Her attitude was snobbish.. but he lost it with the open relationship.. to tell someone that you’re going to be with them until someone better comes along.. that’s a waste of time.. and like she said heartbreaking..
T. N. L. I agree she does have standards.. but she didn’t have to be snobby about it.. we all have standards but that don’t mean turn your nose up at people because they don’t met your requirements
@@lenoretalon9958 Well...just because he's into open relationships doesn't necessarily mean he's not loyal. In a healthy open relationship everyone involved is on the same page. The rules are different, but there are rules. I see disloyalty as someone who breaks the rules, whatever they are.
@@TikaRoxanne To add to what you said it's rubbish to anyone with common sense. "Open relationships" is just an excuse for people who can't keep their pants on when their partner is around. There's a reason those "relationship" crumble extremely fast. They're jokes.
Abby Guerrin I was with you until he said he gets bored easily and always looking for something better while dating someone, or simply still looking while dating. It looks like monogamy will be an issue
I said that the minute she said she will not cook, he was shook😂😂😂😂Caribbean men will always want their women to cook for them that's why they're mommas boys
truly beatbluetiful true if only he wasn’t feeling the moment he would concentrate more on the questions 😢 He seems a cool guy except the open relationship part that is a NO NO NO
She seemed very rigid and stalwart in what she believed, almost like wanting to be too in charge of things. That’s not a bad thing at all. She just needs to find someone who resonates with that. The guy was rather chill and carefree.
WORD! The only thing I have against the guy is the open relationship thing.I don't see that working out very well in the long run; had they been younger in their early 20s it's understandable why they'd want that. This alone is enough to not wanna date someone. Far too many red flags with the girl to count. But there's someone out there for her. Just not him. Glad they were honest with each other, its the only thing they shared.
Emerald Haynes There was chemistry in the beginning and the girl confirmed it, it turned south when she realized he was a construction worker and when he thought she was a waitress. She was attracted in the beginning, even saying she preferred a man with a beard. She needs someone educated with some swag. But yeah you’re right, that was the beginning
And I woulda been like goodbye, bruh. People are mad that she doesn't want struggle love. That she worked hard to not be a waitress or maid, both honorable but stereotypical "women" professions. Beautiful professional (Black, especially) women are tired of being told they look like "waitresses" or the infamous one, "dancers". You could be in a suit or a $3000 dress, and it doesn't change. What does a doctor or professor look like? These stereotypes get annoying. You have to prove yourself all the time and fight to be taking seriously, and yes, it's bothersome if you're a professor in your lab and people think you're a lost cheerleader in the wrong room. It's bothersome if you're a doctor in full doctor garb, and people think you're the patient transporter or the nurse assistant. Constantly. Daily. I would ask the same thing she asked, "why do I look like a waitress."? Even if you're a janitor, wouldn't you get upset if someone said you looked like one? Give the girl a damn break
Wouldn't cook, wouldn't work hard. Will make most decisions. Will snap at all times. The only relationship she's ever gonna get into with that attitude is an open one. The only guy who would want to settle with someone like that is one who knows he can escape. This isnt "knowing what you want". This is "wanting everything because you think you're a gift to the world".
Notice I said that maybe she's "tired," i.e. that she's faced such stereotypes on an ongoing basis and may have (rightly or wrongly) assumed that's where he was coming from. Plus, nobody would ever *say* I assumed you were X because of your race etc. It would always be dressed up in polite language. Stereotyping is a thing, and anyone who thinks we don't *all* do it is dishonest.
Did y'all see her facial expression when he said construction worker? that said it all, like sweetie calm down you're a manager! acting like you're a millionaire or something. 😂 😂
I really don't like her at all. I could tell that her perception of him changed as soon as he said he was a construction worker. And how she got offended because he called her a waitress. How the hell was he supposed to know what job you had? It's called guessing. She gives me this judgemental vibe and it's highly immature. She forgets where she comes from and wants to be someone she's not. She just needs grow up before she goes around looking for a partner or she's going to be disappointed and lonely. Being snobby is not cute.
Idk where you get independent when she expects more from him and on top of that is more worried about what her family thinks. Doesn't come off as independent to me
Having standards is fine, but being classist is not. Though she tried to seem not so, she definitely has a condescending (almost snobbish) tone towards low income workers and that shouldn't be excused because of her standards. Highly doubt she started her career as a manager, most people start off with low jobs such as being a waitress/construction worker before becoming a manager, so she needs to calm down.
HoneyHo and he was homeless as kid. He came a far way from where he used to be, he seems chill, her on the other hand... I don’t like to call any women gold diggers but... let’s be honest.
@@jamesnuallan3437 Hoow can she be considered a gold digger, do you know what that is. The girl is a manager at 25 on her career path, not a sugar baby?
Shaya Kells to add on to your comment: construction workers make a lot of money if they’re part of a good union/company! It seemed like she was assuming he didn’t have money because of his profession. Smh. Idk just what I got from it.
Her attitude is really not good and she comes off as a snob, but I understood it once she talked about her family. You can be strong and know what you want without being rude and demanding more than you're willing to give. 60/40 of you making most of the decisions, demanding him to cook and then expecting that he makes more than you is a reach tbh. And he needs to realise that an open relationship is a BIG NO NO. He's 32 and should know better. This would never work out. I think she's gorgeous and I liked how focused she seems when it comes to work. I hope she changes some things. And for some reason I see her with a white European man than a black man!
Ajshdh Dhfhdh There's open relationships, polyamory, polyandry, polygamy, and probably many more that I'm not aware of! I just don't see the problem with people doing what makes them happy, but our society looks down on anything that's not monogamy so often!
Trance #1fan Is it because black people aren’t your preference or is it because they’re black, it’s not like it’s a bad thing I’m personally not attracted to white people as much as I am to black
I'm already put-off by the fact that she was offended that he thought she was a waitress. If she was a waitress and he thought she was a manager, she wouldn't have been offended. Classist much?
