Simon Sinek: What Society Gets Wrong About Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @analeyunhealth
    @analeyunhealth 8 месяцев назад +19

    This is probably my favorite real talk so far. No tips, no how to, no be better... Just love and real humanity. I get soooo much out of this episode! This has been a before and after on my point of view about what is greatness. Thank you both so much for bringing this up and sharing! You both are great!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 месяцев назад

      Appreciate your support. Thank you for watching! 🧡

  • @l23918
    @l23918 Год назад +58

    So much humanity spoken by this guest, I love it. We need more people like this in our world today. Thank you.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +6

      Thank you so much for watching!

    • @leonciagarcia3370
      @leonciagarcia3370 9 месяцев назад

      Thank you Simon and Lewis for this very deep heartwarming conversation. You both are so grounded. We need people like you to help change thie perspective of our confused world

    • @fokamtebo5819
      @fokamtebo5819 8 месяцев назад

      ❤​@@lewishowes

  • @cindyandries3298
    @cindyandries3298 5 месяцев назад +3

    Simon is the best compassionate storyteller of 9-11, year’s later we can hear how events deeply changed his life- how priorities change going forward from that day forward!! I love him with all the heart he has for people(all people). We share a heartfelt empathy for people who struggle no matter a label placed upon that person! Doer’s are tired, poor and rich are lonely; being guarded is exhausting. His story reminds me of a soldier coworker; who had served in a foreign war; he described how incredibly distasteful to returning then encounter - us being unappreciative of ‘simplest meal’ and impatience in drive-thru! The contrast of kids cherished a candy bar to be split amongst 10 kids, a mother’s intense hug he received for a sandwich to feed her children and herself!

  • @nathalieann
    @nathalieann 9 месяцев назад +2

    I feel like I haven't seen Simon in AGES. I appreciate that he's not preachy or trying to over-intellectualize the conversation to sound profound. The most intelligent people are also the most clear of thought.

  • @SWTmel
    @SWTmel Год назад +18

    Outstanding dialogue, insights and advice.

  • @Ka.coach88
    @Ka.coach88 Год назад +7

    Perfect balance between intelligence and vulnerability indeed. This interview is gold. Thank you guys 💜🌸

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @ambition112
    @ambition112 Год назад +39

    0:14: 💡 Setting boundaries is often misunderstood as keeping people away, but it actually means communicating and agreeing on limitations in relationships.
    9:12: 🌍 The speaker discusses the growing wealth disparity and lack of empathy in society, highlighting the need for listening and understanding in order to address fears and concerns.
    18:39: 💔 The speaker recounts their experience of witnessing the September 11th attacks in New York City, which had a profound impact on their perspective and led them to reevaluate their career choices.
    26:54: 💡 The speaker reflects on the fleeting nature of life-changing experiences and the importance of long-term values and relationships.
    36:00: 💡 The speaker discusses the importance of recognizing impact that cannot be measured and the dangers of relying on external validation.
    44:29: 🗣 Discussion on setting boundaries in relationships and work
    53:12: 📚 The younger generation entering the workforce has a different mindset and skill set, which can lead to a sense of entitlement and demand for immediate rewards.
    1:02:27: 🗣 The younger generation's comfort and facility with technology has both benefits and drawbacks, as it affects their ability to form deep relationships and differentiate between vulnerability and broadcasting.
    1:13:00: ⚖ Income inequality is a major concern that will cause more social ripples and fear than pandemics, AI, or war.
    1:21:35: 🗣 The speaker discusses the importance of listening to the messages of both sides, the need for moderation, and the dangers of division and accusations.
    1:30:37: 💡 The speaker shares three truths: love the people who love you, learn human skills, and have as much fun as possible.
    1:39:13: 🌍 Living a life of service and inspiring others to rise.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @quietstorm6710
    @quietstorm6710 Год назад +3

    You guys are old school thinkers. That's what make your conversation so awesome.

  • @cleanslate5313
    @cleanslate5313 Год назад +8

    So glad you had Simon on. He offers many good points. Your qquestions are very insightful. Thank you both. And thank you for being you Lewis, and upkeeping your channel. Your dedication and hard work by you & your team. shows. You're improving people's lives interview by interview. Your growth of interview questions is impressive. Thanks again.

