes never go away unless 1 of 2 things happen. You either have a romantic relationship with your crush and the feelings run their natural course, or your crush does or says something that makes you see them differently. Otherwise the crush will last forever, not necessarily on the surface, but in the back of your mind as a fantasy of possibilities and what could have been. Thanks for sharing!
@@charleneeckstein7213 So, it's been now over 3 months since I posted my first comment and not much has changed on an emotional level. Because of COVID everyone in my job gets to work in the office and at home on a rotational basis which means the only day I may get to see her is Friday. I still get to see her on remote calls though, and sometimes we chat. However, I have honestly tried to be as 'invisible' as possible to her without much success. I even think this crush has been growing. Whenever I get to see or talk to her, I get really nervous. I am afraid she or somebody else in the office may actually notice. Essentially, I have found out that we have quite a lot in common, sports, interests and so on. Plus, she's indeed among the sweetest persons I have ever met in my whole life. We definitely seem to connect. What makes this all so strange is, this has never happened to me. I worked for numerous other companies and over the years, and I have worked with lots of other women. Even in the team I work in (which she is not part of) there is 4 other women, and I am ok with that. Anyway, like you said in your last comment, 1 of 2 things may happen. I honestly hope she either gets married or leaves the job, and I am sure that would be it! (Honestly, I can't understand how such a sweet girl isn't married yet.. She's been with her boyfriend for over 6 years.). I still can't help thinking of her! The feeling it gives me is just too good ;) By the way, is there some sort of statistics available on office crushes? I wonder how many men cope with this on a daily basis and what's the most possible outcome. Thanks for reading ;)
I actually think that office crushes are more common than we think. I mean, you're spending a lot of time with these people. Back in the day, work is how a lot of people met their spouses(or even affairs). It's okay to be attracted or even lust/crush on others, but if you're in a committed relationship/marriage then you have a responsibility to your partner. The best solution would be to avoid her OR one of you leaves the job. If you can't do that & you honestly feel that your going to act on it, then get a divorce. Please do not cheat on your spouse. Being cheated on is truly one of the worst feelings in the world. It can mess a person up long term.
@@pb4ugo19 Thanks. It's been a while since I made that comment and things have indeed changed for the better. My crush just had another baby and I started to look at her differently ;) She's still nice to talk to, but the emotional rollercoaster is no longer there.. So all good ;)
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
You shot your shot, now she knows how you feel and has probably thought about it. These definitely could be signs but next move has to be on her. She may like you but doesn’t want to be in a relationship or date someone at work. Let it play out. It’s only been a couple months. Good luck!
I'll just add....don't get hung up on it either. Don't suffer from "one-itis". You could end up wasting alot of time just hoping she'll come around. You can't do that, no matter how much you like her. Besides, she'll want to see you living life to the fullest instead of focusing so much on her.
Unfortunately, there's not a whole lot you can do until they are free of their current relationship. My best advice for you is to just live your life. Don't put your happiness on hold for something that may never happen.
I may have overheard the coworker mentioning a boyfriend, idk 🤷♂️ l notice when she’s walking it’s like she’s trying to find someone but then when she sees me she stops 🤷♂️ I’ve heard a few times her name getting in conversation. We’ve smiled when we walk past.
Hi Ranger, Great question! Even if you only have the occasional interactions with your crush, your feelings are still likely to be obvious because of your body language. When you see her, your body will react in ways you cannot control. Your pupils may dilate, you may get nervous or fidgety, and you will probably stare at her more than you realize because you get to see her so infrequently you will relish the moments that you do. I'm curious, are you wondering if she can tell how you feel or are trying to make sure you are hiding your feelings?
you're right, some people work on the space station too but it's the general idea of a work place and someone coming over and initiating interaction or contact
I have a crush on a co worker whenever I go to the store she's either sweeping the floor or at the cashier and we tend to lock eyes or when she's ringing me up she looks at me and she looks away fast. Is this a sign she's into me please help me thanks in advance
Unless she is just a naturally shy person and avoids prolonged eye contact with everyone, she is definitely giving off signs of attraction and possible interest. Engage her in conversation when she is giving you the eye so she feels more comfortable and see where it goes from there. Good luck!
