PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Eminem- Stan

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  • @swagoroni77
    @swagoroni77 2 года назад +9328

    22 years later and that ending still gives me goose bumps

    • @gustav2581
      @gustav2581 2 года назад +49

      Same

    • @eduardjirout8105
      @eduardjirout8105 2 года назад +27

      Same

    • @kellypg
      @kellypg 2 года назад +143

      It's been 22 years‽‽‽‽ oh, man, I'm getting old.

    • @rando-tron1533
      @rando-tron1533 2 года назад +35

      @@kellypg i think he means 12

    • @kellypg
      @kellypg 2 года назад +59

      @@rando-tron1533 I wish, bro.

  • @andreagagne2377
    @andreagagne2377 2 года назад +9358

    Listening to this song is like watching a movie. He paints such a vivid picture. Top notch storytelling.

    • @D.Iverse
      @D.Iverse 2 года назад +77

      That's why Em is my hero!

    • @naldect9141
      @naldect9141 2 года назад +67

      @@D.Iverse RELAX buddy

    • @dodoxd650
      @dodoxd650 2 года назад +19

      @@naldect9141 why so mad?

    • @naldect9141
      @naldect9141 2 года назад +96

      @@dodoxd650 Looks like you missed the joke.
      1. Look what the song is about.
      2. Look how this guy expresses himself about EM.
      why so r/WHOOOOSH?

    • @davidcrady490
      @davidcrady490 2 года назад

      For sure

  • @TheTwan85
    @TheTwan85 Год назад +1719

    This song is so iconic that "to Stan" actually became synonymous with being an overly enthusiastic fan/stalker and is in the Merriam Webster dictionary as such.. I can see why people would request a psychotherapist to react to this! 😁

    • @simplyabundant4769
      @simplyabundant4769 Год назад +45

      Stan = stalker fan

    • @MyDantheman12345
      @MyDantheman12345 Год назад +82

      @@simplyabundant4769 That's retroactive though. It was not a term until after this song.

    • @SHISH_STYLE
      @SHISH_STYLE Год назад +56

      @@simplyabundant4769 even if true it was only after this song, and the Oxford dictionary mentions eminem for the word's meaning

    • @MasterAlfredo
      @MasterAlfredo Год назад +7

      Dream stan cringe

    • @rHamUK
      @rHamUK Год назад +20

      @@MasterAlfredo Stay quiet child

  • @7Eightyone
    @7Eightyone 2 года назад +3011

    I'm not really an Eminem fan but this is one of the greatest songs ever written

    • @aubreyjolie3570
      @aubreyjolie3570 2 года назад +33

      me too and i agree!!!

    • @VARJAGAMINGENTERTAINMENT
      @VARJAGAMINGENTERTAINMENT 2 года назад +40

      Most of his songs are motivational and inspiring and most importantly is his story.

    • @user-fo1ow1jq3b
      @user-fo1ow1jq3b 2 года назад +49

      @@VARJAGAMINGENTERTAINMENT Yeah the slim shady album was a huge inspiration. Made me a better person

    • @MikeHawkPEN15
      @MikeHawkPEN15 Год назад +42

      not being an em fan is like saying "i dont really need oxygen to breathe"

    • @7Eightyone
      @7Eightyone Год назад +34

      @@MikeHawkPEN15 how so? I've been deeply into this sht since 83. Why do I have to be an Em fan. Why isn't recognizing his talent enough?

  • @josezuniga3747
    @josezuniga3747 2 года назад +2643

    What I've noticed with most of Eminem's music is he can really paint a picture with words. It really nails in the emotion his songs can convey.

    • @monicahudson8334
      @monicahudson8334 2 года назад +26

      Exactly what I’m saying, he does the same in the music video Godzilla. Ever line he says plays into the video. Such a good lyricist!

    • @mikeskrotamich3797
      @mikeskrotamich3797 2 года назад +9

      bornana

    • @Thawhid
      @Thawhid 2 года назад +7

      @@monicahudson8334 he's done many different styles and moods over the years. Endless content. Decades long, successful career in rap?? That's very hard to achieve

    • @eun3568
      @eun3568 Год назад +4

      Especially his song “INSANE”

    • @DarkLordofTheSith69
      @DarkLordofTheSith69 Год назад

      Hes a wordsmith ...

  • @thebigdog9785
    @thebigdog9785 2 года назад +1945

    I saw an interview with Eminem somewhere where he said he was listening to the Dido song that is the hook and the lyrics about "staring at your picture in my wall" just made him think of an obsessive fan so he made the song as kind of a warning to people not to get too caught up in idolizing someone because you might not know the whole story and you could end up hurting yourself

    • @brinnd330
      @brinnd330 2 года назад +13

      I think maybe it was the interview he did w LL Cool J a couple years back

    • @skydefender1320
      @skydefender1320 2 года назад +1

      I also heard it was a small diss to canibus or sum

    • @luyandamakhanya5065
      @luyandamakhanya5065 2 года назад +7

      @@skydefender1320 nah canibus interpreted it as a diss.

    • @MechanicallyMusical
      @MechanicallyMusical 2 года назад +3

      thanks for this explanation I didn't know any of this information even with listening to Eminem 10+ years

    • @Baggerz182
      @Baggerz182 2 года назад

      repent gg

  • @bluecomet1109
    @bluecomet1109 Год назад +522

    Watching a therapist react to Eminem on youtube....what a time to be alive!

  • @S1N1ST3R1
    @S1N1ST3R1 Год назад +417

    Every time, the way he says, "Damn," I get the chills. Every time.

    • @sonyagill454
      @sonyagill454 Год назад +2

      Yes! That one word is so heavy!

    • @man1_luv
      @man1_luv Год назад +1

      Every time?

