From Texas to Taiwan, Gay Man Overcomes Fear By Coming Out Again and Again.
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- After relocating from Taiwan to the United States in search of a more welcoming environment, Leon Yuan knew the next step was coming out - but he didn’t know how or where to go, and was worried that he would be ostracized as a result. Not knowing anyone who was gay, he decided to come out to his college’s career counselor. An unusual first step, but certainly one that emboldened him to keep coming out to others. Later, in his school’s show choir, he identified the most flamboyantly gay member in the group and came out to him as well - and in return, got some reassurance that coming out would continue to get easier. This foresight proved true, as Leon would soon come out to his aunt and uncle in Houston - and eventually his mother and father in Taiwan - and each time was met with understanding and love.
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I am from Taiwan too but much older. Came to the US in 1978 after college to escape the societal and parental pressure I knew would be imposed on me, on the only male child among five siblings. I soon came out, first to myself and gradually to my social circle, thus felt liberated. The most difficult part was to come out to my parents, having grown up under a stern, authoritarian father who was in the military all his life. I eventually came out to him in 1997 in my 40’s, after being in a stable long term relationship for many years. To my surprise, my father’s reaction was tender and accepting. Yes, being one’s authentic self is absolutely important to live an honest life.
p.s. Taiwan is the only country in Asia that same sex marriage is legal (since May, 2019). 👍👍👍❤❤
Never judge a book by it’s cover, I’ve been told. However, I recognize a high level of integrity, kindness, gentleness, manliness and no doubt a wonderful friend.
Love you my brother!
I’m struck by how articulate this man is! Sharing his story so eloquently will inspire others. 😘
I absolutely love Taiwan and their culture! I have been learning Mandarin Chinese for over 10 years now and hope to go to Taiwan soon after I finish my masters in teaching. Li yangyuan is such a nice name, and what a lovely, intelligent gentleman he is. Wishing you the best of luck , 加油！！
Perfect! I am glad things worked out as they did for Leon Yuan.
The line about “You’ve never been with a woman, so how do you know?” Got me so good 😂😂 whenever people ask me that now I am going to use that
I can relate this gentleman’s experience. My stepmum outted me I think to hurt and shame me but it backfired on her because I was embraced. There were some bumpy moments trying to figure out my way but it got easier. I pity guys who continue to keep it a secret out of fear of what others will think or say but that is the ultimate test if they trust love and care no matter who you choose to love.
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What a delightfully lovely young man
Very proud of you. You took your first steps that will lead to a wonderful world for you. And your a very good talker. And many guys will love to get to know you. What a smile you have. 😁
This is such a positive story, and I really needed to hear this. The more you say it, the easier it gets.
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AWE ! My heart goes out to you, as an older black gay man, who first fell in love first with an older South Korean man (YEP ! 30 years ago, as soldiers on the same military base ). Its not easy because as a gay person, you're always calculating the risks. This survivor skill saves us in this world and hurts us, from the wasted time in getting closer to those who unconditionally love us. However, be forever strong and keep spreading the good news of unconditional love.
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wow really interested in this story, as a middle aged Canadian Chinese guy, I think there is a lack of intergenerational and interracial gay love stories
WOW Leon, that was quite the story. You appear to be a very articulate, kind and compassionate young man. I wish you all the happiness as you go down the road of life!
Thank you for sharing, Taiwanese brother. Hug. High five.
Thank you for sharing your story with us.
You‘re so articulating! It must be wonderful to have you as a gay friend. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story! It is nice that you shared your family but most of all you. You are a nice person!! Continued success to you!!
All the best to you
Now this took me through all the emotions, but I appreciate his transparency and courage in sharing his. VERY GOOD SEGMENT. KEEP THEM COMING!
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Awesome coming out.
Good luck in life if u love Jesus ❤ 😍 💖
Enjo life im in Oklahoma.
"Anytime when something is hard to do, that probably means after you do it, it gets easier". I love that statement
Love your compassionate story ..? Blessings to You !!!🙏🎶🌹🌈😇✌️
thank you
wonderful, thank you!!! 🥰
My best to you
Thank you for sharing your story. Appreciated.
Your so adorable cutie guy
Im here to support you❤❤❤
Thank you. Embrace
Impressive!
Loved it!
Wow, this is pretty amazing..
Woohoo!! This is what I am talking about we must never label we all have a journey
Beautiful video peace love an happiness
I like this man.
why cupboard is more clear than Leon?
Great story! Good looking guy.
Very intelligent person, besides he speaks English remarkably well.
Great video… 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌈🌈❤️
Sending love from me ❤️
Plot twist: L is straight! 🤣 Anyway, you're fahbulous, dahling...keep on shining 💖
Just a beautiful gay guy 😍
Nice story. But coming from the most liberal country in Asia makes things easier. I lived for ten years in Kaohsiung. Not the LGBTQ heaven, but for sure a rather relaxed and tolerant city.
Ah the busybody aunts always have to run their gossipy mouths.
I hope he never spoke to his untrustwurthy aunt again.
🔥🔥🔥👍….
Love jou
How were you able to obtain a GREEN CARD??????
Very often, people who have enough money find very few obstacles on their way to citizenship.
爸媽的姨母笑、接著是介紹男人對你逼婚喔。 🥴
Liked your video. You are so Handsome…..
💯👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
he is yumme
He is talking about a United States that doesn’t exist anymore
until he meets God...
Which god? Your Christian God isn't the only one, you Bible brainwashed twit!
I don't see a problem, jesus also had a boy at his side, john the younger .. that's well known to everyone who studies the bible.. please inform yourself better !!!
and David and Jonathan "your love was more to me than woman's love is ....
May I have Leon's instagram or other social media to connect?
@Roardeleon
Growning up in Houston TX at his age would seem to be a breeze since there are gay guys everywhere including in colleges .. I don't understand how he didn't know any gay guys
I think he grew up in Taiwan. The year he started college was about.... 20 years ago.
*started college in the US