She's just annoying... like you couldn't be a waitress whilst in uni studing to be a doctor or some other form of prestige career.. she seems like the type to only go for a made man and not the type to build with a man till he/they both make it.. cudos to her tho, be vocal about what you want and you might just get it eventho it could turn out to be what you don't need
twistedblktrekie - that's really classist. Not everyone can be doctors and lawyers. When I was waitressing i made better money than I am now, I just can't waitress anymore for health reasons.
I don't think he knows what an open relationship is. If you're in an open relationship, it's about having trust and commitment. It sounds like he cheated in the past, and he says he want to be in an open relationship so he doesn't cheat on his partner.
Yeah, and she really clocked him when she stopped him and described boredom in relationships, because that is exactly what happened. He got bored when he should have worked harder. He hasn't matured at all from his mistake.
People in the comments are giving her such a hard time, but honestly, I don't blame her reaction to the whole open relationship thing. I'd feel the same way.
+ Tamarama I agree. I thought she was obnoxious and he was a good guy, until he started in with wanting an open relationship and she gave imo the perfect answer. In the end, I wouldn't introduce either of them to my single friends.They're both very attractive people, but after his "open relationship" speech, I've got problems with him... and I already had problems with her (she comes off as too arrogant).
Wtf? The lady made me mad lmao 😂 “maybe most men have that type of mind” get out are u serious? She stereotyped just as much as he did! Although I disagreed with him, she had issues herself.
Miss Gunst you're bad. I see where she is coming from with the open relationship aspect and I understand his point as well but I would side with her on this one. That person should be enough and not out there being insecured and worried if they're the one. Relationships. Smh.
If she's saying it's gonna be 60/40 before the relationship starts that's a red flag man. A month into the relationship it's gonna be 100/0 guaranteed.
People who feel the need to establish "power" in relationships and distribute it by percentages (which can obviously never be assigned or upheld accurately) are the epitome of red flags.
Whether you acknowledge it or not, there's always a power struggle in every relationship. Since I believe that, I wouldn't want to be the one with lesser power either.
+D_Moye There's nothing wrong with her knowing her worth but that doesn't excuse what she said. The combination of her wanting a man that cooks for her and makes more money than her, which means working more hours (depending on the job) while she makes the majority of the decisions in the relationship is a huge red flag.
Cynt 2SayIt, I could not have said it better. In another life I would just copy and paste whatever you said on every comment calling her rude and stuck up
It's one thing being in committed polyamorous relationships but 'open relationships' aren't just excuses to look for someone 'better'/cheat. They take as much commitment & involve boundaries just like monogamous relationships. I'm not polyamorous myself but know people who are.
Defensive against being cheated on = narrow minded. These basic hussies are really out here exposing themselves in the comment section!! 😂😂 Have fun being cheated on sis, enjoy~
I like the fact that she wants something real and wont stand for "open relationships", but there's something about her attitude that's very off-putting. Like she's has a tit-for-tat type of vibe about her. Plus, she seems defensive.
nah, he's not about open relationships ...he mentioned that to cleverly let her know, the only kind of person willing to deal with her, is one who is free to come and go as they please lol
Eh, she was dishonest when she said theres nothing wrong with being a waitress... clearly profession is a personal characteristic to her rather than a task. Sad way to be, tbh. However I totally felt her when she explained why she wouldnt date him again. His way of thinking was difficult for me to process and visualize in a realistic way.
Hillary Thank you for being the only level headed person in the entire comment section. Istg if I see one more "sHeS a sTuCk uP biTch!!!1!" comment I'm gonna lose it.
She is a Daddy's Girl he is a Momma's Boy. I just felt he said the open relationship possibility because he wanted to bow out gracefully. Their energy is off he is laid back she is intense and very assertive, and very ambitious. With the right partners, they would both be satisfied.
🤣🤣🤣Girl u made me rewind... 🤦🏽♀️ wow. She was probably turned off by that too. Like did u just put up sheet rock walls before coming to this interview.
I do not blame her. Open relationship is a deal breaker. It seemed like he had cheated before because he said he had made a mistake and his relationship had ended because of it. He said he may get bored and that she would have to pull him back in. I mean who wants to have to worry about telling someone not to cheat on them all the time. That should be a given to not have to tell someone to not screw around on you.
Right!?! As long as a person is supporting themselves, why does it matter what they do? Unless of course it's illegal lol. Or your jobs have the kind of the schedules that clash, leaving you with little time to see one another.
Yes, that's the only thing that made her not want to go out with him. I don't understand why everyone is judging her in the comment section. She actually liked him.
oh be quiet you, she's true to herself, and that's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And he is what he is, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that as well.
Ebizzill love should be about the connection between two individuals, not if the man makes more money than the woman, and why tf did she immediately say that the man has to cook bacause her dad did that.. so? Cook together, cook for him, cook every other day. This is just a spoiled bratt and she deserves no one.
I cant blame her. It's good to have high standards. Black women have let down their guard's and sandards for too long but only getting the bad end of the stick. I like how she says she isn't cooking,which means she doesn't want to be stereotype as the house wife who cooks and clean all day. The guy seems to not be interested in a family or wife but just a partner and if anything goes then it goes further when he mentions he wants an open relationship. He has irrational and undecisive mind of what he wants,wanting someone else because of boredom means he isn't interested in someone he can build a relationship with. Why did he even go on this. A TYPICAL JAMAICAN MAN, WOMEN SHPOULD STAY CLEAR FROM THEM!
The man alluded to cheating in the past. He pointed out that he did something bad in his past relationship and mentioned open relationships with her like as if he was trying to justify future cheating....
These people are lying. The girl is okay. The only deal breaker was the "open relationship" thing. At least she didn't agree to date him, only to start nagging him down the line. She is a fine woman and he is a fine man.
