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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

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  • @emmacharles6380
    @emmacharles6380 Год назад +98

    Love your videos! I had an abusive marriage. When I escaped I started my minimalist journey. That was 15 yrs ago. I now live in a 14x60 trailer and I'm living my best life! I am so happy! I started watching your videos and I know I'm on the right path for me. Thank you! Keep those videos coming!!

    • @andeeanko7079
      @andeeanko7079 Год назад +4

      Wishing you continued peace. 🙏💕

  • @SuzyYen82
    @SuzyYen82 Год назад +27

    I love this. It's like you are sitting down with a friend to have a chat. It's nice. Thanks Ron.

  • @Prophethezeki
    @Prophethezeki Год назад +2

    Thank you Ronald

  • @qwertyqwert2772
    @qwertyqwert2772 Год назад +3

    you have a very uplifting presence

  • @melissalee1709
    @melissalee1709 Год назад +7

    Another "C" word...Contentment. Being thankful and ok with what you have has been huge for me on this journey. Love your thoughts on limiting social media. I can really see its influences on one of my grown daughters. She has caviar wishes on a spam budget lol. Keep up the great videos.

  • @janerose1945
    @janerose1945 Год назад +2

    Love your informal, non-stressed style, low voice, and gentle presentation!

  • @owlexb1124
    @owlexb1124 Год назад +14

    I always feel so much peace in your videos. Thank you!

  • @Menita72
    @Menita72 Год назад +35

    I do enjoy the podcast format, it's like a conversation where I learn ways to improve my mindset. Thanks!

  • @MmM20978
    @MmM20978 Год назад +8

    Having a bit of a hard day today, it's the routines that keep you strong. Thanks for being here!

  • @marybonelli9284
    @marybonelli9284 Год назад +5

    I SO LOVE your content and your attitude and mindset! People would be shocked at how little it takes to make them happy (things). Managing less "inventory" is so freeing. You can only use one cup at a time, wear one shirt at a time, etc. Thank You Ronald for what you do!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад +1

      You hit the nail on the head with that statement Mary: “Managing less inventory is so freeing.” I agree with you 100%. Thanks for calling this out in this way. Also I love that you’re loving my content. Thanks for being part of this community!

  • @jdubmac
    @jdubmac Год назад +5

    Another vote for "I love all your videos"!
    I think long time followers can understand that it's not just about what we want to see from you, but now that you have a wee one to care for and enjoy, this is the type of video you need to produce right now to balance family and work.
    Hope you have wonderful holidays! Thanks as always for the encouragement and the lessons.

  • @CocoAzoitei
    @CocoAzoitei Год назад +1

    I love your voice and vibe as much as your content! So comforting... Have clicked the "receive all" notifications bell! ❤

  • @OliviaLovejoy
    @OliviaLovejoy Год назад +1

    Great advice. I absolutely loved the lead back, comment style. Your voice and energy is so calming.

  • @JeanDolan-lh8yc
    @JeanDolan-lh8yc Год назад +9

    Thank you for posting! My husband and I have been swimming against the current for 13 years with our 12 year old daughter. It is hard to keep going and stay true to our values. I appreciate that there are others staying true to who they are. It is a tough journey but we are seeing the results in our daughter. We feel less crazy as well.

  • @judyp464
    @judyp464 Год назад +14

    Shaking my head yes to every point! Another great, motivating video Ronald! Thank you and I like the format.

  • @zenisfun
    @zenisfun 2 месяца назад

    I like your clips cause it is direct and straight. No blabbering and the system u used to record is noise free.

  • @Menita72
    @Menita72 Год назад +15

    Courage and Consistency, definitely things I need to build for myself. Thanks for your advice Ronald! 😀

  • @barbaracarbone4658
    @barbaracarbone4658 Год назад +4

    Wow... This is really good. I agree man. Courage n Consistency. Yes. Thanks much. I like your new style...it's comfortable watching you.