  • @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool
    @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Год назад +1

    Re: boundaries: boundaries helps you know someone more on a deeper and intimate level. It's part of who they are so if you want to know the totality of them, boundaries are included. (although totally understand how boundaries can be scary and foreign becasue in childhood setting a boundary with a parent probably got met with some not nice consequences so the association remains)

  • @dk1828
    @dk1828 Год назад +7

    I literally had goosebumps when Simon was describing 9/11 experiences… even after so many years it still has this indescribable effect

  • @KiwikimNZ
    @KiwikimNZ Год назад +5

    Listening to the 9/11 story reminds me of living through a natural disaster that killed 100s of people and destroyed my city, It was horrific. I got to my job as a nurse as soon as I could physically get there and did whatever I could amongst the chaos to care for the traumatised survivors. That day and the lessons I learned that day will never leave me and was a defining event that changed me. As hard and horrific that experience was, including suffering from PTSD afterwards, it taught me about what really matters and to live with gratitude and appreciate the blessings that I have in my life.

  • @joshmcbrien
    @joshmcbrien Год назад +13

    Simon Sinek never fails to disappoint. What an insightful podcast!

  • @Theddyfield
    @Theddyfield 2 месяца назад

    For a sec, Simon paused and jumped back from job example...and went back to his thought process when he gave his own example as to how AI can figure out what his new ideas are ...because they arent really new. AI can predict the thought process. I loved that he said it as a FACT that the people "pay a cost" for anything - ne way or another.

  • @mariamedeiros406
    @mariamedeiros406 11 месяцев назад +1

    I just love everything Simon is about. He is so genuine in his creation of a vision that seems possible for all of us.

  • @raydonovan9013
    @raydonovan9013 Год назад +3

    Very valuable discussion, I really appreciate Simon’s outlook on people and their worth. And the importance of humor and it’s timing. Thank you. He’s so open and willing to share himself in order to contribute good to the people around him so they learn and pass it on to others.

  • @shade_excel
    @shade_excel Год назад +2

    A true GEM 💎 of an interview! Simon Sinek is such a BRILLIANT mind and it shines through! So many PROFOUND truths shared - it’s hard to pick just one!
    For personal reasons, I especially loved the whole conversation on boundaries as it has soooo many practical lessons that were shared.
    Lewis was MASTERFUL as an interviewer. Kudos to you Lewis for helping to facilitate a truly insightful conversation! 👏🏽

  • @karenalford4025
    @karenalford4025 Год назад +2

    The Co-creating concept in relationships is amazing! It’s a central theme in couples counselling. The relationship is a huge part of the works focus. 😊

  • @amber8139
    @amber8139 Год назад +1

    I am a huge fan of Simon and have watched/listened to much of his content online. This is the first time hearing his account on 9/11 and it made me cry. Thanks for this interview 🙏🏻

  • @amalessam3370
    @amalessam3370 Год назад +4

    Lewis really get more mature in his podcast, he really listens more than before. Love it❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

    • @amalessam3370
      @amalessam3370 Год назад

      @@lewishowes This is the truth ❤️ you really deserves it.

  • @GavinCee
    @GavinCee Год назад +2

    Simon bringing the heat as usual.

  • @chrisnam1603
    @chrisnam1603 Год назад +3

    the lack of empathy is one of the many things of our society that 'eats me alive', it's pure horror and not how we are made or why we are made for (figure of speak), hugs from Belgium (it seems it's in loads of countries 😢).

  • @mai567
    @mai567 Год назад +4

    So much to take from this interview. So much value.
    And I loved that cute moment "I love your tangents!" 😊 because you spoke for all of us.
    Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! Happy to hear this :)

  • @gailyhanna510
    @gailyhanna510 Год назад +3

    Excited to see what they have to say because I was just talking to my son about this yesterday.

  • @7msjster
    @7msjster Год назад +6

    Great podcast Lewis!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @kennethobispo2641
    @kennethobispo2641 Год назад

    IM OVER FLOWING WITH EMPATHY AND LOVE thank you

  • @karenalford4025
    @karenalford4025 Год назад

    Simon you are a phenomenally compassionate human being! I love your way of communicating! I could listen to you all day! ❤

  • @InDogsITrust
    @InDogsITrust Год назад +2

    That is so true what Simon says about how “influencers are freelance employees of algorithms”. I notice on RUclips when there must be a shift in the algorithms…”everyone” starts posting Shorts, or posting segments on certain topics, etc. I think it is sad in a way that they bow to an algorithm instead of doing what their heart and creative mind would rather do on their channels. Some may be fine with that, but as a creative, I won’t bow to an algorithm. (Granted, as a nano-influencer, I don’t rely on that income like they may.)

