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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 35

  • @rachellawson5783
    @rachellawson5783 5 лет назад +10

    thank you I knew my husband wasn't attracted to me

  • @mjgdance5245
    @mjgdance5245 5 лет назад +4

    u are so right my reality is off im on day 33 on no fap but i know i have a problem and i want to stop it one step at a time which needs to be solved regardless of who i was from my past and i greatly appericate ur imput

  • @barryb6282
    @barryb6282 6 лет назад +6

    Don’t agree with every viewpoint but totally agree when it comes to taking an honest look at yourself and relationships. Action needs to be taken instead of medicating feelings away through porn.

  • @Rudolf215
    @Rudolf215 5 лет назад +4

    I don't really agree with the whole viewpoint of no one shouldn't be in a committed relationship just because they don't have enough experience in their life, most people only have one boyfriend/girlfriend and they know in their heart that person is right for them and they know they want to be with them for the rest of their lives. I can agree with the fact that if you're constantly using porn to self-medicate the pain of an unhealthy relationship because you're to scared to be alone that you need to get out of that said-so relationship and quit porn and work on yourself. But if you find the right person, who cares for you, makes you feel confident, and makes you more outgoing that is the person you want in your life. For example, in 2015 I was in a unhealthy relationship, I was constantly looking at porn and didn't really care for the woman I was hanging out with, but I didn't want to leave her because I didn't want to be alone at that time, but I broke it off, worked on myself throughout 2016-2018, I quit porn in 2018, then I relapsed in to drugs in the fall of 2018, and during that time I was in college, but during that in fall of 2018, I found a woman who I started talking to on and off because I was dealing with my own issues & I didn't want to burden her with my problems because that isn't right to do to a person. But once I got clean I started talking to her more because I felt comfortable around her & I knew she cared for me and now I know I want to be with her for the rest of my life without a doubt. Sorry for the rambling but I had to throw an example in their so I could explain what I am thinking more clearly. So it all comes down to the right person who you want to be committed to, and do I still watch porn? Yes, but I am trying my hardest to quit it because I know I want to be with this woman I am talking to for the rest of my life. What I am trying to say is that, if you are with a person who isn't right for you like I was in 2015 and still watching porn, don't be with that person, focus on yourself & the right person will drop in your life unexpectedly and you will know in your heart without a doubt.

  • @qreousm3372
    @qreousm3372 4 года назад +1

    Thanks brother! It is almost as though you read my mind as to what is going on. You are absolutely right in the analysis of older guys who’ve not had (or created) the opportunity to explore in their youth but have settled for the first possible option for a long time partner.

  • @javediqbal-pq3ie
    @javediqbal-pq3ie 6 лет назад +3

    I hope you are fine, your smile at the start of the video tells the whole story.........you are looking good and happy, thanks for the motivation and take care!

  • @ACM9407
    @ACM9407 5 лет назад +1

    This is a great great video that contains many truths that many men don't get told....that glorious red pill truth that will set you free...If you accept it.

  • @DefinitionLegend
    @DefinitionLegend 6 лет назад +8

    I was a late bloomer as well.

  • @ItZChamseejjj
    @ItZChamseejjj 6 лет назад +5

    Jk, could you please make a video on the topic of marriage & long lasting relationships

  • @Artificercyrus
    @Artificercyrus 2 года назад

    I’ve been needing this

  • @mrserious3407
    @mrserious3407 6 лет назад +2

    Great video JK. I am 21 years old and haven't pmo for 8 days now. Thanks to your videos and other youtube videos. I have been wondering if you can make a video about meditation and hygiene. Thank you

    • @ElevatedRecovery
      @ElevatedRecovery  6 лет назад +1

      I already have a video on meditation brother- just search the channel.
      What specifically would you like me to cover on hygiene?

    • @mrserious3407
      @mrserious3407 6 лет назад +1

      PornReboot Hygiene like changing your sheets when they have "stains" on them. Wearing clean: shirts, pants, and underwear.
      Taking care of your skin and shaving. Lastly cleaning your room. Your room is a reflection of your state of mind. Cleaning your room is the first step in taking control of your life.
      Sorry for taking so long to reply, never received a notification that you had responded.

    • @ElevatedRecovery
      @ElevatedRecovery  6 лет назад

      How old are you?

  • @waseemmalik8033
    @waseemmalik8033 3 года назад

    100% true...thanks for awesome video

  • @geensloth911
    @geensloth911 6 лет назад

    Great video, excellent advice, nothing but truth spoken.. Thanks JK.

  • @christopherguimaraes2300
    @christopherguimaraes2300 6 лет назад

    Hi J, I found you this Saturday and I'm glad I did! Right now you are being of great help to me, thanks.
    I have a question about masturbation, I believe that they are separated from each other, Everytime I tried to stop watching porn I never stopped to masturbate, but I have seen on your 4 stages of recovery that you say that we should stay without masturbating (and by this I mean masturbating without porn, of course) on stage 1. I'm not saying I won't do that (I will stop to see if it helps me overcome the addiction) I'm just curious to know the relationship between masturbating without porn and relapsing. Do you already have a video when you elaborate on this matter? Thanks.

  • @tuffguytofiles
    @tuffguytofiles 6 лет назад

    Not resolved a lot of issues from your past. I agree with what u said

  • @TheSpermalan
    @TheSpermalan 6 лет назад

    Hit the fucking nail on the head

  • @meir0n
    @meir0n 6 лет назад +1

    JK thank you for your kind sharing of gained knowledge.
    you are part of the revolution, people will appreciate you more and more in the future.
    jk, do me a favour, even if you may answer it already, but, what the deal with the sticker in your car door?

    • @ElevatedRecovery
      @ElevatedRecovery  6 лет назад +2

      This is my daily driver- the car I use to run errands and go to the gym. Its also the car I drove when I sold door to door. The sticker are my goals from almost 10 years ago. I keep them there to remind me how far I've come and how far I have yet to go.

  • @mohanadebada2298
    @mohanadebada2298 6 лет назад

    Man I need some help really
    I wanna stop masturbating it's really a problem for me
    I have 18y ok
    I am single and I don't drink alcohol and all of this shit I mean my problem is masturbating is connected to getting bed
    I only do it once a day when I am gonna sleep only but I feel like this is gonna destroy my life in future so I wanna stop I do most of things you say but it's connected to sleep time so plz help me

  • @adiradu9713
    @adiradu9713 6 лет назад

    Thank u for all what u are doing. Respect and all my gratitude to u!

  • @grisengaflen8715
    @grisengaflen8715 6 лет назад

    This is words of wisdom - thank you

  • @bryansmaximaful
    @bryansmaximaful 6 лет назад

    Thanks for your videos. It means alot

  • @wujack3522
    @wujack3522 4 года назад

    Thank you for your advice .JK

  • @rosswhitlock3025
    @rosswhitlock3025 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you

    • @ElevatedRecovery
      @ElevatedRecovery  6 лет назад +2

      Thank you for watching brother. I appreciate you.

  • @WOLVES2820
    @WOLVES2820 6 лет назад +1

    What the hell jk 12:07