My Ex-Best Friend Wants To Be Me And I'm Scared! | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 3 дек 2023
- Avione says her former BFF Julie was trying to single-Black-female her, which is to say, steal her life! Julie knows how it may come across but says that most of this behavior, including getting a tat of Avione's name was done to honor her old best friend. Can Karamo help these two rekindle their friendship or is Julie's behavior verging on delulu?
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If this girl doesn't realise that she's displaying obsessive behaviours, she's far crazier than anyone realises. Avione better get serious about her own safety and the safety of her kids!
Lifetime movie
For real.
Get a strain order
@@sheilaeason1190 yes... a restraining order would be a good idea.
@@MrAngelBonet😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The way she starting crying and stopped is crazy ash😭😭😭
😂😂😂
Ong 😭.
You can want to cry and then hold it back tf..
I knew I wasn’t the only one 😂😂
Avionne killing me with the come backs and back talk 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Same here lmaoo
real🤣🤣
It’s actually killing my😂😂😂
But no stance on repercussions
She needs to get a restraining order ASAP and report harassment and stalking behavior. That’s scary.
Ok?!? I agree!
Seriously
Julie is not a bad person, she is not well mentally, and she doesn’t understand that she is wrong. All she needs it’s help.
SHE KNOWS WHAT SHES DOING!!! It’s people who think like you that she feels she can do that cause people try to blame everything on mental health A real person who didn’t know what they did was wrong would be very apologetic she doesn’t care she know exactly what she’s doing.
So she’s a bad person
Exactly! & that’s scary!
The mental issue is an explanation, not a justification. We can acknowledge this girl needing professional help without taking away from how it impacted Avionne. And we should be holding Julie accountable if we really wanna help her. Meaning she needs to realize that what she’s doing is bat shit
Julie's sister has talked about Julie having a bipolar disorder and how she doesn't take her meds or go to therapy. I believe Julie isn't a bad person she just needs a lot of help@@bobbysbaby310
This is the creepy “friend” who will sneak into your house, impersonate you and eventually take your life.. or ruin it in irreparable ways.. she needs mental help.
Its giving "Single White Female" vibes
🤣🤣🤣🤣@@Misspnklips
Omg yes
She got restraining order written all over her 💯 this is crazy
The look on her face tho 😂😂😂😂
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Shit, I was thinking psych ward.
Julie has a hard time with her own identity, she may not have a clue how to behave. She needs some therapy. I do feel bad for her.
I feel bad too. At the same time... She needs help from a professional.
Agree, she Def needs to unleash her skeletons. And get to the root. Or maybe she just a Pycho waiting on a come up. She could be deadly. Obsession can make a person do the unthinkable. I hope she gets help.
stopplayin that is no excuse to do what she did.
No. This is stalking. This is dangerous to the victim.
@@jenniferwilliams8337I totally agree. If it was me I would move where she would not know where Iam. If I had to go under witness protection change my identity, or a restraining order.
Julie needs psychological help quickly. Avione needs to protect herself legally and physically. There are cases where people take it too far and it harms another person.
This is a stalker like i can't even laugh at this. Going to the kids school? Her ONLY tattoo is Avione's name? I would actually be scared of a person like this. And a fanpage??? This girl needs help all jokes aside and Avione needs to get far away from this girl for her safety.
EXACTLY. Same thing I said in my comment. I can’t even laugh at this, this is not something to be joked over… she’s seriously psychotic and a p*do of some sort. Scary. Be careful who you meet and always look out for energy….
And the booming money thing…she doesn’t call. It’s insane.
I did not smile or laugh at this once! This is some single white female movie 💩
Multiple fan pages lol
She's a parasite.. And a dangerous one
This is actually so sad. It seems like she’s super desperate for someone to love her and for her to love. She just wants someone to care for her. She went about it WAAAAY wrong, but she needs some help.
Yes seriously!! I almost cried when I was watching this because I can see it from both of their perspectives and the ex best friend is definitely mentally unstable and needs to see a psychologist, a psychiatrist and a therapist!
You guys must be empaths.
