Is Clutter Ruining your Life? - HUGE Clutter Transformation
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- Опубликовано: 26 дек 2021
- Is clutter ruining your life? Are you tired of living in a messy and overwhelming home? In this video, I share a HUGE clutter transformation, that I hope you find motivating and inspiring. Declutter your unused stuff and watch every single area of your life improve like magic.
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Cass, your heart is precious. And to those of us, especially, to know we weren't just a project or video but to know you truly care for your viewers...it came across in our time with you and it certainly comes across as we watch you help others. Don't try to keep the tears out! It helps us see how beautiful your heart is. 💜 Thank you for all you do to encourage 💜
I do my best!
❤️ Amen 🙏
With tears in my eyes...I was thinking the same thing.
@@Clutterbug how can i implore your help. Im an in a never ending struggle and i feel so defeated. I suffer from depression and anxiety as well as OCD. I just cant seem to get it together or get anyone on the same page. I find it hard to get motivated and i get overwhelmed very easy and when i get one room done and i am so proud of myself to turn around the next day and you cant even tell i did anything because nobody respects what i do and helps maintain it. I am so lost and frustrated i just want to scream.
"But Joe said no, because he's practical." CRACKED me up. It feels weird to tell someone that decluttering and simplifying are a passion, but then you see how it helps someone who desperately needs it and how it blesses their life! Thank you for sharing your God-given talent with everyone.
Joe is my common sense sometimes ;p
Joe I am also in Australia Soo you could get more clients 🤣 we could make an Australian RUclips special
I’m in Australia too!! I love watching you Cass!! You are amazing!!
@@Clutterbug oh my goodness please please please come to Australia!!!! ❤
Another Aussie here 😊
I'm a slow starter. No jumping into anything; you never know how deep the pond might be. Cass, don't ever be ashamed of your tears. You are the type of caring person this world needs more of. Your caring makes a difference. Unlike some types of 'carers' who care and do nothing or act and ultimately enable people to remain stuck in whatever their challenge is.
That's me too. Until I look at something and ask myself why I'm letting this or that pile up, collect dust or tale up needed space. Even looking at a dirty wall or floor gets to me after a while. I HAVE to get up and do something or I'm cranky and crabby until it gets done. Slow to start but once I get going, stay out of my way or jump in and help.
:)
"The stuff makes you hate yourself." Wow, what a true statement. Thank you for the arrow into my cluttered heart.
The other day my best friend’s granddaughter wanted to come and play the piano . I didn’t finish cleaning but I cleaned as much as possible . I let them come over. She was so sweet. She said “looks better.” She has seen the apartment seriously cluttered and for her to tell me that was so sweet. She’s non judgmental.
Keep up the great work!🙂
I love when people give compliments like that. It's truthful. And it feels good for people to notice how we've improved
You are on an awesome way. Just continue 😁
Rachel, that is so incredibly sweet! Happy new year 🎉
Whoa that vicious cycle: not trusting yourself enough, not loving yourself enough- that's some deep stuff there. I've watched you for years, but this is a new kernal of truth! One of my favorite videos of yours n I'm not even done watching it. Happy Holidays Cas!
Agreed. Well said. Made me cry. I bought the class last year and never did it 😕
Happy New Year!
I’m a hoarder and I feel I don’t deserve to live in a better space.
@@spiritmatter1553 it makes me so sad that you wrote that. Hoarding can definitely be a neurological condition. Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Take it step by step. Of course you deserve it!
Your emotional connection & tears to her plight really touched me...
I am definitely wearing those same shoes!
I'm enduring the same struggle n floundering along the best I can...but at least I'm trying to overcome it all!
Thx Cass for all u do!💜
Karen, if you're reading this, you did an AMAZING job!
She really did! I'm so proud and impressed
Never thought I would get so emotional over decluttering 😭 She looked like a completely different person!! So inspiring ❤️ Thank you for this Cass, happy new Year!
So glad she was able to get through cleaning the room! I was worried when you said you hadn't heard from her in a while!! I used to have a room like this in the front of my home, no door to hide it, was so embarrassing. I finally cleaned it out and got it looking good, made a huge difference. I feel like I'm in the last layer of my onion cleaning lol. Layer by layer it's looking so much better and really nice!
I started decluttering a year ago and gave myself a year to get my house done. I had some obstacles life threw in my way but I’m still working on it. I’m finally at the point where I’m finding it easier to keep my house clean and easier to let go of stuff. I grew up with little and I see value in the nice items people are giving away so I used to accept other peoples clutter into my life but no more! I’m not done my onion yet but I’m determined and well on my way! The hardest part was seeing stuff differently. Thanks to you, Dawn and Dana!
