90 Day Fiancé: Kim’s Son REACTS to Meeting Usman IN-PERSON!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024
  • ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 7, episode 15 of ‘90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ from Kim’s son, Jamal, reacting to meeting Usman for the first time in-person, to Shaeeda revealing she would choose to have a baby over staying married to Bilal. ‘90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

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  • @HoneyBee-vb7bb
    @HoneyBee-vb7bb Год назад +1757

    An ongoing theme in this show is the kids are often smarter than the parents.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Год назад +40

      The word for this is "parentification" and it often occurs when parents are irresponsible, immature, etc.

    • @chellelee8659
      @chellelee8659 Год назад +17

      That's cause they are not the ones in love.....like they say " love is blind:

    • @thiscatrblx9641
      @thiscatrblx9641 Год назад +2

      Flynn effect

    • @Stephanyy0208
      @Stephanyy0208 Год назад +2

      I have to disagree because Colt, Usman, and pretty much the entire cast have smarter parents. They make terrible decisions

    • @barbaramay9288
      @barbaramay9288 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂😂

  • @AprilT72
    @AprilT72 Год назад +885

    That's the best greetings Kimberly ever got from Usman, he's definitely acting up for Jamal.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Год назад +975

    It sadden me cause Jamal, and Kim seem to have a great relationship, and he obviously wants her to be happy, but he knows this is such a horrible idea.

    • @Dimensionalalteration
      @Dimensionalalteration Год назад +34

      Her son seem to be the only good man in her life . He's a blessing to her,she should listen to him.

    • @dangalanga6941
      @dangalanga6941 Год назад +10

      Don’t be sad lol she knew what the laws were 😂😂 that’s why she was so headstrong about being number one wife

    • @SarabellumKE
      @SarabellumKE Год назад +12

      As I get older, I've realised we have to let our parents make their own mistakes.. if my mum wants to fall in love with a Nigerian wannabe musician I'd let her but id also be there for her when sh!t hits the fan.

    • @RaisedxFist
      @RaisedxFist Год назад +1

      I'd just leave and go off somewhere far away and let her experience how this is gonna be, I ain't coming back. Family is more important then foreign love.
      I'd pack up if I was him and leave the country or find another state far away and start another life without her. He can do so much without those 2 in his life.

  • @DarthFurie
    @DarthFurie Год назад +821

    Mahadi is freaking ADORABLE omg, what a precious child! Please keep him FAR away from the toxic mess that is Kim and Usman

    • @YaLittleFriend
      @YaLittleFriend Год назад +8

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @cherrym80
      @cherrym80 Год назад +37

      Yes Muhammad has a beautiful family
      You can see the bond between them. The way that young mother is cuddling her baby I can't see her allowing Usman to take Mahadi. She would be heartbroken.

    • @Nanaz4Mz
      @Nanaz4Mz Год назад +6

      HE is the one that is not 💯.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Год назад

      @@Nanaz4Mz Kim has a criminal record as well as a history of instability and marrying unstable people (she married an incarcerated murd3r3r). She should not have access to another child to raise until she deals with the deep-seated issues that have caused her to make poor decisions. Usman is a run of the mill Green Card scammer, there's nothing special about him

    • @annemieverbeke5965
      @annemieverbeke5965 Год назад +16

      @@cherrym80 Shame on Kim and Usman. They want to take a 3 year old away from his parents, She doesn't have any objection . As a mother she should have at least some consideration with the childs mam, Their reason is not in the childs intrest its entirely for themselfs; Makes my blood boil

  • @emmavrijburg6676
    @emmavrijburg6676 Год назад +963

    whoever does melicia's hair and makeup deserves a raise. she always looks so stunning

    • @V21bh
      @V21bh Год назад +31

      ALWAYS!! I agree

    • @faithjackson4737
      @faithjackson4737 Год назад +16

      Big facts

    • @brittanibee5509
      @brittanibee5509 Год назад +39

      Always💜💜 I just love those curls and that color is so pretty with her skin tone

    • @itshorriful
      @itshorriful Год назад +28

      She is an amazing canvas on top of that :)

    • @faithjackson4737
      @faithjackson4737 Год назад +11

      @@brittanibee5509 yesss!!

  • @brownsugga2584
    @brownsugga2584 Год назад +244

    He flips the script and make her feel bad for wanting to be a mother that he's trying to rob her of smh. I really hope she leaves

    • @mrssamuel1332
      @mrssamuel1332 Год назад +22

      He don't mind her being an instant mom to his kids as soon as she got married she became a step mom and having to do all a mother do but he's trying to talk her out of having her own kids then trying to talk her out of having her own Business. He don't want her to have anything of her own just to be use to get what he wants while denying her everything she can have with someone else.

    • @captainlarrynosleepfishing5350
      @captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Год назад +18

      It’s all about him and what he wants! This is his 3rd wife and we all know why 😳

    • @rooksdb1
      @rooksdb1 Год назад

      He knew she wanted children before they got married. He promised her a family just so she would go along easier.
      He's a piece of sh*t. A gaslighted, a narcissist, and a horrible human being. He's a bad person with good habits.

