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  • Опубликовано: 14 май 2024
  • Join us on our journey as we share the bittersweet news of our move out of LA. Discover the reasons behind this decision, our house-hunting adventures, and our plans for the future. Don't forget to subscribe for more personal finance tips and updates on our new chapter :)
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    4:00 - Did we buy a house?
    6:35 - What will you miss most about SoCal?
    10:10 - What will you be glad to leave behind?
    18:18 - What are you looking forward to in the new city?
    19:03 - What do you think will be most challenging for us?
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  • @lildasani
    @lildasani 16 дней назад +43

    Sell all your furniture and other things that you don't need and buy brand new when you move into your Parents house. putting things into storage is overrated.

    • @arthrodea
      @arthrodea 15 дней назад +4

      Agreed! It costs so much to haul stuff across the country and to store it. Unless something has special sentimental value, get rid of it. It will be cheaper to buy new. Plus you can buy furniture etc that specifically fits your new home. You will enjoy decorating your new place.

  • @thelaneanator6302
    @thelaneanator6302 16 дней назад +27

    What you said about your family having 15 years left and seeing them twice a year for a total of 30 more times really hit me hard....never thought about it that way.

  • @thomasmillercnb
    @thomasmillercnb 15 дней назад +7

    We moved from SoCal Orange County to Texas, and the uhaul cost was insane. Sell whatever you can and buy new. Way cheaper. Good luck

  • @melowely
    @melowely 16 дней назад +5

    I love this for you! This sounds like a great decision. I was born & raised in San Diego, and we ended up moving an hour north to Menifee in 2022. Our reasons for staying reasonably local had a lot to do with family proximity, but we just couldn’t cut it in San Diego proper.
    The amount of house you’ll be able to get out there will be amazing, and you can’t beat raising your kids around people you love. I lost my mom in 2019 when my kids were 4 & 10. I feel so grateful for all the time they got with her. You just never know. ❤

    • @DebtFreeMillennials
      @DebtFreeMillennials  15 дней назад +1

      aww thank you for sharing, and I'm sorry to hear about your mom. What a treasured gift to give her and your kids.

  • @LizagnaG
    @LizagnaG 16 дней назад +8

    Love your channel. We currently live in San Diego and have for 6 years. About to start a family and moving back east has been a dreaded outcome for so long, but being near family is important to us as well. End of an era but so grateful for our time here!

  • @jaclyndougherty3271
    @jaclyndougherty3271 11 дней назад +2

    Overland park is awesome. Have a drink for me at Boulevard and KC Bier 😊

  • @rubyrocks5
    @rubyrocks5 16 дней назад +10

    Congrats guys!! 🎉🎉🎉 I’m so happy for you! Living with family can be difficult, but it’s only temporary and you’re going to make bank saving on that LA rent! 🤣

  • @janinazequeira2804
    @janinazequeira2804 16 дней назад +7

    You guys look so incredibly happy. Kuddos for moving close to family. Your daughter is so blessed to have you guys. Congrats 👏

  • @annasolovyeva2794
    @annasolovyeva2794 5 дней назад

    Your parents will be so happy that you are going to live with them. And have a chance to spend more time with Quinn.

  • @samanthashares
    @samanthashares 16 дней назад +4

    So happy for you guys! We moved back to southeast Missouri after being away for 6 years. It’s so nice being able to hop in the car and visit family and absolutely take advantage of date nights!

  • @lego_cookie_runner
    @lego_cookie_runner 16 дней назад +4

    I hope you cover this moving experience with the associated costs as it relates to your channel to millennials figuring out how yo live debt free

  • @blancabenson3741
    @blancabenson3741 16 дней назад +6

    How exciting! As someone who was born and raised in Southern California, I really did resonate with all the cons against it. That being said, I stay here primarily because this is where my family is. Family is so important. I'm excited to follow you along on this new chapter!

    • @blancabenson3741
      @blancabenson3741 16 дней назад +2

      OH! and as you look into homes,I know its exciting to find these affordable huge homes, keep in mind that it is more space that you will have to clean, furnish, heat or cool. So larger is not always better.

  • @strivinghigher7005
    @strivinghigher7005 15 дней назад

    Happy for yall!

  • @gulden_lover
    @gulden_lover 16 дней назад

    Such a great video! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @mauriciorivera8682
    @mauriciorivera8682 16 дней назад

    Congratulations guys!!

  • @Belleetrix
    @Belleetrix 16 дней назад

    Omg how exciting! Congratulations!!

  • @ohmyameluz
    @ohmyameluz 16 дней назад

    Im sooooo excited for y’all!!! I cant wait for all these changes for you guys!!!!