    • @S1N1ST3R1
      @S1N1ST3R1 Год назад

      @@man1_luv YES

    • @sylentnote
      @sylentnote Год назад +1

      I always get chills when after the car crashes into the water, you can hear those last few notes and they feel so heavy and depressing
      10:20

    • @always_emixx
      @always_emixx 2 месяца назад

      Every. Time. ❤

  • @kevinalamo4250
    @kevinalamo4250 2 года назад +3529

    It was so incredible to see someone who appreciates music hear that song for the first time. It's almost like experiencing it anew myself. Awesome guy

    • @TheAfterHoursLV
      @TheAfterHoursLV 2 года назад +17

      How interesting, I felt the same way as you. I was 18 when it hit the airwaves…

    • @TheAfterHoursLV
      @TheAfterHoursLV 2 года назад +9

      *What I meant was…it’s been that long since I listened to it with new ears…and listening to him was like you said, experiencing it all over again for the first time.

    • @jessecollin4486
      @jessecollin4486 2 года назад +3

      Absolutely!

    • @RustCole01
      @RustCole01 2 года назад +9

      Especially where he's not watching the video and clearly doesn't know the context.
      Watching him figure out that it is from the perspective of a deranged fan was great.

    • @ib3rdrock
      @ib3rdrock 2 года назад +1

      Yeah I just subbed cause this guy is a real one! No judging just appreciating music in all forms

  • @michaelweber4705
    @michaelweber4705 2 года назад +2109

    I love how I listened to this song a thousand times. And on the thousand and one time I finally got the “I’m almost at the bridge now” part of the song. Not only is Stan is at the physical bridge. But Eminem is also close to the bridge of the song.

    • @FireKingMadness
      @FireKingMadness 2 года назад +179

      eminem thinks in 4D

    • @Keep_Crying_Son
      @Keep_Crying_Son 2 года назад +64

      Lyrical genius 👌

    • @miyubeilschmidt5351
      @miyubeilschmidt5351 2 года назад +36

      @Gaming Gladi its the part between the verse and the chorus i believe

    • @TheCheezMann
      @TheCheezMann 2 года назад +75

      @@miyubeilschmidt5351 The bridge is often part of the song near the end, where there's a noticeable shift, in mood, pitch, or tempo. It can come between a verse and a chorus, but it can also come before a verse or after a chorus. It is usually near the end of the song though.

    • @DeuceBooty
      @DeuceBooty 2 года назад

      TIL

  • @ambergris9287
    @ambergris9287 2 года назад +1028

    Such an amazing song. Eminem said in interviews that he came up with Stan as a response to all the attention from fans he was getting. Thankfully Stan isn't based on real events, but great storytelling.

    • @SobrietyandSolace
      @SobrietyandSolace Год назад +35

      Matthew actually turning up to his house in 2020 was pretty crazy though. Life imitates art.

    • @sosia0naro
      @sosia0naro Год назад +35

      @Alan a guy broke into his house named matthew which led to speculation if he was the lil brother of stan grown up but it was just a coincidence

    • @anti7252
      @anti7252 Год назад

      @@sosia0naro yeah or some dude who did it on purpose cuz of his name and he stupid

    • @itzCraz3
      @itzCraz3 Год назад +2

      @Alan & he made a song about it, Bad Guy

    • @mr.0919
      @mr.0919 Год назад +2

      Stan is based on genuine events

  • @christen1025
    @christen1025 Год назад +144

    He did an interview about this song and how he DOES get many letters like this because people really relate to his music. He said people don’t always understand that his music isn’t always meant to be taken literally. There are real “Stans” that send him stuff like the letters in this song. He wrote this as a message to the fans that if they are struggling, get help. He’s a busy guy and appreciates that his fans love him but he can’t fix them! The song came from a good place ❤️

    • @Utonian21
      @Utonian21 Месяц назад

      I'm not really a fan of people writing lyrics about things they can't personally relate to (with obvious exceptions) but Eminem is still one of my all-time favorite artists, and I'm glad that this song addresses the issue while still being a great piece of storytelling at the same time

  • @toad4898
    @toad4898 2 года назад +1477

    So basically the song tells the story of a person named Stanley "Stan" Mitchell (voiced by Eminem) who claims to be Eminem's biggest fan. He writes Eminem several letters; over three verses, he becomes more obsessive, and when there is no reply he becomes angrier. He finally creates a voice recording of himself while driving his car on the highway, having consumed large quantities of depressants and alcohol; this verse includes a call-back to Eminem's "My Name Is" with the lyrics "I drank a fifth of vodka, you dare me to drive?" He reveals that his pregnant girlfriend is tied up in the trunk as he approaches a bridge, and realizes just before driving off it that he has no way to send the tape to Eminem.
    The fourth verse features Eminem as himself, writing back to Stan and attempting to reason with him. He warns Stan that he should get help, telling him about a story he heard on the news about a man who had driven his car off a bridge in a drunken stupor, killing himself and his pregnant girlfriend. Eminem then comes to the realization that this man was actually Stan. So yeah this songs backstory is crazy!!

    • @keldanhendricksen8273
      @keldanhendricksen8273 2 года назад +39

      stan is also a term for a super fan whose obsessed

    • @boman1074
      @boman1074 2 года назад +190

      @@keldanhendricksen8273 because of this song lmao it literally means they acting like Stan

    • @andriuscapas7707
      @andriuscapas7707 2 года назад +7

      It ain't a true story tho right?

    • @rerockinmysock
      @rerockinmysock 2 года назад +88

      @@andriuscapas7707 no not a true story Stan wasn't a real person its really just about the fans of his who would take everything he said literally

    • @archieburton2421
      @archieburton2421 2 года назад +31

      @Toad ur paragraphs literally add nothing. Everything said u can know through listening to the lyrics lol

  • @DarcManGaiden
    @DarcManGaiden 2 года назад +507

    The song sampled was called "Thank You" by Dido. She even appears on the music video as Stan's girlfriend.

    • @ryanrenolds
      @ryanrenolds 2 года назад +2

      he has so many samples. Remind me for example. Or a few from the newer albums that I can't quite figure

    • @TheCheezMann
      @TheCheezMann 2 года назад +26

      Ohhhh the gf was actually Dido herself?