I'm crushing on my coworker, I'm looking for things I should avoid doing. We are always in meetings together, but because we are partners at work, and this makes everything very difficult. She has a fiance, and she is becoming one of my best friends. Right now I have everything under control, but I'm afraid this will get bigger and I will end up depressed because I can't have her. I always try to make her life as easy as possible, I bring work home and I talk to the unpleasant people, so she doesn't have to... I'm so happy to have her in the same room as me, I never felt as happy at my job. But as reality grows, as she talks about her marriage, as I realize it's just an illusion we are "partners"... I'm almost talking to her about this, so she can decide what she wants to do, keep working with me or exchange partners somehow. We already talked about growing old working together, since we are such good partners... But let's see if she is loyal enough to let this failure of mine slide if I tell her.
It's hard to know with a supervisor because it is their job to interact with you. They may use your nickname as a way to establish rapport and build a positive working relationship with you. I would look for other signs in this case, such as how much attention they give you versus other employees and the way they look at you.
@@charleneeckstein7213 OK I guess your right....well she did touch my arm at a breakfast employee appreciation party a while back with a smile I guess she was excited to see me their before the pandemic back honestly.
Charley’s Blog Life - Love and Dating Advice That’s like telling a heterosexual male not to be one. I mean I’m smoother than these white boys in this video though.
I shared my feelings to her and felt that I might lose her so had to befriend her, can anyone help me out? Any advice is ok for me just want some advice from u guyz to enlighten me How I can overcome this or help myself out.
Lmao. I’m here to find out if HE has a crush on me. Turns out, I’M the one that has a crush on him 🤣🤣
LOL
😂😂
Sad truth of reality.... This never happens. 😭
It is interesting for sure, like this one girl in particular. “Married” as she so puts it. But never wears her wedding ring. Even at work she goes by two different last names. Does have two kids, but no picture of her “husband” and she doesn’t even talk about him. But she does look at me differently, talks differently, gets closer than others. Smiles all the time, always asking me what’s going on in my life. While others couldn’t care less. She could be busy and stops to talk to me, she was walking to her desk saw me and took the longer way around just to say hello and start a short friendly conversation. Hey! I’m not complaining one bit. It’s just very satisfying that a pretty girl as her. Would do that for me. I’d love to ask her out. But I know that would not only ruin my job, but make things more complicated. If we’re being honest here, without all of the rules. I would love to hook up with her in a heart beat. Unfortunately though, it wouldn’t ever happen.
I'm in the same situation! I would love to have the opportunity to ask her out she is so gorgeous I forget about everything...but shes "married" and leaves me puzzled is she for reals? Or playing me. Ugh
why wouldnt it happen?i mean she likes you and u quiet like her too
@@mampoiapathiamopeli5500 my crush is in a warehouse and she has never went up to me (always walking the whole shift btw) but she always maintains eye contact from quite a distance and is always in view right when i come out of the breakroom. i tried to hand her a note 2 days ago and she was walking with another female employee (doing training i think) and she purposely slowed down and the other girl was out of view past a pallet and i said "i wanted to give you this" as im handing her the note the other girl comes back around the corner and i say "nevermind" and take my arm back and walk away(totally awkward) didnt see them the rest of that shift then yesterday i go near her and she doesnt look at me so i can set the note down somewhere, so i follow her and say "yo" (nothing) "yo yo" she turns around and im nervous as fuck and toss the note on the floor in front of her and walk away. it said in the note "if its awkward to come up just text yes or no to (my #) then at the end of it i realize it and say "wait dont say no just throw it away lmao!" to make her laugh and i get nothing.*so after that during the same shift yesterday* she follows me around the warehouse twice and i avoid her both times and then its end of shift and now i dont see her until next sunday the 16th *hopefully*
*i have no clue whats about to go down when im there doing the same thing i do every week*
@@cyb3rjake735 awkwardness i know-its really sad.eye contact is always there
You’d hook up with a married woman? Go find your own girl, or at least let her get a divorce. Stop taking the easy way when a woman has a husband who just may be working his as$ off for her. What a Dick move.