  • @kap319
    @kap319 16 дней назад

    Fantastic news!

  • @kristinhildingsson1340
    @kristinhildingsson1340 16 дней назад +1

    Congratulations one step closer to your goal.

  • @valerieproctor517
    @valerieproctor517 11 дней назад

    Welcome home!! We can't wait to have you ❤

  • @Justchilling8261
    @Justchilling8261 16 дней назад

    Congratulations!

  • @libbysworld7649
    @libbysworld7649 16 дней назад

    I am thrilled for you all! What a great thing you guys are doing! It will be a game changer financially. But the other benefits you mentioned in the video are just so important. Good for you both. Best wishes with the whole process!

  • @trinawms3749
    @trinawms3749 15 дней назад

    Love this vlog! New adventures awaits

  • @ChicagoBudgets
    @ChicagoBudgets 16 дней назад +3

    FINALLY!!! I love it. I'm so happy for you guys 💫✨
    I'm so happy that you guys are moving closer to family!

  • @Bluebirdhouse
    @Bluebirdhouse 15 дней назад

    Very exciting news! Looking forward to seeing your life unfold in Kansas City.

  • @Fioneers
    @Fioneers 15 дней назад

    Congrats! Moving to a new place can be an exciting transition. We felt that when we opted to move to NH. So happy for you guys. Good luck with the move.

  • @user-qk4em4yy6m
    @user-qk4em4yy6m 15 дней назад

    So excited for you guys! We're moving soon too and buying our first house. Can't wait for all the moving content!!

  • @crissydv1
    @crissydv1 16 дней назад

    I feel like you’re going to love this decision. Happy for you and best of luck on the move

  • @discoveringhealthandfinanc8328
    @discoveringhealthandfinanc8328 11 дней назад

    I'm so happy that you guys are making the best decision for you and your family!

  • @summerjoy247
    @summerjoy247 16 дней назад

    Congrats you guys! Remote work is the best. I would love to take my freelance writing business full time like you did.

  • @jesict3763
    @jesict3763 14 дней назад

    Congrats to you all!! KC is amazing, love living in KC with cost of living here. Culturally we've grown a lot in this state and are still making strides to provide more for folks to do.

  • @kristinwest832
    @kristinwest832 16 дней назад

    Welcome to KC, guys!

  • @sabrinab9991
    @sabrinab9991 14 дней назад

    I am so excited for y’all! I wasn’t expecting Kansas City. It will be great!

  • @wolverine9079
    @wolverine9079 16 дней назад +1

    Congratulations guys 🎉
    Good luck in KC, always nice to be around family

  • @rhondapetsch9646
    @rhondapetsch9646 15 дней назад

    Congratulations guys! This is what you’ve been working towards. Can’t wait for other content.

  • @catgodfrey6451
    @catgodfrey6451 15 дней назад

    Congratulations that’s a huge journey so happy for y’all that you can work from home. And it’s gonna be so nice to have your family all around.

    • @DebtFreeMillennials
      @DebtFreeMillennials  15 дней назад

      WFH is the besttt, so glad Kyle got this opportunity to do it!

  • @TaraBoblitt
    @TaraBoblitt 16 дней назад

    Ahhh congrats, guys! As a close by Kentuckian, welcome back to the Midwest! ❤

  • @ExtraStout89
    @ExtraStout89 16 дней назад

    Good move. KCMO is a great area. Now you can gear up for #2, 3 etc. Congrats

  • @freedomworks3976
    @freedomworks3976 11 дней назад +1

    Ya ... when i left California the strangest thing i had to get used to was this crazy thing called weather 😂

  • @fatimamills2249
    @fatimamills2249 16 дней назад

    When I saw your video pop-up I was literally screaming I could not wait to get off work so I can watch it ohhh Justine I am so happy you moving to Oklahoma my first thought was family. ❤ My favorite couple I'm so happy 😁

  • @catgirl1310
    @catgirl1310 14 дней назад

    I'll move back to my hometown in fall and my reasons are the same. I have no kids but five nieces and nephews, my parents are aging and I still have two gradparents - who knows for how long. I am very happy for you guys!

  • @gabrieliacoboni6951
    @gabrieliacoboni6951 16 дней назад

    I get it. I didn't move or get a promotion but the work from home is real and family is important. Congrats and best of luck.

  • @christinacross7342
    @christinacross7342 15 дней назад

    KC! Thats amazing you will be just a few towns from me. I am sure you will love being so close to family!