    • @TryPuttingItInRice
      @TryPuttingItInRice 2 года назад +17

      @@ryanrenolds every rapper uses samples. It's a staple of hip hop at this point

    • @galloe
      @galloe 2 года назад +1

      @@TryPuttingItInRice And don't forget he was Dre's protégé, who was heavy on the samples since his N.W.A. days as well as his Death Row and Aftermath productions.

    • @jhill7009
      @jhill7009 2 года назад +3

      @@TheCheezMann He also a live performance of this song with her in one of his concerts in the UK. He also performed this song with Elton John at the Grammys.

  • @joshuaeason3426
    @joshuaeason3426 2 года назад +709

    I've been listening to this song for 22 years (since I was 9 years old) I still get choked up when I hear it. This is (in my opinion) the single greatest piece of fictional but believable storytelling in music ever written. It's so deep

    • @Staples_rl
      @Staples_rl 2 года назад +6

      This is great. But story by NF is insane

    • @SuperSikarlo
      @SuperSikarlo 2 года назад +10

      @@Staples_rl not really

    • @ryanlock5631
      @ryanlock5631 2 года назад

      Why did he write this as a story of something that can happen but didn’t

    • @flyingcolors96
      @flyingcolors96 2 года назад +5

      @@mangoman64 Thank you! I've been looking for this comment.

    • @jabberman3000
      @jabberman3000 2 года назад +1

      @@mangoman64 by immortal technique? nah. Such an uncreative story.

  • @RayFanful
    @RayFanful 2 года назад +49

    Eminem is a top tier lyricist and a story teller on top of it all.

  • @max77865
    @max77865 2 года назад +1654

    Another awesome but dark song by Eminem is “Darkness.” Would be interested to see a reaction to that too

    • @davidwortley6710
      @davidwortley6710 2 года назад +37

      Yeah absolutely 👍

    • @brianwilliams464
      @brianwilliams464 2 года назад +9

      id love to see a reaction to it

    • @JimWebbJax
      @JimWebbJax 2 года назад +4

      Agreed.

    • @liammcalear3248
      @liammcalear3248 2 года назад +11

      I feel like he should listen to when im gone and difficult first. difficult was never officially released by em tho. its about proofs death

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 года назад +283

      Sounds good Max, I’ll put it on the list and hopefully soon!!!!😊👍

  • @jas_bataille
    @jas_bataille 2 года назад +230

    My dad just turned 69 years old. He doesn't speak English very much, but he told me, that he reads Em's lyrics and study them. He told me that he's one of the greatest storytellers of all time.
    I been listening to his hit but never songs like those. Now I know why... I got tear to my eyes, man. This shit feels Shakesperian.

    • @lordofentropy
      @lordofentropy Год назад +15

      As far as I'm concerned Eminem is indeed modern day Shakespeare. His word choice, rhythm, and rhyming schemes are brilliant - his ability to use those tools to paint a picture, evoke emotion, and tell a story is almost unparalleled.

    • @dope3643
      @dope3643 Год назад +12

      Nice age bro

    • @TheGtagtr
      @TheGtagtr Год назад

      Did you translate the song from English to Spanish so he could understand it

    • @doodledud9189
      @doodledud9189 Год назад

      click' noice

  • @Blueythebear9
    @Blueythebear9 2 года назад +107

    The way he sets a scene and tells a story in a song is genius. Even down to the thunder in the background and car splashing into the water it really sets a scene in your head. Even if your not an eminem fan you have to respect this style of music and very few in the world can match or better it!!!!

  • @jc171177
    @jc171177 2 года назад +203

    oh wow! I just loved watching someone not necessarily into hip hop music, listen to and appreciate the art of storytelling. Watching you piece the story together and figure it out was a delight...and my tension and excitement, waiting for you to hear the last verse (the reply) was euphoric. Glad you enjoyed and got it. Worth watching the music video version to this too.

    • @donsensey
      @donsensey Год назад +2

      Exactly what I felt. Really cool

    • @strangewayfaringstranger
      @strangewayfaringstranger Год назад

      I agree. I used to be huge into Em and this was one of the first songs I ever heard by him, so I already knew it well. It was interesting to hear his perspective.

  • @leothenrdkng
    @leothenrdkng 2 года назад +647

    Also, Stan is a song about a crazy obsessed fan... The song shows how he gradually falls into madness and loses it. I think it shows the harms of crazy obsessed fans.

    • @PaRaDoXAgonY
      @PaRaDoXAgonY 2 года назад +1

      Not good to call someone obsessed

    • @YNWMelvin
      @YNWMelvin 2 года назад +32

      @@PaRaDoXAgonY are you okay?

    • @PaRaDoXAgonY
      @PaRaDoXAgonY 2 года назад +2

      No

    • @jacobjstoffer
      @jacobjstoffer 2 года назад +27

      @@PaRaDoXAgonY Thats quite literally the point of the song. Treating stars like idols and obsessing over them causes issues like the song describes. It is not healthy for the fan and should not be romanticized and calling a fan like the fictional Stan obsessed is the best word, it is an unhealthy infatuation that causes the downfall of his life.

    • @jacobgreen0915
      @jacobgreen0915 2 года назад

      @@jacobjstoffer no that's not the point of the song lol, it's a real story. literally every word in this song is true.

  • @colincampbell7227
    @colincampbell7227 2 года назад +483

    The genius it takes to put a song like this together and have you fully engaged the full time is crazy. Arguably the greatest lyricist of all time

    • @ajf1060
      @ajf1060 2 года назад +13

      Then to top it off, he puts out bad guy more than a decade later and it continues the story flawlessly.

    • @colincampbell7227
      @colincampbell7227 2 года назад +10

      @@ajf1060 exactly bro, the consistency through out 20-25 years is mind blowing. Truly one of a kind.

    • @jakehanna2616
      @jakehanna2616 2 года назад +7

      he even rhymed orange and banana

    • @luismaldonado5519
      @luismaldonado5519 2 года назад +4

      @@jakehanna2616 "slant-rhymed," (as opposed to a "perfect rhyme") but yes, yes he did.