I grew up poor, too, and I totally have the same problem. I can't stand letting something with value get away when it's handed to me. I'm working on my resistance, but it's hard. I've gotten rid of many trash bags full of stuff, but there's so much left.
Yay!
Same here, and I was sharing that with a friend recently. She reminded me I have everything I need and most things I want so I have abundance others don’t, no need to hold on to things…and just like that I zeroed in on the word abundance & wrote myself a daily reminder on my phone and on post it’s, “I operate from abundance.” It’s a helpful reminder that who I am now is not that same poor little girl and I have enough, I AM enough! It’s empowering. Little things can retrain our brains. Peace to you all in 2022 & always! 💕🌞✌️
I understand the emotion. You feel like you're trying to save a drowning person. It's a good thing that you didn't fly to Australia. She needed to know that she could do that on her own. Now her decluttering muscles are stronger. 💪👍
You are so right! Doing it herself gave her pride and confidence she wouldn't have otherwise
After reading almost 300 comments, I must say that you are touching a very raw nerve in all of us!! This particular video has touched a multitude of us!! In every way! Since we have been in this "crazy time" and we are home a bit more, you Dana and Dawn have touched all of us!! This type of help is what we all need, no judging, just honest help, no matter what level we are at. Words cannot express how much we appreciate you!! 🥰 TFS, hugs from Miami 🌴😎
The moment you got emotional, I got emotional because this is exactly how I feel. I have those same thoughts about things which is tied to my anxiety and depression, yet at the same time its having all this stuff that is making my anxiety and depression worse. It is a vicious cycle that just never ends. I love watching your videos and the inspiration you give me. Now its just my time to try and apply it! Thank you!
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! I so needed to see this video. I’m 7 months pregnant and in desperate need to set up a nursery for our new addition to our family. I’ve gone down this rabbit hole of trying to find the right video to help me declutter a bedroom/storage room/junk room just like this one. This is THE one video that has spoken to me and has taught me WHY I can’t clean that room. It’s so difficult for me to explain to my husband who keeps hounding me to “clean it up!” And To my best friend who tells me “just throw it away!” Her home is immaculate and not one dust bunny has a chance of hiding under her couch. Thank you for this🥺
You're so welcome!
Hi Cass, I've never written a comment on RUclips videos before, but I wanted to let you know that I really appreciated this video and I wanted to say thank you. It hits me really hard and on target and I'm the same as Karen. Everything you said is the way I feel about myself and I have lost trust in myself to be able to declutter and organize. I've watched some of your videos, as well as other organizing/decluttering channels over the last few months, and I feel that I'm slowly changing, but I constantly have these inner battles with myself and negative self talk that really makes me wonder if I can do it on my own. Watching this video helps me know that other people have the same stuggles and this is a real issue and not just me. I'm a little more hopeful that I can do this also. Thank you for what you do.
Crystal, I am in the same boat with you. I’m trying so hard to believe we can do this!
Hi Crystal, Negative talk will not get us where we want to go; Positive state will (just listened to Tony Robbins) so just keep telling yourself you can do it . Just do two 15 min sessions of decluttering a day and then make sure to enjoy something like a walk, a movie, a bath - whatever works for you. You may need some assistance but you can do it. Just keep chipping away at the clutter, not yourself. I just keep thinking of what Andrew Mellen says - "clutter is deferred decisions" and that is why the work is hard - so many decisions. Many of us struggle with this. I just let go of a small storage room because I could not afford to keep it. I have to remember to give myself credit for doing that but while I did give away some of the stuff a lot of it is now cluttering my car and my apartment. Talk about vicious cycles ... I wish I could just throw it in a dumpster as Cass said but I fight with myself on every thing I pick up thinking of the money spent even though I have heard in many of these decluttering videos about "sunk cost". I keep hoping by watching these videos, I will finally be able to do it but then I also think I watch lots of videos to avoid taking action. I was in tears trying to clean out that small storage unit and thinking I hate stuff, I'd rather have space & freedom, thought I had finally had it with stuff but still the battle continues. I found it helpful when a friend actually could use some of the stuff, that made it easier to part with (plus I had no more room in the apartment). I've been trying to sell stuff but with Covid & cold weather, and cheap prices on new stuff in stores pre & post Christmas, no one wants to buy old stuff. Better to just donate. Like you, I am slowly changing. I have 4 bags in the car for donation right now...it's a work in progress.