    • @DebtFreeMillennials
      @DebtFreeMillennials  15 дней назад +1

      That's awesome! The built-in support with family is SO nice.

  • @bernitup6492
    @bernitup6492 15 дней назад

    Congrats...

  • @booksandbudgets22
    @booksandbudgets22 12 дней назад

    Wow! Big news. It sounds like a wonderful idea - having family around just hits different after you become parents. And we in the flyover states welcome you back to Middle America! Back to lower cost-of-living, 4 seasons, front lawns and sidewalks, parking lots and superstores. :)

  • @Sarahxxxxxxx
    @Sarahxxxxxxx 15 дней назад

    Being from Colorado, you made the right choice! I almost moved to Kansas City but ended up in north west Arkansas instead. We were able to get a brand new build for about half of what it would have cost in Colorado and I have no regrets about moving here. Congrats on your new adventure 😊

  • @greenlantern1986
    @greenlantern1986 15 дней назад

    After leaving San Diego and LA I hope you don't get too bored!

  • @Tinaluvsdc
    @Tinaluvsdc 16 дней назад

    Kyle’s sandals joke has me rolling 😂Congrats you guys 🎉 so happy for you

  • @kimberlyf5168
    @kimberlyf5168 16 дней назад

    Great move! Kansas is so affordable with living expenses

  • @fatimamills2249
    @fatimamills2249 16 дней назад

    I was so excited to see your video I said Oklahoma but you guys are moving Kansas City

  • @user-lh7ny8en7w
    @user-lh7ny8en7w 16 дней назад

    Welcome back to the Midwest, guys!

  • @annarchydeclutteranddesign413
    @annarchydeclutteranddesign413 15 дней назад

    Well done on your approach to living in LA, and doing all the LA things while you were there. I'm sure you'll be glad of that once you have moved on.

  • @Jaanechan
    @Jaanechan 16 дней назад

    Congratulations on this next phase of life! 🏡

  • @lego_cookie_runner
    @lego_cookie_runner 16 дней назад +2

    Are you only pursuing existing home to buy? Have you also considered buying a new home build in a subdivision developing. Have you ever covered existed home buy vs new home buy as part of your channel? We bought a new home build back in 2017

  • @Krystal_Mahealani
    @Krystal_Mahealani 16 дней назад +9

    After living in Denver for eight years I moved to Kansas City six months ago. My quality of life has improved drastically - I can afford my own apartment. Everything is cheaper - gas/food/insurance... I miss the mountains but I had very little opportunity to enjoy them because I was always working now I go visit.

    • @rwdchannel2901
      @rwdchannel2901 16 дней назад

      Being able to afford an apartment isn't great living either. Baby Boomers and the Silent Generation were buying a house on one income job that was barely above minimum wage and having 6-10 kids. Minimum wage in California in 1945 was .45 cents an hour. A house in Los Angeles, San Francisco or San Diego in 1945 cost around $4,300. People on minimum wage in 1945 were earning around $900 a year. That's about a 5-1 ratio of housing cost to minimum wage in 1945. Today that would be people making $100 an hour which comes out to $208,000 a year because a house in LA, San Francisco, and San Diego cost $100,000,000. People need to make $208,000 a year to get to a 5-1 ratio today. Think about that. People today are fighting over dog scraps.

  • @moreanimals6889
    @moreanimals6889 15 дней назад

    I have heard of trucks never arriving. Be very careful about what you physically have on you versus in the truck, if the truck goes missing also put, an apple tag inside something in the truck.

  • @mickelsonfamilyhomestead
    @mickelsonfamilyhomestead 16 дней назад +1

    I am excited to hear you guys are getting out of cali!

  • @davisamills597
    @davisamills597 15 дней назад

    I always knew you guys would go back to Kansas!!!! I think this is a fantastic decision and im happy for you guys!! You'll be able to pay for a house and put a large % down and you'll be close to family. Great wealth building and strong family ties!!! Would be very interested in a house hunting series :)

  • @nicolekamzic2594
    @nicolekamzic2594 16 дней назад

    Exciting news, congrats!!! 🎉

  • @tiffanyyllera5977
    @tiffanyyllera5977 16 дней назад

    About damn time! So happy for you!!!

  • @lcn706
    @lcn706 16 дней назад

    Yay!!! I grew up in Lenexa and it was such an idyllic childhood. I loved it. Ironically enough we’re in CA (Bay Area) now 😂

  • @samanthadelaney227
    @samanthadelaney227 15 дней назад

    so exciting! we also moved into our parents house with our 1.5 year old when we moved from Texas back home to NY. lets just say we didn't take long to buy a house haha

  • @victoriamorales158
    @victoriamorales158 16 дней назад

    Kansas citian here!