  • @michaelbyzewski973
    @michaelbyzewski973 Год назад

    I am living what you are talking about. It's difficult. The journey is a very long one. Thanks so much!

  • @babysisdolls3336
    @babysisdolls3336 Год назад

    you are so right..i am afraid to do a no-spend year, because i will not be successful, but i do realize that trying is a success.

  • @feychildtarot355
    @feychildtarot355 Год назад +4

    Christina Mychas recommended your channel. I love your content. Embracing minimalism as we prepare for a big move out of state next year

  • @helloandris_
    @helloandris_ Год назад +2

    You are a great great guy, with an exceptional attitude!

  • @SirMopy
    @SirMopy Год назад +2

    this video really made me think about my life… in a positive way! thanks!

  • @nicolawatt6940
    @nicolawatt6940 Год назад

    I really enjoy yor videos, you have a natural manner and a clear way of explaining situations as well as relating them to your own life. Thank you.

  • @LukeBrackley
    @LukeBrackley 4 месяца назад

    Great watch and agree with the majority. Minimalism certainty gave a great uplift to my life. Though the money your saving in the process, dont just not spend it, spend that on activities and life experiences, massively important to a fulfilled life, its there to be spent still, but definitely not on the unneeded latest gadget.

  • @amyli092
    @amyli092 Год назад +3

    Courage... I feel like this is something that goes hand in hand with confidence. I feel like while confidence is something I've developed and worked on for a long time, consistency is harder. Moving onto a different set of habits and routines is hard because once you become familiar with something, you tend to stick with it. I'm currently in the midst of trying to become more consistent with some changes in my finances so that I can eventually move in with my boyfriend, and while I have slowed down my consumption a lot, budgeting is something I've never really taken seriously; I'm wanting to change that. Thank you for making this very insightful video, Ronald!

  • @susandevine3907
    @susandevine3907 Год назад +2

    Hey, I guessed “courage” before you said it. So many people seem to feel “owned” by their stuff and need courage to take charge.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Yes!! Absolutely! Take back control of your life!

  • @BlushnBlue
    @BlushnBlue Год назад +20

    I keep trying to become a minimalist but man it is so tough. I'm not going to give up because since it is so tough I can see that this is addiction. Same with social media....ugh. Thank you for the tips.

    • @stinaljungstrom8691
      @stinaljungstrom8691 Год назад +6

      I know the feeling! I struggle to get more minimal. Love an airy home but suddenly I buy to much stuff again. Hard!

    • @bunnyboo6295
      @bunnyboo6295 Год назад +3

      @@stinaljungstrom8691 Take a look at how you are doing it. It should be about being frugal appreciate the things you got. Don't just throw everything out leading to the need to replace. It's not about having nothing keep things that have a purpose respect the item, so you don't need to keep replacing. You don't need to throw out as soon as the weather changes because you don't need the item for that season winter comes back every year. Think ahead ask yourselves do you have anything else that dose the same job dose the item spark joy.
      The whole idea is to try not to be wasteful you can have things. throwing away things premature is a wasteful thing. Think about the items you get will it bring value over a long period of time don't add things that aren't truly needed respect the thing that you already have

    • @stinaljungstrom8691
      @stinaljungstrom8691 Год назад +1

      @@bunnyboo6295 Thanks for the input. 😊❤️
      I've actually had a lot of clothes and furniture for 10-30 years. I don't throw things I like and use.
      Well... we don't throw things at all, we donate or sell. 😊
      We went though everything in our home twice and gave a lot to charity. It became like I wanted and I felt it was the right amount of things for us. The home felt and looked really nice.
      So far, so good... But I got severe healt issues and a neurological diagnosis, got worse, had no energy, was resting a lot for mounths and got depressed because I missed work, friends and living my life. After mounths of doing almost nothing I found a hobby I sometimes could do while laying in the sofa.
      Then I like flipped over a bit, and started buying a lot for that hobby.
      So I guess that is more of my problem. The hobby and being distracted helped me out of the depression.
      But the home now has cluttter because of it.
      I know I can be frugal. I have been for years of my life. I also know I need to downsize the hobby so it fits into a limited space. Sometimes life just hits you hard and get you out of balance.