Yes, they are both very attractive. But she knows enough about herself to know that is not enough to keep a relationship going with him, so she passed on him. And you are right-what would be the point of getting into this situation, only to start nagging him about it down the line? Better not to waste time trying to "fix" someone, only to realize you cannot do that, nor can you get that time back. I am confident they will both find what they seek, just not with each other. :-)
i loved the girl. she knows what she wants and wont lower her standards for anyone periodtttt she doesnt have an attitude. she was polite and straightfoward with him without being condescending i think he chose waitress because she gives off an outgoing, bubbly vibe and maybe it's common for the women around him to be working as one
yeh she is definitely that kind of person. but tbh I don't blame her at all. Her parents have set these high standards for her and what kind of man she should date, like for instance Rich Doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. It happens a lot in african/ caribbean/asian homes.
@@Kender591 Why are you laughing? It's true. I can tell her parents really put certain values in her mind and that's why the man she dates has to meet their standards.
Sha’Tavia Viviana This girl crazy, so she knows how to cook but she wants the man to cook for her all the time?I wonder how she would feel if the roles were reversed 🤔.
Omg that’s what I thought. No man will take her seriously. Just cuz her mom didn’t cook. I take pride in cooking for my husband and kids. She won’t keep no man
I don’t think she has a funky attitude, I think she seems; confident, educated, and well spoken. On that note she was likely offend by being assumed as a waitress not because she looks down on people that are, but she worked hard to be above that. She seems like she comes from a family who has high expectations for her the same way she does for herself. 🤷🏽♀️
Agreed. You'll be committed to me until someone better comes along, 'cause you are bored? sad...... it's hard on a woman and in the end it will be hard on him.
before even watching the video; capturing their initial reactions upon seeing one another was so pure, so beautiful. that was an amazingly executed artistic choice. thank you for that split second!
Won't cook for her man, demands he makes more money than she does and wants to be the dominant one in the relationship. Good luck with that one. I do agree with her on the open relationship part, I could never do that.
Her attitude was snobbish.. but he lost it with the open relationship.. to tell someone that you’re going to be with them until someone better comes along.. that’s a waste of time.. and like she said heartbreaking..
Candice Berry She has standards.
T. N. L. I agree she does have standards.. but she didn’t have to be snobby about it.. we all have standards but that don’t mean turn your nose up at people because they don’t met your requirements
When he said about open relationship I knew that it would not work out.....
same
Stone Cold That's the weirdest thing to hear on a date
I came to the comments section soon after I heard the open relationship thing coz I knew it would not work
odds are she will want an open relationship too but only for herself and will cheat behind his back
Me too
High standards are not an excuse
for poor attitude.
Nathanial Arias HALLELUJAH 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Louder for the people in the back!
Marliz Dume “I know how to cook but I won’t”
“It’s got to be 60/40 with him 60”
That’s just in a 15 sec clip
Good thing, goodlooks are eh? Seriously though, she wasn't rude my guy
Nathanial Arias amen!
Nice for what?? She sensed BS and acted accordingly..men love gullible ass females smh
She's a snob and he's a 32 year old man who beleives in open relationships. Not a good match from the jump.
Bunni missed that part. He’s not loyal
Standards mean snob? More girls should aspire to be snobs then.
@@lenoretalon9958 Well...just because he's into open relationships doesn't necessarily mean he's not loyal. In a healthy open relationship everyone involved is on the same page. The rules are different, but there are rules. I see disloyalty as someone who breaks the rules, whatever they are.
@@MandyBuglet ummmm...that ain't for everyone it's rubbish to me...
@@TikaRoxanne To add to what you said it's rubbish to anyone with common sense.
"Open relationships" is just an excuse for people who can't keep their pants on when their partner is around.
There's a reason those "relationship" crumble extremely fast. They're jokes.
the way she looks at him as if she is so much better than him
And she just aight....no beauty queen
You just don’t call people a waitress on a date. It’s just plain education
Mustafa Shah So it's a matter of race now? wow
And yet he would still date her , smh
Everybody is beautiful
The girl was getting offended so easily
And then she said she wanted to be an activist... im like😂😂
Brian Dauch yes and that's trouble brewing.
Yes it is. Run Forrest, run lol
I agree, Brian.
Brian D rightt
he was still being really nice but damn she's so defensive like calm down
Ikr... that was uncomfortable😂
True
Toaster Strudel exactly she act like she so much better than him
Fr
He’s trying his best and she is just putting him down every time
Like if you feel bad 😢
Abby Guerrin facts !
Ikr
She's stuck up
He shoulda walked out on her ass
Abby Guerrin
I was with you until he said he gets bored easily and always looking for something better while dating someone, or simply still looking while dating. It looks like monogamy will be an issue
I think he brought up “open relationships” to tactfully repel her without having to directly do it himself.
Yalonda Cooper This one gonna end up with No man no kids & Old
Great observation!
I said that the minute she said she will not cook, he was shook😂😂😂😂Caribbean men will always want their women to cook for them that's why they're mommas boys
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@@sorannemajor3752 Caribbean (Jamaican) men often enjoy cooking for the familly. Cleaning no but cooking yes.
He was so nervous it’s cute
He's horny as Fock
truly beatbluetiful true if only he wasn’t feeling the moment he would concentrate more on the questions 😢
He seems a cool guy except the open relationship part that is a NO NO NO
You could tell. His body language, look how he was moving his legs so much. He seems to be over thinking things also.
The sweaty pits were a big tell
Jeremy T. Innocent yep
Type A vs. Type B - they just didn’t mesh well from the beginning with the waitress thing.
She seemed very rigid and stalwart in what she believed, almost like wanting to be too in charge of things. That’s not a bad thing at all. She just needs to find someone who resonates with that. The guy was rather chill and carefree.
She is totally spot on for me about relationships. That’s not something I can get past.
She made the waitress thing way too big of a deal. It was a purely innocent guess
She's entitled and obnoxious.
WORD! The only thing I have against the guy is the open relationship thing.I don't see that working out very well in the long run; had they been younger in their early 20s it's understandable why they'd want that. This alone is enough to not wanna date someone. Far too many red flags with the girl to count. But there's someone out there for her. Just not him. Glad they were honest with each other, its the only thing they shared.
This was a train wreck from the beginning 😂
haha Emerald!