    • @Divici02623
      @Divici02623 2 года назад

      @@colincampbell7227 i don't think it's arguable at all

  • @matthewescamilla123
    @matthewescamilla123 Год назад +19

    5:45 genuinely can't believe how perfectly Eminem captured the concept of parasocial relationships 15+ years before things like Twitch and vtubers came out.
    The fan feeling they have an intimate relationship with the star, when in reality the star is so caught up with everything that they barely know the person.
    Perfect Blue, a film by Satoshi Kon covers this idea in such a perfect rendition. Perfect Blue released in the late 1990's, but perfectly captures this idea. It's insane.

  • @epicwhitebread5772
    @epicwhitebread5772 Год назад +48

    The ending always gives me goosebumps, what a masterpiece

    • @BBAhilius
      @BBAhilius Год назад

      Stan's face on the window.

    • @TheGtagtr
      @TheGtagtr Год назад

      Yeah i'm here because of Pat Stay's The game diss song. I'm old so I know the song obviously, but i forgot about him driving the car off the bridge in the video, crazy!!

  • @tweetyb6617
    @tweetyb6617 2 года назад +307

    PhD student here majoring in psychology specializing in trauma and disaster relief, I enjoyed your reaction to this song. This song has to be one of the best storytelling songs ever written. New subscriber! Looking forward to watching more videos for your perspective. Great reaction!

    • @michaeldandrea9648
      @michaeldandrea9648 2 года назад +9

      Id have to say Dance With the Devil by Immortal Technique is absolutely the best.

    • @MrEatsOlot
      @MrEatsOlot 2 года назад +3

      @@michaeldandrea9648 what a insane story they tell in that song, holy

    • @wil1080
      @wil1080 2 года назад +2

      @@michaeldandrea9648 Clearly

  • @TheMinecraftian5211
    @TheMinecraftian5211 2 года назад +203

    The letter being wrriten is from one of his fans. It's not actually real but he wrote this because he wanted his fans to know not everything he says in his songs is real and should be repeated. He also found it weird that fans were idolizing him so much at first.

    • @BraydenYang
      @BraydenYang 2 года назад +1

      it is real, so his brother, matthew, tried to kill eminem.

    • @TheMinecraftian5211
      @TheMinecraftian5211 2 года назад +5

      @@BraydenYang this is just entirely untrue. What I said is almost exactly what Eminem said himself

    • @got2strpk
      @got2strpk 2 года назад

      @@BraydenYang it's fictional. Bruh.

  • @SilverFang2789
    @SilverFang2789 2 года назад +50

    This was Eminem in his peak prime. His "Napoleon at Austerlitz" prime. It was his masterpiece. The Marshall Mathers LP was his best work and this song along with "The Real Slim Shady" catapulted Eminem into legendary rap status.

    • @youtubegavemynameawaycuntbags
      @youtubegavemynameawaycuntbags Год назад

      marshall mathers lp will never be topped by himself. its like he didnt try as hard after that album.

  • @920WASHBURN
    @920WASHBURN 2 года назад +43

    I don't really like Eminem but this song is a masterpiece. Conceptually, execution, verbage, gradually elevated uneasiness. Brilliant

    • @ShivenYT
      @ShivenYT Год назад +3

      Why you don't like Eminem ?

    • @920WASHBURN
      @920WASHBURN Год назад +2

      @@ShivenYT well I'm not the biggest fan of rap, but his flow is too choppy and too much thinking. I like a groove

    • @captsparrowslady
      @captsparrowslady Год назад +2

      Songs like this are why I love Eminem... Some of my favorite Eminem songs are the ones that tell a story. The ones that are poetry set to music. He is a musical genius.

    • @nazirabdullahi6239
      @nazirabdullahi6239 Год назад +1

      @@920WASHBURN try listening to when I'm gone, and beautiful

  • @JasonZakrajsek
    @JasonZakrajsek 2 года назад +295

    This song is a masterpiece. There’ve been dissertations written on it.

    • @sarahmcg621
      @sarahmcg621 Год назад +7

      Damn! I’m going to google scholar in 3, 2, 1 …….

    • @AshikaUmanga
      @AshikaUmanga Год назад +1

      @@sarahmcg621 found it ?

    • @incredibleguy4620
      @incredibleguy4620 Год назад +1

      @@AshikaUmanga she's still searching 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AshikaUmanga
      @AshikaUmanga Год назад

      @@incredibleguy4620 its a "she" hah 🤔🤔

    • @incredibleguy4620
      @incredibleguy4620 Год назад

      @@AshikaUmanga well,idk...but I don't think it's a point you need to mention, well if you don't get the joke it's fine...just ignore my comment🤨

  • @alexamz
    @alexamz 2 года назад +212

    Stan is a song from Eminem's most iconic album "The Marshall Mathers LP" . Years later he released "The Marshall Mathers LP 2" . In this album he has a song called "Bad Guy". It's a sequel to Stan. You should definitely check this out!

    • @captaindigi82
      @captaindigi82 2 года назад +12

      Also the song Stanley makes reference to is "97 bonnie and clyde" which was years earlier.
      Funny enough the first song on the same album is called " Who knew" which is another clever song that talks about taking music too literally which was à huge thing in 2001

    • @cormoran_strike
      @cormoran_strike 2 года назад +4

      @@captaindigi82 1st song on that MMLP was "Kill You" (excluding the Public Service Announcement), "Who Knew" was the fourth.

    • @ecarus1448
      @ecarus1448 2 года назад +1

      Strike. Oh m..p.lpmmm mm. Ma cm mm mm m mmB.

    • @chiken9913
      @chiken9913 2 года назад +1

      @@ecarus1448 are you ok?

    • @ecarus1448
      @ecarus1448 2 года назад

      @@chiken9913 honestly I just fell asleep on my phone while I was laying in bed

  • @lunargamer5261
    @lunargamer5261 2 года назад +31

    It is really hard to understate the self-awareness Em shows, here. He is simultaneously recognizing that people will use him as an example or as an idol, while professing that he doesn't want that. It is simultaneously taking responsibility and demonstrating how he can't realistically be responsible for what his fans do. It is brilliant writing to craft that message into such a distinct narrative.