    • @bunnyboo6295
      @bunnyboo6295 Год назад +4

      @@stinaljungstrom8691 If the hobby is something you legit do and enjoy you shouldn't feel shame.

    • @andeeanko7079
      @andeeanko7079 Год назад +3

      @stinaljungstrom8691 I have a few hobbies, too - I write, play music, and sew. So instruments, sewing stuff, pens and notebooks take up space. Our hobbies enrich our life! So I just keep things as tidy as possible in stacked plastic boxes, etc.

  • @Optionbeautiiny
    @Optionbeautiiny Год назад

    Geez I seriously just love hearing you talk. You give me so much motivation. Lol thanks so much for all your content

  • @libbypetersen3523
    @libbypetersen3523 Год назад +2

    Really enjoy this format. Hope new parenthood continues to treat you well.

  • @devlynnmortesse6609
    @devlynnmortesse6609 Год назад +3

    I love your videos, Im just starting on a journey to declutter my life. I wont say full on minimalism.. but I find a lot of what you say really resonates with what I want to achieve. Thank you for the messages you give, both on how to start and the encouragment to keep going.

  • @donnatrevithick1318
    @donnatrevithick1318 Год назад +4

    Hello Ronald (from Queensland) I am loving your videos and I share them with several people. I enjoy this style of video, it's like a heart to heart conversation from you. I'm a minimalist who has become "90%" hardcore in the last few months... Your videos of wisdom has helped incredibly. I'm on my last 'lap' now with your encouragement. Thank you SO much for all of your help!

  • @Meemee-mo5it
    @Meemee-mo5it Год назад +3

    Thank you for your encouragement! I have to keep building this muscle of keeping me eye on my goals and not the world's expectations and temptations.

  • @AuntieAprie
    @AuntieAprie Год назад

    I appreciate every time I could screenshot mantras and something to always refer too. I kind of lost myself. I’m ready to evolve into my true self 💖

  • @joangavrilik3009
    @joangavrilik3009 Год назад

    I’m new to your channel. But find you very clear, inspiring and supportive. Thank you!

  • @roslyncaskey3396
    @roslyncaskey3396 Год назад

    I need to consistently review your videos. The laid back approach as well as your nervous humble beginnings are all good, because regardless your messages are informative and can be life changing for the better. Thank you.

  • @heidilopez-felix8105
    @heidilopez-felix8105 Год назад +3

    Such a beautiful person 😊

  • @Satsbyyy
    @Satsbyyy Год назад +4

    Love the setup and organization of the recent videos. Your pacing is excellent and it allows for some short intimate/deep thoughts to occur without overthinking.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Thank you!! I’m really happy you’re enjoying this style. I’m enjoying it as well because it allows me to get into a flow without overthinking.

  • @roser6963
    @roser6963 Год назад +4

    It’s always so hard for me. I had so little growing up I just want to hold onto everything. I’m trying though. Your videos have helped. Thank you.

  • @101Cecilia
    @101Cecilia Год назад +2

    Always enjoy your videos.
    I need the reinforcement in my life … that’s why I listen to these over and over. Sometimes you say things in New ways, then they seem to sink in even more

  • @amara560
    @amara560 Год назад +3

    Such a helpful video. I feel myself falling for the trap of buying more and my house is filling up. I really want to turn this around. Your videos are very inspiring and helpful.

    • @bunnyboo6295
      @bunnyboo6295 Год назад

      When buying think about do you already have something that serves the same use/Purpose. Like if you see a cute coffee mug do you already have a perfectly fine set of mugs. If you see clothes you want to buy, ask yourself do you own something similar. Ask yourself if the item is better than brings more joy, then item you already have. See a cute pair of sneakers ask do you already own a perfectly good pair is it really needed if you only got a ripped-up pair at home maybe it's time for replacement but if you got a few in your closet put them down leave them on the store shelf.