    • @jordanjones5951
      @jordanjones5951 Год назад +1

      This sounds like a vasectomy

    • @AtimTimLives
      @AtimTimLives Год назад +3

      @@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Wait wait WAIT 3rd Wife? How did I miss this? O no honey, this man's used goods. You need to FLEE ! 🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 Год назад +175

    Bilal is so annoying I skip past them. He’s a narc. So emotionally abusive to her

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal Год назад +14

      Even seeing his face makes me nauseous. I too skip their parts.

    • @meowmom3296
      @meowmom3296 Год назад +3

      Me too! Fast forward.

    • @fatumaahmed4304
      @fatumaahmed4304 Год назад

      nah she is narc

    • @gee9342
      @gee9342 Год назад +1

      @@fatumaahmed4304 what makes her narc?

    • @dudinha_xoxo2267
      @dudinha_xoxo2267 7 месяцев назад

      ​@fatumaahmed4304 she is the sweetest, most genuine and mature woman to EVER be on this show. Bilal is a horrible husband.

  • @Cat-hz7yd
    @Cat-hz7yd Год назад +298

    Shaeeda needs to leave him. "Are you 100 in? What are you doing for me? Who said we're not having a baby? (clearly doesn't want to have a baby)." Girl GET OUT OF THERE. He doesn't value you!!

    • @sreyen1065
      @sreyen1065 Год назад +2

      Shaeeda and her husband is the boring couple of all..

    • @sydney31
      @sydney31 Год назад +8

      the gaslighting is so strong I can feel it from here!

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +2

      It's the way he said that about what was she doing for him, with those bucked eyes and little foot stomp that sent me lol. Shaeeda seems like a sweet, loving woman, but she needs to grow a backbone and clap back on his arrogant ass!

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga5936 Год назад +225

    I really felt sad for shahida it’s such a strong feeling to want to be a mom and it’s natural, she’s hurting

    • @malfan
      @malfan Год назад +10

      And sadly Bilal doesn't get it and is not even close to getting it.

    • @michellejade3272
      @michellejade3272 Год назад +6

      It’s just a story line. They have a RUclips channel and are still together with no baby bump.

    • @johannaliceaga5936
      @johannaliceaga5936 Год назад +3

      @@michellejade3272 ya I saw that but I’m sure she wants to be a mom, it’s a very really feeling, even if it might be exaggerated in the show

    • @calenajackson8772
      @calenajackson8772 Год назад +2

      She should’ve never married bilal

  • @MissDancingllama
    @MissDancingllama Год назад +592

    Kim is actually really likeable and you can tell she has a good heart. Jamal being as level headed as he is is a testiment to that. Her fatal flaw is USMAN and any of her business w him

  • @shannonumanzor9452
    @shannonumanzor9452 Год назад +65

    I don't watch the show anymore. I just come here! Thank you.

  • @rebeccalavoy6655
    @rebeccalavoy6655 Год назад +131

    THE HOST OF THIS SHOW 👍
    SHE HAS CLASS!
    SHE ALWAYS KEEPS IT REAL, IN A PROFESSIONAL MANNER.
    SHE DOESN'T BRING DRAMA.
    BUT, ADDS AN INTELLIGENT TOUCH TO THE SITUATION, INSTEAD.
    I THINK THAT THIS LADY IS UNDERRATED.
    SHE DESERVES RESPECT 👌

  • @127cherryblossom
    @127cherryblossom Год назад +162

    Bilal is really gaslighting the situation and he honestly has some unresolved trauma from previous relationships to come into play here.

    • @Nursegirlalexandra
      @Nursegirlalexandra Год назад +5

      @@ladywed2699he should flat out tell her that he doesn’t want a child. She shouldn’t have to read his mind. In a marriage you need to communicate what you really want. She’s obviously in denial and he needs to be honest. I believe that if he was more excited about having the baby she wouldn’t bother him as much about it.

  • @melissa772727
    @melissa772727 Год назад +208

    Jamal completely failed the mission once he saw the PS5😂🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @nkulingqola6192
      @nkulingqola6192 Год назад +18

      Right!😂😂

    • @jacquelinelorrain2344
      @jacquelinelorrain2344 Год назад +12

      So true !!! 😅🤣😂

    • @bluehalo8604
      @bluehalo8604 Год назад +23

      Chillllleeeeeeeeee. He fanboy'ed like un bebé. I couldn't believe it.

    • @zari2662
      @zari2662 Год назад +3

      @@bluehalo8604 🤣🤣🤣

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +16

      I'm honestly disappointed lol. I mean, I guess not being a video game fanatic I just don't see the appeal of such a gift. I thought he would've been insulted, getting a gift more appropriate for a teenager, but he acted as if he was caught up in the Rapture! 😆 I thought that Usman would have given him a traditional outfit from his culture as a way to welcome him to Nigeria and to possibly becoming part of the family. That would have been a more thoughtful gift for a man who is not much younger than him.