@@ArriahLaCole-dl3hl 💯
@@ArriahLaCole-dl3hl Yes ma’am
That someone is herself. She has to love self first.
this is a living Lifetime movie! 🤣🤣🤣
Yesssssss
LMAOO i watch lifetime all the time, you def got it 😂
Immediately thought of “Single Black Female” and that was on Lifetime. 😂😂
You're not lying
@@youaintgettingmyhandleSAME that literally popped in my head 😂😂😂
See this why you eat your food in the car. 😂
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EXACTLY 😭
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Karamo said PROTECT YOURSELF!!!💯💯 This is giving me SINGLE BLACK FEMALE vibes😢🙏🏾
Leave single, black females out of this crazy shii😂
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Yea, they need to remake that movie!
@@a.pieceofpiefor sure😂
@@a.pieceofpieThey did. It came out last year. Was pretty good.
I personally think that this situation is going to escalate because she seriously has issues that without her wanting help it'll get worse if I was that lady I would go immediately to the court house get an protection order then if she doesn't have a gun permit get one and a firearm to protect her family..
Fr! I was terrified this whole episode watching her speak. She's not okay and needs help!
You basically saying get a weapon bc the lady has to die… yall are weird… yall be wishing for some crazy shit to happen just off a little yt story
@@smmrs5368that lady is literally obsessive you never know what can happen delusional
Julie was hurt badly at some point before this. Is Julie even her actual identity? Where is her family? Where did she come from? Is anyone helping her?
Girl I’m thinking that to like is that even her real name.😮
she is crazy I hope she keeps her and her kids far away from her 🤦🏾♀️ God bless her
How can u say She's crazy in one sentence..Then God bless her in the next. Doesn't the Bible say,judge lest not ye be judged..?
@@hazzaplayz808we're definitely supposed to judge
Umm godbless them both. You’re weird for that..:
The first thing I think is wrong with her is that she probably have Borderline Personality Disorder and the friend was her “Favorite Person”
She does I can tell because I have it to my favorite person always end up as a romantic partner and not friends but the pattern she exhibits are the same
Factsss
@@oliviaburres1522 Awww bless your heart sweetheart🥺🥺🙏🏽!!
Shout out to the psychologist in the comments from RUclips university…. Please stop diagnosing people u don’t kno or have the skill set to do so
@@youngreap1564 Who the hell said that I wasn’t a Psychologist?? Do you know me? Evidently I must know what TF I’m talking about if 40 different individuals liked my comment dumb dumb!! Find you somebody else to play with because I’m not the one💯💅🏾
Oh yeah, I have Real College Degree’s as well as a Powerful Intuition and Psychic Abilities that I was born with!! You’re welcome💯💯
She is in love with herrrrr😂😂😂😂😂
She’s not obsessed she’s just inlove with her 😂 I take that back she’s giving me “the roommate” movie vibes
She for sure is obsessed though 'cause them actions of hers is wild😭
@@Berriyes that’s why I said I take that statement back she is very much obsessed with her
That's a tame version of the original "Single White Female". Watch it. These two situations are nearly identical. Girl changed her hair and bought replicas of her clothes and pretended to be her to sleep with her man.
No she’s obsessed lol
OMFG DEF GIVING BLAIR
I wish KARAMO got into why she felt so unloved that she needed to express her “love” this way. Yes she was wrong, but she may be sick. Not crazy.
Agreed
Me too! The way he ripped into her caught me off guard. Everybody is treating her based on the future of her actions now. I'm sure girls get other girl's names tattooed on them and probably wouldn't mind if they were getting a cut for the fake bookings either. Her culture is different and where/how her upbringing is as well. I don't feel as if did things good, but she didn't understand being out of pocket like she had a criminal record lol
Agreed. I felt bad for Julie
@@tiazsacorpeningGirl in our culture we don’t even get tattoos and things. She was being dishonest. She needs psychiatric help.
The problem is, she wasn't ready to admit she had a problem. She also didn't explain proper reasons for her behaviour. Everything sounded like obsession. Read body language. She will not stop what she's doing.
It's hard not to feel bad for her. She's looking for love and a sense of belonging. She's going about it the wrong way, but I don't think her intentions were malicious. We need to pray for her.
She created fake pages to steal money. Gtfohwtbs. She was told to stop doing things and kept doing them.