  • @lizzyagatha
    @lizzyagatha Год назад +1

    I love donating

  • @marissat9953
    @marissat9953 Год назад +3

    Love your videos and the new laid back style. I'm listening to my mentor/teacher/friend talk about things that I need to hear. I'm trying to swim against that current but I'm tired, but watching your videos give me inspiration to get back in and swim up stream. Thank you!

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Год назад +1

    Great video. I have been vegan for over a decade and I don't know any other vegans. I have been minimalist going on three years and I don't know any other minimalists. I am truly one to go against the current but I never considered it as having courage. I already have a twin I don't have a need to fit in and follow other people.

  • @Willtok7560
    @Willtok7560 Год назад +1

    Always enjoy your videos! You should do a full podcast show. Your voice is easy to listen to on audio.

  • @PageToo
    @PageToo Год назад +1

    I like the podcast style because I can have it on while I’m working/doing housework, etc and your voice is nice and you have an important message. I actually “emptied my cart” (mostly) while listening to this, so you are right about “becoming what you listen to”

  • @ricardojmartins89
    @ricardojmartins89 Год назад +2

    Very nice conversation, super helpful advices thanks Ron. Peace

  • @valeriehowden471
    @valeriehowden471 Год назад +3

    Do love the new podcast style. Gets me to reflect and stay motivated thru til your next one. Many thanks from Canada.

  • @kiranuchil6523
    @kiranuchil6523 Год назад

    Courage and Consistency.

  • @fabmontreal25
    @fabmontreal25 Год назад +2

    Consistency is what leads to succeed

  • @CliveMillie
    @CliveMillie Год назад +3

    I'm enjoying this style of video. I have made a lot of progress in purging my life to make it simpler, but still have a long way to go. So much thanks and appreciation for your inspiration!

  • @jfpdc888
    @jfpdc888 Год назад

    Awesome style of relating to other here on your channel! Indeed keep them going for they are very helpful. thank you for creating them!!

  • @Jane_Moss
    @Jane_Moss Год назад

    i love this type of relaxed video - makes us feel like we're sitting with a friend having a cup of coffee! Love your videos !

  • @Rebekah_emeth
    @Rebekah_emeth Год назад

    Love IT. Practically sound and doable advice.

  • @DominiqueFieldDorado
    @DominiqueFieldDorado Год назад

    Thank you, your videos always leave me with something to think about.

  • @janinem5196
    @janinem5196 Год назад +2

    First video I've seen of yours. Truly excellent content, nicely done.

  • @jillchris1857
    @jillchris1857 Год назад +1

    Thank you for posting!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Thank you for the opportunity to share this with you!

  • @KT-rh7hq
    @KT-rh7hq Год назад +4

    Thank you for your words today. Very insightful and I will be applying them to my personal journey. Love the new relaxed style videos. Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving and thank you for all that you do! 😊

  • @InfiniteMindset99
    @InfiniteMindset99 Год назад

    I appreciate both styles you own. This one shines bright to the world how you both are exemplary and emanate what you teach with authenticity.❤

  • @BloomingRose60
    @BloomingRose60 Год назад +2

    Oooooh, this so good and on point!!! I want you to know that your impact is tangible... ❤️

  • @connieciarallo3744
    @connieciarallo3744 Год назад

    Thank you Ronald for all your help and advice! I like this style of your videos … it’s relaxed and it’s like you’re with us in person talking one on one! Thank you again 😊

  • @Hairitage2023
    @Hairitage2023 Год назад

    Great content...nice quality and the sound , esthetic is very smooth!!

  • @panchaliIP
    @panchaliIP 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you. Such a valuable video.

  • @cathylynnpietranton
    @cathylynnpietranton Год назад +1

    Ron I really this new format. Another great video and food for thought.
    👍👍❤

  • @AlexaMorales
    @AlexaMorales Год назад +1

    Great message delivered very charismatically! Happy holidays!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it. Happy holidays to you as well!