  • @souls.7033
    @souls.7033 Год назад +23

    Eminem's Stan is an absolute masterpiece, I listen to ever music genre and music in every language, but boy, the way the story was told, anyone whether they enjoy rap or not would understand and make them feel in Stan's and Eminem's shoes. Just wonderful

  • @user-sk9eg8bj3z
    @user-sk9eg8bj3z 2 года назад +182

    Perfect reaction, I am truly grateful. I get so frustrated when people dismiss his genius. The greatest writer of all time

    • @okuyasuniijimura
      @okuyasuniijimura 2 года назад

      Heh

    • @davesulphate4497
      @davesulphate4497 2 года назад +1

      He is amazing but "greatest writer of all time"? I bet you didn't mean that litterally but how could you possibly justify that statement? No offence intended though.

    • @beaumatthews6411
      @beaumatthews6411 2 года назад

      Stan

    • @_Jake.From.Statefarm_
      @_Jake.From.Statefarm_ 2 года назад

      lol no he isn't but he's great. Aesop Rock is a WAY better writer than him. He will never be as commercially accepted though. He's far to dense and intricuite, but he is quite literally regarde the best lyricist of all time. Regardless if you like his actual music or not.

    • @malachibaartz9487
      @malachibaartz9487 2 года назад

      Yea because I watched someone react to bad guy my em and he thought it was about a ex and not Stan’s brother killing em

  • @clipzzy5492
    @clipzzy5492 2 года назад +482

    Juice WRLD actually has a song that references this song like driving off a bridge, the trunk, drunk driving, etc. Its called "Make Believe" and Juice has some wild lyrics on it as well, you should really check it out but of course when you have time. Just keep this song in mind when you react to it please :)

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 года назад +101

      Thanks for that info and thanks for watching!😊👍

    • @itsnotilyaas4877
      @itsnotilyaas4877 2 года назад +16

      Make believe is definitely one of my favourite juice songs

    • @buckethatman6650
      @buckethatman6650 2 года назад +4

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial this man is right make believe is a very hood song

    • @andrew_va1628
      @andrew_va1628 2 года назад +3

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial please do react to this when you have time! such a good song

    • @loke3684
      @loke3684 2 года назад +1

      just listened to it and the only good part was the hook, the rest was uninspired and sounds like all his other songs

  • @stephenmier7277
    @stephenmier7277 Год назад +15

    This is still my favorite reaction video of all time. It’s so cool to watch the story unfold, watching someone experience every twist for the first time.

  • @TheMastaPlan
    @TheMastaPlan Год назад +30

    im so glad that you actually took the time and listened to something out of your genre...the way you analyzed it for the first time and the shock is what we all felt listening for the first time...i enjoyed this a lot...thank you for appreciating someone who many in your generation dont understand

  • @jonathongeorge3093
    @jonathongeorge3093 2 года назад +56

    Eminem had two very, very dark songs that are referenced in this song. The first one was "Kim" (his wife's name), wherein he tells a fictional story of him catching his wife cheating, going crazy, & killing both of them (slitting her throat in horrific audio detail). The follow-up "Bonnie & Clyde" is him talking to his young daughter while driving with the bodies in the trunk to dispose of them off of a bridge... he uses baby talk that is understood by the listener - the chorus is "just the two of us" & he refers to he & his daughter as "97 Bonnie & Clyde".
    That is the significance of Stan telling him that he's going to name his daughter "Bonnie", as well as him describing his girlfriend in the trunk as being similar to Slim Shady. Crazy stuff!

    • @Martin-ub9ci
      @Martin-ub9ci 2 года назад

      Don't do spoilers in the comments dude !

    • @jonathongeorge3093
      @jonathongeorge3093 2 года назад +8

      @@Martin-ub9ci Not sure if I'd call it a spoiler... it's context for things that probably make absolutely no sense in this song without.

    • @gemmamcgregor4096
      @gemmamcgregor4096 2 года назад

      Two of his best .

  • @jayrichjlr
    @jayrichjlr 2 года назад +23

    its so pure to see him try to describe what a sample is.. a song within a song. as much as I've listened to it since its original release, I still come back to this video

  • @_Microwave_
    @_Microwave_ Год назад +40

    Seeing this guy react, just watching his thoughts throughout the song is such a thrill
    Keep on going man!

  • @therambunctiousrobloxian9323
    @therambunctiousrobloxian9323 2 года назад +13

    This song just makes me shiver. Absolutely genius

  • @michaelbannan9972
    @michaelbannan9972 2 года назад +29

    The chorus with the woman singing is a song called "Thank You" by Dido. Em said in an interview back in the day that he heard the song and loved it and just HAD to make a song using it. This was the result.

    • @rondutertre3367
      @rondutertre3367 2 года назад +5

      And the first time he performed it live, he contacted Dido and had her sing the chorus on stage

    • @jimmy22334
      @jimmy22334 2 года назад

      @@rondutertre3367 yes they’re very good friends

  • @kingzay4957
    @kingzay4957 2 года назад +53

    You're such a good reactor man. You didnt know any of the context and understood the whole song. Most reactors just ask for the answers in the comments lmao. And you were right this is older em

  • @Ehvi
    @Ehvi 2 года назад +15

    I'm late to this one, but one aspect of this song that makes it so amazing is the little details of the pencil scratching, and the windshield wipers on the car when he's recording the voice memo and driving; It just adds that extra bit of immersion

  • @weathercaster
    @weathercaster 2 года назад +10

    Just caught this vid.
    There is so much to unpack in this song. It is this style of realism and the way he puts words together that is a primary reason that Eminem was such a draw to so many, even those whom aren't hip hop fans.
    On one hand, there is the outlining of the extreme ends of what fans can be to famous people. The obsession and, as you note, the one way connection that can be unhealthy. Em is highlighting how he understands his music effects people. In the line "I just drank a fifth of vodka, dare me to drive?" it is a direct reference to one of his older songs. The cutting and the beating, all an acknowledgement of his understanding of how his music impacts people, or could.
    At the same time, with his final verse, not only is he being real he is also putting some perspective to how difficult it can be from the performers end. So many people that are fans and are struggling through the same issues that plagued Em back before he was famous growing up poor in a dysfunctional, abusive household.
    All of this is wrapped up in a neat package of rhyme and timing, encased in a well known (at the time) song from Dido called "Thank you", which in itself is an additional layer to his message. The Dido song is about sinking in depression with the only ray of positivity being one person in their life, which is a thematic play on how Stan feels about Em in the song initially before he digresses into obsessive insanity.
    This song is so real, so vivid. Eminem may have some raunchy meaningless songs out there, but you cannot deny that he does occasionally display an intelligence and understanding about life not found in most other hip hop artists.