I agree with you that she is probably looking for love and belonging. However, I do think her actions regarding the fake social media page and her CashApp suggests that she did not have good intentions. When they confronted her, she was quiet and provided no response. Just my two cents.
I agree she is eager for a friendship ❤
After the social media and cash app allegations? Nah sis she's in too deep. That's a call for psychiatric help. Not therapy.
That’s an OBSESSION , she doesn’t want to be her or like her , she wants to BE WITH HER! that’s what that is 😩😩 I would’ve got a whole restraining order , on top of that to get a tattoo or f my name and it be your FIRST tattoo at that , she’s obsessed .
Exactly
Julie wants to be with Avoine morning noon and night❤
I don’t think she’s dangerous to anyone but herself. I think she’s in love with her and not all mentally there, she needs therapy. When she said she didn’t have kids if her own it seemed like she was trying not to cry. She doesn’t like her life so she obsess over someone else.
Her “love” and mental instability is EXACTLY why she’s a danger to them. She has no concept of boundaries. Or she does and doesn’t care. I think it’s the latter. Why? She got caught in a whole lie about stealing money using that woman’s name. When the 1st lady said she has proof, the crazy one couldn’t come up with another lie fast enough.
@@missnurseeritrue, but I’m just speaking of experience from myself who used yo act like this before. I had a crush on a girl and because my parents demonized liking someone AND made me feel like I couldn’t tell them I liked someone of the same sex, made me surpress and hide. Being new to that caused me to do a lot of things and overstep boundaries. I found out her address, family members, I got into her social media accounts, and went as far as to taking her hair when she asked me to hold her hairbrush. I was extremely depressed and didn’t have a good home life at the time. My self esteem wasn’t that high either. And she had rejected me, So it caused me to do those things so I felt close to her. When actuality I just wanted a connection. So yes, Sometimes all a person needs is therapy and a good support system.
She is most definitely a danger to others. Imagine the people she stole from came to harm Avione, because she wants to steal.
That sounds like, The hand that rocks the cradle”. Eeeeeeee 😬😬😬
Remember she said she met her at work big mistake your co workers most of the time are not your friends
This girl is obsessed with her ex best friend. Everything thing she did was creepy. That lady needs to protect herself.
This is not funny. This is serious. We’re all (audience included) sitting here laughing at this mentally ill woman. Yes, she is clearly unhinged and obsessive-and she doesn’t see anything wrong with her behavior. That’s a recipe for disaster. But she needs professional help. What she does not need is to be publicly shamed and laughed at.
Not mentally ill just in love and versus speaking to her about it she’s keeping it inside and not be honest about her true feelings and yes she is doing a lot wrong but that does not make her crazy
Julie is as beautiful as she is crazy!
She needs to put a restraining order out against her
Juile is too pretty to even do all that. She needs therapy and someone that loves her for HER 💕
I would love to have a friend like her
Pretty has nothing to do with this, there were alot of good looking serial killers too. F*ck how she look, people having sympathy for her in the comments because of her looks now imagine if she was less attractive how the comments would go...
@@MellieSumlinYou want to have a friend steal and you're blamed for it!??
@@MellieSumlinyou want a friend that gets money for you to perform and keep it?
Gurl. You’re beyond crazy actually 💀💀💀 a whole nother level of delulu. Shorty is tripping omg
I’ve dealt with an envious friend/fan. Unfortunately in her case she would not admit to it when I tried to confront her. All she did was gaslight me. She copied literally everything about me. It’s actually traumatizing to experience this bc most people don’t take it seriously.
Been there. It's embarrassing.
man same it was so crazy!
You need to see Karamo
& they don’t believe you!!!!!
she's in love with her and her life !
Exactly
she need to get a jop
I’m an African and I never did shit like that in my life
Which country she from?
OH nevermind DRC..
@@o0R3stless0o never that I’m from South Sudan
@@Tjbands45 Yeah she crazy got nothing to do from where she from..