  • @Juan_SZ
    @Juan_SZ Год назад +2

    30:45 “The life that we live. Our contributions to others. “
    Couldn’t agree more with this.

  • @rayleneberryman7673
    @rayleneberryman7673 Год назад +1

    Profound insights and wisdom from both Simon and Lewis. I love the way your brain works Lewis. You ask profound questions.

  • @IntegrationpathHeartBodyMind
    @IntegrationpathHeartBodyMind 10 месяцев назад

    Simon & Lewis, you both are truly inspirational DIVINE MASCULINES for the world - I love how much you share from your heart and teach other men to do the same. Blessings of Love, Light and Peace to you always!!!!!!

  • @lulagarcia7633
    @lulagarcia7633 4 месяца назад

    I love Simone Sinek , Will always follow his words. Love your podcast

  • @Theo-B
    @Theo-B Год назад

    3 truths
    Love the people who love you, learn all the things it requires to be human, laugh as much as possible

  • @meditate5592
    @meditate5592 Год назад +1

    This was phenomenal!!! I loved every second of this interview. Lewis - your questions and follow-up comments are full of such depth. Kudos to you in every language . . .

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

  • @L.R.Nichols
    @L.R.Nichols Год назад +1

    I ran into Simon Sinek in Chelsea, England about month or so ago. He was so pleasant. As I expected he would be. Really nice guy.

  •  Год назад

    Hey Simon, you're simply the best. Putting hard things simple for me (us) to understand. Better yet, to reflect and then act on things... Greetings from Mexico.

  • @taniak5685
    @taniak5685 Год назад +4

    An inner change is taking place in both you Lewis and Simon. Beautiful to see ❤

  • @swadfihri8278
    @swadfihri8278 Год назад +1

    Very well put podcast. Simon n Luis, your visions for the world is inspiring.
    Thank you 🙏 ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

  • @juliavanbalen8454
    @juliavanbalen8454 Год назад

    The way he explained how to live with boundaries is really great, bottom line is communication and be clear of our explications. Thank you so much. Great interview and guess. ❤

  • @Babypinkkkkkkkk
    @Babypinkkkkkkkk Год назад +1

    Nicely put into words amazing.... 😊 I am reading the first book (start with WHY)... Gem of knowledge... His book speaks my mind and I am amazed

  • @MXF11
    @MXF11 Год назад +3

    This is so much better than AI podcast.

  • @evelien2806
    @evelien2806 Год назад +2

    Thank you gentlemen for this inspiring conversation. It was a pleasure listening 😘

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb
    @JenniferJohnson-jt8eb Год назад +1

    Loved every minute of this talk❤
    Judge ourselves by the life that we live. How we help and contribute to those around us. Excellent.
    Productivity? PooPoo. BE A GOOD, KIND, LOVING PERSON. Everything else will fall into place.

  • @jankishivalkar3515
    @jankishivalkar3515 Месяц назад

    Perfect balance between intelligence talk in both. This interview is wonderful.
    Thank you Lewis 💜

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Месяц назад +1

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

    • @jankishivalkar3515
      @jankishivalkar3515 22 дня назад

      It’s a vast information to learn i love it

  • @diana0620
    @diana0620 Год назад

    He could pass for John Lennon's younger brother. Very inspiring ❤ guys. Aren't you both influencers? I might be lazy tomorrow watching you guys at 3:32 am, but you were worth it

  • @craigosterberg5045
    @craigosterberg5045 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @jacquik6231
    @jacquik6231 Год назад

    I like Simon Sinek so much more after this conversation. I liked him before but I did not realise how deep a thinker he is on topics such as capitalism. Really interesting stuff and very relevant.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад +1

      Thank you! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @robertfoster8820
    @robertfoster8820 Год назад

    Fantastic conversation Gentlemen. Thank you for sharing :)

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @izzy2roam898
    @izzy2roam898 Год назад

    Three truths- love learn laugh 💗

  • @ana_wilson
    @ana_wilson Год назад

    This is really beautiful and well stated. Lots of thinking points.