Emerald Haynes exactly 😂😂😂😂
Emerald Haynes
There was chemistry in the beginning and the girl confirmed it, it turned south when she realized he was a construction worker and when he thought she was a waitress. She was attracted in the beginning, even saying she preferred a man with a beard. She needs someone educated with some swag. But yeah you’re right, that was the beginning
Yep!
Who else went to the comments after she got offended from that waitress thing
DroozyYT me
🖐🏽
DroozyYT meee
DroozyYT ME LMAO
Me. Seriously, what's her problem?
After she got offended about the waitress thing. I woulda got up and left.
Lmao
And I woulda been like goodbye, bruh. People are mad that she doesn't want struggle love. That she worked hard to not be a waitress or maid, both honorable but stereotypical "women" professions. Beautiful professional (Black, especially) women are tired of being told they look like "waitresses" or the infamous one, "dancers". You could be in a suit or a $3000 dress, and it doesn't change. What does a doctor or professor look like? These stereotypes get annoying. You have to prove yourself all the time and fight to be taking seriously, and yes, it's bothersome if you're a professor in your lab and people think you're a lost cheerleader in the wrong room. It's bothersome if you're a doctor in full doctor garb, and people think you're the patient transporter or the nurse assistant. Constantly. Daily. I would ask the same thing she asked, "why do I look like a waitress."? Even if you're a janitor, wouldn't you get upset if someone said you looked like one? Give the girl a damn break
Angela Jordan shut up and get in the kitchen.
Angela you took all that time in his comment.
What a gentleman.
this "you can't impress me" attitude that she has is horrible
I personally love that challenge!
Open relationships *SNAP*
Haa no she's just beautiful, has standards and clearly isn't interested in sharing a dude.
...i dont like her. she has an attitude problem--snappy for no reason like wyd
for real
@neon bye michael jackson no one asked for ya input
@neon It's crazy that you're half black yet racist towards black women. Disgusting.
@neon Unnessecary. Just like whoever raised you, and the privilege you receive from the work of every black person who died for you to be here.
@L A T O Y A lmao😭😭 collateral damage okurrt
I thought he was so kind and she was so defensive, but I totally agreed with her on what she said about the open relationships! Totallly agree
Yes men that want you to share them are always kind and then they get bored.
so u dont wanna cook but u want him to make the most money and u get 60 40 of the input of the relationship?😂😂 yea good luck
Quad 4 IKR!! LOL Good luck getting in a relationship
Quad 4 if she finds that I want to date the brother
Quad 4 right
Miss Conceiteality but then you’ll be around her all day... is it really worth it?
@@jamesnuallan3437 no, it's not worth it. She needs to work on her attitude
Open relationships bother me to the HIGHEST degree
because those ain't open relationships, that's called dating sis.
don't let them fool you
elysa leigh he really is attractive and well spoken, but his relationship idea is a definite dealbreaker for any woman.
SAME AF
then I suggest you don't get in one
elysa leigh exactly
Wouldn't cook, wouldn't work hard. Will make most decisions. Will snap at all times.
The only relationship she's ever gonna get into with that attitude is an open one. The only guy who would want to settle with someone like that is one who knows he can escape.
This isnt "knowing what you want". This is "wanting everything because you think you're a gift to the world".
exactly, which is why he cleverly suggested an open relationship lol
You said it already.
Hit that perfectly
javeria iqbal the minute she said she wouldn’t cook for him (and she knows how to cook) told me that she didn’t like him and that she was a snob!
😭🤣🤣😂
What is wrong with him assuming she was a waitress? Poor guy lmao
Maybe she's tired of people stereotyping black/beautiful young women as not having more rigorous professions.
Nothing, she's just butthurt
Notice I said that maybe she's "tired," i.e. that she's faced such stereotypes on an ongoing basis and may have (rightly or wrongly) assumed that's where he was coming from. Plus, nobody would ever *say* I assumed you were X because of your race etc. It would always be dressed up in polite language. Stereotyping is a thing, and anyone who thinks we don't *all* do it is dishonest.
wow that was such an intellectual response.
Thanks for the advice--try it first and tell me how it goes!
Did y'all see her facial expression when he said construction worker? that said it all, like sweetie calm down you're a manager! acting like you're a millionaire or something. 😂 😂
Danny Childs lool fr tho, i can tell she's a control freak
💀💀💀💀💀 like she was gonna vomit..!
Danny Childs lmao
Danny Childs she has a facial condition, she was doing it throughout the video
and her aspiration is to be a dang socialite??!! LOL GIRL BYE
I really don't like her at all. I could tell that her perception of him changed as soon as he said he was a construction worker. And how she got offended because he called her a waitress. How the hell was he supposed to know what job you had? It's called guessing. She gives me this judgemental vibe and it's highly immature. She forgets where she comes from and wants to be someone she's not. She just needs grow up before she goes around looking for a partner or she's going to be disappointed and lonely. Being snobby is not cute.
Ikr
That's true she get offended to easily about a job guess
So truee
Girl when he said construction worker I didn't even think about pay my first thought was, "Oh construction worker, okay strong man.
Word
His Jamaican accent hit me on a diff level 🤤
He should speak like that all the time...
Our accent hottt i love it
That girl was kinda rude she made me uncomfortable 😂
You make me feel uncomfortable. And your kind-of rude.
Dancing Pencil yeah
Its a 666 likes😂
@@Jessica-wo6rg how
Kinda
her attitude gets a no from me.
dugwinches of course you would say no because you don't like strong independent women. you want a women that you can boss around huh?
Yeah, I guess you're also okay with an open relationship too?
Jeremiah who you talking to?
Idk where you get independent when she expects more from him and on top of that is more worried about what her family thinks. Doesn't come off as independent to me
Jason M- Everyone is entitled to they own opinion I guess. She just have big dreams and men seem like they don't like that.
Having standards is fine, but being classist is not. Though she tried to seem not so, she definitely has a condescending (almost snobbish) tone towards low income workers and that shouldn't be excused because of her standards. Highly doubt she started her career as a manager, most people start off with low jobs such as being a waitress/construction worker before becoming a manager, so she needs to calm down.