Great advise Regina! 2 15 minute sessions per day. Or even take 3 things out of this room per day. It’s hard, because I can’t seem to get rid of things I do not use or wear, but need to use the rules to help. Like if you have not worn it or used it in a year, let it go... 😬 I have so many “homeless” items in every room of my home... 😆 love this channel, she is phenomenal and helping me not to feel guilty for my clutter.
I love how you link self-esteem with clutter. I have never thought of it that way. I have a family member and he's struggling with and I'm sure it's a big part of that.Thank you for helping me understand that and be more empathetic.
So glad I could help!
To answer your question, I'm a slow starter. I'm a person who needs a ROUTINE to get through the day, otherwise I will never get started. Once I start, though, I'm golden. This is an age old question though - the hare vs. the tortoise. I like Joe's version of replacing the tortoise with a grizzly bear, though. 😆
I cried. Lots. My house is similarly cluttered and has been for years. I felt useless and worthless before it got bad (dysfunctional upbringing,abusive relationship, the usual) but it shows me every day how badly I’m failing. It’s a catch 22 cycle which I keep trying to break. Maybe this year I’ll succeed 🤞. Thank you so much for all the advice, support and non-judgmental understanding you share with us all. XxX
You're welcome!
I can truly relate and I feel like I am breaking inside with this mess. I am isolating myself more and more because I don’t want people to come over and see that I can’t get it together. I pray we can all learn to love ourselves and know that we are worth having a home that is free from clutter and that we deserve to be happy regardless of the awful things that happened to us in the past. Good luck to you and god bless
@@Silk.With.An.E sending you hope, love and huge hugs. XxX💞🌸
I love that you share the raw moments, the actual tears, the genuine feelings. Because it is eye opening to see that STUFF, literally STUFF, can truly ruin your life. It affects your self esteem, your energy, your mindset, your finances. Your relationships whether it be from the stress or by not letting anyone in because you're so ashamed of the mess. It can affect your health by covering things like mold or by having things stacked in a way that they fall over or thrown around to be tripped on. It affects your lifestyle, your routine, your time. If you are spending so much time looking for your keys and your wallet because it's just so cluttered, that it makes you late for work everyday. Or you can never have a Saturday where you can sit down and relax or spend time with your friends and family, because that's cleaning day.
I love how your channel isn't telling you to buy anything. So many channels on YT are about Dollar Tree "hauls" or make up "holy grails" that just make you want to spend money. Your channel inspires me to organize the items I already have in my home in a functional & pretty way. :)
Thank you so much!
I have always had one rule, everything has to have a home , if you don't have a home you homeless. You ain't gonna live at me homeless so you "gots" to go. Have a safe and Healthy New Year.
Great story Cas! You are such an empath - and I love how you embrace it. I will say your karate moves to fight off the tears is hilarious.
I do too, so cute n funny. Next time I'm gonna cry I'm gonna karate chop myself out of it.
Thank you so much!
Thank you Cas, and well done Karyn! I am in the process of transforming a similar room in my house. For YEARS, my clutter has humiliated me, made me hate myself and ruined my life. I was spinning my wheels and I felt like such a failure. I recently had a family member come and coach me through round 1 of decluttering. She has been offering for so long and I finally gave in! I feel like a weight has been lifted. So much is GONE and it feels good!! There is still more to declutter as I organise what is left but I feel so much more confident as I make those decisions now. I've also been able to start on some micro-sorting, which makes me so happy as a Bee type! Safe to say, I cried and nodded right along with you in this video. I am so excited for my room to be as functional as Karyn's is now and it actually, finally, feels like an achievable goal!! Decluttering really is life-changing.
You've got this!
You cry because you care, and we love you for it! It's like... you care about the person you're helping, and then they realize they DO matter, and so, start caring for and about themselves, and that is beautiful Cas. 😍
The emotion you displayed really resonates with me. I've been dreading tackling my office space that has become a catch all. We lost my dad to covid19 Aug 16, 2020, 3 days later lost my fiance step dad to heath complications. We married in Oct 2020 and life has finally slowed down after many more loses, and finally laying my dad's ashes to rest with a proper military burial on his anniversary and I've been a mess, a reflection of that room. I began to tackle it yesterday along with some space in the garage and seeing the transformation will keep me motivated to continue. I'm a combo: grizzly rabbit , or jack bear. Where I see myself both ways. Ah a grizzly jack. My life will be forever changed from the losses over the past year and a half. But I found you and your friends Dawn and Dana. You ladies are a true inspiration to keep on moving for me for my family ❤love from Tucson AZ
I’m a combination too - a grizzly Jack.