  • @kenjarvis2123
    @kenjarvis2123 Год назад +1

    Great advise, just found your channel this morning and really got something out of it. Wisdom beyond your years!! keep it up

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      I’m happy this reached you! Hopefully you continue to get value from my videos. If you ever have any questions don’t hesitate to ask!

  • @cara.lee.h
    @cara.lee.h Год назад +1

    Loved this one! It really spoke to me

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад +1

      Awesome! I’m happy this video reached you!

  • @barbkandel777
    @barbkandel777 Год назад +2

    This is such a good message, Ron. I need this today. Great video!

  • @wang_xian
    @wang_xian Год назад +1

    This was so well put honestly im bookmarking this video, one of the best you did

    • @wang_xian
      @wang_xian Год назад +1

      I liked this video and the one you posted before, because they came right on time given my life situation

  • @thatswhatisaid8908
    @thatswhatisaid8908 5 месяцев назад

    It also takes courage to let go of things you think you might need someday, or you're keeping "just in case "

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Год назад +1

    Yes I enjoy these laid paid, podcast type vlogs. Tfs and have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

  • @michelleevans2445
    @michelleevans2445 Год назад

    Great video! I also try to declutter as I live.

  • @leniberzins3539
    @leniberzins3539 Год назад +1

    Great encouraging video-keep them coming please 👍

  • @aussiemumlovesmusic
    @aussiemumlovesmusic Год назад

    Newly subscribed. I love your mindset.

  • @RichMarrett
    @RichMarrett Год назад +1

    Great video Ronald! Really helpful tips for owning less.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Thank you! I’m glad you found this helpful. Keep growing on your journey my friend!

  • @tamiljothidakalanjiyam3310
    @tamiljothidakalanjiyam3310 Год назад +2

    Beautiful... Brother...

  • @juliemarkham4332
    @juliemarkham4332 Год назад +1

    I like the podcast type videos as well as your other videos.

  • @marie-maudeouellet3353
    @marie-maudeouellet3353 Год назад +1

    Love your videos Ronald ❤️ Thank you !!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Thank you! I love that you love them!

  • @livinglikeahuman7918
    @livinglikeahuman7918 Год назад

    I would love to hear your idea of minimalism and spirituality. I understand it’s different for everyone but I feel like everyone skips over this topic because of peoples different ideas of spirituality but I would love to hear your version of it. Thanks stay decluttered 💪

  • @lynneplis4793
    @lynneplis4793 Год назад +3

    Inspiring 💕

  • @bernadettethirsk3948
    @bernadettethirsk3948 Год назад +1

    Love your videos I also like that their short and to the point so I can watch them anytime when I have a moment love the minimalist but I only listen to them at night before bed because it's kind of long they do have short ones LOL

  • @MartinCliffe
    @MartinCliffe Год назад +1

    I've managed to pretty much stop things coming in (indeed, I'm embarking on a no-buy year for 2023) but I feel I've kinda plateau'd in moving things out. I've minimised a lot of aspects of my life, but not everything. Some of the things that remain are going to be quite a bit of work to get rid of in a sensible and intentional way. I guess I need to build up the courage to take that next step.

  • @sokmaiazz6428
    @sokmaiazz6428 Год назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @nykiabenit4466
    @nykiabenit4466 Год назад

    I love these videos!! Just subscribed

  • @Rebeccavd92
    @Rebeccavd92 Год назад +1

    Love this video!❤️

  • @aubreyboxx7260
    @aubreyboxx7260 Год назад

    Great my friend!!!!!!’

  • @maureen8745
    @maureen8745 Год назад +2

    Liking your new way doing your videos. 😎

  • @nobleinger3586
    @nobleinger3586 Год назад

    Love it thanks for all you do Ron.😀😀

  • @stinaljungstrom8691
    @stinaljungstrom8691 Год назад +1

    I like all your videos!