HoneyHo 1 of the best comments read by me so far. I couldnt have said it any better because i picked up on it too. #facts
HoneyHo omg right
HoneyHo and he was homeless as kid. He came a far way from where he used to be, he seems chill, her on the other hand... I don’t like to call any women gold diggers but... let’s be honest.
@@jamesnuallan3437 Hoow can she be considered a gold digger, do you know what that is. The girl is a manager at 25 on her career path, not a sugar baby?
She needs a piece of humble pie 🥧...smh
Drea Pulliam she need the whole DAMN pie😂.
She needs 6 week humble pie meal plan haha
Very true
More like the whole bakery...
@@jaesmith3340 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When the accent came out! And she deff needs to be more easy going, just cause he thought you were a waitress doesn’t mean anything calm down sis...
Shaya Kells to add on to your comment: construction workers make a lot of money if they’re part of a good union/company! It seemed like she was assuming he didn’t have money because of his profession. Smh. Idk just what I got from it.
Shaya Kells right.Btw your profile pic #goals.
Her attitude is really not good and she comes off as a snob, but I understood it once she talked about her family. You can be strong and know what you want without being rude and demanding more than you're willing to give. 60/40 of you making most of the decisions, demanding him to cook and then expecting that he makes more than you is a reach tbh. And he needs to realise that an open relationship is a BIG NO NO. He's 32 and should know better. This would never work out.
I think she's gorgeous and I liked how focused she seems when it comes to work. I hope she changes some things. And for some reason I see her with a white European man than a black man!
I agree!
Eh people make what works for them work. Why do so many people see monogamy as the only choice? Far from it.
EJ polygamy??
Ajshdh Dhfhdh
There's open relationships, polyamory, polyandry, polygamy, and probably many more that I'm not aware of! I just don't see the problem with people doing what makes them happy, but our society looks down on anything that's not monogamy so often!
I don't think she was rude or demanding she was honest about her feelings ppl need to stop being so freaking sensitive
Bruh she was having a whole attitude for no reason 💀💀 I feel bad for that guy cuz he actually tryna find someone to date and she playing sksskk
He’s a prime example of “Is he really cute? Or does he just have a beard?”
Trance #1fan lmfaoo what ? What r u on have u been under a rock or something 😂
It's his beard
Trance #1fan Is it because black people aren’t your preference or is it because they’re black, it’s not like it’s a bad thing I’m personally not attracted to white people as much as I am to black
ThatGirlBrancy 🤣🤣🤣
He definitely has a beard
I'm already put-off by the fact that she was offended that he thought she was a waitress. If she was a waitress and he thought she was a manager, she wouldn't have been offended. Classist much?
"They wouldn't like your job" lmfao bye
She's just annoying... like you couldn't be a waitress whilst in uni studing to be a doctor or some other form of prestige career.. she seems like the type to only go for a made man and not the type to build with a man till he/they both make it.. cudos to her tho, be vocal about what you want and you might just get it eventho it could turn out to be what you don't need
twistedblktrekie - that's really classist. Not everyone can be doctors and lawyers. When I was waitressing i made better money than I am now, I just can't waitress anymore for health reasons.
twistedblktrekie - that really doesn't have anything to do with your argument.
Your implication was that you need to be uneducated and "on your way" to a more impressive future in order to be a server, which is ridiculous.
I don't think he knows what an open relationship is. If you're in an open relationship, it's about having trust and commitment. It sounds like he cheated in the past, and he says he want to be in an open relationship so he doesn't cheat on his partner.
QueenoftheNorth lol that’s exactly what it was...
QueenoftheNorth I don't think he meant open relationship in marriage .He was saying she could date other people and he could date other people.
Even still, how will you get to marriage if you’re dating a bunch of ppl?....
Exactly
Yeah, and she really clocked him when she stopped him and described boredom in relationships, because that is exactly what happened. He got bored when he should have worked harder. He hasn't matured at all from his mistake.
the girl looks like a nightmare to have a conversation with
S JEE hahahahaahah true
Omg yesss 😂
S JEE like your RUclips profile pic
facts
Yess! I would smack her.
"I'm not cooking for you. I know how to cook; I just don't want to." She could have slapped him as well. What a snob!!!!
Noha Haggag facts like😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine if a guy said that lmao It's okay to take turns but to expect the other to always cook??
@@the_garniiics good point
She's terrible
So snotty lol
I disliked her within the first 20 seconds. Very passive aggressive.
Knew it wasn't just me
passive where ?????lololol
Me2. I was done with her.
Facts
she's cute though
i like how mature they were about open relationships and their viewpoints
They were both very open!
Claire Grimes that guy is an little too open..
Dt Mt dude i have no idea i'm just saying they were respectful of each other which was nice
Nah I say don't date him an open relationship is nasty but I respect other Ppls opinions that's just mines
He sounded kind of stupid when he was explaining it
"If you have a beard, it's a plus"
Me: "He-he has a beard!!!!"
LOL!
Miss. Shrewd LMAO
Miss. Shrewd LMAO SAME !!!!
YEAH HAHA
“60% me and 40% of him “ no should be 50/50
Amber Pearce nah girl it should be 100/100. Everyone should give their all 😂😂
No, 100/100
typical feminist
She's sad trash..leave her be
he’s way too good for her like from the start
shay c Can I introduce my cousin to you? He cheated on his last 4 baby mamas and has herpes but you seem "open minded" lmfao 😂 😂
gladitsnotme oh hell nah
shay c wow your opinion
Mixi Pixie 🤷♀️
gladitsnotme appreciate that, what his #?
People in the comments are giving her such a hard time, but honestly, I don't blame her reaction to the whole open relationship thing. I'd feel the same way.
The open relationship response was the ONLY response she gave that I DID like.
+ Tamarama I agree. I thought she was obnoxious and he was a good guy, until he started in with wanting an open relationship and she gave imo the perfect answer. In the end, I wouldn't introduce either of them to my single friends.They're both very attractive people, but after his "open relationship" speech, I've got problems with him... and I already had problems with her (she comes off as too arrogant).