  • @Crossword131
    @Crossword131 2 года назад +153

    Its Dido. She didn't just let him sample it, I think she guest-ed on the track, too. Both are killer songs.
    Way to cover something that really speaks to the last 20 years of music and sнiт mental health standards and accessibility.
    Nice job.

    • @Crazael
      @Crazael 2 года назад +8

      The song is sometimes listed as "Featuring: Dido". Also, she's in the music video as Stan's girlfriend.

    • @SobrietyandSolace
      @SobrietyandSolace Год назад +1

      Love this track. I sang ‘Thank You’ a Capella at my school talent show when I was a teenager.

  • @Cassandra6
    @Cassandra6 2 года назад +24

    Eminem is an extremely talented lyricist! This song is where people got the word stan from when they refer to themselves or others as being “stans”of a certain artist or celebrity. The impact of this song is so real and it really hits you as well

  • @jcubs247
    @jcubs247 2 года назад +14

    This is art. One of my favorite songs of all time no matter who you are you can identify with something here and it feels like you watched a movie by the end. Eminem’s speed is impressive but his lyrics are what make him special to me. Great video awesome to see someone get to experience this for the first time I am jealous!!

  • @3112dave3112
    @3112dave3112 Год назад +6

    Eminem’s older stuff is genius. He was the modern day Shakespeare with his use of the English language. People actually use Stan as a word now to describe exactly what this song was about.
    Switching topics, what does one do when you when you tell your doctors about your mental issues and they continually just write scripts that do exactly shit to treat you? I mean that’s where I’m at. I’m worse now than when I started talking about my problems 3 years ago and they don’t seem to give a shit. How do I get help when I’ve asked and not gotten it. I feel like an idiot for pouring out my heart to someone and them basically saying “try this, it might work.” Like 10 different meds ago. Sometimes I feel like it might be better to say fuck it and just figure it out myself.

  • @darkenmdm
    @darkenmdm 2 года назад +180

    In my opinion, It could be better if you reacted to the musical video with lyrics: it's very well done and through it you can even see better how Stan is internally depressed, he really wants to find himself in Eminem.

    • @FaultlessKing
      @FaultlessKing 2 года назад +14

      Yeah but the music video almost 20% of all the words are censored. Even stupid stuff like “thats my girlfriend screaming in the trunk” is censored. This guy wouldnt have heard the story if he did the video

    • @yobias6012
      @yobias6012 2 года назад +12

      My opinion would be that it's actually better to watch without the music video, cause the song is so well-written that you paint the pictures in your head by listening. Everyone is gonna paint a different picture in their head when the listen to this. But i see where you're coming from!

    • @nicobentley998
      @nicobentley998 2 года назад +1

      @not tellin ????? lol

    • @rudeus2549
      @rudeus2549 Год назад +3

      @not tellin Storytelling, in my opinion, is one of the hardest skill to learn. I admire em cause of his story telling skills and his ability to paint a picture using just a few words. He's far more skilled than anyone.

    • @pax_9365
      @pax_9365 Год назад +2

      @@FaultlessKing there is a descensored version yk?

  • @jdub8325
    @jdub8325 2 года назад +80

    "Beautiful" by Eminem would be a great one to react to....from his 2009 album "Relapse". I believe he wrote it in 2008 while in rehab. Eminem overdosed in 2007 and if he had gotten to the hospital 2 hours later he would have died. His liver and kidneys were shutting down, he was on dialysis and he had to re-learn how to write and actually re-learn his motor functions.

    • @takeuchi5760
      @takeuchi5760 2 года назад

      one of my favourite songs ever.

    • @wa-egg9666
      @wa-egg9666 2 года назад +2

      he actually wrote it in 2007 before his overdose, it was supposed to be on his scrapped final album "king mathers". feel free to google it, very interesting.

  • @Allonsy_TZ
    @Allonsy_TZ Год назад +6

    You should watch the music video for this song. It puts into context why "Slim" never received Stans letters and why it took so long

  • @yehldyehld
    @yehldyehld 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for actually doing a proper reaction video. Usually when I see reaction videos I think "oh here we go again, another person uploading a vid of themselves making a face every 30 seconds and not actually adding to the original content that they're reacting to", but nope you actually added something and I enjoyed seeing you react to each verse as the story gets told.

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  2 года назад +4

      thank you for saying this because I really try to see the mental health or dysfunction in each video!

  • @lovelybre4025
    @lovelybre4025 2 года назад +49

    this song was the reason i was a HUGE fan of em. im glad you listened to the music that makes his fans love him and broke it down to understand and not the songs that are booty popping playing in clubs. Alot of the older generations think thats all these rappers do in song when in reality their music can be moving and raw like this, which speaks to a lot of younger generations. you are very much getting a follow from me after watching thiis.

  • @andyaquitaine4225
    @andyaquitaine4225 2 года назад +20

    Eminem said something to the effect of at this time he was grasping the concept of being famous, and he didn’t really understand the passion some people had about him. So in processing that, he took it to the furthest extreme, and created this character as a hypothetical. In doing it, he also got to speak on how his, especially at the time, extremely dark content wasn’t serious.

  • @everythingmcneilly1497
    @everythingmcneilly1497 Год назад +7

    This song still gives me goosebumps every time I hear it has a lot of meaning

  • @MelodramaticOne
    @MelodramaticOne Год назад +5

    Em just connected with so many of us kids in the 90's. We lived a life that he wrote about and we felt like we were being noticed when he go big. This song is a masterpiece and why they call some fans "Stans"... This song brings back so much emotion for me.