I’m so sorry for your family loss. My condolences.
@@mage7603 Thank you. I'm so glad to have a community here too. Life can be a crazy ride.
But with this community we can learn and get motivated !
Glad we can help!
❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️❤️
What a soldier you are! It would be so easy to stay down and claim defeat with all you've been through, but look at you setting an example for so many of us! God bless you and your new hubby with peace and prosperity in the new year and beyond. You are remarkable!
OMGosh!!! My jaw literally fell with a gasp after seeing the after photo!! It's not just decluttered but also GORGEOUS! Looks like a professional organizer did that! Wow ... goals!
For me you hit the nail on the head with the 'fear' factor. 👍😉
It's so good!
I was literally just decluttering my kids room. Set a timer for 30 mins! So surprised by how much we got done!
I'm going to set a timer today!
It really changed my outlook. Progress not perfection!
Thank you for keeping your vulnerable moments. And huge praise and props to Karyn for her tenacity in her cleaning and improving her (and her family's) life, as well as her generosity and courage in letting you share her journey with us!
I have a room worse than this. My craft room. Four months ago I started "organizing" it by taking lots of stuff out of the closet that I hadn't seen in awhile. There it sits on the floor to this day and I can hardly walk in the room. I think like Karyn, that I need to sell the really good stuff to get some of my money back. Can I really donate a die cut machine that I've never used?! This video has really helped me and I thank you for that. I feel less paralyzed now.
Love this story. She did an amazing job and you can definitely tell she is a happier person and has more confidence. And all of that is so beneficial to her daughter.
Oh, Cass, thank you for being so empathetic. You’re right, it’s easy for someone on the outside to say, just get a skip!, but when you’re in it, it’s never that simple, and it does make me hate myself and my life, which is not ok.
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As a slow-to-start, 72-year-old, 11-year widow, happening upon your video has provided renewed inspiration for me…thank you, my dear.
♥️ proud of this mom for working so hard!
ME TOO!!!
Karyn has all my admiration! I know it took so much to be willing to open up and be so transparent. Cass, you were the perfect match for her. You taught your little caterpillar skills and she went into her cocoon, spread her wings and came back to show you the beauty that was in her all along. How awesome!
Love that!
Cass, thank you for saying “this stuff is not costing you money, it’s costing you your space”. Brilliant! I’m a Bee but I’m terrified of throwing things away in case I make a mistake. I think I’m finally getting to be brave enough and have a bit of confidence to start my decluttering/purging journey. ♥️
Great job Karen! I am crying watching this amazing transformation. Thank you Cass.
This is hitting me so hard girl. I’m crying, just choked up as I relate to the fear cycle. Man, it’s really hard sometimes to trust ourselves.
It can be sometimes.
This is just what I needed! I have a room like that - and very little money. And yes, this big fear of not being able to replace the items …. although I haven’t used them for ages….
I’m a burster like you, Cassie, but difficulties with staying on the job - getting distracted- so I have to time myself. Also to not get exhausted.
Will take one hour right now 😊 Thank you for the motivation!
I’m just like you! I have to time myself in order to not get distracted. But it’s fun😆
I love how you are so compassionate. It seems like every time I see organizers there’s an element of judgement toward the client. I really appreciate that you were kind and didn’t judge. Gives me a renewed hope that maybe one day I’ll hire someone to help me.
I agree with you!
You should join my free support group! facebook.com/groups/clutterbugadvice
That vicious cycle has been me so much. I so relate to this girl, & I love your compassion for her. I don’t find very many people who truly understand the struggle. I love your heart, & I love how when you are fighting tears, you kick towards the camera. You are just wonderful.
This video touched my heart. To see the transformation not only physically but mentally wow!
It IS an emotional journey and sometimes we don't realize how much clutter has taken its toll on us until we face it. It's so refreshing seeing that others go through that too because in my own life a lot of people don't understand it and how it weighs me down so much. She did AMAZING in her daughters room, it's a good feeling as a mom to offer that to your little ones. It's like my love language to them, creating for them their own little peace of paradise. Thanks for being so authentic! ❤
Cass, you are the sweetest, big hearted person. Don’t ever apologize for big emotions! That’s why we love you.
Also, that woman transformed her own looks not just house! She looks really more radiant and beautiful!