@@o0R3stless0o I mean that’s not nice to say when there’s a war in Congo and the phone that we just use they give us the material to make it and 11.8k people have been killed in Congo there’s even a war going on in north Sudan 🇸🇩 9.0000 people was killed there and South Sudan is just dangerous but I can still visit there I just have to be careful so I won’t get shot when I’ve already been shot in high point north Carolina
This is very worrying behaviour!! She isn't even able to understand the obsessive, stalker, deceptive, lying characteristics in herself, she could really end up doing something dangerous 😳😳😳
That tattoo is CRA-ZY.
First story she told about how they started hanging out reminds me of this girl I used to work with. She was SO pushy. It was like her mission to be my friend. It wasn’t endearing… it was weird. She used to beg to hang out with me after we closed at work. We weren’t close at all, I just found it odd. She would constantly call me and talk to me as if we were best friends. People called me “Bee” so she started calling herself “Dee” it was just… strange. Lots of red flags. I didn’t want to hurt her feelings but she was doing too much. After I quit that job, I just ghosted her. After watching this, shoot maybe I made the right decision lol
You definitely did.
I just dealt with this same situation with an ex Co worker. Im glad I stopped dealing with her.🙌🏾
@@eleshagunn Girl, good!!
Ole creepy self lol people are so weird.
GIRL SHE IS NOT COMPREHENDING WHAT SHE IS BEING TOLD! YOU WILL NEED TO GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AND POSSIBLY FILE CHARGES AGAINST HER. CREEPY AF!
She’s too pretty to act like this. She needs to be focus on being her own person! She would go far with just being HERSELF!
prettiness has nothing! to do with mental illness! 🤦🏾♀️
I’m concerned with her actions yes. We can debate what’s “crazy” what’s not… but facts win. Fact is she’s making her friend uncomfortable and fact is this young woman continues with the behavior. She not only continues, but she gets worse over time. Avione really need to do some spiritual homework. There’s an entity attached to this individual that could be blocking her from her divine purpose in this realm. This is far much more deeper than obsession.
FACTS..‼️‼️ you gotta pay attention 💯 and just LOOK .. 👀 closer ENOUGH you’ll see the entity on em … ‼️‼️‼️
Big ole fact
Straight fact
yes fr💯
This has gone way beyond the norm, and now into the possible psychotic stage, and it's dangerous at this point 😳.
People who do things to others and don’t see anything wrong… this looks like a mental illness. I hope she gets help.
I’m glad Karamo said that to her cause she’s DELUSIONAL & sees nothing wrong with what she’s doing. She woulda got her azz whooped playing with me like that.
Right, nothing he's saying to her is getting through to her. That's a problem and she's mentally unwell and most likely doesn't see that her actions are wrong or how it may affect another person.
Ight frfr
This is a long comment , I’m so sorry lol .
I see both sides. I used to be Julie. I was neglected emotionally as a child and mentally and physically abused. I would try to get love with extreme performances/expression. Sometimes it worked, sometimes it didn’t. But, as a child with an optimistic attitude, I decided to dedicate to my extreme expression of love because I knew it would work sometimes..and that was enough for me.
So, when it was time to start making friends, I would over act and put on extreme performances to get attention. People would distance themselves from me (I never knew I was the weird girl) and I would feel the rejection , but couldn’t understand it. Eventually someone would feel sorry for me and give me some attention or compassion or try to understand me better , like Avione.
I would IMMEDIATELY try to prove my loyalty by showing extreme expressions of love. I wanted them to know I loved them because sometimes, their love or affection or attention was all I had to thrive on. I never got tattoos or anything like Julie did , but I would love bomb in ways that made them uncomfortable. It seemed perfectly normal to me.
Oddly enough, like Julie, I made friends with someone who rapped who defended me at one of the lowest moments of my life. When I realized they rapped, I became their biggest fan because I didn’t want to lose them. They made me feel safe with their small act of kindness.
My mindset was always this , “if one gesture of love works, make sure the next gesture is even bigger!” In an attempt to show love , I made people very uncomfortable.
This went on until I was about 31. The rapper friend said some hurtful things and did some hurtful things that crushed me. In that moment , I realized that my ways of expressing love was extreme. I found out I may have CPTSD (complex PTSD) … no official diagnosis as of now …. But I found a RUclips serious called “The Crappy Childhood Fairy” and realized that my obsessive love bombing and extreme expressions of love was called limerance. It is a symptom of CPTSD that stem from neglect and abuse in childhood. I did the work to have a healthy view on love.