  • @Stefanie2530
    @Stefanie2530 Год назад +83

    I love Jamal. He's smart, has a good heart and obviously loves and wants the best for his mother. It certainly doesn't hurt that he's good looking as well! lol

    • @shahidahsurinamiya
      @shahidahsurinamiya Год назад

      The way he was looking at his mother when they were sitting with usman friends after playing was priceless. He adores his mum and cares deeply 4her. Kim u have raised an outstanding son and he is beautiful 2.

  • @kall_me_krazi
    @kall_me_krazi Год назад +75

    Melicia said it best, CHILDREN ARE NOT PAWNS. He’s a human being. Wtf is wrong with people?!

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +3

      Usman is off the wall lol! I'm trying to work out in my mind how he even thought that was a logical idea! His nephew is not a piece of furniture that can be handed over without consequence and there's no reason for him not to be raised by his parents who seem to be loving, stable people. I could see if he was somehow in danger or if his brother and SIL were unable to care for him due to illness or financial hardship, but that clearly isn't the case. Usman is just unreal and Kim is so delusional it's headache inducing (and I do like her but she has no sense when it comes to men).

    • @sherriebumbray1748
      @sherriebumbray1748 Год назад

      @@DarlingNikki2 People do this all of the time to "give their children a better life ". Usman is hustling Kim. He's going to bring as many family members to America as her can...on Kim's dime.

  • @VHEmpress
    @VHEmpress Год назад +100

    Jamal, we all threw up in our mouths!

  • @Marionsky1
    @Marionsky1 Год назад +63

    The very first thing Kimberly should have asked is, “ Have you spoken to your brother about this and what did he and his wife say about this so called adoption idea?” Instead she flies over there without any questions? Wtf?

  • @mayeleydis7
    @mayeleydis7 Год назад +199

    I want Jamal to call him out because I don’t think Usman is 100 % in love with Kim. He cares about himself not about Jamal or Kim. Run Kim run

  • @fballay1797
    @fballay1797 Год назад +111

    I love Melicia 🙏 i like how she reads people and situations. She makes the show so enjoyable and respectful of each and every one and non-judgmental. She is perfect 😌🙌🏻

    • @SecretWars98
      @SecretWars98 Год назад +5

      She’s a queen fr

    • @stephaniehenry5617
      @stephaniehenry5617 Год назад +4

      She's so good. I don't even eat watch the show. Her commentary got me. It's entertaining and on point.

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +3

      I wish she would do the tell alls!

  • @britneybrinks
    @britneybrinks Год назад +131

    Usman doesn't deserve Kim. And I wish Kim would choose herself

    • @alysskennedy8661
      @alysskennedy8661 Год назад +6

      Usman is definitely shady. He’s trying to steal his brothers son to raise as his own. All for a green card! Both are messed up.

    • @keandrad8068
      @keandrad8068 Год назад +5

      @@alysskennedy8661 no they will bring the boy first then send for the rest of his family once usman gets settled and divorces kimbaly

    • @lornawilson4331
      @lornawilson4331 Год назад

      Amen to that! I pray that Kim wakes up before she gets hurt even more!!

    • @emmanuelakerele
      @emmanuelakerele Год назад +1

      Why doesn’t he deserve her? I feel like you guys just naturally hate him

  • @tezsgino
    @tezsgino Год назад +221

    Bilal is straight bile. He is a text book classic example of everything wrong in a relationship.

  • @SekeenaJohnson
    @SekeenaJohnson Год назад +102

    She should have went to the doctor before signing the prenup.

    • @briannaje5419
      @briannaje5419 Год назад +18

      SAY THAT AGAIN !!

    • @peacenosa-omorogiuwa5057
      @peacenosa-omorogiuwa5057 Год назад +7

      So true, this is a conversation they should have had when dating. Basic conversation, then signing a prenup without agreeing about that is a recipe for disaster

    • @vellabella1
      @vellabella1 Год назад +7

      Shaeeda is not the sharpest tool

    • @lauren4078
      @lauren4078 Год назад +17

      @@vellabella1 I think she desperately wishes Bilal were a different type of man. But she will be forever disappointed. He is NOT a good person. He will never give her a child, and he will never validate her feelings. He is in total control.

    • @lydiapicano8806
      @lydiapicano8806 Год назад +8

      Yes, but if you have to have a prenup to have a child that's a problem.

  • @acclemaali8530
    @acclemaali8530 Год назад +40

    Oh please. Usman never greeted Kim like that. He needs an Oscar!!!!

    • @Spookielove
      @Spookielove Год назад +4

      🏆

    • @sreyen1065
      @sreyen1065 Год назад +5

      Usman just wanted to show off her son.. he's fake

  • @DZJ0595
    @DZJ0595 Год назад +429

    LMAOOOO let me get this straight, Usman’s plan is to adopt his big brother’s son by FORCE. Yeah…the 2nd wife is better a plan 🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @debbie4555
      @debbie4555 Год назад +15

      She will have to pay for him to come to usa too. So no way does she have enough money to sponsor both of them

    • @우사민-r3c
      @우사민-r3c Год назад +20

      The problem is that polygamy is illegal in the US and they can't get married if Usman has a second wife. Adopting his brother's baby is kinda crazy too.