  • @dawnwebbmusic4837
    @dawnwebbmusic4837 Год назад

    Intelligent and Vulnerable #simonsinek ❤

  • @Yutenheim26
    @Yutenheim26 Год назад +2

    This is great stuff

  • @lourdes_olive_coach
    @lourdes_olive_coach 10 месяцев назад

    You guys make such a great team!!!

  • @edenshafe4437
    @edenshafe4437 Год назад

    Thanks Simon and Lewis for amazing eye opening content

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @miguelalbadan
    @miguelalbadan Год назад +2

    Wow! maravillosa entrevista y síntesis de nuestro mundo actual y del reto de ser un buen ser humano, aprender a amar y a divertirnos tanto como sea posible. Estoy leyendo ahora el Hombre Unidimensional de Herbert Marcuse y siento en la obra de Simon Sinek una nueva reinterpretación de la automatización del trabajo representado ahora en la inteligencia artificial.

  • @jerryhughes5380
    @jerryhughes5380 Год назад

    I question Simons observation on "getting a trophy for coming in last" thing. As a parent of a man with Autisim I can honestly say that I got my Seratonin hit when watching him compete in Special Olympics or just at the park. I could tell he got a hit of Seratonin when he crossed the finish line or bench pressed a barbell of steel over his head.

  • @tuminyembe
    @tuminyembe Год назад

    Wow. First time listening to Simon and he is in touch with the human world (viewed most issues from the human stand-point & is very relatable). Am not based in the USA but related to and enjoyed the interview.

    • @italovidigal1990
      @italovidigal1990 Год назад

      I want to suggest the reading (or listening) of the book "Start with why", it's brilliant.

  • @Discerning.369
    @Discerning.369 Год назад

    So inspiring and moving. Thank you.

  • @dbunnysport
    @dbunnysport Год назад +2

    Simon and Lewis?!?!? Two of my very favorite heroes. ❤ so thankful to get to hear you two. (Simon, you are legend. )
    Soon I’ll be going to my first SOG. So excited to be with you Lewis and other amazing people !

  • @Tsailii
    @Tsailii Год назад +1

    This is a clear example of why I’m such a big fan of Simon. He’s intelligent, intentional, and inspiring. Love it!

  • @theinspirationalcorner1974
    @theinspirationalcorner1974 Год назад

    Amazing episode! thank you 😀

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  Год назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @nicolamatthews2993
    @nicolamatthews2993 Год назад

    3 truths .... not what I expected Simon to say 😮

  • @senthilvadivuk
    @senthilvadivuk Год назад

    I liked it when he said he didn't feel like back to advertising, I get that.

  • @avimah274
    @avimah274 9 месяцев назад

    I love Simon.. smart dude
    Thank you Lewis

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  9 месяцев назад

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @Edgeinvesting
    @Edgeinvesting Год назад

    awesome interview, thanks for sharing the wisdom

  • @ngocdiemnguyen-r1r
    @ngocdiemnguyen-r1r Год назад

    Love your work .

  • @roscow8569
    @roscow8569 Год назад +2

    We won't be surprise in Europe when that is going to be the moment to fight people who are not reasonable !!
    We know perfectly that in France it is written in our history !

  • @avantimukherjee5709
    @avantimukherjee5709 Год назад

    Can listen to this guy forever 👌👌

  • @GarrettAvery108
    @GarrettAvery108 8 месяцев назад

    Simon Sinek's presentation of reasonable thinking makes me feel like things are going to be okay ❤ thanks Simon and we'll wishes for Inner Peace to you ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @indrewhite
    @indrewhite Год назад

    Thank you so much for this inspiring speech🙏

  • @wislymerdieu698
    @wislymerdieu698 Год назад

    Respect for you guys.

  • @kandeekandace
    @kandeekandace 7 месяцев назад

    What if you try to set boundaries with someone, especially your partner, and you’re genuinely curious and open to what they want in the relationship and having a conversation but whenever you ask for their input they stone wall you, say “I don’t know” over and over…. ? Or change the subject and don’t want to talk at all…. ? Help!!!