Me and the rapper are still friends lol, but I ask him to be very honest when my love patterns become obsessive so I don’t make him feel uncomfortable. I came to understand that the reason my obsessive love expression would get worse, was because people didn’t have the heart to reject me. Avione is doing the right thing here. Her honesty will make Julie see that her behavior is not normal. It feels innocent to Julie , but this form of expressing love is not normal and it’s not healthy for Julie or Avione.
I’ve gotten better at catching myself and creating boundaries for myself. I’ve found balance in navigating through social interactions to avoid extreme performance for attention, which brought more friends into my life. And with more friends , I don’t put all my attention on keeping one friend.
It’s scary to find out people see you as a psychopath, nutty, weird…and embarrassing and hurtful. But if what Julie does is truly in innocent intent, this will be the significant moment that helps her find balance and heal from her trauma.
Sometimes, some of my unexplainable behaviors was an attempt to cover embarrassment I may have felt when friends would reject certain advances or I was put on the spot for something I did and couldn’t explain why I did it because I didn’t know how to say , “I did it because I want you to be my friend”, because , ironically lol , I knew that would come across as weird and desperate, but I never considered the actual acts weird or desperate in the moment. The mindset behind it is all warped and twisted, I’ll admit it in retrospect. Also , I needed Jesus and got Him fast. Most of my healing came from finding faith that aligned me with biblical truths on love.
@jassywitthewords Thank you for explaining it the way you did. You were honest, easy to understand, & transparent. I'm Glad you found Jesus & held yourself accountable. Keep moving forward & Jesus will heal you.
Thank you for explaining this. most of the comments was so negative about her and i felt like she just wanted a friend really badly. Doesnt excuse the woman's behavior but sometimes we often paint somone as a villian before trying to understand WHY they are behaving this way. She does need help and hope fully this show helps her find a healthy balance with interacting with people. I think in the end she didnt want to admit to the booking's because she (hopefully) realized that (oh shxt) I do look crazy. I wish he would follow up with her in a few months or so. See how she is doing, and if she is getting the help she needs.
I understand I was like that to bc I wasn't bullied and not so popular growing up, I love people and I can many friends bc I'm a very passionate and adoring person but see I have kids and they're joy and attention but I also don't smother them I'm also married and love my husband to pieces, I used to want constant and consistent compliments, reassurance and always wanting him to make me feel good about myself bc my past relationship with my first and also the father of my oldest 2 kids, did me really bad I didn't think of myself and didn't feel the worth or value of my life and who I am or who I could be if I learn to love and value myself more, learn and see my own worth through my own eyes and the eyes of the Lord, that he took the time to create me, so I got a purpose and I must be worth the effort to create and I had to understand I deserved more, bc there's no greater love than God and loving yourself, the more you love learn to love yourself the less you will need someone else to make you feel loved, and you also can teach others how to love you or how you wanna be treated, you have to treat other with love and respect but they have to earn it as well as you earning their love and respect, it's not always a one way street unless you're choosing to walk it alone, and that's fine be we can do bad all by ourselves, but once you start to invite friends into your circle you have to know what's good and what's bad, what positive and what's negative, bc once you allow negativity into your circle, negativity will continue to revolve within that circle, darkness can not drive out darkness only light can do that, bad can not drive out bad only good can do that, meaning you got to have positivity to drive out the negativity, you may not always be about to avoid seeing it or hearing it but you can avoid it being in your circle or your comfort zone, once you bring negativity into your comfort zone you no longer will have a safe place bc you can't get away from all the negativity surrounding you, never allow negativity to overstep boundaries bc once that happens then it's like there's no cares or reasonable ways to prove and show loyalty bc the boundaries or lines that you have drawn has already been overstepped, sometimes it happens as we all may ignore the red flags but don't ignore the red flags bc recognizing and noticing those red flags may just save your life, it did eventually save Mines and also helped me understand that there's more to life than the eye can see but you gotta know your worth and value bc loving yourself is what true happiness is bc once you learn to love yourself, you won't let nor allow anyone to love you any less than you're worth, and you will not accept things that you might had in your past, so always remember God loves you and you love you❤❤
But to become am impostor and get money doing that - that is scamming.