    • @malaika2863
      @malaika2863 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @rosemwewa3059
      @rosemwewa3059 Год назад +1

      Word😂😂🤝

    • @DZJ0595
      @DZJ0595 Год назад +9

      @@우사민-r3c do you mean in certain States? Cause I swear TLC’s sister wives is based in the US.

  • @naomiolutayo
    @naomiolutayo Год назад +141

    I can't imagine my sibling asking for my baby unprovoked just to follow up with reassurance that I shouldn't worry because they'll take care of him 100% 💀

    • @noonie2560
      @noonie2560 Год назад +5

      Right that’s crazy the absolutely audacity

    • @zipinha
      @zipinha Год назад +8

      It's unbelievable and ridiculous. This Usman guy is sick

    • @ninamatthews8747
      @ninamatthews8747 Год назад +4

      Literally taking him to the other side of the world, what the actual FLUCK!!

    • @meatball5560
      @meatball5560 Год назад +6

      Well in nigeria it’s actually normal and it’s for better opportunities, I lived with my aunt for a while I still called my parents and they knew I was safe it’s not that serious imo.

    • @nkulingqola6192
      @nkulingqola6192 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂

  • @strawberrymilk1221
    @strawberrymilk1221 Год назад +29

    I was having a bad day but my day did get better watching you melicia, it always feels like I’m talking to a friend about all this 90 day drama. ❤

  • @nellybarrett7
    @nellybarrett7 Год назад +67

    It’s sad that Jamal has seen his mother hurt so much ugh I wish kim would make better choices for the sake of her son

  • @sulvanaalbeladi3913
    @sulvanaalbeladi3913 Год назад +547

    “Whoever said we are not having a child?”
    Wears a condom every time and shifts the blame on her.
    Classic narcissist move. They are masters at wasting people’s time.

    • @niax782
      @niax782 Год назад +42

      IKR! He is SO triggering 😒🤮

    • @britneyh8679
      @britneyh8679 Год назад +38

      Shaeeda could regret this for the rest of her life . She needs to listen to her friend .

    • @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect
      @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect Год назад +15

      Let's not keep labeling everyone a narcissist. Bilal is scared and not ready but his inability to be straight forward about it doesn't make him a narcissist. Throwing that label around so willy nilly just down plays how dangerous a true narcissist is those they come in contact with and themselves.

    • @keyanddracaryskillua6187
      @keyanddracaryskillua6187 Год назад

      @@yesimsureienteredmynamecorrecti agree ppl should stop labeling ppl with terms you can't do unless qualified and tested but he is not scared. He is gaslighting her. He is also controlling. Now, has he shown some of the psychological characteristics that are common in narcissistic ppl, yes? But, I can't stand that if ppl see someone on tv they label them as a Narcissist, psychopath, or sociopath. It's becoming the go-to phrase and anyone in the field understands it can't be diagnosed this way. But, I for sure wouldn't be shocked if a professional diagnosed him .He definitely has the tendencies of one.

    • @zeeyassin7313
      @zeeyassin7313 Год назад +4

      😢 the truth is always bitter

  • @stephn292
    @stephn292 Год назад +21

    Melicia, please do more commentaries!! You are the ABSOLUTE best. I love when I see a new 90 day fiancé commentary in my feed.

  • @keyanddracaryskillua6187
    @keyanddracaryskillua6187 Год назад +37

    We stan you melicia, great host, attitude, and beautiful.

  • @Mojosfire
    @Mojosfire Год назад +40

    Funny, first time I really seen Usman give so much affection to Kim in public. A PS-5 re gift, how thoughtful! 😂😂

  • @QweenKoopa-
    @QweenKoopa- Год назад +60

    She married him, and wants to have his baby asap…but she’s not 100% in? Bilal is RIDICULOUS 😑 I could neverrr 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @rachelharlan3740
    @rachelharlan3740 Год назад +322

    Bilal is a Narcissist. Period. He wants Shai to tolerate him, so he in return can punish her for something she didn’t create. He is not a good person and knows that, but wants her to tolerate him in order to have some form of this false sense of love and control.Shai needs to get a spine and see that he’s never going to give her what she wants. He will gaslight her into thinking he’s doing all he can and deflect when she spots he’s not following the plan. The fact he can’t see that she gave up her life for him is already a red flag. It’s always about him and it always will be. He will never be happy because he’s not happy with himself. Trust me..I’ve been there. If she can see through this; there is nothing she won’t get through. This can teach her to put herself first finally ❤
    Like if you really listen to Bilal…he tells on himself.

    • @FORTHEBY_BY
      @FORTHEBY_BY Год назад +16

      I believe your right. I also have experience with a narcissist. It’s ALL about Bilal.

    • @rachelharlan3740
      @rachelharlan3740 Год назад +4

      @@FORTHEBY_BY ❤

    • @Tiffany-te3hg
      @Tiffany-te3hg Год назад +10

      THIS! It makes me so mad watching their segment. I had to turn it off

    • @Patricia-pq5hx
      @Patricia-pq5hx Год назад

      I also think he is a narcisist. But i think that shaeeda has also a personalty disorder. She acts always that she is a victim, but she puts him down all the time in front of other people. I don't think she loves him, she only want things. Thats not normal to expect that another gives you everything you want. And getting a child by force is not good for a child. She is so manipulative. Who else let a friend talk to your man like that? She can speak for herself, bur she is a victim....what she is not. She was not forced to marry him or to stay with him. But she wants status (money) and a child. I dont like bilal but he is loyal...which man should stay with a woman who always want something from you even to force you to have a child when he wants to know her better. He is more responsable then she is. He knows what it does for a child if parents divorce.