  • @RyanBoddy1
    @RyanBoddy1 2 года назад +60

    I’ve heard this song a million times but watching you react to the twist at the end gave me chills 😂 another good song to react to would be ‘If I Had’

  • @King_Of_Games
    @King_Of_Games 2 года назад +44

    This was one of the songs that showed off his talent as an art. Good writers and good movies show a person something rather than tell them and EM showed us with words rather than tell us Some people are crazy

    • @RustCole01
      @RustCole01 2 года назад

      I always thought Kim was even better. In my entire life I have never heard anything like it. It's super dark but it's amazing.
      I remember watching an interview with Dr Dre where he talked about being unsure how to even react to the song the 1st time he heard it.

  • @aaronm3416
    @aaronm3416 Год назад +11

    Watching you react and really understand the message gave me goosebumps vicariously hearing this for the first time. Great job with the open minded reaction

  • @Sushiii1400
    @Sushiii1400 Год назад +4

    The rain at the start really sets the tone. These little details really make me love Em

  • @Browndaddy0267
    @Browndaddy0267 2 года назад +146

    Naturally, you have to go listen to Bad Guy now. It's a sequel to Stan. Lyricism and storytelling at its finest. Love the reactions!!

    • @ericgillihan9728
      @ericgillihan9728 2 года назад +3

      Crazy song. Em goes off! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @DavidEmil_
      @DavidEmil_ 2 года назад

      This!!!!

    • @LadyUsakoB
      @LadyUsakoB 2 года назад

      yas :D needs to happen 100% 💞💓

    • @julien2231
      @julien2231 2 года назад +1

      What??? I never knew there was a sequel.

    • @Browndaddy0267
      @Browndaddy0267 2 года назад +1

      @@julien2231 seriously? Yeah Bad Guy from the MMLP2 is a sequel to Stan. A masterpiece from Em!

  • @toiletguy4668
    @toiletguy4668 2 года назад +76

    If you liked this then i would recommend Immortal Technique - Dance with the Devil. It is the only song that has really hit me hard besides Stan. The song is a little horrific but i think you would really like it.

    • @stepanpetranek35
      @stepanpetranek35 2 года назад +10

      dance with the devil is tooo fucking much man, the craziest thing thats based on a real story makes me feel really weird.

    • @catsouplover7745
      @catsouplover7745 2 года назад +8

      @@stepanpetranek35 is not dont worry, immortal himself said that that story its just a prison legend and he never raped no one.

    • @Dahstin5311
      @Dahstin5311 2 года назад +5

      Once you dive into that song there's no going back. Terrific writing and a vivid painting of how fucked up the world can be.

    • @CognitiveChaosCreations
      @CognitiveChaosCreations 2 года назад +1

      You Never Know - Immortal Technique is another with a powerfully profound climax.

    • @RICKELLE13
      @RICKELLE13 2 года назад

      I SECOND THIS

  • @ryancleland7179
    @ryancleland7179 Год назад +4

    This song still gives me literal chills

  • @patrickcandler1330
    @patrickcandler1330 Год назад +7

    Such and emotional rollercoaster! This song is written very well and is more understood if you watch the music video. As most of Eminem's videos... His videos explain the music more than the words do alone.

  • @arturobaez8853
    @arturobaez8853 2 года назад +49

    Love how well you managed to analyze and dissect the song! If you have some free time highly recommend watching the uncensored music video of this song, it's like putting two pieces of a puzzle together. Keep it up!

  • @danielgriffin5160
    @danielgriffin5160 2 года назад +12

    "When I'm gone" and "Beautiful" by Eminem both great songs

  • @erinpilla
    @erinpilla Год назад +1

    Listening to this song again after going through a lot of similar stuff in my life makes me appreciate this song more. When you haven't gone down that dark place to you this is a song. To me, this was my life.
    Not just counseling he needs to be under 5150!

  • @fostertogrammy
    @fostertogrammy 3 месяца назад

    I just love everything about this. I'm so glad I found you

  • @jaynakamstra7870
    @jaynakamstra7870 2 года назад +13

    this song is still his best work, telling a story this way. ive been listening to him my whole life and this song still gives me goosebumps.

  • @slp3570
    @slp3570 2 года назад +11

    i love the way how you tell us your thought process while listening to the song. Its amazing to see how you understand the idea behind the song more and more. keep up the great work!

  • @98Fencer
    @98Fencer Год назад +1

    Seeing your reaction to something I grew up with made me smile the whole time.

  • @thegodofpez
    @thegodofpez Год назад +1

    This is my first time on this channel. I LOVE THIS GUY ALREADY! Instantly subbed. 🙏

  • @huntershaffer8771
    @huntershaffer8771 2 года назад +35

    Hey Tom, I'm from upstate NY. I'm 24 years old and severely disabled&wheelchair bound. Your reaction videos are phenomenal, this channel will be huge!

    • @MaddoxMelton
      @MaddoxMelton 2 года назад +2

      Always look at the good side of things man 💪🏻💪🏻 , take care🤟🏻

    • @leer2631
      @leer2631 2 года назад

      “always look on the bright side of life”🎵🎵
      -greetings from germany

  • @jacobgolec9269
    @jacobgolec9269 2 года назад +12

    I love how you can actually SEE the light bulb click when he realized the ending😂😂

  • @steveurquell3031
    @steveurquell3031 Год назад

    IDK why but I got goosebumps when you started into the camera at times, in surprise. Loved the vid

  • @Little_Devotchka
    @Little_Devotchka 2 года назад +3

    Eminem is truly a wordsmith! He's a dictionary on legs! Also I'm a new subscriber to this channel and I love your reactions and breaking down of the lyrics that you give! Thanks so much for your quality content and for being so respectful and open-minded even to music and lyrics that can be quite jarring🙏🙌💜🌠

  • @cormoran_strike
    @cormoran_strike 2 года назад +3

    Your reactions are priceless. This is like my hip dad listening to Em. You were right in the thick of it too with perfect reactions on every point Eminem wants you to react. Exactly how I felt! Thumbs up, hope to see more reactions!