I have a crush on someone at work, we started the same day and really got along great. We don’t work in the same department but I bump into him nearly every day and he always calls my name and makes the effort to chat and see what I’m doing. I find myself looking out to see if he is in work too and go find him. One day, at lunch, he came and sat near my colleague and I, and I find he does come and sit near me if he can if we have lunch the same time, and my friend mentioned she felt as though he fancied me. I haven’t noticed any rings but I did over hear him talking to another colleague about his wife...... That literally broke my heart 😂 I had no idea! I really felt like he had an interest in me outside of our work relationship. He saw me coming over and hushed his voice, but I still heard him say about his wife etc. I don’t know if he really is interested in me now, if I was getting the wrong signals, or if he does like me but has a wife! Any advice on how to handle this ?
Fact of the matter is, if he did that to his wife, then how would he play you?
Many times a guy will play the single game to see if they still got it...OR his relationship is failing.
Whatever the reason, a true person will never lead you on or beat around the bush.
Intentions should be clear.
Steer clear, smile and play your distance like nothing happened *sigh.
You'd be silly to think he's the only one who finds you attractive.
@@BHernandez91 Thank you. Exactly! I would hate to be his wife !
@Jade D Honey that is a red flag 🚩 when it comes to dating. If he is interested in you then why didn't he tell u personally that he has a wife, why did he tell to ur colleague perhaps he didn't want u to know his deep secret and that u might loose interest in him or probably he is a player/chad.
Beware sweet heart!!! Stay away from him and avoid all interaction with him and date someone outside workplace
@Jade D... greeting and warm love ❤😘 to you from India🇮🇳 🙏🤝👍 All the very best 💕 dear. May u find someone special who is interested and tries to make u the best version of yourself.
@@Gianni.chellini thank you 🥰
And bringing you coffee when they ask you isn’t bringing you coffee😝
I have two office crushes. They're both married. I've had office romance before and I know the old saying "Don't fish off the company pier"
I know how these things end. Usually not well. But man when they look at me... One of them has smoldering eyes and a subtle smile, which burns right through my chest like Superman's laser eyes.
Leave them alone. If they cheat on them . They will cheat on you. They are taken. Not faithful.
My co-worker would bother me non-stop and make fun of me. He used to make fun of my exs. He never asked me to hang out outside of work. He had a gf at the time. He got upset because I didn't find him attractive. He also told me to stop being those girls that don't know if a guy is flirting with them. (I don't know what that means.) He also said to stop seeing him like a nephew. I did find him very attractive but he was my co-worker and he is younger than me. I told him I like nerds and he said I’m a nerd. Lol, I told him “no, you're a jock.” But I think he did all that because I hurt his ego and he's a bully. Ugh, boys.
Last 6 wks, a female vendor is at my busy job Tues/Thur (early a.m.) for 1-2 hrs. It’s a small delivery warehouse building. She’s thin, blonde, gorgeous w green eyes. Sorta looks like Christina Applegate. I had crush on her 2 min after we were introduced.
We talk a few min each day about non work stuff, her dog, our mutual interests. She has 2 younger grade school kids. We talk before 95% of employees get there. And if still talk a little when everybody else is there but we are all super busy loading, staging delivery totes on racks. She’s never mentioned a bf or husband. She’s always in a good mood, smiling, kind & sweet. She’s lightly tapped my arm when talking or walking by me a few times. I haven’t noticed her touching other people.
She gave me gift right before Xmas: a cat-eye bracelet, small crystal & rose crystal. I gave her small thank u gift next time I saw her. It was a beige canvas wallet w the Mexican day of the dead roses/skull and a small geode.
She said she really liked it and has a tattoo on her leg of the same design. 5 min later before she left, she walked up behind me while I was fixing a shelf and stood next to me. She gently grabbed my forearm and said, “thanks again I really like them.” Does she want me to ask her out? Or is she just being friendly, really nice in a platonic way. I want to tell her “let’s grab a drink sometime.”
What do u think I should do?