This is such a Godo testimony !! Congratulations ❤❤
An envious friend is a dangerous enemy!
She's not envious
She's in love or something
Attention starved
Avion gave her what she needed but Jul wanted more
She doesn't envy her.
Omg she’s weird , the tattoo is wild and the fact it’s her only tattoo make it even more weird 😂😂😂
I wouldn’t call her weird
@@BREASHONTELL great for you
Julie is a beautiful girl! I hope that she gets the help that she needs
Karamo looks concerned.
That man looked at her sideways and said protect yourself 🔫
Love bombing in friendships is an extremely real occurrence. But our brain doesn't know how to process it because we're conditioned to believe the more friends the better this person just wants to be my friend, but you don't have to accept friendship this way if you substitute the word friend with literally any other thing you can start to understand how this Dynamic can be toxic. What if instead of friendship being forced on you what if you substitute that word with sex or money. So evaluate the people in your life and if you feel drained but don't know how to put it in words this is probably the dynamic.. the reason people come on so strong in friendships is typically because something in their life is lacking so subconsciously there using your presence to distract them from the unfulfillment that they have in their life
Smh
She wants far more than a friendship
It’s more than love bombing. It seems to be more of an obsession.
I also think there is really something psychologically wrong with her. I’d be curious to know the dynamic/upbringing within her family, because she seems to have attachment issues in addition to obsessive compulsiveness
@@BeUr_Best Otis definitely exceeds love bombing foreshore I wrote The Post like 4 minutes into the video thinking it was going to mirror a situation I'm currently in. Yes she needs to move to a different country hide some Assets in offshore accounts and change identities. This lady is bat shit
I didn't know that was a thing.
Avionne's responses are Soo funny 😂😂
She’s scary and definitely gonna do it to someone else and over and over until she snaps and try’s to kill somebody
This sounds like the plot of a Tubi movie.
KELLIE! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Down to avione's "ad-libs."
@@mirrbaby9854 right 😂😂
Lifetime
I understand why everyone is talking about Julie obsessive behavior but i wish someone would try and get her actual help instead of making fun of her. we need to do better as collective when it comes to others mental health.
You can tell Julie didn’t get that love she needed to be showed , in that case her ideal of “love” is more of action so by her actions she wants to show her affection but it rubs off the wrong way . I just think she needs therapy and counseling and if she religious I would probably recommend to speak to who she believes in.
Initially I was thinking that she was in love with her, but when she was booking shows for her and taking the deposit without her knowledge, I thought that was a significant sign of something else. It was different than the "love" for her b/c if it was love she would have told her I got these shows for you. and here is the deposit. They are likely going to need the legal system to help with this one.
Yup - a scammer. That's it.
Man people need to address their issues asap! Disaster waiting to happen!!! Praying for them both honestly… one to be safe and the other to receive help!
"Molly, you in danger, girl." All seriousness that's stalker energy. It's giving the JLow movie (the boy next door)
That girl is- INSANE. She doesn’t need a reality talk show, she’s needs psychotherapy or something. To make a fake profile of Avionne was just superrr weird. Then use her name for booking stuff??? She’s trying to steal her identity because she feels she doesn’t have one. And she views Avionnes life, as the life she wish she had. Avionne needs a restraining order, as this situation could get a lot worse.
Then she asked, “what part?” When he asked her to apologize 🤣🤣🤣. How about: for everything??
there's some kind of mental disconnect that julie has, i hope avione and her children are safe
The lady in the orange dress is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
Nahh man she needs help. The fact that she keeps bringing up that she’s a “fan”…. Reminds me of Selena…that lady was her fan and took her life.
People are forgetting she’s homeless therefore she’s going through a lot this doesn’t excuse her stalker behaviour but she needs real help
You can see the crazy in her eyes!