    • @oromtitiwbo5078
      @oromtitiwbo5078 Год назад +13

      I stopped watching Bilal and Shaeeda from the beginning i felt sick to my stomach almost threw up watching his Narc abuse. then she publically came out to defend him. her family should help her get out before he turns her into a shell of a woman. all that pride and he is simply an average middle class man. even if he was a millionaire his behaviour wouldn't be tolerable. she needs to get some self respect because any good Muslim husband will provide for her, help her start a business, have kids, love her and never complain. this is an abuser not a husband or a man.

  • @Lahteehdah
    @Lahteehdah Год назад +26

    Hi Melecia! You bring such a refreshing, down to earth commentary on this show. Loved you since the first video i saw you cover! Everytime im screaming at the screen you address it but in a much classier way than i would have at the moment🥺 Have you ever thought of being a host on one of these shows for like a tell all etc?

  • @wasyalhassan3627
    @wasyalhassan3627 Год назад +33

    “ Wow, those play stations turn grown men into the happiest of kids” 😂😂😂😂 love that girl !

  • @angelinamarie8606
    @angelinamarie8606 Год назад +50

    Jamal better call him out! I cant wait!

  • @marieh1755
    @marieh1755 Год назад +20

    Jamal’s so freaking cute in and out ! He’s got such a gentleman vibe ! Ugh he would drive me crazy in a good way 😉❤️

  • @floflo8153
    @floflo8153 Год назад +50

    Waiting 9 months for an ANSWER??? With her diagnosis? Wtf Shaeda.

  • @heatherperry1052
    @heatherperry1052 Год назад +15

    Poor Jamal. He really loves his mom

  • @paunchybeam8460
    @paunchybeam8460 Год назад +43

    Usman is putting on a show as soon as Kim lands because since when does he show her that much affection in public? Also it’s funny that jamal is getting more respect & love by all the guys unlike when it comes to kim 😂

  • @MamiTT237
    @MamiTT237 Год назад +53

    I have to really wonder what Usman did to Zara because it was clear he had feelings for her and it didn’t seem like she was having any of his BS! It is clear Usman is a liar and she is beautiful and he seemed to miss her so I wonder what he did to make her run!

  • @Terri-nx7rk
    @Terri-nx7rk Год назад +51

    so glad to see Shyda take up for herself

  • @Haileymum254
    @Haileymum254 Год назад +33

    Bilal is gaslighting! It's all about him. Shaeda was having a serious conversation and he knows she desperately wants a baby but this narcissistic made everything about himself 🤦‍♀️

  • @yanelajames9101
    @yanelajames9101 Год назад +108

    I wonder when women will stop letting desperation push them to give men like Bilal chances. Men who are scared of the vulnerability and openness marriage brings should be left alone. They’ve evaluated their situation and decided what’s best for them, you do the same. Imagine the life and future their future child will have, a child that the father really didn’t want. Children know when they were not really wanted.

    • @lauren4078
      @lauren4078 Год назад +5

      The thing with men like Bilal is that he is a NARCISSIST, which can be very difficult to spot until you're already totally enamored or in love with that person. Narcissists are highly manipulative and toxic people. They are a danger to one's mental and emotional well-being. I pray Shai figures it out before he wreaks more mental and emotional destruction on her.

    • @lovenosa1105
      @lovenosa1105 Год назад +5

      @@lauren4078 I get what you are saying about narcissiscism but this Bilal guy does not come across as charming or anything, he doesn’t even seem happy when he is with her so I wonder what’s enamoring her to him besides the fact that she is desperate. Even when he says sweet things, his eyes and facial expressions are dead so I don’t think there’s much charm here.

  • @7hhxi
    @7hhxi Год назад +141

    He regifted Kim’s gift 😂😂😂

  • @cmiller415
    @cmiller415 Год назад +31

    If my husband EVER said “what have you done for me?” He could consider the divorce papers signed. BUT at the same time, “forgetting” to take your birth control pill is a serious trust violation and might even be worse than your partner saying “what have you done for me”.

    • @JustMe-ug3mk
      @JustMe-ug3mk Год назад

      He still uses condoms with his wife...says a lot about what he thinks of her!

    • @Itsbritt_22
      @Itsbritt_22 Год назад

      I hear but the thing is she is not on birth control. Billa is using condoms. I agree and clocked in 90 days fiancé that he does not want a child

    • @amandaj3182
      @amandaj3182 Год назад +4

      I think using protection with your wife is worse than that and only doing so because you don’t want a baby and don’t have the backbone to say that

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +2

      @@amandaj3182 I just don't get Bilal. It's like he has multiple personalities or something and none of them are good lol. He's like, "Who said we're not having a baby?" in one breath and then in the other, "I need to go to Sam's Club, they're having a sale on 160-count Trojans. You want the ones that glow in the dark again?" 🤣

  • @genevievemcgee5829
    @genevievemcgee5829 Год назад +37

    I'm 1000% sure . Kim got that gift for her son 🤣🤣

    • @sreyen1065
      @sreyen1065 Год назад +7

      Yep.. I agree.. usman doesn't have that kind of money.. it's from Kim

    • @genevievemcgee5829
      @genevievemcgee5829 Год назад +2

      @@sreyen1065 🤣🤣🤣 her face ,say it all!!!!