It’s so nice that you were able to step back and let her process bc a lot of people when they feel resistance have the first instinct to push harder. I guess that’s why your the pro. Congratulations Karen on your new simple life. 🙂
I could be off the mark here but I felt Karyn was becoming resistant due to her new-found inner strength, determination, and confidence in herself; and if so, it's a good sign!
I love you Cas! You are my inspiration! You have helped change my life. While I'm de-cluttering, I have one of your videos playing along with me so I know I can do it! You are the best coach ever! God bless you!
I’m DEFINITELY a “slow to get started” type. Heck even going swimming I have to slowly get in the water, first with the toes, get my body used to the temp change & painfully slow ease my way in. Heck, I am like that with everything in life! Plan plan plan & never start a project. Love that analogy. This video made me cry. Love your content!
Glad you enjoy it!
Cas, you´ve got such a big heart - that´s why you cry over this story... your compassion is a gift, please don´t ever be embarrassed by it... XX
Thanks!
Love her smile! And admittedly a little jealous. I’d love to be where she is. My craft room looks like her before. Kudos to you Cas! You’re such a sympathetic soul. Much love!
You can do it!
I'm definitely a slow starter because I like to map stuff out in my brain before I start a task or project. I'm a master list maker with at least 50 ongoing tasks. Once a task is crossed off I tend to add 20 more and it gets overwhelming and leads to procrastination. Right now I'm dealing with a lot of post illnesses and I overestimate what I can and cannot physically do which adds to my frustrations. I'm hoping in the New Year to step up my game because we are hoping to make a cross country move this year and the less stuff we take, the easier it will be.
Hi , I can really relate to your list overwhelm! I recently made a change to my to do list that says: complete morning routine (the things I do every day,) then I add three tasks that I can reasonably expect to achieve, and then below that, a do this week list. I like to add things on my list when I see something that needs to be done or when I am inspired by RUclipsrs. But you can’t do it all in one day! Cheers!
I do the same thing; before I start anything, I make a plan in my head. The problem is that it takes me so long to figure out how to go about it that it can be years before I get to it. I'm so afraid to make a mistake. I was raised that way; there was always something wrong with what I did. Then my husband was raised that way, too, and he does it to me, so I end up not even trying.
You've got this! 2022 is your year!
You are such a sweet, caring, kind, just wonderful human being. Never be shy or embarrassed about your tears, it just shows how deeply you care about others. And every time you kick up your fluffy purple slippers, I just wanted to give you a huge hug. So adorable!
Aw, thank you for that!
Don't apologize for crying. It means you care. And that's why we love you. It's 2022! Crying is allowed, and encouraged!
Lol!
“The cycle” you described is absolutely me. I am crying watching this because I KNOW this is true but hearing it come from someone else and to hear that they really get it and I’m not crazy and it is REAL. I am drowning in my house (which was my mom’s house, but she passed 9 years ago and has been “our’s” since). Very long story but trying to deal with her things and our things being in her house while also trying to make it feel like OUR home….it’s just emotionally exhausting. We have 2 children, 8 and 3 and I feel like I’m just going in circles trying to maintain the everyday cleanup, and that any sort of progress in decluttering other parts of the house feels impossible because I will lose my grip on staying on top of the “everyday stuff”. Does that make sense? Thank you for all you do and for understanding that we don’t WANT to be a mess, we don’t know how to start fixing it. God bless
This video was so inspiring. I too feel like a grizzly rabbit or some sort of hybrid. I’ve been on a several week decluttering journey of my house. I’m off from with this week and planned to do my 10 year old daughters bedroom and playroom/catchall area today. We only got through her bedroom-3 large donation bags and one trash bag and so much pride in her perseverance to push through.We found treasures that she thought were lost, said farewell to familiar friends no longer needed, read through notes and journals and shared laughs and memories. Thank you Cas for sparking a family/home decluttering.
You're welcome!
Cas, your gift is not just your Clutterbug strategies of decluttering and organizing, but also your compassion and competence in building up people's confidence at THEIR pace. Big hugs to you Cas! Karen, so glad you have your life back in your control.
Thank you!
I'm like a roller coaster, slow climb to build the momentum then off and running at insane speed. What an incredible transformation! You were able to help Karen find her power and her confidence. A clean room is great, but that mental shift is the real transformation. You're such a gift, Cas! Thanks for sharing.