  • @MorganeEats
    @MorganeEats 16 дней назад

    Well well! Welcome back home! If I see you in the streets, I’ll say hello!

  • @allisbookishadventures8260
    @allisbookishadventures8260 16 дней назад +2

    I bet you Kyle's family will make the drive down to KC from Lincoln pretty frequently. This will be great for you guys.

    • @DebtFreeMillennials
      @DebtFreeMillennials  15 дней назад +1

      Yes, we've talked a lot about that! And our ability to travel up to see them will be nice.

  • @margaretr.4427
    @margaretr.4427 15 дней назад

    LA is expensive and overcrowded and I don’t go to the beach enough to make that a worthwhile trade off. Can’t wait to leave the state in a few years. You are doing the best thing for your family by moving to a nice Midwest city. You won’t regret it!

  • @benjohn5429
    @benjohn5429 16 дней назад

    Woo hoo!! Welcome back to the Midwest! 🎉

  • @melowely
    @melowely 16 дней назад +1

    Also the U-Haul thing is crazy. I knew of one family moving out of state that drove from San Diego to Arizona just to pick up a U-Haul to bring back to move because it was so much cheaper than getting one in CA.

  • @amycolucci6769
    @amycolucci6769 16 дней назад

    He k yeahhhh

  • @therealtaydev
    @therealtaydev 16 дней назад

    Happy for you! I’m also in SoCal and moving to Texas in a couple of months. Way too expensive here lol.

    • @thomasmillercnb
      @thomasmillercnb 15 дней назад +1

      Hi. My wife and I are from SoCal Orange County and moved to Texas in April 2021. We hated it so much! It's not cheap. The people suck and taxes are out of control. My wife cried for 2 years. We now live in Tennessee and are very happy. Everyone we met in Texas who moved from California hates it. Food for thought.

    • @therealtaydev
      @therealtaydev 14 дней назад

      @@thomasmillercnbI’ve lived in Texas before and hated it to be honest, but my family is there and it’s the best way I can pay off student loans in a small timeframe. I’ll only be there temporarily then move elsewhere. I heard Tennessee is great!

  • @SilverCpa
    @SilverCpa 16 дней назад +3

    This is awesome. Y'all are gonna be able to afford a mansion. Well done!!! Colorados housing market is nutty, this is the best thing yall could have done. Definitely rethink putting down so much. It will barely move the needle on payment and you're gonna be shocked how much shit you need to buy when you have a house. Just bought in Feb and put down 5% after considering 10% or more. Best decision ever.

  • @pfifltrigg
    @pfifltrigg 16 дней назад +2

    We live in San Diego county, and so many other young families are leaving because it's just so unaffordable. We'll be staying because our families are here. And we got in on the housing market in 2019 so we can afford it. But I totally get why others are leaving.

  • @Ladygolferjma
    @Ladygolferjma 16 дней назад

    In 10 years, you will look back on this decision as one of the best you made! 👏👏👏

  • @ayela562
    @ayela562 16 дней назад

    “Did you get all your sandals?” 💀

  • @MISJPEREZ
    @MISJPEREZ 16 дней назад +1

    Colorado springs is a hole

  • @Elizabethgitana12
    @Elizabethgitana12 16 дней назад

    You guys look like twins …

  • @rwdchannel2901
    @rwdchannel2901 16 дней назад

    Some people grew up with malignant narcissist parents and are moving to opposite side of America to get away from their family. It's not fun growing up being made into the black sheep and not having family support.
    Baby Boomers and the Silent Generation were buying a house on one income job that was barely above minimum wage and having 6-10 kids. Minimum wage in California in 1945 was .45 cents an hour. A house in Los Angeles, San Francisco or San Diego in 1945 cost around $4,300. People on minimum wage in 1945 were earning around $900 a year. That's about a 5-1 ratio of housing cost to minimum wage in 1945. Today that would be people making $100 an hour which comes out to $208,000 a year because a house in LA, San Francisco, and San Diego cost $100,000,000. People need to make $208,000 a year to get to a 5-1 ratio today. Think about that. People today are fighting over dog scraps.

  • @kellyho3363
    @kellyho3363 16 дней назад +1

    Are you pregnant? Lol

    • @SilverCpa
      @SilverCpa 16 дней назад

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @MsCaliNevada
    @MsCaliNevada 16 дней назад

    Congratulations to you guys! So happy for you guys to start a new journey in life. It’s good to be close to family, especially for support. 🩷