    • @l.g.72
      @l.g.72 Год назад

      I AGREE 1,000%🤣🤣🤣🤣🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @Trxppy.hippies
    @Trxppy.hippies Год назад +8

    “What have you done for me?” Was such a slap in the face…

  • @liliya3920
    @liliya3920 Год назад +61

    “Way to ruin a moment”
    Anytime any person (women) tries to speak from their heart and communicate their needs and desires.. that’s how the other shuts them down. OPEN YOUR EYES B!! She wants to be a MOTHER. This isn’t about you!

    • @StorieswithT
      @StorieswithT Год назад +5

      Oh he knooows, he’s just an awful despicable person who enjoys inflicting pain on others and I am baffled how Shai is so smart and educated and doesn’t see through it

    • @mrssamuel1332
      @mrssamuel1332 Год назад +2

      He only wants her to mother his kids and he knows she will never be call mother except she have her own kids. That honour can only be given to her if she has her own children in that type of family setting.

  • @Dylan_Wee
    @Dylan_Wee Год назад +61

    Jamal: "I will see right through that"
    5 minutes later
    Jamal: "No way! A PS5!"

  • @lydiapicano8806
    @lydiapicano8806 Год назад +30

    Mahadi is so cute, please don't let Usman and Kim take him away!

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Год назад +19

    Lol well I hope he did a factory reset on the PS5 before re- gifting it🤣🤣💀

  • @chantellepiper8476
    @chantellepiper8476 Год назад +8

    I'm a Nigerian living in Nigeria and I have not heard of this normal tradition to "adopt/steal" a child from your siblings.

  • @marielle3548
    @marielle3548 Год назад +18

    He is gaslighting as usual….and it’s HIS way or the highway.
    Happy she stood up for herself,she deserves so much better.

  • @chris-rq7dw
    @chris-rq7dw Год назад +30

    Im so excited for Jamal to put some order to this mess as much as it shouldnt have to be his responsability

  • @marieantoinette1091
    @marieantoinette1091 Год назад +38

    “Let’s not allow that to distract us “
    Me: JAMAL IS SO FINE!!!!!😂😂😂

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 Год назад +1

      He has a funny look, his light skin is making him seem more attractive than he is. He looks exactly like Kim.

    • @masalamouth
      @masalamouth Год назад +8

      @@ariamason9324 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Kim is not an ugly woman!

    • @davidthebest1997
      @davidthebest1997 Год назад +3

      he is really handsome

  • @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328
    @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328 Год назад +31

    Jamal is fine, but *funny* too! lol He said, "I think I threw up in my mouth."

  • @RjeanUrah
    @RjeanUrah Год назад +20

    3:32 "It's almost like youre giving me an ultimatum" 😒... He catches on fast, what a genius 🤦‍♀️

  • @tinam761
    @tinam761 Год назад +132

    Bilal STOP 🛑 blaming her for EVERYTHING!!! You are ludicrous!!!! Abusive!!!! You keep showing who you are and you should have shame… but because of who you are you don’t and you blame others.
    Bilal is 💯 deceitful.

    • @JasmineWright2
      @JasmineWright2 Год назад +10

      Bilal reminds me so much of my ex-husband; my stomach literally twists when he’s talking. To Shi or anyone else out there in similar circumstances, please believe me when I say that it only gets more insidious over time.

    • @captainlarrynosleepfishing5350
      @captainlarrynosleepfishing5350 Год назад

      He is trash 🚮.

    • @patremagilbert8787
      @patremagilbert8787 Год назад +4

      Agree

  • @beautifulba_kmay5369
    @beautifulba_kmay5369 Год назад +12

    Did you see Bilal’s face when she said, “for now” about being his favorite human? That’s his issue, he can’t handle NOT being number one.

  • @sibelmakeup9358
    @sibelmakeup9358 Год назад +103

    Imagine he re-gifted kimbaaaley’s gift that she got Usman😂

  • @fatoumatacamara3769
    @fatoumatacamara3769 Год назад +11

    This always makes me feel better Thank you Melicia💜💜

  • @bellealsuwaidi8146
    @bellealsuwaidi8146 Год назад +8

    Hi Melicia❤️I always love seeing you and listening to your sincere and wise comment to all the events in this program🙏🏻I am fan🌹keep up the good work❤️

  • @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect
    @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect Год назад +32

    Kim is a nut but it is nice to witness a parent not only love but respect their child. You can tell from how he communicates that he was raised in a home where he could respectfully express his feelings. It's plenty of adult children who still bite their tongues or just agree to keep the peace when it comes to dealing with their parents.