I love your background. I have decluttered my entire house this year and the feelings beyond amazing. I was cleaning my kitchen last night and it literally took me 23 min to leave it ready for the morning. I had one of those moments where I couldn’t believe it. Before I would spend at least an hour cleaning up and I would dread it sink full to the brim with dirty dishes.
That is awesome!
🥰 Dear sweet Karen (sp?), many of us have been in a similar place. This year I’ve gotten rid of two cribs, baby gear, and baby/toddler clothing for three children. These children are now 14, 16, and 17. Sometimes we just need to get started to gather confidence and momentum. Cas, Dawn, and Dana have changed my life. I feel so much love for them and for people like Karen who have been on their own journey.
Love that!
There are people on tv that you wonder what they are like in real life. I never wonder what you are like because you are genuine, real, sweet, sympathetic and helpful! The list goes on and on. I love watching you because you know how I feel and you get it! Thank you for your knowledge and encouragement! I love that you cry because I cry with you!
8:56 literally sobbing along with you Cas 😭😭😭💕💗
It is such a slow process for me, too. Some days I want to give up but you, Dana and Dawn keep encouraging me. Thank you! 💕
I loved this transformation, in the room but also in her. You are truly gifted in pulling the "can do it" out of people. You are kind, non-judgemental, and always, always encouraging us.
It was a beautiful transformation in many ways :)
I feel like I’m a baby beginner at tackling a huge house of clutter. I am so grateful to have found your channel this week. I have cried as I watch and hear you speak directly to me where I am. Thank you. More than thank you!
I took down my Christmas and donated 4 black garbage bags of Christmas decorations. OMG!!! I feel so good about what I let go of. I’ve been watching for months now and it has helped me so much. I picked up each item to see if brought me happiness. I had to be honest with myself. Very little stuff truly brings joy. I then went through my underwear and socks. BOOM!! 1/3 gone. Then my shorts. WOW! 1/4 out of here. Shoes were next and 7 pairs in the bag. A shirt and sweater in the bag. It’s getting dark and I’m done for today. Can’t wait to start on the spare bedroom closet. Thank you for all you do.
Amazing! You should be very proud of yourself
I can do relate with Karen. I moved three years ago to Quebec post a very expensive and I’m-going divorce :-(
I moved to Quebec since fertility treatments are partially covered by the health care system. My family was unfortunately not complete when my divorce began. I also went 60k+ in the whole paying my lawyer’s fees. When you mentioned objects = money value = I FEEL IT! Wish I could add a picture in this comment…
I am stuck but 2022 must be a year of change. Wish me luck.
You can do this!
I wish you all the best for 2022, that you will come through it stronger, surrounding yourself with people that love and care about you. Sometimes in life we have more emotional and mental "clutter" that can be harder to get rid of but, just like material clutter, we need to find a way to tackle the mess and make way for a fresh start.
I wish you the best of luck for 2022 Valerie, IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE. Sending you warm hugs from Florida. 🙏🏽💜🤗
Love all your videos, posts & stories.
One schoolteacher I know referred to all people as either turtles or rabbits. We all end up at the finish line… just at different paces.
Did you ever think in the beginning that you would become a psychotherapist when you began this venture? You have made me do aware of ‘myself’! Thank you. Isn’t it possible though we collect stuff to feel ‘more loved’?
Amazingly both my 20+ year old children are NOT clutter-bugs! Sometimes they make me feel guilty……
A hoard to fill the void / a backup plan, for those who've lived through wars/the depression and other financially lean situations. My mum still has her hoard since dad died 24years ago. Unlike her I've been through a fair amount of therapy and am able to part with a lot more than she is. It's like a mirage oasis in a desert.
Cass, you are the most empath person that helps people declutter.. All others approach people with judgment and despise
When I suffered from anxiety years ago I had some sentences that helped me. One of them, when I tried to avoid something that gave me anxiety: who is making the decision here? The anxiety or I? Who is the boss? If I decide to not ... (fill in whatever you're panicking about, use the elevator, go into the store, talk to somebody...) do XYZ, it's fine. But don't let the anxiety make the decision. Try to geh over it and do what YOU want to do. Don't let anxiety win and force you to do what you don't really want. YOU are the boss.
Thanks for sharing!
Oh my gosh. Loved this transformation! Cried like a baby for you guys. Thank you for this. Thank you.
Yes! Clutter is ruining my life! I really want to get a handle on it this year. It is stealing my joy. Fear isn't my problem. Time is. I have 6 kids and I just can’t find time to make a dent before it gets filled again.
I would love help with time management.