I started a new job and there’s this girl who’s also new that I’m 90% sure likes me. She always helps me or wants to work with me as a team , I feel like we lock eyes a lot and she touches me a lot but to be fair she’s playful with multiple people but doesn’t do the rest of the things . Also this other female coworker she’s close with mumbled that she liked me the other day so if anyone would know I’m sure it’s her
The only complicated part is she has a bf. Also I notice she acts different when it’s me and her vs when we’re In a group with other coworkers. Idk how to go about this cause I’m definitely feeling her too
Why are all these work wife. Videos about office love like if everyone works in a office
Seriously lol I say the same thing...😂
I have a crush on somebody at work, but I don't do any of those 6 things you talk about in the video for a very good reason: I am married and she is in a relationship and has kid. So it would be extremely inappropriate to do any of this. It is just very strange and weird at the same time of having to literally cope with a crush for a coworker I talk to on a weekly basis, because I can't turn off my feelings for this person. It's been like this for about a year now. Will it ever go away?
AussieChap1 I think crushes never go away unless 1 of 2 things happen. You either have a romantic relationship with your crush and the feelings run their natural course, or your crush does or says something that makes you see them differently. Otherwise the crush will last forever, not necessarily on the surface, but in the back of your mind as a fantasy of possibilities and what could have been. Thanks for sharing!
@@charleneeckstein7213 So, it's been now over 3 months since I posted my first comment and not much has changed on an emotional level. Because of COVID everyone in my job gets to work in the office and at home on a rotational basis which means the only day I may get to see her is Friday. I still get to see her on remote calls though, and sometimes we chat. However, I have honestly tried to be as 'invisible' as possible to her without much success. I even think this crush has been growing. Whenever I get to see or talk to her, I get really nervous. I am afraid she or somebody else in the office may actually notice. Essentially, I have found out that we have quite a lot in common, sports, interests and so on. Plus, she's indeed among the sweetest persons I have ever met in my whole life. We definitely seem to connect. What makes this all so strange is, this has never happened to me. I worked for numerous other companies and over the years, and I have worked with lots of other women. Even in the team I work in (which she is not part of) there is 4 other women, and I am ok with that. Anyway, like you said in your last comment, 1 of 2 things may happen. I honestly hope she either gets married or leaves the job, and I am sure that would be it! (Honestly, I can't understand how such a sweet girl isn't married yet.. She's been with her boyfriend for over 6 years.). I still can't help thinking of her! The feeling it gives me is just too good ;) By the way, is there some sort of statistics available on office crushes? I wonder how many men cope with this on a daily basis and what's the most possible outcome. Thanks for reading ;)
NO it wont go away-trust me it wont-i m in the same boat too,its hard to turn off the feelings for the person whom u crush on and its painful as hell.
I actually think that office crushes are more common than we think. I mean, you're spending a lot of time with these people. Back in the day, work is how a lot of people met their spouses(or even affairs). It's okay to be attracted or even lust/crush on others, but if you're in a committed relationship/marriage then you have a responsibility to your partner. The best solution would be to avoid her OR one of you leaves the job. If you can't do that & you honestly feel that your going to act on it, then get a divorce. Please do not cheat on your spouse. Being cheated on is truly one of the worst feelings in the world. It can mess a person up long term.
@@pb4ugo19 Thanks. It's been a while since I made that comment and things have indeed changed for the better. My crush just had another baby and I started to look at her differently ;) She's still nice to talk to, but the emotional rollercoaster is no longer there.. So all good ;)
I always have a workplace crush or two.
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
You shot your shot, now she knows how you feel and has probably thought about it. These definitely could be signs but next move has to be on her. She may like you but doesn’t want to be in a relationship or date someone at work. Let it play out. It’s only been a couple months. Good luck!
I'll just add....don't get hung up on it either. Don't suffer from "one-itis". You could end up wasting alot of time just hoping she'll come around. You can't do that, no matter how much you like her. Besides, she'll want to see you living life to the fullest instead of focusing so much on her.
I endup being more interested in girl and she pays less attention to it or seems less interested.
I think I'm in love with my coworker but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Unfortunately, there's not a whole lot you can do until they are free of their current relationship. My best advice for you is to just live your life. Don't put your happiness on hold for something that may never happen.