    • @naomiolutayo
      @naomiolutayo Год назад +5

      Or he grew up being like a big brother to his mom.

    • @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect
      @yesimsureienteredmynamecorrect Год назад +2

      @@beatlesfan491 I wrote that before Jamal started talking and immediately regretted my words. Now I feel bad for him all over again. She must have introduced him to every man she got involved with meaning he was forced to endure every break up with her. Kim originally told us she was married to Jamal's dad for 20 years and it scarred her until now. I'mma need Kim to explain her timeline. She also married an inmate like 20 years ago.

  • @BLUEORCHID67
    @BLUEORCHID67 Год назад +151

    I wonder if Kim would allow her son to date 50 year old woman ? Then watch him kiss in front of her 😂

    • @paulinamcintosh4472
      @paulinamcintosh4472 Год назад +12

      I heard that he’s allegedly dating Veronica (Tim’s ex) from 90 DF

    • @우사민-r3c
      @우사민-r3c Год назад +8

      @@paulinamcintosh4472
      Ewww...really? I thought he was a smart guy...not anymore.

    • @kelly-tg9mq
      @kelly-tg9mq Год назад +2

      @user-ms3jz7ub7n why euwww she is atrative

    • @liverpoollass9915
      @liverpoollass9915 Год назад +2

      Hrs actually dating Veronica who is 10 years older

    • @DaniCCox
      @DaniCCox Год назад +5

      He is dating an older chick. Veronica Tim's ex

  • @reyprzz
    @reyprzz Год назад +21

    Mahadi is the cutest little boy ever omg

    • @eritrea5134
      @eritrea5134 Год назад +3

      Mahadi look exact like usman

  • @Jettiedoes
    @Jettiedoes Год назад +7

    I can’t help but see Kim’s face when I see Jamal. He’s the biracial version of his mom.

  • @AprilT72
    @AprilT72 Год назад +47

    How is Usman going to adopt his brother's son without him knowing 🤔 I cannot imagine my brother coming to me with the BS.

    • @Marie2b202
      @Marie2b202 Год назад +3

      I think this is only for show 😂

  • @sfernando6352
    @sfernando6352 Год назад +31

    Anyone else find it funny that Shaheeda is talking to her friend Eutrice (sounds like Uterus) about birth control?!

  • @sophies6957
    @sophies6957 Год назад +16

    Usman LOOKS a lot "Happier" with Jamal present. HE'S DEFINITELY TRYING TO FAKE THE LOVE IS REAL🤭

  • @xosbabymama4703
    @xosbabymama4703 Год назад +79

    he looks so uncomfortable lmaoooo

    • @BLUEORCHID67
      @BLUEORCHID67 Год назад +8

      Usman trying to smuggle his brothers child 😂

  • @mrsV420
    @mrsV420 Год назад +3

    When your son says “I’ve seen my mum get screwed over by so many men” it’s over dude 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @dolcesweet5173
    @dolcesweet5173 Год назад +48

    oh goodness. Would Shaida just get a donor or better yet find.a new husband. Giving Biilal nine months is beyond leniant at her age. Including the time it takes to actually conceive she should be starting sooner than later. Billal is wasting her time.

    • @alysskennedy8661
      @alysskennedy8661 Год назад +3

      He’s stalling.

    • @endoraismygma
      @endoraismygma Год назад +2

      I thought the same thing. 9 months is too lenient. I really can't understand how she even married him in the first place. They want completely different things and she was successful in her country. He's not worth it.

    • @JustMe-ug3mk
      @JustMe-ug3mk Год назад

      Why can't she just freeze her eggs...I don't get it 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Год назад +8

    Melcia looking beautiful as always great recaps we miss you bestie good to see you back😊❤.

  • @franciscobonilla9779
    @franciscobonilla9779 Год назад +17

    melicia you just give me the bestest vibes love you mom

  • @Thealgorithm-k4x
    @Thealgorithm-k4x Год назад +16

    Sometimes its hard to believe Jamal is even Kims son. And Madhadi is sooo cute. Look at him and his dad dressed alike. They are not giving uo their baby lol. Usman is acting lol.

  • @local.sagittarius
    @local.sagittarius Год назад +44

    eutris reaction to shaeeda saying bilal uses condoms is sooooo funny😭😭😂

  • @CryMeARiver13
    @CryMeARiver13 Год назад +24

    Many countries I been to in Africa (mostly East Africa) their adoption is different from US or Canada. Families raise and educate their nieces and nephews all the time without going through any legal process, so, they can help their parents/family later on as well. Children equals assets in some cultures. Anyway I hope Usman does his research before he separate that poor child from his loving parents. There is a big difference between raising your nephew and legally adopting him.

    • @peacenosa-omorogiuwa5057
      @peacenosa-omorogiuwa5057 Год назад +4

      In situations where I have seen this happen, it is a decision both parents and families agree on. It's usually when a family is not financially stable and a rich relative offers to help. And the kids still have relationships with their birth families. This one seems like Usman is forcing it on them

    • @CryMeARiver13
      @CryMeARiver13 Год назад +3

      @@peacenosa-omorogiuwa5057 that’s what I was trying to say……you are absolutely right.
      Usman is full of himself and I hope he doesn’t manipulate them

    • @xstine3055
      @xstine3055 Год назад +2

      Very true I've raised my niece and I am in France as her parent and she has full communication with her parents. So myself I dont see any problem Usman doing it. It's so cute of him n Kim. That child will have the best life and will one day appreciate. Usman can still get a woman pregnant on the side🤣😅🤣🤣🤣 just he got to be very smart as an African man.