  • @TheHouseOfGray
    @TheHouseOfGray Год назад

    Best video! ❤❤❤

  • @nnylasoR
    @nnylasoR Год назад

    *((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))*
    WOW, man. You have no idea how deeply this touched me and some of my friends - and in no way regarding minimalism. 😉👍
    “Really, this is great life advice in general…”
    *AMEN* to that!
    Bless you …… and keep these kinds of videos coming. ✨✊♥️✨

  • @jeanninelaila4228
    @jeanninelaila4228 Год назад

    Hey Ronald! Something I struggle with when tryin to move closer towards a more minimal life is decluttering. I have such a hard time throwing away items. I tend to want to try to sell my belongings of value (not everything just some things) but then it sits and waits for me to make the time to photograph and post etc. Do you have any tips for that?

  • @shirleyburnham2782
    @shirleyburnham2782 Год назад +1

    Love your videos x

  • @writegirl2937
    @writegirl2937 Год назад +1

    Hey Mr. Ron! Yours is the first minimalism RUclips Channel I came across about a year ago, and I have learned so much from you, so THANK YOU!......Since then, I have given away a lot of stuff and have also cleared out a lot of paper in my home office files. But my question is, it seems that some people equate minimalism with neutral colors like grays and beiges (such as yourself)🙂. Let me apologize in advance if my question seems weird, but do you think that a lot of bright colors can contribute to mental clutter?

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  Год назад

      Hey Golden! First thanks for being part of this community. I appreciate you being here and watching my content for about a year now. PLUS I see you’ve made progress with your own clutter! That’s awesome!!
      Ok, your question is very valid, and it’s not weird at all. It’s one area I disagree with other minimalist on, actually.
      Minimalism is not a color palette. We often see it depicted with very neutral colors and furniture because those things/colors are generally easier to mix and match than bright colors, and neutral tends to create a more visually calm space. However, it is possible for your space to feel sterile and cold if you don’t find the right balance for you! That said, a very colorful space works the exact same way. Brights colors can contribute to visual noise and clutter, which can have an impact on your mental space and create mental clutter. BUT you have to find the right balance that works for you, without going overboard to the point where it starts to impact your mental space.
      If someone enjoys colors and patterns, I believe they should decorate their home as so. That doesn’t mean use every color imaginable, but there are ways to incorporate the colors you love into your space in a way that doesn’t create more clutter while still ensuring your space is an environment you feel accurately reflects you.
      My wife and I have a neutral color palette in our home because those are colors we genuinely like. As a kid my favorite color was “earth tones.” I’ve always gravitated towards neutrals and greenery.
      The thing to remember is that minimalism is a tool not the end goal. I hope that helps and answers your question! If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to ask!
      Keep growing on your journey!

  • @susan97701
    @susan97701 Год назад

    Hi Ronald and thank you. Since its holday season this issue comes up around receiving gifts. I have been pretty minimalist for a long time and do constantly work on it. But, this time of year I end up receiving gifts I don't need and often don't even like. I know its the thought that counts etc. and I don't want to end up with things I sometimes feel hostage to keeping because of the relationship and/or thought behind it. I've tried various ways to deal with this from keeping the gift for a period of time then letting it move on to asking for no gifts to most recently asking for only perishiable gifts. I have to say none of this has worked very well. I'm wondering how you deal with this? Thanks for the videos. Really appreciated.

  • @ubaok24
    @ubaok24 Год назад +1

    I can commit to spending less money every month outside of paying bills and buying gas.

  • @julialatulipe
    @julialatulipe Год назад

    🤗

  • @chris-ci7ch
    @chris-ci7ch Год назад

    I thought that you were saying parents instead of current - 🤣

  • @ubaok24
    @ubaok24 Год назад

    I encourage y'all to open a high yield savings account.

  • @josipagudelj1998
    @josipagudelj1998 9 месяцев назад

    I no longer have things that I might use or wear... I only wish sweets cost a million...❤