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The amount of love and energy you put into your work is just BEAUTIFUL
Thank you so much 😀
Cas--
I'm so grateful for your videos... This one changed. My. Life. tho 😭. I'm constantly overwhelmed just as Karen was--clutter and piles of stuff--projects, gifts, wrapping, crafts, new clothes, office+organizing supplies, etc. It started wreaking havoc on my marriage about a year ago and after our baby--my husband thinking I'm lazy and unorganized, etc then fights over cleaning :(. Its difficult for some to understand cleaning and overwhelming anxieties! Anxieties can be so profound they ruin lives... It was crippling me. But about 6 months ago, I started watching your videos. I decided to myself--I can do this! Just do bit by bit, 5 mins, 20mins. So then, I organized my desk/office/baby room, bedroom, closet, clothes, purses, shoes, kitchen, laundry, the list goes on.
You helped me see it's all about your mentality!
I'm reminding myself to be gentle with myself-- and that all of this stuff just creates uneasiness and anxiety, no need to keep everything--and why not make everything an option instead of a maybe/someday!--plus when I donate it feels great! (It also helped A TON to know I'm a butterfly 🦋😅)
it's sooo tough to be vulnerable in front of the world--but that's what keeps driving the connection between human beings. It's okay:) and You're amazing!
Thank you for your videos!!
Glad I can help!
Thank you so much Cas for sharing Karen’s journey. What a gift to Karen and to all of us watching and getting inspired by her TRANSFORMATION. I am definitely a SLOW GRIZZLY BEAR 🐻… and I have a serious problem getting to the finish line… but I will!!! 🦥😍🙏🏽🐛🦋
Happy Holidays to everyone AND Happy New Year 🥳🎉🎊🎉🙏🏽 May 2022 be a year of many transformations for all 🐛🦋🙏🏽
Absolutely!!
I am definitely a slow starter. I have several illnesses - one terminal - that really limit what I’m able to do. The guilt I feel is unreal. I SHOULD be able to do all this and not live in clutter but my health gets in my way. Thank you so much for this video! I feel the urge to declutter. Let’s pray my body keeps up with me. Thank you again and have a Blessed day ❤️
I prayed for you in the name of Jesus.
Susan Virginia thank you so much. That means more than you know ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear about your health. I wish you all the best.
@@Clutterbug thank you. 😊
When you started crying I felt so seen that somebody really understands what I'm feeling. It also shows your passion for people and the impact your work has.
I'm so happy she was able to work through that and her daughter now has her own room.
Beautiful transformation! I ADORE your heart and emotions
I definitely take things slow. I find it helps to have someone that is fast to help me declutter because I tend to take too long to make decisions. Having help with the sorting and bagging makes it easier.
One of your videos suggested donating to nursing homes…. And wow have you made an impact here!! I decluttered all our dvds and instead of donation center I brought to nursing home- they were SO HAPPY!!!! Not the same old stuff! They didn’t take my craft supplies…. But I had a box of fancy tree decor that I don’t put up, it’s new and pretty, still in boxes… again instead of donation center, the nursing home said yes! We could use a refresh of our trees we put up for the residents! So, fellow declutterers, reach out to nursing homes if you have specific something’s that an elderly person that can’t have visitors may enjoy. Felt so much better to know it brightened someone’s day!!! THANKS FOR THE IDEA!!!
You are so real girl! We don’t mind seeing tears. Bless her heart. I feel for her and being buried in that stuff. So glad it all worked out for her! Looks awesome!
She did a great job!
First- great job Karen. She reached out to Cass which was probably the hardest first step. I’m a Burster to kick off a project and then try to plan slow and steady to finish. Thinking about this, I wonder if that is why I have so many unfinished projects!
It is amazing to watch the physical 😊transformation in both the rooms that people are residing in and how they work so hard to change them. Equally important is the effect this has on the person both physically and emotionally. She started the process looking very tired and beat down. She completed her room and at the same time she seem to be a person with so much more pride self-worth and happiness. I have worked years in the field of counseling and as a trainer. The amount of emotional toll this lifestyle has on a person is immeasurable.
As I move into a new career in real estate - I plan to use exactly these methods to help people recognize the differences they can make in themselves, and in their homes by cleaning out and Lightening their Load!!
Signed up for your course to help family members and I can’t wait!!!!
Omg I cried when you did. 😭 You are doing God's work in your own way. You're helping people, and soothing their hearts. What you do is like a sense of therapy. Please keep sharing. Everyone in the world needs to see you! ❤ Bless you and stay safe and healthy!