Wtf? The lady made me mad lmao 😂 “maybe most men have that type of mind” get out are u serious? She stereotyped just as much as he did! Although I disagreed with him, she had issues herself.
Ali Beydoun true i hate both genders who cant stick being loyal😒
Niamh-Creates she was rubbing everyone the wrong way since the beginning of the video
She’s gorgeous but she rubbed me the wrong way.
Leggs me too. I was hopeful. A bit too superficial.
Same I don't know how to explain it
Miss Gunst you're bad.
I see where she is coming from with the open relationship aspect and I understand his point as well but I would side with her on this one. That person should be enough and not out there being insecured and worried if they're the one. Relationships. Smh.
Kind of like I need my man to be exactly like this and if you're not, you're trash
Indigo Quashie I knew it was going to be a conflict when he said he was a Construction worker.
He look like The Skinny version of Lebron James
Not really
Henok Hailu 😂😂😂 Lol I’m Dead
020xAlmighty STOPPPP 😂
Yes and she looks like Pricella Shirer
Not at all. You must be blind
If she's saying it's gonna be 60/40 before the relationship starts that's a red flag man. A month into the relationship it's gonna be 100/0 guaranteed.
Jacob Collazo screaming!!! 😭
asseater007 stop stereotyping black women just because you hate yourself, it’s getting old
+Teona Star thank you👏👏👏
How
He better run as fast as he could 😆😂🤣
She was being a little rude, but as soon as he said he wanted an open relationship I totally sided with her.
Emma Kaiser
same!
exactly
Emma Kaiser yes for sure.
The kindred Soul lol 😂
So true
That open relationship....it’s a no from me!
Mara Mor 2.0 true
100%
People who feel the need to establish "power" in relationships and distribute it by percentages (which can obviously never be assigned or upheld accurately) are the epitome of red flags.
Whether you acknowledge it or not, there's always a power struggle in every relationship. Since I believe that, I wouldn't want to be the one with lesser power either.
Perfectly said !!!
@@lionessprowess3581 what
happened to EQUAL "power" ??? 🤔🤦♀️
I would not date her if i was a guy...shes too stuck up n she seems too selfish
Joselyn79 BR she knows her worth
+D_Moye There's nothing wrong with her knowing her worth but that doesn't excuse what she said. The combination of her wanting a man that cooks for her and makes more money than her, which means working more hours (depending on the job) while she makes the majority of the decisions in the relationship is a huge red flag.
Joselyn79 BR, shes just too strong for you & outspoken on what she wants
Cynt 2SayIt, I could not have said it better. In another life I would just copy and paste whatever you said on every comment calling her rude and stuck up
Tbh your right she looks so stuck up and selfish
I like her. I like him. I don't think they would work out together. Totally different values but equally attractive. That's my 10p contribution.
The way he was able to COMPLETELY switch accents was cool as hell I ain gon lie😂
Isaiah Thomas lol
Never judge a book by its cover. This girl looks so sweet but her attitude is disgusting
most guys don't mind... they allow their hormones to make the decision.
but 💃🏾𝓈𝒽𝑒 𝒾𝓈 𝒽𝑜𝓉… #1 excuse.
Well, you just judged the book. She might be one of the nicest people of 🌎 Earth.
SO TRUEEE
cinnamonstar808
Who hurt you?
@@paigesummers7580 I don't think so. We've all seen it. She's shown us what she is in a few minutes
He’s so nice but she isn’t the right girl for him.
You mean she isn't *one* of the many "right" girls for him.
ringolo people can have different opinions.
She’s too much for him.
Kevin nivek yeah!
ringolo no i mean what i said
To be honest, I think we’d all react the same about the ‘open relationship’ thing…
Not really, many people nowadays would prefer an open relationship
It's one thing being in committed polyamorous relationships but 'open relationships' aren't just excuses to look for someone 'better'/cheat. They take as much commitment & involve boundaries just like monogamous relationships. I'm not polyamorous myself but know people who are.
can i just say that i like this girl not because she's perfect but because i feel like she's honest and upfront. you know what to expect with her.
You can like her but dont date her. Stay away unless you are steps ahead of her.
She's so narrow-minded. Way too defensive. Like relax already
Fr like she has her guard up for no reason always trying to be higher no matter what
No she isn't
Defensive against being cheated on = narrow minded. These basic hussies are really out here exposing themselves in the comment section!! 😂😂 Have fun being cheated on sis, enjoy~
Precious Skies RIGHT !
Precious Skies preaaaach
“I’m not cooking for you”
“I want him to make more money than me”
Drop her
asseater007 men’s cook nowdays lol 😂. At least the guys that are white I talk to. They don’t mind cooking days to let his women to take a break
Same the way she was like "I can cook but I don't want to"
Its her preference
asseater007 he never had her to begin with, dummy
How she expect him to be the breadwinner and make all the meals? All they need to do is split the load into equal parts.
I don’t like her from her first comment of why he thought she was a waitress... def rubbed me the wrong way. Attitude on a 100!
Lucky Shantel True.
Her attitude was stank to me.... and she comes off super bougie looking for someone to cater to her without having to reciprocate.
Lucky Shantel she was kinda acting bitchy tbh..
The girl does sound like she been through hell in life. She has high standards and obviously can only maintain a wealthy relationship.
Remember she said she was adopted at age 15 ,, she was a nobody before
@@annapeter6065 what a weird weird thing to say
I like the fact that she wants something real and wont stand for "open relationships", but there's something about her attitude that's very off-putting. Like she's has a tit-for-tat type of vibe about her. Plus, she seems defensive.
nah, he's not about open relationships ...he mentioned that to cleverly let her know, the only kind of person willing to deal with her, is one who is free to come and go as they please lol
Eh, she was dishonest when she said theres nothing wrong with being a waitress... clearly profession is a personal characteristic to her rather than a task. Sad way to be, tbh. However I totally felt her when she explained why she wouldnt date him again. His way of thinking was difficult for me to process and visualize in a realistic way.