    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 Год назад

      Very true , I'm from ethiopia , people ALWAYS RAISE THIER RELATIVES

  • @lilvic812
    @lilvic812 Год назад +14

    The gift was all kims idea big time... I really doubt Usman would spend a lot of money on anyone.🤨

  • @75dbest
    @75dbest Год назад +12

    Kim wants her son and Usman to “bond” YET she has traveled to see him SEVERAL times, bought his family a cow(or whatever animal it was), said he can have another wife, AND proposed to him; NOW you want to bring your son in on these shenanigans

  • @sukanyadasgupta3678
    @sukanyadasgupta3678 Год назад +9

    Jamal is so sensible and good-looking 🤩

  • @djidjine5082
    @djidjine5082 Год назад +34

    Eutrice reaction when Shaeda told her Bilal is using a condom is HILARIOUS. Reminds me of the scene in “Get Out” when the black girl was shaking her head no 😂😂 7:53

    • @ariamason9324
      @ariamason9324 Год назад +7

      She's a loony toon. She advised her friend to stop taking birth control to trick Bilal.

    • @sexychicooh
      @sexychicooh Год назад +4

      That scene was hilarious 😂😂😂

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +1

      OMG, her reaction made me scream! 😆

  • @ninakousha1741
    @ninakousha1741 Год назад +24

    I died when Jamal said he and soljaboy had potential 😭

  • @alismoran777
    @alismoran777 Год назад +15

    I just think Shae is going about it the wrong way. She should be focusing on strengthening their relationship so that he would naturally want to have a child maybe even sooner than later. She’s giving red flags by being so pushy and he is not someone that is new to this so of course he going to be weary. I think it’s wrong that people don’t acknowledge how he must feel when they’re having a moment like when they literally touched down to NY and she brings up the subject again and again. I also think that her pressuring him would only turn into resentment. And that promotes a broken home. I think she needs to take his mom’s advice more. Had she gone about things differently she might’ve had different results.
    I hope Usman didn’t regift his PS5 but maybe 😅

  • @christinthemystic
    @christinthemystic Год назад +14

    The look on the baby's face 👀😂

  • @smhatheworldwelivein
    @smhatheworldwelivein Год назад +9

    That is so abusive.... for him to say some smart a** sh*t like that while she's crying

  • @annamariachristopoulos4263
    @annamariachristopoulos4263 Год назад +51

    How in the name of miracles, did Kimbaaaaly make such a cute son?????

  • @briannaje5419
    @briannaje5419 Год назад +10

    You mean to tell me.. usman wants to adopt a child who’s parents has never even spoken of allowing someone to adopting his son… he wants his brother to just sign his son over, take him to another country and raise him???

  • @darksaiyan4
    @darksaiyan4 Год назад +10

    I am in love with melicias entire look

  • @MistressGlowWorm
    @MistressGlowWorm Год назад +9

    Fascinating, Jamal is the parent and Kim is the child.

  • @naomi5978
    @naomi5978 Год назад +31

    Usman is the one who said he can't kiss Kim in public, it's against his religion. But since Jamal is there Usman goes against his religion to impress Kim's son.

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 Год назад +10

      Usman cherry picks his religion, like way too many people do. I mean, he slept with Visa, er Lisa lol, before they were married, but of course not in his mother's house because, you know, it's not appropriate. 🙄

    • @mildredmilboima9323
      @mildredmilboima9323 Год назад

      Now, they have his mom blessings and engaged 💍

  • @tamxsimunovic
    @tamxsimunovic Год назад +3

    Miss Melicia looking gorgeous! She is GLOWING

  • @kingjmansa7027
    @kingjmansa7027 Год назад +3

    "I think heard him stomp his foot out" 😭😭😭😭 Melicia is GOLD!!! The small details not many catch lol

  • @britneybrinks
    @britneybrinks Год назад +16

    Honestly I don’t even know how immigration allows these kind of things to proceed.

    • @Womanist
      @Womanist Год назад

      Si vous êtes casé,ce n'est pas le cas de tout le monde !!!

  • @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328
    @jilltheprivateinvestigator3328 Год назад +5

    Oh geez, did he regift that? It looks like that box had been open at one time. lol

  • @bentuemayfield8752
    @bentuemayfield8752 Год назад +12

    Melicia is so pretty 😍

  • @rachelbare4198
    @rachelbare4198 Год назад +7

    Jamal is a vibe 😅

  • @rhyndawatson4173
    @rhyndawatson4173 Год назад +8

    Leave now and find someone who will value you and wants a family, he is living in his past relationship and does not want kids, stop wasting your time

  • @aloneispeace
    @aloneispeace Год назад +6

    Usman uses EVERYONE as a pawn