Same to you!
Please please PLEASE stop apologizing for showing your true emotions. Being vulnerable is a GIFT. It means that you trust us all enough to show how you feel. I appreciate you SO much. Thank you for helping us all by sharing your transformative stories. Thank you for sharing yourself. Thank you for helping people.
I'm glad I'm in a position to help :)
@@Clutterbug You are doing a great job. Thank you! Your videos are so good. Though clutter is not my own issue, I am dealing with family members who need help. Thank you for your guidance.
I love your attitude and the amount of effort you put into helping people. It’s so obvious that you TRULY care. Also, I love your slippers!
What lovely, brave, honest souls you both have been on this particular journey. 😍
I'm sorry you felt so bad that you cried. I love it that you do cry, though. It shows that you are empathetic and a REAL person. Thank you for doing your best to help this woman who was so stuck. Much love to Cas, Karen, and their families!
Cass, it makes all of us cry! When we have been there, makes us understand and be emotional. When I watch Hoarders ,I usually cry for the ones trying to let go of stuff. Cry after too, when things are better.
Slow and steady wins the race!! I’m a slow starter like Joe. My hubby is a dasher like you. We complement each other. Thanks for showing us this amazing transformation!!!
Same lol...I am a slow starter
Love, love , love this! This testimonial was so helpful! You’re awesome Cass!
I cry at everything these days. I just turned 41 and the last year have been an emotional rollercoaster. Watching this and seeing you cry made me cry. Also I relate to the frustration of stuff everywhere and just wanting it gone.
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Brave of this lady in Australia to share!
And if you, or anyone in the same situation, read this - you are giving your child a priceless lesson and example!!!
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I felt like my name was Karen there for a while. You got me 😢😢😢 but it was like you were talking to me & it's just what I need. Totally inspired by what Karen achieved. I've gone from a slow starter to a non starter in the last year or two but I had a blitz before I put the decorations up & I can see areas to tackle instead of just a big overwhelming mess. I'm most productive at the last minute but that's not good for my stress levels 😆 What you said today was like a virtual hug & I needed that so thank you Cas 🤗💖
Glad this video could inspire you!
I'm a slow starter, definitely! Thank you for understanding, and explaining, how we get in to a vicious circle. I've been stuck like that for years, I've zero confidence and zero self love. I can't thank you enough 💕. I could see the change in Karyn in her last call. I hope to get there too.
You can get there too! You are not alone, so many of us are right there with you, working on our areas, sorting through items, and learning. Love learning more right here! ❤️ Cass is a great coach!
I have been decluttering for over 5 years now. I think of the monetary value and I have been trying to get rid of things more rapidly than I used to as well as say NO to people who are giving things away for free. My house does get me down, so I am really trying. It is hard to find the time between working 30 + hours a week, homeschooling, and trying to do the regular house maintenance (different from decluttering). Thanks for posting. It makes me feel like I am not alone.
YANA
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You laying out her “vicious cycle” REALLY hit me - because I’m on that same cycle. That same gut-wrenching round and round …. and up and down ….. and around again ……
It was wonderful and inspiring to see the progress she was able to make - and her smiling face!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Learned a lot on this video. As I am putting Christmas items away, I’m donating what we didn’t use or put out this year. Thank you for the new perspective. I also feel like I need to sell it all to make money back etc, but every time I end up donating, I just feel way better about it and myself.
Thank you for taking the time to create this video.
Cas, I absolutely love how real you are and how emotional AND how genuinely excited you get when you see someone succeed! That's why I enjoy all of your videos, Hot Mess House episodes, and peeks into your client's situations. You're not a phony person with a gimmick, your methods work and make total sense, and I've learned so much from you and you really give me motivation! I have a room similar, stacks and stacks. It's a process for sure! I am also half and half grizzly and Jack rabbit to be honest! I'll have a day where I am just go, go, go on a mission and get a lot accomplished, but I also have the slow, distracted, "avoiding" the clutter days as well!! Slow and steady win the race I will say, but I want it done! Once and for all!! Simplify my life so I don't have to feel like I'm ALWAYS cleaning/organizing, or feel guilty for working on crafts because the house isn't clean! Thank you for all you do! Happy New Year to you and your family!! 2022 will be my year! It's going to happen!! 😁🍾🎉
Happy New Year!
Bless you Cass, the psychology is the biggest hurdle. Clutter does overwhelm, cripple and really affect our lives and how we feel about ourselves. Thank you Karen.
We love you, Australian mama!