  • @amiraclelight
    @amiraclelight Год назад

    Splendid. Thanks.🤸 40:34

  • @twonrichpo1126
    @twonrichpo1126 Год назад

    I can really appreciate the marbles thing. Nice!!!

  • @twonrichpo1126
    @twonrichpo1126 Год назад

    Lotta good information here

  • @mrelixirgalactic
    @mrelixirgalactic Год назад

    Love U Guys!!

  • @RealandOfficialDeanRaza05
    @RealandOfficialDeanRaza05 Год назад

    If you have both discipline and effective control over your actions to your habits means you know your boundaries.
    Discipline + Action = Boundaries.

  • @mariyavasylyk9589
    @mariyavasylyk9589 Год назад +1

    Loved listening to both of you - so much wisdom, so much thoughs to think about, so much inspiration! Thank you so much for this conversation! It is one to rewatch over and over! 🫶

  • @Jodielynn8084
    @Jodielynn8084 Год назад

    This was incredible and so insightful. Love you both!

  • @ouifaqlaissaoui63
    @ouifaqlaissaoui63 9 месяцев назад

    Beautiful soul

  • @theprodigy20p
    @theprodigy20p Год назад

    Why can't we have people like Simon in power? If you are reading this Simon are you scared of it? Would it just be to much? Would you be willing if you got lots of help?

  • @nicolamatthews2993
    @nicolamatthews2993 Год назад

    Love this guy 👌👌👌

  • @AbdulAbdul-qp4yo
    @AbdulAbdul-qp4yo Год назад

    ❤❤❤
    How Great you are

  • @7msjster
    @7msjster Год назад +9

    Society has been desensitized. We are just a series of stories. So many, it is difficult to hold a sense of compassion for anything before the next story.

    • @infiniteadam7352
      @infiniteadam7352 Год назад +3

      Made me think about whats been on my mind lately, we are these stories, and the story is supposed to get better and better, we are ment to grow, to be better than our parents and do a even better job with our children. I don't understand why people seem to be degrading.

    • @7msjster
      @7msjster Год назад

      In the recent days of the Maui Fire I keep hearing the residents as "they" ....they, is US. Is that what you mean? @@infiniteadam7352

  • @Daniela.Design
    @Daniela.Design Год назад

    My guess is that AI will lead to less contact, because you do not have to rely so much on other humans anymore, for example to get certain things done.

  • @token6577
    @token6577 9 месяцев назад

    What are the 3 laws of attraction?

  • @carlafairchild1740
    @carlafairchild1740 Год назад +1

    9:50😢

  • @nicolamatthews2993
    @nicolamatthews2993 Год назад

    I would appreciate his book .... not as a doorstop mind😮

  • @mndflctzn
    @mndflctzn Год назад

    Two weeks and Simon's thoughts on AI are already outdated. It seems GAI is indeed capable of original thoughts and it's improving on an exponential curve.

  • @fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353
    @fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353 Год назад

    At any given time our brains are algorhytms as well.

  • @Nolapoolguru
    @Nolapoolguru Год назад

    45:00

  • @ChadwickVonGriffindorIII
    @ChadwickVonGriffindorIII Год назад

    "Grand canyon"

  • @bintang71st
    @bintang71st Год назад +1

    i have u

  • @frankcastle2876
    @frankcastle2876 Год назад

    Kids today are much smarter than the WWII generation, but they don't know their self worth, which is paralyzing. The WWII generation knew their self worth and seemed to find true happiness in it.

  • @josephcowley8348
    @josephcowley8348 Год назад

    "The homeless are not lazy" says the man who tells the story of the homeless person who walked away from her panhandling once she had 40 bucks."

  • @fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353
    @fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353 Год назад

    Lost me at 5:54...

  • @bobtarmac1828
    @bobtarmac1828 Год назад

    I believe Ai jobloss is coming for our jobs, much quicker than you think. The Ai new order is here.

  • @honor9lite1337
    @honor9lite1337 Год назад +1

    😮

  • @ChristenNa
    @ChristenNa 10 месяцев назад

  • @jojustchilling
    @jojustchilling Год назад +1

    Lol, “we came together “ after 911 is such a cocky thing to say. In the “we” you can exclude all the Arabic Americans who were and still are bullied to this day.
    There’s no debate to open here. The only point of this comment is to remind you not to drink famous people’s words like holy water.
    Keep your critical senses acute.