  • @nyslukas
    @nyslukas 2 года назад +82

    I think it's amazing how you got so much of the story just by listening to the lyrics. In my opinion, the song makes a lot more sense when you're watching the music video. Unfortunately those versions are censored, which take away a lot from the song itself.

    • @vantaie2350
      @vantaie2350 Год назад

      This version is normally not censored ruclips.net/video/aqUpe6QeBTk/видео.html

  • @dougfish8593
    @dougfish8593 Год назад

    Found your channel this morning thank you for doing eminem reactions I'm hooked

  • @xFlowState
    @xFlowState Год назад

    One of my favorite songs by Eminem, an absolute classic. Your reaction was the same reaction I had when I first listened to it years ago! It was like I was reliving that moment again.
    New Sub!

  • @jackiejuarez7595
    @jackiejuarez7595 2 года назад +11

    Great Video ! I love when people hear Em and realize how talented he is . I think a lot of people mainly the newer generations don’t actually realize how much of a genius he is and how he shifts words to go with the flow and the beats 🔥 a lot of the lyrics go over peoples heads. His story is real and raw and honestly a motivation to keep pushing . He’s sush a talented artist and an amazing father 👏

  • @mikegregs1574
    @mikegregs1574 2 года назад +13

    You grasped the context of the song from a few bars, your intuition is very impressive. Am also fond of the fact that you seem to genuinely empathize with the artist's perspective/ emotions. That is awesome. No brainer sub

  • @nathanr5825
    @nathanr5825 8 месяцев назад +1

    The music video is 100% needed with this song. So much more involved

  • @jordanmiron1995
    @jordanmiron1995 2 года назад +7

    He’s a lyrical genius! Best lyricist that has ever did it

  • @danielfitch6104
    @danielfitch6104 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for making this Channel. I want more of you, wish my therapist was more like you. You feel relatable vs just going by the books like most do.

  • @patrikhanko7590
    @patrikhanko7590 2 года назад +5

    I just found your channel and I love how genuine you are, thank you for your content!

  • @user-yd7ug3jb4t
    @user-yd7ug3jb4t 2 года назад +5

    Cool. Immediately within 3 minutes you have my sub. Headphones. Genuine remarks on the music. And most importantly, you rewind after you pause.
    Thank you for that.
    Looking forward to the rest of the video and future videos!
    Oh, and when you said "A song within a song". I believe they call it a "sample". I also forget what the sample is, but I'm sure you've figured that out by now.

  • @colterchristianson881
    @colterchristianson881 11 месяцев назад

    Man how much I wish you did this reaction while also watching this video. It’s even crazier than just hearing just the lyrics

  • @Jason-er1vf
    @Jason-er1vf 2 года назад +8

    It's good you heard this song when you did. This is where the pop culture term "Stan" came from. Basically meaning someone just like the character from the song. Im sure you'll hear it referenced in many different songs today.

  • @Joshcowden
    @Joshcowden 2 года назад +12

    Just found your channel and am really enjoying it. This was an awesome reaction. Fun Fact: "Stan" is actually a word in the Webster's Dictionary because of this song. It means "an extremely or excessively enthusiastic and devoted fan."

  • @TheAstronomyFloyd
    @TheAstronomyFloyd Год назад +9

    I love that this song got to Number 1 in the charts back when it originally came out 😊

  • @chungboislim2061
    @chungboislim2061 Год назад +3

    I love watching people listen to Eminem songs for the first time. I first heard this when I was way too young to be listening to Eminem, but I will never forget how profound it was the first time I heard MMLP, SSLP, and The Eminem Show. It's cool to kind of be able to relive that.

    • @stardoll1995
      @stardoll1995 10 месяцев назад +2

      I was way too young to hear this when I first heard it too (like 5 or 6) and I remember I was OBSESSED with this song it always made me cry how the whole thing plays out

  • @DAr3B3LboSSMaN
    @DAr3B3LboSSMaN 2 года назад +3

    You are my new favourite channel on youtube, it gives me chills hearing your perspective and your takes on lyrics and artists with little knowledge of their career and lives. Keep doing what you're doing I cant stop watching your videos and am learning a lot from what you have to say in them. Thank you
    (PS. Would love to watch your reaction to Mac Miller - Yeah! )

  • @bryanschneider4106
    @bryanschneider4106 2 года назад +11

    I think that the algorithm put you in my direction, Eminem is very lyrical in-depth line fur-lined genius probably my top three ever that’s ever brought music. And when you understand as a psychotherapist this particular song just shows how he Kens story play and portrayed multiple persons it’s awesome!

  • @Thorrrz
    @Thorrrz 2 года назад

    Bro this video is one big vibe, man your voice is calming. Keep it up! 💯

  • @rocket_cast
    @rocket_cast 2 года назад +3

    As a student of psychology and someone who was obsessed with Eminem in his new age years I really enjoyed your video! It’s funny how we used to get things and don’t evaluate them! 😂😂😂

  • @kashcreighton2518
    @kashcreighton2518 2 года назад +8

    The smile on your face when the beat dropped brought joy to me

  • @devincoleman2870
    @devincoleman2870 2 года назад +3

    How can you listen to these lyrics and not be just blown away. The word play is unreal. Em is such a legend. Granted not a club music guy. But the rhymes are just so wild even this far after the song was released.

  • @toni-ann5151
    @toni-ann5151 3 месяца назад +1

    Stan is one of the most iconic songs of all time and I remember the first time I heard it on the radio in 2000. It captivated me so much I had to explore his discography and soon addicted to his music because of his self-reflection, insights and traumas he shares. I've been a fan of his for 24 years and find there's nobody who can lyrically paint a picture like Eminem! It was fun watching you experience it for the first ❤️
    You should try Cleaning Out My Closet!!!

  • @gamingwithmarz8691
    @gamingwithmarz8691 2 года назад

    Rarely comment. Loved this reaction! So real! Keep it up