*mentally ill
"Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness." - Oscar Wilde
I always have to remind people that the quote is often shortened. Julie is not understanding boundaries very well and I hope she gets some mental help. I can tell she really wants friends and doesn't know how to relate to others in the best way. I've experienced friends trying to mimic me in an inappropriate way. It's like they try to morph into you, its always hard to speak on it because no one will ever admit they are trying to copy-paste your life. it starts with copying outfits, hair, then even down to how you speak, repeating stories from YOUR Iife as their own, sometimes they try to steal romantic partners or even triangulate you from YOUR friends. I really hope Julie stops this. It's always uncomfortable and unflattering.
She understands perfectly well. She’s a con artist. She admitted that she she knew several of the things she did was wrong. And tried to play innocent about her intentions. Until it came out that she stole money using that woman’s name and reputation. She knew what she was doing is wrong and illegal and proved it by trying to lie and say she didn’t do it. But when she found out there was a paper trail pointing to her she wants act like she’s stuck on stupid. She knew everything she did was wrong.
I have faced this too with people and I agree. It's a scary feeling
This has happened to me. Pretty much everything that you stated in this post. I am so grateful that people are just now talking more about "friends" who do this type of stuff. I thought I was crazy at the time that it was going down and stayed in a friendship way longer than I should have.
@@ThePrettymiss21 You aren't crazy. I'm glad you're out of it. It starts getting weird when you're literally sharing dreams/goals you've written down in detail and they start regurgitating things back to you word for word. They try to rush and make things about you their entire personality. THey're obsessively competitive and strange. It doesnt feel good. I wish there was more deep dives on this because as of now when I google its always very topical "if you're being imitated take it as a compliment." There's a difference between inspiring people to better themselves and someone flat out trying to erase you and become you. It's scary.
I have a feeling there's going to be a Part 2 of this episode. There is clearly something going on with Julie. I'm not sure she's able to just walk away from Avione. Whew
She's right that Africans culture your kids are my kids.. but Julie is a great person she just needs some boundaries.
She's not obsessed she's joulous and sis need to protect herself
She's not jealous
She's attention starved
She wants too much
No this is seriously crazy and not funny nor something that should be laughed at or joked over. You have to watch people like this! It may seem crazy in a funny way but people like this have obsessions and weird fixations and can take it to EXTREMES! At first I thought the first best friend was being a bit rude, but once the other ex best friend came out and started talking about the tattoo, dressing alike, FANPAGE, and asking her son inappropriate questions… no. She’s probably a P*do and sick in the head with no self identity. I pray this lady keeps proper precautions and protects her family from this maniac. This is not okay…. scary thing about these people is you never know who or what they can become when rejected for too long…
So true 💯 this situation is serious
I think she jealous of Avione and wanted her life. I wouldn’t trust her around my husband either
I think the friend has a borderline personality disorder. And the fact that she lacks insight to see that her behavior is not appropriate it's very concerning. I sense she suffered serious trauma and loss in her life, that's why she obsessively idolized people she loves/likes.
I hope she gets the helps she needs.
That girl probably do Witchcraft!
Explain girl cus it's definitely giving that.. She might be tryna steal her identity or sum as well
@@GoddessEnergy0306or jus mentally ill
100% She has this vibes!
Love how Karamo said protect yourself. Wink wink. Girl file that restraining order and be done with it
She’s in love with her.. but is going about it the wrong way
The way the waterworks started immediately after he started telling her abt herself is insaneeee… like she clicked a switch I canttttt
I had a friend from hell too. She did the same latching on, copying me and having amnesia when confronted. Them tears are fake as hell. People like that don't know how to be alone. Let alone live by themselves. They need that symbiotic type relationship or else.
She really is crazy. Moreover, she is dangerous.
I can definitely see her doing something to hurt herself and the other woman. A retraining order is a MUST and there is no time like the present. I really hope action is taken before it can come to that!
this type of people can kill u
I bet she has bpd and she became her "favorite person". They tend to have obsessive personalities, lack identity, and has an extreme fear of abandonment. I put money she had a traumatic upbringing
I protect myself from people like that by only hanging with people who have their own personality, goals, like I can tell they have their own style already. Know who they are have a sense of confidence! Also by not allowing my friends to cross friend groups because jealous heifers like to be the only one or mess you up!
I think its possible to also spot some red flags from early encounters with them. Such as those who are too eager to please and constantly going out of their way to be in your face. As an introvert, that behaviour is very off putting to me, so I'd be cordial but keep my distance and protect my privacy.