Hillary Thank you for being the only level headed person in the entire comment section. Istg if I see one more "sHeS a sTuCk uP biTch!!!1!" comment I'm gonna lose it.
Pass! She has crazy eyes.
Brandon Adcock 😂
CeeShelli on me 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
Brandon Adcock lol sounds like we should be friends
liyah Thompson I'm always accepting applications
After the cooking comment I ain’t like her like 🤷🏾♀️
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Frfr
She is a Daddy's Girl he is a Momma's Boy. I just felt he said the open relationship possibility because he wanted to bow out gracefully. Their energy is off he is laid back she is intense and very assertive, and very ambitious. With the right partners, they would both be satisfied.
Cherish Adventure you said it all...
Is my dudes armpits sweating😂
JayeR_ Vlogs ooof
JayeR_ Vlogs lmao
LMAAAAOOOO
definitely was lol
My guy was nervous nervous👌😂
He needs to make more money than her. He needs to do all the cooking. She gets to control the relationship. Wow. No thanks.
Bahaha yup! Bye Felicia
Sounds good to me! jk but I would like a guy who could cook, not sure he'd like my cooking.
Bryan D 😂😂😂 no thanks
I can’t help but look at his sweaty underarm 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
he probably just got nervous before hand
I was staring at it most of the time 😫🤦♀️
🤣🤣🤣Girl u made me rewind... 🤦🏽♀️ wow. She was probably turned off by that too. Like did u just put up sheet rock walls before coming to this interview.
He's a construction worker, what do you expect?
I didn't notice until you said that! xD
I do not blame her. Open relationship is a deal breaker. It seemed like he had cheated before because he said he had made a mistake and his relationship had ended because of it. He said he may get bored and that she would have to pull him back in. I mean who wants to have to worry about telling someone not to cheat on them all the time. That should be a given to not have to tell someone to not screw around on you.
Emily Collins exactly why should she have the job of pullin him back in,if he wants to be pulled back in than his not 100% in it.
Emily Collins yea after I listened to that I could understand why she said no but I still dislike her he’s cool
Emily Collins well yeah you’re right because Jamaican men can’t be loyal, it’s in our DNA 🤣🤣🤣🤣
P.s. I’m not proud though 😬
Why down the man’s job🤷🏾♀️ or waitresses
Kierra Bunch I know what a snob, I am a waitress..
Right!?! As long as a person is supporting themselves, why does it matter what they do?
Unless of course it's illegal lol.
Or your jobs have the kind of the schedules that clash, leaving you with little time to see one another.
Construction workers make good money to especially in NYC
@@liamcook9840 Not to mention how sexy of a job that is!!!! Lol.
@Mr Troll Odd perspective. Not sure how one impacts the other.
I am guessing you don't get out much.
Snobbery knows no race.
4:26 did anyone else notice that eye twitch though
authentic Vibes I didn't want to write it or point it out if no one else did. She masks it very well. That may be why the camera was always on him
I had to go back to see, didn't notice at first
im cryaaaaan
Thought i was the only one😭
Crown Royalty same I’ve been watching it the whole video
I feel that open relationships is a new way to cheat and it’ll be fine
Did anyone not notice his armpit is sweatin. ?
I thought I was the only one lol
I was searching for this comment 😂😂
I did too but I lowkey feel bad because I was like ew but then I remembered it was a normal bodily function even with deodorant on. But still hehe
Ashlyn Dawson yeah i know right, but on the first “date” 😂
Tessa Joy yuuup😂
but I agree with the no open relationships. I mean why are you here
Yes, that's the only thing that made her not want to go out with him. I don't understand why everyone is judging her in the comment section. She actually liked him.
Exactly.. should have just said it from the beginning.. waste of time although he seems nice otherwise
YES WHY IS HE HERE
I don’t think she could be more full of herself
oh be quiet you, she's true to herself, and that's absolutely nothing wrong with that. And he is what he is, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that as well.
Alex James couldn't agree more.
Ebizzill love should be about the connection between two individuals, not if the man makes more money than the woman, and why tf did she immediately say that the man has to cook bacause her dad did that.. so? Cook together, cook for him, cook every other day. This is just a spoiled bratt and she deserves no one.
shes a strong independent person, thats fine
Lupita Garcia an independant woman looking for love....hmmm.....😂😂
I cant blame her. It's good to have high standards. Black women have let down their guard's and sandards for too long but only getting the bad end of the stick.
I like how she says she isn't cooking,which means she doesn't want to be stereotype as the house wife who cooks and clean all day.
The guy seems to not be interested in a family or wife but just a partner and if anything goes then it goes further when he mentions he wants an open relationship.
He has irrational and undecisive mind of what he wants,wanting someone else because of boredom means he isn't interested in someone he can build a relationship with. Why did he even go on this.
A TYPICAL JAMAICAN MAN, WOMEN SHPOULD STAY CLEAR FROM THEM!
@@BlueHat1 ...true. So true.
@@BlueHat1 she has standard and its good nothing to do with race!
Every women must have standards period
Typical jamaican man...lolol
its a no for me for both of them. -_-
lovelychi yeaa, I didn’t like her attitude
what didn't you like about him I thought he was sweet, but I didn't like the open relationships part
+Naomi E same
Palmarah yes, that’s the only thing I didn’t like about him. Up until that point I was pleased
lovelychi Word.
I could tell right off the bat that she is controlling, demanding, and she even admitted she was selfish. Her attitude is very stank and entitled.
Her looks don't even match her attitude 😂😂😂 #haveaseat
Exactly
Lol 😝 you got that right not even pretty just average at best
Ur profile pick makes this comment better
Maybe she’s putting a wall up and tht was isn’t a pretty one 🤷♀️
what is that suppose to mean? she beautiful and she doesn't have an attitude she's just speaking her mind
I like her !! Don’t ever settle for less , or lower your expectations
I did not like her at all. She was rude, and she cut him off and just kept assuming so that’s a no from me but I do like him😂❤️
The man alluded to cheating in the past. He pointed out that he did something bad in his past relationship and mentioned open relationships with her like as if he was trying to justify future cheating....