It's not sweet when it's your mate doing it man or female
My security has a crush in me but Im 💍 😂
I may have overheard the coworker mentioning a boyfriend, idk 🤷♂️ l notice when she’s walking it’s like she’s trying to find someone but then when she sees me she stops 🤷♂️ I’ve heard a few times her name getting in conversation. We’ve smiled when we walk past.
Those are obvious signs. What about when I occasionally cross paths with her?
Hi Ranger,
Great question! Even if you only have the occasional interactions with your crush, your feelings are still likely to be obvious because of your body language. When you see her, your body will react in ways you cannot control. Your pupils may dilate, you may get nervous or fidgety, and you will probably stare at her more than you realize because you get to see her so infrequently you will relish the moments that you do.
I'm curious, are you wondering if she can tell how you feel or are trying to make sure you are hiding your feelings?
Not everyone has a cubicle. Brings you coffee OR gifts*.
you're right, some people work on the space station too but it's the general idea of a work place and someone coming over and initiating interaction or contact
I am chusing on my MDS nurses at work I am a stna supervisor I am so nervous and scared to know if he feels the same way about me
I have a crush on a co worker whenever I go to the store she's either sweeping the floor or at the cashier and we tend to lock eyes or when she's ringing me up she looks at me and she looks away fast. Is this a sign she's into me please help me thanks in advance
Unless she is just a naturally shy person and avoids prolonged eye contact with everyone, she is definitely giving off signs of attraction and possible interest. Engage her in conversation when she is giving you the eye so she feels more comfortable and see where it goes from there. Good luck!
@@charleneeckstein7213 Thank you so much
I'm crushing on my coworker, I'm looking for things I should avoid doing. We are always in meetings together, but because we are partners at work, and this makes everything very difficult. She has a fiance, and she is becoming one of my best friends. Right now I have everything under control, but I'm afraid this will get bigger and I will end up depressed because I can't have her. I always try to make her life as easy as possible, I bring work home and I talk to the unpleasant people, so she doesn't have to... I'm so happy to have her in the same room as me, I never felt as happy at my job. But as reality grows, as she talks about her marriage, as I realize it's just an illusion we are "partners"... I'm almost talking to her about this, so she can decide what she wants to do, keep working with me or exchange partners somehow. We already talked about growing old working together, since we are such good partners... But let's see if she is loyal enough to let this failure of mine slide if I tell her.
I hope it works out for you either way. Crushing on someone who is taken is a heartbreaker. Thank you for sharing!
@@charleneeckstein7213’ve never crushed on someone EVER at work. He’s seeing someone tho. Sigh. It’s always too good to be true
I am having some feelings with my coworker dnt know it's crush or something
What about if your super visor calls you by your nick name alot?.That would show a sign that he or she likes you right?.
It's hard to know with a supervisor because it is their job to interact with you. They may use your nickname as a way to establish rapport and build a positive working relationship with you. I would look for other signs in this case, such as how much attention they give you versus other employees and the way they look at you.
@@charleneeckstein7213 OK I guess your right....well she did touch my arm at a breakfast employee appreciation party a while back with a smile I guess she was excited to see me their before the pandemic back honestly.
I do that with all the women I work with. Lol
Jeremiah F Umm I think HR is on line 1 for you...lol
Charley’s Blog Life - Love and Dating Advice That’s like telling a heterosexual male not to be one. I mean I’m smoother than these white boys in this video though.
Nice
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I think I'm in love with my coworker but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
@@jessalyncantoray3556I’m on the same boat as you 😂
@@jessalyncantoray3556leave her alone. Find someone else.
I shared my feelings to her and felt that I might lose her so had to befriend her, can anyone help me out? Any advice is ok for me just want some advice from u guyz to enlighten me How I can overcome this or help myself out.
So girls and boys please share ur advice/experience with me, anything helps!!!
There is a guy at work always comes around my desk and asks me stupid questions lol
@@noraas9914 so what do u tell him then? Do u answer him or ignore him??
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Yeah she’s wanted me to come eat with her I DECLINE not happening
why
Jerk!!!!