@@sensimania YESSS I had a girl try to be my friend day one of meeting me at work asking for my number and stuff im like RED FLAGG
I had a friendship similar to this where it felt like she was stealing my identity and becoming obsessed like she would get mad if i hung out with other people... I feel kinda bad for her because she may have bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder like my friend did... I think she needs help clearly and Avion has every right to fee creeped out. I have friends who have their names tatted and I'm a bit eclectic myself so some of ways i get. She's clearly without support and Avion helped her so she misconstrued it as somethingit wasn't.
When someone is obsessed, they've lost control of their feelings about the object of their obsession. The adjective obsessed is often used to simply mean "very interested," but when someone is truly obsessed, their interest has become compulsive, and they've begun to lose control over it.
She needs professional help
Mental health is real
At first I thought that maybe the friend was neurodivergent and the other woman just didn't understand/like her love language or something, but the more I watched, it became clear that this wasn't the case. I mean she could still be neurodivergent, but this is deeper than just that.
She just needs to learn boundaries and who she is fr
She’s absolutely nuts and I would move my family far away from her and get a restraining order.
Julie seems like she's capable of doing and justifying some things that could result in violence. Avian really should press charges, for the sake of her safety.
I need to find the full episode. I wanna see her behavior addressed with getting help. I felt like Karamo was so appalled he was on some "youre lucky it was her cuz anybody else would have laid yo ass out".
Be a fan without the behavior and create the space to be a fan from a distance. Your African tradition doesn’t apply in your best friend’s home and the friendship l. Boundaries are made and placed for a reason. Learn and apply💯
This was very uncomfortable to watch🤦🏽♂️
It’s very inappropriate to be going up to her kids school. And she is asking her kids personal questions is not ok
Not obsessive this way, but the intention and impact part he mentioned helped me out a lot. I’m a 16 y/o teenage girl and sometimes I could be this way (obsessive) towards my friends, but mostly I have self-control, sometimes not, and when I use visual clues like negative body language, I immediately apologize for being too flirty or whatnot, and I’m forgiven. I’m very aware of things like this and not self gaslighting cus wtf
this the type of person to be “if i can’t have you no one will” she needs to be careful
This is not ok she definitely needs to get away from her it’s obsession to an extreme level
This is insane. Please stay far away anytime somebody is imitating you it's very dangerous. These ppl tend to want to erase and become you
I honestly feel bad for Julie. She needs professional help because there seems to be a clear lack of social skills and awareness there, and it’s negatively impacting her life and the people involved. This isn’t to excuse her behavior, but it seems like she didn’t really understand how her behavior came off.
I hate when people say I apologise, an apology isn't the same as saying sorry
What's an apology supposed to sound like?
@@VoguishMis..... Not supposed to sound like anything, read my comment again it's self explanatory...
@@Supa-Fly You said an apology isn't the same as saying "sorry". Isn't "Sorry" a form of an apology? I'm sorry your comment wasn't self explanatory as I didn't get it. I apologise.
@@VoguishMis 😂... I see what you tried to do there.. And I'm sorry that you don't get it...
@@Supa-Fly Lol I am genuinely curious. As English isn't my first or second language. In our language, saying both mean the same thing.
This make me think of myself I use to always use pretty females pictures online and create fake pages because I use to wish that I was pretty like the girls pics I was using , I love the attention from the men even though the pics wasn’t me I still liked the feeling of the men thinking I was beautiful by using someone else pics 😢 i was catfishing for 7 or 8 years … yes I had low self esteem really bad . I feel for this young lady right here who is obsessed over this woman Ik what she’s feeling and how it feels to want someone else’s life❤
This is some crazy shittt😭😭😭 I wish my boyfriend was this crazy about me 😂
I wish
Be careful what you wish for
Which African culture she talkin about? 👀
Thought so too😅😅😅😅😅
I feel like Karamo knows that this women is crazy and obsessed with this lady. Reason why he told her to “protect” her self.
Aviane, “Molly Girl You In Danger!”
She sounds like a crazy stalker!!! I think she likes her in a romantic way and won’t say it!!!