Amara Magloire, you can take him!
Amara Magloire ya she was rude ''your gonna cook!!''
Amara Magloire ikr
She is so selfish and too full of herself
yeah she stuck up for no reason
Once he said Construction Worker and Waitress she LOST IT.
When he said he was a construction worker, you could see the interest slap out of her face
Construction workers make a lot of money tho.. right?
In New York them niggas make like $80 an hour
Yep
yeh constructions workers make bank. her loss
Everyone’s definition of “bank” is different. Especially when you want 4 kids and properties in multiple countries.
These people are lying. The girl is okay. The only deal breaker was the "open relationship" thing. At least she didn't agree to date him, only to start nagging him down the line. She is a fine woman and he is a fine man.
Yes, they are both very attractive. But she knows enough about herself to know that is not enough to keep a relationship going with him, so she passed on him. And you are right-what would be the point of getting into this situation, only to start nagging him about it down the line? Better not to waste time trying to "fix" someone, only to realize you cannot do that, nor can you get that time back. I am confident they will both find what they seek, just not with each other. :-)
i loved the girl. she knows what she wants and wont lower her standards for anyone periodtttt
she doesnt have an attitude. she was polite and straightfoward with him without being condescending
i think he chose waitress because she gives off an outgoing, bubbly vibe and maybe it's common for the women around him to be working as one
Right. He's the one that needs to step his environment & goals up!!! How do you call a total stranger a waitress based on her smile?
PERIODT
@@MyShariAmour No shade but maybe he thinks being a waitress is a great job. (it really isn't!!)
Brian D (below) said it best, "The girl was getting offended so easily," and that's a turn-OFF.
Putting down his profetion is condescending
She’s confident. I appreciated how she knew it wouldn’t work and wished him well. Vs. trying to change someone.
I loved her! Girl you know what you want, and don’t let nobody stop you from feeling how you feel. He was not for you and you made the right decision
Margaret Moffor she’s way too high maintenance. What does she bring to the table other than many wants? “I’m not cooking for you” - deal killer
Am I the only one who just didn't like her???
virtuous CEOlady nah 😂
No. I dont like her at all.
virtuous CEOlady me too she thinks she is all that
I don’t like her at all. She a acts too big. How u tryna get a man when u say u won’t cook for him.
Qveen. Abs I agree she was a little interesting but you don't have to cook for a man to get one. That is some 1950s type mess.
She wants a old fashioned/ traditional culture yet she saying she doesn't want to cook 👀 I'm confused
YourGirlTari i swear 😂😂😂😂
YourGirlTari LMFOAOO
💀💀💀
YourGirlTari "make it more modern" then said "60/40 and I'm 60" wtf?
I know right!🤣
The part where she was so adamant about not cooking for the man is such a deal breaker
Just Being she was already “in a relationship” mode😂He is too cute for her. He is nervous and very sincere
Yeah it's a partnership
Same, i can understand not wanting to cook but to force the man to cook is just disrespectful
I don’t see anything wrong with not wanting to cook just as long as you want to cook together.
She will only cook for herself, no one else.
When he said construction worker her whole face changed real quick😂
Yes I saw that. I would've been turned off by that look
Saw that also,she's not worth the time.
yeh she is definitely that kind of person. but tbh I don't blame her at all. Her parents have set these high standards for her and what kind of man she should date, like for instance Rich Doctor, lawyer, engineer, etc. It happens a lot in african/ caribbean/asian homes.
@@divinetruths345 🤣🤣🤣
@@Kender591 Why are you laughing? It's true. I can tell her parents really put certain values in her mind and that's why the man she dates has to meet their standards.
I kNoW hOw To cOoK i JuSt dOnT WaNT tO
Sha’Tavia Viviana This girl crazy, so she knows how to cook but she wants the man to cook for her all the time?I wonder how she would feel if the roles were reversed 🤔.
Whatizgold mannn whattt that’s what i’m saying
Omg that’s what I thought. No man will take her seriously. Just cuz her mom didn’t cook. I take pride in cooking for my husband and kids. She won’t keep no man
Sha’Tavia Viviana maybe she means not all the time
sex is so good she don't have to cook&clean.
Girl you have to work that 50/50 wtf
MONICANDO 😂😂😂
MONICANDO facts
Nahh 100/100 all the way!😂
Finally, a woman w sense
I don’t think she has a funky attitude, I think she seems; confident, educated, and well spoken. On that note she was likely offend by being assumed as a waitress not because she looks down on people that are, but she worked hard to be above that. She seems like she comes from a family who has high expectations for her the same way she does for herself. 🤷🏽♀️
Brian D (below) said it best, "The girl was getting offended so easily," and that's a turn-OFF.
Exactly. She's just proud of her achievements, there's nothing wrong with it.
I think she had a terrible attitude
@lex Ahm .....well said.
Even by seeming; highly educated, well spoken and confident. Her expression is very arrogant and ignorant.
when she said “selfishly i want him to make more money than me” i had to stop watching. she was driving me insane
Women, don't compromise on men wanting open relationships. Find someone that wants you and will be committed to you and you only.
Yet this women was very snobby from the start.
Some not all
Agreed. You'll be committed to me until someone better comes along, 'cause you are bored? sad...... it's hard on a woman and in the end it will be hard on him.
Is it bad that I feel he deserves waaaayyy better :(💛 EDIT: OMG OMG 100 likes, ty all so much I’ve never had this many😁💜
Yes
Omg No he implied he was a cheater
Will I ever see someone guess the other's name🙏
Little Ziggy there’s been one but I think it’s on another channel
I guessed andrew 😂😂 I'm not even kidding I was so psyched
Little Ziggy probably if it’s a basic b*tch name😂
before even watching the video; capturing their initial reactions upon seeing one another was so pure, so beautiful. that was an amazingly executed artistic choice. thank you for that split second!
Won't cook for her man, demands he makes more money than she does and wants to be the dominant one in the relationship.
Good luck with that one.
I do agree with her on the open relationship part, I could never do that.